Repeat Hoarder Shocks the Clean Team | Hoarders
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- Опубликовано: 2 май 2024
- 1 in 20 people have a problem with hoarding - this extreme compulsion to stockpile items or not throw things away can have a severe impact on your wellbeing.
Our dedicated team are here to dig people out from being trapped in their own homes.
In this episode: Sally has already had her flat emergency cleared by the council after being classed as a bio-hazard, but has slipped back into her old habits. 40 year old Faye has become overwhelmed by her compulsive hoarding and her apartment is so full, she has to sleep on the sofa. And Richard’s kept newspapers for the past four decades and became known as the worlds worst hoarder....
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Please tell me that poor cat has been rehomed. There is no reason it should suffer like that. Let her sit in her own filth, but get that cat away from her!
agreed
@@Marbaby double agreed. Also slap an animal cruelty charge. first time fine, untreated mental health issue, let it slide. but she did it AGAIN. No more free passes for the health and well-being of the cat, sorry.
That was my immediate reaction. No way should she be permitted to care for an animal, as she obviously can’t take care of herself.
The cat in the cage is horrible,abusive☹☹☹
Probably in their because of the film crew
@@theropesofrenovation9352 Maybe
Let’s hope !
#SaveCustard
Sally's cat urinated on her laptop because she NEVER cleans the litterbox. And....A dirty litter box isn't pleasant for the cat either
Sally needs full-time care she clearly can't look after herself
Yep. Time for the straitjackets and padded rooms.
You're being sarcastic, christine?
She really needs to live in a guided situation. And not on her own. She doesn’t work, living in a home would benefit her.
“ I have these biscuits for when visitors come……….”
Nobody is going to be visiting her in that disarray and filth willingly.
Pure laziness.
Please take that poor animal away from Sally. She’s not capable of caring for herself much less another living creature. Horrible!
Sally is extremely immature. Immature people are like children. Total selfishness and no ability to have insight. Sitting around eating a banana while Caz and Tee clean up her hoard in hazmat suits. She hasn’t lifted a finger and has taken responsibility for absolutely nothing. With no actual consequences she will definitely do it again. I think she partly does it for some attention and for company.
I think it’s way more complicated than that. I think it’s a complex disorder. No healthy person would live like this. She does seem very young. Like she never made it past thirteen.
sorry I disagree its not immaturity or childishness it is incredibly incorrect mental processes. No one childish, immature or otherwise would decice this is how they really want to live their lives, what she really needs is not the cleaners in but mental health support to understand why she does it and learn to move past this and into a healthier way to live.
She said she just doesn't want to. There may be some mental stuff going on but the fact that she says "I just don't want to" tells me she is being lazy.
When she said at the beginning that she "just couldn't be bothered" that triggered me but then when she kept smiling and laughing like everything was a joke, I was dONE with her part!
@@CraigsOverijseEven people with mental health issues range from lazy to extremely hard working. She can be both. She’s lazy as hell and she even admitted it.
Sally is seriously LAZY. She said "I can't be bothered to throw rubbish away". She is to lazy to clean up after her self. Her first hoard was horrific. She didn't learn her lesson then and done it again after the consul stopped checking on her. She kept it clean bc she had to, when 18months was up they stopped the checking on her apartment and she went back to being a slob.
She will continue to hoard and rehoard until she's evicted; as far as I know, there is no cure and 90% of hoarders will continue to hoard for the rest of their lives.
2:30 "It's actually gone moldy. I don't understand why that happens to be honest...". And then continues to place it back where she found it, Hidden..
She just chucked it in a corner rather than throwing it in the rubbish. It takes no more effort to dispose of it properly.
Cat in a cage ? I dont see people coming to visit
Let alone having anyone who would enjoy a snack in that mess.
rescue the cat!...
the people who cleaned sally's home are so sweet! shes lucky to have them to help her
Sally you’ve got to be kidding me!
I am a hoarder. However I fight the urge. I so easily could go out and thrift or op shop my home full of un needed treasures. Or see a thing on the aide of the road amd collect it. But I stop myself. I'm getting older. I don't want anything to happen to me and leave the crap for my kids to have to deal with
I give in to the urge, but I make sure I trade or donate it away again, if I feel it doesn't suit me. Trading has really, really helped me. You get the rush of adrenaline when taking it home, the rush of getting rid of it, the rush of getting someone a "present" and them being happy with it and the rush of receiving their item.
Especially when I receive a nice, smaller item and I give them my bag of stuff, it is a good trade.
My mom and I both are hoarders, the only difference is that I have the will power to stop. But the struggle is real. I have to very consciously tell myself I don't need it and I don't want my house to looks like my mother's. I don't have a hoard at my house but there's things that really are out of place... I just can't get to the point where I can put these things in there places so they can get out of the way.
I wish my mom would clear out her hoard before she dies. I said, you are gonna leave things just like dad did for us. You are gonna die, and then we will have to clean this crap up. You'll never have used any of the stuff you had to hoard. And no one else will either cuz it's gonna go in the trash after you are gone. She listens to me but she just can't make herself do it. I've offered help cuz I know how it feels to be so overwhelmed when someone is telling you you have to get rid of something you have some kind of attachment to.
I can understand hoarding, but I do not understand keeping literal rubbish.
Exactly
Hoarding goes in my family. I collect which can be struggle to make sure I keep it as neat as possible. Majority of my house I keep tidy cause I enjoy having friends over and people should be comfortable about being there. But my work room and collection room are the areas are my "junk" rooms but I want to get those in good order. But I use these shows to help me get rid of stuff. I will never give up
The young blonde woman really breaks my heart. She seems to genuinely want and need mental health care. The first woman with he caged cat makes me angry. That is full on animal abuse and cruelty!! Also it seems to me she's not taking responsibility for herself and isn't even remotely interested in controlling her disorder. She's only making excuses for it. One more point I'd like to mention it appears the Counsel does not inspect properties on a scheduled basis. Here in the U.S. Housing Authority agencies which provide housing payment assistance for eligible participants conduct annual inspections of all properties as well as financial recertification to determine the people receive rent assistance are maintaining the property and continue to meet the financial need to continue receiving the benefit. The U.K. should implement this system and make it a requirement that hoarders accept and follow through with their mental health treatment/counseling in order to continue receiving rental assistance. This system would help so many U.K. citizens as well as U.K. tax payers.
Blonde woman at 21 mins is so self aware :( bless her i hope she gets the help they need
Sally has serious problems. She needs to complete a list everyday. Starting with taking a bag of trash out twice a day. Can't do that, then you don't need your own place.
Faye has actual OCD.... That's some crazy hard shit.
Geez Faye, you need to be kinder to yourself!
You're doing an incredible job, and doing it yourself.
You absolutely will get there, because you are putting in the hard work yourself and you won't want to go through this again.
You are also dealing with OCD habits, and even if you did have to recheck before putting in the bin, you still did it!
She really stuck out to Me also, a really beautiful woman. Richard is very intelligent too. Such a shame. I like a clean home, I always hook in and get it done, chronic pain means a lot of pain afterwards.... marfan syndrome.
I agree! I hope you stay in good spirit Faye
Omgosh Custard 😢 And seeing the BEFORE pics of her first hoard knowing THOSE cats suffered. She should have a no pet clause.
Absolutely. If you can't take care of yourself, you shouldn't have a pet.
Sally probably has to be taught the same way that you'd teach a child about being tidy. If she were prompted to be more active in the cleaning process; she'd hate the process enough to rewire her thinking. If people just keep cleaning for her or doing the bulk of the work, she's just going to keep making a mess.
“My hips…” sis, I know literal amputees with no legs, one arm, no arms, wheelchair bound and they can manage to keep an immaculate house. No excuses.. she seems to find every excuse BUT the excuse to ACTUALLY clean. 🙄
Well I guess you can't really make a mess if you have no arms and no legs...
I absolutely love Fay, she is really doing her best! The man just makes me feel sad, I hope he will be able to at least throw out the garbage he is hoarding, like the empty packages. So he has space and he can wash that glass.. The lady Sally, is she really a hoarder? She just sat there, eating her banana, while other people cleaned up her mess. To me it felt like she was full of excuses, and was happy to let other people do the work. And she should not have animals, that poor cat broke my heart. If you can't take care of yourself at all, like that, you should not have an animal depending on you. I hope it was taken from her, and found a nice home. I feel that she will sit in her trash soon again, if other people don't come to do it for her. Mental illness or too lazy, I don't know, but that cat should not suffer over her "I can't be bothered".
this is attention-seeking, covert narcissism and victim-playing. She knows full well what she's doing.
She just seems lazy to me. The fact that she bought paper plates, probably so she didn’t have to do dishes and can’t take the time to throw them in the trash. Disgusting behavior
The way she speaks about it she’s proud sleeping with rubbish
I feel so bad for her, she is clearly suffering from depression, is overwhelmed and doesn't know where to begin. Human compassion/supportive friends, neighbors, family checking in regularly and helping to clean could make a huge difference.
Hello stranger, I rarely comment on videos and even more rarely under comments on videos 😅 I’m a bit of a shy one… but oh my GOODNESS this comment was such a breath of fresh air. It’s so nice to see people like you who understand there is waaaay more to it than just “being lazy” and “not throwing away trash”. I have ADHD and just the mere basics can be pretty tough. There are probably a host of psychological factors contributing to her situation and I feel for her, despite her lackadaisical attitude (which seems to me like she’s trying to appear detached because it’s too painful to admit). There’s probably a lot of trauma under this, I can’t imagine the impact of the bullying and loss of job she experienced. Seriously seriously seriously feel for her ❤
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She is just lazy....too lazy to take out the rubbish or clean.
that woman doesn't deserve that cat. I hope someone saves it. so infuriating and sad. so incredibly selfish.
Just plain LAZY!! No EXCUSES FOR THIS!!
People like this should NOT be allowed to own animals or have kids in this mess.. its cruelty. Its abuse. I know its a disease, but that doesnt excuse it and gives you NO right to abuse other beings.
I agree, children or animals shouldn't suffer because of someone's mental illness.
Yes hoarding is a mental disorder however being dirty and living in dirt; is laziness
I completely agree! In this case it is just Laziness.
The inability to engage in age appropriate self care and hygiene is actually a huge sign of mental health issues.
Communities who maintain relationships with troubled neighbours are truly commendable human beings...🇿🇦
I believe what you see in a hoarders home is what's going on inside of them. Without intensive therapy I don't see anybody changing their routine.
However I'm not a doctor and I don't know s***. But I do hope they get better.
I will never understand how so many people that hoard have money to buy so much stuff
Right
That's what always blows me away. I can't fathom, especially the ones that buy stuff and just toss the bags of brand new stuff in piles.
Well think about going a few years and never throw anything any way. We buy more then we realize.
It's not high quality, therefore qualifies as stuff rather than too much art or too many books.
@anitahaviland3036 quality is completely irrelevant. You can go broke buying too much of anything. Not sure what your point is.
She’s living in squalor. What ever the disorder is it’s awful and sad. But, please re home the cat.
The sad part is without therapy or some kind of other intervention she's going to make a mess again. Near Chicago. Tina, Al's wife
"Can't be bothered to" = lazy
Depression makes people feel "lazy", judging someone in this situation doesn't make sense.
@@nikolas4347or sometimes people are just lazy and have depression as an excuse for living in filth
@@baishalideb5565 do you really think averagely people like to live like this? Obviously not, being lazy or calling someone lazy is just excuse to not see that she has deeper problems. Being lazy is symptom of something else.
@@baishalideb5565 Your judgment of her is intellectual laziness.
I know someone that, at 18, lost his leg in a motorcycle accident. Before that he was a runner, motocross rider, and generally just a risk taker kid. He has not left his "handicap" stop him. I also know a 5 year old with cerebral palsy. He wears braces on his legs and his one hand is pretty limp. He is a little fighter!! He runs and plays all over the playground and refuses to sit in his wheelchair unless he is completely exhausted from walking. Some people fight back against their limitations and others just refuse to take out the trash and blame it on using braces when they were 5.
I don't think a rubbish hoarder is exactly a hoarder... Seems more like the laziest of persons. I feel so sorry for Richard; he seems a sweet guy. Fay is great: she fights her fears and sets goal, and it must not be easy at all.
I have hoarding tendencies. But this video encourages me to keep tidying up & removing things from my house
But my home is far from being as cluttered as these places!
I find it hard to understand and expect that Sally is a hoarder !
My understanding is hoarders collect items that have a meaning to them. Such as items they think they are saving and have the intentions to sell, fix and reuse. Collecting items because the are addicted to shopping. And have a strong attachment to each item and a story or an excuse why they have the item.
But Sally I feel is a different condition.
I feel it’s more to do with a cleanness.
I think she’s suffering with a disorder were she has a extreme laziness problem. She’s not attached to the rubbish she just can’t get motivated to clean.
If she can sleep on a bed with cat fasces that would stink!! How could you sleep with that smell??
She’s not keeping the poo because she doesn’t like throwing things out ! It’s because she can’t be bothered!
And the cat deserves to be living in better conditions!
It's squalor. It could be a subset of hoarding but it seems to be slightly different.
She doesn't understand how the moldy bread got there, hidden behind the bed and she THROWS IT BACK THERE AGAIN!! Jeez. One word - lazy.
It’s a great gift to help someone get a second chance, especially if it’s for free. This is a slap in the face to people have helped her. Leave her to her filth but save the poor cat. 🐈
the cat deserves a better home(:
Yes, having a cat in a cage is abuse. I hope someone calls the SPCA.
Why do people wait for every body else to call SPCA.why do the person call that comment.
Hmmm she seems very proud of herself for hoarding....not afraid to talk about herself!!!! poor darling cat...does she even care about it.?
I realized that I could easily hoard, my hoard is a million little stuff. I spent a couple of weeks cleaning it out and it was complete agony, but I went through it all threw it away, and neatly packed away the extra items in the shed. I have a cleaner that comes in once a week, and I would rather spend money on that than have my whole life turned upside down. I now have a 'map' of how my home must look like and anything outside of those boundaries is not allowed. I do not buy stuff online, to not deal with boxes. I do allow myself one cabinet in the house where all the stuff can go, and even this cupboard I go through every year so that it doesn't get out of control. My home is clean and minimalistic and nothing gets out of hand, some weeks it does and I force myself to do a reorder and clean before the cleaner comes, but it keeps it manageable and it keeps me accountable and empowered that I can do this on my own. It is really hard to kick the habit and you have to be honest with yourself and do self-reflection of why you keep everything and if it is trauma, then you need to work through it. If it is precious items, get a shed or storage, if it's mental health, get the help and get it under control, for me getting a cleaner, who understands my condition has been so important, and maintaining sanity.
Why has the animal control not been called by the people that helped clean? That’s animal abuse.
Fay is a sweetheart, I wish her well! Sally didn’t lift a finger, why? And the man….worse thing to me was the glass he was drinking out of, yuck!!!
Cold showers. Yikes!
Sally you aren't a Hoarder you are just a very Lazy person.....Clean up your mess and quit depending on others to do it for you
That’s not hoarding. Hoarding is when you can’t get rid of stuff you like. She’s just plain lazy. In her own words “ I can’t be bothered to throw it “.
Richard's house is a fire hazard! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
This is when you’re supposed to call adult services
I don't care what anyone one says that is just lazy to sit there and let your home get that way
Absolutely vile 🤮
The two ladies in the first story are truly wonderful for helping her.. I’d be frustrated too
I wonder if some ladies from the church could come to visit Sally now that her place is cleaned up on a weekly basis to make some social life for her. If they were the same ladies, she could have some light friendships…
Eventually getting her to go out for lunch or to visit the park with these ladies….
Loneliness creates a awfull society... I fighting my shopping addiction and I m happy this year to succeed, but it s not easy... In the same way I m re organizing my home, a long process...but not alone, but I prefer to pay someone to help me, I m on a no buy so... I m focusing better 😊❤ but I never understood why people are keeping their thrash ??
It is a symptom of a very difficult and overwhelming mental illness.
I feel bad for neighbors. No way in hell she doesn’t have bugs.
This is what happens when people don’t get psychological help. They just clear the symptom (hoarding), not the cause.
Sally is lazy. There's no need to keep garbage around you.
She could literally take half a day, take 20 garbage bags and toss alot. Most of that is just garbage. Sad.
This level of filth is REDICULOUS
So everyone missed the part where she said she likes to offer guests cakes or a cup of coffee AND THE COFFEE GROUNDS ARE ON THE BATHROOM FLOOR🤯
Holding on to trash is the hardest thing for me to understand.
I adore Cass and T (Sally's extreme cleaners). I love how they tackle the task and their banter.
Poor custard.
Can i have the poor cat😢
EVERYBODY has to clean on a daily basis. If you let it be for a week the misery starts.
So true. And sometimes I do have to force myself. I keep the basics, dishes, trash, laundry, the things I figure can cause bugs and orders, but beyond that I’m not the best at it. But this is just beyond lazy. This is seriously mentally ill.
Richard & Faye seem really nice. 🙂
Sort of person that the council should put in a rented room - not a house !
I’m sorry, but when a team has been there before to clean, it will be a waste of time to reclean.
If you "can't be bothered" to throw stuff away, you absolutely should not have a pet. Taking in another being and punishing them with the result of your laziness is so incredibly cruel. Make yourself miserable all you want, but leave innocent parties out of it..
💯 poor little Custard 😿.
"I can't be bothered to" = I'M LAZY.
If you're a repeated offender like Sally, then you shouldn't be allowed to rent an apartment. The poor landlord shouldn't have to deal with her filth. The property damages cost thousands of dollars to repair
Lady with cat,….sitting pretty…get up and deal with it and the issues that make you do this….you expect….oh…they will come back and clear it up…brutal.
I’m not the most rambunctious but there are things you have to do every day. Dishes, trash, laundry. Beyond that I’m not always the best. But this is nuts. Literally
Living in that shit would make one depressed surely so they are just adding to their problems.
If you cannot clean up after yourself throw EVERYTHING away. You need a couple shirts and some pants. Two pairs of shoes. The money you save can pay for a cleaner to come and tidy up since you can’t be bothered. That’s how you keep it clean.
7:14 why does this man seem so kind
Such people don't deserve help, only the cat does!
RESCUE THE CAT!!!!!!!!!!!!
There's no way he has those papers organized in any way
I think that if hoarder is illness, the house will always be in a big mess !!!! Sorry I am french and I try to write in english
she does not understand why the bread gets moldy really? Nawaoooo!!!!!
Lol. And then she just tosses it back where it was originally. It’s moldy, throw it out! It is those kind of behaviors that make me think she is just lazy. She’s aware of what she SHOULD be doing but just doesn’t do it. 🙄
@BehaviorAnalysisandCoffee I know its like she's doing it deliberately or she just doesn't give a fuck or wants to pretend she has a problem and then other people should come and do her dirty work.
Im sorry but its not hoarding its pure laziness.She even said she cant be bothered to her words.Shes incapable of being on her own ,shes needs at home care.The man, hes a hoarder.
that would be a slob
Laziness. Why is the kitty in the cage? That's not right.
It's just one excuse after the other with Sally; in my opinion, she's lazy and will continue to hoard until she's evicted; she won't like living on the street.
complusive hoarding is actually a very serious, and overwhelming, mental illness - hoarders will talk casually about it but that gives an entirely incorrect impression.
Homelessness shouldn’t be a punishment for disability nor anything else. This is a societal failure
@@clare5688u not cleaning your own filth is not a societal problem
The second lady could sell them things online and do very well.. maybe even give her the same feelings in a profitable way
im surprised someone hasnt created a dummy shopping website for hoarders yet.
like, it looks like amazon and you can add whatever you want to the cart and when they click "purchase" it sends them a receipt with everything they put in the cart but doesnt have any payment method.
so the hoarder gets the satisfaction of shopping, gets the confirmation email, but is never charged and nothing arrives.
not suggesting this as a replacement to therapy, suggesting this to work alongside therapy to keep the hoarding from getting worse.
9:14 I’m hoping this lovely gentleman is connected with a library that will take his paper treasures and catalogue them.
She is not a hoarder... she is a lazy person.
Sally says it's not that she cant throw things away but that she cant be bothered. How is that hoarding disorder? She refuses to accept any responsibility, has lots of excuses ... She might have hoarding disorder, but I have a hard time believing it. I believe all the other hoarders in all the shows I've ever seen, just find it hard to sympathize with Sally.
Agree. Her response to Lucy when it was suggested she stay home and clean instead of visiting her dad seemed incredibly manipulative. I question the hoarding diagnosis and wonder if she is just a lazy person. Most hoarders are private but Sally has biscuits and cakes for visitors. That just doesn’t check out. Rescue Custard 🐈 and leave Sally to wallow in her self-pity and laziness.
If Sally was in America, they would be inspecting atleast yearly. They wouldnt allow it to get that bad.
She’s just lazy and doesn’t want to take the garbage out
This is a good one
Maybe it's the accent but even british hoarders are sophisticated 😮
This is pure LAZINESS not hoarding!
The comment "yes I know, yes I know" oh Sally poor you it is actually clear you really do not "know" or you would not be compelled live like this, you say you know but it the truth is you say that to get people to move past the way your living. I am sure a part of a larger self worth problem or indicarion of mental illness. Wishing you well and hoping you find the support for your mind you seem to need.