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  • Опубликовано: 16 окт 2023
  • My HoneyDew this week is comedian Tom Segura! (Sledge Hammer, Your Mom’s House, 2 Bears 1 Cave) Tom Highlight the Lowlights of his fathers death.
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  • @rsickler
    @rsickler  7 месяцев назад +89

    CATCH ME ON TOUR www.ryansickler.com/tour
    October 20th - 22nd: La Jolla, CA
    October 27th & 28th: Salt Lake City, UT
    November 10th & 11th: Batavia, IL
    December 8th & 9th: San Francisco, CA

    • @zachdonley7930
      @zachdonley7930 7 месяцев назад +1

      Your never in Ohio

    • @Mac-qi1po
      @Mac-qi1po 7 месяцев назад +1

      What about Houston?

    • @BigMoose2b1ask1
      @BigMoose2b1ask1 7 месяцев назад +1

      Yes Ryan we only have 7 service members shooting in the detail for the 21 gun salute. They fire three blank rounds

    • @Beto_820
      @Beto_820 7 месяцев назад +1

      Definitely going to try to see you in San Fran.

    • @kirsten2478
      @kirsten2478 7 месяцев назад

      Sickle Cell... come visit us down under ❤

  • @AirWindFire
    @AirWindFire 7 месяцев назад +1741

    This podcast is criminally underrated.

    • @ToshTitties
      @ToshTitties 7 месяцев назад +26

      1000%

    • @efowler713
      @efowler713 7 месяцев назад +29

      Absolutely. Ryan is one of the best comedians in podcasting. Flows with literally anyone.

    • @rsickler
      @rsickler  7 месяцев назад +286

      spread the word!

    • @HighFeeline
      @HighFeeline 7 месяцев назад +7

      People be averse to medicine!

    • @trevornicholson7824
      @trevornicholson7824 7 месяцев назад +5

      One of the best ever.

  • @lifeblood06
    @lifeblood06 7 месяцев назад +1078

    Rest in peace top dog. I always loved when Tom would call him and he would answer "HEY BUDDY!!!" with such happiness in his voice

    • @gingerleamcwow435
      @gingerleamcwow435 7 месяцев назад +28

      Yes! That was always my favorite thing to hear from him. You could just tell he genuinely looked forward to every conversation with his son ❤

    • @lisaoneill7261
      @lisaoneill7261 7 месяцев назад +10

      It was so good , his dad was amazing

    • @alexandercolic405
      @alexandercolic405 7 месяцев назад +15

      Top Dog was just the best.

    • @fayoc9796
      @fayoc9796 7 месяцев назад +14

      I'm new to YMH, as of 2022, love it so much I went back to listen to the entire catalog on Spotify. The first time I heard Top Dog's "Hey Buddy!", knowing he had just passed, took me out. Teared up instantly.

    • @cracknigga
      @cracknigga 7 месяцев назад +4

      he loved watching black people have fun

  • @OdinArrow28
    @OdinArrow28 7 месяцев назад +279

    The “pussy’s pussy” line Ryan does when Tom is talking about his dad in the hospital had me rolling😂 perfectly executed call back to bring levity to the situation. Peak comedy.

    • @ttvdipps420
      @ttvdipps420 7 месяцев назад +4

      has me in tears 🤣🤣

    • @kruger14
      @kruger14 7 месяцев назад +7

      This could literally be a closer in Tom's act lol

    • @christafurden
      @christafurden 7 месяцев назад +1

      Agreed 😂❤️

    • @chilloutdude3617
      @chilloutdude3617 7 месяцев назад +7

      The dude's a great comic and a seemingly better friend. The moment got tense and he did what comics do best. Brought levity to an otherwise bummer moment. Hardest working man in show business and a stout 6'3''

  • @darthdionysus420
    @darthdionysus420 6 месяцев назад +67

    The two bears we deserve

  • @CamBoone
    @CamBoone 7 месяцев назад +636

    It’s really nice to see Tom without Bert, being more genuine…Sickler’s the man loved this episode

    • @Joe-es9qx
      @Joe-es9qx 7 месяцев назад +39

      Tom is my favourite comedian/podcaster, I literally can’t stand Bert, so it’s nice to find other pods where it’s just him talking about life

    • @Matt_Huffman
      @Matt_Huffman 7 месяцев назад +35

      It’s crazy to hear Tom tell a story without getting interrupted by a high-pitched squealing runaway sentence followed by a complete subject change.

    • @robinsharkey6658
      @robinsharkey6658 7 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@Joe-es9qxI can't wait until Burnt passes on. The world will be just a tiny bit better!

    • @sealife12
      @sealife12 7 месяцев назад

      @@Matt_Huffmandon’t worry he’ll be dead within 5 years

    • @albvs_sovnds
      @albvs_sovnds 7 месяцев назад +4

      I love Bert and appreciate their friendship but he takes away from Tom's podcasting talents. This is great, love how they balance comedy with the heavy stuff, great combo.

  • @popeye697
    @popeye697 7 месяцев назад +472

    I'm in the gym looking like a psychopath trying to lift while crying. Everything Tom is saying just makes me think about my dad

    • @henryfranco9753
      @henryfranco9753 7 месяцев назад +16

      Same here brother, bawled my eyes out thinking I was gonna laugh. Great pod

    • @queenieqt2033
      @queenieqt2033 7 месяцев назад +10

      You're strong man. Emotionally. Strong people cry alot

    • @immasurvivor
      @immasurvivor 7 месяцев назад +18

      A yoked dude screaming and crying while repping heavy weight is a TERRIFYING mental image xD

    • @manelus
      @manelus 7 месяцев назад +1

      +1

    • @MARLEN446
      @MARLEN446 7 месяцев назад +1

      Same 😅

  • @TendoTheDude
    @TendoTheDude 7 месяцев назад +159

    I love how everything about Tom's dream day with his dad is revolved around making Top Dog happy. RIP big guy.

    • @jeanaprewitt9658
      @jeanaprewitt9658 5 месяцев назад +2

      I'm glad I watched this. I think it helped a lot of people.

  • @nathanaelsmith1368
    @nathanaelsmith1368 7 месяцев назад +116

    The callback at 26:42 is wild!
    That’s what true friendship looks like 🤣🤣
    R.I.P. Top Dog

    • @CabbageSniffer
      @CabbageSniffer 7 месяцев назад +6

      I started scrolling comments and saw this right at the time I heard it and busted out laughing 🤣

    • @rams812
      @rams812 7 месяцев назад +1

      Top tier lol

    • @lukeroberge4850
      @lukeroberge4850 6 месяцев назад +3

      The im sorry afterwards …

    • @whitechoc123
      @whitechoc123 5 месяцев назад +2

      Dude had me rolling 😅😂

  • @kajabrill2404
    @kajabrill2404 7 месяцев назад +183

    Toms relationship with his Dad was so sweet and touching...He was so proud of his son...R.I.P. Top Dog❤

  • @AirWindFire
    @AirWindFire 7 месяцев назад +94

    My Mum died 70 days after being diagnosed with cancer, one week after her 61st birthday. I’d quit my job to take care of her the day before she died, we didn’t expect it to be so sudden. I have not coped well and cried and laughed through this episode on Spotify yesterday…why am I putting myself through this again? Because the highlights are so precious it makes the lowlights worth it, just like life.

    • @theotherkangaroo
      @theotherkangaroo 7 месяцев назад +1

      🫂

    • @AirWindFire
      @AirWindFire 7 месяцев назад

      @@theotherkangarooThanks dude, I appreciate it ❤

    • @PEGGLES93
      @PEGGLES93 7 месяцев назад +2

      Completely with you brother. my mum had been unwell for a couple of weeks, assumed an infection but then suddenly taken in and was diagnosed with Stage 4 cervical cancer and died with 24hr of diagnosis and she was only 54. this was 18 months ago now, ive learned it doesnt get any easier, you just get slightly better at coping with it day by day. You couldnt be more wrong about the precious highlights ❤

    • @gingerleamcwow435
      @gingerleamcwow435 7 месяцев назад +2

      My grandparents raised me and I cared for them during their last few years of life. I totally understand what you're going through. It's been several years and I'm still not past the grief & I feel so lost without them. I hope you get some much needed peace and comfort ❤

    • @AirWindFire
      @AirWindFire 7 месяцев назад

      @@PEGGLES93I don’t even think 24 hrs counts as pre warning! That’s brutal. I feel for both you and your Mum 🫂

  • @wesmantoothAZ
    @wesmantoothAZ 7 месяцев назад +45

    I lost my dad to suicide in 2019 and hearing more about yours and Tom’s story of losing your father’s made a positive impact on my heart. Love both of you as comedians and have seen your shows live several times. Appreciate you both!

    • @Niffumable
      @Niffumable 6 месяцев назад +1

      Very nice.
      I'm sorry for your loss, big dawg.
      & hope the lessons and actions of your Father provide endless wisdom. That you are able to also pass on. 🙏

    • @vicaras1
      @vicaras1 6 месяцев назад

      Sorry you have to endure that pain man. I'll say a prayer of strength 💪🙏 for you Wes. Life sucks sooooo bad sometimes but then I'll see something happen or go somewhere and there's so much life around us.

    • @Holycrap204
      @Holycrap204 6 месяцев назад

      Im so sorry. I hope he found peace in whatever is after this life. God bless.

  • @TheCaptainPicard
    @TheCaptainPicard 7 месяцев назад +112

    I really appreciate Tom being so open and sharing his story of his dad and him going through everything with him being so sick and his death. I really feel his raw emotion and the love he had for him. And, to continue to perform comedy through all of that seems unimaginable and yet also what has to have been an amazing way to cope with what was going on. Much love to you Tom and also you Ryan for such an amazing podcast. ❤

  • @ummyahhh
    @ummyahhh 7 месяцев назад +83

    It's heartbreaking and also heartwarming to see Tom show his sadness for TopDog's passing. I didn't think I would see it. He really loved his dad.

  • @mypawsoflove
    @mypawsoflove 7 месяцев назад +149

    Segura and Sickler have a tremendous chemistry. Love to see them together talking and hanging out ❤.

    • @michael5654
      @michael5654 7 месяцев назад +13

      I've been saying forever that Sickler should be the co-host on 2 bears lol

    • @quintinkennedy1774
      @quintinkennedy1774 7 месяцев назад

      I read tremendous in a Joey Diaz voice😭

  • @peterich22
    @peterich22 7 месяцев назад +39

    My father passed away 10 years ago tomorrow. He was 53 when he passed. Hearing Tom (whom I respect very much) speak about his father passing was very therapeutic. Rest in peace, kings!

  • @aliciainbloom
    @aliciainbloom 7 месяцев назад +21

    Just cried my ass off. Top Dog is the reason I started YMH 9 years ago. He used to be on the show a lot back then. Thanks Tom for giving us fans closure and telling us the story and Sickle Cell for being such a safe person for people to tell these sensitive stories to.

  • @hendersonhikes
    @hendersonhikes 7 месяцев назад +115

    I lost my dad back in 2014. he passed about 3 months after my wife and I got married. I appreciate you guys for sharing your stories about your dads.

    • @paulc8588
      @paulc8588 7 месяцев назад +2

      sorry man, at least he got to see you guys get married, that's priceless

    • @hendersonhikes
      @hendersonhikes 7 месяцев назад

      @@paulc8588 much appreciated! Many of us feel he was holding on for that event.

    • @andrewashford5617
      @andrewashford5617 7 месяцев назад +1

      Yup! My dad died when I was 12! Missed everything!!!!

    • @hendersonhikes
      @hendersonhikes 7 месяцев назад

      @@andrewashford5617 Sorry for your loss.

    • @monica-oy7zv
      @monica-oy7zv 7 месяцев назад

      ❤❤❤

  • @cloudbloom
    @cloudbloom 7 месяцев назад +159

    I love how Ryan knows Charo pretty well, really helps put into context all the shit that Tom's dad had to deal with🤣

    • @acw96
      @acw96 7 месяцев назад +13

      I believe it was last time Tom was on HoneyDew, or maybe the last time Sickler was on YMH but they talked about how Ryan is Tom's mom's favorite comedian 😅

    • @portal432
      @portal432 7 месяцев назад +11

      I want to talk about Hawaii

    • @thomholio
      @thomholio 7 месяцев назад

      Charo is Queen

  • @andrewharris6250
    @andrewharris6250 6 месяцев назад +11

    Just lost my dad at 23 thank you guys for talking about this, we all wanna take that ride to the corner store 1 more time

  • @sporkspeak
    @sporkspeak 7 месяцев назад +12

    my pops died suddenly this year, and listening to Tim do impressions of big dog has brought me the most comfort and joy outta everything.

  • @seanedferguson
    @seanedferguson 7 месяцев назад +70

    I've never seen Tom so vulnerable
    This was a nice one.. funny and emotional

  • @stevenferguson9789
    @stevenferguson9789 7 месяцев назад +40

    My dad was diagnosed with the exact same cancer. And died shortly after Tom’s
    My father and I would have the same phone calls during football games too. Mr Segura sounded like a great man and father. Thank you for sharing those stories Tom.

    • @paulcrowe3383
      @paulcrowe3383 7 месяцев назад +1

      My mother died of lung cancer in july 2022. I haven’t heard anyone speak about what happens to people when they are dying in terms of the body getting ready to died. My mother wasn’t aware enough to acknowledge I was in the room. But every few minutes begged to leave to the hospital her last few days. It’s slightly relieving hearing that it happens to other people.

  • @CoolHandRobb
    @CoolHandRobb 7 месяцев назад +12

    I lost my dad 10 years ago and became a father a year ago, this episode hit me. Thanks for sharing boys, hug your dad if you can.

  • @charlesmacdonald8127
    @charlesmacdonald8127 7 месяцев назад +7

    As someone who lost their Mom to Pancreatic Cancer in 2021, this was so cathartic to listen to because my mother had the same decline, and it was good to hear from someone else, and someone of note in the world, who went through the same thing. This was a very helpful podcast. Thank you, Sickler and Segura.

    • @SeeStuDo
      @SeeStuDo 7 месяцев назад +1

      ❤️ to you. Lost my Mom to breast cancer in 2015.

  • @jacksonryan3685
    @jacksonryan3685 7 месяцев назад +68

    Ryan is the type of guy to be a male nurse and when you dislocate your knee he calms you down by repeating “this must have been a bad pogo stick accident”

  • @bluesing3082
    @bluesing3082 7 месяцев назад +40

    What a beautiful episode this was, RIP Top Dog ✨

  • @DaniL-jm3mw
    @DaniL-jm3mw 7 месяцев назад +5

    Cancer sucks. Listening to him retell his fathers battle is like reliving my moms battle. His strength actually helped a lot to see while I’m trying to be strong through my grief. Thanks Tommy for speaking on this.

  • @luketharpgraphics
    @luketharpgraphics 7 месяцев назад +5

    This was an unreal podcast. Lost my grandad last year and this was so great to listen to two men actively processing grief. So good.

  • @layzboy2545
    @layzboy2545 7 месяцев назад +101

    Need another installment of the Joey “Coco” Diaz Saga ASAP!🤣🤣🔥

    • @RobLordJohnny
      @RobLordJohnny 7 месяцев назад +10

      "So, Boulder 1982, i was smoking dope with 3 hands"

    • @Chillllllbruh
      @Chillllllbruh 7 месяцев назад +2

      He's gonna be dead before it finishes, and we all know it. 😢

    • @brooksdurham8244
      @brooksdurham8244 7 месяцев назад +1

      What part of the installment would it be 4-5 and what year did they leave off? 😂

    • @l3joint
      @l3joint 7 месяцев назад +3

      ​@@brooksdurham8244 they left off at current day joey last I heard. I watched that entire saga

    • @trevor-vh3cr
      @trevor-vh3cr 7 месяцев назад +1

      For real especially since he stopped doing his own podcast

  • @gfmfresco
    @gfmfresco 7 месяцев назад +75

    I turn into a telescope when I see Tim with Sicklecell!!

  • @AJitati0n
    @AJitati0n 7 месяцев назад +14

    This kinda stuff is so hard to talk about for a lot of people. You can see how close Tom and Ryan are in how detailed and calm they can talk about this after making jokes about a heartbreaking thing. Bless you, guys. I love the love you guys clearly have for each other. ❤

    • @denisbejtja9937
      @denisbejtja9937 7 месяцев назад +1

      They talk about it therapy first. You can’t talk this calmly without having it elaborated first somewhere else with a professional

  • @spudddiscgolf1171
    @spudddiscgolf1171 7 месяцев назад +5

    I make it a point to greet my new son with a “hey buddy” each time I see him after work or when I’m seeing him for the first time that day… always loved hearing top dog say it to Tom and want to do my best to great him with a smile and happiness. RIP to top dog much love to Tom and Ryan ❤

  • @mrsandmanking
    @mrsandmanking 7 месяцев назад +24

    Just lost my dad in May instantly. This episode was really nice to listen to.

  • @Gunline_Chief
    @Gunline_Chief 7 месяцев назад +123

    I see Tom Segura with Ryan, I click to watch instantly!

    • @Spencer615
      @Spencer615 7 месяцев назад

      Always.

    • @jimsonjohnson3761
      @jimsonjohnson3761 7 месяцев назад +1

      Ehh tommy always acting like a big shot now

    • @vhscopyofseinfeld
      @vhscopyofseinfeld 7 месяцев назад

      @@jimsonjohnson3761that’s why watching him with Ryan is a relief.

    • @rachelbergmann926
      @rachelbergmann926 7 месяцев назад

      10000000000000%

    • @JBStreeter
      @JBStreeter 6 месяцев назад

      @@jimsonjohnson3761how? Lol

  • @jynx2501
    @jynx2501 7 месяцев назад +7

    I dont care what they're doing, or talking about, I will always love Sickler and Segura together. I wish they would cohost something together.

  • @alazymonkey5716
    @alazymonkey5716 7 месяцев назад +9

    Sickler and Segura is such a classic, great combo. Love these two together

  • @seae2030
    @seae2030 7 месяцев назад +60

    Get rid of Bert and make two bears one cave just Ryan and Tom

    • @on2wheels378
      @on2wheels378 7 месяцев назад +6

      100%
      If it wasn't for Tom. Burnt Chrysler would be selling time shares and used cars also divorced.

    • @seae2030
      @seae2030 7 месяцев назад +2

      @@on2wheels378 I don't know how his wife stays with him. Definitely blunt Chrysler owes Tim Segunu everything

    • @on2wheels378
      @on2wheels378 7 месяцев назад

      @seae2030 💯 I made the mistake of watching his show in LA Jolla. Same shtick for 10 years. This was two years ago when it started opening up. I hear Rogan won't let him perform at the mother ship in Austin. but that's a rumor.

    • @seae2030
      @seae2030 7 месяцев назад +2

      ​@@on2wheels378I wouldn't doubt it. I think Joe secretly hates him

    • @on2wheels378
      @on2wheels378 7 месяцев назад

      @seae2030 Joe is different. He's friends or acquainted with comedians who aren't up to the level as Tom, or even Joe. But yeh, I doubt he likes Burnt's slovenly lifestyle and comedy. He knows burnt lies to "kick it."

  • @lordfordification
    @lordfordification 7 месяцев назад +64

    Finally, I've been waiting for a decent guest on a podcast all weekend

    • @inFiniteTraCer
      @inFiniteTraCer 7 месяцев назад

      its getting saturated with crap out heaaaaa

  • @LiquidDaylight
    @LiquidDaylight 7 месяцев назад +4

    This was a great ep. My Mom passed away on Oct 5th. He's right: That deterioration is rough shit.
    TF for comedy. It really gets me through so much ♥

  • @Reclipsegaming
    @Reclipsegaming 7 месяцев назад +2

    I had an uncle who just passed from throat cancer. He was in the Air Force, as was I. When they said “if you are active or veteran, now is your chance to give him the finale salute, everyone else place your hand over your heart” and I snapped that fucking salute so clean and tight but just balling my eyes out straight face tears like a river. That powerful moment they talking about ooof I know it too well

  • @user-wj8ix1pe2r
    @user-wj8ix1pe2r 7 месяцев назад +7

    I lost my father a few months back and this episode is giving me major feels; thank you both for sharing 🙏

  • @josephmarso2188
    @josephmarso2188 7 месяцев назад +6

    This one hit home way too hard. My dad had open heart surgery during covid he flatlined and died for 3 minutes and we couldn’t even be there for him. He survived and is doing fine now if not better. But it could have gone the other way. I love these guys. Thank you

  • @kdaddy9229
    @kdaddy9229 7 месяцев назад +2

    It fills my heart to hear my fellow man talk about how much their dads meant to them. I don’t have a good relationship with my dad and I really feel like I missed out. So hearing other men talk about how great their dads were allows me to live vicariously through you. Thanks for helping me fill up that very empty part of my heart.

    • @jordanzimmerman6812
      @jordanzimmerman6812 6 месяцев назад

      This is a very beautiful perspective to see this from. Much love!

  • @TheCherb19
    @TheCherb19 7 месяцев назад +2

    This was so touching. Seeing two hilarious men be vulnerable while missing their dads made me reflect about my own dad. Thank you for processing some of this grief in front of us, you’re helping all of us.

  • @TheDakotaDunn
    @TheDakotaDunn 7 месяцев назад +10

    Yall got me with the Dad talk. Had the waterworks going.
    Amazing pod. This show doesn't get the credit it deserves.

  • @julezO
    @julezO 7 месяцев назад +5

    I love Sickler for creating this whole episode about Tom's Dad. Such a class act. I LOVE Tom's impression of his Dad's voice. This episode was amazing !!

  • @jamesbaugh981
    @jamesbaugh981 6 месяцев назад +2

    The amount of emotion in Sicks podcast is incredible. 100% great podcast. Seeing every guest be disarmed by Ryan is so interesting to watch.

  • @damonpace8056
    @damonpace8056 6 месяцев назад +3

    One of the best episodes I've seen out of them all. 1st time to see that side of Tom Segura.

  • @zachsmith8633
    @zachsmith8633 7 месяцев назад +4

    Damn these two talking Dad stories have me crying like a baby

  • @leahmatthews6696
    @leahmatthews6696 7 месяцев назад +9

    Ryan and Tom, thank you so much for this episode. I lost my Dad 3 weeks ago and have been struggling with processing. This episode had me happy crying listening and remembering my Dad. I listen to you both weekly so it felt like two friends helping me through it. Thank you for sharing.

  • @jakeclouts3626
    @jakeclouts3626 6 месяцев назад +1

    The last little bit where you’re talking about your father just ready to leave everything to get back to where he was related so heavily with me. As a father of 4 daughters (and only 32yrs old) I relate way too much to this. I’m the exact same way. Ready to just go and be back to comfort

  • @zachleprieur2871
    @zachleprieur2871 7 месяцев назад +2

    When Tom did the top dog impression in front of Charo 😢 She said it sounded just like him and I lost it crying .

  • @ChrisReparationslul
    @ChrisReparationslul 7 месяцев назад +5

    If you're ever in a difficult situation, just remember, "🐈 is 🐈" 😂

  • @micoromico
    @micoromico 7 месяцев назад +3

    26:40 hilarious callback.
    I did tear up when Tom got red eyes, and when Ryan said that his daughter cried from missing her grandfather.
    Great episode. Thank you Sickle Cell and Tom.

  • @IceKoldKilla
    @IceKoldKilla 7 месяцев назад +2

    I went through something similar in 2021. I was 28. My mom passed on June 30th from cancer. Her whole body was fucked. It was too late by the time she was diagnosed in Colombia. Yeah, my mom insisted on going home when she was sent to a hospital for dying patients. She luckily was in Spain for her last few months which meant everything was free. Amazing. If only the US could find a way. Look at how they live. Happy. Taking siestas.
    But yeah, not to get all into it because I tend to rant, but it was tough. She pulled out her tube from her stomach. It was in her throat. And she said she didn't care anymore. She was done suffering. And as someone who was always anxious and needed to leave the house all the time, always on the move, I think it was tough for her. Thank god the nurses let me smoke my spliffs on the balcony. Other patients smoked and they didn't mind.
    It was tough. Weed and music got me through living with her in that hospital for a couple weeks. She died shortly after that night of pulling out her own tubes. That morning they sedated her. Next best legal thing allowed. She died sedated at least. I literally saw her final breath.... I will never forget that moment. Witnessing life end from the person that brought me to this world and worked her ASS off as a single mother. We moved countries so many times in an attempt to establish a good place to live. Sadly we always had to restart. But she tried so hard and did an amazing job at it. Ofelia, que sigas descansando en paz. Te amo muchísimo y me aseguraré de que mis hijos sepan todo lo que fuiste. Increíble. Gracias por todo, mamá. ❤

  • @alansamples325
    @alansamples325 7 месяцев назад +2

    My dad died March 16, 2021 full body cancer at the age of 60. This pod really hit me hard. Tell people you love them every chance you get.

  • @youtubecommentcreatorr
    @youtubecommentcreatorr 6 месяцев назад +3

    I've never watched Ryan Sickler and I've never cried watching a podcast. Today i did both, when he was talking about the K-Mart trip. Damn...

  • @BeingK8
    @BeingK8 7 месяцев назад +3

    Nearing on a month since my grandmother passed and her decline was a lot like Top Dogs in that last month. She was able to get the same military send off being in the Navy and he's not wrong.... when they play taps and the rifles go off it really hits you. This show never ceases to deliver at the right time exactly when you need it. ❤

  • @84THETNT
    @84THETNT 7 месяцев назад +1

    Really appreciated Tom being so candid. I have compassion for Tom and Ryan for their experiences. I found I had a lot of similar emotions through it all. My dad fell and two weeks later to the day he was gone. Passed away on my wedding anniverary. It's something I don't think anyone can prepare you for. It's been over 5 years ago now and there are still times random things get me.

  • @cj5056
    @cj5056 7 месяцев назад

    Grief is a roller coaster. There’s always coulda shouda woulda thoughts. Enjoy the memories and love. Appreciate this open genuine dialogue.

  • @josephknowles124
    @josephknowles124 7 месяцев назад +14

    It’s crazy, I knew Toms dad died of cancer, but this is the first time I found out he had the same cancer my father had. This Shit hit me in the nuts

  • @katieperez7490
    @katieperez7490 7 месяцев назад +6

    Best way to start my morning 🙌🏼
    And my dad says the same thing. Once a Marine, always a Marine.

  • @mohnjayer
    @mohnjayer 7 месяцев назад +2

    This was such a beautiful episode. I lost a close grandparent last year and this got me so emotional thinking about him and thinking about how I need to cherish my time with my dad who’s still here. Thanks for giving me a good cry on a Tuesdee.

  • @kt9657
    @kt9657 7 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks for a good pod episode! I lost my Dad back in July of this year. He was diagnosed with stage 4 pancreatic cancer and then died 11 days later. Now my mom has been fucked over by insurance, VA offices (he served in the Navy), and his 401k. Everything was so sudden and unexpected, but I also think that anytime would’ve been too soon. One of my fave episodes of The Honeydew. Thanks, Ryan!

  • @kathleenchapman3890
    @kathleenchapman3890 7 месяцев назад +5

    Tom its a true testament for your dad that you had us laughing and holding our stomachs over the death of your great dad! Thank you for sharing ❤

  • @twofatchicksproductions9015
    @twofatchicksproductions9015 7 месяцев назад +19

    Thank you for supporting what should be a decorated veteran Sickler. This man's put in work and never received the recognition.
    R.I.P. Top Dog

  • @whitechoc123
    @whitechoc123 5 месяцев назад +2

    First time listener of Honeydew and Sickler. Was laughing out loud and crying during this. Thank you both for sharing your stories with us.

  • @MrReddser
    @MrReddser 5 месяцев назад +1

    I Dunno what to type even yet , this story had me in tears with both real sadness and pure laughter and delight with tom's fantastic relationship with his father, i wish condolence to both Ryan and tom's father's passing... the fun you had with you father is something precious throughout you life previous to his sickness, you also had all those time's that im sure you'll never forget... and Ryan i love how you keep your dad's memory alive with you daughter, its a great thing for her to have the memory's of you talking so passionately of your beloved father. thank you for this conversation lad's it makes me wanna do something i should have done a long time ago....
    peace and love brother's..
    and do more joey Diaz chronicles

  • @mandeejanssen8600
    @mandeejanssen8600 7 месяцев назад +3

    Aww man. RIP Top Dogg. Love when Tom does his voice ❤

  • @alec6948
    @alec6948 7 месяцев назад +6

    I can't watch ymh anymore but I'll always watch Tom and Ryan together on whatever podcast they're on!

    • @Miv51miv51
      @Miv51miv51 7 месяцев назад

      Same. Ryan is so wholesome.

    • @DrMarcinstein
      @DrMarcinstein 7 месяцев назад +1

      I smell a Reddit guy :(

    • @peachmelba1000
      @peachmelba1000 5 месяцев назад

      ​@DrMarcinstein The Tom-hate is totally justified. He's a giant douche.
      I'm not entirely unconvinced that this ep with Ryan wasn't just a way to make Tom seem relatable, post airport nonsense, and "poor losers" diatribe. Dude is Gross.

  • @sabrinaanna
    @sabrinaanna 5 месяцев назад +1

    This is one of the best podcast episodes I've seen. Love everything about this duo! So heartfelt!

  • @TheBrandenbigred1
    @TheBrandenbigred1 7 месяцев назад +1

    One of the best podcast episodes, period. I can really relate to Tom in the way he watched his dad deteriorate and how I was there for my grandfather in the last couple weeks. How refreshing to hear Ryan and Tom both really listen to each other. I feel like we’d never get this kind of an interview with Tom and Bert lol.

  • @team530zip
    @team530zip 7 месяцев назад +4

    Yes. My 2 favorites together again!

  • @JacquesLeCoq26
    @JacquesLeCoq26 7 месяцев назад +3

    This is Ambassador Cartwright.

  • @kijanahaney6549
    @kijanahaney6549 7 месяцев назад +1

    I lost my dad back in 2019. I really needed to hear you guys talk about your dads. Powerful pod.

  • @bradw4622
    @bradw4622 7 месяцев назад +1

    Incredible episode. Thank you @tomsegura for opening up about your father. My father passed of cancer a few months prior to yours. It was nice hearing you have the same feelings and emotions that I do.

  • @finnianmcpherson3467
    @finnianmcpherson3467 7 месяцев назад +5

    I recently accidentally came across the last episode of your moms house with Toms dad that started with the traditional “hey buddy! I got a shit story for you.” And then Tom “oh yeah was it really big?” I love that Tom is keeping his dad alive through shit stories. RIP Top dog

  • @michellee7469
    @michellee7469 7 месяцев назад +5

    These 2 together is going to be a great episode!!❤️

  • @RjDangerfield1993
    @RjDangerfield1993 7 месяцев назад +2

    Got-dangit Ryan, I love you. My Dad passed this year and this episode was especially a blessing in the skies to watch. Can't wait to see you in SLC this weekend!

  • @LensIsDead
    @LensIsDead 29 дней назад

    Amazing episode. I can't state enough how amazing it is to have successful people that many look up to share stories about breaking down in the grocery store about lost loved ones. It helps me feel like I'm not such an embarrassing failure at emotions

  • @isaacduroque2682
    @isaacduroque2682 7 месяцев назад +6

    Work on your grief and trauma folks. Love this podcast so much. But damn when Tom talked about the fluid buildup in his dad's stomach it brought me right back to seeing that in my mom's final days. Damn. Heavy vibes.

  • @io.
    @io. 7 месяцев назад +3

    What a great episode. Thank you Ryan and Tom

  • @meggieseiser5713
    @meggieseiser5713 6 месяцев назад +1

    Crying. I needed this. Thanks for being vulnerable and sharing these stories. Helps more than you know. ❤

  • @ee-mon-ee1653
    @ee-mon-ee1653 7 месяцев назад +1

    This episode hits home. My dad was also a marine, and we lost him to cancer. I felt every emotion you guys did when you lost your dads. I think we all wish we had spent more time with them death is just hard to be around and you don't generally realize how bad it is until it's too late...My condolences for both your dads.

  • @crazyfoxpodcast
    @crazyfoxpodcast 7 месяцев назад +5

    it’s almost strange but suspiciously friendly how therapeutic this episode was. thank you guys for sharing

  • @sourcrout13
    @sourcrout13 7 месяцев назад +7

    Probably the most emotionally supportive episode ymh studios has produced. Thanks for this.

    • @Contopaxi
      @Contopaxi 7 месяцев назад +1

      Well the thing is this isn’t YMH produced.

    • @sourcrout13
      @sourcrout13 7 месяцев назад

      @@Contopaxi hey, thanks. I dont know why I thought it was. It's the most emotionally supportive episode a ymh member has starred in.

    • @Contopaxi
      @Contopaxi 7 месяцев назад

      @@sourcrout13 honeydew may have started as a YMH show but he decided to branch off I believe.
      Very cool to hear how deep Tom gets.
      Watching the episode was good to see the emotion on both of their faces

  • @laurasinclair2865
    @laurasinclair2865 5 месяцев назад

    Oh I loved this episode! ❤ my young sons and I are currently grappling with the sudden loss of their father at just 41yrs old. I needed to hear this conversation today. Thank you

  • @oremconcrete80
    @oremconcrete80 6 месяцев назад +1

    I never leave comments. But this was fantastic. Ryan asked all the questions everyone would never ask. I loved it

  • @Jjjbbbsss451
    @Jjjbbbsss451 7 месяцев назад +2

    Yaaayy!! Love you two together!😊

  • @taylorlynch3405
    @taylorlynch3405 7 месяцев назад +4

    I really appreciate you spending those hard earned dollars to be able to afford Thomas Segura on your set and letting us poors listen for free.
    I can’t begin to explain to you how much us poors appreciate what grace you have bestowed upon us.

  • @mattswanson1423
    @mattswanson1423 7 месяцев назад

    I really don't think there's a better interviewer/conversationalist than Sickle Cell. I can't see a conversation about this topic being so genuine with anybody else.

  • @DavisD814
    @DavisD814 7 месяцев назад +1

    Man. Ryan has a special ability to bring comfort to people to allow them to open up emotionally. I feel seeing Tom open up about his dad for more than a few minutes at a time lifted a lot of weight off his shoulders. Of course, knowing the relationship that Tom and Sickle Cell have, it was probably a lot easier for him to open up like that. But the way Ryan just lets Tom talk and always asks the right questions next and will crack a joke in the middle sometimes is just perfect. This podcast helps so many more people than you could ever imagine, Sickler. You bring on extraordinary people and show us that we are all one and the same. No matter how status in life, no matter our annual salary.. we all have been through tough times and knowing that we’re not alone helps so much. Thank you, Ryan and thank you Tom for this episode.

  • @discopotato675
    @discopotato675 7 месяцев назад +4

    I canceled my appt with my therapist this morning to watch this. This duo is all the therapy I need baby!!!

  • @carolesmith112
    @carolesmith112 7 месяцев назад +2

    What a touching interview. Ryan, you did a great job, asking good questions, and really listening. Top dog was very lucky to have a son like Tom❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @Beto_820
    @Beto_820 7 месяцев назад

    Back after watching the full video and maaan, listening to Tim talk about Top Dog nearly broke me. My dad is 70 years old and luckily he’s as healthy as a 70 year old can be with no serious health issues. I worry about his age and have worried about his death ever since I was 5 years old. I am now 27 and worry even more but happy to have him with me. I want to appreciate the time I have left with him and only hope I can be as strong as you guys are after he’s gone. It’s something I fear everyday and I just want to become a man he’s proud of and just be as prepared as I can be before the time comes. I will cherish the time I have with him and live it to the fullest. Thanks for sharing these stories guys.🙏🏻
    RIP TOP DOG🤍

  • @wking8
    @wking8 7 месяцев назад +7

    The poors are here, Tom

    • @azz75sl
      @azz75sl 7 месяцев назад +2

      Don’t get him trippin’ again fool. I haven’t psychologically recovered from the last time. I still can’t believe he wiped his ass with dollar bills then tried to feed them to the homeless.

  • @azz75sl
    @azz75sl 7 месяцев назад +5

    Poor gang rise up 💪

  • @JordanAhMu
    @JordanAhMu 7 месяцев назад

    When I clicked on this I definitely didn’t think it would bring me to tears. I lost my dad 11 years ago and those feelings never change. Thank you for having this conversation and being so open about everything ❤❤

  • @kinda.austrian
    @kinda.austrian 7 месяцев назад

    Love you guys. My dads fighting cancer right now, just moved in with him while he’s going through treatment. Got me crying while laughing watching this pod.