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  • Опубликовано: 5 дек 2020
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    "Loneliness has followed me my whole life, everywhere. In bars, in cars, sidewalks, stores, everywhere. There's no escape."
    I tried to do something new and original with this video. I hope you will like it!
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    Audiomachine - All that we are
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  • @mederecord7991
    @mederecord7991  3 года назад +311

    I will soon start making videos in a shorter format (30 / 60sec) which will be available on my Instagram! Subscribe, if you are interested!
    instagram.com/mederecord/
    Fandom :
    7 Pounds, Blade Runner 2049, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Demolition, Detchement, Fight Club, Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows (part 1), Harry Potter and the Order of Phoenix, Imitation Game, Her, Into the Wild, Joker, La La Land, Little Women, Mommy, Le Fabuleux Destin d'Amélie Poulain, Lost in Tanslation, Mr. Robot, Taxi Driver, The Lord of the Rings : The Return of the King, The Secret Life of Walter Mitty, The Shawshank Redemption, Titanic

  • @theodorebitsy
    @theodorebitsy 3 года назад +4740

    ”I want.. a way out.. of loneliness” me too buddy. Me too.

  • @ahonachakravarty8919
    @ahonachakravarty8919 3 года назад +2558

    "I'm not here. You may see me, but I'm hollow". Fuck. This line's so relatable.

    • @vinothankumaran8243
      @vinothankumaran8243 2 года назад

      🙌🏽😌❤️

    • @reedvictorfinlayson
      @reedvictorfinlayson 2 года назад +8

      I cant even explain how relatable it is...

    • @Hello-uy6dx
      @Hello-uy6dx Год назад +36

      I have felt that a lot in college and school , everyone kinda distant from you making fun of you, girls looking at you weird and pitting you, parents disappointed , never been on a date, I don't know how it feels to be cuddled ever except for my pillow. Yes we exist , with social anxiety , we might sound weird and different but we are not creepy , we don't know how to make a conversation because everytime we tried to we were made fun of countless time , so everytime we try the anxiety kicks in so we give in. It is tough , we want to be loved too , we are as human as everyone else , but very lonely and kind of rejected by society.

    • @nobrain3633
      @nobrain3633 Год назад +3

      @@Hello-uy6dx u should never be ashamed of what u are and people will always talk and laugh at u in what ever u do some are just like that some are just crual , but by not caring and pushing forward those fears u can actually make it

    • @amerstain
      @amerstain Год назад +3

      Ichigo: "Did you just say hollow?"
      My bad couldn't help but make a dumb joke🤣🤝🗿

  • @MrDai_
    @MrDai_ 3 года назад +2719

    Sometimes loneliness is better than being in a group of people that makes you feel lonely

    • @abdulmunimawadh3697
      @abdulmunimawadh3697 3 года назад +17

      True💔

    • @aaronmonk
      @aaronmonk Год назад +13

      100% brother

    • @ryanc9888
      @ryanc9888 Год назад +77

      That’s what loneliness is, you can be in a room full of people and some might even be good friends or family but you still feel a lack of deep connection. I feel alone the most when I’m around people, mostly because I feel inadequate and like the biggest 0 in the room. Lonely people lack a deep connection and romance, and just overall acceptance. Being in a big crowd or having a forced conversation with people won’t change that, in fact, it just makes it worse in my opinion

    • @amirnaderian4049
      @amirnaderian4049 Год назад +6

      I know how you feel I lost my friends because I couldn't fit in one night someone said something to my trying to put me down and I exploded I ended my friendship with almost all of them bar a few who were actually nice, one of the nice ones sent me pics of their chats and I learned of the snakes I had been friends with. Its been three weeks it still hurts but I feel better now that I at least known that I'm better off alone rather than surrounded by people who are always lying in your face

    • @jeonseoulmusic1916
      @jeonseoulmusic1916 Год назад +1

      Agree.

  • @acdragonrider
    @acdragonrider 3 года назад +2614

    Loneliness has always been one of my greatest internal demons. Still is. At random when I least expect it.

    • @Arechz
      @Arechz 3 года назад +8

      I can relate to that

    • @winfriedrhodes7508
      @winfriedrhodes7508 3 года назад +1

      Same

    • @flixkdrama8798
      @flixkdrama8798 3 года назад +27

      I feel lonely even though I'm surrounded by my family all the time and there is someone who confessed his love for me. But I can't make myself accept it. It feels like a thing that I can never do. What do I do? I want to get out of this.

    • @mac5794
      @mac5794 3 года назад

      I know it's easier said then done. But something is only as great / big to you as much of importance / time you give to cultivate it.

    • @seaque.
      @seaque. 2 года назад

      @@flixkdrama8798 let me know if you find it, please.

  • @moogantlee6056
    @moogantlee6056 3 года назад +5099

    "I used to think the worst thing in life was to be alone, no, its having friends that make you feel alone."
    -Robin Williams

    • @Berries.creamm
      @Berries.creamm 3 года назад +4

      What?

    • @Berries.creamm
      @Berries.creamm 3 года назад +7

      I don’t get that

    • @jordyn0816
      @jordyn0816 3 года назад +34

      I just posted that quote on my Instagram that quote only the real can understand 🌑💥

    • @moogantlee6056
      @moogantlee6056 3 года назад +4

      @@jordyn0816 🙌 its a good one

    • @Berries.creamm
      @Berries.creamm 3 года назад +3

      Makes no sense

  • @antons7210
    @antons7210 3 года назад +1091

    "Terrible thing to live in fear. All I want is to be back where things make sense. Where I don't have to be afraid all the time." Man can I relate to this...

    • @Apathetic_98
      @Apathetic_98 Год назад +2

      Same i cant handle this fear anymore it eats me inside im so tired of it it never goes away

  • @pietro_ferrari
    @pietro_ferrari 3 года назад +1584

    When you have a healthy mind in a sick world, loneliness is the best medicine

    • @Nobody28817
      @Nobody28817 2 года назад +55

      Loneliness is like a clingy best friend to me
      It's with me every second of the day all day everyday

    • @kygura
      @kygura Год назад +5

      That just don't make no sense to me.
      If your mind is already healthy,why would you need the medicine that is loneliness?

    • @KnockKnock.
      @KnockKnock. Год назад +32

      @@kygura It's not how you are understanding it, it's that when u have a right mind and u think mindfully in this world where others around u are braindead and are driven by their ego's and desires and neglect what's right and wrong, in this kind of society it's better to be alone with yourself to not let this sick mindset overcome u too!

    • @liamoliver6119
      @liamoliver6119 Год назад +6

      or the worst. Everything is a poison and everything is a cure, depends on a dose.

    • @lore6488
      @lore6488 Год назад +2

      @Thawne You delve into your own delusions without facing what reality is. It is not an effective or healthy medicine to support a healthy mind. We need exposure to the uncomfortable to find a place that we can call home.

  • @Robert-um2oe
    @Robert-um2oe Год назад +321

    I don’t know how this video came on my feed but i want to say something.I am a 71 years old man.Never married,no friends .
    As a man who has been insulted his whole life , I am telling you guys by experience people can feel pity for you but never wanted to be with you .I have never been hugged, kissed or had a relationship. Every single women rejected me. I need to go alone to bed, wake up alone. When I am sick nobody takes care about me. Vacation, restaurant visits, hiking. I need to do it alone. I felt lonely my whole life.

    • @Carolina-ql1kn
      @Carolina-ql1kn Год назад +48

      Damn, I hope that even though you were alone all those years you could still enjoy doing things you liked. And that you could at least rely on your parents while they were alive.

    • @vince7520
      @vince7520 Год назад +28

      Keeping alive in this cold world is something you can be proud of man. From a lonely man of 24 olds who do have a lot of succes with woman but nothing change , loneliness is always with me.
      Courage friend

    • @sl1nkz818
      @sl1nkz818 Год назад +27

      This is something that i fear as this generation plummets into the ground and women dont know what a man has to go through

    • @priyankanegi5238
      @priyankanegi5238 Год назад +6

      why I am feeling alone now ?no one .....seriously no one in my life .....I want to share my feelings but I can't ,,,sometimes it hurts and sometimes I feel proud that I am enjoying my life ....but when you get no one to share .....it 💔

    • @sl1nkz818
      @sl1nkz818 Год назад +8

      @@priyankanegi5238 u can talk to me about it im an expert on the "I don't know what's missing in my life" department

  • @implayerone8165
    @implayerone8165 2 года назад +304

    For me I never felt lonely being alone. Being around people who laughed with each other, gossiped among each other, greeted each other and made plans without including me. THAT'S what made me feel lonely. Allowed me to embrace not having someone next to me 24/7, knowing everything is temporary and eventually heartbreaking. Not only then do you embrace being lonely

    • @abelq8008
      @abelq8008 2 года назад +28

      It's much worse around people. It's like being in a country where you don't speak or understand the language.

    • @AVPfan360pro
      @AVPfan360pro 2 года назад +9

      When you realize in the end we are always alone your not afraid anymore. It's nice to have people, to be in a relationship, to have a family but we are alone in our own mind at the end of the day. People afraid of letting go because of the fear of being alone have nothing to fear for we have been alone our whole lives. Like you I embrace it.

  • @harshtyagi5995
    @harshtyagi5995 Год назад +46

    Loneliness is really wierd.Sometimes, you hate it, and sometimes , you love it.

    • @decKyo
      @decKyo Год назад +7

      But no matter how you feel about it, it doesn't change

  • @nikolaslang3452
    @nikolaslang3452 3 года назад +212

    Loneliness is my deepest darkest internal demon. It runs my life and I’m in a full house with a family

    • @feliciakidd9358
      @feliciakidd9358 3 года назад

      😢

    • @yannik8271
      @yannik8271 2 года назад

      You feel special, that no one is like you. That no one understands you. Is it so bro?

    • @yannik8271
      @yannik8271 2 года назад +9

      @JG Then probably you are special which is pretty awesome once you have understood how love your own nature. Special people are the one who stand out and people look up to sooner or later. At the moment it may feel like a curse but I wholeheartly believe this will turn into something great. There lies a big part of our purpose.

    • @brady8877
      @brady8877 2 года назад +1

      If you want someone to talk with please reply, I’d love to talk :)

    • @boop5287
      @boop5287 2 года назад

      @@brady8877 hope all of you all well 🌸

  • @momentofalwayness3337
    @momentofalwayness3337 3 года назад +90

    "The world to me is a very lonely place"

  • @justincase2795
    @justincase2795 Год назад +87

    "all I want is to be back where things make sense, where I don't have to be afraid all the time"
    that hit me hard.

  • @siddharthkunwar6095
    @siddharthkunwar6095 2 года назад +91

    Being alone is still okay, having friends who make you feel alone sucks

  • @eleonorabertoia2059
    @eleonorabertoia2059 3 года назад +201

    "I'm not here, you may see me but I'm hollow" the way I can relate to this

  • @jordyn0816
    @jordyn0816 3 года назад +70

    “All I want is to love and be loved “ 🌙

  • @shadowplay4263
    @shadowplay4263 2 года назад +51

    "If only I could meet someone new. I guess my chances of that happening are somewhat diminished, seeing that I'm incapable of making eye contact with a woman I don't know." hit so hard

  • @neelmani4852
    @neelmani4852 Год назад +56

    Watching this on your birthday alone in your room really hits hard

    • @fgfhfgfgfr
      @fgfhfgfgfr Год назад

      10 days later i

    • @bradleywatson3925
      @bradleywatson3925 Год назад +1

      Happy late birthday ❤😊

    • @neelmani4852
      @neelmani4852 Год назад

      @@bradleywatson3925 thank you , apart from my parents and one friend you are the only one who wished me 😭🥺

    • @prototype652
      @prototype652 Год назад +1

      Happy late birthday 🎉

    • @neelmani4852
      @neelmani4852 Год назад

      @@prototype652 thank you friend 😊

  • @zainebnisar4778
    @zainebnisar4778 3 года назад +536

    your multifandom edits touch me in a way I can't describe

  • @naughtiusmaximus
    @naughtiusmaximus Год назад +61

    Its horrifying to think...that all of the advancements in social media and electronic bullshit, we are still...truly lonley and we seek solace in these videos. Horrifying, but a welcome solace. Thank you

  • @jimjohnson1515
    @jimjohnson1515 Год назад +45

    Saddest part is all these are movies and everyone finds there happy ending. None of us will ever find that… cause this is reality

  • @hasibibnmizan
    @hasibibnmizan Год назад +17

    "I was not ever here. You see an illusion of me. I am truly hollow" - And that's not depressing anymore :)

  • @allabouttheafc6031
    @allabouttheafc6031 3 года назад +178

    Bless all of you who currently are or have been going through loneliness because it is something that connects us together. Loneliness. It takes courage for us to face the world when we feel lonely and we feel powerless to stay away from it. Loneliness is life's cruelest irony because sometimes we feel we require it when we most need to be ourselves. The hardest of walks is the lonely ones but it is also the ones that make us strongest. We may be separated physically but psychologically a lot of us are in our own continuous fights to combat what we suffer from.

  • @TheLaughingGift5758
    @TheLaughingGift5758 3 года назад +244

    I actually am going through an episode of loneliness like this. I just wanted to let you know that this honestly helps. Knowing that eventually I'm not going to be lonely anymore and how I can be better. This was very hard to type so you may not totally understand it. But at the end of the day I just want to say "thanks". 😊😳

    • @mederecord7991
      @mederecord7991  3 года назад +21

      Thank you so much it means a lot!:) courage loneliness will pass, I truly believe it!

  • @HeroesFanProductions
    @HeroesFanProductions 3 года назад +447

    Beautifully done!

    • @mederecord7991
      @mederecord7991  3 года назад +14

      Thank you so much! It means a lot coming from you!:)

  • @kundanchatterjee2681
    @kundanchatterjee2681 3 года назад +73

    Honestly, I'm Also A Lonely Person & After Watching This Video I Feel Like This Video Is Made For Me, Thank You

  • @Memer1501
    @Memer1501 Год назад +13

    I've accepted this feeling, i'm succesfull but damn it can be lonely some times. I believe these periods are a part of life but the emptiness in these periods can be hard to deal with. You feel disconnected, in some way malfunctioning, the quote "I'm not here, you may see me, but i'm hollow." is exactly how it feels in the periods of loneliness.
    My challenge is not to be consumed by it, because once you jump down the rabbit hole it takes months to get back out.

  • @vanillaicecream3530
    @vanillaicecream3530 2 года назад +14

    No one is ever going to understand the loneliness u feel, the pain it afflict on ur heart, but i HOPE someone will connect with you, touch your soul so that it can begin to heal, someone how can make u feel less lonely. I wish all of you the best and nothing less but the best.

  • @Avamackenzie3
    @Avamackenzie3 3 года назад +35

    You know You’re slowly falling back into it once you start watching these again

  • @rustyk9221
    @rustyk9221 2 года назад +12

    "The past makes you wanna die out of regret and [the] future makes you depressed out of anxiety. So by elimination, the present is likely the happiest time." So dont worry about the past or the future life for today, and if today was shitty tomorrow there's another chance

  • @13inchwires
    @13inchwires 2 года назад +22

    Being lonely means you can do whatever you want and be yourself and stay away from problems by people who cause them you have nothing to worry about

  • @newme3059
    @newme3059 Год назад +6

    After so many heartbreak and led downs , my soul has decided that loneliness is the best warm blanket for my winter cold heart .

  • @NuovaStarGaming
    @NuovaStarGaming 2 года назад +21

    there are many people like me who just looks through comments and video like these, knowing and understanding the pain of being lonely but at the same time embracing the truth and allowing urself to cry and let yourself know that you are not alone and its alright to cry and feel sad. and i speak for myself and for those who enjoy their own company but embrace the loneliness as whole, im better off alone and rather not be in a room with people who would just make me feel more alone and depressed. I'm pretty sure this comment wont get seen much nor get much attention but im just leaving a little piece of myself here as im one of those who is shy and confused to say what i want to say. Bless you all and hope all of you have a good and beautiful day and many days,weeks,months and years to come. Thanks and Take care.

  • @passingbym8311
    @passingbym8311 Год назад +5

    I went from having very good friends to having no one. I feel so alone no matter who I try to surround myself with

  • @humanbeing140
    @humanbeing140 Год назад +7

    Ever since I was a kid I was told I was here for a reason like everybody else I had a purpose.. I went to school there I saw everybody would wear similar uniform study from the same text books and nobody was superior or inferior.
    But for some reason slowly I was excluded no one would sit with me or talk to me i had single separate bench kept near the black board I would sit there alone with my notebooks I would sketch during free lectures sometimes I would pretend to sleep keeping my head down but in reality tears were rolling down my eyes deep down I felt I am some bad omen. When it was my birthday I would distribute chocolates in the classroom hoping that during this there would be some exchange of words and eventually I’ll end up making a friend or maybe many friends but very rarely someone wished me one wished me or accepted my chocolates. And still to this day I don’t have any friends.
    I’m 25 now alone and lonely whenever I get time i do charity work that gives me some happiness. Being a grown up I sense world has started treating me differently. I’m still a loser coz there are certain protocols that everyone follows. According to them 1) If I laugh I’m an idiot 2) if I talk I’m over expressive 3) If I’m quite I’m rude 4) If I eat I’m fat 5) If I sleep I’m lazy 6) If I smile I’m delusional 7) If I cry I’m ungrateful.. 8) If I ask questions I’m a headache 9) If I get angry I’m uncivilised.. 10) If I get sick I’m a burden.. 11) If I’m healthy I’m useless.. 12) If I’m expressing my pain I’m selfish..13) If I take time to learn I’m dumb..14) If I forget something I’m irresponsible..15) If I respect women I’m a simp.. 16) If I complain I’m whining.. 17) If i care I’m paranoid..
    Honestly I’m done I feel the world is becoming a cruel place day by day no empathy or sympathy for anyone. Everyone wants love and respect but no one is ready to give it to each other..
    i know life is a journey and it’s not in our hands when to be born and when to die but I feel like I’ve fallen into a big hole where everybody is looking at me but no one is lending me a hand.. I’m a simple human being who inhales oxygen and exhales carbon dioxide this process is going to end one day coz death is inevitable but I don’t want to die old and miserable knowing no one loved me..

  • @K02off
    @K02off 5 месяцев назад +5

    this is one heck of an edited masterpiece
    hit me straight in the soul

  • @lnfiniteFlow11700
    @lnfiniteFlow11700 Год назад +10

    As someone who did not consent to being homeschooled and moved away from his one good friend at the age of 12, and broke up with his only girlfriend at 15, and is now 17, this hits really, really hard.

  • @MastersOfTheForce
    @MastersOfTheForce 3 года назад +22

    To be honest, Ive been putting this off because I'm scared of how it's going to make me cry but here goes!

  • @iSmartMan1
    @iSmartMan1 3 года назад +171

    Remember, no matter how long you have isolated yourself from the world, the world will always be willing to welcome you back

    • @xospes7395
      @xospes7395 3 года назад +20

      Not always

    • @iSmartMan1
      @iSmartMan1 3 года назад +9

      @@xospes7395 Yes always. If you don't believe me, try it

    • @HoneySingh-zk2jx
      @HoneySingh-zk2jx 3 года назад +9

      No, it won't

    • @iSmartMan1
      @iSmartMan1 3 года назад +3

      @@HoneySingh-zk2jx Yes, it will.

    • @Nobody28817
      @Nobody28817 2 года назад +3

      @@iSmartMan1 I don't think it will

  • @JesseJr19
    @JesseJr19 3 года назад +69

    Absolutely beautiful and true. Brutaly honest and relatable, you did a splendid job, well done my friend!

  • @TheUnknown-is1fx
    @TheUnknown-is1fx 3 года назад +11

    This hits home for me, being lonely and alone are two different things. Even if I am never alone, constantly surrounded by people I always feel lonely...

  • @helbrecht967
    @helbrecht967 Год назад +16

    It's been 23 years since I've been on my own, and today I tried to invite the girl I like to go to our prom with me. I offered her a rose, but she refused. She was surprised and didn't understand why I gave her the rose. I don't want to be alone anymore, I'm suffering. I have the impression that my destiny is to be alone. I'm tired... I'm not happy.

    • @LetsgoKaustav
      @LetsgoKaustav Год назад +2

      She losed a gentleman.......Good luck from me champ 🏆🛐

    • @codebrim
      @codebrim Год назад

      It's hard to hear but I can tell u that even it happen to me so later it's not problem in me it's in society .so I bought puppy 🐶 n literally happy

  • @djstankdaddy9579
    @djstankdaddy9579 2 года назад +7

    Loneliness, lifes true companion. Its not too bad, allow yourself to be hopeless and only then once you've stopped grasping at what could be, you'll accept what is and only then be at peace ✌

    • @smartwater598
      @smartwater598 Год назад

      Yeah people don’t understand loneliness is peaceful not a bad thing

  • @NYCD-5
    @NYCD-5 9 месяцев назад +3

    "I will have u smile again" made me smile in a sad way

  • @lucasgrezaud6582
    @lucasgrezaud6582 3 года назад +10

    i dont want to cry everyday anymore. i dont want to feel this way any longer. im too tired, more alone than ever and i just need to fade into complete irrelevance. my disposable and incredibly flawed existence needs to cease to be for i am suffering too much. screaming at the top of my lungs. and no one even looks up.
    i want a way out of loneliness. out of all of it. because i cant feel this way anymore. i need to find somewhere i can feel safe again because my wall is gone.
    you blew the wall down and everybody ran.

  • @MrGreaves
    @MrGreaves 3 года назад +38

    I don’t know what else I can say except this is beautiful and it is sad. You know how to capture feelings well, and put them into one tiny gift to the world. Beautiful work mate.

  • @kennedyjenkins8368
    @kennedyjenkins8368 Год назад +3

    It’s funny because you get thru it and forget what it’s like to be in it. It’s like an old friend came back to say hi… then it all comes rushing back to you and you remember all the pain. It’s tiring to do everything and somehow it worsens because your depression has evolved to fight back harder it’s impossible not to be lonely it’s impossible to feel again

  • @harmlessgael3780
    @harmlessgael3780 Год назад +4

    Whenever I feel bad, I know that there are worse situations than me and I say to myself, "What you've been through is nothing. Be strong, coward."Then ı shut myself up.

  • @flashslash3605
    @flashslash3605 Год назад +2

    Thanks for doing this
    This video is for people like you, me, us😢😖😭

  • @DeathMCheese
    @DeathMCheese 5 месяцев назад +3

    Most people, do not understand or do not want to understand that loneliness is a part of the human condition. We are all alone in our minds, and that is terrifying in itself, trapped in that maze that is the human mind all by ourselfs. We are born alone, we live most of our lives alone, we sleep and dream alone. And ultimately we depart from this life alone with nobody holding our hand as we go back to the void, from witch we came from.

  • @navneetracing4437
    @navneetracing4437 Год назад +3

    I wished this video didn't end, made me feel like I wasn't alone

  • @zulqarnainkhan9815
    @zulqarnainkhan9815 3 года назад +10

    I am lonely in a group of people every day , I don't feel anything anymore

  • @drainbamagedcabbage
    @drainbamagedcabbage 2 года назад +3

    I'm 25 and I've never found anybody. I'm not alone in the sense that I don't have friends but alone in that I don't have a romantic relationship. All my life I've always wanted to know what it'd be like to have someone I could call my own. Every girl I've shown an interest in have rejected me or ghosted me. I never got mad about that, I get it sometimes it's just the matter of mutual level of attraction or some such. It's a pretty dumb thing to be upset over when I should be focusing on working on myself and thinking about my future career. But when you see everybody else around you getting endlessly flirted with, get unsolicited compliments and when you're in a room surrounded by couples and you're the only one without a partner, you feel even more alone and unattractive. Every single day all I can think about is this parasitic loneliness that's eating away at my mind. God I wish I knew what it would be like to be loved back.

  • @chaudhary978
    @chaudhary978 Год назад +5

    I used to think being alone and lonely is same but from last two years i understand real difference between being alone and lonely.

  • @benkii4905
    @benkii4905 7 месяцев назад +4

    It's better to be alone and suffer than to be in a group and have to hide it

  • @zefferz
    @zefferz Год назад +16

    "It's dangerous to be alone, it's like an addiction, once you realise how peaceful it is you won't wanna deal with people anymore"
    -Tom Hardy

  • @perlinrhooney1319
    @perlinrhooney1319 28 дней назад

    there is something in this video that makes my cry from the inside... its such a good way of feeling relieved without showing emotions... this makes me relate my grief and have a conversation with myself for 3 minutes... thanks for posting this..

  • @kai23592
    @kai23592 6 месяцев назад

    "terrible thing to live in fear" that has scared me to my soul.

  • @vesperhaddock205
    @vesperhaddock205 Год назад +6

    This is one of the best edited videos I've ever seen. Thank you.

    • @Wolfsta
      @Wolfsta Год назад

      Indeed it is 🙏

  • @BimmermanDcypha
    @BimmermanDcypha 9 месяцев назад +7

    being alone and being lonely are two different things.

  • @alishaps4669
    @alishaps4669 3 года назад +12

    Anyone here crying at night with your pillow case suppressing your voice so no one can hear you😞

  • @drxx777
    @drxx777 7 месяцев назад +1

    This felt like a hug from a friend.

  • @MrKradzy
    @MrKradzy 3 года назад +85

    Its quite ironic that in a world as connected as todays, loneliness has never been so relevant. The thing is, as a lot of such thing, it start with us. You got to take that step toward an other and stop caring so much about the presentation. When you stop to categorise people and assume things about others, you suddenly lose any reason not to take that step. On the other side, if you're scared that the others might categorise you ... well they might, and thats their loses, not yours, but if you succeed in crossing that bridge everyone win.
    It probably sound stupid, oversimplified, and who am i anyway. Just a nobody on the internet throwing text in the void, i could be anybody in the scene you're living right now. And if we take into consideration that im gonna welcome your approach, listen, exchange back, make us both win something, why not do it? why would you not take that step?
    And Mederick sir you just tackle one hell of a subject really well( i feel like i've writen ''masterfully'' in all your video). Its one thing to say ''dont worry, you're not alone feeling lonely'', but you manage to make me feel it somehow. Maybe by exposing those thoughts and feelings that everybody have themselves to make us realise that a lot of people have them.
    I think the quote ''Happiness is only real when shared'', from Into the Wild, resonate with all this. Its one thing to live a moment of happiness but that bright light will be short lived and make the darkness look thicker/heavier. At least that's how i feel when it happen, and i think that is why people have the urge to tell somebody when they're living one of those rare moment. If you share it and the person is also happy, that mean they care and by affiliation that you're love(somehow).

    • @mederecord7991
      @mederecord7991  3 года назад +8

      Thank you so much for this comment! It really means a lot to me!

    • @seaque.
      @seaque. 2 года назад +4

      Life is real when it's shared. Think about it. If you can't share anything with anyone and you live in a house far away from any place for dozens of years, what would be the point?

    • @ITRFX5503
      @ITRFX5503 Год назад

      How lonely are you bro

    • @vinayg9179
      @vinayg9179 Год назад

      @@seaque. it's incredibly sad ,many of us have nobody to talk ,laugh or share anything ,life is cruel for lonely people

  • @chewprachaya4793
    @chewprachaya4793 Год назад +3

    Loneliness is beautiful sometimes.

  • @guitarherops31
    @guitarherops31 3 года назад +3

    I love the subtle change of saturation from low to high as the video gets hopeful to then back to the withdrawal. Nicely done.

  • @The..Commenter
    @The..Commenter Год назад +1

    It's often the people who seem like they blend into the crowd the most that feel like they are the furthest away from everyone

    • @Wolfsta
      @Wolfsta Год назад

      Damn man thats so true..

  • @THRverssaille3376
    @THRverssaille3376 25 дней назад +2

    Loneliness is better than a fake relation

  • @briandelvismatthys5754
    @briandelvismatthys5754 2 года назад +3

    "I feel more alone than ever". Man, i felt that

  • @robertmarkold3408
    @robertmarkold3408 3 года назад +9

    Im always lonely I've gotten use to it

  • @kennethshoopala967
    @kennethshoopala967 9 месяцев назад +1

    "I'm not here, you may see me but I'm hollow"💔

  • @silentkiller9837
    @silentkiller9837 Год назад +1

    The loneliness has come back. Worst than i remember

  • @novacanevein809
    @novacanevein809 Год назад +5

    Feel like I’m being judged by my algorithm

  • @VCreations_yt
    @VCreations_yt 3 года назад +22

    Perfectly done, it's beautiful my friend.

  • @ughicanteven5896
    @ughicanteven5896 3 года назад +13

    I hope everyone finds something or someone that makes them feel less alone or finds it in themselves even 💜 Stay safe.

  • @teaadvice4996
    @teaadvice4996 Год назад +2

    "Try being 6'5"- unknown

  • @yanna9611
    @yanna9611 3 года назад +12

    I think I watch this every day. This is very good

  • @Jessislegend
    @Jessislegend 3 года назад +18

    This is beautiful. Your work with the coloring is really what makes the video so perfect. Such a creative, stunning work of art. And I'm so glad to see you use Detachment so much here. Brilliant work my friend.

    • @mederecord7991
      @mederecord7991  3 года назад +1

      Thank you so much mate, and yes it is a really great film!

  • @Nathan123Davis
    @Nathan123Davis 3 года назад +2

    When you try to be happy on the outside but your literally dying on the inside. Everybody you get close too disappears after a while, your friends make you feel alone even when they don't mean too. Nobody loves you and you know it.
    The hardest part of the day is not ending it all :( and all you can do is feel sorry for yourself until the feels go away for a little while.

  • @lecomtedeneuch9994
    @lecomtedeneuch9994 11 месяцев назад +1

    I wish no one on this earth to endure what the feeling of loneliness does to your mind and body. You can't function normally. You make everyone go away because you're too much. It's a vicious cycle. The only way out is yourself and that is the hardest part.

  • @ALANPE5
    @ALANPE5 6 месяцев назад +2

    It's 2:00 a.m . I'm trying hard to sleep, but......... i have fear, like i lost everything. After lockdown, i got in depression in the last four years. i barely met someone i don't have friends to share things.. I feel bad for myself for wasting the most important years of life. I'm writing this because i want to meet an online stranger who can relate with me, unlike making fun of me.

  • @BoonkyEdits
    @BoonkyEdits 2 года назад +11

    This is such a masterpiece with a deep message. This one hit me right into the feelings.
    You did an outstanding job with this edit!

  • @chonky4784
    @chonky4784 10 месяцев назад +1

    I have all the conventional benchmarks for most people to dispel loneliness. I'm surrounded by people but can never shake the feeling of being alone and always on the outside.

  • @vike9527
    @vike9527 Год назад +1

    If we still eat the food we like, if we still wear the clothes we like, if we feel safe in our house then truly we don't need anyone,it's time to learn new skills and earn n enjoy.

  • @Albertomoscow
    @Albertomoscow Год назад +3

    Man I suffer from loneliness everyday sometimes you know I go to school I never had friends I don't have anybody to communicate or talk to it sucks you know people call me trash you know what I'm saying oh well I have to live without friends then

    • @nailik7899
      @nailik7899 Год назад

      Don't worry mate it will get better I wish you the best stay strong💪

    • @Albertomoscow
      @Albertomoscow Год назад

      @@nailik7899 I'm with you

  • @fake_polymuse
    @fake_polymuse 3 года назад +12

    Im surrounded by people who love me, i have a girl who loves me cares for me, but, i feel lonely.
    Why me, why am i like this. i don’t wanna be this, but then i am. why.

    • @mrzero2027
      @mrzero2027 3 года назад

      Feel you... Same here, but I do not have a girl and that's why I think I feel lonely.. But you..

    • @raversfantasy8873
      @raversfantasy8873 Год назад

      I feel like you are loved because you are loved, like a cycle.
      Same probavly with lonelyness - maybe its just your compulsion. Stop being lonely and you will Stop being lonely gradually and eventually. But f. do i know, i am lonely too. Sufferring makes us feel alive, maybe because life ist sufferring.

    • @fake_polymuse
      @fake_polymuse Год назад

      Don’t have a girl anymore, i honestly just got used to the feeling now.

    • @raversfantasy8873
      @raversfantasy8873 11 месяцев назад

      Hows life going, mate?
      Still demolotion man?

  • @mattymurdock7707
    @mattymurdock7707 Месяц назад +1

    My loneness is born from a young age where large families forget the last one out. Almost like a gatekeeper closing a ancient seal

  • @allahsid3180
    @allahsid3180 Год назад +1

    i think this is one of lifes greatest challenges. to overcome loneliness and be able to embrace it. loneliness is one of the greatest dangers for the mental health we as a society face because it’s a creeping, slow and invisible death. the decay of a person from the inside out is often not visible from the outside. there’s a difference between lonely and alone, people who are lonely may not even be alone.

  • @noahg8998
    @noahg8998 Год назад +4

    I'm so lonely I don't even know who I am anymore

  • @OnurWho
    @OnurWho 3 года назад +13

    One of the best and beautiful multifandoms i've watched. Amazing job my friend.

  • @Eman871999
    @Eman871999 Год назад +1

    “It’s just myself, talking to myself, about myself.”

  • @cap.deanmarcelwinchester
    @cap.deanmarcelwinchester Год назад +1

    I've been ALONE since 1986... ALONE ! Ur Video is good enough for me. Merci.

  • @Hello-uy6dx
    @Hello-uy6dx Год назад +1

    I have felt that a lot in college and school , everyone kinda distant from you making fun of you, girls looking at you weird and pitting you, parents disappointed , never been on a date, I don't know how it feels to be cuddled ever except for my pillow. Yes we exist , with social anxiety , we might sound weird and different but we are not creepy , we don't know how to make a conversation because everytime we tried to we were made fun of countless time , so everytime we try the anxiety kicks in so we give in. It is tough , we want to be loved too , we are as human as everyone else , but very lonely and kind of rejected by society.

  • @maazcineedits
    @maazcineedits 3 года назад +3

    Her is modern masterpiece about loneliness

  • @CHANVER_07
    @CHANVER_07 Год назад +18

    "Loneliness is a Choice"
    "Being happy is a MUST"

  • @philismal6660
    @philismal6660 Год назад +1

    Meeting new people is like an interview sometimes like hard to say the right thing. I am their physically not their in person. Just feel like a void in people life's.

  • @BC.game-US
    @BC.game-US Месяц назад +1

    We all deep down crave another soul to share memories with, but we've been hurt so badly that taking the risk of baring our soul again is too much, so we'll just tell ourselves that we're happy how we are.

  • @sminem6572
    @sminem6572 Год назад +5

    Is it worse to be lonely because you have lost the love of the soulmate that you may never have again? Or is it worse to be lonely because you have never experienced that love before and may never? I do not know; I have only experienced one, and it is excruciating torture.

  • @joehemann9078
    @joehemann9078 3 года назад +15

    This is really just an amazing video. Relatable for so many people including myself. And I love how you added the Theoden quote "I would have you smile again". Really hits the mark/ expresses my feelings with loving someone who is also dealing with loneliness/depression/loss.
    Anyways great video! Love it!

  • @jamesstew6578
    @jamesstew6578 2 года назад +2

    All I want is a good friend to talk with, living a live without parents nor friends is the worst war you ever fight especially on xmax or new year