@@FreshPrince-oc1lu Oh no the grammar is perfect you got, I mean that you specifically point on JJ, while he is no exception to other people, everybody deserves equal help,,
Genuinely low iq dumbfks. Theres no way u all r this dumb. Crying like a bitch when nothing even happened to u, "bottling up feelings" thats what ur meant to do u pussies. All of you probably cry for absolute jack shit reason this modern day stupidity of feelings in men. Be objective ret ards Wake up npcs
What happens? He becomes a successful man? A man doesn’t need a father to be up his ass that actually makes a boy soft. Be hard on your son and provide and he will be a better man. Let mom nurture.
@@arjenrobbed1294 A human being needs love from both parents, no nurturing mother and cold father, that's bs. Kids look up to their parents, they are their world to a certain point in their development, show no love to your kid, kid thinks they don't deserve the parent's love. How about we stop normalizing bad parenting, most people who don't get love from their parents become troubled adults.
This is what favouritism does to a kid, as a kid he has always felt that they liked Deji more than him. He’s 30+ now and even to this day the kid inside him still craves for his parent’s validation and love. I always feel like people need to understand that you should only bring a person to life when u r ready for it.
No, his father tried to raise him better and more disciplined, but instead KSI was being an absolute egotistical child and complaining his dad beats him but that’s just discipline many parents do that, no wonder why deji is way more liked
@mindolly.. Nope, there’s a difference. Obviously if it were his daughter then I would agree with you but son’s are meant to be disciplined and learn the value of hard work because they’re the ones who would be in charge of their households when they’re older as in the real world life is tough for men, there’s no reason to soften them up.
Probably exaggerated for the cameras he seems like a very nice guy in this. ruclips.net/video/qjlKe1duWkE/видео.html Jj shouldn’t be complaining about those things, he doesn’t realize how fortunate he is
this takes the meaning of "you dont know what happens behind closed doors" to a whole new level because i remember when jj first started popping off he did q and a sundays with his family and by himself but the one with his dad u would think they were so close but that wasnt the case at all which was surprising
Being in a video with your son for the sake of views because you know it's bringing in a lot of money is different then showing your son love, touch and affection.
ngl its hurts to see him cry because in camera in the outside world of him , we see he is happy and smiling and the inside is dark af, he even tried to look happy even he was crying 😢
That's the thing man, sometimes the most joyful people are sad inside, no one ever expected Robin williams to have depression when he was one of the most joyful people
Did anyone else notice how he tried to hide his tears behind his laugh and smile. This is a real thing that people need to understand even if we smile nobody’s ever really okay 😞💔❤️🩹
That’s how African dads are most of the time, that’s how men are raised they won’t show to much emotion. To be honest I feel his parents love him like crazy they just show it differently or else they wouldn’t provide for them how they did. I had the same thoughts towards my parents but realized they would do anything for me more then anyone else knowing that is enough I don’t need them to show their love because I know it. Which is what I think he needs. usually the love you don’t see is the most genuine.
Hes exaggerating it. There were times back in the day when he wasnt talking to them. How is he cold and distant when he's been in his youtube videos since the beginning? You ask most nigerian dads to be in a video and i doubt they'd even give it thought. Their parents care about them, and that's what he's always displayed. Some people just sensationalize their experiences because they are so vain and have lost the ability to differentiate fake from reality.
I couldn't go a few days without cuddling my son and telling him I love him, & still take every opportunity to do the same with my parents. I feel so bad for ksi man
Let's see if you still cuddle him at 14 when he hits puberty. Just the sound of him eating food that you paid for will wind you up, and then when he hits 22 and has hopefully found his way in life, you'll be able to give him a pat on the back without grimacing.
I always end up here watching this video to comfort myself. It just gives me a feeling of comfort to know someone else is going through what im going through, I don't know why
@@D6CaSh109 Haha somebody's getting too assertive, at this point you're wasting your time and my time on top of that, So how about we end this little chit chat that's going on, Shall we?
When you grow up in an African household, this is very common unfortunately. A lot of African kids don’t have the best emotional response to other people because we’re not very in tune with our own emotions. This is common for many other cultures too. It’s sad.
damn bro i think ur just in love, but i get u. I grew up with ksi so it was hard to see, but u wonder why men dont show their emotions. He got clowned for this
This is makes me cry tbh, i have seen this guy now cried 2 times, one very long time ago on snap and now this, it's so rare to see him cry and that makes the moment even more valuable.
I personally think in KSI's mind, he wonders what his parents would be like if he didn't have all that money and fame, and seeing the distance between them all with it must certainly make him wonder, I know I sure as hell would. But maybe I am wrong, I'm sure they will figure it out eventually, I think some things that happen in life when you are younger can make it harder to act differently around the same people.
@@ZazaaEric sometimes materialistic shows of love aren't the same as emotional displays. For all we know a version of JJ could have grown up in Nigeria with lets say more loving parents and he would be happier in his self with less material success
Dont be fooled by this "always laughing = happy" fake persona, anyone can laugh, but deep down when you dont have purpose in life ur never gonna be truly happy
Yk to see one of my fav RUclipsrs since 2012 I’ve watched JJ i was into fifa and I loved him doing it and I still watch old videos of him playing it hurt to see a RUclipsr you have looked up too hiding his feelings youtube was his only way out but at one point it wasn’t but to play ultimate team and introduce you to other RUclipsrs JJ is the best for me he always will and I’ll always support him and what he does
I can really feel this! your parents are meant to be the people who love you unconditionally, show their love and support you no matter what... but most parents can't really fulfill that task... it makes me wonder if people actually know what they have to do to be worthy of becoming a parent and bringing a new person into this world!
As a Nigerian I understand this is one thing lacking in Africa households. Affection!!! I’m happy that my parents decided to break that curse. I hope KSI does the same. Ik it’s hard because the natural thing is to do the same thing as your parents. But finding the balance between Affection and discipline is something he will figure out.
A real one. Have been following him since I was a little boy and I don’t think I’ve ever seen him not be real. Sure he puts on a show for comedy. But he has always been sincere. Proud to be a fan.
This is exactly how I get emotional someone brings it out of me and I try to laugh it off but I’m breaking apart inside I try to laugh while the tears come down my face, I don’t want to have others see me sad anymore I’d rather keep that to myself.
You know KSI is genuine when he cries This man is genuine lad ffs He makes you happy when he laughs 🤣 He enjoys that most of his time But he is also a human
Crying in a Lamborghini is worthless when depressed. You won’t even realise what car you’re in when down bad, millionaires making millions can’t compare to a loving family.
this made me cry lmao. I haven’t really watched JJ much over his years on RUclips but I know his character well enough from what he shows to say that we can never tell what’s going on behind the curtains and it hurts my heart to see him cry like this. I wish I could give him a hug and just some support but he’s got a good group of friends who I hope are always there to listen to him if he needs it. ksi doesn’t deserve the hate he gets at all.
Dude that affects me to the core too, I never knew he struggled with that, I hope he finds that person out there that’ll give him that family feel he deserves. We all grow up with our own trauma. This man has done a lot to entertain and has probably left his feelings to the dust. Feel for you bro 👊
Same man.. i guess for me it was a bit less aggressive but the hug and the i love you or I'm proud of you is something I've never heard in my life.. not from parents not from relationships not from friends not anyone..
@@marcom238 your a fool for believing in fairy tales from thousands of years ago . What difference is me saying lightning is from Zeus than you believing in Jesus . Look around you … the world is a cruel nasty place . Whatever it is it is . Not whatever you think it is
Ksi needs a girl who will be there emotionally and will show him the loving he needs cause let’s not lie, all guys want a girl who will be there for us when we are feeling down and knowing they won’t go out and tell her friends but be there for you in those tough times
Yeah I grew up similar except it was my mom who was the cold, distant one. Thankfully my relationship with them has improved drastically in the last few years. I’m very grateful we made it through and I hope the same for JJ.
It’s the way i understand exactly how he feels. Oldest in an African immigrant household. He’s laughing as a coping mechanism, he’s laughing bc he cannot believe the fact that he isn’t able to have held those emotions up after years of dealing with it . And i feel the same way sometimes bc the moment someone goes to ask you about it, and you truely think about all the things you’ve ignored over the years that life sucks. You weren’t dealing as well as you thought and so you break down. It’s really sad, because so many people go through it and i really hope he knows he is loved by so many people and has so many people that will back him on anything.
For someone who lost their dad at 17 trust me boys no matter how fucked your relationship is, fuck your pride next time you’s see your dad give him a massive hug. Tomorrow is never promised
Yea no my dad abused my mom and my sisters. Put knives to his throat and threatened to kill himself, is a drug addict and manipulated everyone. I stopped loving him when I was 14 bc of what I saw him do to my sisters and me. I’m sorry for your loss but I pray everyday my dad dies so my niece doesn’t feel that pain. I pray everyday he dies bc my mom to this day cries bc she blames herself for letting him near us. He didn’t deserve any love and to this day he doesn’t
@@beepboop4016I honestly didn’t think I tear up from I only had my dad for a little and when I was 6 he said that I wasn’t his and now he also on drugs and I mean my mom was never any better she used to abuse me a lot and I remember one of her friends were staying with us and her kids were here as well and their mom never did anything when they would trash up our house all the time so it would always be me and my mom cleaning after them and one day she lost here shit cause she couldn’t do anything since they weren’t her kids and got a belt and took it out on me and beat me until I had welts and bruises all over my back, but she was normally always like that other times I fell asleep from pulling an all nighter with friends I had over back when I was like in 5th or 6th grade in elementary school and when I fell asleep she stomped through and woke me up and slapped me in the face so hard it echoed through the house and that was pretty much the start of PTSD. Now, if anyone screams or makes loud noise I freak the fuck out and I get anxious and nervous and I feel like my heart is beyond racing and it happened with my grandmother too. I was little playing spider man 2 back when it first came out and I deal with ADHD where I hyper focus and when I didn’t hear her she went into the room and came up behind me and smacked me so hard on both sides of my ears that my nose started bleeding and she was playing the old SpongeBob joystick game and when I asked if my turn she got mad turned around and threw it at my head and made me bleed and now I’m 24 and my mom is married and it’s good cause I really don’t have to deal with her too much but it’s just a lot of issues I have now because my family and most days I wish it never happen to me because I feel so fucked up mentally
Facing the same issue in the present i tried ending it all thinking i wasn't the son they wanted...maybe its true maybe its not...but JJ has given me a sense of relatability and the thought that someone is out there too facing the problems i am. We just gotta stay stronger and wait till the day we become parents and shower them with love we never got i guess. Love you all
I feel you man. It's not your fault, non of this is your fault. It's your parents or caretakers fault for not being loving and nurturing. I also deeply desire the love that I didn't get from my parents. Ig it won't happen idk. But it's not your fault. Please learn to love yourself. Do energy healing, counselling, therapy and stuff. Do not give up my friend. I'm so grateful for your existence. U matter a lot. God didn't bring you this far to leave u alone. U write your story. I love you ❤
My dude, I probably cry like once a year, maybe. And when I do, it's exactly like this. Shame and embarrassed and wanting to be literally anywhere else than where I'm at. And my own parents could absolutely be the topic that brings it out too. I know he's got African parents and I can't imagine what that's like but I think his/my generation has something to do with it too. I feel like most millennials grew up basically taking care of themselves. Something about that time frame between millennials and their parents, there was a massive connection lost and it's left us all damaged.
As someone who has grown up watching Ksi from the start of his journey into what he is now this was hard to watch bro seeing him show that side of him was upsetting but also I’m glad he got to let a small part of it out. I’m proud of you bro you’ve done what I dream off which is to make it possible so my parents don’t need to work or worry about money ever again. One day I’ll get there god willing. Love you man ❤
first time I teared upby a youtuber I can tell its real and he strugled but I am sure he is healing and he will find the lack of love he had since his childhood
God this made me tear up. As I feel almost the exact same way as he does with his parents. My parents have zero accountability as to what they’ve done or haven’t done in my life to affect me emotionally and physically.
Me and my brother and some of my friends were abused at a DayCare and growing up my parents almost beat me hard and now that I’m depressed I’m just like jj I feel no remorse at all.
I was always closer to my mum growing up because I thought my dad was cold but I was wrong I see everything he did was for a reason and every time he got really angry at me afterwards he would always make it clear that he loved me by hugging me and telling me so despite the mistakes I made now I get along with both of my parents equally…in different ways but I love them the same it’s a shame some people’s parents like jj don’t show their kids unconditional love mistakes or not
The way a father shows love is by providing. The money he earned all these years was for you not for him. He wanted you to differentiate from him and not have and live the same life that he did, hence why he told you to go be something in your life, to go do something in your life. Make yourself a something from a nothing and have ambitions, have goals that you strive, and take advantage of these opportunities that are gifted for you. Essentially, his Love for you was boundless by giving, but you were just blind to see it by his hardwork ethics and discipline.
Mate, fuck off. Providing for your child isn’t love. That’s just what you’re supposed to do as a father. You don’t deserve any credit for doing the bare minimum of your duty.
You don’t deserve credit for doing the bare minimum. Providing for your child is simply your duty. It’s what you’re just supposed to do as a father. That’s not love.
Even when he cries he laughs. Often the most outwardly happy people hold the deepest pain. You could see the outward happiness as a compensatory reaction
KSI found a new career : ruclips.net/video/QI5ny22vTTM/видео.html
Respect to the cameraman for basically giving JJ a therapy session
Fuck yeah nolesy
Who wouldn't it's jj!
@@FreshPrince-oc1luYou mean: "Who wouldn't." *DOT*
@@Aleksandr_Skrjabin You got it wrong. You know what I mean the grammar is what you disagree with and what I got wrong. Thanks for that.
@@FreshPrince-oc1lu Oh no the grammar is perfect you got, I mean that you specifically point on JJ, while he is no exception to other people, everybody deserves equal help,,
This is what happens when you bottle feelings up
Yeah man that sucks. You can clearly see it that he was holding all that and he was finally letting it all out.
Genuinely low iq dumbfks. Theres no way u all r this dumb. Crying like a bitch when nothing even happened to u, "bottling up feelings" thats what ur meant to do u pussies. All of you probably cry for absolute jack shit reason this modern day stupidity of feelings in men. Be objective ret ards
Wake up npcs
What happens? He becomes a successful man? A man doesn’t need a father to be up his ass that actually makes a boy soft. Be hard on your son and provide and he will be a better man. Let mom nurture.
@@arjenrobbed1294 A human being needs love from both parents, no nurturing mother and cold father, that's bs. Kids look up to their parents, they are their world to a certain point in their development, show no love to your kid, kid thinks they don't deserve the parent's love. How about we stop normalizing bad parenting, most people who don't get love from their parents become troubled adults.
@@andreiilie8257 You are 100% correct. I can tell from experience.
In 7 years of watching this man, i never actually seen him cry like that, it really got me emotional
@@bogadestroyer738bet u have -1 parents
Was it hard or soft or mushy ?
@@bogadestroyer738 you we're just angry and you have the right to be don't direct it on him tho
@@maul8384 its all of them 🤭
@@bogadestroyer738 we do love a good troll 😅
This is what favouritism does to a kid, as a kid he has always felt that they liked Deji more than him. He’s 30+ now and even to this day the kid inside him still craves for his parent’s validation and love.
I always feel like people need to understand that you should only bring a person to life when u r ready for it.
No, his father tried to raise him better and more disciplined, but instead KSI was being an absolute egotistical child and complaining his dad beats him but that’s just discipline many parents do that, no wonder why deji is way more liked
@mindolly.. Nope, there’s a difference. Obviously if it were his daughter then I would agree with you but son’s are meant to be disciplined and learn the value of hard work because they’re the ones who would be in charge of their households when they’re older as in the real world life is tough for men, there’s no reason to soften them up.
@@launcherstrike900you are twisted. Abuse is abuse you scumbag.
@mindolly.. totally agree! well said!
@@launcherstrike900what a mindless and ignorant comment
Damn I never knew his relationship with his parents was a touchy subject, he always seemed so happy
Probably exaggerated for the cameras he seems like a very nice guy in this. ruclips.net/video/qjlKe1duWkE/видео.html
Jj shouldn’t be complaining about those things, he doesn’t realize how fortunate he is
@@Bloodlinef4u r 7 yrs old bro
@@InvertedBread you probably are if that’s the only thing you can come up with
@Nuketou You realize that video takes place after the documentary right? You shouldn't be so quick to judge people.
@@vyshak4455 that video is way before
this takes the meaning of "you dont know what happens behind closed doors" to a whole new level because i remember when jj first started popping off he did q and a sundays with his family and by himself but the one with his dad u would think they were so close but that wasnt the case at all which was surprising
Being in a video with your son for the sake of views because you know it's bringing in a lot of money is different then showing your son love, touch and affection.
He hides his pain by laughing and allowing ppl to make fun of him. Hope he knows he's loved and appreciated. ❤
speed better
@bowskee 💀 speed is shit, wow he screams that's all he can do and u jus laugh at it😂😂
@@anshman21 who has more subs ?
@@bowskee ur probs under the age of 12, you'll never understand how good prime ksi was
@@anshman21 I was there at prime KSI and prime speed is miles ahead in entertainment
The way he tried to laugh it off says alot🥺
He's been doing it for years and his reflexes kicked in, sad to see it
Aww that means that the jokes do hurt him sometimes but he usually succeeds in laughing it off
@@cantthink3012 yeah. Hes been getting jokes from strangers for years n I'm sure that does a little bit but nothing compared to family and childhood.
@@behjat4106what was the point of crying? I didn’t really understand
@@Lxloncd2 to seem like he’s not actually upset.
ngl its hurts to see him cry because in camera in the outside world of him , we see he is happy and smiling and the inside is dark af, he even tried to look happy even he was crying 😢
That's the thing man, sometimes the most joyful people are sad inside, no one ever expected Robin williams to have depression when he was one of the most joyful people
Yeah fr that shit really fucking hurt me I always saw him well as you said happy guy but damn...I was not expecting this
Did anyone else notice how he tried to hide his tears behind his laugh and smile. This is a real thing that people need to understand even if we smile nobody’s ever really okay 😞💔❤️🩹
Damn that’s depressing.
Asked what his parents are like and the first thing that comes to his head is that his dad is cold and distant, says a lot
That’s how African dads are most of the time, that’s how men are raised they won’t show to much emotion. To be honest I feel his parents love him like crazy they just show it differently or else they wouldn’t provide for them how they did. I had the same thoughts towards my parents but realized they would do anything for me more then anyone else knowing that is enough I don’t need them to show their love because I know it. Which is what I think he needs. usually the love you don’t see is the most genuine.
True af man its just a different culture his parents were raised in@@jean-christdjelhiyahot4612
That’s how my dad was , doesn’t mean he doesn’t love me , action speaks louder than words, they’re just emotionally available
Hes exaggerating it. There were times back in the day when he wasnt talking to them. How is he cold and distant when he's been in his youtube videos since the beginning? You ask most nigerian dads to be in a video and i doubt they'd even give it thought. Their parents care about them, and that's what he's always displayed. Some people just sensationalize their experiences because they are so vain and have lost the ability to differentiate fake from reality.
His dad worked a crappy job and sent him to a private school.
I couldn't go a few days without cuddling my son and telling him I love him, & still take every opportunity to do the same with my parents. I feel so bad for ksi man
Yeah finally someone makes a phenomenal comment but you are right.
Bro is raping his own son
Let's see if you still cuddle him at 14 when he hits puberty. Just the sound of him eating food that you paid for will wind you up, and then when he hits 22 and has hopefully found his way in life, you'll be able to give him a pat on the back without grimacing.
@@keynesianeconomics4113 That sounds like your experience it isn't everyone's experience tho some parents don't treat kids like they are a burden
@@keynesianeconomics4113Let’s be honest, bro. You’ve never had a kid.
I always end up here watching this video to comfort myself. It just gives me a feeling of comfort to know someone else is going through what im going through, I don't know why
How low can you people get? Do you npcs not realise this is all an act?
@@AdamSed64 dude just shut the fuck up you're not cool
@@D6CaSh109 Haha somebody's getting too assertive, at this point you're wasting your time and my time on top of that, So how about we end this little chit chat that's going on, Shall we?
@@AdamSed64 dude you were the one who chose to reply and you wanna call me the NPC? 😂😂
@@D6CaSh109 First off, I destroyed you already on the other comment section, second, You had nothing else to say and yes you are a donkey.
When you grow up in an African household, this is very common unfortunately. A lot of African kids don’t have the best emotional response to other people because we’re not very in tune with our own emotions. This is common for many other cultures too. It’s sad.
Ong I feel like new gen African have to break this cycle
Fax I’m First Nations Cree in Alberta Canada
love him to bits, deserves the world and so much more. wish i could just give him a hug tbh.
damn bro i think ur just in love, but i get u. I grew up with ksi so it was hard to see, but u wonder why men dont show their emotions. He got clowned for this
@@LoveAndPositivity777 i grew up with him too
@@obvsaddi its crazy seeing how far he's come bruh, he's like a father to me. Raised me better than mine thats for susre
@@LoveAndPositivity777 jeez
@@LoveAndPositivity777uh
Jj is man that doesn't show weakness even when he cries he tries to cover it with laugh just like me
i also do it
This is makes me cry tbh, i have seen this guy now cried 2 times, one very long time ago on snap and now this, it's so rare to see him cry and that makes the moment even more valuable.
KSI hides alot of pain behind his hollow laugh
Respect man:
Staying true to who he is, and he is an emotional guy. He failed the try not to cry challenge as well 😢
KSI stands for Knowledge strength and “I never hugged my dad”- Callux
I personally think in KSI's mind, he wonders what his parents would be like if he didn't have all that money and fame, and seeing the distance between them all with it must certainly make him wonder, I know I sure as hell would. But maybe I am wrong, I'm sure they will figure it out eventually, I think some things that happen in life when you are younger can make it harder to act differently around the same people.
Same tbh and that's the sad part
Very good point
You can’t think like that when they sacrificed coming to the UK and sending JJ to the best schools he’s even said so before
Wadayatalkinbeet
@@ZazaaEric sometimes materialistic shows of love aren't the same as emotional displays. For all we know a version of JJ could have grown up in Nigeria with lets say more loving parents and he would be happier in his self with less material success
Damn seeing usually happy people cry don't be feeling right. Hope he finds the love he 's searching for.
Dont be fooled by this "always laughing = happy" fake persona, anyone can laugh, but deep down when you dont have purpose in life ur never gonna be truly happy
Yk to see one of my fav RUclipsrs since 2012 I’ve watched JJ i was into fifa and I loved him doing it and I still watch old videos of him playing it hurt to see a RUclipsr you have looked up too hiding his feelings youtube was his only way out but at one point it wasn’t but to play ultimate team and introduce you to other RUclipsrs JJ is the best for me he always will and I’ll always support him and what he does
He’s a hypocrite and coward.
@@shinsohitoshi425 one that’s doing better than you
@@jafetgtz8501 Notice how you used the present tense. There can be change to anything, nothing last forever.
"I'll support him and what he does" So you'll support him even for saying he loves Hitler?
I like how even when he was crying he was still laughing a little bit. That Made me Tear up of Joy and Sadness 🥹
I can really feel this!
your parents are meant to be the people who love you unconditionally, show their love and support you no matter what...
but most parents can't really fulfill that task... it makes me wonder if people actually know what they have to do to be worthy of becoming a parent and bringing a new person into this world!
Thank you for being vulnerable and open Jj.
As a Nigerian I understand this is one thing lacking in Africa households. Affection!!! I’m happy that my parents decided to break that curse. I hope KSI does the same. Ik it’s hard because the natural thing is to do the same thing as your parents. But finding the balance between Affection and discipline is something he will figure out.
A real one. Have been following him since I was a little boy and I don’t think I’ve ever seen him not be real. Sure he puts on a show for comedy. But he has always been sincere. Proud to be a fan.
I wanna hug JJ and say thank you for all that you've given us viewers. You're strong, you're awesome and the JJ fan base is only gonna get bigger.
This is exactly how I get emotional someone brings it out of me and I try to laugh it off but I’m breaking apart inside I try to laugh while the tears come down my face, I don’t want to have others see me sad anymore I’d rather keep that to myself.
Bro hides the pain with laughter 💔
watching JJ since almost 9 years now so watching him cry like that made get a bit teary eyed as well
When a man has alot of money but the love of his parents it breaks him he could never be happy 💔
Brooo I can't see him like this, I am tearing up !!
KSI is a real one, I genuinely like this dude, he's so like able and down to earth despite his immense fame and fortune, big respect to him.
You know KSI is genuine when he cries
This man is genuine lad ffs
He makes you happy when he laughs 🤣
He enjoys that most of his time
But he is also a human
he got us fans for life
Jj probably feels like mom and dad loves deji more and he didnt get back the love he wanted from his parents
Bro switches from laughing to crying faster than he switches from orthodox to southpaw 💀
Crying in a Lamborghini is worthless when depressed. You won’t even realise what car you’re in when down bad, millionaires making millions can’t compare to a loving family.
This dude is fine, he had a good childhood
Tf
@@erenjeager9081 no diddy
i felt so mixed while watching this scene cuz I felt Sad, Proud, Inspiring and was just amazed to see him add a bit of humour even when he's crying
Bro I’ve been watching JJ since 2013 and it’s crazy seeing where he is now. Hope he finds peace with his family
this made me cry lmao. I haven’t really watched JJ much over his years on RUclips but I know his character well enough from what he shows to say that we can never tell what’s going on behind the curtains and it hurts my heart to see him cry like this. I wish I could give him a hug and just some support but he’s got a good group of friends who I hope are always there to listen to him if he needs it. ksi doesn’t deserve the hate he gets at all.
You can tell that his coping mechanism with his emotions is humor. So relatable.
Every south asian Son can relate to this Dad & Son relationship.
Tell me.about it❤
Real men cry
Dude that affects me to the core too, I never knew he struggled with that, I hope he finds that person out there that’ll give him that family feel he deserves. We all grow up with our own trauma. This man has done a lot to entertain and has probably left his feelings to the dust. Feel for you bro 👊
the way he tries to laugh it off man
Same man.. i guess for me it was a bit less aggressive but the hug and the i love you or I'm proud of you is something I've never heard in my life.. not from parents not from relationships not from friends not anyone..
Him laughing while crying is sad af
I’m sorry JJ I feel ur pain man ❤️ stay strong brother
Stfu cringe guy . His dad gave him some snacks here and there like a moral
@@Commander-qw2ldIdk what you've been through but I hope Jesus would soften your heart and transform you by his perfect love.
@@marcom238 your a fool for believing in fairy tales from thousands of years ago . What difference is me saying lightning is from Zeus than you believing in Jesus . Look around you … the world is a cruel nasty place . Whatever it is it is . Not whatever you think it is
Ksi needs a girl who will be there emotionally and will show him the loving he needs cause let’s not lie, all guys want a girl who will be there for us when we are feeling down and knowing they won’t go out and tell her friends but be there for you in those tough times
Bit difficult enough to find a girl with pure intentions even without the clout.
Yeah I grew up similar except it was my mom who was the cold, distant one. Thankfully my relationship with them has improved drastically in the last few years. I’m very grateful we made it through and I hope the same for JJ.
im feel bad were here for you jj
i can relate to everything he feeels and went through ❤
It’s the way i understand exactly how he feels. Oldest in an African immigrant household. He’s laughing as a coping mechanism, he’s laughing bc he cannot believe the fact that he isn’t able to have held those emotions up after years of dealing with it . And i feel the same way sometimes bc the moment someone goes to ask you about it, and you truely think about all the things you’ve ignored over the years that life sucks. You weren’t dealing as well as you thought and so you break down. It’s really sad, because so many people go through it and i really hope he knows he is loved by so many people and has so many people that will back him on anything.
That man wanted to cry a lot more there, very sad.
Bro is so genius, cried for that amazon prime studios check.
JJ deserve more love...
Omg my heart is breaking! Such a tough topic clearly... 💔
For someone who lost their dad at 17 trust me boys no matter how fucked your relationship is, fuck your pride next time you’s see your dad give him a massive hug. Tomorrow is never promised
Yea no my dad abused my mom and my sisters. Put knives to his throat and threatened to kill himself, is a drug addict and manipulated everyone. I stopped loving him when I was 14 bc of what I saw him do to my sisters and me. I’m sorry for your loss but I pray everyday my dad dies so my niece doesn’t feel that pain. I pray everyday he dies bc my mom to this day cries bc she blames herself for letting him near us. He didn’t deserve any love and to this day he doesn’t
Completely understand I get it. But I actually reckon if u dies....u would be surprised when the tears start coming out.
@@francisonyekwereuzo1232 Bruh you read all of that and that is the conclusion you came up with
@@beepboop4016 damn bruh hope ur ok
@@beepboop4016I honestly didn’t think I tear up from I only had my dad for a little and when I was 6 he said that I wasn’t his and now he also on drugs and I mean my mom was never any better she used to abuse me a lot and I remember one of her friends were staying with us and her kids were here as well and their mom never did anything when they would trash up our house all the time so it would always be me and my mom cleaning after them and one day she lost here shit cause she couldn’t do anything since they weren’t her kids and got a belt and took it out on me and beat me until I had welts and bruises all over my back, but she was normally always like that other times I fell asleep from pulling an all nighter with friends I had over back when I was like in 5th or 6th grade in elementary school and when I fell asleep she stomped through and woke me up and slapped me in the face so hard it echoed through the house and that was pretty much the start of PTSD. Now, if anyone screams or makes loud noise I freak the fuck out and I get anxious and nervous and I feel like my heart is beyond racing and it happened with my grandmother too. I was little playing spider man 2 back when it first came out and I deal with ADHD where I hyper focus and when I didn’t hear her she went into the room and came up behind me and smacked me so hard on both sides of my ears that my nose started bleeding and she was playing the old SpongeBob joystick game and when I asked if my turn she got mad turned around and threw it at my head and made me bleed and now I’m 24 and my mom is married and it’s good cause I really don’t have to deal with her too much but it’s just a lot of issues I have now because my family and most days I wish it never happen to me because I feel so fucked up mentally
He still got DEJI and the SDMN and all his other friends
Feel bad for JJ man 😢…
Facing the same issue in the present i tried ending it all thinking i wasn't the son they wanted...maybe its true maybe its not...but JJ has given me a sense of relatability and the thought that someone is out there too facing the problems i am. We just gotta stay stronger and wait till the day we become parents and shower them with love we never got i guess.
Love you all
I feel you man. It's not your fault, non of this is your fault. It's your parents or caretakers fault for not being loving and nurturing. I also deeply desire the love that I didn't get from my parents. Ig it won't happen idk. But it's not your fault. Please learn to love yourself. Do energy healing, counselling, therapy and stuff. Do not give up my friend. I'm so grateful for your existence. U matter a lot. God didn't bring you this far to leave u alone. U write your story. I love you ❤
It's my first time see him cry.. Ahh It hurts 🥺
My dude, I probably cry like once a year, maybe. And when I do, it's exactly like this. Shame and embarrassed and wanting to be literally anywhere else than where I'm at. And my own parents could absolutely be the topic that brings it out too. I know he's got African parents and I can't imagine what that's like but I think his/my generation has something to do with it too. I feel like most millennials grew up basically taking care of themselves. Something about that time frame between millennials and their parents, there was a massive connection lost and it's left us all damaged.
Hard feelings for JJ❤
I just love JJ man .. no more no less,he needs it.
Awhh.. it makes me sad seeing others cry.
Never really seen this side to KSI. Highkey want to give him a hug.
Dads are cold. More distant and more severe. When he advices you or corrects you, you know it matters.
As someone who has grown up watching Ksi from the start of his journey into what he is now this was hard to watch bro seeing him show that side of him was upsetting but also I’m glad he got to let a small part of it out. I’m proud of you bro you’ve done what I dream off which is to make it possible so my parents don’t need to work or worry about money ever again. One day I’ll get there god willing. Love you man ❤
Oh man, i want to hug him so bad 😢❤
We love you JJ
This is how I hide crying I love jj woth everything
Damn, must be heart breaking as a parent to see you kid like this.
If you see deji now , he hugs ksi very often . Ig he also saw 5his documentary and felt bad for his brother and trying his best to make him happy
I’m glad I watched this. It really touched me.
Ah man I really want to give him a hug! 😢
Love your music
this almost made me cry too cuz i can sort of relate to this
Awww this is so sad. Came here from the roast haha
same
Me too. Was trying to find out what happened with his dad and the supposed slap video.
The switch of moods in this comment tho😅
Sad??? He should be grateful his parents seem like nice people. He’s way too privileged
first time I teared upby a youtuber I can tell its real and he strugled but I am sure he is healing and he will find the lack of love he had since his childhood
quite a good question by Kon to allow JJ to express his emotions to heal from it. I'm pretty sure Kon was the cameraman maybe not
God this made me tear up. As I feel almost the exact same way as he does with his parents. My parents have zero accountability as to what they’ve done or haven’t done in my life to affect me emotionally and physically.
jj imagined his mom hugging him and got emotional😢😢
here after the roast
Me and my brother and some of my friends were abused at a DayCare and growing up my parents almost beat me hard and now that I’m depressed I’m just like jj I feel no remorse at all.
I was always closer to my mum growing up because I thought my dad was cold but I was wrong I see everything he did was for a reason and every time he got really angry at me afterwards he would always make it clear that he loved me by hugging me and telling me so despite the mistakes I made now I get along with both of my parents equally…in different ways but I love them the same it’s a shame some people’s parents like jj don’t show their kids unconditional love mistakes or not
The way a father shows love is by providing. The money he earned all these years was for you not for him. He wanted you to differentiate from him and not have and live the same life that he did, hence why he told you to go be something in your life, to go do something in your life. Make yourself a something from a nothing and have ambitions, have goals that you strive, and take advantage of these opportunities that are gifted for you. Essentially, his Love for you was boundless by giving, but you were just blind to see it by his hardwork ethics and discipline.
Mate, fuck off. Providing for your child isn’t love. That’s just what you’re supposed to do as a father. You don’t deserve any credit for doing the bare minimum of your duty.
You don’t deserve credit for doing the bare minimum. Providing for your child is simply your duty. It’s what you’re just supposed to do as a father. That’s not love.
Bless your soul, JJ...
I love this man ❤️
Even when he cries he laughs. Often the most outwardly happy people hold the deepest pain. You could see the outward happiness as a compensatory reaction
A moment of realness for a hard shell KSI ❤
this is why i said in JJ's recent video that he has lost his words when Deji hugged him without saying anything just pure love from his brother.
im the exact same ngl never got physical touch or a love you so hits hard seeing hes the exact same
the cameraman is soo happy when he saw jj cry. He knew it would make the documentary so much better.
Bro there’s still a kid inside JJ that just didn’t get let go. I would love to talk to him for a day, such a cool guy bro
He was watching KSI Plays Akinator #1