What Happened to Simon?
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- Опубликовано: 12 окт 2020
- I’ve taken a few months off of being on camera. I’ve seen many comments from people asking what happened to me, and I understand. I kinda left without any word. I’m sorry for that. Let me tell you what’s been going on in my life.
For those of you that are frustrated by my lack of responding to other burning questions that you might have, please don’t let that frustration turn into anger towards me. It’s not that I’m not addressing speculations out of a disrespect towards you. If that’s your first guess, I’m telling you it’s the wrong guess: there are other reasons. There are some parts of my private life that I just don’t feel comfortable talking about yet.
I made this video because I did see that many were concerned about me. I wanted to make this video for them. And I wanted to just let people know that, even though this is a VERY huge transition in my life, I’m actually doing well in the face of it. I am doing better than I thought I would. I hope that’s the message people can walk away with, and not let their frustration out of curiosity taint that message. I’ll talk about other parts of my life only when I’m comfortable talking about them, and not a second before that, even under a deluge of pressure from others. I’m asking you: please be kind.
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For those of you that are frustrated by my lack of responding to other burning questions that you might have, please don’t let that frustration turn into anger towards me. It’s not that I’m not addressing speculations out of a disrespect towards you. If that’s your first guess, I’m telling you it’s the wrong guess: there are other reasons. There are some parts of my private life that I just don’t feel comfortable talking about yet.
I made this video because I did see that many were concerned about me. I wanted to make this video for them. And I wanted to just let people know that, even though this is a VERY huge transition in my life, I’m actually doing well in the face of it. I am doing better than I thought I would. I hope that’s the message people can walk away with, and not let their frustration out of curiosity taint that message. I’ll talk about other parts of my life only when I’m comfortable talking about them, and not a second before that, even under a deluge of pressure from others. I’m asking you: please be kind.
Hoping you are both well. This has been a hell of a year, take some time out. Also, you should pin this (your) comment.
Oh Simon, I'm so sorry your fans are being so horrible and intrusive. We love you and support you, and I'm sure the inconsiderate posts come from a place of genuine concern. Thank you for the message.
Simon and Martina, please PLEASE take your time and focus on yourselves. There are people out here worried for you both, your health, your wellbeing. But we are not owed anything, and especially nothing in a time frame. For me, you both have been such a light in my life, I've enjoyed your videos immensely and I just want you both to be well and happy, and to do what to need to do to get there. We love you both.
when it comes to personal stuff, only you guys can decide what and when to share, and we as followers need to respect your privacy :) thanks for the update
Sending you lots of love! You owe us nothing and we wish only the best for you.
Not gonna lie, this new appearance took me by surprise.
for real. i actually thought he had covid, judging from his weight loss and red eyes and, y'know, absence! but im glad that's not the case... people are saying he looks so thin but we're just so used to seeing him as a soft boi. he's sculpted now. look at that jaw! lol i just hope everything else is going well between simon and martina.
@@OrangeGraffiti I'd say more than that before in Japan he was sculpted as well, but now he looks extremely underweight. I mean you can see his collar bones. I hope he is healthy and didn't develop an eating disorder.
Simon looks unhealthily. He said he lost 50 pounds and that he now weights 169.3LB (according to the graph) and that is under weight for a man his size. I believe he's 6'4" he should weight no less then 182LB. Sure it's only 13 pounds underweight but it's still underweight. And the darkness under his eyes is also worrying.
But he is an adult we can't force him to do anything he doesn't want to do. I'm glad he made a video but he doesn't look okay.
@@phoebechan192 my husband is 6’3” and about 150. he’s always been a pretty skinny and lanky guy and it fits his body type, but he’s still underweight. he’s actually supposed to be trying to gain weight because he’s in the army and they have weight brackets you’re supposed to stay in according to your height.
simon seems like he’s skinner, yes, but i hope he knows that skinny/less weight doesn’t mean healthy. the weight loss sits on him differently so while my husband seems proportional with that weight, it looks as if simon is too skinny for his body type. his eyes and face and overall demeanor look different. i hope he’s not getting depressed and i hope he’s eating well.
Me too - if he’s healthy it’s fine but it did surprise me a bit too.
No, Simon does not look different because he lost weight. In the Fudgy Introduction video he looked skinny but happy.
okay, at this point I don't care about what is happening between Simon and Martina. I just want them to be happy whether together or separately.
Please be healthy and happy ❤️❤️
Maybe, but that was in August. He looks like he's lost even more weight since then.
he looks emaciated
wait they broke up ?
Did they??
@@LittleMissSaudade Nobody knows because they haven't said and I think most people hope they haven't.
I just hope BOTH of you are okay. Take care of yourself, it's so important in these crazy times.
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Guys I think we are witnessing a man who has had a complete breakdown and is trying to find the way out. He will be ok it just takes time to get over the trauma of going through it
Exactly my thoughts. He's using logic and education to work through it. Which is good and can help him. I wish him the best.
I won't lie, the weightloss looked scary. Because it's a big difference from what we were so used to. I'm glad it was healthy and intentional weighloss. I'm glad you're doing well.
@@Vashtiian He lost 50 pounds over a year. That’s less than a pound a week. That IS the definition of healthy weight loss.
Nah, this is what happens after a devastating breakup. You have trouble eating and sleeping and for some exercise is the only way to distract yourself from the pain. I've been there and recognize it easily.
It looks about as unhealthy as it looks when someone does keto tbh
@@Vashtiian Honey, don’t pretend like you know anything about these people. Just because he finally made a video doesn’t give you the right to preach on his behalf.
The difference in voice tone and mellow personality is what surprised me the most, but enjoyed the glimpses of what we've known or seemed to know of "Simon." It's a bit off-putting and bizarre like an alternative universe, just sharing my thoughts, and he clearly states it in the video. I'm interested to see the new content and change in lifestyle you've discovered because I'm very intrigued by this new aura you've developed. Seriously hope for the best for both of you because I've enjoyed your content and personalities for years!
Yes... im concerned. It looks like a major mood disorder. :( Im praying to God, that Simon gets closer to him... when simon said "the gods," i was a bit disturbed.
@@Cassy858 Why did "the gods" disturb you?
@@RowleyFan2 for people in the more popular religion of Catholicism, we believe in only one God. That’s not to say it’s true, but that could be what that person is saying. They might not believe in multiple Gods and other religions, but I don’t know this person personally of course. Simon might have changed his religious beliefs in his self journey and might now believe in multiple Gods, or none at all. I think that if that’s what Simon wants and needs, it’s important, and we shouldn’t be worried about him because of his beliefs on this subject. I think what’s more important is sticking by him. Him using the term “Gods” is... not a reason to be worried. Clearly, there are more things to be worried about in this video than his own personal beliefs.
@@Cassy858 lol I think you are being a bit over dramatic and that’s coming from a Mormon 😂
Simon is almost 40 years old, I can’t believe it was yesterday I was watching a young university grad couple conquer Korea. I almost forgot that I grew up with them and aged with them because I’m 42 and I’ve changed tremendously when I hit 40. Simon is not that same young man full of energy jumping up and down and making childish but funny jokes anymore. It’s not him anymore and I’ve come to realize that. Martina is still that bundle of funny energy and I’m sure she can find a co-host to bounce jokes off of and do challenges and food tours when covid starts to end. Simon not talking about Martina could be just a formality as they get their divorce finalized he doesn’t want to say anything or can’t at the moment (insert law mumbojumbo here) I’m just gonna live in their old videos remembering I turned to EYK during hard times just to laugh and be happy when I was going through some shit. anyways dude good luck to ya the rest of the way
So you GREW UP on 2 strangers YEARS younger than you? ok. How sad lol
sorry for asking but...I´m from Spain, and I also watched their videos for the past years, did the divorce?? I was looking for the reason they didnt appear together anymore so maybe here got the answer...
Same, subscribed when I was in high school and tuned into each video religiously and now I’m 30 😢
@@moeali697 no, dude. she just said she's two years older than them, lmao. do the math.
@@moeali697parasocial relationships are a thing bro 🙄
This feels like talking to the Other Mother in Coraline. He looks and sounds like Simon, but something is off. I really do hope he is happy and taking care of himself, but this video really unsettled me. I’ve been watching a long time and I truly wish both him and Martina the best.
We perceive it as 'off' because we were used to his more spontaneous side. But like he addressed in this video he's a lot more calmer now and this is what we're seeing which is absolutely fine
@@MariposaNudrath this. He’s just more zen - meditation is so good for you and you get more chill when you actively practice it. I see no new Simon, no different one. He’s just way more relaxed. I think it’s a bit unfair to compare him to a scary villain in a movie... and kind of rude thou I know you’re just concerned. Coming from experience with severe mental instability and practicing meditation, I’m pretty sure this is all good things and you shouldn’t worry - I’m a long time fan too 🙂
He seems calmer. I feel like meditation may have helped him some.
He still has that humor tho. Simon jokes never get old 😂
I feel the exact same way :( i do wish the best for them though both of them seem like very mindful and kind people
he says he’s happy but his face is so sad :(
I agree
you people are gross
it feels like he is trying to convince himself of the things he is saying. I dabble in meditation myself and one thing it does not do is give you dead fish eyes. it's like he's existing but not living. this happened to my neighbour after he got married and needless to say they not doing so well. but ask him anything and his responses almost verbatim to Simon's. Oh Simon ,salaam and peace be with you.
As someone who has been that kid wedged between two parents in the middle of a divorce I understand what you mean, but at the same time what they need from us isn’t people saying, “it’s a divorce, stop beating around the bush!” And bla bla bla like so many people are doing. We need to support them. We need to let them know that we’ll be there throughout the troubles and pains, we’ll be there even if it does end in the worst. They’re doing their part by keeping it civil regardless of how simple or complex it is; we need to do our part and let them come to terms with whatever’s going on personally, and let them decide how to address it from there.
@@mariyamunguia we people were watching them for years and support them with money a lot of times, we are concerned as we should be
With the kitchen background Simon kinda looks like babish.
i was watching babish while this notification popped up lol, was a bit odd lol
He look like tenzin for legend of Korra lol but I can see babish too
Aha he does a little doesn't he!
@@Littleladyduck imagine a tenzin/babish mash up Halloween costume. 🤣
Plus the soothing voice too!
All I can say is Simon did indeed develop one of those breathy "namaste" voices.
lmaaao
It just sounds like he's being more natural now. Most people don't talk the way they do in videos. Our favorite content creators are not all hyped up all the time in real life. He seems more genuine. And he's gone through a lot. This is a good change in my opinion.
Why do you need to comment this on every video? Your desire for attention is annoying.
@@rbz8051 People also don't talk like the way he's talking in this video. I'd say this is less natural.
@@rbz8051it sounds the opposite of natural, it sounds very controlled.
we dont know what happend behind the scenes but a split from someone you shared your whole life with is devastating. its understandable that he looks sick, tired, depressed etc. he is trying hard to be okay and thats how he should be. its hard and painful and i really hope you find peace Simon!
They broke up?! When did that mention that?
@@Colmbaz they haven't lived together in over a year, don't post anything together etc. People have known for a while and they also posted it on all their social a while ago so It's official. U can see the statement on their split on both ig and fb
This isn’t the first video Simon has made where he had to be a more serious. It’s natural to use humor as a deflection, so it makes sense he’d deflect the “questions” regarding their relationship. They made content based on something they shared and loved... travel and food. Now they’ve been thrusted back into their home country, and re-acclimate to western culture. Sure there could have been struggles we will never know of, and that’s how it should be. As a long time viewer, there is a sense of unease watching the drastic transition since they first took a break then they came back only to say they’ve left Japan to come
Back to Canada.
After reading all the comments so far, I’m with the majority that you should do what makes you both happy. It’s okay to take a step back... and even a farther step back if need be. No one should make you feel pressured to disclose information regarding your personal lives you’re not comfortable sharing. The community you both built and have shared with will have their own opinions, and to each their own.For now, please continue working on yourselves and each other. You both have a loving community that just wants the best for you both. Much love and stay safe.
Well said. I fully agree
Well said 👏🏽 ditto
They have to re-acclimate to Canadian culture, or more specifically Southern Ontario culture, not "re-acclimate to western culture".
I get where people coming from in the comments, Simon does seem weird/off, but just consider this - Simon has made it clear in previous videos (particularly the tattoo one) that Martina was his whole reason for living. Now it seems he is genuinely trying to find reasons to live for himself, and become less codependent. Getting to know yourself and your own mind is scary. Good for Simon for having the strength.
Can't agree more!
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That’s cool.... as you tag along 1.3 million people for half a year-without a single true update who’ve provided your means in which you can choose to take time out to “find yourself.”
@@ChoochooseU it's a youtube channel, they haven't promised you their first born in return for views
@@ChoochooseU They made content. You chose to watch, if you gave them anything, that's your choice. They. Owe. You. Nothing. You don't have ownership of them.
Watching this again after the "big news" and I'm so sad. Feels like I lost something. Not sure how to explain this feeling of grief. I started following them when they were in Korea posting the FAPFAPs and WANKs, and now... Idk I just feel lost. I hope they will be ok. Whether individually or separately. I guess it's the end of an era. Thank you for all the adventures you shared with us. 💔
I feel the same way. I'm so sad too. Simon and Martina really have a special place in my heart.
Me too.
wait what big news ?!?!? what happened ?!
@@KellysShrimp aw man. Honestly these two were so perfect for each other. This just doesn’t feel right. I think covid really messed things up for a lot of people.
Why did they split up ?
The news of them splitting up, got me really down today 😢😢😢😢
Where did you hear this
@@besje1991 check their IG post or Community tab.
I had a feeling this would happen. Wishing them both the best
@@amiesparkle00 lol wut? How do you know that?
Is there such thing as a perfect relationship? I never thought in a million years that they'd be separated. :(
1. I've watched Simon and Martina for 10 years. There is no one in the world that Simon loves more than Martina, and there is no one in the world that Martina loves more than Simon. Over 10 years that kind of thing is not something you can fake.
2. Martina's condition is something that most couples never have to deal with. It's a really difficult situation no matter how positive they try to portray themselves on social media. They wouldn't need to "build a ladder" if everything were peachy all the time.
3. These are 2 of the most compassionate, emotionally available, and optimistic people on the platform, if not the planet.
4. Simon and Martina are adults who have lead successful careers. They can handle making difficult decisions.
That being said, I think any fan can draw their own conclusions without prying it from Simon and Martina's unwilling mouths. They're clearly going through a hard situation. Instead of getting angry at them for not telling us everything, we can support them knowing what kind of people they are. Maybe they'll tell us when they feel ready. I wouldn't want to make them share if they weren't.
This ^^^^^^^^
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Exactly🙌🙌🙌🙌
agree! true fans will support them no matter what happens
finally someone on their right mind in this comment section!
Is like seeing completely different person, not only he looks different but sounds different.
@Bos Tech (*o*) No u didn’t!
I miss how he was. It seems like when people loose weight they lose this cheery side of them. Kind of like this influx of ‘confidence’ makes they appear cold or standoffish
That's what I thought when he said he didn't get the "namaste voice" - sure sounded like he did to me haha
@@_princessmatcha yeahhh
@@_princessmatcha or he is making good changes in his life...
Man, not a single mention of Martina in this vid.
I know right. Even Martina didn't mention anything about him
@@stellahmoon wait how do u know?!
@@stellahmoon why tho???
@@coveruplies They didn't say exactly why and it's probably best not to ask. All that was posted is that they're on different paths now.
bruh it's all g in the h as long as you don't announce you've joined scientology or some shit
Ha. No, I've not joined anything. I'm just really into mindfulness and the science of wellbeing
@@eatyourkimchi actually more people should be doing this especially during these challenging times; mindfulness helps with anxiety times a billion.
@@lissetteamparan7 Mindfulness never helped me, but I'm happy it works for so many.
@@yvwinter Just curious why it did not work for you. I like to hear all perspectives.
Hey, don’t be rude about others religion! Respect!
This gives me such a weird/off vibe. I really hope he's doing well, but the way he's talking reminds me of how I would say I was feeling when I had an eating disorder. He's 6'4, being 170 pounds feels pretty thin... I don't know this just worries me more rather than reassures me.
Presa Kakeya THIS. this whole video was concerning af, and really reminded of my own eating disorder. I basically was in this same “zen zombie” state and spoke about it in similar ways.
I swear I thought he was gonna say he is going under chemo. He looks like my pts when they start chemos
Yeah, it’s like the extreme weight loss coupled with noticeable dark circles under his eyes makes him seem kinda unwell imo 😞. I dunno, this summer my brother got a divorce and his whole lifestyle changed and now constantly is telling everyone how great his new life is and how happy he is. But it feels kinda forced. I guess I hope Simon and Martina are good, but I’m pretty sure they are separated.😣
Yup. I agree. Immediately when I saw this it reminded me of old pictures and clips of myself before I recovered from anorexia and orthorexia. I'm incredibly concerned because I'm not sure if Simon would even have necessary help to recover
As someone who has followed Simon & Martina since the early days of Kpop Music Monday, seeing Simon's dramatic new look and way of speaking is a bit shocking. But I sincerely wish all the best for both of them and hope they come out of this even stronger than before!
I am legitimately shocked!!!!
Same! It’s an intense change but I just hope they do the best for them!
@@zzmc3671 SAME! I began following back when they were teachers in that tiny apartment.... I even have a signed cd for my donation to the studio in Seoul... I haven’t watched them for a few years and my sister, also a fan, said you need to check out S&M... I’m seriously thinking they are separated. As someone who also has a chronic and incurable illness, it took a toll on my marriage and after a decade, we split. I always felt a kinship with this couple and pray I’m wrong. Either way, I just want them to be happy with their lives... RUclips and that crazy schedule could not count forever... especially when you have chronic diseases. Bless them both and I sending love.
I just hope that you and Martina are adjusting and living in whatever way makes you the happiest. I'm glad to hear that you have been able to visit more with your family, it's important to be able to keep that connection. I've been watching the two of you since very early on and have always loved your channels and the two of you. Though it seems like we know you so well the truth is that we see what you show on your channel, and that's the way it should be. You are not tv characters, you are people with real lives, real emotions, and real events that happen. And you are entitled to your privacy. Of course I hope that one of the couples I look up to as couple goals is doing well. But there is nothing that either of you need to share with us that you don't feel 100% comfortable and ready to tell us. And no, I am not assuming there is an issue with you and Martina. But I know a lot of people have jumped to that. I think a lot of people have forgotten how many huge life things have happen to the two of you. Martina's father passed away, Spudgy passed away, Martina's EDS has been getting more difficult, a move to a whole other country that they hadn't planned on making, possible job change, a terrible virus causing lock downs, etc. That is a hell of a lot to deal with in such a short time, give them a break. Hope your arm heals quickly! *hug*
.... villain arc?
Sometimes when our lives feel out of control, we try to control every little thing about ourselves...
Oh that is *so* true
100% agree. I recently had a baby and to do that during a pandemic omg my home has never been this clean and I've started stressing out if everything isn't in its correct spot >.
Yup.
This video is just so...strange? I don’t know. It feels like I’m watching someone totally different. I’m glad Simon feels good but this will take some getting used to. I hope him and Martina are ok...
Yeah...it’s very obvious now that the Chanel is a lot different then it was in Japan. Super sad, as I didn’t think I would move away from them, but it’s looking more and more likely. Still love them and hope they are doing what they need
@@EyesRPrettyDarnAweso I had to go watch one of their old videos to make me feel better lol
@@EyesRPrettyDarnAweso people do change and evolve - thus is life
Neither of them have been wearing their wedding rings for a while now.
They are over.
@@BlueSkyeDays. wow this broke my heart
Is it just me or does he looks sick ???
Well he lost a lot of weight (which of course is making his face sharper and he doesn't use bauty filter to make it look soft) and he broke his arm a week ago, which will be still painful (maybe he still has to take drugs, too). So yeah, he looks different, but it is not neccessary meaning anything bad
keep in mind during covid some will gain weight but some will also lose it. not saying that is the only reason but covid and being inside does cause weight loss. especially if you dont have the habit of eating when you are bored. if you aren't prone to that you can lose so much weight
well, it's official now. still wish both of you guys the best!
This is bizarre. It reminds me of my 7 year relationship ending and suddenly I didn’t understand who my partner was anymore. It was like he was a different person and I never actually knew him. Strange times...
THIS like I'm respectful of their privacy but I completely feel this it's like they left one way and returned another, it's not a bad thing per say but it's definitely taken me back a step
Yeah I feel that. It’s like when my ex was breaking up with me, as I was looking at her she just seemed like an entirely different person than the person I saw the day before. And that’s exactly what it is. It’s them moving on, they change, their interests change etc. Life goes on with or without you all you have to do is adapt
@@glossymilk2797 life moves on and you can never go back, that’s for sure.
Yeah I know what you mean.... I feel a bit empty ...a bit sad and confused. But, I wish all well 😐.
Girl the exact same has happened to me. Looking upon the person who broke up with me, I just don’t recognise them. I feel the same with Simon right now but I understand that this is just how life works sometimes. I’m still gonna support both of them dearly 😭💖
I can’t get the idea of Simon as Tenzin from Avatar out of my head. Thanks guys lol
Right! It would be the perfect cosplay!
Holy shit you’re right
Hahahaha yassss
Or adult aang
OH MY
I legit feel that Simon & Martina are not together anymore, which if that is their choice I absolutely support it, they don't owe ANYONE to stay together for the sake of a channel... I know its negative to talk like this but it just seems that way, Martina is with her mom, Simon seems like he's in a new apartment... the cryptic pinned comment. I get it, change is coming... Just hope both of you take care during hard times. We love you no matter what.
@psychologie10 based on their insta posts, Martina has the Meemers
I agree with you, sadly. No rings, (which could be explained with other reasons like lost weight, need new ones) seemingly in different living spaces, never seeing them together, etc.
@@SarahRsache6644 tbh at this point it's way too obvious even for someone with bad observing skills
@@kaguyahioguu12 that’s what makes me frustrated, it’s obvious. so just come out with it. share your guys’ separate channels, we will follow and go from there. we are not dumb, and it’s a little insulting to treat us as such.
@@SarahRsache6644 Fudgy even seems sad...
He's had a serious burnout. This much is obvious. He isn't well mentally and it shows. I wish him the best in his journey.
@@MissAyame89 I know I just saw it but DAMN it still slaps me in the face
@@MissAyame89 I know. Doesn't change the fact there's obviously something wrong on top of that.
@@taynaradias5123 right. I assumed as much for MONTHS. It was obvious really. But it does suck. Even more so for them I'm sure. But we were brought into their lives because of their channel and it's like damn... they came to an end after so long.
Imagine your life on the phone and on youtube 24h a day. Of course it has to come a day he would decide to get his live for himself and with time for himself. I dont find any rare with this. As he said he is finding him self. This is offline time life. The best quality time we have 😍. Lets wish him the best and not imagine things!
Well I am WILDLY uncomfortable...wish you all the best moving forward dude...
Mood
Lol it's not about you or anyone else other than S&M. That's the whole point
For a minute there I thought you were gonna sell us Herbalife
I laughed way too long at this comment... but the vibe was exactly this... i kept waiting for the other shoe to drop
😅
Omfggggg 😂😂😂😂
B R U H . I thought the same ; _; Sorry Simon lol. The vibe was just so THAT. Guess we rly are so used to the Simon before.
😂😩😭😂☠️
this is really unsettling, like i understand but also, i don’t.
I don't want to speculate on your personal life, I've been watching you for so many years I would feel like I was judging my friends. But for some reason I got really bad vibes from this video. Even if you said "I'm so happy now, I'm so in shape" I feel like something is not right. I hope you're getting all the help you need, the old Simon might had been less shredded, but he sure was much happier.
Maybe this is his real happy face and the exeggarated one we've seen until now was to one he put up. This hypeness comes from surprrssing issues inside. Maybe he is ok.
you literally can't tell when anyone's 'truly happy' though, because you cannot mindread. i feel like just bc he's changed from years ago (like a normal person) you think something's wrong, despite the fact you do not know this man at all.
same its like tallking about being ok but looking drepressed
@@akirashock-land I really hope it is his "real happy face". I do. I have my doubts but I still hope he's ok after all
Honestly watching them religiously for years when they were in Korea, but having not watched them recently... I immediately thought he was meditating a lot before he even said it. Simon was always a bit high energy and it wouldn’t surprise me if he was going through some shit... when you meditate a lot you just get more zen. Like I’m so surprised that everyone is freaked out... ??? RUclipsrs continually show how fucked their well-being gets doing RUclips so good for him to chill tf out and step away
What happened to Simon: he lost weight, got a puppy, got in two car accidents, is super zen, and won't address the real elephant in the room.
Thank you for the TLDR! :)
I get that they don't want to talk about it but this is kinda weird and uncomfortable
@@_swesters_ what have I missed :(
What's really going on...?
Yep... I feel kind of patronized.
This is one of those drop everything to watch this moments lol
FOR SURE, im halfway in a zoom meeting at the moment
@@wondersoulz I just got my daughter to fall asleep so I'm watching this with subtitles so she doesn't wake up lol
EXACTLY I DROPPED MAKING DINNER FOR THIS
I just left a good live stream.
@@FoxxyWhiteTiger same 😆
It’s been a while since I’ve watched EYK but I got the news today about the split and I’m upset as I grew up with EYK during the earlier kpop days. I hope you and Martina are well and keeping safe but more importantly happy and healthy. Thank you for the years of content you two provided for us, and I await your solo content if you wish to continue this path. Stay safe, stay healthy, and stay happy! We love you both.
years ago when i first time see simon and martina i thought they were like bestfriend ,and not on romantically relationship they just dont radiate that romantic vibes( for me),i cannot believe when i watched them more and realize they are spouse and i like how they more like friends ,friends like to be together right?but to hear this news is make me sad too ...if Simon and Martina read this i hope they found their inner peace and happiness
Whoa!!! It's been a minute since (few years) since I checked this account. They split up?! Maaannn that sucks. There was a period years ago where I was fascinated by the whole Korean culture and found this channel and watched regularly. Even more so proud to have learned they came from the same.city I reside. (toronto). I've missed out on soooo much.
There's so much pain in his face. I hope everything is okay.
You see pain? I actually see peace, he did said he is feeling pretty good
@@lizcalva914 Same. I see peace.
@@lizcalva914 if that's peace, holy shit I'm perfectly ok with my crippling anxiety. Like, I know it's a video, it's nothing but a fragment of a bigger picture... but whatever it is that bigger picture it doesn't sound like heaven
@@lizcalva914 I don't know it's something about his eyes. He just looks like he has been through a lot.
They’re definitely going through a divorce and he’s definitely not okay with it.
I feel like a friend coming clean but still holding information to not worry me.... more like “yes this is happening but don’t worry it’s under control,”when it’s not... whatever is happening may all good karma/positive energy/blessings be towards both of you.
Whatever trouble they're having, let them deal with it on their own. Leave it outside of youtube. If they want to talk about it, then they'll talk about it. Give them time.
Yes he told us nothing!!
I think this video left me with more questions than I had before I watched it 🙃
Questions about meditation and exercise I'm guessing :D
@@eatyourkimchi questions aside, I'm just glad ya'll are doing ok. 💚
@@eatyourkimchi I am really curious about the meditation you learned. You seem like a different person, which is totally okay as long as you are good with yourself! People will probably be confused by it, but you gotta take care of yourself even if it changes you.
True... Did they broke up ...
@@DARKINBLADE. If they don't want to tell us they don't have to. Together or seperate, I want them to be happy and healthy.
I respect it. I'm moving into my mid-30s and my life is taking a whole reset. Glad you guys are choosing yourselves. We'll see you when you're ready. Or if.
If you choose a path that means we never see you in this way again, you've given us a lot and we're grateful.
I was not going to comment but I actually felt frightened watching this. There is something deeply disturbing about human beings when they obviously are not okay, but they are putting on an act as if it a play and the show must go on. He is clearly not mentally okay, and before he said he lost the weight because of his own desires I thought he was suffering from a medical issue. Im just so disturbed because they have put on a strong face for over a decade, and for the first time I think ive seen from them they are cracking under the pressure. I hope they can financially support themselves without youtube, because right now I think the last thing they need to be doing is trying to put on a fake face of being okay.
I 100% agree!
@yulyu he’s fasting?
So true. I 100% support anyone to change their life for the better, but this looks and feels so different. Almost "cult-like". I'm not saying that they joined a cult, but that the way of speaking so subdued and the way he looks physically is very disturbing.
@pontevicks What a terrible thing to say. That's her husband that you're speaking so disrespectfully about.
I think we should be more respectful of whatever they/he are/is going through. I feel like they haven’t made a direct video touching on it because they’re human and probably still figuring a multitude of things out. If he seems odd in this video it’s probably because he is recovering from the difficult year/changing. We have to trust in his ability to use the resources in his life to take care of himself. I appreciate this content and support Simon in his journey toward self wellness
Well said
I agree. If they are having an issue with their relationship (time apart, breakup, etc.) it might be too raw and painful to talk about, or perhaps they are trying to work it out and don’t want to give the community sadness if they get back together, or hope if they don’t. While I would like to know what’s going on, I would much rather them take time to deal with things in their own way and announce it one way or the other when they are 100% ready.
This video was really unsettling. This doesn’t feel right.
You will hopefully understand it in future! I hope you find this feeling earlier than later!
I kinda understand where she's coming from. I'm really happy for Simon, and I'm sure he's fine! But since he gives such a different aura, and you haven't seen the gradual change, it's natural to feel unsettled. For me it's my trauma that does it, but it can be many things.
We are not used to seeing him like this that's why :) but I noticed that they haven't been together in a video in a while. Am I missing something? Are they still together??
He is growing. People change, and he is doing what is right for himself. Change is hard to get used to at first.
god I felt sooo bad for thinking the same. I'm getting really uneasy. It's not even "what" he is saying, I agree with that. It's definitely him.
ok as someone who regularly goes on meditation retreats and is passionate about neuroscience, you somehow made these legitimate topics sound super creepy and culty
Especially....because....he....speaks....like....super slow. As if he is being spoon fed words and sometimes when he speaks his eyes do these weird glances as if even he doesn't believe what he is saying and there were other times when he spoke and his pitch would rise after making a statement on his journey, as if he again, is in denial.
He definitely fell off the rails. He looks worse even now. I feel bad for that pup, because Simon got as a coping mechanism, its very very obvious. This guy DOES NOT like being alone. And alone is how one makes true change.
agreed.
Totally! So creepy.
No wedding ring. Elephant in the room? You and martina. Hoping nothing but the best.. but no wedding ring. You said we were wondering about your hand, led us to believe it was your ring finger but then just continued on with your broken hand. Simon and Martina, I wish you both the best. Been watching you since 2009 and it truly, truly breaks my heart.
Did they divorce ? Break up?
@@animecuteperson1 I think they made an Instagram post saying they're separated
@@dayanaandrade2930 Thats sad. I am surprised. But hope the best for them
Umm, is it just me, but did he totally have that namaste voice? It felt weird, like I was having a convo with a cult leader and I just wanted to back away and run for the exit.
Yeah pretty much.
My first gut reaction was wow he looks and sounds like a monk
Yeah it immediately weirded me out. I thought he was joking to start with.
My first thought when he brought that up😂
In all fairness, maybe the “weed” reference wasn’t a joke.
There’s no war in ba sing se
underrated comment 😂
Okay I was feeling down reading through all the comments and then I stumbled upon this gem 😂
This comment cured my depression 😂
Def kool aid vibes
Omg 😂😭
I'm sorry dudes. He's literally not wearing his wedding ring in this. It's pretty obvious. Sorry :(
the ring probably just doesn't fit anymore due to his weight loss
@@bebop2523 resizing takes an hour at any Jeweller, and Martina stopped wearing hers.
@@bebop2523 He is right... I just checked. Martina isn’t wearing her ring in newer videos either
They just confirmed on instagram. It feels weird, like if my cool uncle and aunt had split up...well, i hope they do well and be happy in their lifes. They bring a lot of joy to others so i hope they have a lot of it in their lifes.
Damn you were right
This was a hard video to watch. It just gave me vibes that you’re really pushing yourself to be happy. Maybe you actually are though. It’s heartbreaking to see you two apart and for you to not even mention her name. I understand finding yourself and taking time...I just. Im sad. Martina is your family too. I don’t understand the full situation. I hope you both find happiness.
I have a feeling she’s not his family anymore, I’m 100% getting “we’re divorcing but not talking about it till it’s over” vibes from this and their lack of content over all(and especially when you factor on that the VERY little content they have put out, they aren’t together or even mentioning each other)
why is everyone assuming they divorced? Simon has always made it clear that he lives because and for Martina. I believe he has reached a point in his life where he's finding other reasons to live. It doesn't mean him and Martina aren't together.
@@ccxbear17 The rings
@@_jolie_ my parents don't wear their rings all the time tho and they're still married?🤷🏻♀️ it's fine if simon and martina divorced but I don't like that ppl keep assuming things when simon and martina haven't said anything.
@@_jolie_ my parents never wear their rings
Something is so off with Simon's energy in this video.. Its very.... idk how to describe it.. Concerning? Something in his eyes tell a different story than what his words are saying. .. I hope they're both ok.
For the people who are demanding explanations, this is from the community tab:
"Hello everyone,
we wanted to address some of the confusion going on with our new video format, but truthfully, we are going through a difficult time. Currently, we’re both taking the time to focus on the path of mental well being and good health. We’re hanging out with our family and friends, and re-adjusting to life in Canada. Despite our struggles, we are honestly cheering each other on and focusing on positivity. We’d really appreciate you all understanding that we need our privacy regarding the details of our personal lives. We hope we can share some videos with you that can bring you joy, whether they be about Fudgy the Golden Retriever or home-cooking in our family’s kitchens. We’re still going to share bits and pieces of our lives with you all, and continue to try and model positive behaviour, despite what life throws at us. We’re not perfect, we’re still human, but we’re trying our best. -Simon and Martina (and Fudgy and Meemers)"
Now let's continue to cheer on both Simon and Martina ❤
Thanks for sharing, for some reason this video made me more concerned and its not only the way he looks.
Every couple needs time apart to reconnect to friends and family after only really having each other for years and need to focus on their own mental health. Its our place to just cheer them on and wish for the best without demanding explanations.
@@darechick0894 Agreed. I think this will be good for them as a couple and in the mean time we still get great videos =D
I thought they got a divorce 😭. I’m happy that they’re still together. The grind isn’t worth it when you’re dying inside.
So, they sugarcoated their divorce?
BIG OOF-
Happy you’re doing well Simon. Change is all part of life and necessary to become the best versions of ourselves. Keep up the great work!
You guys' personal business is totally not ours. But if possible, could you guys please please pretty please specify who is the narrator when you make twitter/facebook/instagram posts under your shared name. I'm getting so confused trying to figure out who is talking!
Gonna be honest I’m stunned by the difference in voice and appearance. I’m sitting here speechless because I feel like I don’t know this person
Same i was like " is this the energetic guy who loves bread?"
Same
why do you think you ever knew him? are you his friend?
Some people you consider friends may actually be close to being a stranger. It's perfectly normal to have this reaction, just chill.
@@hurricaneb6243 no one said we were friends. I’m simply going off of a decade of constant viewing of their videos. That’s my main thing I’m basing my opinion off of. No one needs to ‘chill’
Honestly, when Simon sat in front of the camera I thought he had lost so much weight that I expected the worst.
Like corona
Cancer or drug abuse is a few that came to mind, and I really hope it’s not
@@xsuicide lol imagine, Simon begins with “so yeah, I’ve been doing a lot of meth since coming to Canada. Ok bye.” Video ends
My heart's a little heavy right now, knowing two of my favorite youtubers are having a massive change in their lifestyle currently due to covid-19 along with many other things. I'm ignoring the comment section and going back and rewatching all favorite videos of Simon, Martina, Meemers and obviously Spudgy. I love you guys so much, you bring me so much joy and it eases my anxiety that you guys are both posting and doing well not for each other but for yourselves. Thank you for all the beautiful content 😭
Remembering EYK from 2012 and coming back to the channel....what the fuck happened?? This is so incredibly sad.
Well quite often marriages don't work out. People can change and grow apart.
Or this may just be a bump in the road, too early to know for sure yet...
@@fugu_13 It's not just their marriage its the toll that its physically taken on both of them that is even more sad. It's such a stark contrast to their videos in Korea.
@@BBoPPo88 I don't disagree, but it's something that many people go through. I'm speaking from personal experience, being divorced myself.
I ended up having to take seven weeks off work after my marriage, but it took 6-12 months before I started feeling close to normal again.
But life goes on and time can be a healer. Hopefully they'll both come out better for it on the other side...
Why do I have even more concerns now
He said he won't get that weird breathy voice but bruh...that's the first thing I heard
Loved to see you back, but this was kind of alarming. Reminds me of when I broke up with my bf in hs and became vegan and swore I was reaching food enlightenment for like two weeks, then ate a burger and realized either way I was still sad.
I think this is exactly what is happening. He hasn't posted a single update in 6 months. Either he came out as bisexual, did drugs, got involved with the 'darker' side of kichijoji, or cheated on martina.
Which do you think it is?
@@JohnDoe-wx2oo could be that Martina dumped him, maybe he got fed up regarding the illness at one Point and Martina decided is enough, or he could get to that conclution..but seeing how differently they compe, i am în lines to belive Martina cut it off first.
Watch DOMINION. The animals are more than sad. If a breakup is this difficult imagine what they are going through in mutilation severe confinement torture and eventual massacre. Stop eating them for them. Once you put your own problems in perspective you WILL get stronger. Nobody is mutilating you and locking u up in death trucks.
The fact he got a dog right after the split also proves he is using the dog as a coping mechanism and he talks so slowly, as if he is trying his best not to break down and admit his real feelings, that or his brain is just rotting by all the bull he is forcing it to believe.
My first thought: Did he join a cult of some sort?
or maybe he's just in a transitional state in his life? idk what he (or anyone) is going or has gone through but it sounds like he's just finding new interests and passions in life, and obviously returning to his home and family. if i moved about countries and made longterm homes there and finally came back to my roots i think i would be this kinda 'out there' too. also i dont meditate but its pretty normal, school makes me do it sometimes so i dont think it's a culty thing
omg i'm so glad i'm not the only one that thought that! i hope he's just recovering over burn out.
The cult of sad divorced men, it’ll take a while but he’ll work through this eventually as long as he takes therapy and such seriously.
My first thought, too.
He looks and sounds like an entire different person, I can’t believe it. I’m kinda worried about him :(
Same. Im happy he feels more grounded, but 50lbs in most muscle is a lot.
It might have been from the accident that changed him
We know it truly is Simon because of his fancy toaster in the background.
Right! I noticed it too
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@@jobertgonzales8628 what
I was thinking about that toaster earlier today. Now I know!
looks like a toaster oven. pretty normal for Canadians 😶
I'm sorry Simon, but.. Even if I heard what you said you don't look happy nor healthy.. You remind me of my darkest time in my life when I was just an empty shell who said she was perfectly fine and happy and complete but in reality everything screamed that I was ready to collapse at any moment.. I'm so worried for you.. I hope you'll be alright.
THAT'S what it is.
He really feels like an empty shell.
And its not the "I am content and free of pain" kinda empty.
don't project yourself on him. :/
I felt that too. He is talking about how great he feels but there doesn't seem to be any genuine emotion. I just hope he is truly okay.
Sorry that he’s not performing and pretending to be all goofy and over the top like you always expect him to. He’s allowed to be human and himself. Worst types of people are those who think just because a person of funny and happy on camera, that’s how they should constantly act or else there’s something wrong with them. I’ve been known as the funny one all my life and if I wasn’t acting the way someone felt wasn’t “me” or made them feel good and “entertained” then I was accused of being negative or having an attitude. Let him unwind, there’s more to Simon than who you saw with Martina.
@@Christina-vo9ke chilax max we're juste WORRIED
gosh
Guys i really thank u both for all the laughs and good times that you gave us together. Is weird, but the principal thing is that you both be full and happy with your lifes, doing what you want to do, having new dreams and goals. I send you a really big hug.
I have a feeling us nasties all have to accept the end of an era with this video, and it's quite ... sad.
I don't want to think about it...I just want them to get through these hard times.
I know, as I started watching it I wanted to cry 😢
I TOTALLY agree 😢
@Meagan B I understand how you feel. And it's ok to grieve -- we're all in this together and I'm sending my good vibes and support to you. Maybe I'm rambling too, but maybe true love is not necessarily being with someone forever (or for a long time), but how intense, kind, and thorough you can love someone. Although two people may not be together anymore, their time, experiences, and love together has transformed and changed them, and they can take that into whichever direction or journey they choose. I think this is the lesson I'm taking from this situation. I know the ideal situation is being with someone for the rest of your life, but I'm starting to see that the reality is people have different serious relationships for different stages and/or needs in their life. What do you think?
Simon's last instagram message in Tokyo really worried me -- I thought he was really, really depressed, hopeless, and may consider hurting himself or something. But he was trying his absolute hardest to be strong for Martina, us, and himself (in that order maybe). So I understand he needs his own time and space. Whatever is going on, I have faith in Simon and Martina to figure it out, and to find content (the middle, achievable ground between happiness and sadness). I am forever grateful for them, and this community of fans in the comments to talk to, and support each other.
@Meagan B lmao you looking for real love on youtube couples/celebrities?
The only thing I recognized in this video was Simon’s corny jokes... what a bitter-sweet feeling.... I’m glad that you and Martina are doing well and working to better your mental health... but all the change will take some time getting used to... (or maybe we’re just not used to seeing a high Simon)
🤣
OH MY GOD. Just realize this video might be done when Simon is high. lololol. Most likely he was normal but yeah. don't mind me laughing my--- off for the possibility of new ver of High Simon
If Simon is 6'5", the medically suggested weight for a man his height is 187 - 229 lbs. But, he's currently at 168 lbs. I understand weight and health is deeply personal, but as a viewer who is married to a 6'5" man-- this is just deeply troubling to me. At my husband's thinnest, he was 190 lbs. To put this in perspective, I could literally see his ribs and there was honestly no more visible bodyweight he could lose. Seeing Simon's face in this video shocked me-- it reminded me of my deceased brother in law (who greatly favors Simon); the dramatic change before he passed with cancer from healthy to very frail. Simon, your appearance is very alarming! My point is that even though Simon is saying he's happy and healthy, I am genuinely concerned he has gone down a very dangerous path. In a previous video, "Running and Meditation Changed My Life", Simon mentions that his friends and even his father have shown genuine concern for his well-being. Clearly, Simon isn't listening to fans, friends, or family and some part of this is driving a wedge in his marriage. This is alarming!!
Whatever is happening with Simon, this is not the definition of healthy and happy. I've been a viewer for the last 5 years and seeing this makes me so sick with worry. I don't want to add to the fire of conjecture, but something very serious is happening here and I'm worried it is a severe mental break or BPD mania. We already know Simon has dealt with spells of deep depression and he is a sensitive person who has a lot of anxiety. Anxiety/depression and BPD are comorbid. I'm speaking as someone who has first hand experience dealing with a loved one with severe BPD. From the bottom of my heart, I really am very concerned about his safety both mentally and physically. If any of this is the case, I beg S&M fans to please lay off Simon & Martina. They will give us answers when they are ready. Please don't add any hurtful comments. I realize you don't know them personally, but they ARE real people who read these comments. And, Simon if you're reading this, please-- your actions / choices / and thoughts are not normal right now. I'm begging you to find a psychiatrist (NOT therapist). You both are kind, good people-- no one is perfect.
This is well thought out. I hope this is seriously considered.
@@doodlediidoo I don't know he didn't look healthy to me. And someone can feel healthy and be anything but. So... Given what the OP said it's a serious concern to have. I hope actions recommended are taken.
He looks like he might be addicted to opioids or something.
As a 6'4.5" man myself, I can assure you that 'medically suggested weight' is almost meaningless. Bodyfat percentage is a much more useful metric for assessing healthy body composition than just weight. Speaking for myself, I managed to diet and exercise my way down to 181 lbs last summer and on a full body scan I was still 16% bodyfat which is totally healthy, but not even 'athletic'. I just barely started to have visible abs. Keep in mind that men are totally healthy even to just below 10% bodyfat before any potential health issues arise. The root of misunderstanding here is that our medical system doesn't take into account frame size. People are not all the same build, and a lean thin-framed man will weigh substantially less than a lean robust-framed man of the same height.
@@kalmtraveler you are 181 he is 167 that is a huge difference. I don't think it's that meaningless.
After the announcement this morning, the empty ring finger in this video is so obvious as are other comments in this video that seemed vague initially. I still find this video concerning and am obviously saddened by their update but honestly wish them both the best and wish them happiness in whatever paths they choose to take.
So, they have officially divorced...
@@musafawundu6718 Or separated. Could be either
@@musafawundu6718 it would seem that way after the update. I tend to think if it was a separation they would have said so and may still be wearing their rings. So sad but if this is what they need, then all the best to them.
@@amyrobinson7567
They will find love elsewhere, easily... And if they seek to start families, they will be able to do so...
@@musafawundu6718 finding love elsewhere is not easy. Especially when you’ve become attached to your ex for years.
Man my roommate and I were JUST talking about how RUclips needs to be more involved in their creators/viewers health and that therapy should be mandatory at a certain point... not only to keep people mentally healthy, but keep them sane at a certain level of fame 🙂 I hope you’re doing well Simon!
(Edit)Woof I came back to this video and that’s a lot of replies to this comment 😬 I think half of them got deleted bc I have no clue what ppl are talking... about but to clarify no, I don’t think yt should be paying for ppls therapies or kicking ppl off if they they’re a little stressed (like what???) but yes they should be more involved in the mental healths of their viewers and creators and be more pro-active in offering help. A lot of bad shit has happened bc yt is fine with taking a back seat and not caring... (including predatory behavior to minors which is what my brought up my roommate’s/my convo). Also for a majority of the population a couple sessions of therapy isn’t gonna hurt you and is only gonna be helpful.... ik access is limited, especially where I live, but everyone can use some mindfulness and self analysis. It’s important to be aware of the stigmas placed on mental health/therapy and understand I’m my comment wasn’t coming from a controlling place, but one of concern
Interesting and powerful synergy happening with that idea. Vishen Lakhiani founder of Mindvalley is opting out of Facebook and creating his own non-manipulative, non-addicting platform from which to conduct his business. Find that on a search engine if anyone is curious.
I hate to be the asshole here. But it is not YT's responsibility to check on your mental and emotional and physical health.
That all falls on you. If you think you are getting burned out,take time away from making videos.
@Bos Tech I think you are reaching for something that is not there.
Ok Beijing concern with mental health is aways valid...but really? I’m so sorry if I’m talking with someone really young And illl be polite but this is maybe not a great idea... for beginning a potential good thing even like so, being mandatory is too much of a dig at personal freedom in a grotesque way. Imagine giving that much control and responsibility to any platform it makes no sense. They wouldn’t even want it it would be a nightmare as far as justice systems anywhere works. In a perfect or almost perfect world maybe it would be a good idea but in this one is a pretty terrible one. Of course there should be institutions and work places where when I someone gets “flagged” for behaviour that may show someone is not stable for work it should be required to get therapy by a linseed practitioner. Police work is like that or it should be... psychology doc are like this too, I’m sure there’s more but they all have a big responsibility job involving peoples lives in a direct way and are linked to an actual working place. RUclips is not any of that. Also fame doesn’t make anyone crazy, is hard to deal with and can make parts of ones life really challenging but aside from that fame only tends to expose more of someone’s life to the word so it seems is such a bad thing but we don’t really pay attention to all the people who are famous but pretty well adjust... fame just like money doesn’t have the power to change someone or can impact for sure but this alone isn’t responsible for fundamental change in anyone I believe people get more power they have more chooses but aside from that they do what they want and maybe is some thing that couldn’t do with no money or fame but if is something good or bad is up to them.
@Bos Tech are I a troll or just came straight from 200 years ago?
I wish Simon well, but this video was like watching a pod person reading off a teleprompter
LOL a good description of this video! I have so many questions about this video! Simon has definitely changed alot!
I was going to say hostage video - hope you stay well Simon, taking a break is good.
This is weird. Like, a lot.
I'm hearing a man convinving himself that all is well. His eye sockets show and his eyes are without expression. I see no emotion?
Please Charlene, seek therapy.
@@aaronpalazzo4899 he's acting like a generic meditation influencer selling me some sleep tea, aaron. Please be happy and healthy y'all, and embrace individuality
@@aaronpalazzo4899 hahahahaha let me rephrase that, I feel no emotion coming from his face esspression and voice . 😅😅😅
@@DMCpawn definitely!
This is the effect of his meditation...one of its many negative effects is disassociates you from your true self and causes you to experience harrowing stuff by unlocking memories of past traumas that has long been overcome. Whatever Simon experienced with this new lifestyle of his has made him forget what he and Martina had, emphasizing his own needs/wants and convincing him that anything less than that is not worth pursuing, including his own previous marriage commitment to Martina. It's not hard to make a decision for yourself, what's hard is being selfless and staying true to your vows till death do you part. This is all too sad and common. Perhaps this time apart may help him and Martina realize you never know how good you have it until you lose it.
Just a friendly reminder that Simon and Martina aren't TV characters! They get to do things behind the scenes and we don't need to be told everything. We don't own them.
Simon, if you're reading this, I support your right to privacy and wish you the best. I really hope you're okay, and as many people on this thread have noted, you look quite depressed despite your reassurances to the contrary. I support you and Martina, whatever you're going through, and hope that you can rest assured we will accept you + your choices.
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For those of you like myself, who were only casually tracking Simon and Martina's activity, they have dropped us tons of ultimately unambiguous hints that they've separated.
Since moving back to Canada (this is not close to a complete list)
-neither one of them has worn their wedding / engagement ring, despite having always done so prior
-they have only posted videos individually, without any reference to each other
-Simon talks for 10 minutes about his life and huge transition / challenge, with zero reference to Martina
-Simon has changed his appearance drastically and is working on himself
-Simon prominently raises his left hand with no ring, lets the camera focus on it, leads us to think he's about to talk about why Martina is missing, then jokes it's only about his missing right hand, complete with an allusion to living life 'single' handedly. Then in the comments mentions that some people didn't get the hint about this being his way of telegraphing to the audience that he prefers not to dig into stuff (obviously, why Martina is gone from his life and vice versa).
-Martina refers to Fudgy as "HIS" dog in reference to Simon on IG
-Simon jokes that of late he's been grinding on himself, which one does single
-This apartment obviously looks like one which is not cohabited by Martina, given her aesthetics
Basically it's 100% clear they've separated.
The only question now is why -- and Simon has said there are personal details about himself, likely related to the cause for this, that he's not ready to share.
I think we can all probably make some relatively educated guesses as to what this might be.
Also, the interior decorations in Simon's place do not look consistent with Martina's aesthetics. I don't think Martina is living there
@@evolvingbrain she lives with her mother
When you need to take some time apart it's usually over at that point. I think being on a one on one makes you either realize you belong together or you need some time to find yourself by yourself. This would such big time and I hope am totally wrong.
@@pinkwonderpower7906 Maybe bcos in Japan and Korean, Simon the only one there to support Martina. While in Canada, both can rely on friends and relatives a bit more. Just a guess. It is great tho if they can take a breather for a while. I don't know a thing abt love but don't think anyone can always be with each other for 24/7
@@shelaoctavia1428 honestly, that's exactly what many of us are having to do during this pandemic though. It can make or break a relationship, being together 24/7 and through immense amounts of stress. I feel very fortunate that this situation has actually brought my husband and I much closer. I feel like we know each other now on this intensely intimate level that I never knew existed now. But for some couples, unfortunately, it shows you the flaws in the relationship and sometimes you cant come to a common place to fix them. My best friend disclosed that she finally realises that her husband is an alcoholic and he refuses to acknowledge it and get help so she divorced him this year. Stress on this level either brings you closer or tears you a part. It's a scary and very powerful thing. Maybe Simon and Martina were the latter, as sad as that may be
Talking directly to trolls: Remember how badly you felt when Chadwick passed? All that teasing you did about his weight loss and joking about recasting Black Panther? ..Yeah, he didn't address rumors either and it turns out he was dealing with a heroic battle against cancer.
You never know what someone is dealing with. Speculation is moot. Simon will tell us what's going on when he is ready. That might be never and that's okay. Simon, you don't owe us anything. I'm happy to see you're on a journey that works for you. Stay kind :)
Who the hell is Chadwick? I literally don't know what you are talking about,.
@@AnHeC Chadwick Boseman, especially famous for being T'Challa in Black Panther, the titular hero and King of Wakanda.
Oh god... you insinuating he has cancer is worse than any trolling 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ please take your foot out of your mouth
This!
@@Hgphgpevgv she did not insinuate him having cancer. Her clear message was is you never know what someone is going through so just be kind
Mad respect for you, Simon. Like most of the people in the comments, I've been watching you for several years, and I am pretty done with all the savage things some of the other nasties have said.
Just wanted to send some positivity your way (I know I'm a bit late, but I hope you'll still see this.)
I'm so proud of you for the bravery it took to open up to us like this in the wake of such a hard year and transition in your life. Very happy for you as you take advantage of therapy in learning yourself better, and totally support you moving out of Toronto's overstimulation for an an environment that will help your flourish better. I'm sure your parents are so happy to have you in Canada again, too.
I look forward to seeing where your path takes you. Thanks for sharing it with us.
One of the reasons I've loved watching Simon and Martina over the years was how genuine they always seemed. This video did not seem genuine. I am way more concerned for Simon now than I was before watching :(
This. All of this. This is just... weird and unsettling.
They are entitled to their own privacy. They are not just entertainers. They are real people with life. It's weird to say something so entitled...like, do you post everything about your own life in video format for strangers on the internet to deconstruct?
@@xxBrokenDreams666xx I agree. All I said is that this didn't feel genuine.
@@fluffydumpling5825 sorry, I wasn't trying to be confrontational. I'm just really disappointed by many folks in the comments... acting as if S&M owe them their lives (and every aspect of it.) As a (member of the) fandom, I'm concerned that the way some people are harping on about it, the less inclined S&M may feel open to sharing...or reluctant or even resentful when they finally do because people keep pushing their theories and intrusive or demanding comments about what's going on. I wish everyone would be a bit more mindful of S&M's feelings. I realize now that you probably didn't mean it in a bad way, but even a comment like "this didn't seem genuine" could come off the wrong way or as hurtful/harmful to either of them if they read it (like it could be read/taken that you think they are "lying," which the phrasing comes off a bit accusatory.) For people who are obviously going through a hard time, for any number of reasons, this was as genuine as it's going to get while considering their right to privacy. "Transparency" may be what you are hoping for, which isn't necessarily the same as genuineness or them being disingenuous. I think this was a genuine attempt of Simon trying to address fan concerns while trying to cling on to his right to maintain privacy, while being honest about the state of his mental health, his progress, and trying to be positive and open about where he is/they are in life overall. I hope you can see he was genuinely trying for us, which can be hard in itself 💜
Me watching this: that sounds like Simon. He tells terrible jokes like Simon. That doesn’t look like Simon. 🤭
Terrible jokes?! They ain't that bad :D
@@eatyourkimchi yes they are the same.
Simon and Martina so bad they are great! 💕
@@eatyourkimchi they're like Dad jokes. You hate them but you love them too
the dubbing in Canada is just so excellent!
The elephant in the room is neither of you are wearing rings.
Not sure how to feel. I hope Martina is getting the support system she needs.
From the few videos they’ve posted it seems like she is handling it better but that’s probably because of her chronic pain, she’s just used to struggle more than him so she’s handling it better.
I’m sure they’re both having an absolute hell of a time but she’s definitely functioning way better than Simon is. Yikes. So sad to watch.
@@TreClaire She's a hell of a catch. I wish her everything she deserves.
I've been watching EYK since they made video about Korea. Came for the Kpop but stay for their relationship.
Recently, they parted way and I felt like a chapter in a book has ended. I'm not angry or disappointed but I felt empty...
I recall that Martina feels like she a burden to Simon because of her EDS whereas Simon think that he is unhelpful to Martina since he can't help her relieve the pain. They love each other so much that they themself forget to love... themself. I think one of the reason why Simon looks so out in this video is because he feels somehow guilty to Martina leaving her to deal with her illness alone while Martina still act 'normal' is because she feels that she is no longer a burden to anyone.
This is just my speculation.
ps: Eng is not my first language so I apologise for any grammar mistakes
Well put.
Simon's mom, if you saw this message... Please feed your son MORE PIEROGIES!!!
I don't like to body shame but it did shock me to see him with such a weight loss. I hope he is okay.
I will show her this comment :)
Or don't body shame. He looks different, not unhealthy. I know change is scary, but you're probably not a child so you can deal with it.
@@eatyourkimchi Don't let the negativity that might flood in, affect you. Your video is on trending and so there will be some assholes coming in. You are making important changes and I am so proud of you. You will be okay, ESPECIALLY after January of next year. I promise you!
I can't believe you've had two accidents in two months. That's insane man. Be safe out there! Careful! Feel better! Goodness.
.... I can. I've driven on adelaide, and share the same sentiment LOL
@@Lanecryo Well everyone be careful on that road then ❤️
I hope they don't delete all videos now that they aren't together.
Let's not mass comment this on all there videos guy's. I'm sure that's just gonna pressure and stress them out alot.
... this is such a childish and stupid comment
They're not together?!?! NOOOO! When did they announce this?
@@airicaxoxo yesterday Martina announced it. But it was obvious for MONTHS they were no longer together.
@@BloodNote sorry I’ve been going through comments. I’ve been gone from this channel for so long. They broke up?? 😨
The midlife crisis hit hard. No matter how much he claims to be happy and healthy, you can look at him and know it's not true. He looks emaciated. His eyes are red. The drastic shift in his personality is alarming. My immediate thought was drugs of some kind, but who knows. It's obvious he's split from Martina, and the "elephant in the room" joke felt in poor taste considering how many fans have loved and supported them for years. A vague explanation of said separation would be better than this kumbaya ramble. I just hope whatever is going on that they're both able to come out of it happy and healthy, but this was just unsettling and only raised more questions.
Unless they say they have broken up, its not “obvious”.
@@ciganyweaverandherperiwink6293 what "red flags" are u talking about? Genuinely asking.
Maybe he's gotten into using weed, along with his wellness and meditation journey. It's legal in Canada now 🤷
@@ciganyweaverandherperiwink6293 yeah so what exactly are you trying to accuse Simon of?
@@ciganyweaverandherperiwink6293 you really didn’t say anything informative in your comment. Trust me, I read it and all you did was go off on some tangent that seemingly didn’t have anything to do with Simon. You didn’t address anything.
You literally had a breathy namaste voice this entire video.
Yea, I laughed when he said he doesn't have it but he so does lol
10000000000%
Simon: I don't have a breathy voice now
Me: Sir... You sit on a throne of lies
LOL it’s not that breathy
@@eatyourkimchi lol! I literally heard namaste after every other word you said! I love you Simon! I’m so happy your doing well and living for you!
This was so weird and then he would cut his new voice ... tbh it kind of freaks me out
That was just "Martina and I broke up" in more words
Did they ?
They did, they just announced it on Instagram
@@laurenmitchell7640 yes.. and it makes me heartbroken 😭
The weirdest part of this weird video is how he actually teases us with the "elephant in the room" and then talks about his broken hand (rather than the missing ring from his hand which is the actual elephant in the room). Super weird. Sounds like he's going through some stuff, to put it lightly.
Not gonna lie... It just kinda hurt when he did that
@@Faye_The_Fae it’s not really very Simon and Martina to do this kind of thing...
Also as he describes the challenge he's going through -- which is clearly separation from Martina -- he jokes that he's doing it "single-handedly" which seems like a corny joke about his broken hand superficially, but is also an allusion to the challenge itself being single life
Martina mentioned in a comment in another video he’s not around because he’s working out a lot and is busy with HIS new dog. They aren’t together anymore they just don’t want to tell their fans yet. That also means they have to possibly change their channel name and the whole vibe.
They're divorced simple as that. The hints are huge.
I guess the most disappointing part is that while I absolutely want to support the two of them, Simon especially always talked about being transparent with the community since community was so important to him. I guess I'm not used to this.. lack of transparency? So, this adjustment is kind of weird. I've been watching them since 2013/2014. The way things have dramatically changed is kind of whiplash.
And the joke made was really in poor taste about addressing the elephant in the room. It's really hurtful to the community who are genuinely concerned and are waiting for the time concerns are addressed.
I respect their wishes to keep things private for now. All of this, as a someone who has been consuming their content for a very long time, just feels like something is off. Ultimately, I just want them happy and well and doing okay.
At that moment, it hit me that I hadn't seen them really doing anything together, and I started to panic because that was such an overwhelming thought that they might be separated out of the blue like that. I've been watching them since their first videos in Korea when they were teaching and basically started making videos for their friends and family, so to see these two people that I've always looked up to, and even wishing I could eventually find a partner in the way that they had found each other....it's so sad and disheartening to think that if those two people can't make it work...who can?
I'm glad someone else thought it was in poor taste.
if it was in poor taste, imagine how tasteless the questions have been. Take this as, "quit asking about it"
I mean, there's a lot of things that are "off" in the world right now. This is only one of a myriad of major changes.
@@BKStarlet08 I see where you're coming from and agree that they don't owe us an explanation, but it's not okay to make fun of their community's legitimate concerns.
Idk about the money factor of still posting but if it would be healthiest to take a step back from RUclips now, I say do it. Any true fans will still be here when, or if, you decide to return.
Why the fuck is he talking differently too?? This is so weird… I’m so late to the news about them divorcing and Simon turning into a different person ,and I’m just reeling from the shock of it all honestly. wtf. Wtf? ＷＴＦ？！
It's like seeing Simon from a parallel universe. It's him but also not really
It’s really odd and I understand where you’re coming from; but people are allowed to change and evolve
We also have to remember that we viewers dont _actually_ know Simon even if we feel like we do. The videos they made with Martina were entertainment. They chose to portray an entertaining side of themselves that gets people to watch, it is partly an acting and a hosting job. That is not the full extent of who they are as human beings, and how they act when the cameras are off.
I think Simon has also always had this more worried and serious side to him if you look at the past more serious vlog-videos where he often discussed his role as a husband but also a caregiver to Martina. Illness is a strenuous thing on any relationship but particularly on someone who is as conscientious as Simon. It's 100% not on Martina though, he put himself under huge pressure. And after a while of trying everything he could think of to ease the pressure(as he listed in his instagram post they had been to counceling etc) he had to find a new way to deal and this is what he opted for, which I think is in the end a pretty healthy choice amidst many bad options out there. I'm sure it was painful for both but change often hurts and life often does change one way or the other, whether we'd like it to or not.
Usually when people find meditation or a religion they can go overboard with it because they are trying to find a new identity for themselves and destroy their past selves completely, kind of like kids moving out of their parents house need more space to find independence and their own identity outside being a child, Simon needs to find his own identity outside being Martinas husband. Of course, destroying your past self completely is not really possible or necessary, so more often then not things tend to even out with time.
In the end I don't really think theres need to worry for either of them.
I cannot help but be saddened by the comments about how this video is “weird” or “off putting.” I’m glad that Simon is setting goals and that he is doing what he wants and needs to do. It makes me so happy to see that he is reconnecting with his family and friends. Whatever has happened with Simon and Martina is none of our business and we should support them and be happy for them if they are happy and doing well. He wanted to share that he was happy and that he wanted us to see how he was doing even if that is not what we wanted
I met them years ago in Vancouver and I supported them then and I still do now. It has been such a rough year and time for everyone and that much is clear BUT I was so relieved that Simon updated us and that he posted a video about what he has been up to and it’s so nice to hear that he has been trying to better himself in all ways. I am wishing you guys nothing but the best and wishing you so much luck and positivity ❤️
Sometimes people may seem “weird” to others after they’ve decided to stop playing the bullshit games we play with ourselves & each other. Luckily, what ultimately matters is one’s own peace.
@@austyn8 100%, you are totally right it just is kinda upsetting to see how many people are upset by it and find it so strange. We all learn, change and grow. That’s a natural part of life and who we are as people
@@museumghost Definitely! It would be very upsetting and saddening. I could not imagine it and Simon and Martina are so strong for sharing these things with us, I have so much respect for them
Very well said. I totally agree.
I’m also just grateful to Simon for updating us, and glad to hear that he’s moving in a positive direction. They really don’t owe us anything, and they’ve already given us so much as it is of themselves.
This was such a lovely comment, and it made my day to read it. Thank you for posting.
@@penguinbender3261 Thank you so much! It makes me so happy to see that this made your day! Oh definitely and it was so relieving that he updated us I could not have been happier!
Depression is like this, you start talking slower and doing less. They're calling a healthy timeout, and that's ok. It's nice to see them working on themselves by connecting with friends, moving , getting a dog, being with family, exercising, meditating etc. Those are all proven tactics to lift depression. Everyone's concerned and thinks it's weird but progress is a path, and it doesn't mean he's being unsettling. He's championing himself, so he may still be sad but on the road to recovery. Let's not negate the amount of victories he has had no matter how small. And yes obviously they're spending time apart, hence the joke aka they're on good terms. it's hard when your partner suddenly gets depressed. It's refreshing to see a couple who are working on it by taking a break instead of being together rn and growing angry and resentful of each other.
Well said
The best comment so far! You are right!
Honestly this 100% makes sense to me.
I was basically saying this to my husband last night. You said it better than me.
this comment is very well put ! it just shows how much they care about each other and themselves & their lives❤️i love that they are coping in a healthy way (i think.)
This gives me creeps, sadly. He looks sick and talks so unnatural. "I feel very happy" No, no happy vibes at all! I hope he gets better soon.
He didn't answer any questions we have, which is okay, but it's obvious there's more to it than he's letting on, and maybe more than he's ready to to admit to himself. I do hope that he's okay, and that he truly is healthy.