Herpes Disclosure: After You’ve Slept with Them with Alexandra Harbushka

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  • Опубликовано: 24 май 2022
  • This topic brings up so many emotions. If you just slept with someone and they then later told you that they have herpes, I’m sure you are angry and confused. And if you have herpes and just slept with someone and didn’t tell them, I bet you have a lump in you stomach.
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Комментарии • 8

  • @sxm2004
    @sxm2004 2 года назад +11

    Fear of rejection, if HSV is a deal breaker they weren't for you in the first place, not even as a so called friend. But if things don't workout and you pass HSV on to someone without disclosing and you endup in court. You could possibly be placed on a registered sex offender list. Depending on how far things go. So as soon as you've established that you've got more than a few words in common you might want to disclose, during the first 4-days is a safe time in my book. But that's just me...

  • @pajamacladangel9920
    @pajamacladangel9920 Год назад +10

    This happened to me. I always disclosed, from the moment I got my diagnosis, but for some reason this time I didn’t. I almost died as a result of my own anxiety. I ended up telling him and my anxiety has subsided a bit, but of course I am afraid they will get it.
    I also told an interest of mine that no longer contacts me. I am super upset by this, but I guess I can rest assured that I won’t have sex with someone that doesn’t care about me.

  • @lilshay7935
    @lilshay7935 Год назад +9

    I didn't tell you bc of fear doctors says I don't need treatment I don't believe them but I got caught up in the moment I apologize for not having the confidence of telling u upfront and I apologize for putting you at risk and I want to continue being with you

  • @peterhewitson2669
    @peterhewitson2669 2 года назад +7

    Surely you should disclose before? You can't say to someone, "I'm telling you this because I care about you" after sleeping with them, because it's very clear you didn't care about them by sleeping with them before disclosure.
    I love your videos and have the greatest respect for you Alexandra, but I feel that afterwards is too late, but perhaps that's just me. ♥️

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  2 года назад +14

      Yes, you should disclose before. We always advocate to do so.
      We get a lot of questions, and from time to time, this is what comes up, so we try to answer these questions in the best of ways. Not always we make the best decisions in our lives, so for anybody who is struggling how to do after they've slept with somebody, we tried to provide some guidelines.