Pinay domestic violence survivor in Australia | Faith Labaro | The Pinoy Expat

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  • Опубликовано: 9 ноя 2024

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  • @ThePinoyExpat.Official
    @ThePinoyExpat.Official  Месяц назад +5

    If you are experiencing domestic violence at your home, don't be afraid to seek help. Call 1800RESPECT (1800 737 732) for free and confidential support. If you are in immediate danger, call the police on 000.

    • @lindaschmidt8315
      @lindaschmidt8315 Месяц назад

      The story is sad are australian men less loving, caring ? Its horrific.Thank God l did not accept the proposal of marriage to an australian.

    • @marybernadette5999
      @marybernadette5999 Месяц назад

      @@lindaschmidt8315isang Australyano lang po ang kinukwento nya. Di sinabi na ganun ang lahat ng Australians 😅

    • @mikepineda227
      @mikepineda227 Месяц назад

      Your resilience and determination are inspiring. Remember, you didn't deserve to be treated that way -ever. You deserve love, respect, and safety.

  • @mikepineda227
    @mikepineda227 Месяц назад +3

    Your resilience and determination are inspiring. Remember, you didn't deserve to be treated that way -ever. You deserve love, respect, and safety. ❤

  • @tinamaxwell922
    @tinamaxwell922 Месяц назад +8

    Goodon you. Been there almost similar situation. Marriage lasted 14yrs since I have education I proved myself I can do better and I did. I am proud of what I have. I got my own house and living comfortably. God is good.

  • @mikepineda227
    @mikepineda227 Месяц назад +3

    Good job Ate! I admire your courage. You are incredibly strong and brave! You deserve so much love, respect and safety. ❤

  • @noigardner7068
    @noigardner7068 Месяц назад +2

    Thanks for speaking up from Australia 🇦🇺 with Love

  • @margarettownsley9500
    @margarettownsley9500 Месяц назад +9

    Well done for getting out of the toxicity this was a very important decision

  • @evelynnicolas4045
    @evelynnicolas4045 Месяц назад +11

    I admire your intelligence and bravery in dealing with your marital issues. Maybe you could be a support person for women dealing with the same problem, especially those subservient women who think they don’t have any hope n getting out of a dangerous situation. God bless & be safe.

  • @oliveasis4669
    @oliveasis4669 Месяц назад +7

    Amen. God is always good! D2 sa Oz, sa pagkaalam ko, kahit na hindi ka pa PR, if u are in a DV situation, don't be scared to call 1800 Respect or 000. Tama siya, maraming tutulong sa iyo to get back on your feet. Wag kang maniwala sa pananakot ng nambibiktima sa iyo.

  • @josephinelabaro1556
    @josephinelabaro1556 Месяц назад +18

    My courageous daughter, God loves you, and I always love you, mama is always here❤

    • @LuzMarsh-pm3gd
      @LuzMarsh-pm3gd Месяц назад

      Hi Josephine Saan ba kayu sa Nueva Vizcaya? I’m from Solano.

    • @LuzMarsh-pm3gd
      @LuzMarsh-pm3gd Месяц назад +1

      Nakakalungkot naman ang experience ng daughter mo 😢

    • @lisafoodie8443
      @lisafoodie8443 Месяц назад

      sbay kmi ng migrate nung 2011...me mga puti tlga gnyan... c rose porteus ang dhilan... blita kc d2 ung ginawa ni rose s tatay ni gina rineheart...

  • @Edelweiss-l3x
    @Edelweiss-l3x Месяц назад +6

    What an inspiring woman! Thank you for sharing your story nang. I hope it will reach those who need it.

  • @reynaldosflooringptyltd5296
    @reynaldosflooringptyltd5296 Месяц назад +6

    SALUDO AKO SA IYO FAITH. THE LORD JESUS ALWAYS BE WITH YOU🤲🤲🤲💪💪💪🙋‍♀🙋‍♀🙋‍♀

  • @mikehurn3229
    @mikehurn3229 Месяц назад +5

    Proud of you! My mom re married a Filipino guy from pi and it was DV for 10 years plus it was hell! My mum finally left him and she is happy now but still see the damage he did

  • @marilynmagno
    @marilynmagno Месяц назад +2

    I met my Aussie partner 24 yrs ago on line too .. I feel sorry for you. So glad you got out of that abusive relationship. God bless

  • @lalaysvlog
    @lalaysvlog Месяц назад +6

    Verbal violence still and always violence and it hurts,go sis❤❤

    • @marybernadette5999
      @marybernadette5999 Месяц назад +2

      Sometimes verbal abuse gives deeper wounds pa 😢

  • @jacquelinetomad4952
    @jacquelinetomad4952 Месяц назад +1

    Truly God is good...di ka niya pinabaya an na doon na lng habangbuhay...God has a purpose and plan for your life kabayan. Go and share the goodness of God to others.

  • @marilynmagno
    @marilynmagno Месяц назад +1

    I wish you the best. I hope you heal completely. God bless yoy

  • @enihpesoj
    @enihpesoj Месяц назад +6

    God protection be upon you.

  • @mikepineda227
    @mikepineda227 Месяц назад

    So much love and respect to you ate. ❤Salute!

  • @pinabenitez416
    @pinabenitez416 Месяц назад +5

    Yes Seek first kingdom of God and other things shall be added unto you.amen

  • @aimiquinto4098
    @aimiquinto4098 Месяц назад +4

    Find the right filipino people to be friends with. That's pretty much my guideline. I have a small circle of selected filipino friends and want to keep it as such.

  • @nomadsgirl.3558
    @nomadsgirl.3558 Месяц назад +6

    Naku! Ako even when I was in my younger age, very observant na ako sa mga ugali ng mga suitors ko. Wala pang mga idea of "red flags" to watch, aware na ako, especially dun sa madali magalit at seloso. Probably, because my father set a high standards of what is really a good man. Hindi sya perfect, kc di ambitious although, hardworking but the best Dad. Saka, he treated us daughters very special.😻 Kaya mga sisters ko, married the same or most traits like our Dad even suitors ko.

    • @OnlyKindnessMatterAfterAll1
      @OnlyKindnessMatterAfterAll1 Месяц назад

      You must feel superior over this lady because she couldn't read others' behavior like you can. Do you feel better now?

    • @jeanlanie1
      @jeanlanie1 Месяц назад

      My father did the same, us daughters were treated well.
      Thank God for our good father.
      He passed away last year. 😢

  • @rosemariegough9236
    @rosemariegough9236 Месяц назад +3

    I never had a problem with domestic violence in a relationship with my husband we are both 50/50 we both work we have children also we been married for 9 years and 20 years known each other my husband is my soulmates we grow up and we married when we so young his Australian and I’m pinay also still now we both love each other I know what he doesn’t like and he know what I don’t like. When I get really tired or spending money for the house and my kids he never gets so angry or upset about it we can talk all about it

    • @justmefilipinalady3022
      @justmefilipinalady3022 Месяц назад

      Marami Dto sa Australia dmo PA kc narinig Mga Kwento ng Mga kapwa natin

    • @dlkm0309
      @dlkm0309 Месяц назад +3

      Good for you but not everyone has the same experience.

    • @OnlyKindnessMatterAfterAll1
      @OnlyKindnessMatterAfterAll1 Месяц назад +3

      You must feel good about yourself. This lady is brave enough to share her deeply personal and painful story and all you got out of that is how much better tie life is compared to hers. Girl..... get it together.

  • @barbarabutler4615
    @barbarabutler4615 Месяц назад

    Nice, moved, congrats your free, im so lucky, my hubby, is so kind and caring.

  • @britishuntouchables2883
    @britishuntouchables2883 Месяц назад +4

    Good for you ate🫡

  • @Alanah-eo4mi
    @Alanah-eo4mi Месяц назад

    I have a story worst than this . Live in another country. I’m a single parent for my 2 kids. My worst nightmare in my whole life. With the help of domestic violence program. I survived & become a strong positive woman. Love is blind & you don’t see it’s coming until it’s too late. For all the women out there, please seek help if you incounter domistic violence.

  • @MD-yp7fk
    @MD-yp7fk Месяц назад

    Proud ako sa iyo❤❤❤

  • @lynoriely7728
    @lynoriely7728 Месяц назад +4

    good on ya kabayan, assert your rights as a decent learned woman, malas ni aussie nakakuha sya ng katapat😅

  • @melbourne2012
    @melbourne2012 Месяц назад +7

    this is not domestic violence its love australia you can leave your partner any time you want actually woman right in Australia is more powerful than men no debate

    • @marybernadette5999
      @marybernadette5999 Месяц назад

      Easy to say ‘any time’. Some people dont have the courage to do so

  • @melindabrien2301
    @melindabrien2301 Месяц назад +1

    God bless

  • @tesssmith8444
    @tesssmith8444 Месяц назад +1

    Her husband was a cheapskate, suspicious,violent, insecure,possessive and all the negative traits nobody can stand. Congratulations for doing the right thing and moving on. Take care always.

  • @franciscomiranda8368
    @franciscomiranda8368 Месяц назад +1

    I felt sorry for the outcome of your relationship with your ex.
    But, since you were saying you're here in Australia for a couple of years.
    Why NOT, asked for assistances to the relevant government department.
    Marriage or relationship usually takes two.
    Since, your decision is now made and done - hope pleasant outcome hit your way.

  • @milaalconga2573
    @milaalconga2573 Месяц назад +3

    Hello nasa Australia ba kayo ngayon...

  • @odetteremigiocumming4655
    @odetteremigiocumming4655 Месяц назад +2

    Hi how to get in contact with the anchor or owner of this channel? I have a story to share.

    • @ThePinoyExpat.Official
      @ThePinoyExpat.Official  Месяц назад

      Hello. Please send us a message on Facebook, The Pinoy Expat. Or email us at thepinoyexpat.official@gmail.com.

  • @gildaopiniano7135
    @gildaopiniano7135 Месяц назад +5

    Early on may red flg na why u still marry him? Marrying a foreigner is not heaven to all😮

    • @enihpesoj
      @enihpesoj Месяц назад +5

      What is done is done. No point of questioning her decision. Just be happy for her she survived.

    • @maceciliawaterson3599
      @maceciliawaterson3599 Месяц назад

      ​@@enihpesojyes your true.

    • @JamLabaro-c8x
      @JamLabaro-c8x Месяц назад

      Why do you already know the one you marry if you don't go in the same roof, and if you have already kids, don't you mind to fix your relationship, nobody is perfect

    • @Alanah-eo4mi
      @Alanah-eo4mi Месяц назад +1

      You can’t change the Past , all you can do is move on. Be positive. Don’t listen or hang out with negative people that doesn’t help your situation. You can’t understand until you’re in that situation.

    • @OnlyKindnessMatterAfterAll1
      @OnlyKindnessMatterAfterAll1 Месяц назад

      Because she's not perfect like you. Jaysus! Can you just be supportive?

  • @lutgardap.espiritu7099
    @lutgardap.espiritu7099 Месяц назад +2

    Can I collaborate with you would love to tell my story in Australia 🇦🇺 since 1988. Maraming salamat.

    • @ThePinoyExpat.Official
      @ThePinoyExpat.Official  Месяц назад

      Hello po. Yes, would love to hear your story. Send us a message on Facebook. ☺

  • @bonifaciobonifacia8679
    @bonifaciobonifacia8679 Месяц назад

    Swerte, was able to move out/on. Ung iba sa sobra toxic, pinapatay pa ng sariling asawa. World is toxic.

  • @patti8935
    @patti8935 Месяц назад +3

    $10 a week allowance? Worse than slavery! Good-riddance to him!

    • @justmefilipinalady3022
      @justmefilipinalady3022 Месяц назад

      True po Yan 10 dollars bnbgay kc dinanas ko Din yan

    • @JamLabaro-c8x
      @JamLabaro-c8x Месяц назад +1

      Allowance he gave for only a cup of coffee if she go outside, why you comment like that, do you know her sufferings
      She's my daughter and I know she's talking about, don't judge as if you know her

    • @justmefilipinalady3022
      @justmefilipinalady3022 Месяц назад +2

      @@JamLabaro-c8x totoo Yan testimony nya kc danas ko yan

    • @OnlyKindnessMatterAfterAll1
      @OnlyKindnessMatterAfterAll1 Месяц назад

      ​@@JamLabaro-c8xyour daughter is brave for sharing her story. I'm sure she will help women who are in the same situation she was in. Please tell her to stay humble but still be brave and strong. Her kids are lucky to have a strong mommy. Please tell your daughter we thank her for her courage to share. And Momma, don't worry about what others say about your daughter. You know your daughter and they don't. Some people have no class.

  • @palladiumblue2539
    @palladiumblue2539 Месяц назад +1

    So you had a 2 year old when you met him and had 5 more children with him in the 7 years you were married. Is that correct?? 😮

  • @judyhoyn5727
    @judyhoyn5727 Месяц назад +2

    sa wollongong yata location nyo hehe

  • @melbourne2012
    @melbourne2012 Месяц назад +1

    if you are legally here in Australia women has more legal right than men and i can prove that by showing you the how Australian women put their men in trouble

  • @victoriafediuk362
    @victoriafediuk362 Месяц назад +3

    The first thing you observed that he has an issue... Leave..what happened? dapat iniwanan mo na siya. ahaaaay...

    • @myeastandwestlife9300
      @myeastandwestlife9300 Месяц назад

      ang perfect mo, it's not that simple, have you been in that situation, victim blaming ahaaay eww

    • @mikehurn3229
      @mikehurn3229 Месяц назад

      I always see Filipinos bring down Filipinos! Narrow minded

    • @milaalconga2573
      @milaalconga2573 Месяц назад +1

      San sya ngayon .Para mareach out naman.

    • @myeastandwestlife9300
      @myeastandwestlife9300 Месяц назад +3

      @@milaalconga2573 she’s okay now, she’s a survivor and doing well as per her interview, she’s smart and tough, people should understand no one is immune to narcissistic abuse because it’s gradual, the love bombing, the devaluation, the discard and DARVO. It changes the brain too, the victims even question themselves.

    • @JamLabaro-c8x
      @JamLabaro-c8x Месяц назад +1

      You don't know what you're talking about, you don't know her and the whole story

  • @andayavioly1
    @andayavioly1 Месяц назад +3

    Ano nabibili mo sa $10. He knows that u cannot buy a dinner for that. D na ako naniniwala na bbigyan ka ng 10dollors. And how could u buy shoes if he give u only 10 dollors.

    • @jaennaloujes9651
      @jaennaloujes9651 Месяц назад

      It's her story not yours,

    • @JamLabaro-c8x
      @JamLabaro-c8x Месяц назад

      Di hwag Kang maniwala
      Bakit kilala mo sya, Kung wala Kang sasabihing mabuti, hwag Ka Ng mag comment, do you think mag kukwento sya Ng Di totoo, wjy not just show empathy, mahirap pinagdaanan nya, and thanks God nakaalpas na sya, SA kinalalalgyan na nya

    • @EmilyEmz-g3k
      @EmilyEmz-g3k Месяц назад

      No one force you to believe her story

    • @justmefilipinalady3022
      @justmefilipinalady3022 Месяц назад

      Tea or coffee sa 10 dollar Dto sa Australia

    • @KittyandOrange
      @KittyandOrange Месяц назад +1

      if i heard it right, she mentioned that she has a freelancing job working from home, so that's basically the money she spent in buying stuff for herself or for her kids but then un nga big deal sa asawa nya at gusto pa daw ng asawa nya makihati sa sahud nya. and kaya nga sabi nya financially abuse din sya kasi $10 lng ung bnbgy, of course the husband is fully aware that $10 is not enough. UPLB grad, matalino, un nga lang di rin sinwerte sa pagibig. Glad to hear that she was able to remove herself from the abusive husband. And now she's doing well in life.

  • @EmeldaLawson-x8i
    @EmeldaLawson-x8i Месяц назад

    View looks familiar "Burliegh 🤔

  • @BeaTravelvlog
    @BeaTravelvlog Месяц назад

    Ayong adlaw

  • @ninjaturtle6106
    @ninjaturtle6106 Месяц назад

    Why has RUclips recommended me this channel?? They clearly target Filipino speaking audience only. I am NOT filipino. Waste of time!!😡 There's not even English subs.

  • @maritesedmilao2435
    @maritesedmilao2435 Месяц назад

    Her ex is a narcissist. Narcs thrive on drama and control. Happy she ran away and saved herself.

    • @KittyandOrange
      @KittyandOrange Месяц назад

      so true. im
      Married to one.

    • @maritesedmilao2435
      @maritesedmilao2435 Месяц назад

      @@KittyandOrange was married to one. I was able to run away from the devil 2 yrs ago after 4 hell yrs of marriage. It was the worst experience. He is very charming in public but a monster 👿behind closed doors. Divorce was bitter but done. Cut him and his friends/flying monkeys off me. Absolutely NO CONTACT!

  • @melbourne2012
    @melbourne2012 Месяц назад +1

    in short this is shit interview about married women in Australia

  • @gemahmygzrecipe6656
    @gemahmygzrecipe6656 Месяц назад +3

    magtagalong ka nalang girl

    • @cebuanagirl1591
      @cebuanagirl1591 Месяц назад +3

      I, for one, am happy that she is speaking in English. I am of Filipino descent, have lived in Australia nearly all my life and would not be able to, for the life of me, understand what she is talking about if she spoke in Tagalog.

    • @Mary-zp8uw
      @Mary-zp8uw Месяц назад +2

      What is "magtagalong" ?🤔

    • @old-soul
      @old-soul Месяц назад +3

      day, hindi kabah makaintindi nang english??
      70% of the interview is in tagalog naman

    • @gemahmygzrecipe6656
      @gemahmygzrecipe6656 Месяц назад

      @@old-soul girl wag kasiy OA ng interview tagalog ang sagotin mo ng english di ba wag OA sa sarili wika ,maging proud sa wika natin ganon lang ka simple. saudi nga na intindihan ko english pa kaya wag kasiy OA

    • @gloriamanampan9389
      @gloriamanampan9389 Месяц назад +3

      Ang daming MAY TOYO SA UTAK na nanonood. This is being seen throughout the world, so it is just right to express this in ENGLISH. And mind you girl SHE WAS A UP GRADUATE.. Why the hate.

  • @mapagmasidtv
    @mapagmasidtv Месяц назад

    Bai good episode to ito , pag nandito na ang pinay sa australia palaging sinasabi nila i brought u here dapat pagsilbihan ng pinay ang mga amuyong na aussie

  • @EllaMie-du8vx
    @EllaMie-du8vx Месяц назад +2

    Naka relate Ako sa pinagdaanan mo nilait din Ako ng ex- convict na ang tawag ko ang nanay ko sinabi Kasi sa exconvict na ipinanganak Ako na premature baby ang pagkaintimdi siguro ng exconvict eh abnormal Ako kaya nung nakarating Ako sa u.s.a nilait Ako na mahina ang utak ko pangit Ako at Hindi daw nya akalaing makapag Asawa sya ng abnormal , sept.noon malamug na nakati t- shirt lang Ako Wala Ako ni Winter coat nagkaroon na Ako nang sakit ubo at grabe plema halos ayaw pa magbitaw ng Pera para bumili ng kailangan ko ang credit card na Ang ginamit nya pambili ng coat ang pinambayad nya ng wedding ring is ang credit card nya at in the end Hindi sya nag bayad sa mga utang nya nung single pa sya at dinagdag nya ang bills ng wedding ring nung dumating Ako mga ilang buwan nag file nang bankcraptcy ang card nya noon nasa one hundred pieces nagtiis din Ako Hindi ko sinabi ang totoo sa mga magulang ko dahil ayaw ko mag alala Sila ngayun single na Ako kaya pag sobra ang pagaabuso makakaisip ka ng ikabubuti mo at maawa kana sa Sarili mo mabait ang dios dahil Wala Ako anak sa exconvict masamang lahi, Hindi lang Yan pinagmukha pa Ako tanga Hindi Ako tinuruan ng kung ano ang mga privilege ng government para sa mga resident ni Pera dto sa u.s quarters tinatanong ko kung magkano Yun Hindi Ako sinagot mahal ko noon ang mga magulang at ayaw ko silang mag alala sa akin ko kaya sinunod ko ang payo nila pero ang second chance it turned out worst,

  • @FirstAddictFamily-v7y
    @FirstAddictFamily-v7y Месяц назад

    Hindi sa pumapanig ako. Pero kasi kagagawan din ng mga kapwa natin Filipino. Sabi mo nga yung ex husband meron ng masamang imahe sa mga Filipino nung nagsasama kayo bagi kayo kinasal. Pero ikaw tinuloy mo parin yung pagpapakasal mo sa kanya. Dun palang Red alert na yun eh. Pero dahil nga mahal mo nagpakasal ka parin. At sabi mo tumagal ang relasyon nyo ng 7yrs. At verbaly abusive yung exhusband mo na yun. At tiniis mo kasi nga gusto mo yung masettled yung buhay mo dyan sa australia bago mo sya hiwalayan. Dapat una palang eh kumalas kana pero yun nga nagpakamartire ka pa. Pasensya na ah nagsasabi lang ako ng totoo. Masakit man toh pakinggan pero ito yung totoo. At marami kasi sa ating mga Filipino masakit mang isipin pero karamihan sa atin pera lang ang tingin sa mga foreigner. Hagat meron makukuha sige tuloy lang at pagwala na nasaid yun na wala ng kwenta. Daming ganyan hustler ang tawag. Alam na alam nila gagawin nila.

    • @marybernadette5999
      @marybernadette5999 Месяц назад

      Di ko po alam san nyo nakuha yung ibang info na wala naman sa interview 😅

    • @christinel.3221
      @christinel.3221 Месяц назад +1

      ⁠​⁠@@marybernadette5999oo nga, saan naman kaya nya nakuha yung mga info na yan? 😂 Tsaka sa totoo lang tayo kahit naman sino gusto gumanda ang estado ng buhay lalo pa may mga anak na. Another thing is UPLB graduate sya. Hindi naman sya basta bastang babae lang. Ang ibang Pinoy talaga, hilig mang victim blaming. Pinapanigan pa yung abuser. Lakas mangbaliktad ng nangyari.

    • @JamLabaro-c8x
      @JamLabaro-c8x Месяц назад

      Dimo alam sinasabi mo
      Everybody wants to have a happy and peaceful family pano mo gagawin kung may anak kayo, of course aayusin mo ang relationship baka maayos pa, she's a smart girl Pero di naging maganda ang buhay may asawa nya, better now at naka Alis na sya sa situation na kinalagyan nya