@@sh19413 are you talking about yourself? usually you would say "this has never happened to ME" hope that helps. the beautiful thing about the internet is we can share our experiences and learn more about other points of view
@@rustyshacklferd535 that’s cute, rusty. while strokes and heart disease have been linked to obesity, there are many more prevalent factors, such as aging and genetics. there’s ways to try to avoid all of the things you listed, but realistically, it’s very hard to predict which of us is going to go first. we’ll just have to see. may the odds be ever in my favor.
Journey has songs about weight loss?! • Is that what "Wheel In The Sky" is really about? A bird or space-themed treadmill? Set your goals high? • "Faithfully"...keeping your diet plan? • "Don't Stop Believin'!" ...you _can_ lose that weight! • Ice cream..."I'll Be Alright Without You"... • Carbs & me going our "Separate Ways"... • "Open Arms" & "Girl Can't Help It"...for those cheat days or holidays... • "The Way We Used To Be"...skinnier when we were "Only The Young"... • "Who's Cryin' Now"...after that workout... • "Be Good To Yourself"...take your vitamins and supplements... • "The Party's Over" ...if you gain back the weight you lost... Wow! There really is a weight loss Journey! 7/1/22
@@anthonyvincent4625 there’s hella dance videos to like tons of music on fitness channels too, i used to do some and then did work for me before i stopped lol
Exactly there is a big difference between acceptance and encouragement. Yes, people should try to be the healthiest version of themselves. But also, just let me exist?? Like why does my existence bother you so much? Just let me be. Idc if your comments come from a place of "good intent" just leave me alone.
@@kriskiritsugo535 not really my mom eats salads often walks often has participated in many runs and a few half marathons still fat. I’m also fat but I enjoy salads fruits and walks when it’s not to hot or cold I also participate in some of the runs with her and I have done Taekwondo and continue to do kickboxing and boxing At least for me it’s not a wait loss plan when people asume it is it’s kinda rude because it just implies something.
@@kriskiritsugo535 yeah but making it seem special won't encourage us to do it often. Idk it's like overhyping a series. I'm not gonna want to watch it anymore if you overhype it. Same for eating healthy and exercising, if I mention it just be cool about it, no need to go crazy like this.
@@ianlugo4637 Yeah bro, death is natural & if I go out with a heart attack, then so be it. At least in life, I was happy and full. When I'm dead, I won't care, I'll be dead. Give me the pizza & lemme die in peace bro
I workout every day. I eat a decently regular amount (although due to some of my meds, I can sometimes forget to eat). I’m just overweight. For me, I’m overweight due to my autoimmune disorder. I get people often have good intentions behind being congratulatory when I do “healthy” things, but I also hate how condescending it is. A lot of my skinny friends acknowledge that they are unhealthy in certain ways. I just hate that people assume I’m unable to care for myself most of the time because im fat.
Dude... I feel this. I have always been bigger than others, always will be. I am very thick in the arms and legs especially and it has always been an insecurity of mine. However, I was always dancing, always exercising and eating fruits and veggies every day. At school dances, I was the only one of my friends dancing like crazy the whole time, trying to get them on the dance floor w me. I had people telling me to change my lifestyle to be more healthy when frankly I didn’t need to. I do now, but I look back and I’m like... I wasn’t even that overweight. People from high school apparently had crushes on me and liked me a lot, and I never would have known because of the way I was treated for my size. It was like they were scared of being judged for liking a slightly bigger girl. I was just bigger than my friends. Had a big butt when it wasn’t popular. The way people treat overweight people as though they are automatically flawed and less than... it’s wrong. Fat people are always the butt of the joke. And you are wrong for being fat if it’s just in the “wrong” place. People claim to be worried about health but really it’s just as shallow of a concern as it possibly could be. They really just want you to be easier for them to look at and accept. Screw that!
@@fruityblue9784 if you aren’t skinny, they shame you, but the moment you step over the line to “too skinny,” they shame you in a different way. You can’t win as a woman.
I workout as well and I eat fine..(Sometimes I guess I under eat,but otherwise it’s good) I still have belly fat and I hate it. I don’t know what to do about it honestly..sorry for ranting.
@@mckayla6668 I’m sure you’ve already done this, but going to a doctor just to talk about what you’re experiencing could be helpful. They might find something.
Fr- I ordered a salad and my mom was like “I’m so proud of you! This is just the beginning. What a good choice”. that’s not even to add my family members constantly text me fitness plans. Like better watch out- Ima start sending y’all weight gain plans
lol that’s all i did when i was fat, let people have different experiences? i started eating healthy/less and moving more and the weight fell off? Something called the law of thermodynamics? Calories in vs. calories out? You can’t store energy that you burn, and if you don’t burn as much as you consume, then your body will store it. Ofc some people have metabolic issues/comorbidities, but none of those reasons make obesity any less dangerous, and in fact maintaining a healthy weight is important for people with many of these issues. It’s just hard, and people refuse to do hard things 🤷
I have pcos so it's hella hard to lose weight. One time while on vacation with my family I ordered some fish with vegetable because it was a *special*. My dad immediately clapped and told me how proud he was of me doing something good for myself. Like.. I just wanted the food.. wtf
I have pcos too and ugh. it’s taken me twice as long to lose the weight I have and I STILL have this godforsaken hormonal fat. A lower carb diet might help you feel better (not necessarily make you lose weight) with the symptoms (as in, more protein and veggies) but dear God the amount of work that goes into weight loss with pcos is insane. I don’t recommend it if you have any inkling of an ED. Hope you’re well ❤️
God, I get you. Now in summer I always get salads for lunch and my colleagues go: "Yay, good for you, you know, it'll be even less calories if you leave out the mozzarella!" 😑 1), I'll leave my soul behind before I leave my mozzarella, 2), that mozzarella is the fat in my meal so I actually feel full and 3) I just like salad bitch move on.
Bro SAAME. 😭 i can't eat my normal diet or do my normal daily exercise routine around skinny people without them thinking im "taking the first step." Like bro I've been taking this "first step" for the past 5 years. 💀None of them believe me when I say the thing that has helped me with weight loss the most were hormone meds to get my androgens down. None of these people trying to help me are willing to recognize that I have a healthier lifestyle than them.
I'm at the gym crying because I hate working out but I literally want to ride my bf so am strengthening my core. I get random people telling me how inspiring I am....
Feels similar when you in any way call yourself or allude to being fat. "Don't say that about yourself!" Like it's a slur and not a fact of my physiology lol
People dont realize just how true this is. The amount of times ive atlked about cooking anything healthy and was faced with "wowww its amazing that you're trying to lose weight you're so brave keep it up!!!!!!" I know they mean well but this is literally just my salad I've been making for work for 2 years. I'm not trying to lose weight i just dont have time to make anything else lmao
the fact that humans have managed to (forcefully) drive a wedge so far between body types that when you talk about them it sound you’re talking about a different species is confusing
I’m always the scapegoat to go to when my immediate family want to “get on a weight loss plan” or “get fit for **whatever event is coming up**” or “finally get skinny and be comfortable in my body” I’m 16, this has been happening since I was 12-ish. I’m not even too bad, like yeah, I would help to run more of do some core exercises. But it hurts that I’m always the partner in things, as if I’m supposed to be as uncomfortable in my body as the other person. I know it helps to have partners but it’s not like they ever do it so I just say “yeah ok” whenever it’s mentioned.
Yeah, that is seriously not okay. Being a teenager sucks in general. They don't have to make it worse by bullying you. If it makes you feel any better, I got a lot more comfortable with being fat once I was in college and was away from my parents. I'm eating healthier than my parents, but I'm still just plain fat. And that's okay.
One time I was living with a friend's family for a few months & they held a weight loss competition where the person who lost the most weight got all the money in a pot we all contributed to. Then they all got MAD at me for not wanting to join and accused me of "making excuses" and "choosing to be unhealthy" when I pointed out that I have PCOS and thus have a natural disadvantage.
The sense of superiority some people have over the weirdest things 😭 bihct, you take less space - love that for you, but you’re not morally worse or better because of that and you’re _for sure_ not entitled to tell others how to live in their body💀
100% agree but it goes both ways: fat people are not entitled to spread the message of 'fat acceptance', glorifying obesity. No one wants their kids to grow up thinking being fat is a something that should be encouraged.
@@AK-po1eo It's called fat acceptance not fat encouragement. No one is encouraging you to be fat they are saying let fat people exist without the constant stigmas and mistreatment. Why people think it is about telling people to gain more weight is beyond me.
@@AK-po1eo what an utterly nuanced take that is surely addressing the real problems we’re facing. I’ve sure never heard this one before folks. Thank god, I was just about to tell all my friends to chub up for fat girl summer.
LMAO stop because when i was in the eighth grade i was eating a salad for lunch in class (it was the period before lunch and everyone ate lunch in that class) and the substitute teacher came up to me and literally said “aww, zoe! look at you with your healthy salad! i’m so proud of you!
Bruh if yo mother in law is 600 pounds and more agile than you that’s not her being agile that’s you being stiffer than a 16 year old boy’s special sock
As someone that wouldn't consider themselves fat or skinny with joint/back issues: if I'm in this much physical discomfort, i really can't see how people with significantly more weight can deal with life and be comfortable? When it comes to appearance, I'm fully in the "nobody but the person them self needs to like it/be satisfied by it". But when it comes to joints, skinfold holding sweat etc. It just doesn't sound conductive for a happy life? I know that i get grouchy when in pain
@@zottelhuehs6375 i have joint issues too and I fat yeah its not fun but beyond wishinf people to be a healthy medium (not obese, not close to it and not in danger of being actual skin and bones), I don't make odd comments to either side I especially still treat them like a human being
Screw that, I just like eating a balanced diet. But when you're a short, single female with CPTSD and food issues? Being overweight has kept the sexual harassment away. My weight yo-yos and I hit a certain BMI and it's like a switch flips and suddenly it's catcalls and students making innuendos and such. My fat is literally my shield, and so long as I can still function I'm fine carrying the extra padding because it protects me.
I notice if I wear my cross necklace they would still stare but they won't make the comments. I went walking with my sister wearning a skirt down to my ankles but they was acting like I was almost naked, they kept quite because of my necklace. I'm not too small. 🤷
Being fat is one of the best things that can happen to you. Seriously, you'll find ALL the other things to enjoy in life that if you were thin you wouldn't think about. But Exercise is Gold!
i’m a fat person whose actively trying to lose weight and it’s still like??? i get people are trying to be encouraging but i’m literally just going and,, getting a salad? i don’t need a medal 😭😭
As a once fat Girl, and now... in the underweight bracket... I personally get offended when the only interesting topic of concern is what shape/size my body is. After my weightloss it was as if folks couldn't talk about anything else.
so relatable… i don’t like chocolates or sweets in general so sometimes when i’m offered sweets i say no or take only a little to be polite but these people be like ‘oh it’s good you’re diet conscious’ or ‘yeah you really need less sugar in your diet’. i used to explain at first but now i don’t even bother and just laugh it off
😂😂I remember walking in to a restaurant while my boyfriend (now ex) went to park the car, this one guy who was at the till point said "are you a model? " I said no, then my bf walked in, the look on the guys face and his colleagues was so funny🤣 the girl said what are you and your friend getting, I said "boyfriend.. Ummh I'll have a bowl of salad and he will have chicken with.. " then she proceeded "oh it should be the other way around" we left the restaurant. I don't understand why some people always have issues with fat people, I mean I'm skinny but I have my own insecurities, as long as the person is comfortable in their own body then let them be.
I bought a salad to work for lunch just because I legit was just in the mood for a salad And literally every coworker that walked in thought I was on a diet 🙄
As a skinny person I would rather be fatter because fat people are naturally stronger usually and it’s so much easier to eat in a calorie deficit than surplus
Legit I was eating grapes the other day and this guy I've never met went 'I see you're on a healthy diet. That's great, you are what you eat! You look GREAT for it 😍'
It's kind of funny but it's actually not necessarily based on what you eat or what you don't do or being lazy. Sometimes it's literally just about nutrition and doing a minimal amount of exercise, not doing a lot
Me and my mom are the only skinny people in a family of fat people. Bad thing is, my brother is on his weight loss journey(his words not mine) and because of that he thinks I have to start working out with him. I’m recovering from an ED, and I’m very susceptible to addiction, so I don’t want to get an exercise addiction that could trigger a relapse, but my brother doesn’t understand how EDs work, so I have to just make excuses cause it’s too much work to explain it
I used to run out of work at the end of the day bc the building is huge & I want to go home... and this Indonesian woman I was friends with started inviting me to do runs and hikes because I "have good running form" and she wanted me to lose weight lol. I appreciated the offers but a little insulting lol
can i just say i can’t stand the way people on the internet and where i live are so insistent on commenting on other people’s body types and other immutable characteristics. there are so many assumptions and voicing them is so commonplace, totally socially fine, it makes me sick. all my life i’ve heard comments about my body type, people can’t help themselves. i’m very underweight and my partner is overweight, we both face this constantly. the comments have lead to such a deep insecurity within both of us. always being judged and having assumptions being made about who i am as a person based on how large or not my meat suit is. it’s so dumb
Being overweight is not an immutable characteristic, by definition. In the vast majority of cases, it is actually a medically urgent symptom of poor choices in diet and lifestyle.
I bought a salad at work the other day. My colleague goes ‘oh that’s a healthy lunch. Are you on a diet? Well done!’ No… I just wanted to sprinkle it on top of my pizza in the evening, but thanks for the gut punch
I'm not going to lie. And I mean this in a sincere way, not a creepy way. But this immediately made me think of one of my favorite comedians. Ralphie May. May he rest in Peace. And before you say it's because he's fat, yes, you wouldnt be wrong.. but thats not it lol.The comedic timing, the faces, the way the joke was spun lol... well done. I'll be sure to checc you out more C.H!
it's the exact same as a skinny person😭 "oh my goodness, did you eat that *whole thing*? all by yourself? it's about time you put some meat on those bones!" my metabolism deleting all of my fat intake: 💃
Th best is getting my job as a cleaner and my boss tells me it is also a good way to lose weight…I’m not trying to lose weight, but good to know I look fat af 😂
I've had the opposite. People tell me I don't need to worry about what the world thinks, and tell me to be happy with who I am. Toxic positivity is a thing y'all.
my favorite toxic positivity are the people that really hype you up that just wanting something bad enough is enough to make it happen, then when you try to explain all the steps you have taken to make it happen and how it didn't work out or why it cannot happen and your limitations, they make you feel bad for not trying hard enough.
Bro I lost like 10 pounds in a week from my medication and not being able to eat and everyone was proud of me while I was like dying and hurting bruh wtf 💀
I have never heard something so accurate in my life LMAO---my boyfriend is really thin and says stuff like that all the time---not in a malicious way, he just misunderstands the intentions of my actions and he thinks he’s supporting me
Was not expecting that New Orleans Baton Rouge question at the end….kinda shocked Tricia knew that.. I live in Baton Rouge like huh nobody talks about this place?? Come to BR lol
“Well meaning” fatphobes always sound like they’re asking if we’ve heard of trying. Like, no, I’ve never ever put any effort into anything, thank you for this life changing epiphany, brave stranger!
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“You don’t have to live this way 💅 ” 💀
But you literally don't. People who encourage fatness are literally encouraging a death up to 10 years earlier
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you dont
And whenever you eat a vegetable in front of someone you just met they treat you like it’s your first time trying it. 👁👄👁
Truly! They act like it's like their main character moment in a horse taming movie 😂
They act like you have no clue sugar and carbs can make you fat
This has never happened to you.
@@sh19413 are you talking about yourself? usually you would say "this has never happened to ME" hope that helps. the beautiful thing about the internet is we can share our experiences and learn more about other points of view
@@sh19413nothing has ever happened to anyone.
as a fat person, as soon as i heard that opening line i was HOOKED
As a skinny person I was hook as well..lol see coexistence
@@504.CREOLE period
we can unite together and take on that body shamers.
We can coexist, but i wont have heart disease, diabetes, high colestrol, strokes, etc. Oh, and ill live longer. Now that is whats funny.
@@rustyshacklferd535 that’s cute, rusty. while strokes and heart disease have been linked to obesity, there are many more prevalent factors, such as aging and genetics. there’s ways to try to avoid all of the things you listed, but realistically, it’s very hard to predict which of us is going to go first. we’ll just have to see. may the odds be ever in my favor.
LITERALLY like i’ll have a carrot as a snack and apparently it’s the first step in my weight loss journey 💀💀
Journey has songs about weight loss?!
• Is that what "Wheel In The Sky" is really about? A bird or space-themed treadmill? Set your goals high?
• "Faithfully"...keeping your diet plan?
• "Don't Stop Believin'!" ...you _can_ lose that weight!
• Ice cream..."I'll Be Alright Without You"...
• Carbs & me going our "Separate Ways"...
• "Open Arms" & "Girl Can't Help It"...for those cheat days or holidays...
• "The Way We Used To Be"...skinnier when we were "Only The Young"...
• "Who's Cryin' Now"...after that workout...
• "Be Good To Yourself"...take your vitamins and supplements...
• "The Party's Over" ...if you gain back the weight you lost...
Wow! There really is a weight loss Journey!
7/1/22
@@AB_Evans JUST A SKINNY BOY, BORN AND RAISED IN SOUTH DETROIT
POV the person that wrote this looks likes this:
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Literal stick person
@@AB_Evans your talents are wasted here
@@fenrirrising131 ~ Talent shared is never talent wasted. It's all good. Thank you for your kind words. God bless you!
In middle school I told my former best friend that I wanted to start working out. She legitimately said, “I can’t wait for you to be skinny”
Okay?
@@slycooper2bandofthieves116????
wow the slap in the face
that's horrible lol, one of those things that sticks with you
At least she believed you could do it!
And wanted you to be more healthy?
LITERALLYYYYY i’ll say i’m gonna work out later and my sister’s ready to draft me a goddamn fitness plan
Your sister wants you to be on this earth longer, so she is trying to organise your exercise to make it easy for you
Amen!😂😭
i WISHHHH SOMEONE COULD DO THIS FOR ME THO
@@anthonyvincent4625 search up a free one people have made plenty of great workout plans and made them available for free
@@anthonyvincent4625 there’s hella dance videos to like tons of music on fitness channels too, i used to do some and then did work for me before i stopped lol
My favorite comedians are the ones who laugh along with their jokes 😂 its so much better when you can tell everyone's just having a great time
a wholesome thought!
@@chloerene7858 its a bad sign when the comedian laughs more than you.
@@quinndavis630 And your point is...? They didn't say anything about the comedian laughing more, they said along with.
@@bigby1602 oh my point was that the guy has no jokes. No punch lines. They laugh because he giggles.
@quinndavis630 ah I see, understood.
Exactly there is a big difference between acceptance and encouragement. Yes, people should try to be the healthiest version of themselves. But also, just let me exist?? Like why does my existence bother you so much? Just let me be. Idc if your comments come from a place of "good intent" just leave me alone.
and as they say, the road to hell is paved with good intentions, so...
"Remember that staying in shape is a good thing. But at the end of the day, round, is also a shape."
No
i hope ur not obese after a year
Good one.
MY NEW MANTRA love you tbh
@@slycooper2bandofthieves116 Murray would beg to differ
"I think fat people and skinny people can coexist"
**laughter**
Should have retorted with.. "well apparently not"
@@rab46290Yeah all those horrible Genocides against fat people...
That's facts about people getting too excited when you mention exercise or self care 😂😂😂 Funny stuff
Yes because encouraging a healthy lifestyle is apparently not a desirable trait 🙃
@@AK-po1eo bcus y'all think fat ppl can't eat a salad or go on a walk?
@@shalissa6134 oh they definitely can, it's just a rare occurrence is all.
@@kriskiritsugo535 not really my mom eats salads often walks often has participated in many runs and a few half marathons still fat.
I’m also fat but I enjoy salads fruits and walks when it’s not to hot or cold I also participate in some of the runs with her and I have done Taekwondo and continue to do kickboxing and boxing
At least for me it’s not a wait loss plan when people asume it is it’s kinda rude because it just implies something.
@@kriskiritsugo535 yeah but making it seem special won't encourage us to do it often. Idk it's like overhyping a series. I'm not gonna want to watch it anymore if you overhype it. Same for eating healthy and exercising, if I mention it just be cool about it, no need to go crazy like this.
Lmao actual body positivity
Literally
Yayyy body positivity I’ll for sure be positive when I die from a heart attack and diabetes
@@ianlugo4637 Yeah bro, death is natural & if I go out with a heart attack, then so be it.
At least in life, I was happy and full. When I'm dead, I won't care, I'll be dead. Give me the pizza & lemme die in peace bro
@@beepboop5491 thats dumb
Bro you are not the demographic.
I workout every day. I eat a decently regular amount (although due to some of my meds, I can sometimes forget to eat). I’m just overweight. For me, I’m overweight due to my autoimmune disorder. I get people often have good intentions behind being congratulatory when I do “healthy” things, but I also hate how condescending it is. A lot of my skinny friends acknowledge that they are unhealthy in certain ways. I just hate that people assume I’m unable to care for myself most of the time because im fat.
Dude... I feel this. I have always been bigger than others, always will be. I am very thick in the arms and legs especially and it has always been an insecurity of mine. However, I was always dancing, always exercising and eating fruits and veggies every day. At school dances, I was the only one of my friends dancing like crazy the whole time, trying to get them on the dance floor w me. I had people telling me to change my lifestyle to be more healthy when frankly I didn’t need to. I do now, but I look back and I’m like... I wasn’t even that overweight. People from high school apparently had crushes on me and liked me a lot, and I never would have known because of the way I was treated for my size. It was like they were scared of being judged for liking a slightly bigger girl. I was just bigger than my friends. Had a big butt when it wasn’t popular. The way people treat overweight people as though they are automatically flawed and less than... it’s wrong. Fat people are always the butt of the joke. And you are wrong for being fat if it’s just in the “wrong” place. People claim to be worried about health but really it’s just as shallow of a concern as it possibly could be. They really just want you to be easier for them to look at and accept. Screw that!
@@fruityblue9784 if you aren’t skinny, they shame you, but the moment you step over the line to “too skinny,” they shame you in a different way. You can’t win as a woman.
I workout as well and I eat fine..(Sometimes I guess I under eat,but otherwise it’s good)
I still have belly fat and I hate it.
I don’t know what to do about it honestly..sorry for ranting.
@@mckayla6668 I’m sure you’ve already done this, but going to a doctor just to talk about what you’re experiencing could be helpful. They might find something.
@@lizziecross8149 Don't even get me started on the other things you can't win as a woman as too..
so many things..
Fr- I ordered a salad and my mom was like “I’m so proud of you! This is just the beginning. What a good choice”. that’s not even to add my family members constantly text me fitness plans. Like better watch out- Ima start sending y’all weight gain plans
lol
Do it.
Send them strength training videos telling them how to lift heavy and get heavy.
this made me laugh at loud 😭😭 i love that for you
Not the weight gain plans 😭
I feel like some skinny people think fat people only eat fast food and sit lol
lol that’s all i did when i was fat, let people have different experiences? i started eating healthy/less and moving more and the weight fell off? Something called the law of thermodynamics? Calories in vs. calories out? You can’t store energy that you burn, and if you don’t burn as much as you consume, then your body will store it. Ofc some people have metabolic issues/comorbidities, but none of those reasons make obesity any less dangerous, and in fact maintaining a healthy weight is important for people with many of these issues. It’s just hard, and people refuse to do hard things 🤷
I have pcos so it's hella hard to lose weight. One time while on vacation with my family I ordered some fish with vegetable because it was a *special*. My dad immediately clapped and told me how proud he was of me doing something good for myself. Like.. I just wanted the food.. wtf
dude i have pcos and hypothyroidism 😭😭😭 my metabolism doesnt exist its been fUcking evaporated 😭😭😭😭
That would have put me off my meal
I have pcos too and ugh. it’s taken me twice as long to lose the weight I have and I STILL have this godforsaken hormonal fat. A lower carb diet might help you feel better (not necessarily make you lose weight) with the symptoms (as in, more protein and veggies) but dear God the amount of work that goes into weight loss with pcos is insane. I don’t recommend it if you have any inkling of an ED. Hope you’re well ❤️
God, I get you. Now in summer I always get salads for lunch and my colleagues go: "Yay, good for you, you know, it'll be even less calories if you leave out the mozzarella!" 😑 1), I'll leave my soul behind before I leave my mozzarella, 2), that mozzarella is the fat in my meal so I actually feel full and 3) I just like salad bitch move on.
Bro SAAME. 😭 i can't eat my normal diet or do my normal daily exercise routine around skinny people without them thinking im "taking the first step." Like bro I've been taking this "first step" for the past 5 years. 💀None of them believe me when I say the thing that has helped me with weight loss the most were hormone meds to get my androgens down. None of these people trying to help me are willing to recognize that I have a healthier lifestyle than them.
I dont ever like to talk about anything related to eating healthy or working out in public cause im always met with "be honest, you never do that"
“Y’all get too excited”😐
“YES BETCH! YOU DON’T HAVE TO LIVE THIS WAY!!!”🥳
😂😂😂😂
I love this man already. His delivery was perfect
I'm at the gym crying because I hate working out but I literally want to ride my bf so am strengthening my core. I get random people telling me how inspiring I am....
Loy, yk what Meghan said, “When I ride the d Imma spell my name”
YOU GO QUEEN, RIDE THAT D
Feels similar when you in any way call yourself or allude to being fat. "Don't say that about yourself!" Like it's a slur and not a fact of my physiology lol
That’s a nice sweater. It looks good on him
People dont realize just how true this is. The amount of times ive atlked about cooking anything healthy and was faced with "wowww its amazing that you're trying to lose weight you're so brave keep it up!!!!!!" I know they mean well but this is literally just my salad I've been making for work for 2 years. I'm not trying to lose weight i just dont have time to make anything else lmao
the fact that humans have managed to (forcefully) drive a wedge so far between body types that when you talk about them it sound you’re talking about a different species is confusing
I’m always the scapegoat to go to when my immediate family want to “get on a weight loss plan” or “get fit for **whatever event is coming up**” or “finally get skinny and be comfortable in my body”
I’m 16, this has been happening since I was 12-ish. I’m not even too bad, like yeah, I would help to run more of do some core exercises. But it hurts that I’m always the partner in things, as if I’m supposed to be as uncomfortable in my body as the other person. I know it helps to have partners but it’s not like they ever do it so I just say “yeah ok” whenever it’s mentioned.
Yeah, that is seriously not okay. Being a teenager sucks in general. They don't have to make it worse by bullying you.
If it makes you feel any better, I got a lot more comfortable with being fat once I was in college and was away from my parents. I'm eating healthier than my parents, but I'm still just plain fat. And that's okay.
@@aldenheterodyne2833 That is comforting thank you. I am trying to get more fit and comfortable in my own body so this did help
One time I was living with a friend's family for a few months & they held a weight loss competition where the person who lost the most weight got all the money in a pot we all contributed to. Then they all got MAD at me for not wanting to join and accused me of "making excuses" and "choosing to be unhealthy" when I pointed out that I have PCOS and thus have a natural disadvantage.
The sense of superiority some people have over the weirdest things 😭 bihct, you take less space - love that for you, but you’re not morally worse or better because of that and you’re _for sure_ not entitled to tell others how to live in their body💀
100% agree but it goes both ways: fat people are not entitled to spread the message of 'fat acceptance', glorifying obesity. No one wants their kids to grow up thinking being fat is a something that should be encouraged.
@@AK-po1eo It's called fat acceptance not fat encouragement. No one is encouraging you to be fat they are saying let fat people exist without the constant stigmas and mistreatment. Why people think it is about telling people to gain more weight is beyond me.
@@AK-po1eo like the other commenter said, ACCEPTENCE, not ECOURAGEMENT.
@@AK-po1eo what an utterly nuanced take that is surely addressing the real problems we’re facing. I’ve sure never heard this one before folks. Thank god, I was just about to tell all my friends to chub up for fat girl summer.
Bring back fat shaming. Oh, and let’s shame smokers while we are at it.
LMAO stop because when i was in the eighth grade i was eating a salad for lunch in class (it was the period before lunch and everyone ate lunch in that class) and the substitute teacher came up to me and literally said “aww, zoe! look at you with your healthy salad! i’m so proud of you!
My mother-in-law was four times heavier than me, she could move during aerobics far far better.
Muscle memory. Some people weren’t always out of shape whilst others have never been in shape.
" was " 😶
Four times??? Was she 500 pounds? 😭
Bruh if yo mother in law is 600 pounds and more agile than you that’s not her being agile that’s you being stiffer than a 16 year old boy’s special sock
@@mommasbigboy8656 where does it say anything about water? Lmao
I got panera with my grandma and I ordered a strawberry poppyseed salad and she was like “im so proud of you” like what are you talking about dawg
Why are people so weird? I’d just ask if it was good
Ok that was low-key funny LOL
That vest looks sooooo darn cozyyy I want one despite of 93 degrees outside
Thin people are apparently horrified by the idea that us fat people can be fat and happy about it and comfortable with ourselves.
As someone that wouldn't consider themselves fat or skinny with joint/back issues: if I'm in this much physical discomfort, i really can't see how people with significantly more weight can deal with life and be comfortable? When it comes to appearance, I'm fully in the "nobody but the person them self needs to like it/be satisfied by it". But when it comes to joints, skinfold holding sweat etc. It just doesn't sound conductive for a happy life? I know that i get grouchy when in pain
@@zottelhuehs6375 and that's your experience. Not everyone else's. Sometimes it's just that easy and you shouldn't overthink it.
Stop copping your not happy being fat
@@zottelhuehs6375 i have joint issues too and I fat
yeah its not fun but beyond wishinf people to be a healthy medium (not obese, not close to it and not in danger of being actual skin and bones), I don't make odd comments to either side
I especially still treat them like a human being
a human being with their own life experiences, issues, reasons and different BMI to me
Screw that, I just like eating a balanced diet. But when you're a short, single female with CPTSD and food issues? Being overweight has kept the sexual harassment away. My weight yo-yos and I hit a certain BMI and it's like a switch flips and suddenly it's catcalls and students making innuendos and such. My fat is literally my shield, and so long as I can still function I'm fine carrying the extra padding because it protects me.
I'm really sorry people do that to you
I felt every word here, I’m glad I found someone I could relate to
Unfortunately sometimes even that doesn't protect you.. 🙃 Speaking from experience
I notice if I wear my cross necklace they would still stare but they won't make the comments. I went walking with my sister wearning a skirt down to my ankles but they was acting like I was almost naked, they kept quite because of my necklace. I'm not too small. 🤷
I noticed that too. When I lose weight the sexual harrassment increases exponentially.
‘Yes bitch!’…lmaooooo
Being fat is one of the best things that can happen to you. Seriously, you'll find ALL the other things to enjoy in life that if you were thin you wouldn't think about. But Exercise is Gold!
That's literally happened to me.💀
That outfit is fire
I thought this was Jared from subway before all the weight was gone.
i’m a fat person whose actively trying to lose weight and it’s still like??? i get people are trying to be encouraging but i’m literally just going and,, getting a salad? i don’t need a medal 😭😭
Yoooo 🤣🤣🤣 I’m fat and this was funny af
It's wild there's still fatphobia
Caleb is soooooooooooo damn funny 😂
I really want to hear him talk with a Peter Griffin voice.
As a once fat Girl, and now... in the underweight bracket...
I personally get offended when the only interesting topic of concern is what shape/size my body is.
After my weightloss it was as if folks couldn't talk about anything else.
I said I worked out to my "colleagues" at a shoot and I got these looks "🤨😐😶😕"
so relatable… i don’t like chocolates or sweets in general so sometimes when i’m offered sweets i say no or take only a little to be polite but these people be like ‘oh it’s good you’re diet conscious’ or ‘yeah you really need less sugar in your diet’. i used to explain at first but now i don’t even bother and just laugh it off
Literally 😭😭😭😭
"Mkay" lol felt, real pensivee
Ok well now I need to see the entire set
Lol damn. I thought he was going to say the thin person would get too excited and want them to go on a hike or something 😂, that was unexpected.
😂😂I remember walking in to a restaurant while my boyfriend (now ex) went to park the car, this one guy who was at the till point said "are you a model? " I said no, then my bf walked in, the look on the guys face and his colleagues was so funny🤣 the girl said what are you and your friend getting, I said "boyfriend.. Ummh I'll have a bowl of salad and he will have chicken with.. " then she proceeded "oh it should be the other way around" we left the restaurant. I don't understand why some people always have issues with fat people, I mean I'm skinny but I have my own insecurities, as long as the person is comfortable in their own body then let them be.
That outfit is kinda lit
Dude may be fat but he has the drip fr
This made me laugh so hard!
This is so true!!!
I bought a salad to work for lunch just because I legit was just in the mood for a salad And literally every coworker that walked in thought I was on a diet 🙄
he looks like a young eric stonestreet
As a skinny person I would rather be fatter because fat people are naturally stronger usually and it’s so much easier to eat in a calorie deficit than surplus
Look I appreciate peoples excitement for my health journey but sometimes it feels like it’s too much pressure so I’ve been going to the gym secretly .
Lmao the accuracy
Caleb reminds me of Ryan Reynolds lol
I wanna send this to my friend but I’m afraid she’ll think I’m calling her fat by sending her this 😭
Bro reminds me of cam from modern family
When he screamed “cancel me!!” That’s exactly who I thought of too haha
Legit I was eating grapes the other day and this guy I've never met went 'I see you're on a healthy diet. That's great, you are what you eat! You look GREAT for it 😍'
this is too accurate jesus
It's kind of funny but it's actually not necessarily based on what you eat or what you don't do or being lazy. Sometimes it's literally just about nutrition and doing a minimal amount of exercise, not doing a lot
I walk everywhere and getting in all the food groups is important to me and I'm still fat! AND HAPPY!
Me and my mom are the only skinny people in a family of fat people. Bad thing is, my brother is on his weight loss journey(his words not mine) and because of that he thinks I have to start working out with him. I’m recovering from an ED, and I’m very susceptible to addiction, so I don’t want to get an exercise addiction that could trigger a relapse, but my brother doesn’t understand how EDs work, so I have to just make excuses cause it’s too much work to explain it
I used to run out of work at the end of the day bc the building is huge & I want to go home... and this Indonesian woman I was friends with started inviting me to do runs and hikes because I "have good running form" and she wanted me to lose weight lol. I appreciated the offers but a little insulting lol
My response: "we already do" 😂
Ok peter griffin
When I was in grade school, people used to ask me if I was anorexic or bulimic :( I was just a poor kid sustained by school lunches 😭
can i just say i can’t stand the way people on the internet and where i live are so insistent on commenting on other people’s body types and other immutable characteristics. there are so many assumptions and voicing them is so commonplace, totally socially fine, it makes me sick. all my life i’ve heard comments about my body type, people can’t help themselves. i’m very underweight and my partner is overweight, we both face this constantly. the comments have lead to such a deep insecurity within both of us. always being judged and having assumptions being made about who i am as a person based on how large or not my meat suit is. it’s so dumb
Being overweight is not an immutable characteristic, by definition. In the vast majority of cases, it is actually a medically urgent symptom of poor choices in diet and lifestyle.
I get stoned and go on hikes. It's not serious
Homie looking like Craig from malcolm in the middle
He's hilarioussss
I got the joke, and he seems nice to me.
Reminds me of Malcolm in the middle
He's funny 😂😂😂😂
I love how this comment section pass the Vibe Check 🙌🏻
I bought a salad at work the other day. My colleague goes ‘oh that’s a healthy lunch. Are you on a diet? Well done!’
No… I just wanted to sprinkle it on top of my pizza in the evening, but thanks for the gut punch
I’ll eat carrots and everyone is celebrating like I don’t eat them almost everyday.
I'm not going to lie. And I mean this in a sincere way, not a creepy way. But this immediately made me think of one of my favorite comedians. Ralphie May. May he rest in Peace.
And before you say it's because he's fat, yes, you wouldnt be wrong.. but thats not it lol.The comedic timing, the faces, the way the joke was spun lol... well done. I'll be sure to checc you out more C.H!
He did that Trump meme gif face at the end lol
it's the exact same as a skinny person😭
"oh my goodness, did you eat that *whole thing*? all by yourself? it's about time you put some meat on those bones!"
my metabolism deleting all of my fat intake: 💃
Yep, people need to look at themselves more and leave others alone.
Probably even more so.
Everyone seems real comfortable saying anything about a skinny person's body.
I struggled for years trying to gain weight and every time I complained, I just got people saying they wish they had my problem.
he looks so nice, great choice of clothes
So true!!! As a fat person you pick up a chocolate bar, the only one you had that month and they like you need to cut down!
Th best is getting my job as a cleaner and my boss tells me it is also a good way to lose weight…I’m not trying to lose weight, but good to know I look fat af 😂
He looks like Craig from Malcolm in the middle
I've had the opposite. People tell me I don't need to worry about what the world thinks, and tell me to be happy with who I am. Toxic positivity is a thing y'all.
i get told if Im just more positive my mood disorders and episodes will just disappear..
yeah its always existed
my favorite toxic positivity are the people that really hype you up that just wanting something bad enough is enough to make it happen, then when you try to explain all the steps you have taken to make it happen and how it didn't work out or why it cannot happen and your limitations, they make you feel bad for not trying hard enough.
Bro I lost like 10 pounds in a week from my medication and not being able to eat and everyone was proud of me while I was like dying and hurting bruh wtf 💀
WE GO JIM
His voice tho
I have never heard something so accurate in my life LMAO---my boyfriend is really thin and says stuff like that all the time---not in a malicious way, he just misunderstands the intentions of my actions and he thinks he’s supporting me
So this is that important comedy I've been hearing about.
This guy gives me big Phillip DeFranco vibes
Was not expecting that New Orleans Baton Rouge question at the end….kinda shocked Tricia knew that.. I live in Baton Rouge like huh nobody talks about this place?? Come to BR lol
As a skinny person I’d say have fun.
as a chubby person i feel like its all eyes on me when i talk about going to the gym
“Well meaning” fatphobes always sound like they’re asking if we’ve heard of trying.
Like, no, I’ve never ever put any effort into anything, thank you for this life changing epiphany, brave stranger!