Episode 10: Why Feeling Alone Or Disconnected From Other People Means You’re Healing
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I resonate with this one so completely. Thank you to Nicole and Jenna for sheding light on why we can feel so disconnected from others. Your personal experiences and examples really helped illuminate how feelings of disconnection (and reasons why) show up in our lives, and how we can move forward to connection. I realize how much I've felt disconnected from people, not letting them get to close out of fear. And at the same time desperately wanting to have deep connections with others. I'm happy to know that I'm on the right track with continuing to check in with myself in a given moment and, as a people pleaser, not just "go along to get along." Thanks, as always, for bringing in your own lived examples - past and present - to show how the work "works" in real time. Appreciate you both.
It is so good to see people open themselves up not only infront of the entire world but especially in front of their partners, shows the kind of grounded trust and honouring one has not only in themselves but also in their partners.
This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my RUclips channel 9 months ago about self development. Now I have 1,584 subs and > 1,000 hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I could haven’t learned without getting started in the 1st place.
I think shedding tears while watching this video is healing in itself. Thank you. I felt heard in my experience especially pushing others away that love me deeply because I feel disconnected from them all the while not taking into account how I may not be connected to myself.
I SO NEEDED to hear this today! SO GOOD! I AM NEVER ALONE. I AM ALWAYS WITH MYSELF! 💞
Nicole, this was absolutely incredible. I can relate to this so much that I think I feel more. Connected to the two of you right now then anyone else in my life.
The insight these women have on childhood Trauma and the ways Trauma manifests itself in not only our minds, but equally importantly our bodies is unequalled.
The way that they communicate it is just so “on point” relatable, and easily understood.
I love them for opening me up to the truth of why and how I developed unhealthy attachments and coping mechanism in order to survive, by sharing their own stories and experiences. I like myself a little bit more today because of them!
Thank you ladies 🙏🏽💞🙏🏽💞 you have given me a new perspective on feeling alone & disconnected in moments when it doesn't feel good.
...and yes, I do have a tendency to isolate myself and to help even more I have a tendency to be introverted.
i love and resonate with this episode very much. i love your presence jenna and nicole, thank you very much for beeing authentic
I absolutely loved this episode! I am a medium, and so can say that you are never alone. Besides your self, you have your ancestors and loved ones in Heaven right by your side 🪶🥰 it’s hard to believe sometimes.
You are so very real, vulnerable and honest ❤️ thank you for that and for to make us out in the world, to not feel alone in this ❤️👌
this is so precious!!! beyond words. thank you so much, you are creating new codes of intimacy and relation through communicating such honesty and transparency. listening to your words coming from the heart with delicate awareness is empowering me by the second I hear them... thank you 💜
"We are never alone. We are with ourselves, in our own presence." Thank you so much!
I am so grateful for the amazing wisdom you share. On this specific topic however, I see that you talk about isolation and disconnection while having a partner or family members or other people around. It's like it is given for granted. What if you are really alone, your partner has died, your parents have died, you have no siblings or other family members, and friends have disappeared when things went tough (for me)? I'm really totally alone, I don't speak with someone for days, I go out for grocery shopping and few other reasons and ... I'm in Italy, no one knows here what "doing the work" means, therapists just know CBT (I've wasted Money and time with many of them, just to feel worse and broken). .... and I've learned that healing is a process that you can't do alone, everyone needs someone to co-regulate with .... I feel hopeless
Thank you girls. Great to listen to you talking about such important issues. Love you. Massimo
Wonderful job ladies!!! Very authentic!!! caring is the new pandemic! self or other wise-ONELOVE...much appreciation
Watched this episode already twice! Thank you so much for all the work you're doing and sharing. Thank you for your vulnerability in sharing your stories. Finding so much resonance.
I matter and I can take up space and make space for myself and that's a wonderful thing to acknowledge. Thank you!
Thank you ladies for sharing your journey and information on healing. I loved Nicole's book, and now I'm reading Universal Human. This is turning into a journey I'm starting to enjoy. ☮
I struggle with being surrounded by people who think that tweeting and posting IS reality, IS relating. The corollary to that is that they feel ACTUAL conversation, full frontal connection, is unnecessary.
I am with me my self alone a lot it hurts anyways the community is really really amazing place to be if whomever wishes to do so.
As I listened to you both I could relate more to Nicole’s experiences growing up etc. If I wasn’t around other people I’d feel very alone. I didn’t enjoy my own company. Since doing some healing work for the past five years I have learned to enjoy my own company. Now I’m at a place to go deeper and ask myself what I really want like Jenna mentioned.
So much resonates in this episode. I've always had friendships and relationships but disconnected deep down. Thank you for another great episode 🙏
I need to say thank you for this episode.
I thank you immensely for this content..Because I isolate I bounce between what is wrong with me and I don't feel anything is wrong. Others don't understand this behavior..I resonate with all you have said..I feel after isolating I go "back to society "as my authentic self not how other people have shaped me and made me feel like an alien to myself..not sure if that made sense but it is how I feel
I already did a review on Spotify a few weeks ago, where else can we do a review? Jenna, I can relate so much to your need of evading yourself, run away or just spend time alone. Now, I am not on a running away mindset, because I am quite in a peaceful and safe state right now, but I do have this visceral need of spending time alone. When my daughters go to spend 2 days in a week with their father, that's my time, where I can do whatever I feel to do, I peace and Silence and I really enjoy to be on my own. And true, we are never alone, there are So Many Higher Beings around us, guiding, assisting, protecting us. Life is Good. 🙂💜🌟🌸
Wow I love this. So beautiful, every word & every moment I have spent watching & listening to this. Thanks!
I think this episode can be confusing from a personal responsibility/ independence vs relying on others' perspective.
Disconnection within a crowd of people can mean you don't belong with that crowd or you don't feel worthy enough of belonging to that crowd.
Disconnection with your new friends or date can mean you don't feel like they are the ones you really wanted to choose, or you don't think you deserve such love and warmth around you.
Here the line between latent self-sabotage through purposeful disconnection or disconnection due to previous patterns might be confusing; it is for me, at least.
Hope this helps someone get nuance.
Is this a reason for social rejection, as well? Or is that another topic and has other causes? I would have loved if you can talk about this in some later podcast. Great information! :)
Same question I have..
I love this talk! Do you carry this vulnerability to all areas of your life? Really brave!
Thank you for sharing this information!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Guys, is there a script or notes online, for this episode? Where I can read and listen at the same time what they're saying. Thank you.
How do I know if the urge I feel to get out of a relationship is coming from my inner self who needs a safe space for healing or from my ego as a flight mode coping mechanism?
Trying to understand...needing to be alone to find out what I need And also I am never alone cause I have me? The idea is by understanding what I need I can seek getting it either from myself or by being authentic with another by sharing my needs.
What if I feel like I am super selfish and I shut down when people express feelings and needs and yet I am such a people pleaser. I am struggling between feeling disconnected because I need to connect to myself or because I need to listen to other people more and show up more in order to feel connected.
I am very confused.