Reacting To: Air Force Pilot Obsessed With One Woman.
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- Опубликовано: 3 окт 2024
- Air force pilot obsesses over one woman that got away, looking for advice on how to get her out of his head, and move on to better things.
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This is off topic, but… is Fight Club a red pill movie?
@@KATASTROPHE69S obviously
What’s the point of all of this? Increasing your “game” only keeps you playing games. Is marriage and family ever a good idea? Or should our lives be all about making money, looking good and fucking lots of women?
usually white people are afraid to speak on bIack issues for fear of being cancelled, but i think Rich should speak on this: "Melli Monaco - A Black Man Who Doesn’t Date Black Women 😳OMG"
For whoever needs to know, Trump's new social media site came out today. Joker, make your account on their. Free speech and far less censorship. It's called Gettr!!! Check it out
You gotta know when to stop chasing the enemy mig..
Hahahahaha comment of the year
@@aboredvi3t Yeah. I'm thinking about that one. I second the vote.
Dude is a pilot he can choose any woman he wants 😢
The modern woman doesn't care about what a man does... only how he can satisfy her needs.
Emotions bro. Understand.
Exactly. To women, pilots = travel.
@@deplorableb.r.4211 lol what
He doesn’t even have to talk much…
Pilot: Sup.
Her: What do you do?
Pilot: Fighter Pilot.
Her: (hands him her panties) 💦
I've been in the Air Force for 18 years. I've seen this same situation time and time again. I'm not sure why a man of his significance would even consider dating another military woman. These women are pursued so heavily since the time they put their uniforms on for the first time. It's absolutely insane how many options military women have, they will take advantage of every single time.
This is true. I f’d up and dated a med chick here at my base and the sex was great, but took me time to realize she had many red flags. Partying being the main one.
Military women and law enforcement women are a NO GO ZONE
Most of the girls that join the military are low class and are passed around the platoon
@@medicisounds1384 yah these women are in situations where dudes are around a bunch of other dudes most of the time so they just wanna get a nut, and the women are vastly out numbered so they have tons of options.
It's the same with young women in college and everywhere else, not just in the military. The only difference between a garden tool and a regular chick is that a regular chick is more worried about her reputation and more discreet. Instead of waiting for a unicorn, learn game, spin plates and do the work. THERE ARE NO UNICORNS. Let the women worry about serious relationships, because it benefits them more than men.
Spot on. Been in 15 years myself and had to learn the hard way. Statistically, we have the best looking women compared to other branches but looks aside, pretty much every female in the military behave the same and have that same sense of self entitlement when it comes to men. It’s even WORSE on deployments. You already know. E’s secretly hooking up with O’s is obviously forbidden, but happens more than people realize. I’d rather be single than date another AF girl 😂✌🏼
Former combat arms trade here. I can say even ugly girls get tons of attention on army bases. Bunch of bored army guys some who are stuck on base most of the week, whos standards don't exist will constantly be trying to get in her pants flooding her with attention, it will never be worth the headache.
This is so true, I served in the IDF, in some bases the ratio of men to women was like 700 to 1!
They want to play musical beds at the office.
@@shitmandood Ha!
This created a great image in my head
“Every nickel is a dime in the military.”
I'm obsessed with Noelle Anzivine and was also in the Air Force ironically 🇺🇸
🤣
I’m the IDF we would say: “Every Thistle in the city is a Rose in the desert”
I’m the IDF we would say: “Every Thistle in the city is a Rose in the desert”
I’m the IDF we would say: “Every Thistle in the city is a Rose in the desert”
Holy shit. I caught myself making excuses for why I couldn't get over my first girlfriend even 10 years later. I told myself she had qualities that not a lot of girls held today. Got the oneitis bad. I will be buying your book.
Yeah, it's an illusion. Believing you have/had the one!
Loads of birds out there. They're all or nearly all the same. Pretty much. Once I realised this my life improved massively. As I no longer cared all that much about things that weren't worth caring all that much about!
I'm seeing 3 birds at the moment. They're all different, yet all the same as well. Enjoy!
10 years later? Jesus, dude. Oneitis doesn't last that long...My oneitis stopped many years back once I realized this wasn't a thing that was just happening to me alone, many have it... Once I realized it was all bullshit, that lady stuck in my head faded out of the picture. I didn't even understand why she was there or why she wouldn't leave for so long, but I did understand it was my own mind dreaming up fantasies.
@@robertrecchia2642 this is absolutely spot on.
A lot of non-pilots in the comment section remarking how pilots can just take their pick...well as a military aviator, I wish that was the case, but in my experience most civilian women either do not understand or care what I do, are not interested in learning, or worse see it as a red flag: "He'll never be around" "I'll have to move all the time" "That's dangerous!" "I just don't _get_ the military" "Military guys are all low-brow conservatives looking for housewives" and so forth. Actually one of the more disappointing realizations of my adult life.
Then quit military and stop being a lap dog for the government?
@@qud3913 You have a US President / career politician from a political dynasty as your profile picture dude
@@abram_gw
And? Is he the government today?
The government absolutely loathes the guy I replied to, not to mention we've been taking L's the past 50 years.
The best a US pilot can do today is kill some family in Syria & Iraq or drop some weapons for ISIS.. etc.
@@qud3913 I understand where you're coming from
They get angry when I say the "chopppah" has a weight limit...your mum has to "weight" on the tarmac...emeny close..... boom
I'm a fighter pilot myself, so trust me on this: there are no cheat codes.
You think it's that simple? Just flirt with chicks anywhere and pretend you are a fighter pilot, and see how easy it is. TLDR: it's not.
Socially, being a fighter pilot gives you three seconds of attention with women, like many other things. If you play it well, it can be used to initialize contact, build some clout or provide social proof in some situations. However, it doesn't turn your mindset into some natural alpha Chad. It doesn't make you aware of sexual dynamics. It doesn't cure you from oneitis. It doesn't turn you into a sex god. On the contrary, military personnel are oftentimes heavily inclined to sacrifice and to "do what's right", resulting in bad decision-making with women. Most coworkers I know are very unaware, and do the same types of mistakes Rich is continously trying to teach men about.
It helps in another way, though. Being a fighter pilot includes a lot of practicing, physical training, and personal development. Countinously pushing ones comfort zone, learning how to fly, how to fight and how to lead, will develop you as a person and build general confidence and self awareness. These things will build your character and can help your game/life, but this can also be achieved by many other means. Any person wholeheartedly engaging in a craft/skill/training will achieve similar traits.
Becoming a fighter pilot boosted my game just marginally. However, the things I've learned from all the Rule Zero guys have boosted my game tremendously.
...It’s my dream to be a fighter pilot. I’m a SrA, deployed right now but headed back to Cali soon and in my last year of uni. What do you fly?
@@dannyrazavi5957 The only thing you will ever "fly" is a burger grill
The best way to get over someone... is to get on someone else. If homie is a pilot, he should have no problems getting a few other someones.
This seems cliche but in fact it's true. Or into some new projects
Real talk. The real crazy thing is this guy can spin plates with woman in different countries since he's a pilot.
But no worse feeling than the post nut clarity that she’s not as good as the ex . I rather just be alone for while than experience that feeling
It's funny that he says "she has no red flags" yet she's not with him. I think that's a huge red flag.
Brother I'd put down a grand betting she's dating a guy who isn't nearly as cool as the pilot but that dude is probably completely aloof to her may just be dating her for temporary kicks ie, friends with benefits where as the pilot has puppy eyes for her. Chicks know this they can sense it.
The woman needs to be a complement to his life. She should always be SECONDARY to the pursuit of excellence!
They are called help meat for a reason guys, remember even God knows that!
@Cmndr Roy Fokker why should she be above your friends unless its just about sex and that wont last.thats a player narsistic attitude unless your just starting out a relationship.this guys advice seems off.
Lala say ahhhhhhhh....
As a current military member having a similar problem, what you said about them being 4's thinking their 9's is painfully accurate.
Once we start watching this channel there is no going back..
Haaa Bilal ikka, sheriyaanu 😆
I wouldn't wish Oneitis on my worst enemies
😂😂😂😂
Rich Cooper, write the name of your next "book"
I got thru stomach cancer and my wife passing away easier !
@@joemar9234 I should write that book myself. Id put a chapter in there called, "get laid in 60 seconds"
Women choose Pilots because it's a cool profession and the guys out of town half the time... give them time to keep CHAD in the mix
when I was like 19 and in Army(airforce), we took part in this big Fair/expo and we had one fighter pilot there. guy was short and small, but women flocked him the whole day non stop as he stood there in the green flying overalls. that was a eye opener. jeez. My friend looked at it and said, "we need to get those flying overalls".
The airforce needs to up their standards, how can we expect him to smash our enemies when he can't see the one in his own bed?
It's the Biden era. Our military is now woke and cares more about feelings and "white supremacists" than war fighting.
Who is the enemy??
Advise for AF Pilot:
1. Buy Unplugged Alpha Printed Copy. Don't get the Audio. Get the print book so you can carry it with you, read it, and re-read it. It's a lifestyle and that's a Bible.
2. Are you a student of fighting arts? Doesn't sound like it. A person involved in fighting arts tend to cultivate a savage mentality and don't sweat the small stuff. You may have the outer body of a Lambo, but still running a Corolla engine. Tom Cruise look? Sounds like a pretty boy outlook. Get rogued, look like you have no issues breaching a door, walking in mud, and jumping in the cage and killing.
3. What worked then, won't work now. Being a pilot may have carried you for a bit, but that ain't going to cut it anymore. You need to get in there and do the work. Remember, it's a De-Selection process, not Selection.
Instead of sitting in a fetal position, by the corner, around a pool of urine, rocking back and forth soobing for being ghosted, get up and start doing the work. Be safe. Be dangerous.
Really liked your comment. I can feel the wisdom on your words
Stop shilling his book, you can get better information for free on the Heartiste blog
I can relate. Oneitis is a very dangerous mental condition for every man out there. It can destroy your integrity and it is as dangerous as a severe mental depression.
If left untreated it can lead to death because of suicide or unemployment and homelessness. Been there done that. The worst: she didn't even care. NEVER AGAIN!
Another guy from Portugal here, be your own mental point of origin, put yourself first. That should erase oneitis by itself.
Portuguese here!
I'm in same boat :/
@@joaoportugal8618 after I broke up with her and sent her some heavier messages, she never spoke to me again for herself, apart from the 1 week thing when she sent me an invoice that I needed and had already asked for a long time. . Apart from that she says she doesn't want to talk to me, much less see me. Whenever she saw me she would reconnect with me. But now even when I start the conversation she doesnt talks to me and I'm blocked in everything.
@@joaoportugal8618 Haha I'm a female. SMH. As a female, I wished I knew about this in my 20s. I had One-itis. It was baaad. Thank you for the info. I AM Gonna Put myself on a Pedestal And Do Me. I guess I'm too "alpha" and lmao guys just stare. Blessings. And Thank You for Your Service. I Salute You!!!💎
Volks… wow. Maybe the best comment I’ve ever read. Cheers mate!
Something I can share with fellow pilots who seem to think unicorns exist. Thanks!
Hotboi and Future recently said: " Nobody special, I think all these girls the same".
Sounds like homie doesn't know how to stay on his purpose & chase excellence!!!
she as no red flag
dude , she dating multiple men at the same time , you just don't want to admit it
The guys right. There's loads of birds out there. I renember as younger guy thinking every bird was 'the one!'. They're all the same. Lose one, just look for another. And the next one will probably be not that much different to the last. And the one before that...
Tacos for the algorithm 🌮🌮🌮🌮🌮🌮🌮🌮🌮🌮🌮🌮🌮🌮🌮
There's a saying in the military, "If you branch of service wanted you to be married, they would issue you a spouse.
Heartbreak hurts so fucking bad. It can make everything you've ever accomplished into dust. I totally understand this guy.
Don't have a heart - have a pump
simple
After 15 years of marriage I betatized myself through 1000 concessions. After she cheated I should've been devastated but I'm not. Essentially I realized the fault was mine because I lost my frame. You have preassigned frame my dude. You walk into most situations with the knowledge that you're an AF pilot, good looking/fit and successful. Don't pedestalize women. It's the worst thing we can do as men. She should be clawing to get at you, if she's not, move on to the next one because she's not worth your time. You have to believe that you're the one she needs to catch if you want them to believe it too.
Im in my 50s married divorced, plenty of GFs since and looking back, yes over time even the most masculine men become betas in LTR. It is scientifically proven that single men have more testosterone then similar men in mono relas. T drop is slow and insidious. Its hard for men to notice.
@@manthings1568 48 myself. The great news is. Diet, exercise and focus on financial well being brings that T-level up and unlocks that Lion within. I had declared bankruptcy, lost the house, my job, she cheated on me and now divorce. I should be floored. I'm not. I'm relieved. I can focus on regaining what I gave up. Being single is freedom.
@@petergreek38 Yes I agree freedom is great. Ive been single for a few months but Ive been managing my T for 4 years all naturally currently in mid 700s so all good.
Even if they are clawing at you, it doesn’t mean they are worth it. I just put the kabash yesterday on a gf because the clawing for commitment was overbearing but she had already disrespected me and trusting her was out of the question .. shes insecure as hell and has been her whole life, at the same time pushing her will and thoughts on me as if they are my own .. no respect from her .. no thanks .. her response to my putting her off on any commitment (faithfulness and commitment are NOT the same thing though commitment is widely considered to be the same as faithfulness ) .was to make sure I knew she was going to continue, in harsh fashion to me, to return to how she was living her life prior to me .. she thought also ALL the women at her job were jealous of her .. so ridiculous .. no wonder why I never met ANY of them .. she was afraid they would try to get with me is my conclusion and I know I’m not that good looking but I have a good job, savings, etc and am relatively even keeled about most things .. I feel relieved though the gf wants me to feel pain .. the pain is wasted time ..
@@johncorson6599 I have never had issues dating. I managed a toppless bar for years and met the lowest of the low and have dated women who are absolute 10's as in looks, charm, femininity, respectful and intelligent. I've found that reminding yourself to always live in abundance is key. women would rather share an alpha than stay faithful to a beta male. so they will jump through hoops if they know that not only do you have 0 tolerance for any of her BS but you'll replace her without a second thought and she knows that you can. this is a powerful tool that keeps a woman in check and brings out her natural and instinctive submissiveness, her feminine and maternal instincts.
I have two kids, If my marriage collapse I'll never get married anymore. I just don't care
You care. That's why you're smart enough to never get married again.
The longer I'm in a healthy relationship, the more I realize how counterproductive some of this information is. It's good to have some red pill awareness, but don't wear it like some badge of honor. If you do, you'll always see women as the enemy. It's not a healthy way to live. Sure be a little vigilant when selecting who you're going to spend your life with. But trust me, there are good traditional, God fearing women still out there. Set your intentions correct. Most men are just simply trying to game women. Thats what these communities teach you. If you game, don't be shocked when the game turns on you. Peace red pill'rs, I'm out. Even if my relationship crashes and burns, I won't return to these toxic ideologies ✌
I am married now, however some of the most toxic women I dated I met at church.
@@stevec3526 lol for real? Mind sharing some quick info on that?
@@Sohelanthropus Personality disorders...
@@stevec3526 I feel that, I've met a couple of church girls myself, most are aight but this chick Sophia was a crazy manipulator bro, to this day just thinking about her gives me the shivers
if you can t walk away you are the weak one
You’re not hers, you’re just her turn.
Hahahaha you're not hers its just her turn...
Ur sentence is just Fu**ed in so many ways
@@FirstLast-tx3yj good
I m not hers, it's just her turn....
The truth hurts but it’s necessary
Instead of waiting for a unicorn, learn game, spin plates and do the work. THERE ARE NO UNICORNS. Let the women worry about serious relationships, because it benefits them more than men.
Fax
I have that same shirt, Hollister shirts fit really well
I been kinda goin through this myself...it never ever works.... the girls becomes an unattainable thing instead of just some dumb girl who farts all the time
Well dating multiple ppl at same time and drops you and comes back only to drop you again seems like a red flag to me
Thanks Rich for all your great self development advice !
I'm not even an Airforce pilot and my relatively simple civillian ratings already get me further than I ever imagined. Can't understand having this oneitis when you've achieved the demi-god status of Airforce Pilot.
Yeah exactly, so many dudes average everyday Joe's put so much effort into building themselves and there career to be able to have access to many women, and they never seem to get a break, and all these rich celebs and high ranking official "alphas" are getting run through the cleaners and cucked left and right, I've I got the chance to be high value or whatever you know damn well I ain't catching no feelings, you only have one life theres gonna be a time where you'll need a forklift just to get it up. Have fun while your young
@@keanowhitmore8009 LMAO ur last sentence got me rofl. 😂🤣😅
Female here and learning a lot.
You got to know when to hold em, know when to fold em, know when to walk away when the dealings done….
Im in my 50s I thought I had a unicorn, she had a very low body count, is sexy in great shape, healthy, great career, hard worker, independent, has her shit together...but a very bad exercise addiction that took most of her time and energy on the weekends. Lasted 3 years and now over. THERE ARE NO UNICORNS. There is always some issue.
She already wasn't a unicorn when she lost her virginity before marriage let alone having a body count at all
I feel as a female No one is Perfect. I guess best thing to do is choose what is the Best for You.
Being a pilot doesn't help with women. I know because I am a pilot. They could give 2 shits what in the hell you do. All they see is a money/travel sign and that's all they care about.
Pilot lifestyle really isn't one that gets to have a stable life. Yiur always moving around and when it comes to women yiu just keep it short and simple. Get what you want and move the hell on. Majority of them aren't worth a second look/ride
Oneitis is a tough bug to shift. Working hard on it (deleted her basically) but I get the feelings of frustration that she hasn't just gone from me. Doesn't stop me getting on but I guess time is a healer. I just know on the flip side she'll have forgotten all about me so it's just a frustration that I can't just kill it off easily. Just keep working on myself and perservering but I'd love to just have an off switch for it.
Women's are confusing if you try to talk through their logic with them, but become pretty transparent if you just watch their actions. If she's banging someone else, you weren't her first choice, the best you could hope for is clean up duty while she keeps looking for whatever she considers her next top shelf guy.
I think your energy would be better spent on finding a woman who does see you as top shelf.
youtubers; don't focus on women
also youtubers in 99% of their videos: here's what you need to know about women
She may indeed have some qualities that make her unique and/or desirable. That doesn't mean that she doesn't have that ONE red flag or flaw that would lead to a nightmare of a relationship. It's usually something emotional/psychological that will mess everything up eventually.
Just keep looking. The best relationships are the ones that work organically, no chasing/manipulating from either partners. And always remember that being single isn't the worst outcome out there.
Her main red flag is to not have genuine desire for him. And that’s an eliminatory one right off the bat.
Ive read Rich’s book and the chapters covering game, dating and texting should be applied to the letter. No jet fighter science (pun intended) and for a pilot, the results are basically guaranteed. “Talk to him Goose !”
The Ghost of Sparta saving lives and taking names
She just exhibited a HUGE red flag: Dating more than one man.
"your game sucks"
okay..... and now what?!
to summarize.. this AF dude got no game, imagine that.. he should have been a sailor...lol
Looool
1. Treat beautiful women like they are ugly
2. Always appear busy
3. When on a date, dominate the moment and make no apologies!
Works every time!!,…You’re welcome!!!
Always appear busy…bro that’s some hollow and deceptive advice
Don't appear busy. Actually be busy. Have a life.
His problem is that he's short. He may look like Tom Cruise but even Tom himself gets turned down when the camera crew isn't around to shoot at angles that make him appear taller. Fighter jets are specifically designed for shorter men to piolt them.
I'm not an expert in psychology, but in some cases like this, people tend to choose someone who is actually treating them bad, or at least not good enough.
Normally most of the cases goes down to an earlier past that they went through, guys find themselves repeating it subconsciously.
He mentioned that he was the fat guy in the school, well maybe and just maybe that's a good start to where these problems are coming from.
If you are reading my comment, consider meeting a real therapist with real understanding to human psychology.
I'm not saying the advice that will come from these red pill community aren't good, it's actually perfect to solve the outside problem and the current situation. Where the real problem might reside deep down untouched.
I just had an epiphany while listening to this. I may or may not be wrong, but I think men convince themselves their woman (or turn with her) is a unicorn in an effort to satisfy his sexual strategy (unlimited access to unlimited women) and be loyal and honourable to her...
Too bad women can't get a handle on and be mindful of their innate sexual strategy (hypergammy) in order to be faithful and honorable with her man.
Dude is suffering from saviour complex, he feels the need to 'save her and be a hero' like a lot of military guys.
Basically a blue pill alpha.
Well when women leave or ghost you constantly, it just means you get more opportunities to move on. I don't really like dating a lot of women at the same time (they get clingy and spiteful that I have s*** to do) however, even though I never say it directly, they get a sense that I have options and I move on fast.
In other words, you have to relish a breakup, because this gives you an opportunity to see other women. Honestly, for every girl who you might think is one-of-kind, there's 20 girls she is friends with who are exactly the same and 100 more you haven't met because you don't want to be with anyone else but the one who you don't want to move on from.
I think the biggest red flag about the girl he is into is that she won't give him 100%. As a high value man you always have to accept nothing less than 100% from your woman.
Dude, you have to let her go out of your heart and mind, otherwise time and oportunities are going to pass you by. Not only better women, but things you could have had acomplished and you are not, because your mind is in la-la land. Life is too short to put all your eggs in one basket...... good luck.
Great advice Rich, I'm having several points for me
I've come to the conclusion that spinning plates may not be the answer or not the single answer. Not giving a fuck about dating is a very good option. I consider myself a mid-high value man and Im at a point where Im good with a woman or without. Just caring less about relas. If it comes I take it, if it doesnt thats ok too.
this
Spinning plates is a huge factor to this mess
Great videos, I am allowing men here in Pyongyang to follow your channel. Dating is hard here to.
I am surprized you have access to this channel. Even the PRC removes certain internet addresses from their people.
Zoomie is still stuck in the mentality he was before the military, where people made fun of him. He would serve himself well if he just dropped that part of his life and based his life and how he acted based on who he is now.
It probably did not occur to him but the women might have seen red flags on him. For example, going on and on about his Air Force pilot experience and how amazing he is and feeling entitled to getting laid or rushing too quick for exclusivity.
Well this is the truth, SUCH women get them obsessed not the good, agreeable, nice women. We always get fucked up in our asses by being nice and good. They complain about the bad one, yet the lowkey do obsess over them.
Just ordered TWO Unplugged Alpha, for me and a friend
This is common in the military. I have a brother that was in the army. He was high ranked in a high profile job. He was married 3 times. He invited a train wreck of a woman into his life. Now he’s in illegal trouble because of it.
Does he have kids?
How much was the reward when you turned him in?
I don’t understand the problem. He comes off as Alpha, which gets him the girls. Then he acts beta, meaning the girls leave him. He doesn’t have to be the bad guy and he gets out of each relationship free and clear. Sounds ideal. Next problem, please.
I tell my girlfriend I do every girl in town. She doesn't believe me.
Being in the Air Force myself it's wild to see him have them mentality when saying you fly would get you so much ass. The pilots i know never have a problems getting women.
Really good info!! Especially someone like myself who is enlisted in the Airforce trying to become a pilot myself. I happen to work on Airplanes and recommended your book to one of my 27 year old pilot friends I met at work. He happened to have lost his girlfriend due to her leaving him later in his airforce career after they were living together and he proposed. He read your book after my recommendation and likes the content!
Airforce pilot should have oneitis only for the plane he flys.
US Military Veteran and traveler here. I love traveling because of the different women I meet with different cultural views. You're content is great and it fortifies my beliefs that most western women, especially in the US (specifically Los Angeles) are not worth the hassle. You can find hotter chicks with more burning desire for you in another country being an American than being an American in America.
Rich is right about getting ghosted... Happens to me Everytime the eggplant game is weak as f..k.
Perhaps being more prepared for these moments will help. Helps me to put the work in before I show up to see her. Mental prep is something they know you did... Obvious as f..k
Planning things out is a big plus too. They appreciate it sometimes... Depends on how she sees you at the moment
Key word right there, how she sees you in that moment. No matter who or what you are in life, a womand feelings are fleeting, it constantly changes, that's why it doesnt matter what you do in this life if you've got money or no money, why you think so many chicks are attracted to convicts thugs, etc. Because there percieved as a bad boy, alpha. It's all how you make em feel, that's why having game is important
I hypothesize that "oneitis" is driven by an innate psychological mechanism that compels us to make an unwavering decision independent of the higher-level reasoning that would otherwise be necessary. For example, considering that predators chase prey, the strategy that most consistently results in a favorable outcome is to pursue only one individual member of the prey, even when the unexpected presence of others appears to be a superior option. A predator that would've otherwise abandoned pursuit every time a better option presented itself would've starved. An overwhelming majority of species generally lacks the capacity to understand abstract concepts such as the physical limitations of their prey (e.g. finite energy expenditure) and thus require some other motivating factor to ensure survival. This specific behavior has evolved with such significant selection pressure that it spans multiple taxonomic orders and, quite obviously, is common to humans.
She DOES have red flags. And she is in the air force (same for all branches of military) and she is getting bombarded daily by countless men. When I was in, I had a ground rule; never get with another service member.
Need to get my game up too!
I like to watch the videos from time to time Rich, but come on. People turn to you because they don't know any better and are struggling. I don't think the "spin plates" tip will help anyone who turns to you for help ;)
Spining Plates comes at some point at the end of development ....and even for a small portion of men who don't become purple pill (which 9 out of 10 guys who "master" the red pill will go purple pill).
'She has no red flags.'
'She broke up with me'
'She is dating another man' --> THOSE ARE HUGE RED FLAGS
Only a whiff of Male Mother Need, is kryptonite for a woman's desire.
The whole I fly planes mantra gets old. I've half been there done that.
The fact is some women aren't going to take the man who's consistently choosing career over family (especially if she's already established and has family locally).
It's hot as hell for them, but it's "fun" not the "one" in their minds.
Be willing to take on a long distance relationship, try to compromise closing the gap once it sets off. Also limits the commitment and you can take vacations to a new place and if the chemistry is good guaranteed.
Women who are unsure will also be into this "try before you buy" situation, where it'd feel messier if you were local...and worse if she's just playing the game of musical chairs of who has the best social circle/rank/status amongst your colleagues on base.
It isn't always the job that's hot, it's what you've built for yourself and that isn't limited to career. The uniform is a bonus. You could be literally anyone and if your job has you in a uniform doing something even semi considered important you'll have chicks on you.
Dudes right though, it sounds like your game / friend circles / sense of humour needs a bit of tuning.
Getting into new hobbies might help too (think chicks would dig, think dancing, gymnastics, etc.)
The "I'm a pilot" can always be a surprise and a panty dropper with a uniform.
Never lead with the sprinkles. They want cake.
Spin plates that’s it
He s too nice! Puts her on a pedestal. Probably too accessible to her. Reply to her text or phone call the next day! Disappear on her the whole weekend. Don't tell her EVERYTHING! Keep the mystery going. Be vague. Give off the attitude... I'm really busy . And will get to her after I'm done with important things. Dont make her the priority. Stop the nice guy sh^t!!
I used to think a girl will choose to be with me my parents are Christian and I grew up believing in Jesus and being with one girl and like a dummy waiting but I’m the Bible god only gave rain to a man who planted the seed and not first wait for rain. Your words “Do the work Son.” Really repeats in my head. Not to be mistaken my step father is the best and I thank god but what he and my mom have is rare god given. I pray to god as John f Kennedy would to be a stronger man I’m still over weight and broke but I thank god for your life Rich because now I’m at peace losing weight and making money. The unplugged alpha!
He's lucky multiple women gave him the time of day. I've only had one relationship in my life
Where we can learn about "game" and improve it? A good book title? THKS!
Rich, as a 42 yr old male that wants to date younger women in their 20s, do my clothes matter? What kind of clothes should I wear, including the shoes? I've noticed that you sort of wear the standard sports clothes that most guys wear. But you drive lots of supercars so that advertises your resources without the need for more formal clothing or even business casual clothing.
Check Alpha M on RUclips, dude's like 46 but dresses like a fucking king, casual but professional
Find an Air Force pic. That’s a damn F-18 on a carrier.
This is unbelievable, I mean the training the guy must went through is so hard it surpasses dating and even freakin women but I guess the brain doesnt know that!
He has "one woman mentality" because he is a responsible man that would junp in front of a bullet for a woman or his children.
He is a man of honor. What else can you ask.
The problem is not oneitis, i think, that's only a derivative. The main problem is that there are no many women out there more o less adjusted to your plans (if not ONS) and who doesn't conflict with them, that is, a companion, a partner in life along to who you can overcome the natural difficulties that will unavoidably arrive. You can jump from woman to woman unsatisfied even as an alpha if you pretend a LTR, so you can imagine what are the battles a non alpha has to endure... Among all these girls, you can meet the one you like, but if there's a break up, it can take months or years anyway to find another one -although you are banging different girls every weekend (and of course you'll see them as a not LTR material).
I don't think a man brain can fall in love many times in a life time or, at least, in his prime years. Being this true (by hypothesis, let's assume), then you must find the "correct" girls. All in all, chances decrease and decrease when more conditions are to be met. So in a sense perhaps to have a oneitis is not so antievolutionary or unnatural; that is, your instinct subconsciously knows what can you achieve, what is around you achievable and how much time is up to you before it is much more difficult.
Thankyou for all your great work
Alpha in this context seems conditional.
Whatever knowledge we get but 99% people understand when we really get hit under balls.
Embarrassing for him. Great for other men though, pilots can easily be playboys, so if he refuses to play normal guys can get a chance
i see that milioners or wery smart ppl can be wery stupid with females and this always weird because how you can be so smart or good at somthing and same way bad with chiks..
This comment is for the guy who sent the email. It sucks I know because you feel emotionally connected, been there. The way it's gone a few times with me is I've ended up hating the female in question eventually for what ever they did that annoyed me eventually. That usually does it for me. I'm not saying you should do something to instigate that result but it's what's worked for me. These days though personally I try to stear clear of feels for women but that's me.
If I have choice between stay all my life single or be pilot of fighter plane.
Definitely I want to be pilot .
I received a ton of value completely different way of thinking
Dude's first problem is that he seems to be colorblind to red flags. Keeps saying his "one" has no red flags. DUUUDDDEEE!
Second, my guess is that He got alpha physically, he has a way to go to get rid of the "nice guy" mentality. He needs to let that get burned away, maybe first by coming to the realization that the person he was projecting onto his "one" woman never really existed. He can get there...
I didn't know Rich shopped at Hollister lol