It blows my mind and soul how spot on you always are. I'm expanded a bit more every time I listen to you. Thanks again for sharing your brilliance with the rest of us ❤
This guy is REAL. What I've learned is that we need to learn to talk about how we feel and definitely how to ask ourselves and the other open ended questions so they spill the beans too. Then of course carpe diem - sieze the moment.
This is one of the most beautiful videos I have watched. After this I whispered to myself, I'm ready to come home. I'm choosing me. Thank you for the inspiration ❤
🙏❤️I don’t believe in the vows “till death do us part “ I believe if you change and are not in alignment anymore we have to stay true to ourselves... we have many soulmates it’s part of the journey .
Does this mean you don't get married? Hope you tell the guys you are getting involved in. To me this is the type of women to avoid because you're only in the relationship only if it works for you and don't want to work through the hard times.
@@randomstuff2650 I don't feel she's saying she won't work on it, just if it's really not working anymore to release it. I'm not sure how familiar you are with marks other videos, there's a really great one about partners growing apart, and it's really great because I was in a relationship where my partner absolutely refused growth and working at making things better, so I did have to let him go. Because staying was causing us both more pain and hurt. I think she's saying if it flows it flows. Not everything is for life, and that has to be ok. Not everyone rides the trolley with us to the end. We are all here to learn and grow 🙌🙏❤
Brilliant content… “you don’t honour the container you want to create” boom! Spot on… I never get tired of listening to your podcasts… love your work Mark… Thank you 🙏 ❤️
I’m off the Insta. So glad you are YT again. This is beautiful and I can relate to all three of the questions/scenarios. I am emotionally unavailable for now, while I work on my stuff, and I’m cool with that! Thank you for your work.
Thank You! Everytime i listen to your RUclips channel, I am either reminded about the better actions i could take or learn something new.. just so spot on!!
This takes a lot of practice but definitely works. The part about “alignment” is the ultimate key... staying true to it will shift the flow of life. Thank you for diving in and breaking it down 🙏🏻 ur information is crucial.
Wow that was profound Mark thank you for posting that they hit me at just the right time I absolutely needed that and when I answered those questions I was so surprised at what came out of my mouth. Thank you for your service to humanity.
Damn. Coming through again. Thank you so much for helping me get to a deeper understanding of myself and my patterns/behaviors. Haven't found anyone who can explain quite like you do, so thank you for doing what you do. :)
God damn I learn so much from you!!! Incredible. What I kept thinking was that to show up in the amazing way you lead us to, one must have such a strong sense of Self- such self worth. So much of my past behaviors have occurred bc I did not have the self worth yet to hold for ambivalence or anything that seemed like it was saying “you’re not worthy of love.” Phewph. I can move forward knowing I am worthy and I can respond accordingly ❤️
I am a new fan and grateful for how you clearly and passionately synthesize so many important ideas. Now so many things are making sense to me ❤❤❤❤💎💎💎💎
Amazing, magnificent work!! Oh Thank you so much Mark 💞 I have been following you on Instagram for a few years now and I have learnt a lot from you. Thank you.
Wow Mark, beautiful ❤️. I have listened to you for about a year. I found you on Facebook. This is the best wisdom I have heard from you! Love how you quote Rumi and Abraham Hicks,thank you 🙏💙
I am so happy to see you on RUclips again! I don't have social media but I religiously listen to you on Spotify and Mine'd. Your body of work has deeply influenced my patterns of thought and have been the catalyst to the changes I have instilled within myself. Thank you.
Ahhh.. you get me every time!! I so am yearning for getting to know all of the deep knowledge of myself and the way I relate in all of my relationships w/ love, family and friends. ❤️🙏🏼
Wow that was good. At first my mind showed me faces of family members. When I love people...They bring me down. Yep they are definite downers. All chronicly ill and depressed. They are depressing. 🙄 So I did it again focusing on men in my life instead. When I love people they... Betray my trust. DAMN that was good. Even males who are just friends. Dropped them all. No regrets and no sense of loss. Lost what? Nothing worth having. Actualy feel at peace about that. Fell pretty good right now. But when I said, when I let people love me... I went blank. Nothing. It's like I feel as if I have never been loved. Hum 🤔 If all others do is bring me down and betray my trust. Why would I feel loved. 🤔 No not loved. I know they love me in their way. (Family and ex's) But I feel like I'm not valued or appreciated. Ex's hit me up all the time. All of them reached out last week. WTH is that? 😲 But ex's are ex's for a reason. And if nothing has changed nothing will changed. They can't show me the same attitudes and behaviors and expect me to believe they have changed. The only one who has changed is me. I have grown since we have parted, but you have not. I don't need to go back there because I've moved to a new level, you have not. You are right where I left you. I teach my students that we are destined to repeat the same lessons over and over until we learn them. If we do not learn them, we will simply repeat them until we die. Lesson learned, move on. 👋
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“When I love people they use me and hurt me” was my gut answer
And “when I let people love me they control me”
It blows my mind and soul how spot on you always are. I'm expanded a bit more every time I listen to you. Thanks again for sharing your brilliance with the rest of us ❤
I absolutely agree on this.Listening to him is a bliss in disguise.
Authenticity is everything💖 Building relationships on a pretending, is building a sandcastle
This guy is REAL. What I've learned is that we need to learn to talk about how we feel and definitely how to ask ourselves and the other open ended questions so they spill the beans too. Then of course carpe diem - sieze the moment.
Gosh this guy is gold
This is one of the most beautiful videos I have watched. After this I whispered to myself, I'm ready to come home. I'm choosing me. Thank you for the inspiration ❤
Wonderful! That journey is a beautiful one. What a courageous choice.
beautiful
The way you articulate things is soo profound it constantly brings me to tears 🤍
🙏❤️I don’t believe in the vows “till death do us part “ I believe if you change and are not in alignment anymore we have to stay true to ourselves... we have many soulmates it’s part of the journey .
Does this mean you don't get married?
Hope you tell the guys you are getting involved in. To me this is the type of women to avoid because you're only in the relationship only if it works for you and don't want to work through the hard times.
@@randomstuff2650 I don't feel she's saying she won't work on it, just if it's really not working anymore to release it. I'm not sure how familiar you are with marks other videos, there's a really great one about partners growing apart, and it's really great because I was in a relationship where my partner absolutely refused growth and working at making things better, so I did have to let him go. Because staying was causing us both more pain and hurt. I think she's saying if it flows it flows. Not everything is for life, and that has to be ok. Not everyone rides the trolley with us to the end. We are all here to learn and grow 🙌🙏❤
Brilliant content… “you don’t honour the container you want to create” boom! Spot on… I never get tired of listening to your podcasts… love your work Mark… Thank you 🙏 ❤️
Good to see you on the tube - usually watch you on Instagram 🙏✨
Some golden gems here. I have to go back and write some down. :)
I’m loving without expectation now... I really think I can.
Wow thank you!!! So wise So smart So knowledgeable So kind in your approach and advice! Thank you 🙏🏼
Wow! You are really amazing and have a gift. Thank you Mark! Your advice is so helpful.
I’m off the Insta. So glad you are YT again. This is beautiful and I can relate to all three of the questions/scenarios. I am emotionally unavailable for now, while I work on my stuff, and I’m cool with that! Thank you for your work.
That was the best thing I've ever heard, Mark Groves.
Thank You! Everytime i listen to your RUclips channel, I am either reminded about the better actions i could take or learn something new.. just so spot on!!
Thank you so much for your beautiful, heartfelt and heart-given wisdom.
Holy hell............ I am so appreciative of the work you are doing Mark. Thank you.
Literally one of the best relational videos I’ve ever watched. You cover so much in this. Thank you!
This takes a lot of practice but definitely works. The part about “alignment” is the ultimate key... staying true to it will shift the flow of life.
Thank you for diving in and breaking it down 🙏🏻 ur information is crucial.
Wow that was profound Mark thank you for posting that they hit me at just the right time I absolutely needed that and when I answered those questions I was so surprised at what came out of my mouth. Thank you for your service to humanity.
Damn. Coming through again. Thank you so much for helping me get to a deeper understanding of myself and my patterns/behaviors. Haven't found anyone who can explain quite like you do, so thank you for doing what you do. :)
Get aligned 🌟🌟🌟 hell yes!!!
God damn I learn so much from you!!! Incredible. What I kept thinking was that to show up in the amazing way you lead us to, one must have such a strong sense of Self- such self worth. So much of my past behaviors have occurred bc I did not have the self worth yet to hold for ambivalence or anything that seemed like it was saying “you’re not worthy of love.” Phewph. I can move forward knowing I am worthy and I can respond accordingly ❤️
I just adore your thought process and appreciate listening with you.
What beautiful lessons. Thank you❤️
I am a new fan and grateful for how you clearly and passionately synthesize so many important ideas. Now so many things are making sense to me ❤❤❤❤💎💎💎💎
Hi Mark 👋👋👋so great to see you again 😀
Amazing, magnificent work!! Oh Thank you so much Mark 💞 I have been following you on Instagram for a few years now and I have learnt a lot from you. Thank you.
Wow Mark, beautiful ❤️. I have listened to you for about a year. I found you on Facebook. This is the best wisdom I have heard from you! Love how you quote Rumi and Abraham Hicks,thank you 🙏💙
Cant be more amazed and grateful for having stumpted at you
I am so happy to see you on RUclips again! I don't have social media but I religiously listen to you on Spotify and Mine'd. Your body of work has deeply influenced my patterns of thought and have been the catalyst to the changes I have instilled within myself. Thank you.
So good! Thank you
❤❤This is very helpful. Thank you😊
This is the most beautiful information I have ever heard about relationships. Thank you so much ❤️
Ahhh.. you get me every time!! I so am yearning for getting to know all of the deep knowledge of myself and the way I relate in all of my relationships w/ love, family and friends. ❤️🙏🏼
This is amazing information. I wish I could speak to you write to you. I feel like you would understand my amusement park of love.
I want someone to want me all ass haha. All kidding aside I love how real and in my face I had to hear your videos and messages are. Word.
O..oh this is going to take hard work 🙈🙉🙊 ....still I'm ready 😊😊😊 Thank you Mark xxx
Mark, you kick ass!!!!
Thank you Mark! Absolutely loved this.
So good! Thank you so much for this insight
This is an essential video.
Yayyy just today I was hoping you‘d upload another talking video :)
Thank you Mark Groves
Wow that was good.
At first my mind showed me faces of family members. When I love people...They bring me down. Yep they are definite downers. All chronicly ill and depressed. They are depressing. 🙄
So I did it again focusing on men in my life instead. When I love people they...
Betray my trust. DAMN that was good. Even males who are just friends. Dropped them all. No regrets and no sense of loss. Lost what? Nothing worth having. Actualy feel at peace about that. Fell pretty good right now.
But when I said, when I let people love me...
I went blank. Nothing. It's like I feel as if I have never been loved. Hum 🤔
If all others do is bring me down and betray my trust. Why would I feel loved. 🤔
No not loved. I know they love me in their way. (Family and ex's) But I feel like I'm not valued or appreciated.
Ex's hit me up all the time. All of them reached out last week. WTH is that? 😲
But ex's are ex's for a reason. And if nothing has changed nothing will changed. They can't show me the same attitudes and behaviors and expect me to believe they have changed. The only one who has changed is me. I have grown since we have parted, but you have not. I don't need to go back there because I've moved to a new level, you have not. You are right where I left you.
I teach my students that we are destined to repeat the same lessons over and over until we learn them. If we do not learn them, we will simply repeat them until we die. Lesson learned, move on. 👋
Hi your work is so amazing! Teresa
You are brilliant
I felt that 🙌🏻👏🏻
Thank you for all that you do 🤍✨
wow
❤❤
Sound - consistent voice - the lilting volume of voice was tough
Ha, care bare stare.