A NARCISSIST doesn’t love anyone‼️ They manipulate people for safe places to always have somewhere to go back to, because they fear getting themselves together and healing!
Don’t just try…do it! Save yourself. It might be difficult…but you will recover. If you stay…you will loose yourself. You’re worthy of more. Be strong…go with God!!
You can. It's hard but I picked up my courage to end my 10 years marriage. Once you've done it. You are free. It's never going to be easy and it's going to be really tough. I am still crying from time to time when I went to bed at night time but I realized I didn't cry because I miss him, I cry because how badly I was being treated by him. God Bless You. Be brave and start a new journey. You CAN do it
Thank you for the encouragement. And I realize everyday is hard and the more and more his true colors are coming out. He always finds a way to get in contact with me, even if I block him.
Just ignore him if he ever gets in touch with you. The best way to punish a narcissist is to ignore the narcissist. If he still contacts you, let him be but remember one thing... 'Don't react and don't respond'. Don't ever feel like you have to respond to his email, message etc. I've learned it the hard way. It will all work out in the end. You don't need him in your life. You deserve someone who treat you well and value your worth. 💞
I married a narcissist. Divorced him. And he convinced me to marry him again. I did and divorced him again. Stupid me!!!! You will never make a narcissist happy and everything is always your fault. A narcissist will devour your soul, spit you out, and then tell you it was your fault.
Accurate. Thank you. He told me he was toxic. What I don’t understand to this day… if you know you’re toxic, why are you out here dating?! Why don’t these people take accountability and responsibility for their dysfunction rather than spreading it?
@HTHTN: *Weil das Böse mit der Wahrheit nichts anfangen kann!* Die Wahrheit lässt keine Spielchen zu und somit macht das Leben nur halb soviel Freude.. Das Böse will immer die Spannung!
I met the narc at age 33. He was younger and acted so perfect. I was a widow w/ 2 kids. I had money and a beautiful house. This hollow man nearly destroyed me. He basically was a con man. I ended up having 2 wonderful boys w/ him. He changed jobs so many times that he moved us from house to house, State to State. Including AK & NY. I always had the money and he lived off my $ His $ was always his. Then when I was 55, he said I was old. After 22 years together he decides he wasted his life and should date others. (This is what he told me)WTH? I left. Divorced him. He is living with some other unsuspecting soul. These people are evil. You can not love them out of their problems. HEAL YOURSELF. LOVE YOURSELF. ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉God Bless you.
THEY ARE EVIL 😈 DEMONIC INDIVIDUALS!! THEY WANT US TO BE BROKEN LIKE THEY ARE. MY HUSBAND WAS AN ANGRY MAN WHO WAS A MINISTER....HE WAS THE MIST EVIL PERSON I HAVE EVER MET!! AFTER TWO YEARS OF LOSING MYSELF GOING BACK TO HIM 5 TIMES, THINKING HE HAD CHANGED. I FINALLY DIVORCED HIS SICK ABUSIVE MENTALLY ILL ASS.....AND HAVE HAD NOOOO CONTACT WITH HIM. SINCE!!!! I AM SO THANKFUL TO GOD FOR GIVING ME THE STRENGTH TO LEAVE HIM AND I AM NEVER LOOKING BACK. I AM SO BLESSED TO BE FREE OF ALL THE HELL HE PUT ME THROUGH. MY PRAYERS WERE ANSWERED!! I AM SO THANKFUL TO GOD FOR BRINGING ME THROUGH THE WORST THING I HAD EVER BEEN THROUGH IN MY LIFE. THANK YOU LORD!!
Finally left a narcissistic abusive relationship of 10 years and I can say its the best thing I've ever done. I tried to help even after the break up as we have kids together, but that just made it even clearer that I couldn't even be a friend to them if I truly wanted to heal and finally be happy. They will only use you and pretend to change but nothings changed they just don't want to lose their safe place. I'm free and i won't go back. I thank God I was able to break free. ❤🙏🏾
AMEN! Good for you! I only made it away from the narcissists in my life by the grace of God I’m telling you smh 🤦🏾♀️ they are in my family and I have a baby by one! Sick, twisted, evil, disgusting individuals! That’s exactly what they are!
They have no concept of love in it’s true meaning . My experience their insidious behaviour gets worse as time goes on .. The narcissist I was with would take me to medical appointments whilst I was going through cancer . 2 weeks before my surgery he threw me out onto the street knowing I had nowhere to go and had no family nor friends around me . I’m now writing this to show I got through my major surgery and I’m eternally grateful to still be alive … Your health is your wealth not some toxic manipulator who drains you emotionally mentally and financially Narcissist or not , abuse is abuse … Thank you for downloading this video and all the rest. You talk great sense x
So true exactly every word you speak is the truth about narcissists. I was married to one. I was beautiful when I married him by the end I was emotionally and physically drained as he made me his slave. After he left I came back to life, stronger and more beautiful than ever. Get away from them and no contact as they don’t have a heart, GO NO CONTACT!
I'm currently married to one and I identify with absolutely everything he said....evertime I try to leave, it seems like the hardest thing to do....now I ended up with 6 kids from this toxicity
Sorry you been through this 😔 I'm going through alot. When you say he made you his slave like treated you like that what do you mean ... making you do all chores?
100 true I have been with 1 for 25 years. Trying to break out and hes making it difficult as possible. Even though he is the one who gets a 25 year old pregnant. And hes 45 starting a new family. And his way of manipulating telling us both that each other is crazy, so we'd never come in contact with each other also.
A Narcissist is an energy vampire and user on all levels. They can't be trusted and they will hurt you every chance they get. Leave them and don't look back.
This chapter is called I'm TIRED: TIRED: of people thinking I have to accept they bs and messed up ways! TIRED: of people thinking I'm something to play with! TIRED: of people thinking that I have to be tied to them because of certain titles! TIRED: of accepting the bare minimum! TIRED: of pouring into others and not getting the same in return! So my next chapter is going to be called REDEMPTION! I LOVE WHO LOVE ME! not when it's beneficial ya feel me!
So true it happened to me. I was with my ex-narc for years off and on ,up and down it was a rollercoaster of a relationship. No matter what I did or how loyal I was it was never enough. Each time I would take him back it got worst. I finally was strong enough to end it for good. It still hurts but I will heal and I have peace. What the narcissist doesn't realize is that whatever you sow you will reap one day. I was good to him and did above and beyond which produce nothing but heartache and disappointment. These demonic people are not worth the investment of your love or time.
Going myself after 2yr of Everything is somebody'a fault NEVER HIS... Laughs at his Own Jokes ONLY ... Cannot Laugh with you... Always Life is Not fair ! PITY PIT ... POOR U 💙it's totally Debilitating & bad for Health .
Glad you have Got away from him although hurts as you love him & was probably! FUNNY! but REMEMBER.. NARCISSISTIC people are MANIPULATORS 👎U will be HAPPY AGAIN xxx
Thank you for all your wise words over my last two years of emotional torture by my narcissistic husband. Street Angel / House Devil. I’ve cut him off today & I’m looking forward to my healthy life. ❤
People also need to realize that people with trama also have a hard time loving themselves and take a long time to heal...like me. I'm not narcissistic, just heavily damaged.
I needed to hear this. I was just left for our client (a business I helped him built and he took). I am having such a hard time with this betrayal but I remembered just how toxic he actually was…he thinks he’s “better” now but the reality is, he has no idea just how narcissistic and selfish he is and how he ALWAYS turned things around and caused most of the problems we had. Instead of him working on himself, he’s buying a ring for a girl he met weeks ago, after we’ve been celibate in order to seal the 12 yr relationship in marriage the right way. He slept with her and already moved in…he’s always wanted more money and nice things and instead of him waiting and having faith that we’d get there, he took the fast way. But, even tho it hurts, I have to remember he did me a favor.
@@indiegirl9882 thank you very much for your kind words ❤️ yea I def can’t ever take him back, he really screwed me over and I’d never be able to trust him again. He can be her problem now 🤷♀️
You are so right! Narcissists act so perfect in the beginning. They are master manipulators. Then they rip you to shreds, somehow turn it all on you and play the victim themselves.
At this point, I just want to meet a God-fearing empath like me who is genuine, sincere, honest, loving, faithful and wants to have a great relationship & future with me until we leave this earth. That’s it❣️🙏🏾
I wish I knew about Narcissist 10 years and 2 kids ago 😣. The covert narcissist is the most lethal 🎭 aka “The Good Guy (Girl)” abuser. These types are the most dangerous. B/c they win ppl over with charm and helpfulness he is the good friend, brother, co-worker, son, but the significant other gets a completely different verison. The coldness, emotional neglect, the confision, the gaslighting, the hypocrisy. The amount of Attention these people seek and need from you and others is insurmountable. You will lose youself being with a Narc. Prayers and Blessing to all Narc Abuse Survivors 🙏🏾 Keep your Head and Boundaries UP. Wishing you Self Love and Peace.
He said, "A Loving person would never hurt you, because it would hurt them to see you hurt." Remember That!! ✔💯♠ This is The Whole Truth and Nothing but the Truth !!
Wow!! I'm a survivor with 8+ years with that behavior. God would Not let me move to my next page of lifes journey until I let that go. I'm free with 2+ years under my belt. Is she in her own mind wanting me back yes and No I'm keeping it moving. I dont see no change and even if I did I'm not going back. That was the worse of my life. Everything you went through plus some. I'm free- I'm free, thank God I'm free. I'm living my best Life.
❤ Very well said and 100% true. It is very hard to leave..when you’re in it, it’s disorienting. Remember, it if feels wrong it is wrong. Love and intimate relationships should be safe harbors. Above all, in your personal relationships you deserve to be able to be yourself and always feel safe and comfortable. If you need to leave, you know it deep inside. Take your time, trust yourself, find your courage.
I was married to one and I left. No he didn't make it easy. He was able to convince everyone even my friends and coworkers and his friends that I was the problem and he was the victim. I have been free from him for 3 1/2 yrs and I am loving my peace. I finally know who I am now. I have regained my confidence. It's all because of Jesus!!! He is my strength, my peace, my rock, my healer.😊
This is exactly what I am going thru now . He has everyone thinking I am the problem when all he does is torture me abuse my mental state and claim feel complete drained . He even says I brainwashed our daughter and turned her against him when she is 12 and sees all the abuse he does to me. It’s so sad. I am trying to break free now . 😢
Walk away for your own sake before it's too late . . . I got out of a 23 years toxic marriage . . . It hurt like hell for the first 4 months but God saw me through . I would never go back even for a trillion dollars. That was real bondage . Pining for an abusive partner is totally n completely insane. I better stay single for the rest of my life .
@@jamiebridges120 I am sorry honey leaving my narcissistic abusive ex-husband and cutting off the birth family was the hardest thing. I am still trying to recover, the financial hit being the hardest thing, because where the world is. But I wouldn't give up the peace of mind I have now. My landlord is a narcissist, we seem to be magnetic to them , but the people I am slowly making friends with aren't and I keep plugging forward putting me first, always. Never did this before but it's getting easier.
Sadly! That's why we must WARN young and old people to AVOID these DEMONS. If you leave before they get their claws into you, you have a higher chance of serving their assignment to unalive you.
Man! I tell you something! Narcissist rip your soul out of you ! and keep it to them self! The mastery of manipulation come from the demon have inside them from childhood! You have a big relief on the end when you realize you don't fight with flesh and blood ! You fight the demon!!
So truth, never would have believed ppl could treat you in such way. When all you wanted to do is love them. At first they are angels. You would think they are so perfect.
I call it the hamster wheel of hell the mental prison they put you and also the physical. He beat me up while I was pregnant with our first child and left me for dead in the parking lot. Glad I got away. That was 5 years ago. He was so hypersexual, controlling, manipulative, cunning, mean, and a huge liar.
Boy yes....I had a child with one and it took until I saw the manipulation happening to her that's when I ran for my freaking life, she's about to be full grown and they're still trying to pull their shit but I educated my daughter on this kind of behavior cause I would never want her to have to deal with dating one
My narcissist husband got me mess up finanically, mentally, and spiritually. I praise you lord god Jesus 🙏 my love for lord god Jesus had pull me through Hallelujah Hallelujah Hallelujah 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌 i file for divorce thank you lord, im sleeping in my den thank you lord, im looking for a home, thank you Jesus and im preparing for the through to my fresh start thank you lord Jesus your a great god. You stay with my the whole time so i praise you i praise you lord god Jesus 🙏 🙏 🙏 Hallelujah
Narcissists my whole life! After 3 years of solid counselling... I know exactly how to spot one. NEVER will I ever be treated that way again. Anyone reading this... you can break free and the peace is amazing !
@@LongIslandNY-op8su why do they never crave love? Is it necessarily beacuse of any childhood trauma or like what is the reason that a person is a narcissist?
Awww Gawd!!! If this does not describe my last 6 years I am currently in the healing process and yes it’s very hard to leave all that investment for what? Thank you God for protecting me from so much not just help me get 100% over him
Amen I survived a 4yr on again off again relationship with a Covert Narcissist who chased me from city to city and state to state but by the grace of God I'm free today and recreating a beautiful life for myself healing is key...❤🎉👸🏾
Thank you so much! Absolutely, my ex narc was really toxic at times. They have everybody thinking you are crazy. I feel like my long-term relationship was a lie when I finally walked away with dignity ! I am healing and now at peace from all that nonsense! It's his loss because I know I deserve better treatment from the right respectful man! 🙂🙏
Even if am mad I will not love or fall in love with a narcissist because they are not only wicked but also evil. My experience with those is too much I have no business with them
You are not crazy, I promise-! I live with a covert narcissist, and this individual has made me feel like I'm the crazy one-!! I've had my personal belongings destroyed, my car vandalized by this person, and so much more, of course they deny it when confronted-!!! BLESSINGS to you & good luck. 🤍🕊🤍
U are definitely not crazy! They are crazy for fumbling a good person. I'm still involved with a covert myself, but it's just on paper though. Filed for a divorce once, but judge threw it out when we went to court. She done moved and hidden things of mine to try and make me feel like I'm going crazy. I just laugh it off now 🤣. I drive a truck over tha road now, so I'm barely there anymore. So much peace now. At some point I'll have to file another divorce. But for now, I'm going to wait on God to lead me to that point
29 years invested he tried to destroy me emotionally and when that didn't work he came after me financially. Don't ignore the red flags get out make yourself a priority and learn to love yourself again. It was the best gift I could've given myself I am at peace now. Also don't make it a pattern to be with these people. I have moved on to a loving partner who makes me a priority.
It's ao true. Spend 25 yrs married to one of those. The lies, hor cold treatments, gaslighting, playing the victim with others, infidelity at every chance. Access to my money 💰 Thank God we are divorcing rn. Divorce is getting brutal and expensive 😕
Co-parenting with one. 8 more years to go and I’m living the nightmare till now. I frequently remind myself that every ordeals are opportunities to become stronger and more resilient. It’ll serve me well at the end. God witnesses everything.
I just broke up with my ex narc bf because he was cheating and lying to me. I wish I had found this video a few months ago. Day 6 of me Blocking/NO CONTACT with him. And changed my number. These are some horrible people to deal with. Thank you for sharing ❤
I left a toxic relationship 4 days ago and its hard man, it was my descision but the struggle is real! Its like withdrawl from an addiction, you know its bad for you but you cant stop wanting it! Kind of a blessing that hes being so horrible, he said hes glad im gone and that his life will be infinitely better without me, i gave him everything, but he wouldnt even do the bare minimum in return 💔😩
I told my friend she shouldn't have an abusive man's child. It was bad before and turned into a hell once the baby was born. Yea, not all children turn into a narcissist but it sure isn't easy DNA heritage to have. And it's not fair for the child.
They are super predictable after a while..... I guessed exactly what he would do to destroy me 4 years ago. Sure enough, he did exactly what I guessed😂. Nothing they do is too cruel and destructive to imagine. They are capable of pure evil deeds.
I'm sorry you went through that too.. Now that I know how to figure out when someone is a narcissist, I notice that there are actually a whole lot of them 😱😬 Take care dear, stay aware and be happy ☀️☀️☀️
You’re exactly right and they also mimic other people’s emotions about love early on ( they don’t feel those emotions) when they’re working on getting people hooked on them but eventually they’re mask falls off and we see the real person a narcissist is thanks so much keep up the great work 🩷
I, totally, understand. 💯% accurate. I was in a 4 1/2 yr toxic courtship. He was like a Heckle and Jeckle dynamic - wasted my precious years. As I heal, I am more and more grateful to God for collapsing that situation in my favor. God is good and just!
They will break you down slowly, they will use your weakness against you, they will tell everyone it’s you, not telling them what they are doing. A covert narc is one of the worse because everything they do is calculated and they always come off perfect. I was married to one! I thank God I have a praying family because I would still be in that toxic cycle.
Yup never tell your weaknesses because they will use it to their advantage. I had my Ex run to my mom about me behind my back but never told her why I was acting that way. They play victim smh 🤦
I SECOND .. EVERYTHING U SAID HERE! I GOT OUT! AND .. I'M STAYING OUT! NARCISSISTS ARE NO GOOD! THEY USE U UP .. UNTIL U HAVE NOTHING LEFT! THEN SMEAR YOUR NAME .. TO GAIN MORE CONTROL! THEY'RE NOTHING BUT TROUBLE! YOU'RE BETTER OFF SINGLE! UNTIL .. THE RIGHT ONE .. COMES ALONG!
Gaslighting and tantrums. Never admitting they're wrong. Everything bad in their life is your fault. And sneaky!!! They will carry a lie to the grave. Thx 🙏
I just realized that I am married to one.. I have tried so many times done my very best to make this marriage work but now I understand even though I tried he will never change... I am now looking for away out.
Wow, you are so correct! Its difficult being in a relationship like that because they always turn things around like they are being victimized, its a sad and brutal world they live in!
Now imagine the narcissist is your mother who’s also physically and verbally abusive. I’m 45 years old and have been no contact for three years now. She might be my mother, but I wasn’t put on this planet to be her physical punching bag or verbal dumping ground.
May God help all the victims of narcissistic abuse 🙏🏽
Thank you
Amen!!!
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Thank you!!!! ✨💖✨ God most definitely is!!!!!! ✨🙏🏾✨🆕✨🆙✨#IAMATHRIVER🥹
“A narcissist will hurt you and then turn around and play the victim.” 💯💯💯
Fully truth
Absolutely-!
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Yup! Fr fr...
No truer words spoken! They make u feel crazy!!!
Always, I seen it and felt it.
Leaving my Narc husband was the best decision I’ve ever made!
I am so happy & healthy now 🙏🏾
I'm trying to leave, please pray for me.
Don’t just try…do it!
Save yourself. It might be difficult…but you will recover.
If you stay…you will loose yourself. You’re worthy of more.
Be strong…go with God!!
You can. It's hard but I picked up my courage to end my 10 years marriage. Once you've done it. You are free. It's never going to be easy and it's going to be really tough. I am still crying from time to time when I went to bed at night time but I realized I didn't cry because I miss him, I cry because how badly I was being treated by him. God Bless You. Be brave and start a new journey. You CAN do it
Thank you for the encouragement. And I realize everyday is hard and the more and more his true colors are coming out. He always finds a way to get in contact with me, even if I block him.
Just ignore him if he ever gets in touch with you. The best way to punish a narcissist is to ignore the narcissist. If he still contacts you, let him be but remember one thing... 'Don't react and don't respond'. Don't ever feel like you have to respond to his email, message etc. I've learned it the hard way. It will all work out in the end. You don't need him in your life. You deserve someone who treat you well and value your worth. 💞
Father we lift up our sister and ask that you help her get away from this abuse. Thank you for helping me get out.
Narcissist is the true vampire. They suck every bit of your life and soul
This was explained perfectly
Yes.
If you let them.
Take your power back.
Never too late. 🌻
Be the sun, they 🧛🏻♀️🧟♀️ run.
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Narcissist are Demons period.
Huge facts
They have demons x
Lucifer was beautiful, in the beginning. His ego got him kicked out of heaven. After the fall, he became satan, the father of all narcissists 😈
Facts
Amen!!!
The main thing is they don't like you or anything or anyone. They don't like peace either.
I married a narcissist. Divorced him. And he convinced me to marry him again. I did and divorced him again. Stupid me!!!! You will never make a narcissist happy and everything is always your fault. A narcissist will devour your soul, spit you out, and then tell you it was your fault.
Accurate. Thank you. He told me he was toxic. What I don’t understand to this day… if you know you’re toxic, why are you out here dating?! Why don’t these people take accountability and responsibility for their dysfunction rather than spreading it?
@HTHTN: *Weil das Böse mit der Wahrheit nichts anfangen kann!*
Die Wahrheit lässt keine Spielchen zu und somit macht das Leben nur halb soviel Freude..
Das Böse will immer die Spannung!
They're dating for supply. Whatever another person has to give to them.
I met the narc at age 33. He was younger and acted so perfect. I was a widow w/ 2 kids. I had money and a beautiful house. This hollow man nearly destroyed me. He basically was a con man. I ended up having 2 wonderful boys w/ him. He changed jobs so many times that he moved us from house to house, State to State. Including AK & NY. I always had the money and he lived off my $ His $ was always his. Then when I was 55, he said I was old.
After 22 years together he decides he wasted his life and should date others. (This is what he told me)WTH?
I left. Divorced him. He is living with some other unsuspecting soul. These people are evil.
You can not love them out of their problems.
HEAL YOURSELF. LOVE YOURSELF.
❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉God Bless you.
Yes your absolutely right narcissists are ( EVIL ) Kangs keep on Kanging.
THEY ARE EVIL 😈 DEMONIC INDIVIDUALS!! THEY WANT US TO BE BROKEN LIKE THEY ARE. MY HUSBAND WAS AN ANGRY MAN WHO WAS A MINISTER....HE WAS THE MIST EVIL PERSON I HAVE EVER MET!! AFTER TWO YEARS OF LOSING MYSELF GOING BACK TO HIM 5 TIMES, THINKING HE HAD CHANGED. I FINALLY DIVORCED HIS SICK ABUSIVE MENTALLY ILL ASS.....AND HAVE HAD NOOOO CONTACT WITH HIM. SINCE!!!! I AM SO THANKFUL TO GOD FOR GIVING ME THE STRENGTH TO LEAVE HIM AND I AM NEVER LOOKING BACK. I AM SO BLESSED TO BE FREE OF ALL THE HELL HE PUT ME THROUGH. MY PRAYERS WERE ANSWERED!! I AM SO THANKFUL TO GOD FOR BRINGING ME THROUGH THE WORST THING I HAD EVER BEEN THROUGH IN MY LIFE. THANK YOU LORD!!
Finally left a narcissistic abusive relationship of 10 years and I can say its the best thing I've ever done. I tried to help even after the break up as we have kids together, but that just made it even clearer that I couldn't even be a friend to them if I truly wanted to heal and finally be happy. They will only use you and pretend to change but nothings changed they just don't want to lose their safe place. I'm free and i won't go back. I thank God I was able to break free. ❤🙏🏾
13years for me and I finally left too, your right they never change all it does is get worst
AMEN! Good for you! I only made it away from the narcissists in my life by the grace of God I’m telling you smh 🤦🏾♀️ they are in my family and I have a baby by one! Sick, twisted, evil, disgusting individuals! That’s exactly what they are!
They have no concept of love in it’s true meaning .
My experience their insidious behaviour gets worse as time goes on ..
The narcissist I was with would take me to medical appointments whilst I was going through cancer .
2 weeks before my surgery he threw me out onto the street knowing I had nowhere to go and had no family nor friends around me . I’m now writing this to show I got through my major surgery and I’m eternally grateful to still be alive …
Your health is your wealth not some toxic manipulator who drains you emotionally mentally and financially
Narcissist or not , abuse is abuse …
Thank you for downloading this video and all the rest.
You talk great sense x
We need recovery shelters from narcipaths
So true exactly every word you speak is the truth about narcissists. I was married to one. I was beautiful when I married him by the end I was emotionally and physically drained as he made me his slave. After he left I came back to life, stronger and more beautiful than ever. Get away from them and no contact as they don’t have a heart, GO NO CONTACT!
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Omg this is me now after 24 years … I’m so far from the old me .. I don’t even look the same … I’m trying to get away
I'm currently married to one and I identify with absolutely everything he said....evertime I try to leave, it seems like the hardest thing to do....now I ended up with 6 kids from this toxicity
Sorry you been through this 😔 I'm going through alot. When you say he made you his slave like treated you like that what do you mean ... making you do all chores?
100 true I have been with 1 for 25 years. Trying to break out and hes making it difficult as possible. Even though he is the one who gets a 25 year old pregnant. And hes 45 starting a new family. And his way of manipulating telling us both that each other is crazy, so we'd never come in contact with each other also.
A Narcissist is an energy vampire and user on all levels. They can't be trusted and they will hurt you every chance they get. Leave them and don't look back.
This chapter is called I'm TIRED:
TIRED: of people thinking I have to accept they bs and messed up ways!
TIRED: of people thinking I'm something to play with!
TIRED: of people thinking that I have to be tied to them because of certain titles!
TIRED: of accepting the bare minimum!
TIRED: of pouring into others and not getting the same in return!
So my next chapter is going to be called REDEMPTION!
I LOVE WHO LOVE ME! not when it's beneficial ya feel me!
Well Said, Queen👑
Exactly!💥 💯
So true it happened to me. I was with my ex-narc for years off and on ,up and down it was a rollercoaster of a relationship. No matter what I did or how loyal I was it was never enough. Each time I would take him back it got worst. I finally was strong enough to end it for good. It still hurts but I will heal and I have peace. What the narcissist doesn't realize is that whatever you sow you will reap one day. I was good to him and did above and beyond which produce nothing but heartache and disappointment. These demonic people are not worth the investment of your love or time.
Agreed. Very well said. 👏🏽 A loving person deserves love and vice verse. I certainly wish you the best.✨️🙏🏽
I would say all of his past girl friends were loyal and tolerated too much. My ex narc said his ex was a controller when all along it was him.
Going myself after 2yr of Everything is somebody'a fault NEVER HIS...
Laughs at his Own Jokes ONLY ...
Cannot Laugh with you...
Always Life is Not fair !
PITY PIT ... POOR U 💙it's totally Debilitating & bad for Health .
Glad you have Got away from him although hurts as you love him & was probably! FUNNY! but REMEMBER.. NARCISSISTIC people are MANIPULATORS 👎U will be HAPPY AGAIN xxx
Dealing with that now...coming up on 10years of the roller coaster.
Having kids with one, is one of the worst things anyone can do.
Don't I know it, one of the biggest reasons I stayed. My kids didn't asked to be born.
Thank you for all your wise words over my last two years of emotional torture by my narcissistic husband. Street Angel / House Devil. I’ve cut him off today & I’m looking forward to my healthy life. ❤
Street Angel/House Devil 💯
People also need to realize that people with trama also have a hard time loving themselves and take a long time to heal...like me. I'm not narcissistic, just heavily damaged.
I needed to hear this. I was just left for our client (a business I helped him built and he took). I am having such a hard time with this betrayal but I remembered just how toxic he actually was…he thinks he’s “better” now but the reality is, he has no idea just how narcissistic and selfish he is and how he ALWAYS turned things around and caused most of the problems we had. Instead of him working on himself, he’s buying a ring for a girl he met weeks ago, after we’ve been celibate in order to seal the 12 yr relationship in marriage the right way. He slept with her and already moved in…he’s always wanted more money and nice things and instead of him waiting and having faith that we’d get there, he took the fast way. But, even tho it hurts, I have to remember he did me a favor.
If he is toxic he has done you a favour. Extract yourself before he changes his mind, he can be someone else's problem
@@indiegirl9882 thank you very much for your kind words ❤️ yea I def can’t ever take him back, he really screwed me over and I’d never be able to trust him again. He can be her problem now 🤷♀️
You are so right! Narcissists act so perfect in the beginning. They are master manipulators. Then they rip you to shreds, somehow turn it all on you and play the victim themselves.
At this point, I just want to meet a God-fearing empath like me who is genuine, sincere, honest, loving, faithful and wants to have a great relationship & future with me until we leave this earth. That’s it❣️🙏🏾
You'll never really see how toxic someone is until you breathe fresher air.
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I wish I knew about Narcissist 10 years and 2 kids ago 😣. The covert narcissist is the most lethal 🎭 aka “The Good Guy (Girl)” abuser. These types are the most dangerous. B/c they win ppl over with charm and helpfulness he is the good friend, brother, co-worker, son, but the significant other gets a completely different verison. The coldness, emotional neglect, the confision, the gaslighting, the hypocrisy. The amount of Attention these people seek and need from you and others is insurmountable. You will lose youself being with a Narc. Prayers and Blessing to all Narc Abuse Survivors 🙏🏾 Keep your Head and Boundaries UP. Wishing you Self Love and Peace.
The WORST is when you are married to one and have children together. I sware I live in h3ll. 👿💀
Yyyaasssssssssssssss🤧
“Somebody that loves you would never want to see you hurt, because that would hurt them” 😍
hit me hard😢My husband is narcissist😢
He said, "A Loving person would never hurt you, because it would hurt them to see you hurt." Remember That!! ✔💯♠
This is The Whole Truth and Nothing but the Truth !!
Not only physical, emotional and soul is crushed.
Wow!! I'm a survivor with 8+ years with that behavior. God would Not let me move to my next page of lifes journey until I let that go. I'm free with 2+ years under my belt. Is she in her own mind wanting me back yes and No I'm keeping it moving. I dont see no change and even if I did I'm not going back. That was the worse of my life. Everything you went through plus some. I'm free- I'm free, thank God I'm free. I'm living my best Life.
Narcissist are abnormal people. Why can’t narcissists date other narcissists and leave normal people alone?!?!
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Facts
It's not the stab in the back that kills you. Its when you turn around and see who's holding the knife....MESSAGE
@beautifulqueen2985 💯💯
Run the other way as quick as possible. They are up to no good.
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I know. A woman in my family is a narcissist. I detached. I thank God. She will never see me again.
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I had a husband that was a borderline narcissist. His monster met my temper. I left before one of us got seriously hurt.
Someone who truly loves you would not want to see you hurt because that would hurt them. 😢
❤ Very well said and 100% true. It is very hard to leave..when you’re in it, it’s disorienting. Remember, it if feels wrong it is wrong. Love and intimate relationships should be safe harbors. Above all, in your personal relationships you deserve to be able to be yourself and always feel safe and comfortable. If you need to leave, you know it deep inside. Take your time, trust yourself, find your courage.
Disorienting. Very accurate. Completely agree.
I was married to one and I left. No he didn't make it easy. He was able to convince everyone even my friends and coworkers and his friends that I was the problem and he was the victim. I have been free from him for 3 1/2 yrs and I am loving my peace. I finally know who I am now. I have regained my confidence. It's all because of Jesus!!! He is my strength, my peace, my rock, my healer.😊
This is exactly what I am going thru now . He has everyone thinking I am the problem when all he does is torture me abuse my mental state and claim feel complete drained . He even says I brainwashed our daughter and turned her against him when she is 12 and sees all the abuse he does to me. It’s so sad. I am trying to break free now . 😢
One of the worst narcist is a narcist mother in law.
Walk away for your own sake before it's too late . . . I got out of a 23 years toxic marriage . . . It hurt like hell for the first 4 months but God saw me through . I would never go back even for a trillion dollars. That was real bondage . Pining for an abusive partner is totally n completely insane. I better stay single for the rest of my life .
You are so spot on - it’s crazy
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You are so spot on After 31 years of marriage. I left him
Word!!!!💯
I grew up surrounded by narcissists. I'm fifty nine now and I am still healing ❤❤❤
I grew up with a very narcissistic father and now I’m married to one worse than my father
@@jamiebridges120 I am sorry honey leaving my narcissistic abusive ex-husband and cutting off the birth family was the hardest thing. I am still trying to recover, the financial hit being the hardest thing, because where the world is.
But I wouldn't give up the peace of mind I have now.
My landlord is a narcissist, we seem to be magnetic to them , but the people I am slowly making friends with aren't and I keep plugging forward putting me first, always. Never did this before but it's getting easier.
And many women are dying trying to leave happening all around the world.
Sadly! That's why we must WARN young and old people to AVOID these DEMONS. If you leave before they get their claws into you, you have a higher chance of serving their assignment to unalive you.
Man! I tell you something! Narcissist rip your soul out of you ! and keep it to them self! The mastery of manipulation come from the demon have inside them from childhood! You have a big relief on the end when you realize you don't fight with flesh and blood ! You fight the demon!!
I left a hundred times and I went back ninety nine and every time I had less and less.
So truth, never would have believed ppl could treat you in such way. When all you wanted to do is love them. At first they are angels. You would think they are so perfect.
I call it the hamster wheel of hell the mental prison they put you and also the physical. He beat me up while I was pregnant with our first child and left me for dead in the parking lot. Glad I got away. That was 5 years ago. He was so hypersexual, controlling, manipulative, cunning, mean, and a huge liar.
Boy yes....I had a child with one and it took until I saw the manipulation happening to her that's when I ran for my freaking life, she's about to be full grown and they're still trying to pull their shit but I educated my daughter on this kind of behavior cause I would never want her to have to deal with dating one
This is crazy but true. Listen people and save yourself from the pain. This is a hard breakup.
My narcissist husband got me mess up finanically, mentally, and spiritually. I praise you lord god Jesus 🙏 my love for lord god Jesus had pull me through Hallelujah Hallelujah Hallelujah 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌 i file for divorce thank you lord, im sleeping in my den thank you lord, im looking for a home, thank you Jesus and im preparing for the through to my fresh start thank you lord Jesus your a great god. You stay with my the whole time so i praise you i praise you lord god Jesus 🙏 🙏 🙏 Hallelujah
Narcissists my whole life! After 3 years of solid counselling... I know exactly how to spot one. NEVER will I ever be treated that way again. Anyone reading this... you can break free and the peace is amazing !
They are mean, very mean.
They don't even love their parents & family?
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Nope, not a soul
@@LongIslandNY-op8su why do they never crave love? Is it necessarily beacuse of any childhood trauma or like what is the reason that a person is a narcissist?
Preach! They’re so toxic
So true, they drain all your energy from u then when you defend yourself, they make it like they’re the victim and you did something wrong to them
Always choose yourself 💕 NO CONTACT WORKS 💪🏾💯
Awww Gawd!!! If this does not describe my last 6 years I am currently in the healing process and yes it’s very hard to leave all that investment for what? Thank you God for protecting me from so much not just help me get 100% over him
*Demonic possession* is _not_ just the monstrous depiction we are shown on TV. Its the attractive people that work in the 🐍 spirit.
Amen I survived a 4yr on again off again relationship with a Covert Narcissist who chased me from city to city and state to state but by the grace of God I'm free today and recreating a beautiful life for myself healing is key...❤🎉👸🏾
They never think you’ll leave 🏃🏼♀️🏃🏼♀️🏃🏼♀️🏃🏼♀️🏃🏼♀️
Thank you so much! Absolutely, my ex narc was really toxic at times. They have everybody thinking you are crazy. I feel like my long-term relationship was a lie when I finally walked away with dignity ! I am healing and now at peace from all that nonsense! It's his loss because I know I deserve better treatment from the right respectful man! 🙂🙏
Even if am mad I will not love or fall in love with a narcissist because they are not only wicked but also evil. My experience with those is too much I have no business with them
I’m divorcing one now & it has been the most confusing years of my life
You are not crazy, I promise-! I live with a covert narcissist, and this individual has made me feel like I'm the crazy one-!! I've had my personal belongings destroyed, my car vandalized by this person, and so much more, of course they deny it when confronted-!!! BLESSINGS to you & good luck.
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U are definitely not crazy! They are crazy for fumbling a good person. I'm still involved with a covert myself, but it's just on paper though. Filed for a divorce once, but judge threw it out when we went to court. She done moved and hidden things of mine to try and make me feel like I'm going crazy. I just laugh it off now 🤣. I drive a truck over tha road now, so I'm barely there anymore. So much peace now. At some point I'll have to file another divorce. But for now, I'm going to wait on God to lead me to that point
29 years invested he tried to destroy me emotionally and when that didn't work he came after me financially. Don't ignore the red flags get out make yourself a priority and learn to love yourself again. It was the best gift I could've given myself I am at peace now. Also don't make it a pattern to be with these people. I have moved on to a loving partner who makes me a priority.
Some times,God allows us to meet some bad people in our life,so that when we find the good once,we will know how to value them
It's ao true. Spend 25 yrs married to one of those. The lies, hor cold treatments, gaslighting, playing the victim with others, infidelity at every chance. Access to my money 💰 Thank God we are divorcing rn. Divorce is getting brutal and expensive 😕
These kind of people are dangerous they have no heart they are made of stone my daughter has one in her life it breaks my heart
You will never be enough. They will hurt you then turn around and be a victim. They are master manipulators
RUN PEOPLE RUN. IF YOU HAVE BAD KNEES CATCH A 747.😅
Co-parenting with one. 8 more years to go and I’m living the nightmare till now. I frequently remind myself that every ordeals are opportunities to become stronger and more resilient. It’ll serve me well at the end. God witnesses everything.
That sounds like a devils advocate.
I just broke up with my ex narc bf because he was cheating and lying to me. I wish I had found this video a few months ago. Day 6 of me Blocking/NO CONTACT with him. And changed my number. These are some horrible people to deal with. Thank you for sharing ❤
@@BrianRuth-jz2vwI broke up with a girl yesterday because she was extremely controlling and crazy
I left a toxic relationship 4 days ago and its hard man, it was my descision but the struggle is real! Its like withdrawl from an addiction, you know its bad for you but you cant stop wanting it!
Kind of a blessing that hes being so horrible, he said hes glad im gone and that his life will be infinitely better without me, i gave him everything, but he wouldnt even do the bare minimum in return 💔😩
Whatever you do...don't have a child with a Narc...
I wish I had known that until it was too late 😔 but we live & we learn
I told my friend she shouldn't have an abusive man's child. It was bad before and turned into a hell once the baby was born. Yea, not all children turn into a narcissist but it sure isn't easy DNA heritage to have. And it's not fair for the child.
They are super predictable after a while..... I guessed exactly what he would do to destroy me 4 years ago. Sure enough, he did exactly what I guessed😂. Nothing they do is too cruel and destructive to imagine. They are capable of pure evil deeds.
I'm sorry you went through that too.. Now that I know how to figure out when someone is a narcissist, I notice that there are actually a whole lot of them 😱😬
Take care dear, stay aware and be happy ☀️☀️☀️
You’re exactly right and they also mimic other people’s emotions about love early on ( they don’t feel those emotions) when they’re working on getting people hooked on them but eventually they’re mask falls off and we see the real person a narcissist is thanks so much keep up the great work 🩷
All that matters, is what you can do for them. And then they dump you and tell people you are the problem.
You are so right I was married to one for 17 years and it took me 10 years to get healed from all the mental abuse I went through
Yeah,.Some times,God allows us to meet some bad people in our life,so that when we find the good once,we will know how to value them
I, totally, understand. 💯% accurate. I was in a 4 1/2 yr toxic courtship. He was like a Heckle and Jeckle dynamic - wasted my precious years. As I heal, I am more and more grateful to God for collapsing that situation in my favor. God is good and just!
Some times,God allows us to meet some bad people in our life,so that when we find the good once,we will know how to value them ❤
They will break you down slowly, they will use your weakness against you, they will tell everyone it’s you, not telling them what they are doing. A covert narc is one of the worse because everything they do is calculated and they always come off perfect. I was married to one! I thank God I have a praying family because I would still be in that toxic cycle.
Yup never tell your weaknesses because they will use it to their advantage. I had my Ex run to my mom about me behind my back but never told her why I was acting that way. They play victim smh 🤦
Yess every word you say is true this is my narcissist husband did to me for 40 years
OMG Preach!!! Divorce will be finalized next month...it was torment- I stayed way too long
Facts!! You get sick of them.
They'll try to make you think
you can never be
with anyone but them.
Wasted alot of years on
mind-games &
men-tally abusive.
They drain you!! It's hard to get back up! But when you do your free!
I SECOND .. EVERYTHING U SAID HERE! I GOT OUT! AND .. I'M STAYING OUT! NARCISSISTS ARE NO GOOD! THEY USE U UP .. UNTIL U HAVE NOTHING LEFT! THEN SMEAR YOUR NAME .. TO GAIN MORE CONTROL! THEY'RE NOTHING BUT TROUBLE! YOU'RE BETTER OFF SINGLE! UNTIL .. THE RIGHT ONE .. COMES ALONG!
Gaslighting and tantrums. Never admitting they're wrong. Everything bad in their life is your fault. And sneaky!!! They will carry a lie to the grave. Thx 🙏
A narsist does not know what love means.
This is so true! I was married to one for over 20yrs. I know Gods got me! The mental abuse is what I see has taken a toll on me.
Some times,God allows us to meet some bad people in our life,so that when we find the good once,we will know how to value them
Please God help them and create a new heart in them
My x's flying monkies are still trying to make me feel guilty! Ive done the inner work and their opinion means nothing.😊
Hard part to leave the one whom we luv even though it's narcissistic personality 😭
I found your channel today, Saturday June 10, 2023 and I’m elated to learn truth about human behavior relationships. Thanks so much for your wisdom.
I just realized that I am married to one.. I have tried so many times done my very best to make this marriage work but now I understand even though I tried he will never change... I am now looking for away out.
Wow, you are so correct! Its difficult being in a relationship like that because they always turn things around like they are being victimized, its a sad and brutal world they live in!
I got tired of being sick of tired🎉🎉 finally had enough😂😂
Isn't that the way it is? It takes the worst people in our lives to bring out the best in us. You're awesome. I hope you tell yourself that every day.
🚫❤️ … “They don’t even love ❤️ themselves”.
I file for divorce already I am waiting for my divorce papers thank you for your encouragement
Thank you for your blessings and God bless everybody else
Eliza... you chose you. It doesn't get any better than that
Now imagine the narcissist is your mother who’s also physically and verbally abusive. I’m 45 years old and have been no contact for three years now. She might be my mother, but I wasn’t put on this planet to be her physical punching bag or verbal dumping ground.