As a non-American viewer. I'm more keen for NYC content since every youtuber and their mom lives in LA, but in your shoes I'd definitely pick the city with more homies, better job, better apartments, better weather, more content opportunities. So enjoy LA :D
As a resident of NY for almost five years I can agree that NY can definitely be a very lonely city at times. Sometimes interactions with the guy at the bodega or the lady who runs your local Laundromat can really turn your whole day around.
Man I feel you! The situation of you being in a completely different city alone can be super daunting! I am from India and I moved to Prague 2 years before and I remember the feeling of being alone in your room and not having anyone to talk to and being completely alone! More power to you Jed
Can your next video be how to make friends nowadays? I feel that as everything starts to reopen, many people forget how to socialize and make connections after graduation. As someone born and raised in LA then moved to the SF Area for better economic opportunities, it's pretty difficult socializing with new people and who are similar age after graduating :/
I have a hard time myself! I think joining clubs/groups of people with shared hobbies is the best way to go about it. Most of my friends I’ve made since graduating college were through photography/making videos
Just some personal observations/suggestions as a native New Yorker (25 y.o.) - *I'm assuming that you worked and lived at Manhattan, especially below Central Park North/Cathedral Parkway. I've noticed that for whatever reason, it really can be harder to make friends in Midtown and Downtown Manhattan. Socioeconomic dividing lines might play more of a role in that than it should. *One possible reason: most longtime New Yorkers live in the outer boroughs. A significant amount of people in Manhattan (especially Midtown and Downtown) may tend to be transitional types who aren't that interested in knowing their neighbors, at least from what I see. So both are in New York for different reasons - most of those in Midtown/Downtown are here for specific goals where socializing is done mainly for career advancement, while those in the outer boroughs are here to make a stable living in their community. *It's only within the past 10 years that there is no working class majority in Manhattan. That has never happened before in City history, and undoubtedly that has had an impact on social dynamics within the borough. *Social trust and cohesion in American society has declined significantly, so in many ways, this is somewhat a national problem. New York has the benefit of being a pedestrian city, so it might not be as bad here as in other cities. *Strike up a conversation with the local shopkeeper, bodega guy, or barber (which again might be easier in the outer boroughs). I made some friendships that way. *In many ways, the key to making friends in New York is putting yourself out there. It's harder to find friends if you're not out there in a way that's visible. Join a club (maybe photography?), attend a class, meet people at the gym, volunteer someplace. There's always something going on somewhere in the City. *Don't discount the outer boroughs. They've got some very vibrant neighborhoods, institutions, and meetup spots that you might like. The Museum of the Moving Image is right across the East River in Astoria. The Steinway district has some of the busiest hookah hubs in the City. City Island in the Bronx has a plethora of seafood restaurants. The Queens Night Market in Flushing Meadows has a huge variety of food and crafts. There's a huge subway museum in Downtown Brooklyn (virtual now bc of COVID). The rides at Coney Island get really busy this time of year. These are all places where you can meet new people or spent time with acquaintances (which will hopefully become friends). Summary: You can make friends in New York, but it takes just a little effort. Be smart (especially street smart) but don't shut yourself in either. Put yourself out there, be genuine, be wise and discerning, and people will gravitate toward you.
@@jedcal No problem at all. I'm actually glad that you found something useful in what I said. I could tell even more if you want, depending on your interests. For example, in case you like MMA (since you're already into kickboxing), there's a really busy MMA gym down on Canal Street. At least, it was busy before COVID. I know a guy who goes there regularly. I guess a better question is - what are you interested in?
Jedcal I leave you with this word of advice. Make your own decisions on where YOU really want to live. Friends and family can always make suggestions/recommendations. But at the end of the day, they have their own lives and will drop and run if the next best thing comes along leaving you again at square one. Make sure where you call home is where you are happy, comfortable and content.
I'm a software engineer in Taiwan, born in Taiwan, live in Taiwan. But I'm so envious your life, just like those Hollywood movies and TV series I have watched. Those life always comes in my dream, but I know I might never live in that kind of life, because I'm already married. I just want to say, enjoy your life bro, your life is other people's dream.
As an avid fan of HIMYM and Friends myself, I would choose NY over LA. But man your cinematography is next level. I aspire to be as good as you one day
I'd probably live in NYC. LA is nice, and I have some cool friends there, but it's too far away from home in times of emergency. At least in NYC, I'd be on the east coast still. Also, my fam has a little history from there as well, so it'd be nice. Main prob stopping me.. - being broke 😅
Each city is unique. I think it just depends on which city would offer you the most growth, which city would be best for your mental growth and health as well. Finances of course play a big part, but I tend to look at the physical and mental health benefits on top of financial when it comes to choosing a new city. Being a Native American who’s tribe is heavily rooted in that area of SoCal, I would probably choose SoCal over New York. Since it would check all the boxes of helping me grow physically and mentally and spiritually. Regardless of what choice you choose down the road, I hope you are happy and continue to grow and succeed in life.
Great content! Your reasons for leaving New York make me not want to get a remote full time job where I’m by myself at my workplace. I agree that friends truly make any location feel like home!
Having to watch Elliot enjoying NY life, it persuades me to visit NYC. Hopefully, after this pandemic I could fly from the Philippines to see it. I suggest you travel to La Jolla, San Diego. 😊 The best I've seen from my first visit in the US way back 2018. Take care and stay safe, Jed!
LA! I love California. We moved to the beach in Pismo a month before covid and moved back to AZ a couple months later since we still had our house here.
LA or NYC? Live wherever you wanna live as long as you feel happy and fulfilled. ☺️ There will always be a big room for improvement in life and I'd love to watch you grow with this channel even if you'd end up not being able to read my comments anymore because of the flooded comments from your future million subs. Keep it up, Jed! 💯🔥
The reason why I watch your vlogs is because it motivates to follow my routine even though when you have nobody around ....😀 But hats off man you are so talented.. nobody around you can ever be bored no matter where you wanna live...😂😂 Lot's of love❤️ Home is where the heart is...!! Looking out for more of your vlogs in LA
Story time :) A good one man! I guess NYC is a lot busy and LA is more kinda chill,love its vibe. As a Non-American and an Asian I would prefer LA but ny is ny❤
For the past vids you've uploaded, I was thinking "go back to NYC Jed and do vlogs with Elliot", but now I feel like you're supposed to be in a city where your friends at (well you have friends at NYC now). Plus I agree with the weather in LA, I love beaches ⛱️ hope you pick whats best for you.
nyc is opening back up now & if you come back now, you might be able to get cheaper rent, but i would wait until next summer '22, if you're already settled in LA.
Hello Jed! I love this vlog too! :) Thanks for sharing with us your decision to leave NYC and move to LA. I haven't been to LA, but from your vlog, it seems that LA has a sunshine feel to it! :) Loving those beaches! Take care and stay safe!
Some action scenes in the start ! 🔥🔥👌Live wherever your heart feels like more power to you and also the vedio ..the editing...epiccc !!! 🔥💐not just this but every vedio on this channel always love em . 💐
Dude you are amazing..Love your all video actually I start watching your videos from yesterday and completed watching all your video From your 12y old biggest fan Aaradhya..😋
Jed. I have heard of Guam, but have yet been there. Would love to see a video of you introducing us to Guam and its rich history and culture. I am also curious what do people of Guam think about global warming, which threatens islands with surging sea levels.
Where would you live, LA or NYC? Reply to this thread :)
Say hi on instagram @jedcal
I think nyc is a pretty dope city
Heart for me jedcal please😊😊😊
LA absolutely!
I moved to LA from Tokyo 3 years ago and it was the best decision I ever made!
NYC with a doubt!
come to nyc i’ll show u a good time ;)
Looks like u already have
😳
😲
that's kinda sus
This comment right here officer
Elliot + Kelly + Jed in NYC will be such a dream team ❤️🙃
that last emoji wasn't necessary
@@3Ishh yeah ! Right
@@3Ishh ok boomer
@@AdityaChauhan-qo2yo wtf?
also joma
As a non-American viewer. I'm more keen for NYC content since every youtuber and their mom lives in LA, but in your shoes I'd definitely pick the city with more homies, better job, better apartments, better weather, more content opportunities. So enjoy LA :D
“Every youtuber and their mom” 🤣🤣
As a resident of NY for almost five years I can agree that NY can definitely be a very lonely city at times. Sometimes interactions with the guy at the bodega or the lady who runs your local Laundromat can really turn your whole day around.
i feel that
jedcal: *punching and kicking*
punching dummy: _spain without the s..._
LOL
Man I feel you! The situation of you being in a completely different city alone can be super daunting! I am from India and I moved to Prague 2 years before and I remember the feeling of being alone in your room and not having anyone to talk to and being completely alone! More power to you Jed
Thank you man!!
Dude the quality is just legendary.
Thank you 🙏🏻
He is also a freelance photographer, look back to his oldest vids
STAY IN LA BOI
LMAO
The martial arts part was absolutely amazing.
I don't understand why people hate Asians these people are sweet Elliott+Kelly and many of there friends love you 💖💖
❤️❤️
You're a good storyteller man. Keep up the great content.
🙏🏻🙏🏻
Imagine Jed in a RUclips vs TikTok fight 🤣
Put me in coach
@@jedcal it is your time now young padawan 🙏🏼 may the force be with you.
Imagine Jed being your sweet, adorable, cute boyfie but can actually protect you if needed. 🥺
Aww hahah
next video: why i left LA 😈
✨manifest✨
HMM
That opening was a whole action scene I love it
Haha thanks man
Can your next video be how to make friends nowadays? I feel that as everything starts to reopen, many people forget how to socialize and make connections after graduation. As someone born and raised in LA then moved to the SF Area for better economic opportunities, it's pretty difficult socializing with new people and who are similar age after graduating :/
I have a hard time myself! I think joining clubs/groups of people with shared hobbies is the best way to go about it. Most of my friends I’ve made since graduating college were through photography/making videos
“Nvm it’s up already” I died hard when I saw that in your story post
Hahahah
Just casually binge watching all of Jed’s videos on a Saturday 🥰❤️
L.A. or NYC doesn't matter, what matters is your vlogs!
Thank u :’)
Just some personal observations/suggestions as a native New Yorker (25 y.o.) -
*I'm assuming that you worked and lived at Manhattan, especially below Central Park North/Cathedral Parkway. I've noticed that for whatever reason, it really can be harder to make friends in Midtown and Downtown Manhattan. Socioeconomic dividing lines might play more of a role in that than it should.
*One possible reason: most longtime New Yorkers live in the outer boroughs. A significant amount of people in Manhattan (especially Midtown and Downtown) may tend to be transitional types who aren't that interested in knowing their neighbors, at least from what I see. So both are in New York for different reasons - most of those in Midtown/Downtown are here for specific goals where socializing is done mainly for career advancement, while those in the outer boroughs are here to make a stable living in their community.
*It's only within the past 10 years that there is no working class majority in Manhattan. That has never happened before in City history, and undoubtedly that has had an impact on social dynamics within the borough.
*Social trust and cohesion in American society has declined significantly, so in many ways, this is somewhat a national problem. New York has the benefit of being a pedestrian city, so it might not be as bad here as in other cities.
*Strike up a conversation with the local shopkeeper, bodega guy, or barber (which again might be easier in the outer boroughs). I made some friendships that way.
*In many ways, the key to making friends in New York is putting yourself out there. It's harder to find friends if you're not out there in a way that's visible. Join a club (maybe photography?), attend a class, meet people at the gym, volunteer someplace. There's always something going on somewhere in the City.
*Don't discount the outer boroughs. They've got some very vibrant neighborhoods, institutions, and meetup spots that you might like. The Museum of the Moving Image is right across the East River in Astoria. The Steinway district has some of the busiest hookah hubs in the City. City Island in the Bronx has a plethora of seafood restaurants. The Queens Night Market in Flushing Meadows has a huge variety of food and crafts. There's a huge subway museum in Downtown Brooklyn (virtual now bc of COVID). The rides at Coney Island get really busy this time of year. These are all places where you can meet new people or spent time with acquaintances (which will hopefully become friends).
Summary: You can make friends in New York, but it takes just a little effort. Be smart (especially street smart) but don't shut yourself in either. Put yourself out there, be genuine, be wise and discerning, and people will gravitate toward you.
This is great! Thank you!
@@jedcal No problem at all. I'm actually glad that you found something useful in what I said.
I could tell even more if you want, depending on your interests.
For example, in case you like MMA (since you're already into kickboxing), there's a really busy MMA gym down on Canal Street. At least, it was busy before COVID. I know a guy who goes there regularly.
I guess a better question is - what are you interested in?
I definitely came from the day in the life of a software engineer video. Glad I did because the quality is always dope here
Jedcal I leave you with this word of advice. Make your own decisions on where YOU really want to live. Friends and family can always make suggestions/recommendations. But at the end of the day, they have their own lives and will drop and run if the next best thing comes along leaving you again at square one. Make sure where you call home is where you are happy, comfortable and content.
Thanks man I feel that
It is all about the weather not controlling your life. California is expensive for a reason.
Yup!
That punching and kicking was hot
😉😉😉
I'm a software engineer in Taiwan, born in Taiwan, live in Taiwan. But I'm so envious your life, just like those Hollywood movies and TV series I have watched. Those life always comes in my dream, but I know I might never live in that kind of life, because I'm already married.
I just want to say, enjoy your life bro, your life is other people's dream.
This man living the life and the dream of a college grad
As an avid fan of HIMYM and Friends myself, I would choose NY over LA. But man your cinematography is next level. I aspire to be as good as you one day
Wow thanks man!!
Hafa Jed… buy both and rent out whichever one you’re not living in. -Peter
Maybe one day haha
Physical fitness = Mental Strength + Safety Performance. High Kick Swift Punch.
take advantage of your job being remote and live where you feel like it. there's no rush ;)
I'd probably live in NYC. LA is nice, and I have some cool friends there, but it's too far away from home in times of emergency.
At least in NYC, I'd be on the east coast still.
Also, my fam has a little history from there as well, so it'd be nice.
Main prob stopping me.. - being broke 😅
LA..and it's actually more than LA when you include OC and socal in general.
Trueee
I love this person from bottom of my heart. My inspiration to become a SWE
Each city is unique. I think it just depends on which city would offer you the most growth, which city would be best for your mental growth and health as well. Finances of course play a big part, but I tend to look at the physical and mental health benefits on top of financial when it comes to choosing a new city. Being a Native American who’s tribe is heavily rooted in that area of SoCal, I would probably choose SoCal over New York. Since it would check all the boxes of helping me grow physically and mentally and spiritually. Regardless of what choice you choose down the road, I hope you are happy and continue to grow and succeed in life.
Jedcal and shanrizwan is my happy pills.
Happy to have watched this video 1 year later and know you gave nyc another try, and that you enjoyed it ❤️✨
10 days before jed's birthday, but here I am everyday clicking what's poppin'
Hahaha what’s good
STAY IN LA BABYYYY!!! Thanks for featuring me in ur vlog hella bro love u man. Lets get this gentleman to 100k+!
Love u
Other than gut preference for NYC or LA, another good thing to think about is like what Jed said, having good friends/opportunity around you.
u got some good like to dislike ratio 1000 to 1!!
Thumbs up if you’d never challenge Jed in a fight
LA is better man, stay!!!
I’m between moving to NYC and LA after graduation so you should make another video comparing the two cities through a new grad perspective!
Sponsorship?! Yes sir, love to see it.
TEAM NY ALL THE WAYYYY
Dude you look like a guy from k-drama/c-drama...luv your content keep it up ❤️...
My leg would hurt if I did those kicks. Nice one, Jed😄
I also graduated from BU with a CS degree and working as a software engineer in New York City for almost 2 years. :)
LA has better weather anyway.
your intro and ending are out of mind...
don't ever mess with Jed... I warn you guys lol ;)
Great content! Your reasons for leaving New York make me not want to get a remote full time job where I’m by myself at my workplace. I agree that friends truly make any location feel like home!
It’s definitely the ppl!
You have made the right choice. All the best for your future.
LA has better weather anyway
😂 I forgot I was playing the video in 1.25x playback speed. So when you were striking at 0:55 I was like 👀👀👀
😂😂
LOL why u watching it at 1.25x speed tho 😢
doesn't matter where youll stay, what matters is your vlogs! :')
❤️❤️
Jedcal can you do a skin care video please, we need a skin like yours 🙏🙏🙏
Having to watch Elliot enjoying NY life, it persuades me to visit NYC. Hopefully, after this pandemic I could fly from the Philippines to see it.
I suggest you travel to La Jolla, San Diego. 😊 The best I've seen from my first visit in the US way back 2018.
Take care and stay safe, Jed!
Cool bro, do anything u want life is too short
LA! I love California. We moved to the beach in Pismo a month before covid and moved back to AZ a couple months later since we still had our house here.
I can already see Kelly moving there next
this is my dopamine dude
❤️❤️
Finally got jedcal got sponcers ❤️...
Video coming in hot! Before the instagram story. 😉
Real one
LA or NYC? Live wherever you wanna live as long as you feel happy and fulfilled. ☺️ There will always be a big room for improvement in life and I'd love to watch you grow with this channel even if you'd end up not being able to read my comments anymore because of the flooded comments from your future million subs. Keep it up, Jed! 💯🔥
The reason why I watch your vlogs is because it motivates to follow my routine even though when you have nobody around ....😀
But hats off man you are so talented.. nobody around you can ever be bored no matter where you wanna live...😂😂
Lot's of love❤️
Home is where the heart is...!!
Looking out for more of your vlogs in LA
Thanks!!!
Story time :)
A good one man! I guess NYC is a lot busy and LA is more kinda chill,love its vibe. As a Non-American and an Asian I would prefer LA but ny is ny❤
For the past vids you've uploaded, I was thinking "go back to NYC Jed and do vlogs with Elliot", but now I feel like you're supposed to be in a city where your friends at (well you have friends at NYC now). Plus I agree with the weather in LA, I love beaches ⛱️ hope you pick whats best for you.
Haha thanks man
nyc is opening back up now & if you come back now, you might be able to get cheaper rent, but i would wait until next summer '22, if you're already settled in LA.
Yeah true!
I think in LA you have a better quality of life than New York. In LA u have a car, a good house, beach nearby...and it's cheapper too.
I love New York but I would like to visit a place with better weather. My decision is based on which has better food and I love the food here.
Look man just do what you want. You make great content in either city. Stay where you most happy.
Wherever you are happy!
Hello Jed! I love this vlog too! :) Thanks for sharing with us your decision to leave NYC and move to LA. I haven't been to LA, but from your vlog, it seems that LA has a sunshine feel to it! :) Loving those beaches! Take care and stay safe!
Some action scenes in the start ! 🔥🔥👌Live wherever your heart feels like more power to you and also the vedio ..the editing...epiccc !!! 🔥💐not just this but every vedio on this channel always love em . 💐
@Elliot choy and @jed and @kelly also joma this squad will be the best squad!
Dude you are amazing..Love your all video actually I start watching your videos from yesterday and completed watching all your video
From your 12y old biggest fan Aaradhya..😋
I get so nervous with all this roof images
The birds: HEY ITS JED! LETS GET IN THE VLOG!!!!
Hi jed....... Lots of love and support from India.
Pinoy 🇵🇭 💕 Stay safe!
yeah LA is nice for the social atmosphere but what do you think of the crazy taxes? homelessness problem?
Jed. I have heard of Guam, but have yet been there. Would love to see a video of you introducing us to Guam and its rich history and culture. I am also curious what do people of Guam think about global warming, which threatens islands with surging sea levels.
I wouldn't want to live in NYC or LA because both are filled with the most bizarre people
LOL
Jed you are a very genuine and kind of a person,love your vlogs keep it coming
The Taekwondo part is just badass
Same hated NYC before I made friends
It’s the people!
LA has better weather anyway 😜
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LoL I am the only one who read the description. Pin me now
Btw! Have a early Happy Birthday! It’s kinda close now
I challenge you to try American Ninja Warrior. Haha. For sure you'll get past the qualifying round. Haha.
Oooh that would be cool
don't worry we love you regardless of where you live jed!!
it's alright, it's always necessary where we feel at home.
LA hits different
900 LIKES AND 0 DISLIKES..... THE CONTENT BRO.
Galing oh!!!
Hafa Adai!
Hafa adai!
HIMYM is my fav show all time. Classic one! Great vid!
His videos get upgraded each time
BOB. our third roommate exposed
Early even though it is near midnight here in PH