Man, this came in clutch. My lady just broke up with me this morning and it hurts. I shouldn't have put Christ as my side chick. He should have been my ultimate priority. It's a season of healing and redirection.
I pray that you receive your healing and that your new chapter begins now! The relationship with God is the best relationship you’ll ever have!!!💞🙏🏽 May you be blessed, brother !
I see your “self development “ folder and I think it’s amazing that you see where you need growth, because some people never get that opportunity, you do and you’re blessed ! Keep working on yourself and allow God to move you and mold you into the best man that you can be, so that you can be the best version of yourself and the best Boyfriend, husband or father to the woman who is in the same position as you right now, and who’s putting in the same work to find you, God bless you.
Trust ME..GOD WILL HEAL YOUR HEART ... COMPLETELY ....U HAVE NO RESENTMENT ....OR BITTERNESS .. ONLY LOVE !!!!ALLOW GOD TO COME IN..........DUE SEASON ..U WILL FIND YOUR QUEEN......GOD BLESS 🙏
Yessss!!! Whew now that statement was a WORD! I have been on both sides & it’s much different when someone truly loves you & you both fight for each other! Praise God 🙏🏾❤
*Do not ponder on “WHAT IF??” “SHOULD I??” “IF ONLY??” Go to your contacts, scroll down to the bottom, and “BLOCK THIS CALLER.” That’s HOW YOU FIGHT FOR PEACE OF MIND, FIGHT FOR YOUR SANITY, and FIGHT FOR CLOSURE. Chile, THEY WILL BE BACK. THEY ALWAYS DO OR THE INDIVIDUAL WILL FIND A WAY TO STALK YOU ON SOCIAL MEDIA, AT YOUR JOB, BEFRIEND YOUR FAMILY, or MY FAVORITE: SEE YOUR FAMILY IN PUBLIC and PLAY THE VICTIM CARD OF CHANGE. “Believe half of what you hear and ALL OF WHAT YOU SEE!!” The BEST REVENGE is LIVING IN REGRET. **#Karma** Furthermore WOMEN should NEVER FIGHT it STRENGTHENS THEIR EGO meanwhile YOU LOOK DESPERATE. THE FIGHT IS IS HIS. Ask Jacob, Rachel, and Leah. Genesis 29*
I know a lot of us get lonely and try to rush the process of getting a bf/gf but don't. Trust in God's timing. I am saying this from experience. She broke my heart. It has been 6 months and I am just now getting over it. Don't settle for less. The devil might bring someone that you think is the one but he is really blocking the blessing that God has for you. Be vigilant my brothers and sisters! God Bless!
YESSSSSSSS, most times these people are sent as distractions from moving forward in God. The most important relationship for a person to have is with God 1st then self.....a relationship from can only gleam healthy from these relationships when established. Otherwise, that relationship becomes your God, an Idle requiring of that person only what our Heavenly Father can provide. Love God with all your heart soul and mind. 2ND love your neighbor as you love yourself. can't love your neighbor if you have no love for yourself. Can't pour from an empty cup. Most of us have not been taught this very important concept. I had to learn this later in life.
God confirmed today that I needed to end a relationship. I was devastated yet relieved because I finally understood that it was not God’s will. God has the best for us. Every word of this message was confirmation of what God has been telling me. I am so thankful for this ministry. Thank you!
Just ended mine last night. After 2 years, it was not Gods will. I pray for both of our healing and leave my future to the Lord ❤️ Sad, but I know the Lord will shall prevail and his plans are better then mine ❤️
Lovely message all glory to God. Whoever is reading this God cares and knows your struggles. Your pain and misery is for a short time trust God for He alone can deliever you
I surrender my lust and anxiety and restlessness in Jesus' name. They are broken. I am a new being. Heal me Father from all the hurt and pain. Help me to trust you even when I don't feel or see a shift. In Jesus' name. This was a beautiful message. Thanks Pastor Jerry
This video truly just uplifted me. I was in a very dark space after yet another failed relationship at the age of 35. I was becoming depressed by the idea of being a “a leftover woman”. Successful Career but not married, no kids and single, that’s depressing. Thank you for this encouraging sermon. God Bless you!
This message is 4 years old and I’m just hearing it….. that’s the confirmation from God. I was betrayed and I must say tho the flags were there so I played a part to. But God removed him because he has better for me. Thank you Lord
Wow Sameeee this just came on my page and I was just broken up with over what someone else did and is being projected as my behavior! It hurts but this breakup has led me closer to God so it had to happen!
@@laylascustomcreations6986 Me too I had to runnnnnn because the hurt was too much for me. But God removed them because he doesn’t mind hurting your feelings, to save your future.💕💕
I needed this today. My girlfriend just broke up with me and im hurting a lot right now. I thought she was the one for me. I have prayed and asked God for someone to come into my life and love me unconditionally. And she did, but she wasn't ready for a relationship like i did. I was so scared of losing her that i was getting anxious. But i realized that in doing that I forgot my relationship with God. I forgot to put him first in my life and he took it away because i think he wants me to come home. I dont know what happens to my life now. And i dont know when i will be able to open up and love again, but i know that my God is great and he always has the best interests for me. Now, instead of wallowing in sadness of what i had; I will now look forward to what my Father has for me.
Just got my heart broken by the guy I thought I would Marry him he literally walked out while I was crying and begging to be loved back. I almost picked up the phone to call him until I watched this I said God I'm tired 😩 and so is my heart I'm greatful for this message 🙏🏿🙌🏾 thank you
I went through the exact same thing. I helped and supported him through college, raising his kids, holding him down; and he goes and move away with another woman. I was lied on, mistreated, abused; but I still stayed. And when I thought we would reap the rewards, he decided to move on to someone else. He will get his but it still hurts. Stay encouraged my sister. God told me long time ago to leave, but I didn't.
I'm 11 months post-breakup & Pastor Flowers has helped me heal and come closer to God during this time. I'm in such a better place mentally, spiritually & emotionally, but I love listening to these types of sermons as confirmation that the breakup had to happen for God's glory. I know what happened was God's will for my life & I'm glad He removed me to save me from something I couldn't & didn't see.
This message may be over 3 years old, however it helped me end a 5 year situation ship this year to be the Women God Has Called & Created Me To be! Beautifully and Wonderfully Made in his Image!
The joys of listening to sermons. Doesn't matter how old or recent it is. It's still truth that comes in what feels like you're in the present moment. Yet, God knows what we need to hear. It's wonderful
How long will I cry over something that God has not anointed ? God needs me to move on. God has greater for me. Its ok to fight for somebody who loves me but it’s a problem to fight for someone to love me!! I didn’t lose what God had for me. I lost what was blocking what God has for me.
Just watched that part in the sermon. That's so powerful. Reminds me of Judas betraying Jesus. Jesus had to let him do what he wanted for him to walk into his full calling because Judas was holding him back. There are many Judas people out there. We must be prayerful, discerning and careful.
God's timing is perfect! I have been faithfully watching Pastor Flowers for the past 5-6 weeks. they've helped me tremendously with my faith and my discipline. About a week and a half ago however, I felt myself reaching for the my old wardrobe. Before long, I had on all the same clothes I had on before. I felt aimless and distant from everything, especially God. After I felt like I had no where else to go and I got on my knees to repent, God reminded me of exactly what I needed to be doing and it was at that moment that the Holy Spirit told me to watch Sunday's message, which I had missed. Pastor Flower's word was right on time and it gave me the encouragement I needed to run back to his feet and to stay in position for my Arrival!
This is God 🗣️ Ng to EACH AND EVERY ONE OF US right now! This message is not for "that" person. I am "that person"! YOU are "that person"! And, it's all good!!!
Why don’t you and pastor mike Todd link up and do series together. Literally you and him have helped me sooooo much in my healing season this past year
Several years ago I was going through so much agony, confusion and frustration that I was READY for the Lord to wipe my slate completely clean! My consistent prayer was, "Heavenly Father, anything or anyone that is not from You I don't want it." And then it seemed like my life began to completely fall apart, losing things left and right so my next prayer was, "Lord I don't understand this but I trust You." I was down to one long-time friendship that I had been confident the Lord ordained but it turns out He also separated us. Shortly thereafter He revealed to me that I was an enabler and needed me out of His way so He could work on my friend too 😕 I'm not where I would like to be but grateful and thankful to Almighty God that I'm also not where I used to be either and He has been/is definitely keeping me through all of this 🙏✝️🕊️💗
So influential at this time of healing, my intuition was blinging like crazy I knew what I needed to do & this video confirmed it. I broke things off with what you would consider an high value man but I was miserable trying to constantly prove my worth to him, it was exhausting and trying to correct my natural personality to please him. I made him my God and I’m so sorry I’m grateful I broke things off today and I’m excited for what’s to come in my life. It hurts but I feel better at the same time. ❤
WOW. I never wanted this video to end. I actually JUST broke up with the guy I thought I was gonna marry... So painful, but you're video came right on time. Hallelujah 🙏
The guy I was dating asked me for a break that I have been asking him to give me. But when he mentioned I was devastated as I did not see it coming. This sermon confirms the words my pastor said to me. This is a revelation I needed to completely give up on that relationship which was not serving God and myself.
Whoa! I had to make some hard decisions today but I thought it was flesh, so I repented & prayed for revelation. The Lord revealed through this Word, that it was Holy Spirit led. WHOA!!!!!!!✝️🛐🔥🎯
He is Always on Time,He still CONTINUES to wow me, blowing my mind! To me, it's THE BEST 'High' anyone will ever find!! Let us never allow the world to blasphemously define, who we should be when,hello!? God's the One who designed- our lives predestined from the start, created w purpose that He assigned! So may we press forward in our GIFT /the PRESENT 🎁,not stuck on replay & rewind.We need to tell the Liar "Get behind us in Jesus name! CHRIST SET US FREE FROM WHAT U TRIED to bind!" We now have God's peace,REAL LOVE, that surpasses all OTHER futile KIND. (not sure why,but I ended up typing this &it just HAD to rhyme!😂)
The LORD will do what you CAN'T, not what you WON'T... Peace comes when we let go of what HE didnt send.... GOD is using this man's vessel for soooooo many! Praise GOD!
Left a 5 year relationship about a month ago that was toxic, way before I left I prayed God would show me if it was ment for me..and over and over agian he showed me it wasn’t.❤ first break up that I’ve had, were I didn’t walk away shattered..I’m at peace!
Listen to me God is so real! - this reminded me that “No they haven’t change- they want to stop you from what God is going to bless you with”! I’m like #Ontimeword
Yeah. I'm like move around in Jesus name. You don't want nothing. You only trying to come back into my life to hinder and distract me. The DEVIL is a liar.
Okay stop!!!! Your comment is literally revelation. I've been telling some trustworthy and close Godly friends this for a while. Some only want to hold you back. Hence the monitoring spirits out there. The Lord helps us and we pursue discernment heavily
I'm in a season of what seem to be closed doors right now. Yes the Lord told me that is why I have been in the same type of relationships over and over. Because I haven't really allowed a complete healing from past wounds.
Since I watched this the other day, I arrived at my "ah ha" moment. Its not that he is bad, he just isn't suppose to stay on board with me. He was my assignment & that assignment is over but I've continued to harbor a fugitive, not allowing him to experience a full lay over. And since he's never healed from his past, I've been allowing his heaviness to weight me down. Since I haven't wanted to leave my assignment I've been experiencing storms that aren't even mine & not leaving room to receive & carry my oil. Thank you Pastor Jerry!
RUclips suggested I listen to this sermon so I did and what a Blessing it was! Right on time and confirmation! I can't believe this sermon is 4 years old and I'm just now coming across it. I'm about to go back now and start the other 14. Thanks so much Pastor Flowers! You are such an incredible Godsend ❤
“ I’m your new babe and im not cool with you staying in contact with your ex “ HIT ME IN THE SOUL . it’s hard watching someone you love walk away because they couldn’t win the battle in their own head. Drifting ever further from God while im getting closer and closer. So heartbreaking. I pray for her every single day.
I needed this, been 1 1/2 months of breaking up 1 month no contact, and this Monday I wake up to his email saying he is picking up his belongings and dropping off my belongings on Friday, I’ve told him several times before I don’t want them and to trash them, I don’t want him near me again … I will be moving on because Jesus is not and will never be my side chick and this ex was becoming my idol, God let me see and hear what I didn’t when I wasn’t there….. I need to move on thank you my dear Abba I am in your hands and I trust you papi❤ I needed this so bad so I could release him completely….
I watched this during the first few days after my breakup and I remember breaking down so hard, I was sobbing. I had never had so many revelations in one sermon and ever since listening to this sermon, I have had such a huge perspective change. Thank you Pastor Flower!
I just want to come back and say thank you Pastor! It’s been about over a year and a half now when I had watched this video for the very first time. This was one of the first videos that I watched from you, and it helped me through a very tough breakup. I had no where to turn to and I was at a very low point in my life. But I am so grateful that God used you to deliver this message. This message spoke to me, changed me, helped me through my healing process, and now I am set free! I am healed and at peace in my life right now. I just wanna say THANK YOU and THANK YOU GOD for everything. 💕
Wow,I'm a lady from south Africa in a relationship with someone who is married and now I'm pregnant with his child and he doesn't call or come to me anymore...and I just saw your videos on RUclips on Saturday the 17th Aug 2024 and they changed my life...I believe I will press on until I give birth to this child and God will give me strength yo raise her.Thank you so much Pastor JF
This message is the one! I surrender to God! I am done with it! Thank you Lord for this Revelation! Glory to God! I declare and decree this word in my life. In Jesus name Amen!
After viewing this message and going back and rewatching it again and again, I am realizing that this nagging feeling that I have been feeling is telling me that I am called to give that unforgiveness in my heart to GOD and to give the shame of not listening to the red flags of discernment over as well. I have held onto these things for decades and I have a unconscious conversation with my thought daily and envision what I should have done differently. And to turn down the noise, I have to break up with unforgiveness, the rejection, and not breaking up with these feelings sooner. This message is for me. Confirmation after confirmation after confirmation. Thank you Pastor Flowers. I so needed to this word.
Whew!!! Amen! 🙏🏽 This was such a word! I used to pick the same guy with a different name and face. God sat me down and healed me, and now I will NEVER go back to my past. I am so thankful! Thank you for sharing this message. 💛
Amen. God is asking me to break up with marijuana. It’s crazy you made this video 3 years ago and it’s hitting just on time for me. I cried watching this. I’ve been watching your videos Mr. Flowers for about a month now God has been drawing me to his word through you & I know this was for me. Thank you Lord for consistently speaking to me, help me let go of this sin immediately because I want too I’m just afraid of the time without it. Amen 🙏🏾
I’ve been here for more than three years. God used you to teach me not get unequally yoked. God used you to help me recognize people that are likable that aren’t a good match.
What a relevant word!! We must get rid of anyone or thing that could be keeping us from our destiny..May God bless you with many more messages man of God🙏
Yes. One of the greatest prayers is to ask the Lord to expose people in our lives. And he will. Some of those people are people the Lord will remove so we can pursue our destiny in Christ without Listening to distractions
AMEN to this message. I receive it. I know God asked me to 'break up' 7 months ago. I chose God first. I chose what God gave me as an "alone season" to heal, listen, grow! It's been hard. But I lost what was blocking my blessings! Thank you God. Thank you Jesus. I release this pain, and move on.
This message is powerful I felt the Holy Spirit while I listened. I'm struggling with letting go of people God removed from my life. People I cried to be freed from. I always check up on them.
Wow 😮! Just went through a break up. Today I was feeling so sad wondering why I’m thinking about this person. Why I feel like I can’t move on. Just choosing today to be in a state of worship. Boom 🤯 here comes this video. Not sure why or how but I’m thankful 🙏🏽
Whew! This one here is 🔥 So many gems. Breaking EVERY chain. 😩 I had someone from my past try to revisit. I heard God clearly, “forgive them. Have love for them, but don’t grant re-entry”. MY LORD!
I've had many of those over the last several years too. It's so interesting how God protects us from those kind of relationships in our lives. Some are just monitoring spirits. They just want to see what you're up to. Not actually interested in what God is doing in your life, but just monitoring and lurking. You need some of those at times, but yes, it doesn't mean granting reentry or access. Many mistake and try to think that love and access are synonyms. This isn't always the case. Some people need to stay at a distance while loving them. And God is the one who helps us with wisdom and discernment in this area.
I never comment on videos but when I tell you EVERY word you spoke was straight from the Lord to me....so much confirmation, affirmation, I had to let you know. Received and absorbed. May God continue to pour out in you and wife's life abundantly.
Reverend flowers dr. Flowers man of God flowers Bishop flowers profit flowers my brother in Christ flowers man you are one original young man you are a godsend everything that you preach I can relate to it God brought me straight to your RUclips channel and that channel is a blessing for the world where are you going I'm coming
It's amazing that no matter how old a sermon is. When it's time for u hear what needs be heard. God is right on time with a word of love wisdom & confirmation. Couldn't of come at a better time & giving direction with clarity. Tho it hurts it's time move on into what God has for me for us. Bcuz what God has & chose for us will always be better. Than what we picked out for ourselves. Thank u for this word heavenly father . Help me be obedient take off those old close n gardens habits etc. & allow u move me into new position new life new direction . According to ur will amen
Amen. Great teaching. Dressing Room, Stand Naked in Front of Jesus, Elevator, Weight Limit, Departure, Layover, Arrival, Mourn Right, Heal RIght, Move On, Trauma Bond, Release, Holding a Fugitive, Who have you let board your life (Jonah), Effective oil Carrier, What is God calling for you to break up with, Embrace the Dressing Room, Give us the strength
Preach Flowers!!! Phenomenal!! I appreciate you Pastor Flowers. I’m learning a lot from you, the kingdom and our King. I’ve surrendered to Christ during your Appetite series, fire, and have been tuning in ever since because of my amazing sister. I pray God continues to speak to you and bless you and your family. Thank you again from the bottom of my heart.
Just went through a breakup myself and it ached so bad. But we weren’t doing anything to glorify God. The closer we tried to get to God, the more uncomfortable our relationship became. It was hard to let go but we needed to step back and allow God to take over. I’m done of having God as my side chick.
Thank YOU JESUS FOR THE BREAK UP AND THE REJECTION .I UNDERSTAND YOU WERE MY PROTECTION.TAKING ME FOWARD INTO ELEVATION !!! I HAVE NO REGRETS,TOTALLY HEAL FROM PAST ABUSE .....I WILL🙏🙏 CONTINUE 🙏TO TRUST U !!!! ALL THE REMAINDER YEARS OF MY LIFE 🙏😍🙏😍🙏😍.AMEN
When we don’t allow God to Heal our heart and fix our eyes back on Him not only will we go back BUT WE WILL BLEED ON THE NEXT OR THOSE CLOSE TO US😩 Let Jesus Christ do the mending ❤ TRUST in him with our whole heart don’t understand the situation with earthly eyes Let Jesus open our hearts minds eyes and souls to understand why it happened
Whew!! I literally have to watch your sermons twice to not miss anything the Holy spirit may be trying to get across...it's amazing that listening to this again 5 hrs later & the Holy spirit shines a light on new revelation in this message, it happens just about everytime. I am so thankful for this ministry & obedience to be a vessel for His glory.
Thank you Pastor Jerry 🙏🏾 This word was confirmation I needed about leaving a toxic friendship that was hindering me from fully committing to the assignment God has for me. Honestly life changing 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Thank you Lord. And brother for your obedience. This is what I already new. He has sent a few before. It's my choices I make when in pain. It's time to heal, no longer to run to what broke me.. blessings. Pray for my healing from my trauma bond. I speak blessings over you, yours and your bloodline in Jesus name 🕊️✌️
Omg THIS HIT ME LIKE A TON OF BRICKS!!!!!!! Omg. Speaking right to me man. Started clapping right at the beginning and it’s not even done yet. PRAISE GOD FOR YOU MAKING THIS VIDEO!!!
My goodness…this Word hit deep!!! Thank you Jesus for loving me so much that you closed certain doors in my life!! My life is forever changed and I am humbly grateful!! I L❤️🔥VE You Jesus❣️
Tuning in from Denver, CO! Hooked on your messages, Holy Spirit flowwws through you, man!! So good!! #itsoverbooboo Ohhh the mourning - letting the pain do it's work so the grief can get me through the process, not stuck in it. Such confirmation to what God has been speaking to me!!! I've avoided grieving properly & fully. I got stuck in the anger phase...
This has been a difficult sermon for me… I’ve made it through… Gemma go back and listen again… everything.. EVERYTHING said in this sermon I NEEDED to hear. God hasn’t forgotten me! Praise HIM 🙌🏽
This was an on time message. It was a hard pill to swallow 4 me, yet necessary. I want the oil , with that comes sacrifice and trust. God will never withhold no good thing from me/us. 💕 God give me strength!!
This is right on time. God wanted me to hear this message. It was necessary for me to hear this so that I can know that God is always with me and not working against me. I see now why I was woken up around 3:30 a.m. Redefined T.V. is always on time.
I’m new to the church but I am hooked by the holy spirit to flowing they u it’s reaching me well and comforting my spirits opening my mind and heart could and spirit to the different dynamics I need to develop in my personal relationship with my Lord and savior Jesus Christ so thank u so much. I know the importance of acknowledging what God used to get His Holy word out thank u God bless u and your beautiful family❤
Man, this came in clutch. My lady just broke up with me this morning and it hurts. I shouldn't have put Christ as my side chick. He should have been my ultimate priority. It's a season of healing and redirection.
I pray that you receive your healing and that your new chapter begins now! The relationship with God is the best relationship you’ll ever have!!!💞🙏🏽 May you be blessed, brother !
I see your “self development “ folder and I think it’s amazing that you see where you need growth, because some people never get that opportunity, you do and you’re blessed ! Keep working on yourself and allow God to move you and mold you into the best man that you can be, so that you can be the best version of yourself and the best Boyfriend, husband or father to the woman who is in the same position as you right now, and who’s putting in the same work to find you, God bless you.
It's so worth it. It hurts, it really does but it's worth it. Give it all to God, everything. Every last thing. God is so worth it
Trust ME..GOD WILL HEAL YOUR HEART ... COMPLETELY ....U HAVE NO RESENTMENT ....OR BITTERNESS .. ONLY LOVE !!!!ALLOW GOD TO COME IN..........DUE SEASON ..U WILL FIND YOUR QUEEN......GOD BLESS 🙏
Thank you for the encouragement. I'm really grateful for your guys love and support. God has been always good and always right.
Jesus wrecks your plans when He sees your plans will wreck you.
AMEN ‼️
"It's okay for you to fight for somebody who loves you but it's a problem if you are fighting for someone to love you."
Yessss!!! Whew now that statement was a WORD! I have been on both sides & it’s much different when someone truly loves you & you both fight for each other! Praise God 🙏🏾❤
Amen Brother
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*Do not ponder on “WHAT IF??” “SHOULD I??” “IF ONLY??” Go to your contacts, scroll down to the bottom, and “BLOCK THIS CALLER.” That’s HOW YOU FIGHT FOR PEACE OF MIND, FIGHT FOR YOUR SANITY, and FIGHT FOR CLOSURE. Chile, THEY WILL BE BACK. THEY ALWAYS DO OR THE INDIVIDUAL WILL FIND A WAY TO STALK YOU ON SOCIAL MEDIA, AT YOUR JOB, BEFRIEND YOUR FAMILY, or MY FAVORITE: SEE YOUR FAMILY IN PUBLIC and PLAY THE VICTIM CARD OF CHANGE. “Believe half of what you hear and ALL OF WHAT YOU SEE!!” The BEST REVENGE is LIVING IN REGRET. **#Karma** Furthermore WOMEN should NEVER FIGHT it STRENGTHENS THEIR EGO meanwhile YOU LOOK DESPERATE. THE FIGHT IS IS HIS. Ask Jacob, Rachel, and Leah. Genesis 29*
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“You didn’t lose what God has for you...you lost was blocking what God has for you!” Pastor JF
That one! That was a confirmation!
For me!!!!
Amen
“When you don’t allow God to heal you, you will go back and keep picking what you used to have”. A WHOLE WORD!!!
I was there last week.. I'm not going backwards after my HEALING of 5 years of work. Done with that.
Preach
THIS!!!!!
I know a lot of us get lonely and try to rush the process of getting a bf/gf but don't. Trust in God's timing. I am saying this from experience. She broke my heart. It has been 6 months and I am just now getting over it. Don't settle for less. The devil might bring someone that you think is the one but he is really blocking the blessing that God has for you. Be vigilant my brothers and sisters! God Bless!
YESSSSSSSS, most times these people are sent as distractions from moving forward in God. The most important relationship for a person to have is with God 1st then self.....a relationship from can only gleam healthy from these relationships when established. Otherwise, that relationship becomes your God, an Idle requiring of that person only what our Heavenly Father can provide.
Love God with all your heart soul and mind.
2ND love your neighbor as you love yourself.
can't love your neighbor if you have no love for yourself.
Can't pour from an empty cup.
Most of us have not been taught this very important concept. I had to learn this later in life.
God confirmed today that I needed to end a relationship. I was devastated yet relieved because I finally understood that it was not God’s will. God has the best for us. Every word of this message was confirmation of what God has been telling me. I am so thankful for this ministry. Thank you!
Me and you both!!!
Well I ended mine 3 weeks ago... I get you... How is it going now?
@@tretre4u72 Me too how is it going so far?
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Just ended mine last night. After 2 years, it was not Gods will. I pray for both of our healing and leave my future to the Lord ❤️
Sad, but I know the Lord will shall prevail and his plans are better then mine ❤️
Lovely message all glory to God. Whoever is reading this God cares and knows your struggles. Your pain and misery is for a short time trust God for He alone can deliever you
Amen
It's over boo boo
Thank you Jesus. I need this desperately
Thank you Amen
Amen
I surrender my lust and anxiety and restlessness in Jesus' name. They are broken. I am a new being. Heal me Father from all the hurt and pain. Help me to trust you even when I don't feel or see a shift. In Jesus' name. This was a beautiful message. Thanks Pastor Jerry
AMEN and thank you
Amen
That was an anointed message. I repented, and I am back on course now.
AMEN
Amen!
Yesss! So glad we serve a forgiving God!
I need these messages. Been going through this stuff. Been up and down. Questioning almost everything. Thank God for answers.
AMEN
It's okay for you to fight for someone who loves you but it's a problem to fight for someone to love you
This video truly just uplifted me. I was in a very dark space after yet another failed relationship at the age of 35. I was becoming depressed by the idea of being a “a leftover woman”. Successful Career but not married, no kids and single, that’s depressing. Thank you for this encouraging sermon. God Bless you!
This message is 4 years old and I’m just hearing it….. that’s the confirmation from God. I was betrayed and I must say tho the flags were there so I played a part to. But God removed him because he has better for me. Thank you Lord
Whew SAME🙌🏽
Wow Sameeee this just came on my page and I was just broken up with over what someone else did and is being projected as my behavior! It hurts but this breakup has led me closer to God so it had to happen!
@@laylascustomcreations6986 Me too I had to runnnnnn because the hurt was too much for me. But God removed them because he doesn’t mind hurting your feelings, to save your future.💕💕
@@latonyamoody3419 yesssss exactly hurt me for my peace and happiness and for what my calling is!
Testify I felt that!!!!
Wow!!!! “Nobody knows that me and Jesus are together but I still want benefits and privileges from him” 😩😩😩😩 forgive me LORD!!!!
I needed this today. My girlfriend just broke up with me and im hurting a lot right now. I thought she was the one for me. I have prayed and asked God for someone to come into my life and love me unconditionally. And she did, but she wasn't ready for a relationship like i did. I was so scared of losing her that i was getting anxious. But i realized that in doing that I forgot my relationship with God. I forgot to put him first in my life and he took it away because i think he wants me to come home. I dont know what happens to my life now. And i dont know when i will be able to open up and love again, but i know that my God is great and he always has the best interests for me. Now, instead of wallowing in sadness of what i had; I will now look forward to what my Father has for me.
What’s the update now?
Lol, I was coming to ask the same thing!! Update, please?!
@@moniquebritt8165 we are not together. She doesn't want me back, so why would I want her. I am focusing on healing rn.
Just got my heart broken by the guy I thought I would Marry him he literally walked out while I was crying and begging to be loved back. I almost picked up the phone to call him until I watched this I said God I'm tired 😩 and so is my heart I'm greatful for this message 🙏🏿🙌🏾 thank you
How are you doing now?
Going thru the same thing God bless you Girl stay strong and fixated on him, He will take u to the top floor.
I went through the exact same thing. I helped and supported him through college, raising his kids, holding him down; and he goes and move away with another woman. I was lied on, mistreated, abused; but I still stayed. And when I thought we would reap the rewards, he decided to move on to someone else. He will get his but it still hurts. Stay encouraged my sister. God told me long time ago to leave, but I didn't.
@@Bren-b9cim going through this now my sister stay strong
When You Don’t Heal Right!!! You Don’t Pick Right!!!🔥🔥🔥Preach Pastor
I'm 11 months post-breakup & Pastor Flowers has helped me heal and come closer to God during this time. I'm in such a better place mentally, spiritually & emotionally, but I love listening to these types of sermons as confirmation that the breakup had to happen for God's glory. I know what happened was God's will for my life & I'm glad He removed me to save me from something I couldn't & didn't see.
This message may be over 3 years old, however it helped me end a 5 year situation ship this year to be the Women God Has Called & Created Me To be! Beautifully and Wonderfully Made in his Image!
The joys of listening to sermons. Doesn't matter how old or recent it is. It's still truth that comes in what feels like you're in the present moment. Yet, God knows what we need to hear. It's wonderful
How long will I cry over something that God has not anointed ? God needs me to move on.
God has greater for me.
Its ok to fight for somebody who loves me but it’s a problem to fight for someone to love me!!
I didn’t lose what God had for me. I lost what was blocking what God has for me.
Amén!!
You didn’t loose what God had for you, you lost what was blocking you from what God has for you!!!!!
So true!!!!!!!
Absolutely
Just watched that part in the sermon. That's so powerful. Reminds me of Judas betraying Jesus. Jesus had to let him do what he wanted for him to walk into his full calling because Judas was holding him back. There are many Judas people out there. We must be prayerful, discerning and careful.
God's timing is perfect! I have been faithfully watching Pastor Flowers for the past 5-6 weeks. they've helped me tremendously with my faith and my discipline. About a week and a half ago however, I felt myself reaching for the my old wardrobe. Before long, I had on all the same clothes I had on before. I felt aimless and distant from everything, especially God. After I felt like I had no where else to go and I got on my knees to repent, God reminded me of exactly what I needed to be doing and it was at that moment that the Holy Spirit told me to watch Sunday's message, which I had missed. Pastor Flower's word was right on time and it gave me the encouragement I needed to run back to his feet and to stay in position for my Arrival!
This is God 🗣️ Ng to EACH AND EVERY ONE OF US right now! This message is not for "that" person. I am "that person"! YOU are "that person"! And, it's all good!!!
Why don’t you and pastor mike Todd link up and do series together. Literally you and him have helped me sooooo much in my healing season this past year
I agree, a mighty move of God could be in the making if they did come together. Lord let thy will be done.
Yesss ....relationship goals was everything!!!
PLEASE #amen
My Todd is a false Pastor who's preached with Joel olsteen so maybe that's not a good idea
@@angelashell8250 amen
Several years ago I was going through so much agony, confusion and frustration that I was READY for the Lord to wipe my slate completely clean!
My consistent prayer was, "Heavenly Father, anything or anyone that is not from You I don't want it." And then it seemed like my life began to completely fall apart, losing things left and right so my next prayer was, "Lord I don't understand this but I trust You."
I was down to one long-time friendship that I had been confident the Lord ordained but it turns out He also separated us.
Shortly thereafter He revealed to me that I was an enabler and needed me out of His way so He could work on my friend too 😕
I'm not where I would like to be but grateful and thankful to Almighty God that I'm also not where I used to be either and He has been/is definitely keeping me through all of this 🙏✝️🕊️💗
So influential at this time of healing, my intuition was blinging like crazy I knew what I needed to do & this video confirmed it. I broke things off with what you would consider an high value man but I was miserable trying to constantly prove my worth to him, it was exhausting and trying to correct my natural personality to please him. I made him my God and I’m so sorry I’m grateful I broke things off today and I’m excited for what’s to come in my life. It hurts but I feel better at the same time. ❤
Same situation! Praise God for freedom 🙌🏾
Same here!!
WOW. I never wanted this video to end. I actually JUST broke up with the guy I thought I was gonna marry... So painful, but you're video came right on time. Hallelujah 🙏
Me too😭😭😭
@@chilokwatembo233 God bless you Chilokwa ❤️
Me too
Me too 🥺 Broke up with a guy I wanted to marry
How are yall doing? I'm going through it right now & I'm struggling. 💔 13 years... coming to an end....
"I'M your new Bae! And I ain't cool with you staying in contact with your ex." PERIOD!!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 Come on, Jesus! Talk to us!
The guy I was dating asked me for a break that I have been asking him to give me. But when he mentioned I was devastated as I did not see it coming. This sermon confirms the words my pastor said to me. This is a revelation I needed to completely give up on that relationship which was not serving God and myself.
*I AM no longer in this space. That was four years ago. A lot of growth and maturity has happened since I started this communication.* 💞👌💞
It's over!!!! We had to break up....
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Whoa! I had to make some hard decisions today but I thought it was flesh, so I repented & prayed for revelation. The Lord revealed through this Word, that it was Holy Spirit led. WHOA!!!!!!!✝️🛐🔥🎯
He is Always on Time,He still CONTINUES to wow me, blowing my mind! To me, it's THE BEST 'High' anyone will ever find!! Let us never allow the world to blasphemously define, who we should be when,hello!? God's the One who designed-
our lives predestined from the start, created w purpose that He assigned! So may we press forward in our GIFT /the PRESENT 🎁,not stuck on replay & rewind.We need to tell the Liar "Get behind us in Jesus name! CHRIST SET US FREE FROM WHAT U TRIED to bind!" We now have God's peace,REAL LOVE, that surpasses all OTHER futile KIND. (not sure why,but I ended up typing this &it just HAD to rhyme!😂)
The LORD will do what you CAN'T, not what you WON'T...
Peace comes when we let go of what HE didnt send....
GOD is using this man's vessel for soooooo many! Praise GOD!
Left a 5 year relationship about a month ago that was toxic, way before I left I prayed God would show me if it was ment for me..and over and over agian he showed me it wasn’t.❤ first break up that I’ve had, were I didn’t walk away shattered..I’m at peace!
Wreck me Lord...tear me down & build me back up again, do whatever you need to Father to make me who you created me to be in Jesus name I pray Amen.
Listen to me God is so real! - this reminded me that “No they haven’t change- they want to stop you from what God is going to bless you with”! I’m like #Ontimeword
Yeah. I'm like move around in Jesus name. You don't want nothing. You only trying to come back into my life to hinder and distract me. The DEVIL is a liar.
Church Chick yes girl ! They constantly try and I asked God for signs- and he drop this message right in my lap
Ladenna Young yasss girl they only come as a distraction- to stop the fruits that’s being harvested as we speak . Let it go
@@melloyello3849 Amen!
Okay stop!!!! Your comment is literally revelation. I've been telling some trustworthy and close Godly friends this for a while. Some only want to hold you back. Hence the monitoring spirits out there. The Lord helps us and we pursue discernment heavily
I'm in a season of what seem to be closed doors right now. Yes the Lord told me that is why I have been in the same type of relationships over and over. Because I haven't really allowed a complete healing from past wounds.
Since I watched this the other day, I arrived at my "ah ha" moment. Its not that he is bad, he just isn't suppose to stay on board with me. He was my assignment & that assignment is over but I've continued to harbor a fugitive, not allowing him to experience a full lay over. And since he's never healed from his past, I've been allowing his heaviness to weight me down. Since I haven't wanted to leave my assignment I've been experiencing storms that aren't even mine & not leaving room to receive & carry my oil. Thank you Pastor Jerry!
RUclips suggested I listen to this sermon so I did and what a Blessing it was! Right on time and confirmation! I can't believe this sermon is 4 years old and I'm just now coming across it. I'm about to go back now and start the other 14. Thanks so much Pastor Flowers! You are such an incredible Godsend ❤
“ I’m your new babe and im not cool with you staying in contact with your ex “ HIT ME IN THE SOUL . it’s hard watching someone you love walk away because they couldn’t win the battle in their own head. Drifting ever further from God while im getting closer and closer. So heartbreaking. I pray for her every single day.
I needed this, been 1 1/2 months of breaking up 1 month no contact, and this Monday I wake up to his email saying he is picking up his belongings and dropping off my belongings on Friday, I’ve told him several times before I don’t want them and to trash them, I don’t want him near me again … I will be moving on because Jesus is not and will never be my side chick and this ex was becoming my idol, God let me see and hear what I didn’t when I wasn’t there….. I need to move on thank you my dear Abba I am in your hands and I trust you papi❤ I needed this so bad so I could release him completely….
I watched this during the first few days after my breakup and I remember breaking down so hard, I was sobbing. I had never had so many revelations in one sermon and ever since listening to this sermon, I have had such a huge perspective change. Thank you Pastor Flower!
OMG, this was 3 years ago but this is a RIGHT NOW Word for me. Thank you Jesus, and thank you Man of God🙌🏽
I been here for every single part!! Bahamas🇧🇸 🇧🇸🇧🇸 locked In.. 🙌🙏
I just want to come back and say thank you Pastor! It’s been about over a year and a half now when I had watched this video for the very first time. This was one of the first videos that I watched from you, and it helped me through a very tough breakup. I had no where to turn to and I was at a very low point in my life. But I am so grateful that God used you to deliver this message. This message spoke to me, changed me, helped me through my healing process, and now I am set free! I am healed and at peace in my life right now. I just wanna say THANK YOU and THANK YOU GOD for everything. 💕
Jesus you have been confirming this to me over and over. Yes Lord everything that is not you take it in Jesus name.
HEAL ME, GOD!! I'VE BEEN CRYING AFTERA BREAK UP. I LEARNT SOMETHING AFTER DEALING HIM.
Wow,I'm a lady from south Africa in a relationship with someone who is married and now I'm pregnant with his child and he doesn't call or come to me anymore...and I just saw your videos on RUclips on Saturday the 17th Aug 2024 and they changed my life...I believe I will press on until I give birth to this child and God will give me strength yo raise her.Thank you so much Pastor JF
This message is the one! I surrender to God! I am done with it! Thank you Lord for this Revelation! Glory to God! I declare and decree this word in my life. In Jesus name Amen!
How long will you cry over a relationship that I've broken....
Ameeeen💯
After viewing this message and going back and rewatching it again and again, I am realizing that this nagging feeling that I have been feeling is telling me that I am called to give that unforgiveness in my heart to GOD and to give the shame of not listening to the red flags of discernment over as well. I have held onto these things for decades and I have a unconscious conversation with my thought daily and envision what I should have done differently. And to turn down the noise, I have to break up with unforgiveness, the rejection, and not breaking up with these feelings sooner. This message is for me. Confirmation after confirmation after confirmation. Thank you Pastor Flowers. I so needed to this word.
Hank Hill: "This young man is spittin"
Whew!!! Amen! 🙏🏽 This was such a word! I used to pick the same guy with a different name and face. God sat me down and healed me, and now I will NEVER go back to my past. I am so thankful! Thank you for sharing this message. 💛
Amen. God is asking me to break up with marijuana. It’s crazy you made this video 3 years ago and it’s hitting just on time for me. I cried watching this. I’ve been watching your videos Mr. Flowers for about a month now God has been drawing me to his word through you & I know this was for me. Thank you Lord for consistently speaking to me, help me let go of this sin immediately because I want too I’m just afraid of the time without it. Amen 🙏🏾
I’ve been here for more than three years. God used you to teach me not get unequally yoked. God used you to help me recognize people that are likable that aren’t a good match.
Broke up with my first boyfriend of 3 years halfway thru this vid 🙏 it's really rough but god is good and I'm ready
🗣️“It’s okay to fight for somebody WHO loves you, but it’s a problem if you’re fighting for someone TO love you” 👏🏽
What a relevant word!! We must get rid of anyone or thing that could be keeping us from our destiny..May God bless you with many more messages man of God🙏
Yes. One of the greatest prayers is to ask the Lord to expose people in our lives. And he will. Some of those people are people the Lord will remove so we can pursue our destiny in Christ without Listening to distractions
AMEN to this message. I receive it. I know God asked me to 'break up' 7 months ago. I chose God first. I chose what God gave me as an "alone season" to heal, listen, grow! It's been hard. But I lost what was blocking my blessings! Thank you God. Thank you Jesus. I release this pain, and move on.
Singleness is a season of grace
Thank you Holy Spirit for using Pastor Jerry God I hear you LOUD & CLEAR🙏🏾🌸🍃
This message is powerful I felt the Holy Spirit while I listened. I'm struggling with letting go of people God removed from my life. People I cried to be freed from. I always check up on them.
Wow 😮! Just went through a break up. Today I was feeling so sad wondering why I’m thinking about this person. Why I feel like I can’t move on. Just choosing today to be in a state of worship. Boom 🤯 here comes this video. Not sure why or how but I’m thankful 🙏🏽
Same position 🤗 sending love and Praying for us.
Whew! This one here is 🔥 So many gems. Breaking EVERY chain. 😩 I had someone from my past try to revisit. I heard God clearly, “forgive them. Have love for them, but don’t grant re-entry”. MY LORD!
I've had many of those over the last several years too. It's so interesting how God protects us from those kind of relationships in our lives.
Some are just monitoring spirits. They just want to see what you're up to. Not actually interested in what God is doing in your life, but just monitoring and lurking. You need some of those at times, but yes, it doesn't mean granting reentry or access. Many mistake and try to think that love and access are synonyms. This isn't always the case. Some people need to stay at a distance while loving them. And God is the one who helps us with wisdom and discernment in this area.
I never comment on videos but when I tell you EVERY word you spoke was straight from the Lord to me....so much confirmation, affirmation, I had to let you know. Received and absorbed. May God continue to pour out in you and wife's life abundantly.
AMEN!! This message here reveals my break up was for purpose!!!
Reverend flowers dr. Flowers man of God flowers Bishop flowers profit flowers my brother in Christ flowers man you are one original young man you are a godsend everything that you preach I can relate to it God brought me straight to your RUclips channel and that channel is a blessing for the world where are you going I'm coming
Spiritual Bed sores, my God
*"It's over Boo-booh!!"*
overheard: DROPPED 👈🤞👏
This word was needed. Lord have mercy🙌🏾 May we move out of mourning to our destinies ✨
It's amazing that no matter how old a sermon is. When it's time for u hear what needs be heard. God is right on time with a word of love wisdom & confirmation. Couldn't of come at a better time & giving direction with clarity. Tho it hurts it's time move on into what God has for me for us. Bcuz what God has & chose for us will always be better. Than what we picked out for ourselves. Thank u for this word heavenly father . Help me be obedient take off those old close n gardens habits etc. & allow u move me into new position new life new direction . According to ur will amen
You PREACHED this message DOWWNNNN!!! From start to finish!!!!
Amen. Great teaching. Dressing Room, Stand Naked in Front of Jesus, Elevator, Weight Limit, Departure, Layover, Arrival, Mourn Right, Heal RIght, Move On, Trauma Bond, Release, Holding a Fugitive, Who have you let board your life (Jonah), Effective oil Carrier, What is God calling for you to break up with, Embrace the Dressing Room, Give us the strength
I...Am...moving....on....today!!! I let it GO!!!
Preach Flowers!!! Phenomenal!! I appreciate you Pastor Flowers. I’m learning a lot from you, the kingdom and our King. I’ve surrendered to Christ during your Appetite series, fire, and have been tuning in ever since because of my amazing sister. I pray God continues to speak to you and bless you and your family. Thank you again from the bottom of my heart.
I So Needed To Hear This At This Very Moment.. I Was About to Entertain My Ex Out Of Loneliness.. Thank You For Sharing This🙏🙏🙏
Just went through a breakup myself and it ached so bad. But we weren’t doing anything to glorify God. The closer we tried to get to God, the more uncomfortable our relationship became. It was hard to let go but we needed to step back and allow God to take over. I’m done of having God as my side chick.
Thank YOU JESUS FOR THE BREAK UP AND THE REJECTION .I UNDERSTAND YOU WERE MY PROTECTION.TAKING ME FOWARD INTO ELEVATION !!! I HAVE NO REGRETS,TOTALLY HEAL FROM PAST ABUSE .....I WILL🙏🙏 CONTINUE 🙏TO TRUST U !!!! ALL THE REMAINDER YEARS OF MY LIFE 🙏😍🙏😍🙏😍.AMEN
When we don’t allow God to Heal our heart and fix our eyes back on Him not only will we go back BUT WE WILL BLEED ON THE NEXT OR THOSE CLOSE TO US😩
Let Jesus Christ do the mending ❤ TRUST in him with our whole heart don’t understand the situation with earthly eyes
Let Jesus open our hearts minds eyes and souls to understand why it happened
i surrender my lust. secret addiction. broken relationship. my past. i am a new creation. Help me God
Amen
This word was for me!! Thank you for confirmation!
Christ is in the break up. How true!
Jerry: Gimme ya edges🫴🏽
Me: HERE, just TAKE’EM 😭😭
Every series has blessed me!
Wow!!! Lord thank you for this Word that I needed today. Jesus
Whew!! I literally have to watch your sermons twice to not miss anything the Holy spirit may be trying to get across...it's amazing that listening to this again 5 hrs later & the Holy spirit shines a light on new revelation in this message, it happens just about everytime. I am so thankful for this ministry & obedience to be a vessel for His glory.
Now Pastor Jerry “It’s ok to fight for someone who loves you but not for someone to love you” #Bars
Thank you Pastor Jerry 🙏🏾
This word was confirmation I needed about leaving a toxic friendship that was hindering me from fully committing to the assignment God has for me. Honestly life changing 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Thank you Lord. And brother for your obedience. This is what I already new. He has sent a few before. It's my choices I make when in pain. It's time to heal, no longer to run to what broke me.. blessings. Pray for my healing from my trauma bond. I speak blessings over you, yours and your bloodline in Jesus name 🕊️✌️
Omg THIS HIT ME LIKE A TON OF BRICKS!!!!!!! Omg. Speaking right to me man. Started clapping right at the beginning and it’s not even done yet. PRAISE GOD FOR YOU MAKING THIS VIDEO!!!
I'm yelling Amen...yes Lord...all alone in the apt he cold with it n I love it!!!!!
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(T)...trying
(U)...unGodly
(C)...connection(s)
(K) knowingly
My goodness…this Word hit deep!!! Thank you Jesus for loving me so much that you closed certain doors in my life!! My life is forever changed and I am humbly grateful!! I L❤️🔥VE You Jesus❣️
Tuning in from Denver, CO! Hooked on your messages, Holy Spirit flowwws through you, man!! So good!! #itsoverbooboo Ohhh the mourning - letting the pain do it's work so the grief can get me through the process, not stuck in it. Such confirmation to what God has been speaking to me!!! I've avoided grieving properly & fully. I got stuck in the anger phase...
This has been a difficult sermon for me… I’ve made it through… Gemma go back and listen again… everything.. EVERYTHING said in this sermon I NEEDED to hear. God hasn’t forgotten me! Praise HIM 🙌🏽
This was an on time message. It was a hard pill to swallow 4 me, yet necessary. I want the oil , with that comes sacrifice and trust. God will never withhold no good thing from me/us. 💕 God give me strength!!
If they running from God, your harboring a fugitive!!! Wow!!!
This is right on time. God wanted me to hear this message. It was necessary for me to hear this so that I can know that God is always with me and not working against me. I see now why I was woken up around 3:30 a.m. Redefined T.V. is always on time.
I love it when he says “y’all missed it” cuz I always say “I ain’t miss it!”
Preaching light to the darkness! Bless you Pastor Flowers for staying a strong Kingdom soldier. Praying for you!
I’m new to the church but I am hooked by the holy spirit to flowing they u it’s reaching me well and comforting my spirits opening my mind and heart could and spirit to the different dynamics I need to develop in my personal relationship with my Lord and savior Jesus Christ so thank u so much. I know the importance of acknowledging what God used to get His Holy word out thank u God bless u and your beautiful family❤