"Separation" | Broken Heart | Pastor Bobby Chandler

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  • Опубликовано: 24 окт 2024

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  • @eddycress42
    @eddycress42 9 месяцев назад +388

    My wife and I had been separated since April 2023..11 days ago I prayed to God.. help me help her. Your video popped up. I wasn't even following you at that time. I sent it to my wife on January 17th 2024.. our divorce was scheduled for Feb 1st. She watched the video. WE'RE NO LONGER GETTING DIVORCED. God used you and this video to save our marriage. I can't thank you enough for speaking God's word. Thank you Bobby. May God continue to bless you and use you.

    • @KacieMichelle
      @KacieMichelle 7 месяцев назад +9

      Hallelujah ❤ thank you Jesus

    • @Chrissssxox124
      @Chrissssxox124 7 месяцев назад +5

      Thx for sharing that! I'm praying hard that circumstances will change and our marriage will be saved !

    • @6.0hhh
      @6.0hhh 6 месяцев назад +5

      Praise God ❤️

    • @calculusfalconerd
      @calculusfalconerd 4 месяца назад +3

      Praise God! Hallelujah! This video is so good! Marriage is a blessing from God.

    • @inakiho4895
      @inakiho4895 3 месяца назад +2

      Hallelujah

  • @jenmsiss8848
    @jenmsiss8848 7 месяцев назад +142

    I found out my boyfriend (who we had been planning on getting engaged and starting a family) was cheating on me with his ex. What people don't tell you is its not just dealing with a breakup or separation. It feels like you're mourning the death of a person. A future. A love. He knew about all the pain I experienced in my past yet did the very thing he knew would break me. Sometimes God will break your heart in order to save your soul. I believe that's what happened here. Thank you for sharing this sermon. A lot of people hurting in the world and they need to hear that they are not alone.

    • @chaddean1234
      @chaddean1234 7 месяцев назад +5

      This is me right now…4 year relationship ended overnight and they said they don’t love me. A piece of me is missing and I feel so lost…I’m scrambling to put it all back together. Leaning into the lord.

    • @melulopes
      @melulopes 5 месяцев назад +4

      This is me right now pretty much, I feel your pain 😢

    • @goldenlifelove7251
      @goldenlifelove7251 5 месяцев назад +4

      I know how you all feel. All I can tell u is to heal properly and get into deep conversations with God about your feelings. It does get better.

    • @GodIsWithinHer.
      @GodIsWithinHer. 3 месяца назад +3

      Yes, that is exactly what it feels like.

    • @YaraLavreniuk
      @YaraLavreniuk Месяц назад +2

      Yeah or u gotta find thousands excuses for that person or exlanations for their action, yet it doesn't help ..

  • @michellejohnson8253
    @michellejohnson8253 9 месяцев назад +31

    Please pray for my marriage. We are newly weds and struggling over trust issues and finances. I am putting my trust and faith in God, but still need some prayers.

  • @michaelavdmerwe5855
    @michaelavdmerwe5855 Год назад +183

    Please pray for me and my boyfriend. We recently had a breakup. I believe it isn't the end and I am believing that God can restore what has been broken. To Jesus be the glory 🙏❤️

    • @victordavila2415
      @victordavila2415 Год назад +3

      Did y’all ever get back together?

    • @gideoncampbell217
      @gideoncampbell217 Год назад +2

      Hey did u guys ever get back together?

    • @michaelavdmerwe5855
      @michaelavdmerwe5855 Год назад +82

      Update: So we didn't get back together, but I believe God has something better. He sees what we cannot see and knows what's best for us.

    • @jaytee33
      @jaytee33 Год назад

      @@michaelavdmerwe5855God always has both people’s best interest in mind. Our understanding is not like His. You’ll meet someone and you’ll understand fully when that happens hang in there it gets easier

    • @lifewithlez6671
      @lifewithlez6671 Год назад +9

      Amen sister

  • @tinarobinson4710
    @tinarobinson4710 7 месяцев назад +23

    My spouse is an alcoholic who is verbally & emotionally abusive. I've prayed for years, he just has zero interest to get well. He was a believer until after we married, I definitely feel like I was tricked. Now he mocks my faith & has even tried to use the Word of God against me. Being unequally yoked is the hardest thing I've gone through & that's truly saying a lot. 😢

    • @shellredd8319
      @shellredd8319 2 месяца назад +4

      Hang in there I know how u feel ! I’m so sorry, may god heal your marriage and wake him up so you two can have a happy healthy relationship, god bless you :)

    • @David-ok9sk
      @David-ok9sk 8 дней назад

      Sounds like you married a narcissist. Are you an empath?

  • @SyliestReddenwoodall
    @SyliestReddenwoodall 7 месяцев назад +85

    I see a lot of people telling people to pray for your ex back, but y'all have to break free of being comfortable, accept the fact that god has something else in store for you. relax and be patient its not easy but it will be OKAY

  • @chichalovesmakeup
    @chichalovesmakeup Год назад +80

    I needed to hear this. My boyfriend broke up with me five days ago. Since then, I haven’t eaten, slept, and couldn’t function. On the third day, I heard your sermon, “Guard your heart.” I felt peace and prayed. On the fourth day, I decided to let go and let God. I have pleaded, cried, got on my knees, and accepted this is out of my control. I believe God is molding me through this tribulation to be a better me, maybe for this relationship or the next; I don’t know, but what I do know is that I must have God in the relationship. I am praying he restores this relationship and we restart with God in it. Please pray for me, and please pray for our relationship. There is love there. 98% of the time, we were laughing and loving each other. The 2% was when we would get upset, and we wouldn’t pray, didn’t know how to communicate, and we just hurt each other. I believe God will restore in the name of Jesus.

    • @dexterpaulantoniano2846
      @dexterpaulantoniano2846 Год назад +2

      Wow almost same as of my experience with my gf. God is is very gracious to us whatever the outcome. He is very close to the brokenhearted.

    • @witnesskagari6965
      @witnesskagari6965 Год назад +4

      Hey dear God surely has a great plan for you .I went through the same thing i can’t say i have fully healed but it gets better everyday through God’s help . Through that i have learnt to trust in God and it has brought me closer to God so hang in there ♥️♥️

    • @abiabbyab
      @abiabbyab Год назад +3

      5th day for me too. I'm feeling everything you've felt but believing in God's perfect plan

    • @jeffmungai4494
      @jeffmungai4494 Год назад +2

      3 weeks starting for me today.. wow I’m just feeling blown away I’m not the only one going through this.

    • @user-wy1qs3xn2s
      @user-wy1qs3xn2s 11 месяцев назад +2

      Your experience sounds like mine though my boyfriend allowed vices to “help” him with then put a damper on our relationship. This was almost three months ago but I am praying for peace, healing and restoration.

  • @Lindah787
    @Lindah787 7 месяцев назад +11

    It has been ten days pain, struggling to eat, to sleep ,to work but i know God was behind it, he wants to me near him several times but i ignored God and prioritise my boyfriend , after this break up i grow closer to God more than before, i accepted his wills, i pray for him everyday with love, i forgave him and forgave myself, i pray for his healing and restoration of our relationship but only God's will not my will, i want to give mylife fully to Christ no matter what comes up.

  • @VictoriaMendez-p1e
    @VictoriaMendez-p1e 29 дней назад +6

    God will restore relationships, marriages and families 🙏💙

    • @kerwinpuracan4390
      @kerwinpuracan4390 16 дней назад

      Amen! God is close to us, just give your time and devotion to God and He will do the rest

  • @lovablebrownieee7810
    @lovablebrownieee7810 10 месяцев назад +42

    Thank you so much, My boyfriend and I both broke up 2 nights ago. I stimbled apon some of your sermons and knew that God was speaking to me, preparing my heart. I knew God was speaking to the both of us saying it wasn't His will. We both ended in good terms but that didnt resolve my broken heart. But i put in in Gods hand. After hearing this sermon, reading the bible, praying, watching podcast of Godly relationships, and seeking mentors i came to a realization that our relationship wasnt His will. Im letting God mold me and in Jesus name i will grow and he will use me to show his love to others. And if it was truly meant to be then i know that God will bring us together but for now I will only focus on Jesus Christ and onky have eyes on him. I wont do my will but His will. His timing is perfect not mines. I pray for clarity, a strong heart, a heart of understanding, fear of God, wisdom, love, and loyalty. I pray that i will do His will. AMEN. All glory to God🙏

  • @matthewcanfield6748
    @matthewcanfield6748 11 месяцев назад +15

    There is no pain like a broken heart

  • @ChristineCole-u3f
    @ChristineCole-u3f Месяц назад +141

    Great video! Unfortunately, my two-year relationship ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, and I still love him deeply. I can't stop thinking about him. I've done everything I can to get him back, but nothing has worked. I'm frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. Despite my best efforts, I can't get him out of my mind. I really miss him.

    • @BarbaraLinton-k1c
      @BarbaraLinton-k1c Месяц назад

      It's incredibly hard to let go of someone you love. I was in a similar situation when my twelve-year relationship ended. I couldn't let him go, so I did everything I could to get him back. I sought the help of a spiritual counselor, who assisted me in reuniting with him.

    • @ChristineCole-u3f
      @ChristineCole-u3f Месяц назад

      That's amazing! How did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I reach him?

    • @BarbaraLinton-k1c
      @BarbaraLinton-k1c Месяц назад

      His name is Fatherabulu, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can help bring your ex back.

    • @ChristineCole-u3f
      @ChristineCole-u3f Месяц назад

      Thank you for this valuable information! I just looked him up online, and he seems impressive.

    • @mariabanda23
      @mariabanda23 21 день назад

      ❤❤

  • @Dash-sf9gu
    @Dash-sf9gu Год назад +64

    My wife divorced me after 18 years with 6 children I asked to try and fix it all she says oh maybe we not meant to be she says god wants to be happy doesn’t want to stay in troubled relationship but I said this life we go through tuff times we need to trust god please pray for me

    • @YaraLavreniuk
      @YaraLavreniuk Месяц назад

      Am here like u.. hate to break it down, but God, im getting exhausted here knocking on ur door, and asking for clarification from other side 😂

    • @williamknight4112
      @williamknight4112 Месяц назад

      Prayers for you and your children for God's WILL

  • @nessapalmer5316
    @nessapalmer5316 Год назад +41

    This season of loneliness after my husband left is hard, but I know that God is with me. I know that his plan is greater than anything I have ever imagined. May I continue to walk with him absent doubt. Singleness is not a punishment but a gift drawing you closer to God. I myself am good enough.

  • @seashell1037
    @seashell1037 7 месяцев назад +8

    We separated because I didn’t want a divorce. We had big big issues that divided us, namely his family who is against me because I’m a believer & they aren’t. We got divorced but we both cried in the courtroom. Neither of us wanted it but I don’t even know why we went through with it. We love God, we love our children & grands. I pray he comes back home - He wants God to send him a burning bush to let him know if God wants him to come back to me …. It’s in the hands of Jesus 🙏🏻❤️‍🩹😔🥲

    • @tnewz411
      @tnewz411 3 месяца назад

      @seashell1037...I recommend you watch Dominic Herbst videos on marriage restoration, pray, fast and believe God for restoration. God will heal you because He healed me.

  • @cryophr5076
    @cryophr5076 9 месяцев назад +8

    It's not a break up but me and my girlfriend have gone on break for personal reasons. I prayed last night and just started sobbing. Out of no where i couldn't control the tears during prayer. I need to become a more Godly man for her as we are both christians. I pray God has chosen her to be mine but I don't know right now. I'm seeking help.

    • @fidelcastillo7244
      @fidelcastillo7244 9 месяцев назад +1

      You’re not alone, God knows all. Me and my gf whom I planned on marrying and even introduced her to my church. Both believers of Christ, we have had our ups and downs and just recently had a break up. I haven’t seen her in about a month, I’m praying for her everyday. I’m leaving it all to God

  • @Chavylifts
    @Chavylifts 10 месяцев назад +6

    My girlfriend broke up with me nearly a month ago, I though she was the one, I thought I would marry her, but I realize now for removes something from your life to make room for what he has planned for us. I’m trusting in god and want to strengthen my faith in him

  • @JessicaAnotii
    @JessicaAnotii 2 месяца назад +85

    Nice video, I'm still struggling with the end of my 7-year relationship. My significant other, who I considered to be the love of my life, left me a month ago, and I can't seem to shake the constant thoughts of her. Despite my efforts to bring him back into my life, nothing has worked, and I feel frustrated and hopeless. I've tried to move on, but my heart still longs for him, and I don't see myself with anyone else. I apologize for sharing this here, but I just can't seem to stop missing him.

    • @LunqCharlotte
      @LunqCharlotte 2 месяца назад +3

      It's hard to let go of someone you love; I went through a similar experience when my 12-year relationship ended. I tried everything to get him back, and eventually I had to turn to a spiritual counselor for assistance.

    • @JessicaAnotii
      @JessicaAnotii 2 месяца назад

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him?

    • @LunqCharlotte
      @LunqCharlotte 2 месяца назад +1

      His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

    • @LunqCharlotte
      @LunqCharlotte 2 месяца назад

      he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.

    • @JessicaAnotii
      @JessicaAnotii 2 месяца назад

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

  • @debraglenn7469
    @debraglenn7469 11 месяцев назад +8

    Please pray for me and my family the distance that has come upon us isn't what we had before, I believe that God is healing our hearts and we'll be a loving family again

  • @gb-yn2re
    @gb-yn2re 10 месяцев назад +5

    I am one of those people whose parents abandoned me and I led them both to the Lord before they passed away...

  • @emilyemilia6341
    @emilyemilia6341 2 года назад +58

    I know I didn’t come across this by accident I needed to hear this message!

  • @debbieoaldon9703
    @debbieoaldon9703 Год назад +13

    Thank you for this message.
    I haven’t seen or heard from my husband since January 2017. The state of Georgia prosecuted him for what he did to me. I grew up with this man in his daddy’s church.
    Please pray for us separately.
    I sent divorce papers about 4 years ago and he did not sign.
    I know nothing about him at all.
    I need prayer. 🙏🏼

    • @user-wy1qs3xn2s
      @user-wy1qs3xn2s 11 месяцев назад +3

      I’ll be praying for you. I pray during this time you find peace in God’s word and comfort.

    • @EternalLifeLessons
      @EternalLifeLessons 9 месяцев назад +2

      I know something of what you’re going through…going through it too

    • @debbieoaldon9703
      @debbieoaldon9703 8 месяцев назад

      @@user-wy1qs3xn2sthe n you so very much 🙏🏼🍃🌸✝️

    • @debbieoaldon9703
      @debbieoaldon9703 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@EternalLifeLessonsI pray Jesus hugs your heart and guides you also as I pray He does me as well 🙏🏼🍃🌸✝️

  • @travelwithsouthernchick5112
    @travelwithsouthernchick5112 Год назад +11

    Need this husband walked out after 15 years and I don’t understand but I must fight in my faith to Let Go and Let God deal with this

    • @tnewz411
      @tnewz411 3 месяца назад

      @travelwithsouthernchick5112...I recommend you watch Dominic Herbst videos on marriage restoration, pray, fast and believe God for restoration. Totally surrender to God. God will heal you because He healed me.

    • @flightrewatch
      @flightrewatch 6 дней назад

      amen ur so syrong

  • @kirkreynolds6739
    @kirkreynolds6739 4 дня назад

    My wife of 25 years left me 3 years ago. I'm still so in love with her. I'm far from perfect, but one thing I'm sure of us that I gave everything I had to our marriage and family. I would take any sort of physical pain over this pain. In this broken world the devil is busy sowing discord. He loves to try to divide. I accept that she's gone. Please pray for me and all others commenting that God will be enough for us and the love of our lives

  • @AryanneChhetri-bu6xx
    @AryanneChhetri-bu6xx 10 месяцев назад +14

    Im born in a family of non Christian... And i want to take my first step towards God... Its really hard for me... Please know people like me in your prayers... Please

    • @6.0hhh
      @6.0hhh 6 месяцев назад

      Come home, friend. There's no peace like Jesus Christ.

    • @jessicalong6011
      @jessicalong6011 Месяц назад

      Amen! Welcome 🙏🏾

    • @BrillyAsher
      @BrillyAsher Месяц назад

      you're in my prayers!!

  • @Laceydeancoaching
    @Laceydeancoaching 2 месяца назад +7

    Please pray for me. Going through my first breakup post divorce and I’m grieving. I don’t feel it’s over but also have tried to control so much. I need to trust god fully and I’m struggling.

  • @TashettaEdwards
    @TashettaEdwards 7 месяцев назад +7

    I pray someone to see this and pray for me and my marriage I been in for 15 yrs he divided to up and leave me and his little baby 9 and 5 I will love to stay with my husband I really do for our kids please pray for me and my babies please

    • @tinarobinson4710
      @tinarobinson4710 7 месяцев назад +2

      Praying for your marriage to be fully restored! 🙏

    • @tnewz411
      @tnewz411 3 месяца назад

      @TashettaEdwards...I recommend you watch Dominic Herbst videos on marriage restoration, pray, fast and believe God for restoration. God will heal you because He healed me.

  • @marcelacasas2187
    @marcelacasas2187 Месяц назад +7

    Thank you for this sermon. I am single but recently got out of a emotional abusive relationship. He sat in sermons with me at the same time was seeing another woman. I tried forgiving him for his betrayal but he kept up his cycle. Possibly was a narcissist. He ended up ghosting me tried to talk a month ago. I was filled with anger and bad wishes towards him for his disrespect. The love I had for him is gone. Just yesterday I prayed asked God to release the negative emotions from me. I feel peaceful today. I also prayed for my rx Robert to surrender to God and for his mental, spiritual healing. I realized he is not God's will for me. I am a Born Again Christian who was protect by God. I enjoyed the sermon. Please pray for me and pray that Robert is saved?. Thank you Pastor 🙏

  • @debili2104
    @debili2104 5 дней назад

    Watching from South Africa 🇿🇦

  • @MDZ-c9i
    @MDZ-c9i 8 месяцев назад +7

    Thank you Pastor for your amazing words. Please pray for me, my husband of 15 years has been cheating on me with his coworker. I just found out this Monday, my heart is broken into pieces and I need all the prayers to heal me. when I confronted him he had no remorse or regrets and try to blame me for it, please pray for me so this pain that I’m going through can go away. I thought he was my soulmate, never ever expected this for him😭

    • @lindaguzman8930
      @lindaguzman8930 3 месяца назад +1

      How are you doing?

    • @tnewz411
      @tnewz411 3 месяца назад

      @user-sr4ne4ky6z........I recommend you watch Dominic Herbst videos on marriage restoration, pray, fast and believe God for restoration. God will heal you because He healed me. Give this over to Him because it is too big for you to handle. Most importantly, be obedient to God by trusting Him at His EVERY Word . God is truthfully faithful and never lies. God will do it for you; what you ask of Him as long as it is in His will. Watch God go to work for you!!!

    • @jessicalong6011
      @jessicalong6011 Месяц назад

      🙏🏾

  • @lovelina23
    @lovelina23 3 месяца назад +34

    My husband had an affair and had a baby w/ her. That boy is in my house every weekend, and it hurts my heart, I feel the pain of the betrayal every time. God, please heal my heart.

    • @godlovessophiia
      @godlovessophiia 2 месяца назад +12

      In the Bible it talks about how you can divorce if your spouse cheats on you.

    • @YaraLavreniuk
      @YaraLavreniuk Месяц назад

      U are very strong woman. This is weird, w worldly standards. Im kind of similar or other side situation i dont even know what to call it anymore. Im a Christian and i was questioning God a lot. If i was meant to have a family w that guy, why its so broken now and im put in such a position if it was meant to be.. i still get hard on it and why i cant heal, when i try, pray, ask for it so much.and when yet more and more there are thinsg that trigger me and i become paralyzed by fear and anxious and unbelief...just cant

    • @mariabanda23
      @mariabanda23 21 день назад

      ❤❤

  • @titoamado4693
    @titoamado4693 Год назад +13

    Prayers for my marriage that has ended but with a touch of gods favor my wife and are going to see a miracle that will be only be given by gods hands

    • @tnewz411
      @tnewz411 3 месяца назад

      @titoamado4693...I recommend you watch Dominic Herbst videos on marriage restoration, pray, fast and believe God for restoration. God will heal you because He healed me.

  • @CoupeDominic
    @CoupeDominic 2 года назад +34

    My 25yr old gf passed away a week ago….💔 something is truly broken

    • @erinmccall5819
      @erinmccall5819 2 года назад +3

      I’m so sorry for your loss. Praying for you.

    • @LeletiWanj9584
      @LeletiWanj9584 2 года назад +2

      Am so sorry. May God comfort you. Praying for you.

    • @victorious.5394
      @victorious.5394 2 года назад +2

      Am so sorry for your loss. Strong in his might. The joy of the lord is your strength.

    • @samanthastone3906
      @samanthastone3906 2 года назад +2

      Prayers and love sent to you brother 💓

    • @FretboardMaestro
      @FretboardMaestro 2 года назад +2

      So sorry, that’s tough, praying for you

  • @Edgargiovanniperez
    @Edgargiovanniperez 2 дня назад

    This has been an incredible watch. I wanted to go down a destructive path with our separation. I lied to my wife one too many times and broke her trust. She told me to leave. I left. She wants her space. She told me it's over and that she can never trust me again. I'm broken but I can't imagine how she feels right now. I just want to put it all on god. I have eliminated all social media and in focusing on the word and healing and working in my sex addiction, my anger, my healing. We have a child together and although I'll respect her boundaries and her space. I'll never stop loving her and will be faithful to her. I want to die but I know God's got us. 😢😢😢❤❤❤❤

  • @demonpoop7848
    @demonpoop7848 Год назад +13

    Me and my girlfriend both loved God, she broke up with me because her feelings changed. She’s the only girl I’ve ever liked and loved. try giving it to God but my love for her is truly infinite. I give God as much as I can, but the love I hold for her is still the same. I have suicidal thoughts sometimes form the enemy and I do my best to ignore it, please help.

    • @karladuncan6764
      @karladuncan6764 Год назад +3

      Same here. My boyfriend walked away 2 years ago with another woman and I am still so heartbroken.

    • @jessicalong6011
      @jessicalong6011 Месяц назад +2

      Praying for you. Don’t take your own life. Give it to God when you feel you don’t want it. He will take your life and give you hope and a life you never thought you would have. It will never be perfect, but with Him, life will be easier to live, and you will see blessings even in despair ❤🙏🏾

  • @JpKilla007
    @JpKilla007 Год назад +28

    My wife and i are going through some tuff times. Lord I pray for healing and forgiveness. This message lifted my soul. I have faith that god can restore us. God bless me with her and our children. During these times I will continue to be committed to gods words and promises. ❤️🫂🙏🏼

    • @jameswhyman4127
      @jameswhyman4127 Год назад +4

      Going through this too man. God's got you and doesn't want you to give up. Pray, read your bible, pray, be the best husband and father, and PRAY.

    • @EDLIRAROSALES
      @EDLIRAROSALES Год назад +2

      I also am going through the same thing. Please pray for my family and I. I don’t want us to be broken, but Satan is attacking with everything. Proverbs 3:5,6 is what I try to hold on to when I am feeling really down. I am praying that my God will transform me, so that way when the time comes, may He help me accept His will. Remember to form yourself first with the help of God before wanting change in your life.

    • @tnewz411
      @tnewz411 3 месяца назад

      @JpKilla007...I recommend you watch Dominic Herbst videos on marriage restoration, pray, fast and believe God for restoration. God will heal you because He healed me.

    • @tnewz411
      @tnewz411 3 месяца назад

      ​@@EDLIRAROSALES....I recommend you watch Dominic Herbst videos on marriage restoration, pray, fast and believe God for restoration. God will heal you because He healed me.

  • @jenniferlewis5508
    @jenniferlewis5508 10 месяцев назад +3

    Prayers for me that I stop prowling in my past history

  • @Liamar69
    @Liamar69 Месяц назад +4

    Pastor please pray for my brokenhearted. Let me be able to heal and give all to the Lord with my broken relationship 💔

  • @selenasmith2085
    @selenasmith2085 7 месяцев назад +1

    I needed to hear this message. My husband and I haven't been together for 5 weeks now due to physical and verbal abuse and a order by the court. I began counseling 4 weeks ago and God has revealed so much to me and placed so many Christians in my life to walk along side me. Both of us come from harsh upbringing by fathers who served in war. I believe we get together to fight a we don't fight well. Satan has divided what God put together. My prayer is that God will work in his heart as he has mine. That full reconciliation will occur and we will be stronger and ready to fight the right way. I know God can do amazing things and trusting that He will.

  • @LeletiWanj9584
    @LeletiWanj9584 2 года назад +22

    I can relate to this sermon. Impatience led me to make very wrong decisions. But our God is very merciful. And what I have been praying for,has come to pass. Glory to God.

  • @beatricemartin998
    @beatricemartin998 23 дня назад +1

    Praise Jesus!!!! This sermon was FIRE. I fell completely into the ways of love according to the world, and Jesus has now completely had my heart for 1 1/2 years. This pastor is speaking TRUTH from the Holy Spirit himself. I have recently been struggling a lot with loneliness and looking back at my old life with rose colored glasses. But Jesus is enough! He will heal me and will keep me❤️
    The Lord revealed to me during this video that I was designed for commitment, specifically marriage commitment. Hallelujah!!!!!! Praise be to Jesus!!!!

  • @allthat9186
    @allthat9186 3 месяца назад +4

    This sermon was right on time❤. God please protect me and my husband. Please move us out the way and order our steps . Let your will be done and not our own. In Jesus name 🙏🏽 Amen.

  • @melulopes
    @melulopes 5 месяцев назад +6

    I feel this to the core. Had to break up with someone I taught we could build a live together in a holy marriage. God kept warning me to end and I never had the courage to. These days randomly I came across this sermon and another sermon about break up and I got the courage to delete all our conversations and social mídia. My heart is shattered and I feel broken once again. But I need to draw closer to Jesus, he is the only one who can heal and fill me up with his peace. So much trauma from the past and I always feel like I’m failing. But I know God is protecting me from the worst pain 😢

  • @kilo197615
    @kilo197615 Месяц назад +3

    I’m fighting for my marriage and working on myself to be a better man for my wife. A Good Man will change the right woman.

    • @YaraLavreniuk
      @YaraLavreniuk Месяц назад

      Does it work another time? What if i changed everything he didn't like and complained about and he still ended up hurting me and w another woman? Like i dont even recognise myself anymore, thnx very much

    • @d_.8722
      @d_.8722 Месяц назад

      @@YaraLavreniukpray to God He will make a way. Have faith

  • @Maya-kz4bt
    @Maya-kz4bt День назад

    Thank you so much Pastor ❤️‍🩹

  • @garyvillalba2140
    @garyvillalba2140 2 месяца назад +5

    My 15 year anniversary is coming uo 09/04 and we are currently separated. It's so hard being away from my family of 6. Now i come home to a small studio apartment and I'm alone. Please pray that I will seek god and not the world. Father God I pray for my marriage to be restored, that our hardened hearts will be softened, we will forgive and be stonger than ever before as one. Amen

  • @bobbiehamilton6217
    @bobbiehamilton6217 6 месяцев назад +16

    I was falling in love with a man that I thought God chose for me and come to find out he only used me 😢 I am so broken hearted and need healing in God's direction from here in Jesus name

    • @goldenlifelove7251
      @goldenlifelove7251 5 месяцев назад

      The same happened to me. Trust me, it gets better with God.

    • @amandabanks173
      @amandabanks173 3 месяца назад

      You're not alone. This just happened to me too.

    • @davidbuthelezi8922
      @davidbuthelezi8922 2 месяца назад

      Please pray for me to get a job and find myself a good woman i have been single for a year now

    • @YaraLavreniuk
      @YaraLavreniuk Месяц назад

      Why all this msgs seem so like about me..

    • @pablojones5613
      @pablojones5613 Месяц назад

      Be thankful that you found out now, and not when it was too late.

  • @kellyjackson4973
    @kellyjackson4973 8 месяцев назад +1

    I love this pastor in this church. God bless everybody everywhere.

  • @katiejones7587
    @katiejones7587 9 месяцев назад +4

    My husband and I are going through a hopeless situation. Hopeless without God. By worldly standards it cannot be repaired but God can do anything!!

    • @tnewz411
      @tnewz411 3 месяца назад

      @katiejones7587....I recommend you watch Dominic Herbst videos on marriage restoration, pray, fast and believe God for restoration. God will heal you because He healed me. Give this over to Him because it is too big for you to handle. Most importantly, be obedient to God by trusting Him at His EVERY Word . God is truthfully faithful and never lies. God will do it for you; what you ask of Him as long as it is in His will. Watch God go to work for you!!!

    • @jessicalong6011
      @jessicalong6011 Месяц назад

      Yes He can!
      Praying for you both 🙏🏾

  • @DontdoitNursing
    @DontdoitNursing Год назад +5

    I’m believing for a miracle for my marriage and my husbands salvation…this sermon described exactly what we went through before he asked me for a separation I pray he stays strong and doesn’t fall into lust while being apart. I pray God touches his heart and guides me to be wise and build my house and not tear it down…

    • @tnewz411
      @tnewz411 3 месяца назад

      @DontdoitNursing...I recommend you watch Dominic Herbst videos on marriage restoration, pray, fast and believe God for restoration. God will heal you because He healed me.

  • @Godmessenger777
    @Godmessenger777 8 дней назад

    Going through separation right now it hurts so bad I need prayer I trust God above all and stay with his word and I’m
    Healing but it doesn’t stop the pain

  • @janelsmelser9024
    @janelsmelser9024 День назад

    Thank you

  • @Dachshund_Central
    @Dachshund_Central 22 дня назад

    I’m pretty addicted to listening to his sermons! 🙏🏼❤️‍🩹😭

  • @jrprieto1
    @jrprieto1 27 дней назад +1

    This is an eye opener powerful message, I wish my wife would hear it.

  • @Sunshine98beekind
    @Sunshine98beekind 3 месяца назад +7

    I have been there for the past 3 years. My husband has been cheating on me for years. He wouldn't sign the divorce papers. While he was cheating on me. I have been abandoned, neglected, and abused by him. He claimed to be a christian man. And he preached to women. And I finally got away from him. I prayed many years. I have filed for a divorce. I know God has a much better plan for me and my life.

    • @alexishines9207
      @alexishines9207 Месяц назад

      God is truly with you. He will provide for you. I'm glad you left him. Cuz if you would of stayed any longer it could of been fatal. God truly has better for you.😊

  • @efilandia
    @efilandia 6 месяцев назад +5

    this video just pop out of nowhere I been separated from my husband for almost 6 months and I continue to ask God to help me heal. I believe that God will do his will it’s in his hands and it’s been difficult daily to understand it. This helped me so much! Blessings 🙏

    • @tnewz411
      @tnewz411 3 месяца назад

      @efilandia...I recommend you watch Dominic Herbst videos on marriage restoration, pray, fast and believe God for restoration. God will heal you because He healed me.

  • @safiuchi
    @safiuchi 2 года назад +10

    I cried the whole 53 mins of this video. Wow! Powerful and healing. ❤ thank you!

  • @texanfootball96
    @texanfootball96 Год назад +6

    God is love ❤️ I trust you god I trust your plan for me i trust you to heal my family for all the wrong I have done

    • @tnewz411
      @tnewz411 3 месяца назад

      @texanfootball96....I recommend you watch Dominic Herbst videos on marriage restoration, pray, fast and believe God for restoration. God will heal you because He healed me. Give this over to Him because it is too big for you to handle. Most importantly, be obedient to God by trusting Him at His EVERY Word . God is truthfully faithful and never lies. God will do it for you; what you ask of Him as long as it is in His will. Watch God go to work for you!!!

  • @socorrogutierrez9501
    @socorrogutierrez9501 2 месяца назад +4

    Whats my promise? Im desperately trying to figure out what to do. My husband left us 2 months ago bc of fentanyl addiction. We are scared and abandoned by him , its confusing bc he would never do this if he was sober, im under the pressure of providing with my car in the shop. I have nothing more to give Lord please 🙏

  • @athonopienyu8726
    @athonopienyu8726 5 месяцев назад +3

    Just going through a breakup , and i tried to escape pain by drinking alcohol and so many ways, but only this God's word is giving me peace.
    Thank you pastor!
    This is really helping me🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @chrishall3380
    @chrishall3380 18 дней назад

    This was by far the best message I ever heard…..this message spoke directly to me after I prayed to god about send me a sign, clarity and a way to move forward

  • @mariahinnacastroa8377
    @mariahinnacastroa8377 2 года назад +17

    I needed to hear this too. It’s so hard being married with a no converted man. (In my case I converted after I got marriage..) so, of course I’m the one not being fair with him , I’m the one who changed, etc etc. And we have one daughter ♥️ prayers to all of you and first time seeing this sermon. Amazing. Gos bless you.

    • @tnewz411
      @tnewz411 3 месяца назад

      @mariahinnacastroa8377....I recommend you watch Dominic Herbst videos on marriage restoration, pray, fast and believe God for restoration. God will heal you because He healed me. Give this over to Him because it is too big for you to handle. Most importantly, be obedient to God by trusting Him at His EVERY Word . God is truthfully faithful and never lies. God will do it for you; what you ask of Him as long as it is in His will. Watch God go to work for you!!!

  • @MurphyReads
    @MurphyReads 4 месяца назад +2

    I was with my girlfriend for 2 years and she broke up with me because I yelled at her and called her names constantly I’m toxic and of course I want her back more than anything but it’s something I have to accept so I pray this sermon will help me a little more

  • @catherinasubhasingh2003
    @catherinasubhasingh2003 3 месяца назад +5

    I'm dealing with a heartbreak 😢 my bf and I were living together for 1 year then decided to purchase a house we lived there for 3 months the pastor came to bless the home and spoke to us about doing pre martial council and my bf agree to it and wanted to focus on having a family and getting married, he went to a medical conference a month after and came bk as a different person, couldn't stand to be around me wanted his space and kept saying he wanted to be alone 😢 he's unhappy in our relationship. I tried pled with him to make things work and he just kept pushing me away till we broke up 10 days ago. I feel so lost so broken, I never saw this person treating me so before

    • @YaraLavreniuk
      @YaraLavreniuk Месяц назад

      Same just what happened out there, it was simply...like at urs

  • @louiserebelo8280
    @louiserebelo8280 Год назад +7

    I am glad you preached on this. So that someone else can get insight. I wasn't afforded that luxury learnt the had way. I lived everything you spoke of and more. I witnessed firsthand His mercy and grace when the proverbial lights went on. God brought me through because He knew what was going on and more. He taught me much. He carried me. He healed me. He's still healing one or two areas that were affected. You wanna know something because of His divine love I am almost whole again.

    • @drewhook7590
      @drewhook7590 Год назад +1

      Same !!! Amen..praise Jesus !!!

    • @beca5035
      @beca5035 Год назад

      Hallelujah!!! Praise Lord Jesus! King of Glory! Amen 🙌🙌🙌🙏❤

  • @sivezt
    @sivezt 28 дней назад

    While i was on vacation with my friends, i prayed to the lord for guidance on my relationship with my fiance. When i got home she completely moved out (for the second time). She says she wants to make it work, but i cant let her move back in for a third time. I have lost all trust in her. Im interpreting it that the lord removed her from my life to get closer to him.

  • @lynnnahdaya6632
    @lynnnahdaya6632 Месяц назад +2

    I gave it to god

  • @jessejive1174
    @jessejive1174 8 дней назад +1

    That’s a handsome pastor

  • @EDLIRAROSALES
    @EDLIRAROSALES Год назад +3

    I also am going through the same thing. Please pray for my family and I. I don’t want us to be broken, but Satan is attacking with everything. Proverbs 3:5,6 is what I try to hold on to when I am feeling really down. I am praying that my God will transform me, so that way when the time comes, may He help me accept His will. Remember to form yourself first with the help of God before wanting change in your life.

  • @Shari53
    @Shari53 20 дней назад

    Matthew 15:14

  • @blessed4764
    @blessed4764 5 месяцев назад +3

    Please Pray for me and my husband. He did the unimaginable and betrayed me and God knows it hurts me to the point I am on depression meds but Glory be to God i have forgiven my husband but my husband's heart is still hard and cold. I have acknowledged where I have fallen short with my attitude and word choice and apologized to him but my prayer is we will be reconciled and have a Godly marriage.
    We were faithful in the church together, date nights every weekend and yet the devil still welcomed itself in our home and marriage.
    The devil has my husband and I pray the Lord will break every chain that the enemy has on us because I believe we are one in spite of my broken heart. Please prayer warriors lift us up in your prayers!!! I believe in the power of prayer and I believe if i remain faithful to the Lord and give this trauma to the Lord he will free my husband from the enemy.

    • @tnewz411
      @tnewz411 3 месяца назад

      @blessed4764...I recommend you watch Dominic Herbst videos on marriage restoration, pray, fast and believe God for restoration. God will heal you because He healed me. Give this over to Him because it is too big for you to handle. Most importantly, be obedient to God by trusting Him at His every Word . God is truthfully faithful and never lies.

  • @ivism785
    @ivism785 3 месяца назад +1

    This message came through at the right time. Going through a similar situation. The devil is a liar. Even thru these circumstances God is good and he has my family in his hands and under his protection. I will trust in him to get us thru the storm Amen 🙏

  • @Shari53
    @Shari53 20 дней назад

    Mark 10:6-8

  • @danielxrp2466
    @danielxrp2466 Месяц назад

    This preach is of so much blessing. Word for word is it God's truth. Thank you so much. God bless you.

  • @tiffanyallen2036
    @tiffanyallen2036 Месяц назад +1

    This one hit hard and describing my marriage that I’m so close to giving up on I needed to hear this !!

  • @Rachel-TheDelicateLamb
    @Rachel-TheDelicateLamb 3 месяца назад +1

    i found Jesus this year and my boys did as well. He has healed our family. When i was a child i was taught by a pastor sexual favors were love. However, when i found Jesus this year, I realized that it was the devil attacking my soul so i would do terrible things and isolate myself and not heal. But the man God promised me in a dream has found freedom from addiction and i have found freedom from codependency. For the glory of God!!

    • @pedo1127
      @pedo1127 3 месяца назад

      How to escape codependency? I’m struggling with it

  • @nicolefay8887
    @nicolefay8887 2 года назад +8

    You talked right into my situation,,God bless you

    • @tnewz411
      @tnewz411 3 месяца назад

      @nicolefay8887....I recommend you watch Dominic Herbst videos on marriage restoration, pray, fast and believe God for restoration. God will heal you because He healed me. Give this over to Him because it is too big for you to handle. Most importantly, be obedient to God by trusting Him at His EVERY Word . God is truthfully faithful and never lies. God will do it for you; what you ask of Him as long as it is in His will. Watch God go to work for you!!!

  • @Abigail.bejinez22
    @Abigail.bejinez22 8 месяцев назад +5

    My husband & I are going through a really hard phase. He’s in the military & distance has been 1 of our problems along with adultery & miss communication. With that being said, I can’t trust him. I don’t know when he’s being honest or not. I spoke to one of his Sgt & accused him of something I thought was inappropriate. He’s currently angry & wants a divorce. I’m scared of what will happen next because I have 2 little girls looking up to me. I’m the only parent they’ve had for 2 years now…. We need God but what is f it’s too late ? I shouldn’t question Gods plans for my marriage but a little hard to right now. I’d love to send him this preaching but what if he ignores it….

    • @nyemahwest64
      @nyemahwest64 4 месяца назад

      Praying the Lord draws both of yall closer to him and yall marriage will be healed and restored

    • @tnewz411
      @tnewz411 3 месяца назад

      @Abigail.bejinez22.......I recommend you watch Dominic Herbst videos on marriage restoration, pray, fast and believe God for restoration. God will heal you because He healed me. Give this over to Him because it is too big for you to handle. Most importantly, be obedient to God by trusting Him at His EVERY Word . God is truthfully faithful and never lies. God will do it for you; what you ask of Him as long as it is in His will. Watch God go to work for you!!!

    • @1koshka.kittycat
      @1koshka.kittycat 23 дня назад

      How are you guys doing now?❤

  • @breesalido21
    @breesalido21 12 дней назад

    Just had my heartbroken so this helped a lot

  • @BabyGurlNicholz2017
    @BabyGurlNicholz2017 22 дня назад

    Dang, Robert you are telling the story of what’s happening now.. extremely sad!!!

  • @kutlwanokutlwano4519
    @kutlwanokutlwano4519 Год назад +4

    It's been 10 months and I saw him with another girl yesterday 😞 I'm heartbroken, I can't even eat guys🥺, but I know God is with me❤

    • @VanessaNyatsapfu
      @VanessaNyatsapfu 7 месяцев назад

      I am so sorry ❤ going through a similar thing,God is healing us its going to be alright. Let it hurt,cry unto God❤

    • @kutlwanokutlwano4519
      @kutlwanokutlwano4519 7 месяцев назад

      @@VanessaNyatsapfu 🫂

    • @jessicalong6011
      @jessicalong6011 Месяц назад

      🙏🏾

  • @thelifeofbelleandgrace376
    @thelifeofbelleandgrace376 10 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you for this messaging….I’m going through a divorce that I don’t want … my husband left us for another woman…. I’m praying for restoration of my marriage … and to bring my husband back to the Lord

    • @tnewz411
      @tnewz411 3 месяца назад

      @thelifeofbelleandgrace376....I recommend you watch Dominic Herbst videos on marriage restoration, pray, fast and believe God for restoration. God will heal you because He healed me. Give this over to Him because it is too big for you to handle. Most importantly, be obedient to God by trusting Him at His EVERY Word . God is truthfully faithful and never lies. God will do it for you; what you ask of Him as long as it is in His will. Watch God go to work for you!!!

  • @lorettalandsberg4579
    @lorettalandsberg4579 9 месяцев назад +1

    Powerful

  • @jeanthaikamei1232
    @jeanthaikamei1232 Месяц назад +3

    Please pray for me, to whom I love the most she told me that she can’t build her feelings for me anymore 😭. I’m really struggling brother and sister in Christ please I need prayers support. 😭😭🙏🏻 I know God can help me out

    • @booberry3326
      @booberry3326 Месяц назад

      I'm praying for you and you are not alone.

  • @Dumbpuppet101
    @Dumbpuppet101 10 месяцев назад

    Dear Bobby, Authentic Church, Jesus, I love you all thank you ❤

  • @godsdaughter1954
    @godsdaughter1954 10 месяцев назад +10

    If there is sexual abuse against children there should be divorce. No person should ever sexual abuse their children. And if the wife or husband is being beaten get out. Best to get out instead of being killed. We are God's children and we should not be sexual , mentally or physically abused.

  • @lola6684
    @lola6684 8 месяцев назад +1

    🔥🔥🔥

  • @TheTropics4
    @TheTropics4 25 дней назад +1

    God does not want us to be in a marriage that is physically and verbally abusive. Period.

  • @damonteforney8076
    @damonteforney8076 17 дней назад

    My ex left me last year. I had my problems and she had hers. Over time after the break up I'm started seeing who she was. She never took accountability, she's upheld double standards, and made excuses while invalidating my feelings and experiences. Gaslighting me into thinking that she loved me and cared about me. Right now, I'm healing for me and hoping God sends someone better. I made amends and humbled myself by apologizing for my end of things, and yet not once did she apologize

  • @Fervent21
    @Fervent21 Месяц назад

    Thank you for this powerful sermon. Laying here crying my eyes out. Please pray that God opens my husband’s eyes and reveals his will for his life. I pray for the restoration of my family and healing for all. In the name of Jesus, Amen.

  • @emilyliss8
    @emilyliss8 Год назад +2

    Can still be that way even when you do it how it’s supposed to…. My husband has never acted like we were one.

    • @tnewz411
      @tnewz411 3 месяца назад

      @emilyliss8....I recommend you watch Dominic Herbst videos on marriage restoration, pray, fast and believe God for restoration and the true salvation of your husband, baptized with the fire of the Holy Spirit. God will heal you because He healed me. Give this over to Him because it is too big for you to handle. Most importantly, be obedient to God by trusting Him at His EVERY Word . God is truthfully faithful and never lies. God will do it for you; what you ask of Him as long as it is in His will. Watch God go to work for you!!!

  • @KellyThompson-e9n
    @KellyThompson-e9n Месяц назад

    Such a POWERFUL message! Thank you😊

  • @naomiezuminelson3039
    @naomiezuminelson3039 Месяц назад

    Thank you very much, I am going through a very rough time with my marrage, I was planning to run away with my child but prayed that God would speak to me if that was the right decision to make. Thankyou God for using this platform and his servant to speak to me. This was posted 2years ago but God knew i would need it today. I hear God answering all my questions, I feel this Peace in me, It's like your telling my story and showing me the page I was searching for to end it. Thankyou God and thankyou Sir for the Powerful message 🙏 God Bless

  • @lindabecker35
    @lindabecker35 2 месяца назад

    I’m so grateful for you Pastor! You teach truth. It’s so refreshing. May God bless and protect you and your family

  • @6.0hhh
    @6.0hhh 6 месяцев назад +1

    Some very good points brought up in this sermon. Thank you so much.

  • @lionheart6535
    @lionheart6535 2 года назад +3

    God is Working Great in you Pastor Bobby Chandler! God Bless You!

  • @danaellis1921
    @danaellis1921 Месяц назад

    So very powerful thank you Pastor 💔

  • @MercyofGod777
    @MercyofGod777 11 месяцев назад +1

    This is a really excellent Word...thankyou for such a balanced & loving approach...God bless!!!

  • @jenniferwalsh1731
    @jenniferwalsh1731 Месяц назад

    Great message! Praise the Lord ❤

  • @cowgirlboots27
    @cowgirlboots27 7 месяцев назад +5

    My first marriage I was married 9 years. We were together for 15 total years. He was not a Godly husband though he talked of what the Bible says. He never let Christ make a true change in him. Drank all the time. I cheated several times. The last time I stepped out on him I filed for divorce and eventually married the one I stepped out on my husband with. Now I know to have cheated on him was adultery, I have read that marrying again committed adultery. My first husband still sees that by Gods law we are still married although divorced. Because man’s law can’t undo Gods law. I’m struggling with am I in continuous adultery against my first husband because he’s still living. Do I divorce this second marriage and return to the first. Neither me or my first husband had been married before we were married. I need prayer and really struggling with what I need to do.

    • @jessicalong6011
      @jessicalong6011 Месяц назад

      This is a tough one. I was struggling with this as well. These are the scriptures I read. I heard a sermon where the preacher said if you stayed in the other marriage you have to repent everyday because it is adultery. He also said you must return to your first marriage. This is only in the instance you divorced for reasons other than adultery. I am no expert in this. I live by the Bible so I will give what I read. Pray. Ask The Lord to give you revelation through His Word. I have prayed for you as well.
      I Corinthians 7:10-15
      I Corinthians 7:39
      Mark 10:2-12
      Romans 7:1-3
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