When He LOVES You And WON'T Commit THIS Is Why (Understanding Men)

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  • Опубликовано: 17 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 21

  • @marleenmathews
    @marleenmathews Месяц назад +13

    So true, I was dating a guy for a while and it was going really well and we were a great match. But he cut it off after a few months because he felt overwhelmed by moving to a new country, stating a new job and wanting to move up in his career, and he didn't feel he could provide for me as a man so he said he had to let me go and find someone who could. A few months passed and he reached out to me again, asking if he could start dating me again because his life was more stable, balanced, and he felt good in his job and health and we have been dating consistently ever since.

    • @Joisu121
      @Joisu121 Месяц назад

      this gives me hope!

  • @nanx7062
    @nanx7062 Месяц назад +3

    Very true, I had to let a guy go because of these three things. it was too painful but to be chosen. Wished I’d left sooner. He never said any of these to me I just eventually pieced the clues together and made a choice to leave.

  • @SharieFoster
    @SharieFoster Месяц назад +1

    Thank you for the AMAZING insight into how men think about commitment. After watching this video, I completely understand why my special treasure of a mate and I are both COMPLETELY right -- but for DIFFERENT REASONS; and why both male and female points of views are ABSOLUTELY VALID by Devine design. For my part, the beautiful feelings between us are nearly impossible to find elsewhere; we are in the 60/70s age range, both have full lives and businesses, live on different coasts, and there's really no rush ... Again, thank you SO MUCH for this ENLIGHTENED video. You're a VERY TALENTED coach!!!

  • @fionc7303
    @fionc7303 Месяц назад +4

    Such an on-time sharing!!! Have been in a kind of "situationship" and got no clues, now everything so clear! Thanks Mark!!

  • @JessicaHallam21
    @JessicaHallam21 Месяц назад +2

    Yes so true.... My X had mother wound trauma....He is on his journey to heal. We needed to break up because he could not move forward and went into therapy and needed to do it alone. It was a huge heart break, but I understand it now.....after 4 months of grieving... I know it is not about me. He is Blocked or what you say...He is not Free. Thank you Mark

  • @lovamo6017
    @lovamo6017 Месяц назад +2

    Wooowwww...Thanks for this video! Especially the part about him being "free", and questioning what it is that this "unavailable" man is able to access for you that you can't access for yourself....that is such a powerful revelation for me! I actually think one thing connections do for us IS help us access "lost" or hard-to-access parts of ourselves. And I think that's ok. But if we can learn what it is specifically they are providing for us and to get it from ourselves without the middle man, then we won't feel as deep a loss if they can't commit to us.

  • @kamfan80
    @kamfan80 Месяц назад +1

    Glad I saw this eventually.
    Finally ended things w someone who showed his true colours that I always knew were there.
    Some days are easier than others... but never again.
    Thanks as always Mark. 💔🇦🇺

  • @AD-hh6dd
    @AD-hh6dd 12 дней назад

    My boyfriend “committed” but only saved time for me once maybe twice per week. I had to break up with him and he begged me not to, but the pain of not being prioritized was too hard. I realized commitment goes beyond a promise to not leave or date other people. I believe he wasn’t able. He admitted he was having an emotional block and Mark helped me see what this is caused by. He’s in the middle of starting a business and I can see his fears are just too high to let his guard down.

  • @SharonHopeMusic
    @SharonHopeMusic Месяц назад +2

    Best commitment related relationship advise I've ever heard. Thank you Mark. This really helped me to understand why men won't commit to me even though there was always a great connection. Now I know it wasn't my fault or anything I done to turn them away. Know I know what to look for before I even go on a date with a man and have the right conversations before the 1st date and ask the right questions to weed the men out that can't or won't commit to a woman.

  • @jenniferc6119
    @jenniferc6119 29 дней назад

    You are amazing! You explained this in an eye opening way! You speak so clearly and eloquently. Thank you! I needed to hear this… it makes a-lot of sense. My last relationship was just like this and I couldn’t understand why he wouldn’t commit when we had such a wonderful connection. Now I know! Ty! ❤

  • @britmarie4859
    @britmarie4859 Месяц назад +5

    My guess is because he doesn’t truly love you, it’s unrequited love.

  • @MichaelHawthorne-t9s
    @MichaelHawthorne-t9s Месяц назад +1

    This captivating video triggers a flood of painful memories from the end of my 6-year relationship just three months ago. The woman I loved with all my heart chose to walk away, leaving me grappling with an insurmountable sense of loss. Despite my relentless efforts to salvage what we had, I'm left feeling disillusioned and unable to imagine a future without her. Despite my attempts to move on, I'm drawn to express my deep-seated longing for her here

    • @albertshinskiy
      @albertshinskiy Месяц назад

      The struggle to release someone dear to your heart is undeniably arduous. I empathize, having experienced a similar circumstance when my 8 year relationship concluded. Refusing to accept defeat, I pursued every conceivable avenue to reclaim his affection. Eventually, I sought the assistance of a spiritual counselor, whose wisdom and intervention played a pivotal role in reuniting us.

    • @MichaelHawthorne-t9s
      @MichaelHawthorne-t9s Месяц назад +1

      Incredible! Where did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with him?

    • @albertshinskiy
      @albertshinskiy Месяц назад +1

      dr apala omofulma is the name of an exceptional spiritual counselor renowned for his ability to reunite you with your former partner.

    • @MichaelHawthorne-t9s
      @MichaelHawthorne-t9s Месяц назад

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive

    • @SharieFoster
      @SharieFoster Месяц назад +1

      The good news is that nothing ever stays the same in human existence. All of life is dynamic. Perhaps when things change enough, you'll be in a more favorable position to go forward with a committed relationship with her, and you can reach out to her to see if she is still available. All relationships take constant development and investment, so you should still be able to explore and see where it goes. If it's mutual, you'll be none the worse for the time apart. Until then, wishing you LOVE and HOPE for a bright future. Keep BELIEVING!!!💕

  • @juliesmith4086
    @juliesmith4086 Месяц назад +1

    Thank you do much for this video today. It's perfect timing, with what I needed to hear. You have confirmed my thoughts, now I can see the light!
    I listen to you all the time and you make so much sense that resonates to me.
    Thank you!