This is waaay too many mind games. Enough with the training people how to treat me. That’s their parents job. I’ll stay single and handle my own needs.
A woman is not a child, who needs to be led. And everyone has masculine / feminine properties, in a unique combination. You don't need to train an adult man, they either behave or they don't.
@@Markrosenfeld ... Yes yes...I think i understood. It's the how that men hear and see. And if the how is intense - they are intimidated. I need to learn to sound nice while saying pointed / blunt / harsh / ferocious things and then follow through in action. I confess i can do that - but only from a cold cold place of strategy/ outcome orientation - not from a place of warmth or affection. Any idea how to do that?
I heard this story from a genuine source.....my neighbour had a hard time adjusting to her husband's sudden change of appearances n behaviour after living with him for 2 years. She complained that her false eye lashes seemed to go missing time n again, then she noticed her bra n underwear disappearing.... HUH? That's strange, she spoke to herself.....until one evening...... She waited for her husband's arrival....he seemed to b late for dinner. This had been happening lately. She became suspicious n decided to drive to his office n check out what's keeping him. To her utter shock n disgust she found him attired in her underwear n bra😂😂😂strutting around in front of his colleagues in high heels😂😂😂
Thank you always for your valuable content! I appreciate the reminder about the limitations of texting. Some people enjoy and even prefer communication through text, especially if they take in information better when reading than listening. For me, it depends on what's being communicated, but I agree that it's a low-hanging fruit which is easy to overvalue and mistinterpret. It's almost a better tool for miscommunication than communication 😂😂 Also, you're looking as handsome as ever, Mark 🥰
What a clarifying way to describe impulsivity vs spontaneity, linking it to feeling safe makes so much sense! Spontaneity often gets romanticized because it suggests you are "easy going". Our feelings of anxiety in "spontaneous" situations where we feel like we ought to be more flexible can give us signals about where we need to feel more safe. And on the flip-side, even if we're not "planners" we can still be aware and considerate enough to communicate and make others feel safe. Also, the word you use, "train", is really just teaching and enforcing our boundaries. Out of curiosity...how do men teach women their boundaries?
FFFFF emotional armourS what r they. Turtles? Hardshelled? I only know 1 skateboarding turtle whos obsessed with a kitty poOr him Cuz she pays him no mind, makes him a kissing fool sticking his neck out for her n she runs away or gives him a whack across the head
This is waaay too many mind games. Enough with the training people how to treat me. That’s their parents job. I’ll stay single and handle my own needs.
Like men are puppies. Sickening.
A woman is not a child, who needs to be led. And everyone has masculine / feminine properties, in a unique combination. You don't need to train an adult man, they either behave or they don't.
Looking Amazing Mark ❤
You're the best!
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You know this makes a lot of sense... .. mostly its very hard to understand what is it that is intimidating to men...or how men can be scared of women
Hopefully this helped you understand it Alex!
@@Markrosenfeld ... Yes yes...I think i understood.
It's the how that men hear and see. And if the how is intense - they are intimidated.
I need to learn to sound nice while saying pointed / blunt / harsh / ferocious things and then follow through in action.
I confess i can do that - but only from a cold cold place of strategy/ outcome orientation - not from a place of warmth or affection. Any idea how to do that?
I heard this story from a genuine source.....my neighbour had a hard time adjusting to her husband's sudden change of appearances n behaviour after living with him for 2 years. She complained that her false eye lashes seemed to go missing time n again, then she noticed her bra n underwear disappearing.... HUH? That's strange, she spoke to herself.....until one evening......
She waited for her husband's arrival....he seemed to b late for dinner. This had been happening lately. She became suspicious n decided to drive to his office n check out what's keeping him. To her utter shock n disgust she found him attired in her underwear n bra😂😂😂strutting around in front of his colleagues in high heels😂😂😂
Thank you always for your valuable content!
I appreciate the reminder about the limitations of texting. Some people enjoy and even prefer communication through text, especially if they take in information better when reading than listening. For me, it depends on what's being communicated, but I agree that it's a low-hanging fruit which is easy to overvalue and mistinterpret. It's almost a better tool for miscommunication than communication 😂😂
Also, you're looking as handsome as ever, Mark 🥰
I love, love your new hairstyle ❤
THANKS!
@@Markrosenfeld you're welcome
Hi Mark. Good to have you back 😊
What a clarifying way to describe impulsivity vs spontaneity, linking it to feeling safe makes so much sense! Spontaneity often gets romanticized because it suggests you are "easy going". Our feelings of anxiety in "spontaneous" situations where we feel like we ought to be more flexible can give us signals about where we need to feel more safe. And on the flip-side, even if we're not "planners" we can still be aware and considerate enough to communicate and make others feel safe.
Also, the word you use, "train", is really just teaching and enforcing our boundaries. Out of curiosity...how do men teach women their boundaries?
Great haircut Mark
Omg your hair!!
this is good and helpful video Mark
Glad you think so!
This video is so helpful!!💜💜
Very insightful!! Thank you Mark✨
My pleasure!
Thanks for information ❤
Women do experience anger just as men do, and it is not always a cover-up emotion. Otherwise a reasonable video.
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Interesting. ADHD makes the impulsivity one a bit extra challenging
LOL love the Boeing analogy 🤣
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@@MarkrosenfeldI kept it subtle 😁
I get the advice on a text relationship, but what if they're long distance?
Phone/video calls have to be your focus. Been there myself!
Long-distance isn’t the same
This video is not so convincing.For example how can men who seemingly don't get emotions sniff out this emotional armor thing.
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FFFFF emotional armourS what r they. Turtles? Hardshelled? I only know 1 skateboarding turtle whos obsessed with a kitty poOr him Cuz she pays him no mind, makes him a kissing fool sticking his neck out for her n she runs away or gives him a whack across the head
U were wearing fake eyelashes. A man w fake eyelashes? !!!!!What it wasnt ur hair?
Ur pushing me away with ur cropped top ...whst happened to that hairy ponytail guy fr diwn under..n who said u cd run his show