So True, it took a lot of confidence & courage to go on stage in front of A roomful of Total Strangers & try to enlighten them on such a Taboo Subject! Big respect to this courageous man!
His method of weening himself off of the porn addiction via the use of awareness and willpower rather than guilt and shame could probably help with many compulsions and addictions. Guilt and shame really only feed the cycle by causing you to swing from extremes without correcting the core issues. Suppression breeds tension and relapse.
Excellent talk! Keep on raising awareness on the potential negative effects of internet porn. Porn has the potential to be extremely sex-negative. There is nothing more sex-negative than something that gives you a limp noodle with real partners. Keep doing your thing Gregor.
Wow this video totally just opened my eyes on this whole PIED recovery process. His story is the exact same as mine...although he gave up porn completely he tried to project what he used to watch into his real sex which is what I tried to do as well. That being said I think that we as a society should educate kids at a young age the negative affects of viewing pornography, it is simply not worth the problems you will face later on in life because of it.
It's not simply the porn itself, it's how you feel about it. Better than "banning" pornography, is to try to change the mindset of young individuals so that they don't get addicted to pornography.
I watch a fuck ton of porn, and have done so since I was a teenager. I'm what is called a sex god, constant erections even after climaxing multiple times and still ready for more.
I was the same way man...rock hard erections and loving every minute of it...hot hot women, endless situations. When it hits you, you will be like WTF?????!!!. When you see porn for what it REALLY is, you start the journey to heal. Go ahead, say 'that will never happen to me'...that's what I said too. When you get to that point, goto 'yourbrainonporn' site.
Sounds to good to be true, sure your not schizophrenic. Just joking, if you got em smoke em. I'm sixty years old and never in my life have I experienced such low performance. I have had cement hard erections permanently for my entire life since age 5yrs. And my multiple orgasms have turned into one giant non-stop orgasm. In fact, I'm having one right now. Got to go!
Close to the end of the talk I’m over here saying “thank you” in my lonesome for the knowledge cuz this issah real stuff and useful. Guilt and those sort of emotions are suicidal type and just get nobody anywhere good, similar to pride it’s just not necessary. Nobody should feel they have to prove themselves to anybody just be yourself, do what your heart resonates and feels more at home with and do it just to smile more on your own, it’s all really important. There’s nothing wrong with being alone as well, nobody should feel anxious towards their own loneliness, and it’s all for an important reason and beside, nobody is ever really alone.
So basically, he shares the same problem that nearly every girl struggles with; no orgasm, lack of stimulation, no doctors that can truly help, and being surrounded by people that overlook this frustration. This is such a great talk and should definitely be recommended. Anxiety can be very debilitating.
@Mike John I'm not sure if you're being sarcastic or not, but obviously it's not all about the size. It's about skills, communication & having a strong connection to your partner.
9:35 اختصار الفيديو ان البورنوجرافي بتخلي نظرتنا مقتصرة فقط على الرؤية ودا مش الواقع والاهم ف العلاقة هو اللمس وانو السكس مش بس لاطفاء الرغبات البيلوجية هو شكل من أشكال الفن , طريقة للتعبير عن النفس وطريقة للتعافي العاطفي والجسدي , بوابة للتجارب الشخصية التي تفوق فهمنا للجسد والعقل
I have this same thing. No medical reason to have this problem. Was told to take Cialis. I've been addicted to porn videos for years. I'm now on a reboot.
I just watched your video for no reason bcoz my bf don't watch this on regular basis we have been in relation from 3 years and 3 months but liked your video because you are doing great job for others.gbu.
For married only: Read 1 kama shastra, Rati rahasya ,vivahit prem, rai vilas. Then forget all. Otherwise God's re Crazy sometimes. Believe me a sleeping fallow becomes fire on after reading them the whole world changes . And you are not lazy anymore. Negative comes that you can see what man or womn wants now . And that mas start around you even it kills.
B. De Campo look, we're getting off track. I don't care what people do with their genitals, as long as it's after the age of 18. Baby mutilation should not be a thing
A little correction on the part where you talked about dopamine. Dopamine produces a feeling of craving and wanting and not a feeling of pleasure. Source: Gary Wilson.
great talk. Actually there's a book that has the name sex god method and it really delivers what he is talking about. It can transform your life in a very positive way.
He looked so embarassed but he is so brave for telling his story and educating others! God bless him !!!
GG
. Vi v Vivi
Agree!!! 👏 👏
So True, it took a lot of confidence & courage to go on stage in front of A roomful of Total Strangers & try to enlighten them on such a Taboo Subject! Big respect to this courageous man!
Everyone deserves love and it feels amazing 🤩 happy for this young man
His method of weening himself off of the porn addiction via the use of awareness and willpower rather than guilt and shame could probably help with many compulsions and addictions. Guilt and shame really only feed the cycle by causing you to swing from extremes without correcting the core issues. Suppression breeds tension and relapse.
incredible comment
Damn, you just summarized addiction and a proactive solution
Valid point!
What an excellent point. Thought work is literally everywhere
Day 146 without porn for me.
It definitely helps improve your sex life... that shit's toxic.
+Stefan Alexander Lay
You have an appropriate last name, Mr Lay haha
+Stefan Alexander Lay
That's exceedingly easy. But he also mentioned 'no masturbation for 120 days'.
Uh... WHAT?
+alyxshark lmao
+Stefan Alexander Lay Wow, not even an accident? Not a wet dream??
+Stefan Alexander Lay How are you doing?
Excellent talk! Keep on raising awareness on the potential negative effects of internet porn. Porn has the potential to be extremely sex-negative. There is nothing more sex-negative than something that gives you a limp noodle with real partners.
Keep doing your thing Gregor.
Limp noodle 🤣🤣
I’m with you 100% !!!
From this day forward, I'm going to stop watching porn. Thank you for your message because this completely complies with my life.
With you! how is it going?
I'm gonna leave a hand print on my dong, please excuse me while I go fap to ladyboys very aggressively
Dennis Little gang
I bet he didn't last a week.. btw a week in myself
Even week is super nice. My record now is a month, but I think we all can do more.
its hard to admit it to oneself but yeah its a real problem
zztop3000 wtf
So much respect for this guy and his journey. Talks like this one should be made in schools
I would like to thank you for being confident enough to share this.
Full respect for this talk.
To summaries 13 minutes in one sentence: stop watching porn ! Thank you...
Thank you fam
That really doesn’t do the video justice
mich Z тнαик you
God bless you
Thanks for time saving
this mans speaks the cure...
Thank you man! This video shows the sheer courage you have...
Wow this video totally just opened my eyes on this whole PIED recovery process. His story is the exact same as mine...although he gave up porn completely he tried to project what he used to watch into his real sex which is what I tried to do as well.
That being said I think that we as a society should educate kids at a young age the negative affects of viewing pornography, it is simply not worth the problems you will face later on in life because of it.
It's not simply the porn itself, it's how you feel about it. Better than "banning" pornography, is to try to change the mindset of young individuals so that they don't get addicted to pornography.
I watch a fuck ton of porn, and have done so since I was a teenager. I'm what is called a sex god, constant erections even after climaxing multiple times and still ready for more.
I was the same way man...rock hard erections and loving every minute of it...hot hot women, endless situations. When it hits you, you will be like WTF?????!!!. When you see porn for what it REALLY is, you start the journey to heal. Go ahead, say 'that will never happen to me'...that's what I said too. When you get to that point, goto 'yourbrainonporn' site.
Sounds to good to be true, sure your not schizophrenic. Just joking, if you got em smoke em. I'm sixty years old and never in my life have I experienced such low performance. I have had cement hard erections permanently for my entire life since age 5yrs. And my multiple orgasms have turned into one giant non-stop orgasm. In fact, I'm having one right now. Got to go!
sorry, i didnt quite understand what did he do to fix his ED problems?
Amazing talk. THe end left me with a tear in my eye. So meaningful.
Close to the end of the talk I’m over here saying “thank you” in my lonesome for the knowledge cuz this issah real stuff and useful. Guilt and those sort of emotions are suicidal type and just get nobody anywhere good, similar to pride it’s just not necessary. Nobody should feel they have to prove themselves to anybody just be yourself, do what your heart resonates and feels more at home with and do it just to smile more on your own, it’s all really important. There’s nothing wrong with being alone as well, nobody should feel anxious towards their own loneliness, and it’s all for an important reason and beside, nobody is ever really alone.
This is what I was expecting when I clicked on "Why I Stopped Watching Porn" by Ran Gavrieli.
5:54 the topic starts
4 months to re-wire my brain😵 wish me luck
Dwl
So how’d it go?
Bert Stumpton, how did it go?
Did it work for you?
Why take 4 months when it can take 12 hours ? Take a mushroom trip 😇
So basically, he shares the same problem that nearly every girl struggles with; no orgasm, lack of stimulation, no doctors that can truly help, and being surrounded by people that overlook this frustration. This is such a great talk and should definitely be recommended. Anxiety can be very debilitating.
Mike John hahahahaha 😂😂
@Mike John yeah what he said, I need to know this for research purposes. Not for me but for my friend.
Myth
@Mike John I'm not sure if you're being sarcastic or not, but obviously it's not all about the size. It's about skills, communication & having a strong connection to your partner.
It’s a myth women can’t orgasm, I’ve never had an issue
9:35 اختصار الفيديو ان البورنوجرافي بتخلي نظرتنا مقتصرة فقط على الرؤية ودا مش الواقع والاهم ف العلاقة هو اللمس وانو السكس مش بس لاطفاء الرغبات البيلوجية هو شكل من أشكال الفن , طريقة للتعبير عن النفس وطريقة للتعافي العاطفي والجسدي , بوابة للتجارب الشخصية التي تفوق فهمنا للجسد والعقل
Day 69 of no porn it has definitely helped my sex life oh wait I don't have one.
You will:)
Drake Silas lol why?
nice
I have this same thing. No medical reason to have this problem. Was told to take Cialis. I've been addicted to porn videos for years. I'm now on a reboot.
Calvin Brady how is it going bro?
Did you get any results?
I guess he canceled his internet service !
@@Azav312 😂😂😂
Plato's Cave is our comfort zone.
You are very thoughtful and insightful, Gregor! Thank you for your wonderful presentation!
Courageous, interesting and very well delivered talk! Congrats Gregor! :)
Dude needs an actual stage instead of a table lol Kudos to the speaker for making the best of it
Nicely put! I'll surely watch it again.
5:00 the best part is yet to come.. he forgot to say no pun intended again
Not just curing Ed but more motivation.mental clarity ,less lethargy etc ,less back pain etc .
Thanks so much for sharing this precious content! That 's extraordinarily courageous!
i have EOD. erectile overfunction. i'm 18. i get erections from riding a bus.
He's speaking for a silent majority
wow didnt expect such a good talk from the title haha. Changed my views and attitudes on sex
Shio ri good morring
And then you still get people who give such a masterpiece a thumbs down. True sign that no matter how good you are, you'll never be loved by everyone💔
Maybe they hate ED
The best ted talk .. needs to be teaching at school
Very brave to show his vulnerabilities and thank you for bringing awareness to the problem
This lecture in one word: Amazing
Rare gem of a talk. Thank you
thanks so much for sharing your research!!
This was so much better than I thought it would be
A brave step and he defeat fear of rejection.
Very interesting perspective, thanks Gregor.
This Jedi Lord man had so many goddamn layers! Skip to 9:00 and you will be blown away.
Absolutely fantastic and helpful!
Thank you ❤ very enlightening!
Amazing talk. Congrats
❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏
Vulnerability on another level!! Thanks for the share bro 💪🏿💯🎯💎
Excellent. Great job, brother.
And low seratonin effects ejucoation ,that's why ssri meds or supplements like dapavor can help and or sprays ...
"mental gap between your impulse to watch porn and doing it" = loading of the video :))
I just watched your video for no reason bcoz my bf don't watch this on regular basis we have been in relation from 3 years and 3 months but liked your video because you are doing great job for others.gbu.
just share this video with him
an eye opening courageous talk !
Congratulations
Excellent talk
Well said!
I have a problem keeping it down every day , it just comes back up in few mins like a pole for fucks sake...
@Suggestion
You should add subtitles to every video
I don't understand his conclusion. Could anyone help me?
The postmodern version of the shadows in platos cave
Really interesting video and clever title.
I loved the Plato's Cave example....
That really helpful , i think every man has once suffered from it !! Thanks for showing way to be sex go
This video is really helpful.thank u sir
wow great talk,i needed this
really thoughtfull and really inspiring
Great video, thank you for sharing!
120 days goal
What a profound talk
Nice analogy and methodology based on self-awareness. I like it!
ITS ALL IN YOUR HEAD.....BELIEF AND NEGATIVE THOUGHTS DRAIN THE LIFE OUT OF US
great speaking, deep knowledge told.
Insightful and inspired
great talk!!
Beautiful message 🙏
Hey, great !!! Well done man
Imagine being the one giving this Ted talk
does he still hv ed?
God bless you brother ❤️
For married only: Read 1 kama shastra, Rati rahasya ,vivahit prem, rai vilas. Then forget all. Otherwise God's re Crazy sometimes. Believe me a sleeping fallow becomes fire on after reading them the whole world changes . And you are not lazy anymore. Negative comes that you can see what man or womn wants now . And that mas start around you even it kills.
Amazing. Thank you.
Great talk and Honesty
What exactly did he conclude?
awesome talk
Lovely informative video.
This is deep. But how do you heal premature ejection?
B. De Campo look, we're getting off track. I don't care what people do with their genitals, as long as it's after the age of 18. Baby mutilation should not be a thing
B. De Campo does it feel ad good as it used to?
By training...
Anything in extreme can do harm. That includes reading, or even watching porns
A little correction on the part where you talked about dopamine. Dopamine produces a feeling of craving and wanting and not a feeling of pleasure. Source: Gary Wilson.
+MrJoeRedford insert correct chemical name: Serotonin
Endorphins
Dopamine is the brains reward after fulfilling the craving
It's like chocolate. Eating it every day make it less tasty. Time to time is completely OK
I don't know man, I eat chocolate every day and it's just as delicious every time as it was the last time.
By having sex more often I feel you get around the erectile dysfunction thing. I'm having it once a week and things are good (:
+YourMother 5 if you have the time! no problems after that!
Zen McGrand Once a week is more often? Did you mean less often?
First fine I heard the Allegory of the Cave, it was in the context of comic book characters breaking the fourth wall. God, I'm such a nerve.
Wow
Thank you for your talk Myan.
!!!!!!!
what goes up must come down, keep a balance
My 4 months starting now
So good! Ten points :)
great talk. Actually there's a book that has the name sex god method and it really delivers what he is talking about. It can transform your life in a very positive way.
If rooney mara was a man, this is what I'd expect her to look like
A great talk , well am agree with his words
About a million views.... It shows that really it's a serious problem
Well, what is a problem for some, is help for others.
Definitely not about becoming a sex god. You should choose a more fitting title.
Delyan Ganev, his definition of a sex God is great though. I liked his presentation.
🤦🏻♀️
What was the intro song?
what good is wisdom when it brings no profit to the wise