Is It Healthy To Keep Secrets In a Relationship?

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  • Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024

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  • @TheRealDaytime
    @TheRealDaytime  3 года назад +20

    Do you think it is important to have a tell-all relationship or should some things not be brought up?

    • @bettinafahiespire9341
      @bettinafahiespire9341 3 года назад +2

      He should know but for me if he brought it up if he don't why cause confusion

    • @gorataoneramotswai1595
      @gorataoneramotswai1595 3 года назад +3

      Tell-all please, secrets come out nastier than they actually are...especially when kept for too long- ending up involving whole lot people.

    • @lesleymbuyikayembe7553
      @lesleymbuyikayembe7553 3 года назад +2

      I was litterally thinking about this today!
      Nope! And I don't think he would ask either

    • @tashawilliams8093
      @tashawilliams8093 3 года назад +3

      Some things should be taken to the grave.

  • @Theriandra5
    @Theriandra5 3 года назад +75

    Poor Jeannie was so unhappy but she couldn't really say anything...

  • @kattodoggo3868
    @kattodoggo3868 3 года назад +121

    The one about bank account is true. Ladies you always should have your secret money for just in case

    • @hannahwalmer1124
      @hannahwalmer1124 3 года назад +5

      Men too for his 'just in case' if ya know what I mean

    • @alex_n215
      @alex_n215 3 года назад +27

      Smart couples would each have an individual bank account while having a joint one too.

    • @user-tp3yj2iw6h
      @user-tp3yj2iw6h 3 года назад +2

      @@alex_n215 exactly

    • @natevic1867
      @natevic1867 3 года назад +9

      Never understood a couples stupid decision with sharing everything. You can never trust anyone especially a spouse. So many lie even about love, there’s a reason why divorce rates are so high. And with so many horror stories you really are an idiot nowadays to not have your own account. People are just obsessed with being honest and sharing everything with their spouse. I share nothing with mine other than food. I keep many secrets from him, haven’t told him many things about my family and he has no idea what my net worth is and it’s never affected our relationship.

    • @karmabiitch26
      @karmabiitch26 3 года назад +1

      Damn right !! My momma always taught me that !!! 💯💯💯

  • @jessfarias3134
    @jessfarias3134 3 года назад +42

    Jeannie: “Imma take a backseat on this and let you ladies talk”
    Also Jeannie: *talks the whole time*

  • @chefnic4763
    @chefnic4763 3 года назад +44

    I don't have secrets. I'm just a private person. When I do open up, my fiancé is always shocked and thankful for the info lol. He still doesn't know how much money I make or what I have stashed...and we're living together. Lol. Mind your business 😌

    • @mube8885
      @mube8885 3 года назад +2

      @No Reason At All 😆😆😆😆😆🙏

  • @deidrab4421
    @deidrab4421 3 года назад +24

    Loni’s facial expressions lol 😂

  • @gingerjoy5836
    @gingerjoy5836 3 года назад +9

    Loni: Did you just flip up yo bangs? Omg…I’m dying😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @maryware3915
    @maryware3915 2 года назад +7

    I agree with Adrienne and Tamara. I was in a situation where I looked like a fool when I took my ex out to eat, we were recently split and trying to work thru things & get back together , right after we were seated by the female my intuition told me something was up . I asked my ex straight up is this female someone you were with previously he lied right to my face , we walked outside the restaurant and here was her mom ( who I had met before and knew was the mom of an ex of his I never met) waiting to pick her up from work 🤬🤬🤬

  • @sabrinamaldonado1418
    @sabrinamaldonado1418 2 года назад +5

    I swear Idk anyone more “ME” in this life than Adrienne 😂🤣😂 Literally. Every. Thing. She says. SO ME🤣🤣🤣

  • @fayepatrice1672
    @fayepatrice1672 3 года назад +100

    Who looked at episodes like these and saw Jeannie and Freddie's divorce coming? 🙋🏾‍♀️

    • @SeeWhyAnn
      @SeeWhyAnn 3 года назад +17

      everything is always much clearer in hindsight

    • @EnchantedReader89
      @EnchantedReader89 3 года назад +3

      @@SeeWhyAnn It was obvious from season 1, their relationship was toxic

    • @moneekodunze7602
      @moneekodunze7602 2 года назад +2

      Everyone had been talking about their split since the 1st season. It was painfully obvious. 🙁 I think people misjudged Jeannie too. I think he mistreated her a lot and that’s why she was so uptight about stuff.

    • @SSBMA1994
      @SSBMA1994 Год назад

      I saw signs even before but...

  • @amandaandersen7870
    @amandaandersen7870 3 года назад +8

    Jeanie is right, living with with a man, is so different then sleep overs. I'm glad I'm married and living with my husband. I wouldn't live with anyone else because we know each other's baggage, that everyone has. I dwtk anyone else's baggage at all. I love my husband married 18 yrs, praise God!💙👉🙌

  • @4knewt505
    @4knewt505 3 года назад +48

    Me waiting ⏲️ to see how old this clip is and who Jeannie was with.... Oh ok

  • @sfr7169
    @sfr7169 3 года назад +47

    Jeannie talks so differently now that she's with Jeezy

    • @nolyssa
      @nolyssa 3 года назад +9

      Yup cuz she actually cares about him lol

    • @dayjahomara
      @dayjahomara 3 года назад

      she wasn’t with him in this clip. this clip is so old

    • @sfr7169
      @sfr7169 3 года назад +6

      @@dayjahomara I know...I'm speaking on how she talks now

  • @LadyK09
    @LadyK09 2 года назад +4

    Past is in the past honestly digging through who I was will not get you to understand who I am now... It doesn't work like that🙌

    • @violetl.4615
      @violetl.4615 Год назад

      I disagree. Your past shapes who you are today.

  • @fat2fabbabe447
    @fat2fabbabe447 3 года назад +28

    I miss Tam 😭😭😭

    • @abelgarcia6345
      @abelgarcia6345 3 года назад

      What happened with tam

    • @fat2fabbabe447
      @fat2fabbabe447 3 года назад

      @@abelgarcia6345 she is no longer with the show!

    • @abelgarcia6345
      @abelgarcia6345 3 года назад

      @@fat2fabbabe447 no way! Did she get fired? I haven’t watched the show on a while and i noticed she was gone right away

    • @fat2fabbabe447
      @fat2fabbabe447 3 года назад +2

      @@abelgarcia6345 She decided not to renew her contract!! So on the new season she’s not there😭😭

    • @jacke8847
      @jacke8847 3 года назад

      How?

  • @ChellesShell
    @ChellesShell 2 года назад +2

    My husband was married before me so I knew about his ex wife..I don't know anything about any other exes of his. He knows my past relationships as well. I don't think it's a big deal. If it is not important to them anymore then I don't need to know about it. I'm happy with him and we know what we need to know about each other

  • @desireelbeniquez2571
    @desireelbeniquez2571 3 года назад +3

    You never keep secrets but you don't lie to them. But you don't have to tell if he dont ask.

  • @NotAMuse
    @NotAMuse 2 года назад +3

    I wish I could have chimed in to Tamera. People who are more likely to move in with their significant other before marriage already tend to be outside of the ‘typical’ expectations and don’t prescribe to a ‘typical’ relationship standards. So if they get married and it’s not working out, they’re gonna get out of that relationship. Whereas people who wait until marriage tend to have a strict set of values about marriage and they’re more likely to follow the standard and stay married and try to work it out. Or just be miserable and stay married.

  • @tasneembowers9280
    @tasneembowers9280 3 года назад +6

    I wonder if Jeanie would say the same things with her new husband.

    • @angelinemutsengi2148
      @angelinemutsengi2148 3 года назад

      Definitely not lol. I could tell from season 1 she didn't really care about Freddie like that but she actually loves Jeezy so her opinion would be different.

  • @heyheyhey40
    @heyheyhey40 3 года назад +2

    Tamera asking about “sleep overs”. 😂

  • @KISSFanDan1995
    @KISSFanDan1995 3 года назад +7

    About the secret bank account I’m keeping that to myself until I can 1,000% trust her.

  • @silviamothershed421
    @silviamothershed421 3 года назад +2

    Tamara you look gorgeous today 😎

  • @fcstylz
    @fcstylz 2 года назад

    I had a hard time with my husband touching my things we didn't stay together before marriage and it was a hard adjustment for me bc i dont like people touching or moving my things.

  • @Arizona_lilly
    @Arizona_lilly 3 года назад +4

    Bank account is best

  • @CeeP211
    @CeeP211 2 года назад +2

    Adrienne acts so goofy sometimes.

  • @amariwilson5305
    @amariwilson5305 3 года назад +2

    I miss Tam🥺🤍

  • @marcellacollins4697
    @marcellacollins4697 2 года назад +1

    Why you worrying about it if it's the pass

  • @8luvbug
    @8luvbug 3 года назад +1

    10:27

  • @hustonbrice8654
    @hustonbrice8654 3 года назад +2

    Hi ❤️❤️😘💕🥰😉☺️😍

  • @dilveensingh2806
    @dilveensingh2806 2 года назад

    Lonnie Steve Eediate mind Out Finishing

  • @adamsey_mame9043
    @adamsey_mame9043 3 года назад +8

    I don't know what is really wrong with Adrienne and her husband addiction ⁉️ girrrrrrl please save something for yourself, forever us too long‼️

  • @brittneyrenea210
    @brittneyrenea210 3 года назад

    💜💜💜💜

  • @jacke8847
    @jacke8847 3 года назад +1

    At the end when Tamera, is talking about the difference between "living together before marriage", and "living together before marriage but also being engaged". WTF . There is no difference. I can't stand the holy act. 🙄

  • @dilveensingh2806
    @dilveensingh2806 2 года назад

    Loni Gini Pet Kini Pet Bini Pet Looni Coloney

  • @Arizona_lilly
    @Arizona_lilly 3 года назад

    These bad