I've seen truth. I keep lying to myself because I can't believe another human being can actually be like that when i've seen it over and over and over, I guess i'm just stupid
You’re not stupid, it’s just easier to drink the KoolAid than it is to try to get a blind man to see. Sip, sip, get away & get on with your day. Not authentic, but when your partner can’t handle your (or his!) authenticity, it’s at least sanity-saving and argument-avoiding. Plenty of peace & joy left elsewhere. Go spread some & you’ll see how not stupid you are!! 🥰🙌
It's so strange more than half of my life. I've been with him. You know, it's crystal and Steve for 33 years? We were together when we were 20. It seems like the Twilight Zone to leave him, but also I'm living in the Twilight Zone.🤯😪
So funny, I watched your other video first about stop lying to them. Basically the one I said I wanted to share to him, but why it's been 33 years of hell. What truth do I need to know that?I haven't had forced upon me for thirty three years, and in every abusive way you can imagine, right
Only now it's not just him, it's triangulation. He got my kids, they're his enablers, now his flying monkeys and my daughter's very dangerous. She's bipolar, suicidal psychotic, 26 years old, and she takes and vents on me. I'm not safe from her or him. But man to leave, it seems so unreal. Oh, and I have no family and support system. Sounds like a bunch of excuses. I know sounds like I'm not trusting God. I know😢😢😢
Dude youre spot on. The only thing, IMO, is that when you talk about subjective truth, it gets confusing. You say there is only one truth.."the" truth, from God....which I agree but by saying there IS subjective truth, its kind of contradicting and I think "subjective" truth is in itself a or the problem. Facts are truth. They cannot be argued. If they cant be argued, then you and everyone else KNOWs its the truth. If theres a discrepancy and you have to "believe" its truth, there is a problem. If you beleive something to be true you are not basing it on facts. If the speed limit on this road is 55...that is fact...that is the truth. You may think its 65 and call it your truth, but you are just wrong. You thought it was truth and were mistaken. If you would think 65 is the limit, somewhere down the line, you skewed the facts...whether by justifieng cause you want to drive 65, ignoring, or simply misunderstanding,..whatever the reason you didnt base on the actual facts. Ive been with a narc for 25 yrs. This my truth your truth shit has been the cause and fueled so many fights and confusion. They all couldve been resolved if they would just acknowledge or admit its perspective not truth. We AGREE on truth cause there is no argument, therefore not subjective. Cheating is wrong..fact I dont like being cheated on..fact They like cheating...fact These 3 things ARE true for both people. They are not subjective. When theyre labeled as your truth and my truth, it opens the door for one person to say they have "the" truth...whcih is where manipulation starts cause it takes the eyes off of the fact that cheating is wrong. Your fav color is green..mine is blue. Truth is you like green and I like blue. When I say "my" truth is that blue is the best color, it comes off confusing and can be used because it insinuates that your truth is truth. Ya know what I mean? Just seems like a core tactic thats been used.....I remember that.."well my truth is that I like cheating"..therefore I feel good...therefore ok. When it shouldve been..Truth is..I like cheating even tho its wrong..therefore a problem PS sry for the rant
I think what he’s trying to say it’s that the narcs have a subjective truth bc they live in a false reality where their “truth” is true to them to benefit them. And the victims also do the same thing in order to excuse staying a relationship. They’re both subjective. So that’s why we need to look at facts or the “absolute truth”, to not be blinded by the narcs or our own false reality
@@Daniela-vc1ik Ya I think thats what hes sayin and I agree mostly. I was just tryn to say, even like you said, its a false reality. Therefore its not their "truth". Someone can justify all they want to, it NEVER makes it true. Saying my truth or your truth is a bad way to put it. It implies, also like u said, that their "truth" is true. Let me put it this way, if youre going to use absolute truth as a foundation or basis, how does subjective truth even exist?..absolute contradicts subjective. So even saying subjective truth is like wth? Theres absolute truth, no opinion involved so it seems like the only time it turns into "subjective" is when its done out of deceit...when someone lies or when someone believes a lie. IDK i beleive in absolute truth so when its split, it just doesnt seem right
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I've seen truth. I keep lying to myself because I can't believe another human being can actually be like that when i've seen it over and over and over, I guess i'm just stupid
We gotta remind to ourselves the TRUTH every day
You’re not stupid, it’s just easier to drink the KoolAid than it is to try to get a blind man to see. Sip, sip, get away & get on with your day. Not authentic, but when your partner can’t handle your (or his!) authenticity, it’s at least sanity-saving and argument-avoiding. Plenty of peace & joy left elsewhere. Go spread some & you’ll see how not stupid you are!! 🥰🙌
It's so strange more than half of my life. I've been with him. You know, it's crystal and Steve for 33 years? We were together when we were 20. It seems like the Twilight Zone to leave him, but also I'm living in the Twilight Zone.🤯😪
So funny, I watched your other video first about stop lying to them. Basically the one I said I wanted to share to him, but why it's been 33 years of hell. What truth do I need to know that?I haven't had forced upon me for thirty three years, and in every abusive way you can imagine, right
Only now it's not just him, it's triangulation. He got my kids, they're his enablers, now his flying monkeys and my daughter's very dangerous. She's bipolar, suicidal psychotic, 26 years old, and she takes and vents on me. I'm not safe from her or him. But man to leave, it seems so unreal. Oh, and I have no family and support system. Sounds like a bunch of excuses. I know sounds like I'm not trusting God. I know😢😢😢
GOD TAKE THE WHEEL🙏🙌
AMEN 🙏🏻❤️
😢
Dude youre spot on. The only thing, IMO, is that when you talk about subjective truth, it gets confusing. You say there is only one truth.."the" truth, from God....which I agree but by saying there IS subjective truth, its kind of contradicting and I think "subjective" truth is in itself a or the problem. Facts are truth. They cannot be argued. If they cant be argued, then you and everyone else KNOWs its the truth. If theres a discrepancy and you have to "believe" its truth, there is a problem. If you beleive something to be true you are not basing it on facts.
If the speed limit on this road is 55...that is fact...that is the truth. You may think its 65 and call it your truth, but you are just wrong. You thought it was truth and were mistaken. If you would think 65 is the limit, somewhere down the line, you skewed the facts...whether by justifieng cause you want to drive 65, ignoring, or simply misunderstanding,..whatever the reason you didnt base on the actual facts. Ive been with a narc for 25 yrs. This my truth your truth shit has been the cause and fueled so many fights and confusion. They all couldve been resolved if they would just acknowledge or admit its perspective not truth. We AGREE on truth cause there is no argument, therefore not subjective.
Cheating is wrong..fact
I dont like being cheated on..fact
They like cheating...fact
These 3 things ARE true for both people. They are not subjective. When theyre labeled as your truth and my truth, it opens the door for one person to say they have "the" truth...whcih is where manipulation starts cause it takes the eyes off of the fact that cheating is wrong.
Your fav color is green..mine is blue. Truth is you like green and I like blue. When I say "my" truth is that blue is the best color, it comes off confusing and can be used because it insinuates that your truth is truth. Ya know what I mean? Just seems like a core tactic thats been used.....I remember that.."well my truth is that I like cheating"..therefore I feel good...therefore ok. When it shouldve been..Truth is..I like cheating even tho its wrong..therefore a problem
PS sry for the rant
I think what he’s trying to say it’s that the narcs have a subjective truth bc they live in a false reality where their “truth” is true to them to benefit them. And the victims also do the same thing in order to excuse staying a relationship. They’re both subjective. So that’s why we need to look at facts or the “absolute truth”, to not be blinded by the narcs or our own false reality
@@Daniela-vc1ik Ya I think thats what hes sayin and I agree mostly. I was just tryn to say, even like you said, its a false reality. Therefore its not their "truth". Someone can justify all they want to, it NEVER makes it true. Saying my truth or your truth is a bad way to put it. It implies, also like u said, that their "truth" is true.
Let me put it this way, if youre going to use absolute truth as a foundation or basis, how does subjective truth even exist?..absolute contradicts subjective. So even saying subjective truth is like wth? Theres absolute truth, no opinion involved so it seems like the only time it turns into "subjective" is when its done out of deceit...when someone lies or when someone believes a lie.
IDK i beleive in absolute truth so when its split, it just doesnt seem right
People who seductively cheat on themselves have a significant other embracing somebody else.