Living With Autism: Dan and Charlie
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- Опубликовано: 4 янв 2025
- Watch time: 19:00 minutes | CW// Autism. This film contains sensitive material about Autism and is not suitable for children under 16. Our films all discuss children's mental health which is a sensitive subject for some. If you need to take a break and come back later to watch with a friend please do. With all our films we provide support links on our ‘Where to go for help page’: nipinthebud.or...
In this film, Dan explains his 9-year-old son Charlie’s behaviour and how he came to be diagnosed as high functioning autistic. Dan describes the family dynamics, how best to manage Charlie, what his strengths are and his future prospects. Charlie gives an insight into living with autism and shares his thoughts and feelings.
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Dads communicating effectively and clearly.
Thanks so much for getting in touch and sharing your daughter's experience - we really appreciate it - we would love to hear more if you'd like to get in touch with us. (hello@nipinthebud.org) I'm not sure if you've found the other resources useful that we have (www.nipinthebud.org/films-parents-category/ocd/ ) - it sounds like you've already sought out lots of info and support so this may be redundant but I wanted to pass this on: www.nipinthebud.org/blog/5-ways-to-help-manage-ocd/
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Very interesting. I’m autistic also, I got diagnosed at 16. I was severely self harming and my diagnosis quite literally saved my life. Now I know what I need and how to help myself and have resources to help me.
Thank you so much for your input - I'm glad you're getting the support you need. We'd love to keep in touch.
How did it get diagnosed because I feel like I self diagnosed it for me and idk now how to let my parents know, so I hope they figure it out themselves
@@nipinthebud3744 thank you I really appreciate your response.
@@thethirdeve5089 Basically I was doing research on ADHD, brought it to my psychiatrist and she told me it sounded more like autism. To figure out what it was she sent me to a neuropsych who then did the whole diagnostic process. I would start by presenting your parents with evidence you’ve collected and then to a doctor. It’s harder when they are not as close to you like a psychiatrist, so a therapist would be even better if you have one.
Hi there, excuse the delayed response - we wondered whether you could ask your parents if they could watch this film - either with you or separately and then perhaps together so you can talk about it together? Or is there perhaps another trusted adult who you could ask to be part of that conversation if you'd prefer company? We hope it helps either way and please stay in touch.
What an amazing dad
He is! Hi and thanks so much for sharing your thoughts - here's the update from Dan & Charlie - 5 years on - hope you find it as inspiring: ruclips.net/video/eO4rKcy16bI/видео.htmlsi=G86hJ9pmyOwM8GNu
What a wonderful story and explanation Dan, I have learnt so much in 20 minutes watching this video and I wish you and Charlie all the care in the World. I must watch more videos to see how things progress. Thank you.
Hi - thanks so much for sharing your thoughts - here's the update from Dan & Charlie - 5 years on - hope you find it as useful: ruclips.net/video/eO4rKcy16bI/видео.htmlsi=G86hJ9pmyOwM8GNu
I met an autistic man who is 67 years old at the gym over a year ago to be precise. He’s initially so hard to approach and even made me feel like he doesn’t like me but it’s not necessarily true. I managed to connect with him and I feel that I want to protect him and be his friend no matter what.
I don’t know why. But I feel like he’s a noble man with a good heart and - as a friend - I wish I could be there for him to make him do well and happy. Do I feel compassion? Maybe. But all I know is that I want to make him feel like I am there for him. Yet at times he seems to be kind of second-guessing me or doubting me.
It’s a total different experience and I don’t know how to handle it at times.
Thanks so much for sharing your experience - we have lots of other films where people explain their experiences which might be useful for you - bit.ly/4brwH1N
And if you would like to find out more about supporting someone with Autism we have some great recommendations:
Ambitious about Autism
Website: www.ambitiousaboutautism.org.uk
Centre for ADHD and Autism
Website: www.adhdandautism.org
National Autistic Society
Website: www.autism.org.uk
I have difficulties as well to understand when my son is "just naughty boy" and when he has difficulty to cope cause of autism.
Such a good point - you may like to watch more here on our website: nipinthebud.org/films-parents-category/autism/ All our films are made in collaboration with experts n neurodiversity, paediatric psychologists and psychiatrist, families and educators too.
Perhaps also listen to our latest podcast bit.ly/3YJRQ3C on ADHD which is often co-existing with Autism (bit.ly/48zLMhm) and also our film with Child psychologist Dr Bettina Hohnen ruclips.net/video/EXcQWP0TDp4/видео.html which you may have specific questions you'd like to ask Bettina?
You may also like to watch Dan & Charlie's update film: bit.ly/49pcHfT which is great and many parents have found it helpful.
I hated Phonics but it helped me a lot, it covered up a lot of the differences that showed verbally, but it also made it harder for people to be empathetic/ recognize autism in certain situations
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I believe my autism was inherited from my father, who was very technically minded but whose behaviour and working life in the 1950s to 1970s saw him at odds with work colleagues, and distant and cold in personal relationships.
Thanks for joining the conversation - for an update on Dan & Charlie watch our recent release here, it's lovely and we hope insightful: bit.ly/5_year
We also have a film with the wonderful Professor Emily Siminoff who talks about Autism which may give you clarity: bit.ly/3wQZYnu
Let us know if there's anything else you'd like to see from the team here at Nip in the Bud
Fabulous piece. Thanks for sharing
Thank you too!
To me, time goes slower. Since I don't feel or sound like a man. I feel like i'm still just a kid, still a child to my parents view. They have mentioned us four children of my family, that we are still youngsters to eat too much sugar, fast food, ect. Despite me, and my two brothers being legal of age, we don't feel like older people yet. I am okay being treated like a pampered baby boy child. Time goes very slow in my perspective and view of the world.
Thanks for joining the conversation and for your thoughts - for an update on Dan & Charlie watch our recent release here, it's lovely and we hope insightful: bit.ly/5_year
Three years ago; 2020, my interest in Autism was sporadic, disjointed due to lack of education in IT. Your willingness and well thought out introspection about (at least) Charlie; as your treasured son of now 12 (?) is the best educational module (that period in time) that I've listened through. Thank you for that. Recognizing that every Autistic is different and must be
interpreted in an entirely different lens was something I inherently knew albeit couldn't yet place in words.
@@joemoon1943 ??? Are You-Charging???
Thanks for joining the conversation - you might like the update from Dan & Charlie:
nipinthebud.org/films-for-parents-carers/dan-charlie-5-years-on-life-on-the-autism-spectrum/
And feel free to explore more of our resources on the topic of autism:
Life as a Special education needs teacher and mum of a child on the spectrum:
nipinthebud.org/films-for-parents-carers/rachel-life-as-a-senco/
Raising a child on the spectrum (Tylan's parents):
nipinthebud.org/films-for-parents-carers/raising-a-child-with-autism-carrie-and-david/
Growing up on the autism Spectrum (Tylan):
nipinthebud.org/films-for-parents-carers/growing-up-with-autism-tylan/
Dr Bettina Hohnen has also answered questions from families which you may find good to watch and also ask us any questions if you want to about neurodivergent experiences and curiosities.
ruclips.net/p/PLS65xMu-topX1k9fOAhKRC7mqOISczkaW
Dr Bettina Hohnen also talks about parenting in line with children's neurological development which many parents have found helpful:
nipinthebud.org/podcasts/episode-6-how-to-parent-and-educate-neurodiverse-brains-effectively-with-dr-bettina-hohnen/
And this latest Podcast has great information about children who are neurodivergent and how to help with emotional regulation - very important for children on the spectrum:
nipinthebud.org/podcasts/trauma-and-adhd-supporting-children-at-school-and-home/
We hope these are helpful and thanks again for joining our community
Hi, this is such a helpful video, thank you for making it,; being so open and authentic about what you are experiencing and the complexities of handling a growing child. I especially liked how you referred and have identified that sometimes there will be "normal" bad behaviour and other time there will be "Autistic" behaviour. That is a really clear learning point for me. At this stage I don't have an official diagnosis of my child, also aged 9yrs, but a lot of what you portrayed, not all, but sufficient to make me want to continue to get a proper diagnosis, huge thanks. You are making a big difference in peoples education and understanding of what is going on and how to cope. Don't give up. Oh and lots of love 'Dan and Charlie, I know you are a great team.
Thank you so much for your comments and thoughts - we really appreciate it and will pass your messages on to Charlie & Dan. You might find this short series of films helpful about Early Intervention and the process of getting additional support for your child: nipinthebud.org/films-parents-category/early-intervention/
Please do stay in touch - from all of us here at Nip in the Bud.
Thank you Dr Oyalo for healing my son from autism. And I want to share about him to every one. His herbs has made my son verbal and Improve in social skills
Thank you very much. It is very clear and helpful☺️
Being autistic is not something straight as being neurotypical. Our brains just work different, some people are sensitive, some aren't much, most struggle socially, we feel like aliens in this world. Then it just bring more problems like anxiety and depression because of those struggles. I have different friends with Aspergers/ASD too and of course, they are different people, because Personality comes first, and the disorder comes second, plus it doesn't feel exactly the same for everyone. Every single one is different. one of my friends with autism sometimes even shakes when shaking hands with people and another of my autistic friends even though the way he talks is a bit weird, he doesnt feel bad for it and he is really good at socializing, even sings in front of audiences.
Thanks for joining the conversation - you might like the update from Dan & Charlie:
nipinthebud.org/films-for-parents-carers/dan-charlie-5-years-on-life-on-the-autism-spectrum/
And feel free to explore more of our resources on the topic of autism:
Life as a Special education needs teacher and mum of a child on the spectrum:
nipinthebud.org/films-for-parents-carers/rachel-life-as-a-senco/
Raising a child on the spectrum (Tylan's parents):
nipinthebud.org/films-for-parents-carers/raising-a-child-with-autism-carrie-and-david/
Growing up on the autism Spectrum (Tylan):
nipinthebud.org/films-for-parents-carers/growing-up-with-autism-tylan/
Dr Bettina Hohnen has also answered questions from families which you may find good to watch and also ask us any questions if you want to about neurodivergent experiences and curiosities.
ruclips.net/p/PLS65xMu-topX1k9fOAhKRC7mqOISczkaW
Dr Bettina Hohnen also talks about parenting in line with children's neurological development which many parents have found helpful:
nipinthebud.org/podcasts/episode-6-how-to-parent-and-educate-neurodiverse-brains-effectively-with-dr-bettina-hohnen/
And this latest Podcast has great information about children who are neurodivergent and how to help with emotional regulation - very important for children on the spectrum:
nipinthebud.org/podcasts/trauma-and-adhd-supporting-children-at-school-and-home/
We hope these are helpful and thanks again for joining our community
I am not autistic, but find this rater interesting. I was mistaken for it in December of 2020, but knew it was wrong due to what my dad told me about what the psychiatrist said.
Hi - thanks for your thoughts - if you'd like to find out more about Autism please feel free to check out our other films: www.nipinthebud.org/films-parents-category/autism/
Thank you for your insight. Very helpful.
I can really relate to this, Charlie and my son, who is six and is autistic, have a lot of similar traits. Looking at the time this was posted and hoping you all got through lockdown OK, I am sure it would have been challenging. Would love to hear how Charlie's handwriting is coming along :)
Thank You Marc and please watch this space...
i agree with needing an early diagnosed but my problem was my first diagnosed turned out to be wrong, they diagnosed me with adhd and then i was given medication for it, 6 years later we diagnosed again and it turned out to not be adhd but add but the meds continued, then again some years later i FINALLY got a diagnosis from a diffrent person who said i had autism which was around 2019, since then every other professional agreed with this diagnosis and im finally able to learn about what autism is like and how to like learn about myself and tell my parents too about it
Thanks for joining the conversation and for your thoughts - for an update on Dan & Charlie watch our recent release here, it's lovely and we hope insightful: bit.ly/5_year you may also be interested in this film we released given your experiences: bit.ly/3wQZYnu
Thank you for sharing. My daughter just got diagnosed and it’s nice nice to know my child isn’t just bratty.
Thanks for joining the conversation - you might like the update from Dan & Charlie:
nipinthebud.org/films-for-parents-carers/dan-charlie-5-years-on-life-on-the-autism-spectrum/
And feel free to explore more of our resources on the topic of autism:
Life as a Special education needs teacher and mum of a child on the spectrum:
nipinthebud.org/films-for-parents-carers/rachel-life-as-a-senco/
Raising a child on the spectrum (Tylan's parents):
nipinthebud.org/films-for-parents-carers/raising-a-child-with-autism-carrie-and-david/
Growing up on the autism Spectrum (Tylan):
nipinthebud.org/films-for-parents-carers/growing-up-with-autism-tylan/
Dr Bettina Hohnen has also answered questions from families which you may find good to watch and also ask us any questions if you want to about neurodivergent experiences and curiosities.
ruclips.net/p/PLS65xMu-topX1k9fOAhKRC7mqOISczkaW
Dr Bettina Hohnen also talks about parenting in line with children's neurological development which many parents have found helpful:
nipinthebud.org/podcasts/episode-6-how-to-parent-and-educate-neurodiverse-brains-effectively-with-dr-bettina-hohnen/
And this latest Podcast has great information about children who are neurodivergent and how to help with emotional regulation - very important for children on the spectrum:
nipinthebud.org/podcasts/trauma-and-adhd-supporting-children-at-school-and-home/
We hope these are helpful and thanks again for joining our community
a woman by the name Temple Grandin is a very successful because and in spite of autism. She designs slaughter houses for meat production and dramatically improved the ethical standards as well as the function. She is a very charismatic speaker, I really love her
Thanks for joining the conversation and for your thoughts - for an update on Dan & Charlie watch our recent release here, it's lovely and we hope insightful: bit.ly/5_year
Hi I've just been watching your channel I've been fighting for 5 years to get a diagnosis and we had an assessment we got the diagnosis ASC
What you talk about makes so much sense how my son is and has been since he was 3
At this point my son isn't in school he is privately tutored by specialists tutors we have got a school for him to start in a specialist school in September as he was expelled from mainstream due to having no remorse when bullying children and hurting them this has been going on for a few years though
We have told our son that he is different to others
My son comes in my bedroom in the morning and we talk
I've gone through alot of hitting the other day he was spitting at me
He does like putting his forehead onto mine
We still are unsure what his triggers are
He hand flaps having trouble sleeping he says he is bored and not tired it's 10 pm
I'm hoping now we have his diagnosis more doors will open
Hope you don't mind me mailing
You talking about your son just sounded like mine
Thanks so much for sharing your experience, as you know early intervention is important so that everyone is supported - we have lots of other films where people explain their experiences, as well as other evidence-based films with experts in the field which might be useful for you - bit.ly/4brwH1N
And if you would like to find out more about supporting your son with Autism we have some great recommendations on amazing support systems:
Ambitious about Autism
Website: www.ambitiousaboutautism.org.uk
Centre for ADHD and Autism
Website: www.adhdandautism.org
National Autistic Society
Website: www.autism.org.uk
Let us know how you get on and if you think we are missing something that you would find helpful.
From the team at Nip in the Bud - Take care
@nipinthebud3744 really appreciate your reply I'll be looking at these thankyou
I’m from Sri Lanka and my son is 10 years old who is autistic…due to economic crisis here we have no income for 3 years and his school therapy have stopped for these 3 years. I’m his mother and I really want to start school and therapy for him..please if you can give some kind of economical support I would be very appreciate.. I can give his every detail…I’m watching your RUclips channel for a long time.. Thank you
Wasana, Thank you for getting in touch. I'm afraid this isn't the type of support we can give but we hope the channel provides your son with support in other ways? Here are further resources in case they are helpful ( ruclips.net/p/PLS65xMu-topXJH4PEF2lICZErPntaTlXJ ) and we hope you find further support on the economic front, from all of us here at Nip in the Bud.
@@nipinthebud3744 Thank you
@joiceomo2829Thank you
I helped my son reduce aggression and improve in speech and social skill with the help of Dr Oyalo herbal supplement I got from RUclips here. His herbs work perfectly
I have adhd Autism anger issues and anxiety
Wondering how Charlie is three years later in almost December 2023? Does he now have a close friend? Has his attention turned to La Femme?
Thanks for joining the conversation and for your thoughts - for an update on Dan & Charlie watch our recent release here, it's lovely and we hope insightful: bit.ly/5_year
I think it’s a little sad that his father has lost faith in the many brilliant things this little boy could accomplish in his life.
Thanks for joining the conversation and for your thoughts - for an update on Dan & Charlie watch our recent release here, it's lovely and we hope insightful: bit.ly/5_year
I have autism and borderline personality disorder and this is a good video about autism
Thanks very much - that means a lot!
It’s a disability, not a disease people need to know that, and just treat people with kindness, now treat you with kindness back😂
Thanks for joining the conversation - you might like the update from some of the people who live on the Autism Spectrum, like Dan & Charlie
nipinthebud.org/films-for-parents-carers/dan-charlie-5-years-on-life-on-the-autism-spectrum/
And feel free to explore more of our resources on the topic of autism:
Life as a Special education needs teacher and mum of a child on the spectrum:
nipinthebud.org/films-for-parents-carers/rachel-life-as-a-senco/
Raising a child on the spectrum (Tylan's parents):
nipinthebud.org/films-for-parents-carers/raising-a-child-with-autism-carrie-and-david/
Growing up on the autism Spectrum (Tylan):
nipinthebud.org/films-for-parents-carers/growing-up-with-autism-tylan/
We hope these are helpful and thanks again for joining our community.
Beg to disagree with dad but rigidity/lack of flexibility in thinking and planning, being overly sensitive to sensory impact, a lack of ability to discuss and understand feelings and emotions as well as displaying seemingly odd repetitive movements/stemming/rocking in the bath are all very common and typical autistic traits.
Thanks for getting involved - you may be interested to watch an update on Dan & Charlie's experiences:
nipinthebud.org/films-for-parents-carers/dan-charlie-5-years-on-life-on-the-autism-spectrum/
You may also be interested in our film on Autism & Co-existing conditions with Professor Emily Simonoff:
nipinthebud.org/films-for-teachers-professionals/autism-and-co-existing-conditions-in-children/
I'm wondering what it's like for kids who can't speak and at the lower end, to be honest this kid seems like a breeze compared to my child no disrespect I just never see videos and information on the children that are non verbal and have all the issues associated with autism and ADHD
Hi - thanks so much for getting in touch and for your question - we have recently done a podcast with the father of a young child with very severe Autism and he talks about his experience - nipinthebud.org/podcasts/episode-3-damien-lane-caring-for-a-severely-autistic-son/ - you may be interested in his experience? Equally please let us know if you have any questions you'd like to ask Dr Bettina Hohnen - here are some of the questions she'd answered: bit.ly/AskBettina
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