I can relate. I have to be alone. There's almost nobody (human friend) that I can "cry to" that is, that they would let me "cry on their shoulder" (so to speak). I "cried to" one about 4 or so years ago, then I found out this person was uncomfortable because my voice is different when I'm "emotional". So after that, I didn't bother "crying to" the person anymore. It hurt really badly, because I considered the person one of my close friends; and now it doesn't seem that way. The worse part is the distance that I feel emotionally now when before I felt we were close friends. Now I don't go to him with my problems like I did once in a while before I found that out. (sorry if I'm not expressing myself well enough on here - I know there's something wrong I just don't know what it is - either a brain problem or apasia or something else).
Oh that's a joke...ok HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA why do you people just make fun of videos that seem entertaining for other people..you guys just ruin the entertainment for others smh I'm saying this with no offense...
@@PinkFloydsfan nope it means you are emotionally strong and also mature . also bold to let people see you cry. There is nothing wrong in crying when you are in mess.
1) you allow yourself to cry 2) you dont try to control everything 3) you use your time wisely 4) you practice gratitude 5) you are kind to others 6) you are open to new ideas 7) you learn from your mistakes 8) you spend money responsibly 9) you don’t lean on codependency 10) you continue to persist
@@maggieraynack451 what does "being mentally strong" mean to you? Im just curious about your point of view im not here to judge dont worry. I was actually very surprised by the fact that crying could be a sign of strengh so i want to know what other people think!
Thank you! I agree that those who are not afraid to do what is right no matter what are indeed very strong But i think this video is more about those who are strong in other situations like those who have to deal with an illness or a difficult situation (which can be as you said doing the right thing despite how hard it may be) For example my mother had cancer and the nurses told my father that she was very strong so idk exactly what made them say that but it shows that being mentally strong can have other meanings so what do you think about those?
@@maggieraynack451 also what do you mean when you say "their flaws help them growing"? Do you mean that they learn to correct them or do they learn to accept them?
I've got so proud while watching this video, because I find myself doing all of these things - 7 years ago almost all these signs were the complete opposite to what I did, how I felt towards myself or others and so on This just tells me how mentally strong I've grown and I choose to spread positivity everyday now and I see it in the people I attract. 7 years ago I was a depressed, way too thin, self-cutting 16y/o girl who wanted to end her life. Now, at the age of 23, I've grown to be a strong woman finding herself in all of the things said in this video. If I can do it, you can, too. DON'T GIVE UP. Lots of love!
I relate to a lot of what you just said. I never self cut, but I think I was doing stuff close to that by mistreating myself and allowing others to do so. "If I did it, you can do it" is one of my mottos as well, big ups!
@@rituchhikara7688 I am out of the most toxic relationship I ever had since over a year, and it's still impacting my life. But I'm getting rid of this terrible mistake gradually. Soon I will be completely free. You are so right.
Life isn't that difficult... people make it difficult. Best advice i can give to people is: 1. don't take life so serious... just do what makes you happy and don't let anyone or anybody tell you what's good for you or what isn't. as an individual everything begins and ends with you, so don't waste your time on people who don't accept who you are and what you want/need. It's such a waste of time and energy. 2. Don't expect anything from anyone. When you live your life with expectations.. most of the time you'll be dissapointed.. when you try to let go of control, you will experience how beautiful life gets and how much more you will appreciate the efforts people make for/to you. Life is fucking amazing.. don't just look.. SEE.
1. You allow yourself to cry 2. You don't try to control everything 3. You use your time wisely 4. You practice gratitude 5. You are kind to others 6. You are open to new ideas 7. You learn from your mistakes 8. You spend money responsibly 9. You don't lean on codependency 10. You continue to persist I swear this is one of my most favorite youtube channel. I am an aspiring psychologist and this channel really helps me to understand things better ❤ PS :- I took notes for myself. 😊
7 out of 10. I know I'm pretty strong, I'm an empath and I have had a hard childhood. But I still thrive and go on! All of us have the potential to be mentally strong. We are all in this together! ♥️
I love to cry. It feels so good and cathartic and it’s a beautiful thing to be able to do. I’m grateful God gave me the ability to be grateful to cry and to feel and to have a broken heart yet release hate or resentment.
*#1 sign of mental toughness - you don't whine and complain about hardships.* You do whatever it take to overcome them, because that's life and actually the way a person grows.
I feel that the point of #1 is that you have a way to reliably release your emotional buildup on your terms. I'm really comfortable with this myself, and I only really cry if I feel emotion super intensely, and even then it's more just eye leakage. There are more ways to deal with emotions than crying, as I have learned through experience. Being a victim to your emotions building up and then exploding when it reaches max pressure is probably the opposite of 'allowing yourself to cry'. The key is that it's your choice.
Me: okay, I got this, I’m pretty mentally strong The first one: *allowing yourself to cry* Me: uhh, okay let’s just go to the next one The second one: *You don’t try to control anything* Me: Me: Me: I’m so weak omfg
Here you go guys: 1. You allow yourself to cry 2. You don’t try to control everything 3. You use your time wisely 4. You practice gratitude 5. You are kind to others 6. You’re open to new ideas 7. You learn from your mistakes 8. You spend money responsibly 9. You don’t lean on codependency 10. You continue to persist
I was bullied for 5 1/2 years for being American, then later on I finally accepted myself for being both English and American in life and that I don’t care of what people say about my race or anything. I’m 13 y/o and I’ve finally accepted myself to be happy of who I am 😌. When I was younger I wished countless of times that it was a mistake for me to be born and to be an American, but over the years I learned something that no one can’t force at all, acception. Whether you’re not accepted in something or not, others accept you more than you think. I’m mentally strong and I’m proud of who I am and where I am in life 😌
Always good to have confirmation we are strong ♥️ I believe most people are much stronger than we think. Life isn’t easy, but we find a way to navigate and thrive 🌙✨
1) You allow yourself to cry 2) You don’t try to control everything 3) You use your time wisely 4) You practice gratitude 5) You re kind to others 6) You are open to new ideas 7) You learn from your mistakes 8) You spend money responsibly 9) You don’t lean on codependency 10) You continue to persist You’re welcome ;)
1- I don't hold my tears, they just don't want to go out. 5- every single day i help the peaple around me, even when im in pain. 6- yeah new ideas are alway good. 8- i can survive one month with only 100$. 10- ALWAYS FILLED WITH DETERMINATION
For somebody who's dealt with depression since the age of 11, I learned a lot about being a strong minded person and learning to be confident with myself rather than being a constant toxic relationship with my own thoughts and actions. I'm still struggling to this day, but I learned to be grateful about what's around me and to continue helping myself rather than rely on others. It made me independent and self disciplined. I tried the advice Dear Evan Hansen gave me where you needed to ask for help and reach out, but inevitably I realized that nobody gives a crap about your problems and insecurities because they're dealing with their own inner demons, so I eventually ended up developing a fear of opening up to people, but the fear benefited a lot. Your advice on avoiding to be codependant on people is confirmation that I'm doing the right thing by picking myself off the ground rather than waiting for somebody. I'm more self confident thanks to helping myself rather than pushing myself into even deeper into depression. I compliment myself. I tell myself how proud I am for entering National Honor's Society, or for getting 13th place in Cross Country. It's not much because I'm terrible at so many things, but usually if it's better than what I usually do and I actually put commitment and tried, then I'll give myself a pat on my back. I'll say, "you did it. This may be your only accomplishment you'll ever get, but at least you got one. And that's what matters. You reached your limit, and maybe you can push it, but if not, then it's okay!" Negative aspect is that it made me uncompetitive. My teammates during cross country tell me to pass the person in front of me, but I mentally block them out because winning doesn't matter to me. As long as I do better than last time, then I'm content. And having supportive people helps a ton. My team mates are always cheering for me. They're never disappointed, and congratulate me for doing my best. It may have no been as good as other days, but they're proud of me for completing the course with my full potential without wavering, and they show it. I live for supportive people 👌 But I don't rely on it too much because there will be times where I'm on my own, such as a track meet because rip, I'm not good enough for relay, but if I beat my time then I'm celebrating on my own at the end of the day, because for some reason everybody in track favors A team so B team kind of gets pushed to the back, ignored by the coach and everyone else, so we normally support each other or stick to ourselves. But track is fun! You make a lot of acquaintances, even if they don't support you because you're terrible at running :')
I've described myself weak in front of others many times, physically and mentally I cried in front of others many times, I've always tried to be kind to everyone, I've always paid attention on my money and other stuff Now I know that these actions aren't a sign of weakness, now I know I'm strong This gives me a reason to keep going, thank you a lot
“Hard times create strong men. Strong men create good times. Good times create weak men. And, weak men create hard times.” What are your thoughts on this quote?
Seems stupid and pointless. A weak man in a good time is doing nothing except adapting to circumstance. Nothing to do with weakness, he is simply existing in the way he should be. Similarly, a strong man in a hard time is just doing the same as everybody else - continuing forward, it takes no extra effort to do what is required or what you must.
Life Progress - a community for introverts it simply means when real issues come up we lose sight of insignificant ones.adversity simply kills of the weak,leaving the strong behind.hence it appears as though men are stronger but in reality it is just that there are fewer.
So do I. I had seven out of the 10 signs, but one of the ones I didn't have was allowing myself to cry. I just can't usually, even when something hard is happening. I'm working on it too, we are in this together ♥️
I am still in between two opposite mindsets, healing from the toxic one and dwelling more and more in the healthy one. I've never been toxic to others, more likely to myself, and it's easy to fall back, but consistency is key, as my best friend always says. While I am used to be the supportive one for as long as I can remember, she found me on the edge of critical breakdown, and thanks to her undying support, I stepped away from committing the worst. She still helps me on my way to improve and heal, and sometimes I feel like I'm not grateful enough to her. Like, I'm not showing it enough? I just don't know how to return the favor, she never seemed like she needed any help... So I try to prevent her from doing the same mistakes I did, to make sure she won't fall in the same traps than I did, thus never need as much help as I once needed. I don't know any other way to be a true friend, let alone the friend she deserves. Accepting help also IS a sign of mental strength. Not completely relying on it, but really accepting it.
Self-sufficiency is the best lesson to take from this and probably the best concept to teach our teenage girls and young women, thx for the great video❤️
Thank you for your words of encouragement and spreading your kindness :) Do you have any strategies you can share with everyone on how to get through tough experiences?
I always thought crying is my biggest weakness cus I cry on everything! even on the slightest trigger 😭 this just made me feel better about being a sensitive person cus honestly people like me are made fun of for being too sentimental but what it's not our fault that we are sensible to the things around us. Thanks for this video 💓
@Damani Campbell reading this comment, I wouldn't even blame u if you can't control your urge to poop cus apparantly according to u humans r suppose to be in control of every sensation n emotion. Okay got it.
There is definitely a difference between being nice and being kind. This is how I determine between the two: When you’re nice, you tell people what they want to hear and go with the flow even when it is to the detriment of oneself and others. Being kind is looking out for the benefit of others and speaking truth mixed with love.
Omg, thank you for making this video. I needed this reminder as I'm facing a serious challenge in the workplace that is threatening. Sometimes it's easy to forget how far you've progressed.
@@Psych2go Very cautiously...I can't elaborate too much, but the gist of it is workplace politics manipulated by a narcissist who is borrowing power from higher authority to abuse people lower than him and commit harassment too. It's been incredibly stressful and I'm managing as best as I can, keeping myself safe while advising others.
My mom is the strongest person ever, she’s working on a Masters degree, raising two kids, worrying about her eldest Who is moved out and having a hard time, and working full-time! So yeah my mom is amazing 💙
I'm 24 now, from my mid teens to only a couple of years ago, I was in a heavy depression. There were more than a couple of factors that allowed me to break out of it, but learning to cry and using that to vent my stress and negativity was one of the biggest reasons how I'm able to deal with life when I need to. Crying is seriously misunderstood in how useful it actually is to the body and mind's health.
When I'm trying to relax, I sweep out my social media outlets. My Facebook is very toxic right now, so when I'm tired, I avoid it. I just watch some light videos like these. I had minor depression last time, but I'm recovering. Good things take time
Tqsm for this, i remember seeing a similar video a few years back when I wasn't strong at all. I would always blame my life and myself for how I've become but I did promised myself that I would change for the better. Looking back to my past, I think I've become pretty strong mentally now and I feel happier in general
@@Psych2go well I keep a commonplace book which helped me a lot in expressing myself when I'm down since I couldn't tell anyone about how I was feeling (prolly won't bother) Setting small goals to motivate me is also pretty helpful. It allow me to change for the better just so I can reward myself if I see improvements in my behavior (like judging people constantly) Most importantly, its ur own determination to actually want to change. I've seen people who keep saying how they hate their current self and wanted to change but never put it into action. Learning to love yourself is a great way to start growing in a healthy and stronger way :)
Psych2Go no i spent it on cookies,raw cookies,Hot Cheetos,cheesecake, and cereal XD (I forgot what cereal it was) how much dollars u wasted? 25$ with my total money 30$ AAAAAAAAAA IM FAT OKAY 😂😂😂
i literally had the opposite issue i had money to buy myself junk food but never let myself spend it on anything fun i managed to save 40 quid within a month by skipping school meals and running erans for mates which as a teen impressed me :D so now i'm tryna learn to let loose a bit with my cash still don't get how people can impulse buy stuff.... but i was raised asain ... so ye that's probably why lol
Wow! I didn’t realize I was mentally strong. I have every single quality mentioned in the video! I’m proud of myself because a year ago I had terrible anxiety, depression and I was on the verge of being suicidal.
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Comment the name of someone who inspires you to be mentally stronger below, and send this video to them.
Psych2Go my girlfriend, Catalina, the strongest person I’ve ever met💞
Ok, you got me.
My father and my brother!!!
My boyfriend, Ryan.
Update:
Nevermind its over.
Pauline
*Tough TIMES don't last forever - tough PEOPLE do*
Well said!
Nope they die
Gacha Playz Well said!
nothing lasts forever, dud
As long as you've got hope, you'll find your way
There's power in the thoughts that you think, there's power in the words you say🎼
I always allow myself to cry and be emotional
When I’m alone.
same here.
I can relate. I have to be alone. There's almost nobody (human friend) that I can "cry to" that is, that they would let me "cry on their shoulder" (so to speak). I "cried to" one about 4 or so years ago, then I found out this person was uncomfortable because my voice is different when I'm "emotional". So after that, I didn't bother "crying to" the person anymore. It hurt really badly, because I considered the person one of my close friends; and now it doesn't seem that way. The worse part is the distance that I feel emotionally now when before I felt we were close friends. Now I don't go to him with my problems like I did once in a while before I found that out. (sorry if I'm not expressing myself well enough on here - I know there's something wrong I just don't know what it is - either a brain problem or apasia or something else).
That's OK though.
@@cyphrinfinity9992 ur expression is good, dont worry :)
choker kajol SAMEEE
Me: I think I'm mentally strong
Video: im about to end this whole man's career
Gold
Well. You her some inspiration from the video. ;)
Same xD
Yes
Yup definitely me
#1: "You allow yourself to cry."
I must be the strongest person in the world.
Oh that's a joke...ok HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
why do you people just make fun of videos that seem entertaining for other people..you guys just ruin the entertainment for others smh I'm saying this with no offense...
You're not the only one cursed with knowledge....
Btw to cry is the sign of weakness ..don't believe everything you heard in the internet.
@@PinkFloydsfan nope it means you are emotionally strong and also mature . also bold to let people see you cry. There is nothing wrong in crying when you are in mess.
Crying is good.
I'm going to show this to my friend to show her that's she's strong af😁😁😁
you're a good friend :')
Aw that's really sweet 😊
What a beautiful soul
Soo cute
That's great
1) you allow yourself to cry
2) you dont try to control everything
3) you use your time wisely
4) you practice gratitude
5) you are kind to others
6) you are open to new ideas
7) you learn from your mistakes
8) you spend money responsibly
9) you don’t lean on codependency
10) you continue to persist
Thanks for the time saver
@@maggieraynack451 what does "being mentally strong" mean to you? Im just curious about your point of view im not here to judge dont worry. I was actually very surprised by the fact that crying could be a sign of strengh so i want to know what other people think!
Thank you! I agree that those who are not afraid to do what is right no matter what are indeed very strong
But i think this video is more about those who are strong in other situations like those who have to deal with an illness or a difficult situation (which can be as you said doing the right thing despite how hard it may be)
For example my mother had cancer and the nurses told my father that she was very strong so idk exactly what made them say that but it shows that being mentally strong can have other meanings so what do you think about those?
@@maggieraynack451 also what do you mean when you say "their flaws help them growing"? Do you mean that they learn to correct them or do they learn to accept them?
I'm on my way to greatness!
A creeper blew up my house so i patiently rebuilt it back
_i'm mentally strong_
Why do red blood cell is playing munecraft?
*teach me your ways*
LMAO
I probably need to go hospital, I see blood on my screen all the time.
Blodcill ploys moncap
I do cry a lot at night when I'm alone...then after that I feel a lot better! 😊
Same, fo some reason I’m not comfortable crying In front of my family members, but I’m comfortable crying with my friends weird
Same :)
I cant get myself to cry wven when it’s 4am. Only for books tho
@@bluefilmsbt6094 same
Olaedo Aguocha so glad I’m not alone
mentally weak people:
is this some kind of personal attack or something
Sai Aravind i read that in brie larson’s voice
ME
Brie Larson has entered the chat.
@@frannyfaderlake same😂
@@abusalehahmedroop2138 lol, this is great
I've got so proud while watching this video, because I find myself doing all of these things - 7 years ago almost all these signs were the complete opposite to what I did, how I felt towards myself or others and so on
This just tells me how mentally strong I've grown and I choose to spread positivity everyday now and I see it in the people I attract.
7 years ago I was a depressed, way too thin, self-cutting 16y/o girl who wanted to end her life. Now, at the age of 23, I've grown to be a strong woman finding herself in all of the things said in this video.
If I can do it, you can, too.
DON'T GIVE UP.
Lots of love!
👐👐👐
This is inspirational 😢😔😌😊👏🏻👏🏻
I relate to a lot of what you just said. I never self cut, but I think I was doing stuff close to that by mistreating myself and allowing others to do so.
"If I did it, you can do it" is one of my mottos as well, big ups!
@@rituchhikara7688 I am out of the most toxic relationship I ever had since over a year, and it's still impacting my life. But I'm getting rid of this terrible mistake gradually. Soon I will be completely free.
You are so right.
Lady Blake ,.So amazing girl to hear from you!!
*My phone wasn't charging the whole time , im not mad..*
*_im mentally strong enough_*
🤣
Unrelated but hey stay ^-^
😂😂
I pretend to be positive for other people. Am I strong? Or lying?
I think balance would be key. We did a video on how to use vulnerability as a super power and why that is also a way of being strong too.
These questions on the daily ikr
Yes
@@Psych2go Such a DBT answer, not saying everyone is borderline by any means. Thanks for specific insights though!
Lying
Sign 1: I'm somehow still alive.
LOL 😂
YES 💙
@Tw1 hey wait up don't go
@Tw1 are you okay?
this one hurtttttt
This is how I live my life lol.
Seriously, people need to start putting these things into practice. Life is so much better this way.
How nice
The same for me and obviously completely agree with you
Yes, it takes a process of healing first, though. That's the hard part.
Life isn't that difficult... people make it difficult. Best advice i can give to people is: 1. don't take life so serious... just do what makes you happy and don't let anyone or anybody tell you what's good for you or what isn't. as an individual everything begins and ends with you, so don't waste your time on people who don't accept who you are and what you want/need. It's such a waste of time and energy.
2. Don't expect anything from anyone. When you live your life with expectations.. most of the time you'll be dissapointed.. when you try to let go of control, you will experience how beautiful life gets and how much more you will appreciate the efforts people make for/to you. Life is fucking amazing.. don't just look.. SEE.
@@michellover3yeah depression? Just be happy. Your depression will go away
1- You allow yourself to cry
Me: immediately starts crying
Exactly!!
Me: Feels proud about crying. 😎😎😎😎😎😤😤😤😤😤
Everyone told me that all of this made me weak... looks like I’ve always been strong.🙂
Jonah Medina
They lack these qualities so they deflect
Keep those people at a distance
I can relate. Although I have no proactivity whatsoever
RELATABLE
Well said..same here
*Video appears in my recommendations*
"Oh cool let's see how amazing I am"
*Video ends*
"I am weak"
And what's wrong with that?!
You can grow stronger if you try
@@elisabeth9951 Boy, oh boy i love it when i fall for that!
@@elisabeth9951 my God, there's a song that continues like that
@@fable_enthusiast :v what a coincidence, don't you think?
Me: * sees this video * Oh, i'm pretty sure i'm very mentally strong!
Also me after first sign: whoops *nevermind*
0:34
*nope! i'm weak!*
Damn I just commented something similar without realizing XD
I know I am mentally strong but I don't cry easily and sometimes an impulsive buyer.. So not all the 10 signs are true.😊
😂😔
Same here
Haha same but I'm still not going to cry
1. You allow yourself to cry
2. You don't try to control everything
3. You use your time wisely
4. You practice gratitude
5. You are kind to others
6. You are open to new ideas
7. You learn from your mistakes
8. You spend money responsibly
9. You don't lean on codependency
10. You continue to persist
I swear this is one of my most favorite youtube channel. I am an aspiring psychologist and this channel really helps me to understand things better ❤
PS :- I took notes for myself. 😊
"or maybe your trip got cancelled due to an emergency"
_ah yes, the coronavirus_
bionicflora prediction 100
I have videos like this. I would be glad if you look at my channel.
Well I’m proud to say I haven’t killed myself yet...
I’m so proud of you too.
Same 👏
Im sure everyone else is proud of you too because u strong as hecc bro
Praying for you my friend! Im proud of you too!
Same im still here
I’m strong wtf
The truth is that I wasn’t born like this , I’ve been through a lot of things and now I am who I am
Same
magie incroyable - gfx vfx thank you ^^
I have videos like this. I would be glad if you look at my channel.
@@onepiecegunceledogru7063 Stop advertising, go away
Yep I don't think anybody is born this way, it's the situations that make them stronger
I feel so strong for once 😊😊 this made my day 💖
Stay strong my friends,
Stay kind,
You’re valid,
You matter
7 out of 10. I know I'm pretty strong, I'm an empath and I have had a hard childhood. But I still thrive and go on! All of us have the potential to be mentally strong. We are all in this together! ♥️
I love to cry. It feels so good and cathartic and it’s a beautiful thing to be able to do. I’m grateful God gave me the ability to be grateful to cry and to feel and to have a broken heart yet release hate or resentment.
This comment 😍💯
dick itches
💯
Tears are a gift from God, they heal us as they flow 😉
Oracle ✨🐞🐾🎧🍕🎤
❤️❤️
Super flattered and humbled by you guys mentioning me, thanks so much! :>
Did they?
Yeah watch the ending right after #10!
Ya it's there.
What I just figured out about myself today:
I am both physically and mentally weak
Same and that's ok u need to learn and become alot stronger cuz I know u can u are getting stronger
samee
Same TwT
*I would like to join the cult-*
same here
I have been called weak for my entirety. This video just proves the way people stereotyped was actually wrong.
Same ♥️
Me: I think I’m mentally strong
*SEES NUMBER ONE*
Me: Forget what I said
I aM bOrEd same
I aM bOrEd same
Same lol
Literally me😂😅👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Same lol
I always thought that crying was a sign of weakness, but it seems and feel like not, and I am crying a lot lately.
Thanks for the video comrades
Yes, crying shows way more strength than holding it in and suffering, making everything get worse. Here for you my friend ♥️
@@maggieo1683 thank you mate, you are very kind
@@Lupo-Exulans Sending you love and hugs! 💞
*#1 sign of mental toughness - you don't whine and complain about hardships.*
You do whatever it take to overcome them, because that's life and actually the way a person grows.
True!! It can take certain good people a min to figure that out.
So... if I don’t talk about my problems, I’m strong?
y a y .
(This is a joke.)
@@thingsnstuff7526 ikr
@scrapped baby Agree, I think.
scrapped baby yes I know that, I’m not that dense.
me: I'm a weak person i guess
this video: NOW WAIT A MINUTE-
true :)
It's actually 5 minutes ;)
True
I feel that the point of #1 is that you have a way to reliably release your emotional buildup on your terms. I'm really comfortable with this myself, and I only really cry if I feel emotion super intensely, and even then it's more just eye leakage. There are more ways to deal with emotions than crying, as I have learned through experience. Being a victim to your emotions building up and then exploding when it reaches max pressure is probably the opposite of 'allowing yourself to cry'. The key is that it's your choice.
10/10 I’m a strong person☺️🙌🏾
Life has taught me a lot of lessons. The hardest part in life will be your biggest testimony🙌🏾
0:55 look at the brain...
*Mr. StArK I DoN"t FeEl So GoOd...*
@Dalton Greene I am sorry I couldn't help it.😂😂😂
XD
that made me smile thanks oof
im gonna cri
😭😢😢
Me: okay, I got this, I’m pretty mentally strong
The first one: *allowing yourself to cry*
Me: uhh, okay let’s just go to the next one
The second one: *You don’t try to control anything*
Me:
Me:
Me: I’m so weak omfg
Here you go guys:
1. You allow yourself to cry
2. You don’t try to control everything
3. You use your time wisely
4. You practice gratitude
5. You are kind to others
6. You’re open to new ideas
7. You learn from your mistakes
8. You spend money responsibly
9. You don’t lean on codependency
10. You continue to persist
Sorry but there's a similar person who commented that already 😂
Lmao
Thank you, kind sir.
I was bullied for 5 1/2 years for being American, then later on I finally accepted myself for being both English and American in life and that I don’t care of what people say about my race or anything. I’m 13 y/o and I’ve finally accepted myself to be happy of who I am 😌. When I was younger I wished countless of times that it was a mistake for me to be born and to be an American, but over the years I learned something that no one can’t force at all, acception. Whether you’re not accepted in something or not, others accept you more than you think.
I’m mentally strong and I’m proud of who I am and where I am in life 😌
Video: are you mentally strong?
Anxiety: *quietly laughs in corner*
I'm immune to minecraft cursed images , there's a sign that i'm mentally stronger than some people.
teach me your power.....
So am I. We are stronk
:3
Teach me your ways, master.
omegalul
That cracked me up. Also: the resurgence of Minecraft is surreal.
Always good to have confirmation we are strong ♥️ I believe most people are much stronger than we think. Life isn’t easy, but we find a way to navigate and thrive 🌙✨
Great mindset to have :) What are your strategies for navigating through life?
After all i've been through , i dont even need to watch this video to be sure
Do you mind sharing your highlights?
@@Psych2go Abusive parents, bully at school, financial problems, drug problems, no friends, depression.
@@gregstevon6078 dud r u sure 😖?
Greg Stevon I’m proud of you! Go you!! Whoop!!
@@gregstevon6078
> Drugs
That's your answer, stupid.
Try changing your looks, being emo makes people look at you as if you're a laughingstock.
1) You allow yourself to cry
2) You don’t try to control everything
3) You use your time wisely
4) You practice gratitude
5) You re kind to others
6) You are open to new ideas
7) You learn from your mistakes
8) You spend money responsibly
9) You don’t lean on codependency
10) You continue to persist
You’re welcome ;)
1- I don't hold my tears, they just don't want to go out. 5- every single day i help the peaple around me, even when im in pain. 6- yeah new ideas are alway good. 8- i can survive one month with only 100$. 10- ALWAYS FILLED WITH DETERMINATION
Really just looking for validation at this point
ditto
For somebody who's dealt with depression since the age of 11, I learned a lot about being a strong minded person and learning to be confident with myself rather than being a constant toxic relationship with my own thoughts and actions.
I'm still struggling to this day, but I learned to be grateful about what's around me and to continue helping myself rather than rely on others. It made me independent and self disciplined. I tried the advice Dear Evan Hansen gave me where you needed to ask for help and reach out, but inevitably I realized that nobody gives a crap about your problems and insecurities because they're dealing with their own inner demons, so I eventually ended up developing a fear of opening up to people, but the fear benefited a lot. Your advice on avoiding to be codependant on people is confirmation that I'm doing the right thing by picking myself off the ground rather than waiting for somebody.
I'm more self confident thanks to helping myself rather than pushing myself into even deeper into depression. I compliment myself. I tell myself how proud I am for entering National Honor's Society, or for getting 13th place in Cross Country. It's not much because I'm terrible at so many things, but usually if it's better than what I usually do and I actually put commitment and tried, then I'll give myself a pat on my back. I'll say, "you did it. This may be your only accomplishment you'll ever get, but at least you got one. And that's what matters. You reached your limit, and maybe you can push it, but if not, then it's okay!" Negative aspect is that it made me uncompetitive. My teammates during cross country tell me to pass the person in front of me, but I mentally block them out because winning doesn't matter to me. As long as I do better than last time, then I'm content. And having supportive people helps a ton. My team mates are always cheering for me. They're never disappointed, and congratulate me for doing my best. It may have no been as good as other days, but they're proud of me for completing the course with my full potential without wavering, and they show it. I live for supportive people 👌 But I don't rely on it too much because there will be times where I'm on my own, such as a track meet because rip, I'm not good enough for relay, but if I beat my time then I'm celebrating on my own at the end of the day, because for some reason everybody in track favors A team so B team kind of gets pushed to the back, ignored by the coach and everyone else, so we normally support each other or stick to ourselves. But track is fun! You make a lot of acquaintances, even if they don't support you because you're terrible at running :')
That is extremely cool. Amazing accomplishment very glad for you.
WOW I thought I was at least mentally strong turns out I'm pathetic in every way possible 👍
Fabulous legs same XD
Recognition lol, what you feel about it is actually up to you I discovered.
It was the opposite with me. I thought I am weak af or at least a little bit strong. Turns out I have 9 out of 10. Wtf?
Strength doesn't only apply to these. You are stronger than you realize. ♥️
I dislike this comment section so much. I feel like it reflects all my internal thoughts
being honest makes you mentally strong. pulling through ANXIETY makes me strong! but depression. 😞
I've described myself weak in front of others many times, physically and mentally
I cried in front of others many times, I've always tried to be kind to everyone, I've always paid attention on my money and other stuff
Now I know that these actions aren't a sign of weakness, now I know I'm strong
This gives me a reason to keep going, thank you a lot
“Hard times create strong men. Strong men create good times. Good times create weak men. And, weak men create hard times.” What are your thoughts on this quote?
My thoughts on it: seems like a cycle or what some would call "coming full circle". idk. Just thinking on your quote here.
Facts
It's a vicious cycle
Seems stupid and pointless. A weak man in a good time is doing nothing except adapting to circumstance. Nothing to do with weakness, he is simply existing in the way he should be.
Similarly, a strong man in a hard time is just doing the same as everybody else - continuing forward, it takes no extra effort to do what is required or what you must.
Life Progress - a community for introverts it simply means when real issues come up we lose sight of insignificant ones.adversity simply kills of the weak,leaving the strong behind.hence it appears as though men are stronger but in reality it is just that there are fewer.
"Use time wisely"
*already forgot the homework and the deadline is tomorrow*
About that... :')
woah same. I have a character analysis essay due tomorrow :'D
Do the homework then waste time
I wait till the last minute to get homework done
Ｉ
Oh yeah school...
Thank you❤️ this made my day. I need to work on crying part😇
You got this. Sometimes, music or journaling can help with that.
@@Psych2go thank you❤️❤️
This may work for you as it did for me.
ruclips.net/video/uxgJ_8AgQbo/видео.html
@@dwnkaomwn3953 thank you 😇
So do I. I had seven out of the 10 signs, but one of the ones I didn't have was allowing myself to cry. I just can't usually, even when something hard is happening. I'm working on it too, we are in this together ♥️
I am still in between two opposite mindsets, healing from the toxic one and dwelling more and more in the healthy one.
I've never been toxic to others, more likely to myself, and it's easy to fall back, but consistency is key, as my best friend always says.
While I am used to be the supportive one for as long as I can remember, she found me on the edge of critical breakdown, and thanks to her undying support, I stepped away from committing the worst.
She still helps me on my way to improve and heal, and sometimes I feel like I'm not grateful enough to her.
Like, I'm not showing it enough?
I just don't know how to return the favor, she never seemed like she needed any help...
So I try to prevent her from doing the same mistakes I did, to make sure she won't fall in the same traps than I did, thus never need as much help as I once needed.
I don't know any other way to be a true friend, let alone the friend she deserves.
Accepting help also IS a sign of mental strength. Not completely relying on it, but really accepting it.
Self-sufficiency is the best lesson to take from this and probably the best concept to teach our teenage girls and young women, thx for the great video❤️
Some times, i have all 10 signs. Most of a times, i have half of it and let myself being weak all day and night
This was one of the most relatable comments here lol
Video: "...catch up with your friend."
Me: Well yeah, when you have one to meet
7 billion people out there...there are many of your tribe just waiting for you to get out there and seek them as they are seeking you! :)
Tracy P i'm losing interest to find them cause some issues
I'll be your friend ♥️
M O Thanks😶 It's first time to hear someone ask me to be my friends
@@maryamsholihah2312 Aw, I'm so sorry about that. If I could give you a big hug I would... I'm giving you one in spirit ♥️
6/10 hmm
I need to work on 3, 7, 8, and 9, but other than that I feel like I'm better than most people at the others. I'll keep trying!
I think I have some of those, its amazing how we are all really similar in the end. Hugs to everyone, whatever you’re going thru, it will be better
Thank you for your words of encouragement and spreading your kindness :) Do you have any strategies you can share with everyone on how to get through tough experiences?
Thank you for this! You helped me feel better about myself, especially with #5.
I love your channel so much!!! I watch your vids everyday
11th sign : strong people don't need validation that they are strong from a video like this...(but the video was good)....
This video: what do you think of when we say strong
Me: ALL MIGHT
(Also 2:55 is a complete all might)
Yezzzz
YES
I do cry everytime I cannot control anything
9/10 signs. Thanks alot for letting me know that i have these qualities.
Improvise, Adapt, Overcome
Me: Yeah, I'm not mentally strong at all.
*Watches video*
Me: … Alright, I'm *somewhat* strong.
Yasssssss omg you should be so proud owo i believe in you
@@pooridge OwO Omg t'ank you!
@@Angel_Kittichik no problem. You should be proud of yourself too for everything
@Hope(less) I think I'm weak...and after watching this video...I'm still weak
Samee
When she said "the world is out to get you" I instantly thought about kiiara and Chester Bennington. And Linkin Park
Same🖤
I always thought crying is my biggest weakness cus I cry on everything! even on the slightest trigger 😭 this just made me feel better about being a sensitive person cus honestly people like me are made fun of for being too sentimental but what it's not our fault that we are sensible to the things around us. Thanks for this video 💓
@Damani Campbell reading this comment, I wouldn't even blame u if you can't control your urge to poop cus apparantly according to u humans r suppose to be in control of every sensation n emotion. Okay got it.
There is definitely a difference between being nice and being kind. This is how I determine between the two: When you’re nice, you tell people what they want to hear and go with the flow even when it is to the detriment of oneself and others.
Being kind is looking out for the benefit of others and speaking truth mixed with love.
"you allow yourself to cry" *remember that scene where Esidisi cries af when fighting with Joseph
“Look how far you’ve come”
Me: this is the worst I’ve ever been
this video made me realize that im actually stronger than i think i am!
Yes!!! Just what I needed.
Haven't cried for like 5 years, I'm angry all the time deep inside with a smiling face outside
U should cry let the sadness come out dude u will feel better
Very Bad for ur Mental health.
Allow urself to cry.
Let people go to hell. Live ur life the way U want to live.
It's Ur life.
All 10 are me 😉💪🏽
Came a long way to get to this point, and still growing.
Even though I splurge on Sephora every now and then lol
@magie incroyable - gfx vfx aww. So supportive
Great! Ikwym with the splurge 😉
Me: pfft, I am so mentally strong
Video: number 1, you allow yourself to cry.
Me: ....
Me: Nevermind
“You use your time wisely” uh oh...
Omg, thank you for making this video. I needed this reminder as I'm facing a serious challenge in the workplace that is threatening. Sometimes it's easy to forget how far you've progressed.
We're glad you liked it :) And yes, don't forget to celebrate he little successes along the way! How are you coping with your challenge?
@@Psych2go Very cautiously...I can't elaborate too much, but the gist of it is workplace politics manipulated by a narcissist who is borrowing power from higher authority to abuse people lower than him and commit harassment too. It's been incredibly stressful and I'm managing as best as I can, keeping myself safe while advising others.
I am kind to others but most of them aren't😢😢😢
Such a cruel world!
I am kind to others, but I can be too shy to show my kindness to the people I'm not close with...
I can make stones float with my willpower. Does that count?
When you're early and have nothing to say: ಠ_ಠ
Oh wait I said something😅
I like that a lot, very relateable.
A good one would have been “not clicking on this video”
My mom is the strongest person ever, she’s working on a Masters degree, raising two kids, worrying about her eldest Who is moved out and having a hard time, and working full-time! So yeah my mom is amazing 💙
I'm 24 now, from my mid teens to only a couple of years ago, I was in a heavy depression. There were more than a couple of factors that allowed me to break out of it, but learning to cry and using that to vent my stress and negativity was one of the biggest reasons how I'm able to deal with life when I need to. Crying is seriously misunderstood in how useful it actually is to the body and mind's health.
“Strong can seem intimidating”
Me: *Laughs in strong*
me: bipolar and anorexic
this video: u mentally strong
Sending love
@@ΙωανναΜ-ω4ο thank you😘 hoping you're doing well
So not crying is weakness. Thanks for making me feel bad.
Not necessarily, it just means that you are opened to your real emotions and letting that out in a way that's possibly healthy.
@@Psych2go I don't like crying. I don't like seeing ny face.
When I'm trying to relax, I sweep out my social media outlets. My Facebook is very toxic right now, so when I'm tired, I avoid it. I just watch some light videos like these. I had minor depression last time, but I'm recovering. Good things take time
Tqsm for this, i remember seeing a similar video a few years back when I wasn't strong at all. I would always blame my life and myself for how I've become but I did promised myself that I would change for the better.
Looking back to my past, I think I've become pretty strong mentally now and I feel happier in general
That's so great to hear! What did you do that helped changed your mindset?
@@Psych2go well I keep a commonplace book which helped me a lot in expressing myself when I'm down since I couldn't tell anyone about how I was feeling (prolly won't bother)
Setting small goals to motivate me is also pretty helpful. It allow me to change for the better just so I can reward myself if I see improvements in my behavior (like judging people constantly)
Most importantly, its ur own determination to actually want to change. I've seen people who keep saying how they hate their current self and wanted to change but never put it into action. Learning to love yourself is a great way to start growing in a healthy and stronger way :)
I have none of these but my friends keep telling me their problems
I think whether we are strong or not, we ourselves know
Absolutely the truth.
When somebody asks why you’re broke
Me: ._. I spent it on junk food 😂
On donuts?
Psych2Go no i spent it on cookies,raw cookies,Hot Cheetos,cheesecake, and cereal XD (I forgot what cereal it was) how much dollars u wasted? 25$ with my total money 30$ AAAAAAAAAA IM FAT OKAY 😂😂😂
i literally had the opposite issue
i had money to buy myself junk food but never let myself spend it on anything fun
i managed to save 40 quid within a month by skipping school meals and running erans for mates
which as a teen impressed me :D
so now i'm tryna learn to let loose a bit with my cash
still don't get how people can impulse buy stuff.... but i was raised asain ... so ye that's probably why lol
Mental strength is a combination of conviction and experience.
Knowing yourself and your limits is the key to become mentally strong imo
As an introvert, i had most of them
Me: I think I'm mentally strong
The video: You allow yourself to cry
Me: u know what, nvm
I defeated depression. So i believe i am mentally strong.
Congrats
@@jassonms2224 Thank you.
@@livex38 Yes, thank you sir :)
"throws dopamine
OMG I M ALLL OF THEM.
THANK YOU SO MUCH I FEEL SO BETTER TODAY
💓💖💓💖💓💖💓💖💓💖💓💖
Wow! I didn’t realize I was mentally strong. I have every single quality mentioned in the video! I’m proud of myself because a year ago I had terrible anxiety, depression and I was on the verge of being suicidal.
We're so proud of you too! :D What did you do to overcome your struggle?