This is a bit off topic, but sonce a lot of teens come here, I want to take 5 minutes of your time to warn you about online dangers. Never share a naked photo of yourself online. Be aware that there are many sick adults online who flock to places kids and teens are online. If an adult is trying to contact you online be aware that many of these predators will hide their true intentions and want to be your friend and eventually go sexual with the interactions. Please tell an adult. I realize that telling them might seem scary. Tell them that you were not seeking this, that it's wrong and you want it to stop. If you are a minor online, it isn't a matter of if an adult will contact you inappropriately, but when. Don't post pictures of your school or your house or yourself or anything that can identity where you are beyond a city you live in. Be incredibly cautious about ever letting someone online take you from one app, say IG to another like Telegram. In fact, don't ever download apps like Telegram, it is a hellhole of CSAM. Any adult who follows a bunch of kids accounts on social media is a big red flag. Please be careful. ❤
“ Kids there’s nothing more cool than being hugged by someone you like but if someone tries to touch you in a place or in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable THATS NO GOOD! It’s your body, no one has the right to touch you if you don’t want them to. So what do you do? Fist you say NO! Then you get outta there. Most important you gotta tell someone you trust like your parent, a teacher, a police officer.” - Sonic the Hedgehog
was not expecting the title to be like that Edit: I missed a bullet my mom was sitting right there monitoring me like a hawk she just left and this popped up, !!GODS GRACE!!
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I feel extremely lucky to have been raised WITHOUT masturbation being "taboo". I was taught that it's a natural, yet private thing that EVERYONE does. And I'm "old" (62). We raised our kids the same way. No VALID reason to freak out people engaging in a NATURAL behavior! "Wanking it" is one of the FEW pleasures that we are granted for FREE along with sunrises, sunsets and the smell of grass after the rain. Don't Worry..Be Happy!
I'm grateful for this channel discussing this kind of thing so openly. I have a lot of issues with physical intimacy with others. I know my self-confidence plays a part, I dislike my body, etc, and I have major trust issues, too. Naturally, I have no issues with masturbation, and I definitely use it to cope a lot. I have anxiety and severe depression, so when I'm overwhelmed, it's my go-to. Not to say it's my only coping mechanism, but it's one of the most effective. Also, as someone who is on antidepressants, they can kill your sex drive. I changed medication a few years back, and it all came flying back xD. My body overall has definitely felt better since. More energy, less mood swings, etc. I've steadily gotten better at doing it solo, too, and realized how important it is to know your body and have a positive association with such intimacy. But, I'd like to ask about my reluctance towards physical intimacy with others... It's a very strong negative reaction, I get anxious, I want to move away from the person, and there have been times when my skin even gets agitated. Red and inflamed, like a rash. I know I should probably go to therapy for this, and trust me, I will when I can find another therapist, but I'd like some opinions/advice, please? P.S. I hope everyone is doing well!
People who are depressed often see themselves as worthless and pick themselves apart, suffer repeating, invasive negative thoughts. You have to realize that you are lovable, that you deserve love and to be respected. ❤ At the same time, be aware that it can be hard to be a partner with someone who suffers from severe depression. My gf suffers from it. So I know first hand. Are you pushing people away from yourself because you want to reject them before they reject you? Admitting to yourself that your depression distorts your perception of reality and that includes your body is a hard process, but try to keep reminding yourself that when you are deeply depressed that things are not as bad as they seem. 🤗🤗
Definitely believe depression plays a big role but I truly hope things get better friend and hope you are well that professional help definitely believe it will help
I’ve dealt with this before. There was a guy I used to “date” and even though I liked him a lot I simply couldn’t stand being physically close. Meeting him was hell. It was so frustrating for both of us, specially since I DID want to be intimate, but was terrified. After a lot of talk with my therapist, I realized what I was afraid of was the relationship itself. I was scared of getting attached. Well, turns out the hole is waay deeper than it seemed at first, but I’m finally starting to understand my feelings and learn how to deal with them. So my advice would be trying to think about what makes you scared, it could be a fear of intimacy or overall anxiety, I don’t know. Try making yourself questions like: “what kind of thoughts go through my head when someone gets close to me?”, “what part of it is scary?”, “are there other similar situations that trigger them?”.ll, stuff like that. It really feels like you’re digging into your mind. Well, obviously there may be more than one reason for you to be scared and you’ll need help to deal with it all, but that kind of thought process can help you begin understanding it better. Hope this helps!
Also, get well soon! Depression and anxiety sure are tough, but it gets better. I actually dealt with this problem while going through a harsh anxiety episode myself and the overall treatment already helped. Anyway, wish the best, man!
So I will tell you a trick to started loving your body Stand before your mirror If possible, full size mirror And see your body. Naked. Observe each part Do this everyday for atleast 5 minutes This helped me gain confidence in my body
As a straight woman. I’ve been doing it most of my life, even when i was in relationships and i don’t see myself stopping anytime soon either. it helps me sleep and when i get bored
Both are bad. 🌽 Messes with your brain/thoughts/the way you see love. M__urbation messes with your mood, isolates you, leaves you with no energy or motivation.
I was brought up with the belief that masturbating was really bad and dirty and its something men did... women dont. So for a long time i felt gross about myself and tbh it was until i was in my late teens early 20s that other female friends of mine told me they felt the same way but it is indeed normal. Now im in my 30s my advise to anyone would be... how do you know what you like if you dont find out for yourself. Its your body and what you do to it is no one elses buisness but your own xxx
I just recently started to do that... I felt so disgusted to myself. Felt guilty and i was slowly starting to hate myself so much until this video popped up. Thank you. Edit: Dont worry i dont really want to do it anymore.
Just don't become addicted to it and porn. Please be careful with pornography, there are a lot of harmful paths that can lead you down. Don't send anyone naked pictures of yourself. ❤
I masturbate a lot. I'm not shy of admitting this. 😊 I was ashamed of this at first, but after learning more about it and sexuality in general, it actually led to sexuality becoming my favorite health subject. ❤️
As long as you don't develop content addiction, then it can be healthy. In guys it reduces prostate cancer risks since the gland is being exercised. I always figured this was normal because if you don't do anything for a while, you end up getting them in your sleep. Like the body going "fine, I'll do it myself" lol
@happilyevernever4289 Masturbation isn't a one gender focused. However, I was just lifting the spirit of my kind in a manner where we guys can understand. Why the emoji tho? did my comment hurt your ego?
Update over my mentality : I am starting to get more calm. I just want that Siamese Cat on the road, It's... It's cute. I love cats much more now. Even more than my crush. I had a very good dream about McDonald's with my cousin. I ordered a Big Mac and a bottle of Prime in that dream. I am now a little less sexist. My suicidal dreams are over. I still didn't stop questioning myself negativity but I will stop eventually.
So during the pandemic whacking off help cope with anxiety and stress? So that's why all the toilet paper and paper towel was bought left and right from all these stores 😂🤣🤣🤣😂
I lost a lot of phisical desire when I started HRT and that is a positive for me, going from every night to maybe twice a month is significantly more enjoyable. Especially since estrogen has made the process take significantly longer. Everyone is different, don't be ashamed but do what works for you.
Timestamps 1). The dark side of pleasure 0:49 2). A sexual strategy 1:35 3). Worlds apart 2:24 4). Single and ready to mingle 3:18 5). Finding relief in crisis 4:13 6). The toolbox 5:04 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
I tried doing it because everyone I knew tried it and say it was cool. Well, I hated it, every time I was doing it I felt disgusted and guilty. I obviously left this kind of "activity" of course someone can do this things, I don't judge, this is just my personal opinion. I'm always a open mind, even about seggs, I respect everyone activities, don't forget that it's ok if you do m@turation and it's ok if you *don't.* Thank you to read my comment, and sorry for my bad English I try my best every day. Take care!
Masturbation is great. Sex is disgusting. I don't want to have to coordinate my body with someone else and then also hope to enjoy that person's company. Breeders are weird. They literally have no personality besides mating and the fact they mated
I want to mention that Hypoactive Sexual Desire has got nothing to do with Sexual Attraction unlike what is shown in one of the images in the video. Asexuality is having little to no sexual attraction towards any gender. It is an orientation and is completely normal. Besides this, I would like to suggest that you include masturbation in case of asexuals also. As there are asexuals who masturbate as they have libido but it is not associated with sexual interest towards any gender. I would like to see a video on masturbation and asexuality as it is still a less understood topic. Can you please make a video on it 🙏
Look into avoidance, or dismissive-avoidant attachment style. Another is fearful-avoidant. That's what resolved asexuality for me. It wasn't a gender orientation (and I WAS aromantic asexual, very much so). It was shame around the need for a member of the opposite sex in order to have intimacy, due to childhood trauma. Once I resolved my childhood trauma around an opposite-sex ab*sive parent, it lifted my asexuality. And I'm not the only one who had that experience. In other words, what was happening was that I WAS seeing men and being attracted to them, but I shoved it out of my consciousness and into my subconscious until, when I was alone, I'd get randomly sexually aroused with no apparent stimulus causing that. It ended when I started to get real with myself. Why am I calling myself asexual? Why is sexual shame-based? etc.
@georockstar09 That's not the case with everyone. It is a sexual orientation and not something to be "resolved" for a lot of people.This is not for starting a debate. However, be it's better if we open our mind to the fact we could be experiencing similar things for different reasons. Asexuality has got nothing to do with shame or trauma. Arousal can occur due to inherent libido (present due to hormones) but for asexuals it is not oriented towards any gender.
@@Perpetually_curious0511 You can say that's not the case with everyone, of course it isn't, but it is always a huge possibility, and it needs to be mentioned. What is asexuality? What causes asexuality? are questions that need to always be explored, and it always needs to be questioned and re-evaluated, whether within ourselves or in discussion with others, and taken with a huge grain of salt. And you can't say it has "nothing" to do with trauma as I JUST said it did in my case. Have an open mind?
@@georockstar09Then what do you suggest is the cause of homosexuality? As for your case, I wasn't disagreeing with your experience with lack of interest in sex or your reason for identifying as anything. I was talking about your assumption of 'high possibility' that asexuality has to do with shame and trauma, rather than someone's natural orientation like straight,gay,bi etc. which are all part of human sexuality spectrum.
@@Perpetually_curious0511 Edit: Never been gay so it's none of my business. I used to be borderline trans (female to male) and in my case it was due to bullying at school and at home (to make myself feel tough). It is certainly nuanced but it's also a taboo topic. And there is nothing wrong with saying "high probability". Probability is not 100% certainty this THIS IS ABSOLUTELY IT. I never said that. Heck if that's not what's going on for you then that's not what's going on for you. I was just presenting you with a possibility in case it helped. It was the case for me and several other people and I regretted "waking up" to reality quite a bit late in life.
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Thank you so much for this video. I recently learned and have been doing this, and have been greatly ashamed, guilty, and hateful on myself about it. But now thankfully I understand it's somewhat ok.
Humanity has been programmed to be of closed off energy when being of open energy is natural being the energy of love which is our natural state of being.
@@Renita96 We live from 95% from our subconscious and most peoples subconscious is deeply programmed by fear, wounding, trauma and lies which equals closed off energy. Then because of this they believe in these illusions to be true and think its who they are. No, they are not authentic they are far from being authentic. Its a subconscious mask not their true whole self past the programming. They are the programming.
@@Renita96 do not tell me what to do. I am a man of righteousness. I'm a spiritual leader for earths Ascension connected with spirit. You need to grow, which is so obvious.
@@Renita96 it's the truth and because you are like most you live from ego consciousness not heart consciousness. I'm here to teach truth about who we really are.
I have become more ok with masturbation as a natural/neutral thing that can be done without any inherent shame attached to it. Like anything it can take up time that should be spent on other things, but aside from that nothing inherently wrong. It has improved my self image and other aspects of my mental health. Ironically it positively affects my relationship with porn because instead of being an activity to numb out thoughts and other feelings(If it's wrong then I don't want to think about it, because I have to do it anyway), it becomes a way to explore my thoughts and interests more. And it makes me view others more positively since if they are having this experience as well then there is no way the false beliefs my anxiety is painting them with are true. If they masturbate regularly too then they have to be at least fairly content with life because they are getting the happy chemicals in a safe way.
I have made it a resolution to cut back on the practice, and have noticed a big improvement in my life. If it weren't for the holidays, i would have asked a girl out by now.
considering I am ugly, it is usually my only form of sexual activity (brothels and the like being a bit pricey for regular use). That said never understood the sleepiness aspect since I have never felt an urge to sleep afterwards from masturbation or sex
I feel sad . I did it I feel more sad . Next day i do it again still feel sad . I stop for three day happiness go up than crash . And i did it 5 than cry it's pain full . It's so pain full for next 3 day's . Peeing hurt .
Yeah to number 1, i feel both depression and disgust cause it makes me feel like I'll never be in a relationship or think "who'd ever want me?" ...after that post nut clarity kicks in then I'm off resuming planned activities
As far as I'm concerned, masturbation is a completely natural,normal and healthy thing for a human to do. I've never felt guilty, or badly about myself for doing it, and why should I, or anyone else for that matter? In my experience, it's hardly been addictive or habit forming, it's a fantastic way of relieving stress, and I always have a great sleep afterwards.
Lmaoooo. I thought it was a dude thing but it actually goes both ways, I wasn't disgusted when I started, it's a natural thing. An "itch" you have to take care of. I just do it private (obviously) get it done and over with. A lot of Christians paint it in a bad light however it's not bad at all. Masturbation is a natural hormone thing, it's part of us. It helps actually and so long as you don't do it too much your fine, I am Torah Observant (Following the Ten Commandments) and I was taught it's a 100% normal thing, just don't do it too much or you'll regret it (can cause nerve damage). He'll I didn't know this buuut ladies can have the urge on their cycle. Happened to me a couple of times, worried me a little but it's normal. Just be glad your hormones still work! They are an important factor for your body.
The fact that masturbation is actually used to reduce stress helped me a lot, thank you for sharing this fact I used to think that "I can't have pleasure and masturbate because my life is tough now, I can't enjoy myself because I'm going through hard times" So the fact that masturbation can be used as a coping thing made me feel so much relief
I can't keep watching this. The more I do this the quicker it leads to depression and hopelessness. I start out aroused and in the mood and it pretty much instantly changes to "you're single and nobody loves you or can stand being around you" and whatever firmness I had is gone. Repeated thoughts of what girls have said to me, in regards to sex or otherwise, and how they wouldn't choose me if I was the last man on earth or that I must abuse women because I can't let go of feelings, all circulate in my head and won't leave. There is intense shame even when I'm the only one who knows, partly because of morals yes, but mostly because any time I have any sexual or even romantic feeling towards someone it gets shut down in the rudest of manners. It makes me feel like less than dirt. "Be confident" they say as if trying hundreds or thousands of times despite feeling worthless isn't confidence. As if there are any women who would give me a chance to at least get to know me before refusing to go anywhere near the subject of liking them (even before anything sexual). They classify it as my fault that women reject me and that I'm obviously not doing enough even though I'm still trying when I've wanted to give up so badly. No they don't owe me anything. I don't want to force them into anything. All I want is for someone to accept me as is, of their own volition, without having to beg and plead. Guys can be horrible people too and I'm not denying that. I am one. But the sweetest girls you'll ever meet can be some of the meanest people you'll ever have the "pleasure" of getting to know. They refuse to feel bad because they think it's one and the same as accepting us as a partner. You can get along as soulmates platonically, but they expose themselves when they don't give a shit about how you feel when they say no.
Sorry to read you had to experience painful rejection in the rudest of manners. Yet, consider this: How people treat you isn’t a reflection of you but more a reflection of themselves. If you want to become more attractive and magnetic to others, rather focus on your passions than on women; work on yourself mentally, physically and spiritually, engage in the arts or something to express yourself with and to find in contact with others- whatever it may be. Then the right people will come. And while it’s true that we all deserve love, we must make sure that we can find ourselves worthy for it to enter our lives by setting up the stage. 🍀
What was wholesome to hear... but I want to ask if you cna make a video about Bi sexuality, from where it came from and how big impact it makes on people. It is a serious and kinda complicated topic co I wanna hear your perspective about it.
I Always found masturbation quite disgusting cause i think i'm already happy with everything in my Life, and for me there's no reason to do that, so... When i'm alone in my room... I'm Just playing videogames or something! ✌️
Hey. So, you gave a lot of information on how porn damages the mental health of people who consume it. But what of the people who make it? I haven't met many nsfw artists, but to me they seemed all relatively healthy in that regard. What negative effects can making erotic artwork or simply content have on the psyche?
As a former creator and someone who engaged in reckless sexual behavior frequently, I thought I was a sex addict. I thought that I loved having sex all the time but the problem was that I was constantly chasing that high of giving men what I knew they craved and that gave me a deep sense of validation. I felt wanted and needed and I felt special. I would go out of my way to do things that men wanted even if I wasn't interested in doing them because I wanted to leave a mark on that person. I wanted to feel a sense of superiority and even though I had plenty of other redeeming qualities, I knew that a man would never look at me the same way he looked at me during sex. I could sing, I could show him I'm a good person, I could laugh, I could show him I'm intelligent, but in my head I thought "plenty of other girls do these things so he won't see me as special... but the amount of girls that will fulfill his fantasies? That's much harder to find, and I'll make sure I'm giving 110% so it makes me even more valuable." It was very toxic and led to a never ending cycle of people pleasing tendencies. I felt like I wasn't worth anything to a man unless I was taking my clothes off...
I've been on youtube a very long time as I'm sure many of you have. I've watched this channel before, as I'm sure many of you have. Have any of you ever noticed the views counter rolling up? I have not, not a single time. Until I was watching this video lol. What does this say? It rolled up 3 times while I was watching.
A significant reason, though not the main reason, that I frequently masturbate is because I have a severe dislike of having wet dreams. I think that I've only had two or three so far in my life because I madturbate enough that it doesn't happen. I'd be interested in hearing thoughts on this matter since it seems to be a rare reason for doing it. Thank you.
Honestly guys…don’t masturbate, especially not as a source of relief or “pleasure”. It’s not worth it, and eventually desensitizes your mind to various forms of stimuli. Worse is that it can bring you to a point of hyper sexualizing everything, even to the point of dehumanizing yourself and other people. That “deeply ingrained knowing” that it is wrong is your conscience telling you that it is, because the reality is that it is wrong. We shouldn’t be trying to condone this, but rather trying to explore alternatives that are healthier for both your psyche and heart. The most damaging part of this is that people use masturbation as a coping strategy, where if porn is involved(and it usually is), can easily lead to varying forms of addiction, specifically porn addiction. Not here to condemn anyone struggling with masturbation or porn addiction, but i am speaking from experience. It is way unhealthy, way more than this video is portraying it to be.
Well, if you have a solution to resolving sexual arousal, I'm all ears. Been searching for 20 years almost. Masturbation was the only fix to release the arousal (and no, I wasn't looking at boys, I was doing math problems). And no, I don't do p*rn, never did and never will. So at a certain point, back off?
Moderation is key in everything. Personally, I've been forever single, and wouldn't be surprised if I will always be. So should I abstain myself from any sexual pleasure a human being can experience in their life? I've only got this one life and my one body. Any force of the universe be damned if I can't so much as make myself feel good, since there never was a compatible partner for me.
Lol, you literally brought no sources to back up any of your claims. Being addictive to beating off is bad, but beating your 🥩 without Por--n isn't bad.
When a person watches porn, they may be primarily focused on lusting after the actor or actress in a particular photo or video. The viewer often concentrates on physical appearance and masturbates to satisfy their sexual fantasies. There is typically no emotional connection with the actor or actress in porn. In contrast, real sex is more fulfilling because it involves emotional connection, trust, and empathy. It’s essential to remember that porn is scripted, edited, and shot in different lighting conditions, resulting in unrealistic portrayals of sex. People who masturbate while watching porn should understand this distinction.
@@Rafsanul_Haq_96 I had trouble accepting that fact when I was younger for a short period of time. Even though I know the difference now, I'm still hella scared of being that physically intimate with people from time to time.
@@diamond_zone You are not alone here. Remember that everyone faces some life challenges. Use these challenges as opportunities to grow rather than failures. And avoid self judgement. To avoid self judgement, reflect on your values and beliefs, not on your actions. Your values and beliefs define who you are as a person. The fact that you are admitting your problems, reflects your honesty. It shows that you value honesty and honesty is one of your values and beliefs.
@@Rafsanul_Haq_96 Thanks, that advice more resonates with me in a more general sense than anything else. I have been more accepting about my sexuality and all that, especially since I'm in my mid 20's now and more mature about it. The fear is currently more of a performance insecurity instead of a physical insecurity.
@@diamond_zone It seems that you have done a lot of self-reflection to identify your problems. When it comes to addressing your insecurities, remember that other people's validation does not define you as a person. Focus on your inner qualities, and keep in mind that others may not see these qualities, which is why they might judge you based on surface-level impressions. Strive to be the best version of yourself, and focus on your values and beliefs to determine what matters most to you. Your happiness is important. Finally, avoid comparing yourself to others. Everyone is unique and possesses distinct qualities. For instance, you have the unique quality of honesty even in the face of societal taboos.
I havent done it in awhile because i wanted to conserve energy in case my partner had a sudden interest. I guess ive been exploring the benefits of celibacy. 😅
I wouldn’t say all of that about yourself. It’s more so that you have a desire that you want fulfilled, and it most definitely most can get frustrating when they aren’t. Not trying to speak for you but this is usually what it boils down to. I think you’re good enough just the way you are C: God bless you
As it is sometimes called "dear body please go the f to sleep technique"
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This is a bit off topic, but sonce a lot of teens come here, I want to take 5 minutes of your time to warn you about online dangers.
Never share a naked photo of yourself online. Be aware that there are many sick adults online who flock to places kids and teens are online. If an adult is trying to contact you online be aware that many of these predators will hide their true intentions and want to be your friend and eventually go sexual with the interactions. Please tell an adult. I realize that telling them might seem scary. Tell them that you were not seeking this, that it's wrong and you want it to stop. If you are a minor online, it isn't a matter of if an adult will contact you inappropriately, but when. Don't post pictures of your school or your house or yourself or anything that can identity where you are beyond a city you live in. Be incredibly cautious about ever letting someone online take you from one app, say IG to another like Telegram. In fact, don't ever download apps like Telegram, it is a hellhole of CSAM. Any adult who follows a bunch of kids accounts on social media is a big red flag.
Please be careful. ❤
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“ Kids there’s nothing more cool than being hugged by someone you like but if someone tries to touch you in a place or in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable THATS NO GOOD! It’s your body, no one has the right to touch you if you don’t want them to. So what do you do? Fist you say NO! Then you get outta there. Most important you gotta tell someone you trust like your parent, a teacher, a police officer.” - Sonic the Hedgehog
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was not expecting the title to be like that Edit: I missed a bullet my mom was sitting right there monitoring me like a hawk she just left and this popped up, !!GODS GRACE!!
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@@JHuNGaBRieL Luckily i am ,phew missed something that could've made me be drinking tea with jesus
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Can you go back to the actual psychology videos instead of being bait?
@@allstaraussie3629 Which videos are you referring to in the past week?
I feel extremely lucky to have been raised WITHOUT masturbation being "taboo". I was taught that it's a natural, yet private thing that EVERYONE does. And I'm "old" (62). We raised our kids the same way. No VALID reason to freak out people engaging in a NATURAL behavior! "Wanking it" is one of the FEW pleasures that we are granted for FREE along with sunrises, sunsets and the smell of grass after the rain. Don't Worry..Be Happy!
It helps me sleep and helps me to feel less stress
It’s great!
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Bro post this in November, I see what you're doing.
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Yarp. Such an intense desire is hard to reject.😋😋😋
I'm grateful for this channel discussing this kind of thing so openly. I have a lot of issues with physical intimacy with others. I know my self-confidence plays a part, I dislike my body, etc, and I have major trust issues, too. Naturally, I have no issues with masturbation, and I definitely use it to cope a lot. I have anxiety and severe depression, so when I'm overwhelmed, it's my go-to. Not to say it's my only coping mechanism, but it's one of the most effective. Also, as someone who is on antidepressants, they can kill your sex drive. I changed medication a few years back, and it all came flying back xD. My body overall has definitely felt better since. More energy, less mood swings, etc. I've steadily gotten better at doing it solo, too, and realized how important it is to know your body and have a positive association with such intimacy.
But, I'd like to ask about my reluctance towards physical intimacy with others... It's a very strong negative reaction, I get anxious, I want to move away from the person, and there have been times when my skin even gets agitated. Red and inflamed, like a rash. I know I should probably go to therapy for this, and trust me, I will when I can find another therapist, but I'd like some opinions/advice, please?
P.S. I hope everyone is doing well!
People who are depressed often see themselves as worthless and pick themselves apart, suffer repeating, invasive negative thoughts. You have to realize that you are lovable, that you deserve love and to be respected. ❤ At the same time, be aware that it can be hard to be a partner with someone who suffers from severe depression. My gf suffers from it. So I know first hand. Are you pushing people away from yourself because you want to reject them before they reject you?
Admitting to yourself that your depression distorts your perception of reality and that includes your body is a hard process, but try to keep reminding yourself that when you are deeply depressed that things are not as bad as they seem. 🤗🤗
Definitely believe depression plays a big role but I truly hope things get better friend and hope you are well that professional help definitely believe it will help
I’ve dealt with this before. There was a guy I used to “date” and even though I liked him a lot I simply couldn’t stand being physically close. Meeting him was hell. It was so frustrating for both of us, specially since I DID want to be intimate, but was terrified. After a lot of talk with my therapist, I realized what I was afraid of was the relationship itself. I was scared of getting attached. Well, turns out the hole is waay deeper than it seemed at first, but I’m finally starting to understand my feelings and learn how to deal with them. So my advice would be trying to think about what makes you scared, it could be a fear of intimacy or overall anxiety, I don’t know. Try making yourself questions like: “what kind of thoughts go through my head when someone gets close to me?”, “what part of it is scary?”, “are there other similar situations that trigger them?”.ll, stuff like that. It really feels like you’re digging into your mind. Well, obviously there may be more than one reason for you to be scared and you’ll need help to deal with it all, but that kind of thought process can help you begin understanding it better. Hope this helps!
Also, get well soon! Depression and anxiety sure are tough, but it gets better. I actually dealt with this problem while going through a harsh anxiety episode myself and the overall treatment already helped. Anyway, wish the best, man!
So I will tell you a trick to started loving your body
Stand before your mirror
If possible, full size mirror
And see your body. Naked.
Observe each part
Do this everyday for atleast 5 minutes
This helped me gain confidence in my body
As a straight woman. I’ve been doing it most of my life, even when i was in relationships
and i don’t see myself stopping anytime soon either. it helps me sleep and when i get bored
I always wondered how women can even mastrubate. Like, you know what i mean
Same here 😁
Happiness, love and peace to everyone ❤️
Wasn't expecting this today😭
Fr...
same
Same
Lol
Masturbation isnt bad
Porn addiction is bad
Sorry but according to NoFap bros, both are bad and one will lead to the other.
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Both are bad. 🌽 Messes with your brain/thoughts/the way you see love.
M__urbation messes with your mood, isolates you, leaves you with no energy or motivation.
@@TheSteam02lol according to them
Porn is bad
Over masturbation is bad.
couldn't have stated that better myself!!
I was brought up with the belief that masturbating was really bad and dirty and its something men did... women dont. So for a long time i felt gross about myself and tbh it was until i was in my late teens early 20s that other female friends of mine told me they felt the same way but it is indeed normal. Now im in my 30s my advise to anyone would be... how do you know what you like if you dont find out for yourself. Its your body and what you do to it is no one elses buisness but your own xxx
As long as you don't use a dildo, it's fine.
@@therum3clean your toys and everything will be fine lol
Yeah, I remember I was so confused about it, I even started googling like ovarian cancer and confirming that I was dying (facepalm).
I would be interested in seeing the difference between masterbation with and without pornography
Thats actually interesting
I just recently started to do that...
I felt so disgusted to myself.
Felt guilty and i was slowly starting to hate myself so much until this video popped up. Thank you.
Edit: Dont worry i dont really want to do it anymore.
It is bad spiritually
If girl, continue
But sex is not? Could you please elaborate?@@theeblackrose1324
that doesnt mean you should do it alot, limited is always good
Just don't become addicted to it and porn. Please be careful with pornography, there are a lot of harmful paths that can lead you down. Don't send anyone naked pictures of yourself. ❤
I don't do it because of past experiences (Trauma) But this does help me understand why my siblings do it.
This is why I watch this channel bc they are so helpful!
During stressful times for sure. I can’t count the number of times it helped during rush hour or at stop lights.
Huhh😟
At stop lights 💀
BRO BEATING IN THE CAR??
😧
Lmaooooo you’re so real
dropping this in the middle of november is diabolical
😂😂😂
Middle? November is almost ending
I don't say that masturbation is bad, but I hate how often I do it
I masturbate a lot. I'm not shy of admitting this. 😊 I was ashamed of this at first, but after learning more about it and sexuality in general, it actually led to sexuality becoming my favorite health subject. ❤️
Yes!!! Its healthy to find a balance regarding it. Nothing to be shy about though society really stigmatises it.
@prakhya123 Exactly, hence why I'm so open about it here. 🥰
Stop beating your meat bro
@@gmangothedango No, I will continue to do it as I please. 😊
@gmangothedango You're not in control of my life or anyone else's life, and don't think for a second at any point in your life that you are.
As long as you don't develop content addiction, then it can be healthy. In guys it reduces prostate cancer risks since the gland is being exercised. I always figured this was normal because if you don't do anything for a while, you end up getting them in your sleep. Like the body going "fine, I'll do it myself" lol
I'm not ashamed to say I relax with masturbation. I know what I like. Plus it's safe and always a good time!
here we go boys!!
You think masturbation is only a boy thing?🤨🤨
@happilyevernever4289 Masturbation isn't a one gender focused. However, I was just lifting the spirit of my kind in a manner where we guys can understand. Why the emoji tho? did my comment hurt your ego?
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@@happilyevernever4289 So you're a girl, and you masturbate?💀
@@louiefrancofernando4931 💀
Update over my mentality :
I am starting to get more calm. I just want that Siamese Cat on the road, It's... It's cute. I love cats much more now. Even more than my crush. I had a very good dream about McDonald's with my cousin. I ordered a Big Mac and a bottle of Prime in that dream. I am now a little less sexist. My suicidal dreams are over. I still didn't stop questioning myself negativity but I will stop eventually.
So during the pandemic whacking off help cope with anxiety and stress? So that's why all the toilet paper and paper towel was bought left and right from all these stores 😂🤣🤣🤣😂
Holy shit you're right
You know the really interesting thing? That could very well be the cause.
I lost a lot of phisical desire when I started HRT and that is a positive for me, going from every night to maybe twice a month is significantly more enjoyable. Especially since estrogen has made the process take significantly longer.
Everyone is different, don't be ashamed but do what works for you.
lol. it's like you knew what i was doing about two hours ago.
Nah💀💀💀☠️💀💀💀
Your unique approach to storytelling and attention to detail make your content truly exceptional and a joy to experience ❤❤❤
Timestamps
1). The dark side of pleasure 0:49
2). A sexual strategy 1:35
3). Worlds apart 2:24
4). Single and ready to mingle 3:18
5). Finding relief in crisis 4:13
6). The toolbox 5:04
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
Ok, I was *-NOT-* expecting this
Bro my dad uses my tablet and the notif just appeared T_T, luckily he didnt see it
All good man bet your Dad does too 😅🤦♀️
Hi dad
@@Lollipops1433 hes christian, im cooked
@@Lollipops1433 you too?
@therum3 100% mate. I'm single, do I substain from my needs because I'm single 😅 hellll no. 😅🤷♀️
Okay i needed this
I tried doing it because everyone I knew tried it and say it was cool. Well, I hated it, every time I was doing it I felt disgusted and guilty. I obviously left this kind of "activity" of course someone can do this things, I don't judge, this is just my personal opinion.
I'm always a open mind, even about seggs, I respect everyone activities, don't forget that it's ok if you do m@turation and it's ok if you *don't.*
Thank you to read my comment, and sorry for my bad English I try my best every day. Take care!
Masturbation is great. Sex is disgusting. I don't want to have to coordinate my body with someone else and then also hope to enjoy that person's company. Breeders are weird. They literally have no personality besides mating and the fact they mated
I don't think this constitutes as facts. The practice of masturbation is in each person's freedom and there are pros and cons like with everything.
I want to mention that Hypoactive Sexual Desire has got nothing to do with Sexual Attraction unlike what is shown in one of the images in the video.
Asexuality is having little to no sexual attraction towards any gender. It is an orientation and is completely normal.
Besides this, I would like to suggest that you include masturbation in case of asexuals also. As there are asexuals who masturbate as they have libido but it is not associated with sexual interest towards any gender. I would like to see a video on masturbation and asexuality as it is still a less understood topic. Can you please make a video on it 🙏
Look into avoidance, or dismissive-avoidant attachment style. Another is fearful-avoidant. That's what resolved asexuality for me. It wasn't a gender orientation (and I WAS aromantic asexual, very much so). It was shame around the need for a member of the opposite sex in order to have intimacy, due to childhood trauma. Once I resolved my childhood trauma around an opposite-sex ab*sive parent, it lifted my asexuality. And I'm not the only one who had that experience.
In other words, what was happening was that I WAS seeing men and being attracted to them, but I shoved it out of my consciousness and into my subconscious until, when I was alone, I'd get randomly sexually aroused with no apparent stimulus causing that. It ended when I started to get real with myself. Why am I calling myself asexual? Why is sexual shame-based? etc.
@georockstar09 That's not the case with everyone. It is a sexual orientation and not something to be "resolved" for a lot of people.This is not for starting a debate. However, be it's better if we open our mind to the fact we could be experiencing similar things for different reasons. Asexuality has got nothing to do with shame or trauma. Arousal can occur due to inherent libido (present due to hormones) but for asexuals it is not oriented towards any gender.
@@Perpetually_curious0511 You can say that's not the case with everyone, of course it isn't, but it is always a huge possibility, and it needs to be mentioned. What is asexuality? What causes asexuality? are questions that need to always be explored, and it always needs to be questioned and re-evaluated, whether within ourselves or in discussion with others, and taken with a huge grain of salt.
And you can't say it has "nothing" to do with trauma as I JUST said it did in my case. Have an open mind?
@@georockstar09Then what do you suggest is the cause of homosexuality?
As for your case, I wasn't disagreeing with your experience with lack of interest in sex or your reason for identifying as anything.
I was talking about your assumption of 'high possibility' that asexuality has to do with shame and trauma, rather than someone's natural orientation like straight,gay,bi etc. which are all part of human sexuality spectrum.
@@Perpetually_curious0511 Edit: Never been gay so it's none of my business. I used to be borderline trans (female to male) and in my case it was due to bullying at school and at home (to make myself feel tough). It is certainly nuanced but it's also a taboo topic.
And there is nothing wrong with saying "high probability". Probability is not 100% certainty this THIS IS ABSOLUTELY IT. I never said that.
Heck if that's not what's going on for you then that's not what's going on for you. I was just presenting you with a possibility in case it helped. It was the case for me and several other people and I regretted "waking up" to reality quite a bit late in life.
How is masturbation related to heart problems and the skin health?
And what are the psychological problems related to it?
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such a good topic for NNN 😂
Thank you so much for this video. I recently learned and have been doing this, and have been greatly ashamed, guilty, and hateful on myself about it. But now thankfully I understand it's somewhat ok.
Finally
Something I can rely on on this channel
56 mins ago
Dude how .
I was at it 5 mins ago
And I had a charity
And This notification pops up
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Humanity has been programmed to be of closed off energy when being of open energy is natural being the energy of love which is our natural state of being.
nah it's about taking control of your own life energy
take your morality to yourself
@@Renita96 We live from 95% from our subconscious and most peoples subconscious is deeply programmed by fear, wounding, trauma and lies which equals closed off energy. Then because of this they believe in these illusions to be true and think its who they are. No, they are not authentic they are far from being authentic. Its a subconscious mask not their true whole self past the programming. They are the programming.
@@Renita96 do not tell me what to do. I am a man of righteousness. I'm a spiritual leader for earths Ascension connected with spirit. You need to grow, which is so obvious.
@@Renita96 it's the truth and because you are like most you live from ego consciousness not heart consciousness. I'm here to teach truth about who we really are.
Considering we are at the tail end of no-nut-november this video couldnt have arrived at a better time 😅
I have become more ok with masturbation as a natural/neutral thing that can be done without any inherent shame attached to it. Like anything it can take up time that should be spent on other things, but aside from that nothing inherently wrong. It has improved my self image and other aspects of my mental health. Ironically it positively affects my relationship with porn because instead of being an activity to numb out thoughts and other feelings(If it's wrong then I don't want to think about it, because I have to do it anyway), it becomes a way to explore my thoughts and interests more. And it makes me view others more positively since if they are having this experience as well then there is no way the false beliefs my anxiety is painting them with are true. If they masturbate regularly too then they have to be at least fairly content with life because they are getting the happy chemicals in a safe way.
I have made it a resolution to cut back on the practice, and have noticed a big improvement in my life. If it weren't for the holidays, i would have asked a girl out by now.
Nice timing
considering I am ugly, it is usually my only form of sexual activity (brothels and the like being a bit pricey for regular use). That said never understood the sleepiness aspect since I have never felt an urge to sleep afterwards from masturbation or sex
The way I smiled when he said " me myself and I "🤣❤
The post nut guilt gets worse every time..
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@@eighteen_06thats We Gotta hold IT on and not masturbate💪
No it doesnt i don't feel guilty at all after i bust my nut
Can you make a video about your friend talking behind your back and saying you're childish
I feel sad .
I did it I feel more sad .
Next day i do it again still feel sad .
I stop for three day happiness go up than crash .
And i did it 5 than cry it's pain full .
It's so pain full for next 3 day's . Peeing hurt .
Masturbation: Fine, normal and healthy.
Porn: Not fine, not healthy but unfortunately normal
Yeah to number 1, i feel both depression and disgust cause it makes me feel like I'll never be in a relationship or think "who'd ever want me?" ...after that post nut clarity kicks in then I'm off resuming planned activities
i wish it was not addictive
Fr tho
It isn't
@@patrykcichowicz3280 IT dépends for who
As far as I'm concerned, masturbation is a completely natural,normal and healthy thing for a human to do. I've never felt guilty, or badly about myself for doing it, and why should I, or anyone else for that matter? In my experience, it's hardly been addictive or habit forming, it's a fantastic way of relieving stress, and I always have a great sleep afterwards.
4:33 literally me in pandemic discovering Steven universe ❤
Lmaoooo. I thought it was a dude thing but it actually goes both ways, I wasn't disgusted when I started, it's a natural thing. An "itch" you have to take care of. I just do it private (obviously) get it done and over with. A lot of Christians paint it in a bad light however it's not bad at all. Masturbation is a natural hormone thing, it's part of us. It helps actually and so long as you don't do it too much your fine, I am Torah Observant (Following the Ten Commandments) and I was taught it's a 100% normal thing, just don't do it too much or you'll regret it (can cause nerve damage). He'll I didn't know this buuut ladies can have the urge on their cycle. Happened to me a couple of times, worried me a little but it's normal. Just be glad your hormones still work! They are an important factor for your body.
The fact that masturbation is actually used to reduce stress helped me a lot, thank you for sharing this fact
I used to think that "I can't have pleasure and masturbate because my life is tough now, I can't enjoy myself because I'm going through hard times"
So the fact that masturbation can be used as a coping thing made me feel so much relief
Why are we all like this sometimes?
Number 5 is definitely my case.
Thanks for telling me
I can't keep watching this. The more I do this the quicker it leads to depression and hopelessness. I start out aroused and in the mood and it pretty much instantly changes to "you're single and nobody loves you or can stand being around you" and whatever firmness I had is gone. Repeated thoughts of what girls have said to me, in regards to sex or otherwise, and how they wouldn't choose me if I was the last man on earth or that I must abuse women because I can't let go of feelings, all circulate in my head and won't leave. There is intense shame even when I'm the only one who knows, partly because of morals yes, but mostly because any time I have any sexual or even romantic feeling towards someone it gets shut down in the rudest of manners. It makes me feel like less than dirt. "Be confident" they say as if trying hundreds or thousands of times despite feeling worthless isn't confidence. As if there are any women who would give me a chance to at least get to know me before refusing to go anywhere near the subject of liking them (even before anything sexual). They classify it as my fault that women reject me and that I'm obviously not doing enough even though I'm still trying when I've wanted to give up so badly. No they don't owe me anything. I don't want to force them into anything. All I want is for someone to accept me as is, of their own volition, without having to beg and plead. Guys can be horrible people too and I'm not denying that. I am one. But the sweetest girls you'll ever meet can be some of the meanest people you'll ever have the "pleasure" of getting to know. They refuse to feel bad because they think it's one and the same as accepting us as a partner. You can get along as soulmates platonically, but they expose themselves when they don't give a shit about how you feel when they say no.
Sorry to read you had to experience painful rejection in the rudest of manners. Yet, consider this: How people treat you isn’t a reflection of you but more a reflection of themselves. If you want to become more attractive and magnetic to others, rather focus on your passions than on women; work on yourself mentally, physically and spiritually, engage in the arts or something to express yourself with and to find in contact with others- whatever it may be. Then the right people will come. And while it’s true that we all deserve love, we must make sure that we can find ourselves worthy for it to enter our lives by setting up the stage. 🍀
Why this is certainly unexpected (I just finished biology, lol)
I never thought I would see a thumbnail like this on this channel 😂
I gotta admit i do this, But once i turn 30 next year I’m officially done.
What happens if I masturbate twice a day? What are the health risks? That's what I am most concerned
You’re good to go, there’s nothing risky about it.
Is this ASMR?
Damn your voice is relaxing
This video came out as a response to me going til I bled, didn't it
Its funny this channel is talking about fappin' now considering it even has R34
"Flying solo" got me giggling like an idiot for agood 3 minutes
I love these topics because there are so many people who get triggered 😂😂😂
What was wholesome to hear... but I want to ask if you cna make a video about Bi sexuality, from where it came from and how big impact it makes on people. It is a serious and kinda complicated topic co I wanna hear your perspective about it.
I Always found masturbation quite disgusting cause i think i'm already happy with everything in my Life, and for me there's no reason to do that, so... When i'm alone in my room... I'm Just playing videogames or something! ✌️
Hey. So, you gave a lot of information on how porn damages the mental health of people who consume it. But what of the people who make it? I haven't met many nsfw artists, but to me they seemed all relatively healthy in that regard. What negative effects can making erotic artwork or simply content have on the psyche?
As a former creator and someone who engaged in reckless sexual behavior frequently, I thought I was a sex addict. I thought that I loved having sex all the time but the problem was that I was constantly chasing that high of giving men what I knew they craved and that gave me a deep sense of validation. I felt wanted and needed and I felt special. I would go out of my way to do things that men wanted even if I wasn't interested in doing them because I wanted to leave a mark on that person. I wanted to feel a sense of superiority and even though I had plenty of other redeeming qualities, I knew that a man would never look at me the same way he looked at me during sex. I could sing, I could show him I'm a good person, I could laugh, I could show him I'm intelligent, but in my head I thought "plenty of other girls do these things so he won't see me as special... but the amount of girls that will fulfill his fantasies? That's much harder to find, and I'll make sure I'm giving 110% so it makes me even more valuable."
It was very toxic and led to a never ending cycle of people pleasing tendencies. I felt like I wasn't worth anything to a man unless I was taking my clothes off...
Just realized that I now have lower chances of prostate cancer. I have no idea what it is. But it's somesort of cancer.
I've been on youtube a very long time as I'm sure many of you have. I've watched this channel before, as I'm sure many of you have.
Have any of you ever noticed the views counter rolling up? I have not, not a single time. Until I was watching this video lol. What does this say?
It rolled up 3 times while I was watching.
A significant reason, though not the main reason, that I frequently masturbate is because I have a severe dislike of having wet dreams. I think that I've only had two or three so far in my life because I madturbate enough that it doesn't happen. I'd be interested in hearing thoughts on this matter since it seems to be a rare reason for doing it. Thank you.
Yeaahh!!! Im getting health benefits!!!
2023 Psych2go: Feel good about yourself!
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Honestly guys…don’t masturbate, especially not as a source of relief or “pleasure”. It’s not worth it, and eventually desensitizes your mind to various forms of stimuli. Worse is that it can bring you to a point of hyper sexualizing everything, even to the point of dehumanizing yourself and other people.
That “deeply ingrained knowing” that it is wrong is your conscience telling you that it is, because the reality is that it is wrong. We shouldn’t be trying to condone this, but rather trying to explore alternatives that are healthier for both your psyche and heart. The most damaging part of this is that people use masturbation as a coping strategy, where if porn is involved(and it usually is), can easily lead to varying forms of addiction, specifically porn addiction.
Not here to condemn anyone struggling with masturbation or porn addiction, but i am speaking from experience. It is way unhealthy, way more than this video is portraying it to be.
That’s what im saying people should stop beating the meat 🥩 🍖
Well, if you have a solution to resolving sexual arousal, I'm all ears. Been searching for 20 years almost. Masturbation was the only fix to release the arousal (and no, I wasn't looking at boys, I was doing math problems). And no, I don't do p*rn, never did and never will. So at a certain point, back off?
Moderation is key in everything. Personally, I've been forever single, and wouldn't be surprised if I will always be. So should I abstain myself from any sexual pleasure a human being can experience in their life? I've only got this one life and my one body. Any force of the universe be damned if I can't so much as make myself feel good, since there never was a compatible partner for me.
That's a straight up lie i masturbate and im not addicted to anything even though i watch porn
Lol, you literally brought no sources to back up any of your claims.
Being addictive to beating off is bad, but beating your 🥩 without Por--n isn't bad.
Here we go Girls😂😂❤❤
Gay🏳️🌈😂
@@therum3how
When a person watches porn, they may be primarily focused on lusting after the actor or actress in a particular photo or video. The viewer often concentrates on physical appearance and masturbates to satisfy their sexual fantasies. There is typically no emotional connection with the actor or actress in porn. In contrast, real sex is more fulfilling because it involves emotional connection, trust, and empathy. It’s essential to remember that porn is scripted, edited, and shot in different lighting conditions, resulting in unrealistic portrayals of sex. People who masturbate while watching porn should understand this distinction.
@@Rafsanul_Haq_96 I had trouble accepting that fact when I was younger for a short period of time. Even though I know the difference now, I'm still hella scared of being that physically intimate with people from time to time.
@@diamond_zone You are not alone here. Remember that everyone faces some life challenges. Use these challenges as opportunities to grow rather than failures. And avoid self judgement. To avoid self judgement, reflect on your values and beliefs, not on your actions. Your values and beliefs define who you are as a person. The fact that you are admitting your problems, reflects your honesty. It shows that you value honesty and honesty is one of your values and beliefs.
@@Rafsanul_Haq_96 Thanks, that advice more resonates with me in a more general sense than anything else. I have been more accepting about my sexuality and all that, especially since I'm in my mid 20's now and more mature about it. The fear is currently more of a performance insecurity instead of a physical insecurity.
@@diamond_zone It seems that you have done a lot of self-reflection to identify your problems. When it comes to addressing your insecurities, remember that other people's validation does not define you as a person. Focus on your inner qualities, and keep in mind that others may not see these qualities, which is why they might judge you based on surface-level impressions. Strive to be the best version of yourself, and focus on your values and beliefs to determine what matters most to you. Your happiness is important. Finally, avoid comparing yourself to others. Everyone is unique and possesses distinct qualities. For instance, you have the unique quality of honesty even in the face of societal taboos.
@@Rafsanul_Haq_96 thanks for the advice, I really appreciate it
posting this on the final days of NNN I am not sure if psych2go is evil or doesn't care
Sorry for the minute delay
I havent done it in awhile because i wanted to conserve energy in case my partner had a sudden interest. I guess ive been exploring the benefits of celibacy. 😅
I agree. Very educational video 😅
First like But also Why’d I click that fast..??
I'm 9
Eh, most likely not the video for me :) - that act just makes me feel anger towards myself that I’m not good enough for sx!
I wouldn’t say all of that about yourself. It’s more so that you have a desire that you want fulfilled, and it most definitely most can get frustrating when they aren’t. Not trying to speak for you but this is usually what it boils down to. I think you’re good enough just the way you are C: God bless you
21 ejaculations per month?!?!
Your poor meat!! 😭
21??? I better cut down!
Those are rookie numbers kiddo 🤓
@@tedsteiner naah bro, that's enough to replenish your milk supply 😵💫
Imagine if they upload this on 30 November .
Right after I 'did' it, this video appears in my recommendations
Why do i click this ? 😅
Outside perspective is important. It's all good
Masturbation ruins relationships from my experience.
Why would it ruin relationships?
You're not supposed to do it in front of people 😂
Like all things everything is best in moderation
my dear Psychgo2 i know we wont see it but please do a video about how to lower a gaze