Ladies submit don’t mean control, you have to make sure your husband is a Godly man you’re submitting too. He must be getting direction from God to lead you.
Amen. That is #1. We as Christian women cannot marry a man who relies on his own knowledge to lead him. We must marry men who rely on the Holy Spirit to lead him.
Thank you so much for this video! I want to make sure that when proposed to that I myself feel qualified to be the able to take on the role of a fiance' and wife. When proposed to I want to look at my ring and take in the moment and be like "Yes, I deserve this!''
Girl tellll me about it. Especially as an older sister where we had to do and lead everything for our younger siblings. Having a Godly man lead and submitting to him is the dreammmm lol
As the youngest daughter of 5 girls and the 5th of 6th children, I was raised very strict and religious. My dad is a nice man but growing up, he was very strict, proper, and traditional. He's still this way but now that we're all grown, he slowed down a lot. Either way, one of the reasons I wanted to wait to get married was that I grew up so strict. I needed a long break from male leadership before I got married. I knew a Biblical marriage meant submitting to my husband. I was no where mentally prepared to living by my father's rules to another man's rules. Now that I am 34, I am ready to do that. I have been ready for the past year. It's ironic because the man I am dating is very strict, proper and traditional like my father lol.
@eve3363 That definitely makes sense. Maybe my father lacked on the side of rules and regulations so i ern for it. Where as you've had enough of it haha
We got engaged last year December getting married next year :) date has been set I want become the best wife I can be. Looking forward to watching your video!💍
I'm currently in my sacrifice phase. I left my job and leaving everything behind to go back to my mom's place and start everything over. I am also going to take care of her since she lives alone, and my goal this year is to become closer to God and be able to be obedient and hear the Holy spirit.
I needed this. My fiancé proposed to me almost a year ago and due to small conflicts he doesn’t want to set a date. You’re right I need to focus on God more rather than stressing on him.❤️🙏🏻
This was SO GOOD. I’ve been watching a lot of other RUclipsrs who focus on the feminine space and the advice and the focus is very worldly. Looking good, being “high value”, yadda yadda. There are those who do have good points but without focusing in on God and putting Him at the center, the picture is always off. Amazing. Thank you!
I need to start serving. I work on my jobs and yes I’m serving people but I need to get into serving kingdom purpose. Gotta give back to God’s people and share with them the things the Lord wants His people to know.
Me too, I feel like this is the one. We have been talking about marriage since the very beginning. I definitely have not been praying and reading his word. I have actively been trying to do so because marriage is a covenant God created. I can’t want marriage without God in my life.
Honestly, I am so happy you stated submission 1st bc it is the beginning and the foundation. It begins with God and moves to your husband when God brings him to you…while continually submitting to God as well. I totally submit and it lets my fiancé know too that I completely and totally trust him in ALL things. Thank you for all this… God Bless you and yours and Amen. 🙏🏽😇❤️
When you said "20's were full of sacrifices" that's how I feel rn, I'm 25. Had my daughter in college and it's been very challenging, but I see how and still learn how God uses these times to build my character and draw me closer to him
Thank you Amber! I'm 43 years of age and although you are younger than me I was able to genuinely receive from you. I've never been married but i am preparing. "Be a steward of your finances"
This video was wonderful, I got out of bad relationship and not long after praying for a window to open for me to leave and put me in the path I need to be on I met the most wonderful man who I just know I’m going to marry. I just want to be a good wife and women who knows god and be my future husbands help.
This was some GREAT reminders….I am in a healthy relationship however I realize I need to step my GAME UP!!!! And only TMH God can truly help me by fully surrendering and submitting to him❤ Thanks again girly
I think the issue many have with the word submission is that unfortunately that word has become warped & misused in society to abuse or treat women as inferior/insignificant. It’s become perverted through history. More need to do a better job teaching on BIBLICAL submission and the beauty of it.
I'm a 15 year old.I struggle with having crushes and obsessing over them.I know that as a christian I am not going to date unless im.ready to be married (which is obviously no time soon) I'd love you to make a video on how i can redirect my focus and be content in my waiting
Keep Going darling God got you, remember you're not missing out on anything rather you're saving/preserved from dangers.i pray for Grace that you hold on to your faith and godly values,it will pay you
The last one was the best one and a good reminder just to take responsibility for your own things as well. Definitely added that to my notes. Thank you
Y’all this Queen is truly a Beautiful person inside and out. I’ve encountered her a few times at church. I’m glad to have ran across her You-Tube. 💯🙌🏾🙏🏾
Oh really?! Well if you like this one, you should watch my newest video. I'm doing a series through Proverbs 31 and helping single women prepare for marriage. I hope you like it!
I’m already a wife. Currently separated. Working out way back together Gods way. In my head I was going on RUclips to look up videos about being a wife. Got on the app and scrolled then boom…….. needed this.
Amen, thanks for sharing, point no 1 is a must have dear and thanks for making it clear. Elphesians 5:22-24, then the other points serving others, making sacrifices and being a good steward of our resources are very important, may GOD help me. Wishing you GOD'S guidance and blessings in your marriage dear
Thank you so much for this video. I loved the first and last point. It was alll true and wonderful but definitely the First and last!!❤ I recently prayed and asked GOD to help prepare me to Steward the financial blessing He gave me. Just learning how to save- little did I know this would be helping me prepare to become a wife- what a beautiful blessing. Thank you again… 🫶🏽✝️
Thank you for providing this video, submit to God stood out to me. Each point was validating to things I have considered. I like that you mention that certain mannerisms can create a smoother transition. The transition can be and seems like a huge mysterious transition.
Oh yeah, also many times guys can see things in other guys that women are not able to pick up on. Sometimes the father/brother or friend of the woman end up wrong and the guy turns out to be a pretty good guy, but a lot (if not most) times they're right and the guy ends up abusing and/or leaving the woman and she ends up with a broken heart. So yeah, I take guys a lot more seriously now than I did in my 20's.
I really should be submitted to the most high the lord first before l submitted to a husband that l don't know if am ready for yet l always been in toxic turmoil relationship's l wonder when l will get into a pure relationship
I don't know if am ready to settle down full time relationship submitted to a husband yet l probably not ready for a full time relationship am little bit self centered l always wanted to be the center of attention
I love how honest and raw you are by sharing this. I felt the exact same way and can relate. Bring those things to the Lord and ask Him to change you and desire what He desires for you!
Oh no!! So sorry! This is from my earlier days of RUclips when I didn't know what I was doing lol I'll definitely re-record and a post a new video! Thanks for the feedback!
Am blessed sitted here at metro 🚇 side listening to beautiful spiritual message from a powerful woman of God .I believe am a wife and God is working in me. Always grateful to God for providing so I can be able to help others in good knowledge. Watching from Belgium 🇧🇪 bruxelles
Ladies submit don’t mean control, you have to make sure your husband is a Godly man you’re submitting too. He must be getting direction from God to lead you.
Yes, I explained that in another video.
Amen. That is #1. We as Christian women cannot marry a man who relies on his own knowledge to lead him. We must marry men who rely on the Holy Spirit to lead him.
Thank you so much for this video! I want to make sure that when proposed to that I myself feel qualified to be the able to take on the role of a fiance' and wife. When proposed to I want to look at my ring and take in the moment and be like "Yes, I deserve this!''
Yes girl! God will prepare you if you allow Him to! He taught me everything I needed to learn to prepare and is still teaching me to this day!
As the oldest sister, the idea of submitting to my husband makes me drool, I don’t understand how some women find this hard to do. 4:05
Girl tellll me about it. Especially as an older sister where we had to do and lead everything for our younger siblings. Having a Godly man lead and submitting to him is the dreammmm lol
@@Sandra-jc2fs exactly!
Facts same!
As the youngest daughter of 5 girls and the 5th of 6th children, I was raised very strict and religious. My dad is a nice man but growing up, he was very strict, proper, and traditional. He's still this way but now that we're all grown, he slowed down a lot. Either way, one of the reasons I wanted to wait to get married was that I grew up so strict. I needed a long break from male leadership before I got married. I knew a Biblical marriage meant submitting to my husband. I was no where mentally prepared to living by my father's rules to another man's rules. Now that I am 34, I am ready to do that. I have been ready for the past year. It's ironic because the man I am dating is very strict, proper and traditional like my father lol.
@eve3363 That definitely makes sense. Maybe my father lacked on the side of rules and regulations so i ern for it. Where as you've had enough of it haha
We got engaged last year December getting married next year :) date has been set I want become the best wife I can be. Looking forward to watching your video!💍
Congratulations girl!! Keep God at the center, follow biblical principles/teachings, and you'll be the best wife ever!
I never thought to ask God to help me to know my worth. That part really resonated with me! Thank you for your video😊
So happy to hear that you've been encouraged and enlightened. God bless you!
I'm currently in my sacrifice phase. I left my job and leaving everything behind to go back to my mom's place and start everything over. I am also going to take care of her since she lives alone, and my goal this year is to become closer to God and be able to be obedient and hear the Holy spirit.
I commend you for your selflessness, sacrifices, and faith!
I needed this. My fiancé proposed to me almost a year ago and due to small conflicts he doesn’t want to set a date. You’re right I need to focus on God more rather than stressing on him.❤️🙏🏻
This was SO GOOD. I’ve been watching a lot of other RUclipsrs who focus on the feminine space and the advice and the focus is very worldly. Looking good, being “high value”, yadda yadda. There are those who do have good points but without focusing in on God and putting Him at the center, the picture is always off. Amazing. Thank you!
I couldn't agree with you more Lauren. Thank you so much for watching!!
I need to start serving. I work on my jobs and yes I’m serving people but I need to get into serving kingdom purpose. Gotta give back to God’s people and share with them the things the Lord wants His people to know.
Yessss!! And you're gonna be SO surprised at how fulfilled you're going to be. Serving others for the kingdom really is a game changer!
For serving others my advice is don’t get used god doesn’t call you to be manipulated and taken advantage of
Preach!!!
yes!! there are some of us who have served others so much that they've forgotten about themselves.
I’m in this season now.. in a relationship but not engaged YET. Really trying to learn how to prepare. Thank you for this video, spot on!
You're so welcome girl!!
Same here 😊
Me too, I feel like this is the one. We have been talking about marriage since the very beginning. I definitely have not been praying and reading his word. I have actively been trying to do so because marriage is a covenant God created. I can’t want marriage without God in my life.
@@tillyjoy-zb2nz I made a video just for you and answered your question. I hope it's helpful! ruclips.net/video/Fr21CduU8h0/видео.html
@@amberdmccann thank you Amber. It was so helpful
Honestly, I am so happy you stated submission 1st bc it is the beginning and the foundation. It begins with God and moves to your husband when God brings him to you…while continually submitting to God as well. I totally submit and it lets my fiancé know too that I completely and totally trust him in ALL things.
Thank you for all this… God Bless you and yours and Amen. 🙏🏽😇❤️
When you said "20's were full of sacrifices" that's how I feel rn, I'm 25. Had my daughter in college and it's been very challenging, but I see how and still learn how God uses these times to build my character and draw me closer to him
Yes girl! I'm thankful for the sacrifices and hardships. It's benefitted me in the present big time. I can withstand and persevere because of it!
Thank you Amber! I'm 43 years of age and although you are younger than me I was able to genuinely receive from you. I've never been married but i am preparing. "Be a steward of your finances"
@@Clechara Glory to God! I’m glad you were able to take some things away. 🙏🏽
This video was wonderful, I got out of bad relationship and not long after praying for a window to open for me to leave and put me in the path I need to be on I met the most wonderful man who I just know I’m going to marry. I just want to be a good wife and women who knows god and be my future husbands help.
Love that for you Haley girl! God will teach you everything you need to know!
Learning how to serve and surrender to God does prepare us to be a godly wife.
Yes, amen!
This was some GREAT reminders….I am in a healthy relationship however I realize I need to step my GAME UP!!!! And only TMH God can truly help me by fully surrendering and submitting to him❤ Thanks again girly
You're so right! And as long as You allow Him to teach you, He will!!
I think the issue many have with the word submission is that unfortunately that word has become warped & misused in society to abuse or treat women as inferior/insignificant. It’s become perverted through history. More need to do a better job teaching on BIBLICAL submission and the beauty of it.
I agree 1000%! I'm actually doing a video on submission that speaks to this.
I'm a 15 year old.I struggle with having crushes and obsessing over them.I know that as a christian I am not going to date unless im.ready to be married (which is obviously no time soon) I'd love you to make a video on how i can redirect my focus and be content in my waiting
I would be happy too! Thanks for watching!
You’re so wise, especially for your age! Keep seeking the Lord in all things at all times ❤
Keep Going darling God got you, remember you're not missing out on anything rather you're saving/preserved from dangers.i pray for Grace that you hold on to your faith and godly values,it will pay you
The last one was the best one and a good reminder just to take responsibility for your own things as well. Definitely added that to my notes. Thank you
Okay notes lol
Amazing, amazing video. I love that you went over topics that will not only prepare but also maintain a healthy marriage and lifestyle.
Glory to God! Glad this blessed you!
Being selfless is a major one thank for sharing this video be blessed ❤
Of course!!
I'm getting married next month
CONGRATULATIONS!!!
Literally you saying just pray about my value and worth. Some things seem like common sense but I would have never thought to do that
Yes because that's the thing I wasn't paying attention to, yet it was the very thing that changed my mindset!
Amen🙏🏼🙏🏼🥺thank you
Of course!
Y’all this Queen is truly a Beautiful person inside and out. I’ve encountered her a few times at church. I’m glad to have ran across her You-Tube. 💯🙌🏾🙏🏾
Awww thank you sooo much my friend!!
One thing I know I need to work on is being a good steward especially in my finances!
@@mizzmilagros I feel like I’ll always be striving to grow in that area lol
Everything you Said resonated with me and I'm truly grateful. I need to learn to steward my finances well
I'm so happy to hear that!
Oh my goodness….this was the perfect video for me to watch after the dream that I just had.
Oh really?! Well if you like this one, you should watch my newest video. I'm doing a series through Proverbs 31 and helping single women prepare for marriage. I hope you like it!
I’m already a wife. Currently separated. Working out way back together Gods way. In my head I was going on RUclips to look up videos about being a wife. Got on the app and scrolled then boom…….. needed this.
I love to hear that! I hope things have improved for you since!
Could you remake this with scriptures to back your advice up?🙏🏽
Hey girl! I have a newer series I did based on Proverbs 31. I encourage you to check it out!
Amen, thanks for sharing, point no 1 is a must have dear and thanks for making it clear. Elphesians 5:22-24, then the other points serving others, making sacrifices and being a good steward of our resources are very important, may GOD help me. Wishing you GOD'S guidance and blessings in your marriage dear
God has you! Just pray for wisdom and for the Holy Spirit to help you. These are all spiritual muscles we have to exercise. Thank you for watching!
Thank you for this video, not in a relationship but preparing to be a Godly suitable helper for my future husband 🎉
I love it!!
Thank you so much for this video
Especially the submission part is deep and you said it all ... I'm blessed 🙏🏽💖
Be a good steward of what you currently have❤
Always!
Thank you so much for this video. I loved the first and last point. It was alll true and wonderful but definitely the First and last!!❤ I recently prayed and asked GOD to help prepare me to Steward the financial blessing He gave me. Just learning how to save- little did I know this would be helping me prepare to become a wife- what a beautiful blessing. Thank you again… 🫶🏽✝️
Thank you sister for your wise and Godly teaching. Be blessed.
Glory to God! Likewise!
This was a really good video
Be a good steward and Sacrifice!
Amen!
I do need a better attitude and a better behavior
Girl I'm sure we all do lol
Love that I stumbled across this video. Thank you.
You're so welcome, glad you enjoyed it!
Great video, i appreciate the reminder about being a good steward !
Glory to God!
Great advice!! New Subby over here! Love your hair and your pleasant and energetic attitude!
Welcome to the community!!! And thank you for the compliment. I appreciate it!
Thank you so much Melody this was so on time. Literally I did a video about the past. Thank you again for your inspiration
Girl, my name is Amber lol 😂 Haha, thanks for watching. So glad you enjoyed it!!
Thank you for providing this video, submit to God stood out to me. Each point was validating to things I have considered. I like that you mention that certain mannerisms can create a smoother transition. The transition can be and seems like a huge mysterious transition.
Absolutely!! I'm glad you found this video to be helpful and I appreciate you watching. God bless you my friend!
Can you do a video on “Knowing your worth”?
Here you go girl!: ruclips.net/video/K7WXYAzLyhk/видео.html
11:18 going through that now 😅
Keep the faith!
Please do a video on submission
Hawa, thanks for the recommendation!
I would watch this too 🙋♀️
Oh yeah, also many times guys can see things in other guys that women are not able to pick up on. Sometimes the father/brother or friend of the woman end up wrong and the guy turns out to be a pretty good guy, but a lot (if not most) times they're right and the guy ends up abusing and/or leaving the woman and she ends up with a broken heart. So yeah, I take guys a lot more seriously now than I did in my 20's.
Yes indeed!
Steward whatever you have well❤🙏🏾
That's the way!
I pray favor God on my marriage amen in Jesus name!
All good tips!
Glad you think so!!!
Thanks love 🙏🏽💜
Thank you for watching!!
Amen Sis 🙌🏼✨👑♥️💯
Thanks for watching!
Steward well 💗
Amen!
✨BE a Good Steward
Yes, stewardship is key!
Its my season
Alright now!
I really should be submitted to the most high the lord first before l submitted to a husband that l don't know if am ready for yet l always been in toxic turmoil relationship's l wonder when l will get into a pure relationship
Yes, I agree that you should nurture your relationship with the Lord right now. That's the best thing you can do in this current season.
thank you ♥️♥️
Glory to God!
Please pray for me Katarina, who is my kingdom husband ? Thanks, God bless you ...
Only God knows!
God bless you 💕💗❤️
I really should be a good foundation
Yes indeed!
I don't know if am ready to settle down full time relationship submitted to a husband yet l probably not ready for a full time relationship am little bit self centered l always wanted to be the center of attention
😩You need to pray about that Sis❤️
I love how honest and raw you are by sharing this. I felt the exact same way and can relate. Bring those things to the Lord and ask Him to change you and desire what He desires for you!
Excellence 👑
Yesss!
Submission goes both ways
Yep- the husband submits to God and the wife submits to her husband.
We want the video on submission please
Coming right up!
These are some really good pointers on being a good GODLY WIFE🤍🤍✝️
Glory to God! Just sharing wisdom that comes from above!
Amém 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Amen!
The background music was too distracting for me to finish the video 😭
Oh no!! So sorry! This is from my earlier days of RUclips when I didn't know what I was doing lol I'll definitely re-record and a post a new video! Thanks for the feedback!
GOD BLESS! PRAY FOR UKRAINE!❤
The smacking your hands together, and "baby girl"...
It's the culture on display.
Stewart what you have well ❤❤❤
Yes ma'am!
My name is Christy Florence lunsford by the way 😊
Hi Christy!!!
🩷🎧🩷🎧🩷🖤🩷🖤🎧🩷🩷🩷🩷
I like your nails
Thank you!
Much needed 🤍🤍🤍🤍
I'm so happy this blessed you!
Am blessed sitted here at metro 🚇 side listening to beautiful spiritual message from a powerful woman of God .I believe am a wife and God is working in me. Always grateful to God for providing so I can be able to help others in good knowledge. Watching from Belgium 🇧🇪 bruxelles
So glad that you enjoyed this and took something away. God bless you my sister!