Why You Have No Friends According to Astrology
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Alyssa Sharpe is a professional astrologer and writer who has gained a significant following on social media for her insightful and engaging astrological content. Alyssa has been featured in various online publications and podcasts, where she shares her knowledge and expertise in astrology. Her approach to astrology is focused on empowering individuals to better understand themselves and their unique life path through the lens of their astrological birth chart, numbers and her Ascension System™. 
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Hello Alyssa, you should really make a video of the rising signs in making friends. Go through all the rising signs in friends.
Leo rising and I'm always being talked about behind my back.
This happens to me at work 😭 Pisces rising- I get bullied by the authority and get blamed for everything until I get kicked out….. what the heck?! Don’t even know how to fix this!
You probably get easily manipulated and need to make healthy boundaries.
Someone literally liked my comment. lol thanks
Hi Berenice again, here are some suggestions which is only for yourself don’t do it for me. Do for your well being and protecting yourself.
• Problem solve why you get bullied for authority. Is it because you have good control over yourself which is the reason you get blamed for your authority? If so, they’re jealous and using their emotions as an excuse for their behavior, and actions. Problem solve is your friend.
• Make boundaries also don’t do what I did, and what I would do realistically to fix my mistakes. The one mistake I only made is actually breaking my own boundaries, and deceiving myself. To fix this, it applies for everyone you matter, and so is your boundaries. You can’t break your own boundaries and you live by your own rules. The purpose of making boundaries is their definition, which means rules of engagement. You live by your own rules too.
Identity what breaks the boundary and doesn’t break the boundary.
1. Self sabotaging/deceiving yourself.
2. Letting people take advantage of you when they don’t focus on the facts, and details about you.
3. Don’t let in certain people you want in your life, and you want in your life.
4. It’s complex let go and it may sound hard. Don’t make it difficult and let go if someone detach themselves from you, or dislikes you.
5. If you struggle getting someone into your life. Don’t try to hard and find someone who’s worthy. If you given up. Consider what you would seek in a relationship, partner, and friendship work on these on yourself. Therefore, these are actually practical ways to attract anyone you want in your life, and you live by your own rules too.
• Talk with them outside of work in an isolated place only. Because it will cause a scene and pose an issue. Interact with the person who blames you for anything, especially for your authority and speak up for yourself. Because you deserve to defend yourself, and educate others what is morally right, and wrong don’t go too over board thinking your right. It gives sense of having god complex, and thinking they’re right when they haven’t listen to peoples side of a story, or answer to a question.
@@luciathefemininewoman thank you for all the info!
If you are a piscis rising you are probably too nice and like to people please. You need to stand up for yourself and embrace that Capricorn energy. Capricorns are leaders, managers, they don't let anyone get in their way and their relationships are more of a transaction. So try to give and expect to be given the same thing back. If friends don't do that detach and appreciate those who value your effort and energy. Also check if you have any planets on your 11th house for more clues. If not, look at the house your Saturn is in which is the ruler of Capricorn
I’m a Capricorn rising and both men and women have always been intimidated of me. I usually just stick to myself like a lone wolf.
Leo rising here Gemini in the 11th 100% accurate. I’ve experienced gossip and back stabbing against me most of my life. 🙄 I’d rather just be by myself than deal with the bull shit.
Same, Leo rising.. Gemini in Chiron & Lilith 11th house
i'm a pisces rising with neptune in my 11th. when i was beeing part of a group of friends or even like 3 friends they usted to hide a lot of thing from me. but as a grown older i realize that group of friend don't work for me and that's ok !!
I'm a Sagittarius rising and I can't keep friends for longer than a few years. I'm very much a loner and I don't know why. My sun sign says I'm supposed to be loyal and all about my friends. Why is this?
Same! We seem to grow out of them or something. Things lose momentum. I get along with everyone just fine, but I feel like no one ever gets super close to me no matter how hard I try, or how hard I play it cool. I feel like my family (of origin) and my son is my consistent friend group.
For what it’s worth, I also have Pluto in my 11th and she says that’s bad news bears.
Is there any way you can make a longer video for each rising?? I love how you explain things
I have Saturn in my 11th house. I never felt part of any group even if others felt I was. I always longed for THAT group of friends and never felt heard or seen. It's rare for a lot of people to participate and come to parties and things i plan. I'm close to my 1st Saturn return and right now I couldn't care less about that I really don't give an f and I'd be happy to wait forever if I have to to meet people who really resonate with me. I'm done with superficial and envious/fake friendships when I give my best and genuinely care and love others. If they don't give back what I give then I detach so easily now.
Saturn in 11th house is a good o
Placement. Also do check the sign
I have a Saturn conjunct Neptune in Capricorn in the 11th house plus 8th house stellium. Born loner, lol!
I have a scorpio rising but have always had the best of friends and make friends very easily. I've always said that I've always been lucky to attract good humans into my life. I have a leo sun as well. My friends also understand that I need to be alone to balance myself the majority of the time and they still love and support me no matter what! I've always been very intuitive and know the kinds of people that I want in my space so I think that plays a big part. I can read through anyone and it's well known.
I've always been able to have healthy and long term friendships with people and even though I spend the majority of my time alone and dont see friends for months and months and maybe even years with some people - we are always on good terms and support each other. The amount of time i need alone is frightening but when i am with my friends it feels so good but so does my alone time!! There are periods of time where I might spend more time with people though. I have a taurus moon so I love nature and being lazy. So I spend a lot of time in nature and on my couch lol
I can confirm this for myself as a Scorpio rising as well♏️🙏🏽
Scorpio Rising trait its the same for me too sun sign is libra
Also remember that the 11th house itself is ruled by Aquarius which is ruled by Saturn, and Uranus and the North Node. Friendships require work, can break off suddenly and without reason. And we can tend to glamorize it even though the reality is not exactly so picture perfect. This ofc will impact every rising and house position differently
Leo rising, you’re on point with that
Aries rising with ♒️ Saturn in the 11th house … I always feel like the odd ball in my friend group , like they don’t really understand me .
Omg me too even tho Im leo rising it's just sad smh
Omg! I have the same placements. I've always felt the same.
Same!! Aries rising , Aquarius Saturn in 11th.. & I can’t get anything meaningful out of mine. SMH. I am 100% the odd ball and at some point people feel I’m competing or that I feel I’m “better than” but still desire to be close to me. Strange.
same!
Accurate for me. My 11th house is Virgo, opposing my Mars and Saturn both in Pisces. I also have Chiron in Virgo, 11th house. I've been deeply hurt by friends but am learning to be wiser and more discerning when it comes to who I surround myself with. Thanks for the video!
Gemini rising here, therefore my sign is Aries, so I’m the leader/bad bitch of the group? Sounds about right
I have Libra and have only one real friend. Other people mostly want information from me. Fake friends
Did she said the Scorpios are intimidating or we are intimidated? And I’ve always had trouble staying close with friends so this makes sense
If you have scorpio in the house she mentioned
@J.Bardi I had to list to it a few times to be sure lol. She said we (Capricorn rising) are intimidating to our friends. This makes a lot of sense.
Intimidating, of course.
If you are a Capricorn rising, you have a Scorpio 11th house (house of friends/social media/etc).
yes you have been missed. hope all is okay, your hair looks great
11th in Scorpio, love me (friend) or hate me (enemy). lots of betrayal. Now I se why. lol
I would also add to consider any Aquarius placements. For instance, I have nothing in the 11th,but I have Mars in Aqua which can place an added tension in friend groups where I feel the need to differentiate from the group
Pisces rising ❤ oh yes if there’s a problem in a friend group they just love to blame me (even if I wasn’t there) or just because it’s me the punishment is way worse then if another person did it. Got bullied all throughout my life thru college etc.
My rising sign is Virgo. I am really good at keeping friends for decades, but I tend to attract abusive people, and I have a history of ending up alone much more than any other person I’ve ever met. not usually because of problematic behavior on my end, just because it seems like I have this really weird pattern where I end up in a relationship with someone very controlling, or totally alone. It’s not my favorite, but it’s better than being dead I guess
my rising is in virgo too. for me, people really like me as soon as they meet me and if i engange with them a lot i within a few meetings i quickly turn into their closest friends - personally, that gives me anxiety, i feel like i have to be something for them and give them more than i am ready to because they are giving me so much and trust me with all their heart. so i'd rather be on my own because i tend to overgive. so there's that all or nothing factor again
I looking forward for your Midheaven series. Especially Aries I planning to start a practice next year.
OMG I have a stellium in Sagittarius that includes the moon mars Neptune and Uranus all opposing my 11th house of Gemini where my north node resides.
As a Leo rising I make friends everywhere and everyone thinks I'm cool and interesting but I don't like people much 😂 so I tend to be a loner and have a small social circle- anytime I really 'try' to be popular in any subculture it's pretty easy for me to blow up which is why I respect this power (Pluto in Libra) and I proceed with caution in my public actions knowing that whatever I do everyone's going to be watching me. That Mars retrograde in my 11th House of Gemini a few months ago basically obliterated my social circle I got sick of everyone and deleted all my social media completely and just ghosted the world and honestly I'm happy but yeah kinda bitter sweet.
Been following you for YEARS by the way- you're one of the BEST on here girl - keep it up ! 🤟🏽❤
Capricorn rising with Scorpio in my 11th house. I was friendship repellent. Was a goth kid in an upper middle class school system.
So I have no planets in my 11th and I’m a Libra rising, making my 11th Leo. I have generally really good luck with friends, I’m very picky and it’s led to a big circle of really loyal long-lasting friends. I wonder how Leo in 11th could lead to that. Don’t worry though, I have plenty of other problems in my chart, friends just aren’t one of them 😂
Haha wow. Neptune conjunct Uranus in Capricorn 11th house. Both planets sextile my sun and Pluto which are conjunct. I've always had issues with being bullied and kicked out of friend groups and blamed for their problems. Also with choosing friends based on illusions of connection. But the authentic friends I do make are very loyal and very true and I transform and get to know myself better. Thankfully our negative aspects can be exalted. I know exactly what to look for in friends, I highly value friendships above all other relationships, and I have high standards and very emotionally supportive true friends.
I'm a Pisces rising and you are so accurate. I'm a lone wolf because this exact thing happened to me in college. Thank you!
Me too Pisces rising, lots of problems with authority, so we have to take our own authority , since I started doing that and choosing my own course , things started to make more sense
This is literally something I have been questioning for years
Got uranus in aquarius ruling 11th along with neptune, sun, and jupiter in cap, but still in the 11th using placidus. Friends come and go fast, common ground is a must have, but they all seem different to each other
I have Pluto in the 11th and this is so true lol
Ah yes, my 11th house is in taurus and i have my mars in there. I have one good friend from high school and that’s about it. great post!
Mind telling me what Taurus means?
So, I have Jupiter in my 11th, and it starts in Virgo and ends in Libra (Jupiter in Libra). But I have always struggled with having a proper friend group and tend to feel more comfortable one on one with people. Also with betrayal from friends. Even when I do have many people I like or feel close to they tend to be scattered all over the place and so there's never a feeling of having a proper group or community. And honestly, often times group dynamics, group think, mob psychology- whatever- makes me uncomfortable, the way that certain people dominate and steer the group energy at the expense of others, is something that turns me off. People tend to be good one-on-one, but the way insecurities and the need to be liked or get attention show up in a group dynamic can be off putting... maybe its because of being a Scorpio rising, these things really stand out to me...
Pisces rising and true im always the scapegoat bullied and lied on hence I have zero friends
I’m a Sagittarius Rising with Pluto in Scorpio in 11th House... groups and friend circles would give me major anxiety that I would leave anytime tension rose
mine is virgo rising, I tend to be popular in friend groups, sorta the glue that holds stuff together
i have pluto in 11h square mars 💀 at every stage of my life my friend groups change unless we become besties…it’s pain, cuz i’m a libra sun and aqua rising 🥴
i have jupiter in gemini in 11th house with pluto and chiron opposing. I used to have a lot of friends but i’m now a full time loner 😂
Oh wow. Did you have a lot of drama going on in your friend group?
Leo ⬆️, very true, stop being friends with people because they're extremely fake and talk about you behind your back.
For me I find BIG issues with friends because my NN is Aquarius 😅
I have Leo and Lilith in the 11th house. My mother's pluto falls into that house. She has RUINED every single friendship i have ever had and turned me into a social outcast. She also has like 4 planets in my 2nd house draining all my resources and completely destroyed my self-esteem and self worth. When I left to go to school and no longer had her around me my reputation improved GREATLY. My confidence grew and i definitely fit in with the more popular students that were all fire or air signs. Funny enough my lilith conjunct alot of their personal planets so they found me fun, independent and sometimes even sexy! Mind you im an emotional Pisces!
Pluto in my Scorpio ruled 11th house. I’m afraid of other people, and they are afraid of me 😂😅😭.
I have that placement too. Do you feel like you attract jealous or possessive friends once you start getting close?
Yes, and it seems to have only gotten worse as I’ve become an adult. People seem to become dependent on me, and for the most part I just put up with it because so few people put in the effort necessary to keep my interest.
Gemini 11th, well taurus , but it has gemini in it and my friendships are complicated - i do feel my friends used me for status often - like someone befriends me to get to become a friend of my friend etc
More on friends and the 11th house please.
Saturn in Gemini and squarely in the 11th house. Do retrogrades also have any impact when it comes to this? For me, Saturn was retrograde.
EDIT: If I'm also counting disharmonious aspects (oppositions and squares), Pluto is also opposing Saturn.
Gemini, it’s true. I also have Saturn opposite my Venus. I wonder if my 12H stellium also has something to do with it. I’ve felt like I’m doomed to loneliness forever lol people don’t connect well with me and misread me like crazy! I get many domineering people who usually want to control me.
To add to the Leo Rising (I, myself, am one) the 11th house is also naturally ruled by Saturn, and if you have Sun (enemy of Saturn) and Venus (friend to Saturn but doesn't like Sun) in Gemini in that house like I do, it's not a pretty situation
However, the 11th house is also an Upuchaya house (or however you spell it lol), and in Vedic astrology, it's a house that gets better with time (other houses include the 3rd, 6th & 10th) and my friendships & connections have been getting a bit better as I get older so it's not all doom & gloom
Not writing this to scare anyone, but just so you're aware of the potential impact this could have. Also, signs, planets, and aspects will all create different and varying effects yadayadayada
I’m a Libra rising with Leo in the 11th, it’s not hard making friends but with my Mars there, keeping them is WORK.
How accurate is this.. As a leo rising no matter what i do how i fo friends or ppl i use to think as friends are always gossiping,also experienced some major back stabbing back in the days...
no bc i am screaming at how accurate this is omg...my friend group at college when i was a freshman bullied me a lot. i even told them that "you're probably keeping me around so y'all can have someone to make fun of" and then i dropped out and never talked to them again. also i have an 11th house chiron so.....
I have chiron in the 11th house opposite uranus and south node in Aquarius... No long term friendship for me.
Makes sense, Pluto in 11th and rising Capricorn here. It’s also the point of the Yode in my chart.
Love the purple hair ✨🔮🌙💜
Spot-on about the Leo rising people (Gemini 11th ruled house?). There has been a TON of gossip and backstabbing from other people throughout my life.
I have Pluto, Saturn and the moon in my 11th. All in the sign of libra. I had my fair share of toxic friendships and friendships ending that blind sided me but I have definitely made some solid friendships in the last few years of my 30’s.
Scorpio 11th with Pluto. Intimidating to friends is right.
I have mars in Taurus here…friendship has been a struggle 😂
Alyssa! I'm a Pisces rising with Mars and Neptune in my Capricorn house. Plus sun there. Thank you.
Capricorn rising, pluto in 11th. My entire life explained. 👽 is what they called me to be exact.
Lov ur findings💕💕
Empty 11th house in Leo. 24 degree Aquarius Sun in the 5th opposing 11th house. (10 degree Libra Rising). 22 degree Chiron in Taurus Squaring it. I have never had it easy on the friend front.
I just went through a timeportal hearing about Pisces Rising.
My 11th house is empty much like my friend group/social life right now 😆
Lolz, same. ✌🏻
Pisces rising here but I dont resonate with this though. I dont leave and I haven't been kicked out. Maybe I found my tribe. Well I hope it will stay the same in the future.
I have Pluto there. It's hard to find friends who aren't flakey. Lots of wonderful acquaintances that come and go, however.
Who else has jupiter or libra there?
As a Cap rising with Mars and Pluto in my 11th house.... it's hella frustrating
Pluto in the 11th. I'm usually in a friend group for a long period of time until it "dies", either the group dissolves or I'm forcibly kicked out at some point.
Gemini in 11th, beautifully described 👍💗
I have Aries in my 11th house so I always look for new friends constantly lol 😂
My Mars in Sagittarius resides there. My friends like how honest and upfront I am (also lost friends for this). I am also super protective over them and enjoy having friend gatherings. I’m Capricorn rising now progressed into Pisces rising.
Taurus rising so depending on natal or whole sign, it’s either Aquarius or Pisces
You're rocking the purple hair👍
I'm a Cancer rising with Pisces and Saturn in my 11th house...
Someone tell me about 11th house Virgo pleaseeee
A Capricorn rising with no friends 🥺
Keepp dropping vids babe. I kinda did some dumb shit and fucked up the order, but.. I will get a reading soon enough. I got a lot of court fees and legal fees to pay off so things has been a little shaky. My fault for the mix up. Be good, love.
Great video! I’m curious for Libra rising? Leo 11th house
I’m also a Libra Rising with Leo 11th house. I don’t have many friends and struggle to get close to new people. The only real friends I have are from childhood or school - I’m very loyal to them. I’m nice to everyone, but I find it difficult to connect with most people. I wouldn’t say I’m the leader of any group, I’m rather quiet and calm, more on the introverted side, usually I don’t start conversations. I definitely don’t feel entitled to anything from others.
Me too... I like owls too
Pluto in my 11TH house and it’s ruled my Scorpio
Libra rising gives me Leo in my 11th house, but mars is sitting right with it 🫠
Yeah im a Pisces rising this hurt my soul
i have a virgo stellium in the 11th house. ive always had lots of friends and connections but only a few super close ones. i'll also bail as soon as i see bs
Scorpio rising, Virgo 11th.
I have Chiron sitting in the 11H. Gemini rules, Mercury in Scorpio (conjunct Saturn and Pluto). Ive been wanting to find my tribe for a minute.
4° Leo Rising here and this could not be more accurate. My 11th House cusp falls at 28° Taurus, but the entire sign of Gemini is encased within my 11th House along with my 9° Gemini Venus, 14° Gemini Mars, and 17° Gemini Lilith. Having Lilith in the 11th alone is enough to get people to view you as unfitting for their friend group or community, simply because you scare them for being different.
In your THE SEVENTH HOUSE REVEALS OTHER HALF AND SHADOW youtube video, if you play it slow, at the 1:11 mark, to your left, you will see a ghost orb!
I have Leo , but yet don’t have friends at all..
Libra rising
Im a leo rising. Yepp gossips and backstabbing
Well well I have really good friends I have since a looong time and newer ones too.This is definitely one of my strong points in my life. I have Venus conjunct Mars in Leo in the 11th and Mercury in Virgo in the 11th too.
Accurate... Leo rising, all anybody does anymore is stab each other in the back.... Real friends are very difficult to come by.
Jupiter in Cancer in 11th house
zayn malik is pisces rising and he left one direction
I have Pluto in the 11th house and I’ve given up expecting people to stick around it even expecting myself to stick around. If they come they come. If they go they go. I’ve accepted that it is what it is. The people who need me find me. Otherwise I prefer to be left alone 😂
Love the hair
❤️👀THIS IS MY FAVORITE LOOK ON YOU!! (Following for years. Also.great Branding via astrology video)
Alyssa, I love your purple hair! What product did you use? Did you have to bleach it first?
11H chiron 😔
0:46 I wonder if that’s why Olivia Rodrigo always has a need to talk about her ex in her songs. She has a Capricorn rising. 🤔🤣
My 11th house is Sag. I have Mars in Sag and the ruler of the 11th (Jupiter) is in Leo.
My 11th has Mars in Cancer. I have like a few really good friends but it's all very fleeting. It comes and goes -