Duff McKagan, I am crying happy tears. I have loved you as a musician, brilliant human and listening to this on a day where the darkest thoughts knotted my innards, it helps. So very much. What gifts you have given! Always light through darkness. And I wish I could meet the little you who did not deserve any abuse, whether psychological, emotional, dis-interest in who you really were. This is a gushy, long-winded way of saying: thank you. And if you ever need a listening ear, place to cry, scream, chatter, be silent, I'm here for you always xx
WOW - this interview has me in tears for many reasons. Duff has an “old sole” and I mean that in the most endearing way. Thank you Marc Brackett for sharing. I’m a huge advocate for mental health awareness. I have ADHD, depression, and anxiety. God Bless us all!
I love Duff. I've always looked up to him since the 90s. The more I learn about him, the more I aspire to be like him. He has got to be one of the most intelligent, down-to-Earth, humble, and selfless rockstars ever. And I would say the same about his wife as a model as well. I've read all their books. Power couple of the century!
Coral, your admiration for Duff is inspiring! His journey and character are indeed remarkable. It's wonderful to see how he and his wife inspire so many.
Everytime I hear Duff, I cry, I am so grateful to have read his book and understood I was in trouble as I recognised myself in his descriptions. He is so inspiring. Thank you for that incredible exchange.
It's crucial to recognize that we're not alone in our struggles. Many people grapple with similar feelings of self-doubt and self-criticism. Yet, there's power in vulnerability, in sharing our experiences, and in supporting each other on the journey toward self-acceptance and self-love. This Mental Health Month, let's commit-to ourselves and to our loved ones-to prioritize mental well-being. Let's work to break the stigma surrounding mental health and foster a culture of support and understanding. And let's remember that by embracing our own vulnerability, we become better individuals, advocates, and champions for others. Thank you, Duff, for sharing your journey with us. By opening up about your experiences, you've shown others that they too can seek help and achieve a healthier life.
Your message about vulnerability and support is powerful. Duff's story helps break the stigma around mental health. Let's continue to support one another and prioritize well-being.
For some reason hearing Duff talk simply calms me and comforts me. So much insights on life and human resilience just flowing out like a clear stream… He is truly a beautiful human being, and thank you for conducting this interview!
I'm not the biggest Guns n Roses fan, but I ended up listening to, "It's So Easy...and Other Lies" by Duff in audiobook format entirely because of his struggles with getting sober. It was a great book. Only thing is, with me, I don't think I CAN get sober... I've been drinking hard liquor to the point of blackout almost every single night since I had just turned 17 (I'm almost 38 now). The amount of damage I have done to my body and how I haven't died is insane. The endless times I've had to withdraw, I have no idea how I haven't stroked out or had a heart attack. I've had seizures from it for sure... I've lost jobs, girlfriends, been to jail, detox, programs. Nothing works, I ALWAYS come back. I'm extremely anti-social and absolutely love just getting fucked up on my own alone. I have no partner, no kids and no social life. That's all by choice. When I'm sober I utterly love being alone. Other people annoy me to no end and I like that the Internet just allows me to click away from things I don't like into things I like.... One of the biggest reasons I couldn't stick with programs for sobriety is because they CONSTANTLY tried to change me into a "social" person thinking that somehow the addiction would just crumble.... It's like, no dude, a camping trip with 15 people I don't know in an AA room isn't gonna keep me sober longer and for sure I am not going to that.... Those places tend to think that being alone is a bad thing, for me it's literal peace. As of this writing I am one month sober today from alcohol. I got close (again) to losing my job recently from it, but they are at least working with me on it... I recently started eating edibles after work (weed is legal in my state) to calm down from the day and MOST importantly to aid in sleeping (lifelong chronic insomnia has wrecked me). Whether it's a short or long term fix? Who knows, but it's keeping me off the booze for now. My problem is that I absolutely cannot be sober for life. If it's not alcohol, my brain will find something else. It's so damaged from 20 years of solid liquor intake that the structure has to have rewired and there's simply no way in hell that I have the willpower to just white knuckle like 18 months of sobriety just to get my sleep back to normal. Personally I feel this is just a phase and I'll get back to drinking before Christmas of this year (it's mid August 2024 as I type this)... I know deep in my brain that alcohol will kill me, one way or the other. I was sold a bad ticket to life when I got on Earth... Constant sense of being lost in life, no direction, no drive, no further planning, always always always just wanting to go to school and then work and just run home into my room and ignore the world. Not everyone is meant to succeed, I am one of them. When Duff talks about people like his martial arts, Benny Urquidez, I've met that type before that's always somehow pumped for you to be your best. These people utterly depress me and remind me that I CANNOT * get better * my self-loathing and what I call, "habitual giving up" is so powerful in my mind that I generally just do not try in things. I give up constantly and then drink to deal with the embarrassment.
Thanks a lot for your work Marc! I'm here after Andrew Huberman podcast which moved me so much...! Short story - once my sister asked me to translate the emotional chart listing the variety of feelings but I refused to translate the 'bad' ones... this is how head in the sand I was! I'm a bit better now, but hearing you talk about the differences in feelings and how we describe them - peaked my interest even more and I feel there is hope when we practice with awareness. What saved me was coming back to body: nature therapy with focus on sensations, breath meditations, sauna and sports. I totally agree that EI is a must for everyone who has a face and being in education I feel extra responsibility to be better reading myself and others. Would love to learn so much more from you. Good luck to all of us on this journey 💚
Duff is not only my role model on bass, but on life. Our paths are eerily similar and I respect that. My favorite part of this is the "good day to die" segment. Now I know where the line in Longfeather came from
I really appreciate Duff’s honesty. I personally would like to add that a panic attack happens when we are ready to get rid of trash we have been carrying for a long time. When it’s time to deal with the trash and dump it for good. This happens when we are ready to process the experience. Like you I also caught my father having sex with another woman when I was 5 years old. Like you I did not tell anyone and the experience meses me up, it was traumatic and I held inside all those emotions until my fifties, when I relieved the experience during a panic attack, when all the anger and hate towards my father came out. After I was able to heal, forgive and still love my dad.
It should be flat out illegal NOT to love Duff! My absolute favourite rock star of all time. If I could choose one famous person to spend an afternoon with, it'd be this amazing man! 🥰
Absolutely, Annette! Duff's incredible talent and genuine personality make him a legend. Spending an afternoon with him would be an unforgettable experience!
Great interview, love the flow of opening up to growth, supportive and love of acceptance. I’ve been an admirer of Duff since his first solo album, Believe In Me…as an artist he’s always evolving onto different paths and his willingness to share where he’s going. Truly inspirational soul, thank you for this interview.
I love Duff's humility and honesty on these tough subjects. Great interview.
Thank you, Michael! Duff's humility and honesty truly shine through. Glad you enjoyed the interview!
Duff McKagan, I am crying happy tears. I have loved you as a musician, brilliant human and listening to this on a day where the darkest thoughts knotted my innards, it helps. So very much. What gifts you have given! Always light through darkness. And I wish I could meet the little you who did not deserve any abuse, whether psychological, emotional, dis-interest in who you really were. This is a gushy, long-winded way of saying: thank you. And if you ever need a listening ear, place to cry, scream, chatter, be silent, I'm here for you always xx
Duff is a good guy, read his books, very successful, humble guy, always been one of my favorite musicians.
Andrew, thanks for sharing! Duff's books and his humble nature make him a standout figure. Glad he's one of your favorites too!
WOW - this interview has me in tears for many reasons. Duff has an “old sole” and I mean that in the most endearing way. Thank you Marc Brackett for sharing. I’m a huge advocate for mental health awareness. I have ADHD, depression, and anxiety. God Bless us all!
old soul, i suppose
I have so much respect for Duff. He just as easily could've gone down as a rock n roll footnote. Instead he's truly making the world a better place.
I love Duff. I've always looked up to him since the 90s. The more I learn about him, the more I aspire to be like him. He has got to be one of the most intelligent, down-to-Earth, humble, and selfless rockstars ever. And I would say the same about his wife as a model as well. I've read all their books. Power couple of the century!
Coral, your admiration for Duff is inspiring! His journey and character are indeed remarkable. It's wonderful to see how he and his wife inspire so many.
@@MarcBrackettopookkooo ooopo
Good job letting this guy tell his story without interrupting. Interesting and helpful stories.
Thank you, Dennis! Duff's stories are indeed captivating and insightful. We're glad you enjoyed the conversation.
Everytime I hear Duff, I cry, I am so grateful to have read his book and understood I was in trouble as I recognised myself in his descriptions. He is so inspiring. Thank you for that incredible exchange.
Duff's willingness to share his journey is a gift to us all. Thanks for watching and for the support
It's crucial to recognize that we're not alone in our struggles. Many people grapple with similar feelings of self-doubt and self-criticism. Yet, there's power in vulnerability, in sharing our experiences, and in supporting each other on the journey toward self-acceptance and self-love. This Mental Health Month, let's commit-to ourselves and to our loved ones-to prioritize mental well-being. Let's work to break the stigma surrounding mental health and foster a culture of support and understanding. And let's remember that by embracing our own vulnerability, we become better individuals, advocates, and champions for others.
Thank you, Duff, for sharing your journey with us. By opening up about your experiences, you've shown others that they too can seek help and achieve a healthier life.
Your message about vulnerability and support is powerful. Duff's story helps break the stigma around mental health. Let's continue to support one another and prioritize well-being.
Thank you Duff. You make the world a better place.
Duff is the real deal! This dude gets nothing but respect from me 100%
For some reason hearing Duff talk simply calms me and comforts me. So much insights on life and human resilience just flowing out like a clear stream… He is truly a beautiful human being, and thank you for conducting this interview!
Feeling grateful to witness two men talk about their mental wellbeing openly. Really powerful interview!
Duff’s interest in helping others is inspiring.
Dear Lord the respect for this whole interview. Duff, you are a gift to this world!!
This video.. from start to finish 🙏🏽🙌🏽💜
I'm not the biggest Guns n Roses fan, but I ended up listening to, "It's So Easy...and Other Lies" by Duff in audiobook format entirely because of his struggles with getting sober. It was a great book.
Only thing is, with me, I don't think I CAN get sober... I've been drinking hard liquor to the point of blackout almost every single night since I had just turned 17 (I'm almost 38 now). The amount of damage I have done to my body and how I haven't died is insane. The endless times I've had to withdraw, I have no idea how I haven't stroked out or had a heart attack. I've had seizures from it for sure... I've lost jobs, girlfriends, been to jail, detox, programs. Nothing works, I ALWAYS come back.
I'm extremely anti-social and absolutely love just getting fucked up on my own alone. I have no partner, no kids and no social life. That's all by choice. When I'm sober I utterly love being alone. Other people annoy me to no end and I like that the Internet just allows me to click away from things I don't like into things I like.... One of the biggest reasons I couldn't stick with programs for sobriety is because they CONSTANTLY tried to change me into a "social" person thinking that somehow the addiction would just crumble.... It's like, no dude, a camping trip with 15 people I don't know in an AA room isn't gonna keep me sober longer and for sure I am not going to that.... Those places tend to think that being alone is a bad thing, for me it's literal peace.
As of this writing I am one month sober today from alcohol. I got close (again) to losing my job recently from it, but they are at least working with me on it... I recently started eating edibles after work (weed is legal in my state) to calm down from the day and MOST importantly to aid in sleeping (lifelong chronic insomnia has wrecked me). Whether it's a short or long term fix? Who knows, but it's keeping me off the booze for now.
My problem is that I absolutely cannot be sober for life. If it's not alcohol, my brain will find something else. It's so damaged from 20 years of solid liquor intake that the structure has to have rewired and there's simply no way in hell that I have the willpower to just white knuckle like 18 months of sobriety just to get my sleep back to normal.
Personally I feel this is just a phase and I'll get back to drinking before Christmas of this year (it's mid August 2024 as I type this)... I know deep in my brain that alcohol will kill me, one way or the other. I was sold a bad ticket to life when I got on Earth... Constant sense of being lost in life, no direction, no drive, no further planning, always always always just wanting to go to school and then work and just run home into my room and ignore the world. Not everyone is meant to succeed, I am one of them.
When Duff talks about people like his martial arts, Benny Urquidez, I've met that type before that's always somehow pumped for you to be your best. These people utterly depress me and remind me that I CANNOT * get better * my self-loathing and what I call, "habitual giving up" is so powerful in my mind that I generally just do not try in things. I give up constantly and then drink to deal with the embarrassment.
I love Duff! Such an open and positive influence!!!
Deep dive with Duff. Love his wisdom and humility - a real diamond. Nice job, Marc!
Glad you enjoyed the interview! Duff's openness makes it all the more impactful. 🙏
Thanks a lot for your work Marc! I'm here after Andrew Huberman podcast which moved me so much...! Short story - once my sister asked me to translate the emotional chart listing the variety of feelings but I refused to translate the 'bad' ones... this is how head in the sand I was! I'm a bit better now, but hearing you talk about the differences in feelings and how we describe them - peaked my interest even more and I feel there is hope when we practice with awareness. What saved me was coming back to body: nature therapy with focus on sensations, breath meditations, sauna and sports. I totally agree that EI is a must for everyone who has a face and being in education I feel extra responsibility to be better reading myself and others. Would love to learn so much more from you. Good luck to all of us on this journey 💚
I can't believe how much Duff & I have in common.
Duff is not only my role model on bass, but on life. Our paths are eerily similar and I respect that. My favorite part of this is the "good day to die" segment.
Now I know where the line in Longfeather came from
John, it's amazing how Duff's journey mirrors yours. The "good day to die" segment is indeed profound. Thank you for sharing your connection.
Duff is so humble and inspiring! Loved his T-Shirt in Portuguese
What does it mean?
@@gunnervictorika9859 "Only God & Jiu-Jitsu save & Jiujitsutherapy"
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@@aoliveirapatricia4573 thank you 🤘🏻
@@gunnervictorika9859 🤘😁
Great interview. Some might not know this but Duff has also helped other musicians get sober. ❤
I really appreciate Duff’s honesty. I personally would like to add that a panic attack happens when we are ready to get rid of trash we have been carrying for a long time. When it’s time to deal with the trash and dump it for good. This happens when we are ready to process the experience. Like you I also caught my father having sex with another woman when I was 5 years old. Like you I did not tell anyone and the experience meses me up, it was traumatic and I held inside all those emotions until my fifties, when I relieved the experience during a panic attack, when all the anger and hate towards my father came out. After I was able to heal, forgive and still love my dad.
This really affected me. Thanks for being so honest Duff!
It should be flat out illegal NOT to love Duff! My absolute favourite rock star of all time. If I could choose one famous person to spend an afternoon with, it'd be this amazing man! 🥰
Absolutely, Annette! Duff's incredible talent and genuine personality make him a legend. Spending an afternoon with him would be an unforgettable experience!
So happy to see him enjoying sobriety! Love him!
Duff's journey to sobriety is truly inspiring. It's wonderful to see him thriving! Thanks for watching 🙏
I love duff. Good dude!
Great interview! Subscribed
cool brazilian t-shirt Duff, "Only God & Jiu-Jjitsu can save you." we love you in here 🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷
Inspirational guy - we could all learn from his life lessons
Thank you, Shaun! Duff’s life lessons are indeed inspirational. We can all learn a lot from his journey.
Nice job, Mr. Brackett...
This was a very good interview thank you!
Thanks for watching. We’re glad you enjoyed it 🙏
Been a fan of duffs since I was a kid. He speaks really well here. Love the vid!
Duff is my savior thank you my friend
Great interview, love the flow of opening up to growth, supportive and love of acceptance. I’ve been an admirer of Duff since his first solo album, Believe In Me…as an artist he’s always evolving onto different paths and his willingness to share where he’s going. Truly inspirational soul, thank you for this interview.
Duff's evolution as an artist is truly inspiring. His willingness to share his journey is a gift to us all. Thanks for watching and for the support 🙏
Thank you for this footage. Duff has always been one of my favorite musicians and it is great to hear about the paths he has walked on in life. Cheers
Thanks for tuning in 🙏
Thank you, this was great
Loved him before, love him even more now.🙏🏽💜✨️
Thanks for tuning in 🙏
I love Duff!!
I can't handle it anymore.
Right on, that helped.
Glad you enjoyed it. Thanks for watching
Love it love Duffsuch a sweet.
Simplesmente Duff mandando só deus e jiu jitsu (não tem como ser mais verdade que isso)
I knew you many years ago.
I have a question; do you take anti depressants?
did you meet Duff in person?
he was hot, some of the best songs of all times
Duff looks great for 75.
You seem really smart for being so……starts with a D and ends with a B
@@nordicpride9708 whahhhhhh
Ooh, nice burn. Do you write your own material? 🤡
I'd love to know this dude. I don't give a shit if he's famous, which is irrelevant.
duff is great but the interviewer looks like a cartoon lol
Great interview
Great interview
Thank you, Claus! Glad you enjoyed the interview.