@@ibrar6364hope you're doing ok now... I'm currently going through the same thing and as much shitty as it is, we have to learn this lesson from this situation that everyone in this world will change one day..they could've sworn to every force on earth that they'll never cheat u then they do the next month, it's cz they're not the same person now. Ik shitty advice shitty wording but honestly i hate ppl at this point I'm over relationships
@@ibrar6364and let's be real we're all pretty young..if we start settling for the bare minimum now then imagine us in the future...we have to know we deserve better
@@ibrar6364he did the same with me ... gave me his all attention then told me he loves me and all ... and now he never msgs me .. I msg him first .. I feel like I am being nuisance and when I asked him I was bothering him or something he said no ... I asked him if I've ever hurt him unintentionally.. he said I can never hurt him .. I wanted to ask if I'm that mere of an person that is not worthy enough to even hurt him type of thing ... but couldn't bring myself to say that ... I just said . Okay.
Bro my best friend That I have been with for 5 years WHICH IS ALSO MY COUSIN used me and dumped me and got her friends to go against me when i supported them so much I also supported my bestie whne she was in the hospital for 3 months. Sometimes you can’t just forgive and forget
No. Let me idolise them so I don't have to face the realization of that is me actually LOVING then for who they r I tried so hard to dislike, ignote, hate them and so many times I was like bruh what even am I dougn and why THEM? Lmao? But still I can't. I like them. It's ridiculous wtf. I didn't ask for this. But also I don't rlly wanna get over the feelings abut at the same time I do wanna get over it.
@@maui.tech.0415 do the blocketh again, ik it’s hard but my cheeky mistake was becoming really close friends with them and then it felt worse when I knew for a fact they didn’t like me. Although I knew it would happen, it hadn’t completely hit me. Also really take the advice in this video it’s really good advjce
@@zuzukram worst for me, she sent such mixed signals but then told me she had a boyfriend? But was joking about us being together idk it was weird I blocked her and she blocked me back 🤣🤣
@@zuzukram yeah man no way I was gonna bother through that, it would suck to be her current boyfriend tho. I wouldn’t like my girl to make jokes about being with someone else low-key 💀
She left me after a 5 year relationship and I honestly got over her in 5 months. Tips: 1. Don't bury your feelings and supress them. Go through it guys. 2. Talk to yourself, yes literally to yourself and talk about this person. 3. Write down or talk to yourself about the good and their BAD. 4. You MUST destroy everything that connects you to this person, like gifts, text messages, pictures, chats, emails etc. Delete them and throw them in the bin. 5. Go through the stages of Shock, Anger, Grief then the last step, Reflection. 6. Keep yourself busy and re-establish connections you lost along the way. 7. Better will come, I promise. And this is it pretty much. If a person leaves you, they're basically saying without saying ''I want someone better'' which is a huge disrespect, so don't chase them nor give them the time of day. You're not responsible for this other adult, let them figure out life by themselves. p.s she came back to me, but I declined.
You're totally right! Loving someone who doesn't even care about you is a total waste of time.. And I knew this before but still, I fell in love with her! Now, I'm trying to remove those feelings and I'm sure that I'll be fine someday.. At least, Someday! 💔
@@mohammedwaseem10h49 Not good buddy!! Nothing has changed.. I'm still in love with her and i can't even move on now!! Don't know how's everything going? I just want to feel happy..
If you're not receiving the same love you're giving, cut them out of your life. You deserve better. The problem isn't that your not good enough for her, the problem is shes not good enough for you.
@@AceOfStars0Yeah that sucks but do the things you like to do & you’ll get distracted with other things & eventually you’ll start to forget about them or at least lose feelings for them.
@@Itsnoahscott that's what I'm doing but I just keep thinking what they would say if I told them this in a conversation and also everything relates to them, especially my hobbies because we share a lot of interests
Thank you🥰 Unfortunately we get attached to people so fast. But as you said, it’s a waste of time. And also it is a waste of our love and energy. I hope all of us will heal ourselves and move on
i dont think most ppl dont know how to move on from someone, everyone does but the hard part is forcing ur heart to actually move on, i have tried all this and i couldnt move on at all, its not a button u make it on/off ur heart and ur brain keep reminding u and i rly loved that person, i just gave up one relationships cuz i dont think its fair for anyone to try with while i am still in love with someone else.
@@kpopanimeia1256same 😕 the man i was talking to, we were really close and we talked everyday. But now it’s been 6 months no contact and i still deeply love him and I can’t help it but make fake scenarios about him. This is a nightmare..
Yes same. He is even in different country. I don’t see him, don’t speak. Removed everything. And still here I am 💔❤️🩹 Yes the World might be full of people, but I don’t click with just anyone.
Be careful. Every situation is different. The most DANGEROUS person out there is someone you care about a lot but they don’t feel the same but they don’t want you out of their lives. They will destroy you but it’s not because they are evil in many cases but they are sick and you can’t save them.
@@joeskwara5823Same happened with me. He confessed me first and after some time when I confessed he said that he needs time. I literally gaev everything to him. like literally so much efforts. But now I realised that he never actually loved me. maybe he loved the fact that I like him. now he don't want me to get out of his life but I want to move on. today, I confessed to him that I want to move on and I can't put more efforts. he agreed. but now let's see what happens. but I literally need to move on.
@@lofisky4355 I recently had a breakup too . And I actually believe we get our person when we least expect just focus on ourselves.You are very right here.even if I am not able to move on right now I am trying cause I am a human and it's okay to not feel okay . People just don't want to move themselves up from situation sometimes those negative feelings gives cheap pleasure being a victim card. This is why this people are not able to accept their lives. I didn't replied to that person cause I really don't think he or she will understand so I just replied to you cause I just wanted to share this with someone. It made me feel good
Really needed to hear this. Was talking to a guy just over 6 months, met once but definitely had meeting up again as an option. Fast forward to holiday season, he says he won't be able to message me as often as he's busy and today I find he now has a girlfriend, so he was dating her within this month. Opened my eyes to a lot of things. I'm sad but at the same time I am glad he found someone for him, I just need time to grieve...
😢 the same happened to me My gf cheated on me She left me because she wanted to propose someone else And u know the biggest heartbeat? She proposed the guy whom she used to call brother infront of me 😢 How can I even trust anyone now? Idk am just so exhausted rn She broked up with me on 31st December 2022 and proposed him the very next day on 1st January 2023 She didn't let me say anything And blocked me everywhere 😢 We were in a long distance relationship We had planned so much for our future Idk why she cheated 😢
Reply to @PRINCED Look I don't quite know you or the way you feel but it's similar to me....and just keep moving on and try your best to avoid her catch up with your friends, spend more time with your family.....and try your best to love yourself and make yourself happy....I hope you'll find a way to move on..
@@PRINCEDMUSICZ @PRINCED Omg, how did I not see tbis until now? I dunno how you have been able to get through this so far, but don't ever let that make you feel bad or like you're not enough. Remember that there's people like us everywhere, and while it's hard to trust again, if we don't want to be alone we have to take the risk. There is always a risk. Just remember that next time, keep your standards high. If you ever get weird vibes from someone you're dating and have some doubts that can't seem to be cleared even if they explain, then maybe it's your gut instinct telling you something is wrong. Trust it. I didn't trust mine and then I got heartbroken. In the past I've trusted too easily too and gave people the benefit of the doubt, only to get hurt again. So, from now on, if I can't feel safe enough to trust someone, I will trust my instinct and leave first. Only if I don't feel satisfied when I ask questions. LDR's take a lot of time and effort to keep alive. She did you wrong. You deserve better, so just focus on yourself for now. Later, when you feel confident in yourself to not need to rely on others, then it's okay to test the waters again. All the best. Remember, you're not alone. We're just some of the good and genuine ones that are taken for granted 💕
@LrXZia I feel you, girl. He made more than promises to just 'kiss' me lol 😂 But I am so grateful I found out who he was before I gave myself away amd regretted it. Now I have moved on, I will keep appreciating my patience to keep myself for the right guy 💕
@@shagufta2170 hey! So I’m really sorry abt what happened, it always sucks. But to get over him, it takes a lot of self love and telling yourself that there are so many other people in the world that you could love. So I hope that kinda helps! Lmk if you need someone to talk to
Ok, zero contact, feel your feelings, don't keep hurting yourself in the pursuit of they want feel the same, and one I'd like to add is take time to heal! Not enough people take time to heal from heart break.
we were together on and off for three years i tried so hard to make it work. it’s been almost two months since we’ve spoken because we decided to go our separate ways. this is the hardest thing i’ve had to go through. i dont feel in love very much anymore but i know for certain i love him so much still. i just want to move on and be okay
Im dealing with this now. 3 years. Almost 4. Crazy. When you lose it all you u realize their true intentions instead of helping you and being the invisible hand behind you. That's when you leave glow up and finally wait for them to come want you and give it right back. Say bye and replace them.
Thank you. Stuff I already know, but it’s so hard to let it out. Especially as a dude. We’re supposed to be unfeeling so it’s hard to be able to vent or process feelings sometimes.
i feel you bro. notjing happened between me and this girl, just friends. but she had a really great energy and it was stupid easy to talk to her. but i was too slow and now someone else is with her. i dont want overthink it cuz in reality it was just a crush that only effects me now, but its hard to think about anything else rn
I am really desperate now to get over him because I realized that I like him for too long. I think I have said enough or vent enough to my friends so I want to put all my feelings here. So I have like him for so long as I could remember. I don't even see him everyday and honestly I haven't seen him much this year. I could remember faint memories I have back then we where still a literal child. I just thought that I want to be friends with him but little thought did I ever realize that I was developing a crush on him. I never truly accept it but whenever there's a chance I would see him, I couldn't talk and just ended up running away. It's sad to think I didn't get to be close to him other than just being his classmate. Years passed I would still occasionally remember him and I would sometimes mention him to my friends by telling them that he was my old crush. I didn't know I was so much in denial back in elementary. I also tried finding guys to like other than him but they always turns to be different than him that I ended up not liking them further. It's like as if I was finding replacement because I could even see him that much. That it's sad. But eventually in highschool I develop another crush on someone. He was older than me and they are a bit similar in a way. I really like this guy but somehow he always seems to crawl back in my mind. And whenever I look around at school I would imagine him just walking here even though I know his not there. I did get over with the guy I have crush in highschool because he graduated and he had a gf already so I stop. And when I graduated junior highschool and now entering my senior year that I realized something big. Looking up on my FB newsfeed did I see his name again for so many years. Just looking at his pictures made me really have a heart pounding moment. I was truly shacking and in shock to see myself the same way I was back when I was child having lovestruck moment when his around. That's when I knew and no longer deny it that i truly like that guy for so long that i ended up in this predicament right now. I send him friend request on Facebook after confirming my friend that it was h because they go to the same school which is I am pretty jealous of. And I was so happy when he accepted it that I was smiling throughout the day. I would literally stalk his account but there's not much to see so I kinda gave up so I would just ask my friend what is he like on their school and what is he doing there. I found so many things about him that way. I never knew that he played basketball, a really smart and responsible student and as my friend would always mention is that his handwriting are pretty. She would tell me stories about the nice things he would do. I am really happy to know that he seems to be doing well and enjoying life. I wish I could be closer to him. See him at school and talk to him. But I know that those are just wishful thinking. As the days pass by so quickly. I realized that maybe I should put an end to this crush I have because I have been overthinking a lot of things. And I am getting crazy with all the what if's that I ask myself. Eventually I made a decision to confess to him. Through chat of course because I am coward. I decided it to be the day and when it came I was so nerbouse and couldn't think straight. I manage to get enough courage to just say hi and it really took a long time for him to reply to it. And with that sign I already knew that he didn't feel the same way as I did. After months of rethinking life decision I finally let him know about my feelings for him. And as expected he rejected me. In a gentle way because it wasn't direct. That guy sure is too nice. I would have wanted a clear answer. But if that what he choose to say then I accepted it. I guess I was expecting too much that it had taken me for weeks to realize that I should move on. But it seems to be not working and maybe it got even worse for sure. So I am really thankful for this advice. I would want to try them but it would really take a long time for me to stop thinking about him. So hopefully his name would no longer hold any meaning for me. One day I would find myself being cool about this situation I am experiencing and laugh about it. Thank you for listening to this messy story of mine
@@chewishie_cherishyourself girl right now im literally crying bc i have such similar experience. but i'd say mine is kinda weird cause he liked me first and when i knew that this boy likes me i started to make fun of him w my friends cause he was my bully. anyways so he didnt know that i know abt him liking me. we never talked . so after knowing all these i started to stalk him and romanticize every little post he shared abt his crush. i caught myself laughing like an idiot over those silly little cute things he did without even knowing that his crush literally knows everything. SO a month or two later he messaged me thru a fake acc (even tho we were friends in fb but dude choose to listen to his ego) and got caught lol.then after getting caught he smh tried to cover it up by saying thats not him but one of his friends hence the acc was anon. i also behaved so weird as i wanted him to know that i dont like him. I swear on my life little did i know i was devolaping A CRUSH OVER THIS MAN. i put him on a pedestal. i even romanticized every post he liked. i created a whole multiverse in my head where we were the perfect couple of my dreams. the thing that had me was him posting a song of lana del rey for impressing me . damn things went like this for a long time. he didnt even try to put any effort after getting caught and started to talk to a girl (SHE WAS ONE OF HIS FRIENDS EX) and they devoloped a good relationship. they used to flirt w eachother in the comment section. and my dumbass was so invested that it thought he was doing this for me to get jealous. that girl also had a crush on him. she still has and now they are gf bf posting cute stories with each other . he forgot me completely. i dont know how could someone do this if they actually had loved their so called loved ones. he still pops up in my head every time i see wholesome couple videos. its been over a year :) we could make such a nice pair. all we needed was a lil effort from eachother. or maybe he never loved me and i got caught into him forever? i dont want it to be forever. its been over a year my grades also got worse because all of this. i just wanted to vent so bad and your story made me tear up. im so glad that you got over him. anw sorry for my bad english and this long paragraph. my heart feels so light after writing all this down.
@@coc0bean.It's okay. You'll get over him one day.. I have a crush on a guy and I love him fr.. (my prob is I can't express my feelings I have for anyone, but my actions speaks it all.. In case for everyone) but that guy has the best personality. Am in love with him. I confessed him, he rejected me politely(and I'm thankful too, am an ovethinker) as he has a crush too. I can't get over him.
Same my ex and i use to work in same office, and ge keeps coming back in my life, and try to talk, so i had no option to leave that job and after that i never saw his face ever again.
I understand. I'm going through it right now. I'm quitting my job because of this. I can't focus and my mental health is declining. The fact that hurts the most is they don't care at all. I'm over here having breakdowns in the middle of work but they just seem so nonchalant and seems way happier and when I'm gone. I don't interact at all but they come to me and speak as if nothing happened. That's the worst thing ever. It would be better if they just ignored me too
That last thing you said about someone better coming into your life is so true! I had a a crush on a guy who didn’t like me but then I started hanging out more with my childhood BFF and I started liking him and turns out he liked me for a long time I still have to tell him I feel the same way though so wish me luck!
These literally present my life. And i cannot get over this crush I had for almost a year. Well things went south and now I need to move on. THANK YOU!!!
And how am I supposed to stop thinking about him -He is in the same class -Can't avoid staring at him -Can't block him on snapchat as -I was the one forcing him to add me back -We do snapstreak and that instantly hits my mind that i like him a looooooot. 😢😔🥺 Edit: Guys you can do it I ...I.. I deleted snapchat and it helped me a lot!!. Edit 2: Does someone has any idea how to not stare at your crush during school time... Do tell if u know !
I listened to video last year April and it was hard but this advice worked for me and I've never been so emotionally healthy before just wanna say thank u ❤
I'm 22, and I've a crush on a woman around 38 years old. I've already confess to her, but she rejected me, but she does everything to makes me feel not rejected. She's a great and sweet woman, but I have to move on, and this video helps me a lot. Thank you so much!
I'm 19 and I have a crush on a man around 26 yr old😭 It's so hard, we met for the first time yesterday... Idk how to get him out of my mind How's the situation for u buddy?
I loved my BFF so much! But everything I touch, chase or love just crumbles. 😢 I loved my right hand enough to let him free! I'll still be around if he needs me! ILY4E L. 🐻😘💖🤗🥰🤞🏾
Thx so much. I’m in this situation rn. I’m the type of person who looks out for others more than myself, and when I met my ex, I had felt loved, and finally accepted, but yesterday she came up to me and told me she didn’t want to be together no more and wanted to be friends. Now she isn’t even talking to me. Thx again, this helps me so much
ok my crush in sixth grade i wrote him a love letter and he tore it up and threw it away- the letter if anyones interested: I write under the streetlight, but none shines as bright as your eyes. My hearts breaking with each letter in fear of rejection, so every now and then I cry again. I like to read, I also like to write, but your voice is more beautiful than any poem. Your smile can make me happy even on the worst day, like a candle in the dark, like water in the desert, like a friend when you're entirely alone. I'm not poor as long as you are in my life, because you are the only riches that I need. You are the most precious thing in my life, the only person I love with all my heart, and I will never let sadness knock on your door. I'm afraid to lose you, because I know far too well what it's like when a lover becomes a stranger. Whenever I see you, a smile appears on my face, and I wouldn't replace you for all the money in the world I cried for 2 days until i noticed that was ffing pathetic and pulled myself together. hardest rejection ive had by far felt so good after getting over it
Thank YOU!!! I've been stuck with this toxic crush that I now hate bc he HURT my best friend and I'm now defending and protecting them now! So I owe you! 😊
im getting a lot of stress loving this guy, and i always try to stop but i cant. my friend is friends with him but i think he likes my friend so now idk what to do, but this posts really opens me up. Thank you🙇🏻♀️🌸😭
Me and my boyfriend of 5 months just broke up and right now im really just trying to focus on myself. We just decided to become friends and stay friends and tbh im happy that way. So if anyone else is going through a breakup I hope you find peace and are able to move on. (Love you Riley) ❤️
Lol same here except I’m out of HS and at work going through it😂 And they’re dating someone already but I still have these minor feelings. I guess I’ll let time fade it out
I was dating someone for 2 years and they just recently left me alone even though I followed them to college at a state I don't even recognize, I loved them so much it made me blind and now it's the worst mistake I ever made
@@jordanferguson2254 yeah same I’m over it now, gone to a college closer to home and I’m actually studying something I enjoy instead of what she enjoyed
Me and my crush have been talking for a while. It went great at first. We both liked each other, just needed to get to know each other better. We are in the same class, so we often talked. We could hold eye contact for 5-10 second, but suddenly she went cold. She had asked to go to a place together, but I couldn't at the time. I asked two days later if it we could hang out then, but she just dodged the question. Now she can't even look me in my eyes. I thought we could work out, but apparently not. She could have been my first girlfriend, so it is really hard to try to remover her from my life. I can barely focus at school now. It is har for me to accept the fact, but I know I have to and I am slowly getting better.
I have a crush on someone who’s 20. i’m 15, it’s so stupid bro and ofc he doesn’t like me back! but i’ve liked him for over half a year now and every time I see him he’s so kind to me.. but he’s dating someone who’s his age and he loves very much. he has no idea i like him and obviously I can’t tell him. I can’t stop thinking about him and it hurts so. so bad.
Bestie its the same for me kinda good and kinda worst than your situation first up Iam 13 and he is 20 Secondly he is my first cousin And third he is not dating anyone tho And Finally - he is really nice to me he touches me and all But iam not sure if he likes me as a CRUSH or a sister and Idk if my family would allow So I am trying to get over him and love my anime charectors
thank you. it may seem crazy. but I am suffering from an obsession with a fictional character and I wanna get rid of it. and it comes back even stronger. this helped a lot.
My crush hooked up with my friend. She was really nice and had manners and me and my crush are friends but I never told her how I feel. But my other friend ( not my crush ) came in and just started dating her. I try hiding my jealousy and hate but it’s really hard and I just act so calm on the outside. This video helped me so now I’m trying to move on and find other girls
My gf left me yesterday. I got cussed out in a gc. I was prepared for the pain but it was worse then last time. I finally decided for a smarter approach so instead of getting fat again and becoming a hunk of junk with all F’s again, I’m gonna keep doing my workouts, AND also I’m for sure subscribing to you and other creators to help me with this.
I have it so hard , im trying my best to move on but like i actually cant like i have never felt like this with anyone like and ive taken a day of like doing stuff taking a shower and treating myself with face masks and skincare so yk😢
Bro Ty so much I’ve been trying to get over him for SOO long cause now my friend is his gf so I couldn’t get over him and this will help SOOOOOOOO much Ty so much!
Thank you so much. After 10 years, I confessed to my crush. He was praising me at first for my bravery and we have these sweet conversations going on, then I asked the ultimate question. Do you really do not have someone else right now? Then he called me and said to me that, he is chasing a person right now and he said that I know that person too, we were friends back at school. And even if that friend rejected me, he would not easily come to me. Then I said, I agree since I do not want to be your second choice. I appreciate his honesty and now I am trembling with tears after tears coz it’s really not easy to forget someone you have loved with your whole heart for more than 10 years, especially when he is being so kind with my confession. But I need to move on to live.
Yep I feel you except my friend who is now my former friend in my brain, told my crush who is her crush, that I like him without telling me and he likes her back so I just have to forget about him
I got 20x happier when I watched this video I can not get over my crush and it makes me so depressed just to think about him or look at him and he won’t get off my head and this video helped a log
Thank you for your advice, i have been crushing over a boy for more than 3years , he never reciprocate my feelings and i feel unlovable person with low self esteem. I have realized that this is just a waste of time. I like him allot but looking at myself makes me regret about my feelings as i think i am way too ugly for anyone. I always think he will never ever like me because i am ugly and i have no right to get feelings for anyone in this world. So now i want to get over this exhausting feeling and want to work on myself, want to love myself. Ok goodbye crush, memories of you will slowly fade away from my mind now. Jope you live a best and healthy life ❤😢
I'm scared to tell my friends so I will tell it here. I found out about him at the beginning of February this year I liked him as soon as I saw him, he wasn't iny class so it wasn't a big deal, but this year (u know what I mean) he's in my class, and he has a really good personality, and he is also funny, but the thing is he likes someone else 😢and nearly every one ships them... (I'm not kidding) Basically they like each other, I am his class partner but he barely talks to me cause I don't talk much, and he's new to me, it makes me really sad that we don't talk much, and I only want to be friends with him, I'm not good at making friends..... I keep on thinking about him all the time, I haven't been myself because of this, he is also friends with most girls in my class but just not me, amd some loser kid every one hates, I hate her too, she acts like a baby and never talks,people mistake me being like her cause I don't speak to them, unlike her I have friends! So my crush may be seeing it like that, he will be my class partner only for this month, it's like my only chance, if I fail I fail, but I do think it's time to let go... Cause he likes someone else... It's a very long story short!
To follow up on step number 2, *please* be careful when venting to your friends. Ask first before you vent and say thank you when you're done. This is so that you don't drain your friends energies, and add on to their own problems. It's unhealthy to dump all your negative energy onto them. If your friends aren't available (or if you don't have any), try recording a video and just vent your feelings there. Or go to a school counselor or therapist. Or express your feelings through art or writing (I do both :D). Or, this is ny favorite, SING!!!!!! Sing sad songs that you resonate with, or even write your own :3
YES😭. Like ever since i realized that my obsessive situation and problems happened to come from my mother, and my daddy issues kinda came into play, i was OBSESSED with this dude that was a year older then me. I confessed on Halloween last year and he is still impacting my life even though im still getting over him. I have a bf and i love him very dearly. But he is 2½ years older than me😢. But thank you 🙏
My crush's name is Jackson. I swear I'm losing sleep over him. I truly feel like I can't get him off of my mind. I don't follow him on social media or know any of his accounts but I have to see him in 2 of my classes at school every single day of school.
My situ, my best friend(former) and my crush(former) like each other and it’s driving me insane!! They held hands while sitting down and I just had to leave. Also then they hugged it bothered me. I only have one person to talk to about this that won’t judge me. It’s so hard but I don’t like him anymore! Why do I feel this way.
writing things down and drawing actually helped me it sort of popped that bubble of accumulated feelings, although might not be pleasant, but effective
I need help on this one, I’ve been venting for a year after the breakup and each time it feels worse to say something about them. I still cannot think about them without bringing me pain
Well I found out today that my crush wasn't single and it made sense why he never showed interest during our conversations on IG.. Geez I was starting to think if he was gay😆 Talented, good looking and tall guys are always taken! Note that down
I had a family friend who I talked to in a group chat with a two other friends. I didn't really know anyone else so when they left the chat I messaged them why? We had all been talking for a while and all they said was they didn't feel like talking anymore. My two other friends in the chat slowly stopped talking as well and I don't live close to them so I can't talk irl. That was my main group of friends, and at that point it wasn't possible for me to make new friends. I'm homeschooling and traveling so there weren't many people my age. But I have new friends now.
Matthew 11:28-30 (NIV) “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”
@user-mp8vg6ww2z It's been two months, and I'm still in a haze. I really can't say that it's gotten much better. The mentality that must be required to drop such a relationship like that, I can't imagine. It leaves me with just a few logical options, and I don't like any of them. 1. They were miserable in the relationship, and I was oblivious to it. 2. They met someone new and liked them more, very petty and should be discussed. 3. They were or at some point became mentally unwell, because I don't know how someone could just do something like that. Anyway, if you wanna talk about your situation or vent, I'd be happy to listen. I very much enjoy hearing other peoples points of view. It helps me to better understand my own beliefs.
@@Riley_27 maybe it will never get any better soon. We jjst learn to live with the pain. Idk. But appreciate you for sharing. And I can definitely relate. thousands of questions running through my mind every hour in every day and I have zero answers. I asked him why what happened how come. We were supposed to get married next month and tomorrow is his birthday we were supposed to meet. But then lately he just been really cold and distant he hasnt been replying to my messages. And this afternoon he just sent me a message saying he fell inlove with his coworker. I felt so betrayed. For months I worked so hard for 16 hours a day just to pay his debts and save him from his hellish situation. He lost his job he got covid. So i provided everything for him. Food. Medicine. Rent. I even helped him go back home find work so he can start again but... Turns out he'll just fall inlove with his coworker because she cooks for him she cares for him. Lol lame reasons. I just want to stop hoping and let go. Though its really hard when wer'e just left with no reasonable answers at all. I dont know how a human being can do that to someone whose intention is nothing but pure. I loved him unconditionally through thick and thin. I dont think anyone who loves this much deserves to go through this hell. But yeah such is life. I just want to sleep peacefully and wake up without checking if hes online. Anyway, i hope we'll get through this.
Yup, facts. I have a crush on much younger guy at the gym. Been going on for months. We have never even talked. Only passed each other. Thinking about him all the time. Until the next time I see him at the gym. He walked in recently with his gf. They were all over each other. I literally cried in the way home. There is NO WAY IN HELL anything was going to come of my obsession. I try to go to the gym when I know he is not going to be there. Hopefully the crush will go away. I don't want to waste time and energy on someone that I can never be with. I feel so stupid. 😢
Stop investing your time and energy in someone who doesn’t reciprocate the same energy.
Than why tf they make us feel so special.. first she gave me all the attention now she doesn't bother a reply. It makes my blood boil
@@ibrar6364hope you're doing ok now... I'm currently going through the same thing and as much shitty as it is, we have to learn this lesson from this situation that everyone in this world will change one day..they could've sworn to every force on earth that they'll never cheat u then they do the next month, it's cz they're not the same person now. Ik shitty advice shitty wording but honestly i hate ppl at this point I'm over relationships
@@ibrar6364and let's be real we're all pretty young..if we start settling for the bare minimum now then imagine us in the future...we have to know we deserve better
Yeah 😢 now I've gotta grow stronger and instead of having any crush on someone I'd better crush my feelings
@@ibrar6364he did the same with me ... gave me his all attention then told me he loves me and all ... and now he never msgs me .. I msg him first .. I feel like I am being nuisance and when I asked him I was bothering him or something he said no ... I asked him if I've ever hurt him unintentionally.. he said I can never hurt him .. I wanted to ask if I'm that mere of an person that is not worthy enough to even hurt him type of thing ... but couldn't bring myself to say that ... I just said . Okay.
Realise they are human. Let them off the pedestal you put them on and accept just how normal they are, and that it’s ok.
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Is it weird that I actually love them more when they make mistakes?? 😭
Then you put yourself on that pedestal, because you are more than ok
Bro my best friend That I have been with for 5 years WHICH IS ALSO MY COUSIN used me and dumped me and got her friends to go against me when i supported them so much I also supported my bestie whne she was in the hospital for 3 months. Sometimes you can’t just forgive and forget
No. Let me idolise them so I don't have to face the realization of that is me actually LOVING then for who they r
I tried so hard to dislike, ignote, hate them and so many times I was like bruh what even am I dougn and why THEM? Lmao? But still I can't. I like them. It's ridiculous wtf. I didn't ask for this. But also I don't rlly wanna get over the feelings abut at the same time I do wanna get over it.
My literal situation. Thank you so much mate. I actually blocked my crush on Insta
Update I followed my crush again. Help!!!!!
@@maui.tech.0415 do the blocketh again, ik it’s hard but my cheeky mistake was becoming really close friends with them and then it felt worse when I knew for a fact they didn’t like me. Although I knew it would happen, it hadn’t completely hit me. Also really take the advice in this video it’s really good advjce
@@zuzukram worst for me, she sent such mixed signals but then told me she had a boyfriend? But was joking about us being together idk it was weird I blocked her and she blocked me back 🤣🤣
@@hamzzdz61 at least you took the right option
@@zuzukram yeah man no way I was gonna bother through that, it would suck to be her current boyfriend tho. I wouldn’t like my girl to make jokes about being with someone else low-key 💀
She left me after a 5 year relationship and I honestly got over her in 5 months. Tips:
1. Don't bury your feelings and supress them. Go through it guys.
2. Talk to yourself, yes literally to yourself and talk about this person.
3. Write down or talk to yourself about the good and their BAD.
4. You MUST destroy everything that connects you to this person, like gifts, text messages, pictures, chats, emails etc. Delete them and throw them in the bin.
5. Go through the stages of Shock, Anger, Grief then the last step, Reflection.
6. Keep yourself busy and re-establish connections you lost along the way.
7. Better will come, I promise.
And this is it pretty much. If a person leaves you, they're basically saying without saying ''I want someone better'' which is a huge disrespect, so don't chase them nor give them the time of day. You're not responsible for this other adult, let them figure out life by themselves.
p.s she came back to me, but I declined.
Thank you so much
Thankyou so so so much 💕 I need this right now.
Thank you so much 👍🏻
Thx bruh, the guy I liked was a piece of shit
After how long did she come back?
You're totally right! Loving someone who doesn't even care about you is a total waste of time.. And I knew this before but still, I fell in love with her! Now, I'm trying to remove those feelings and I'm sure that I'll be fine someday.. At least, Someday! 💔
Hey how u doing now ?
@@mohammedwaseem10h49 Not good buddy!! Nothing has changed.. I'm still in love with her and i can't even move on now!! Don't know how's everything going? I just want to feel happy..
Stopping Stalking avoids being toxic and obsessive ,this is the real and valid solution to get over 😂
The most useful advice right now ❤ thank you 🙂
If you're not receiving the same love you're giving, cut them out of your life. You deserve better. The problem isn't that your not good enough for her, the problem is shes not good enough for you.
They aren't in my life tho 😭
I don't care anymore
At least you're in love with with a womam🤷♂️
@@AceOfStars0Yeah that sucks but do the things you like to do & you’ll get distracted with other things & eventually you’ll start to forget about them or at least lose feelings for them.
@@Itsnoahscott that's what I'm doing but I just keep thinking what they would say if I told them this in a conversation and also everything relates to them, especially my hobbies because we share a lot of interests
Thank you🥰
Unfortunately we get attached to people so fast. But as you said, it’s a waste of time. And also it is a waste of our love and energy. I hope all of us will heal ourselves and move on
i dont think most ppl dont know how to move on from someone, everyone does but the hard part is forcing ur heart to actually move on, i have tried all this and i couldnt move on at all, its not a button u make it on/off ur heart and ur brain keep reminding u and i rly loved that person, i just gave up one relationships cuz i dont think its fair for anyone to try with while i am still in love with someone else.
Fr even I can't move on- damn I keep getting fake scenories with him- 😭
@@kpopanimeia1256same 😕 the man i was talking to, we were really close and we talked everyday. But now it’s been 6 months no contact and i still deeply love him and I can’t help it but make fake scenarios about him. This is a nightmare..
Yes same. He is even in different country. I don’t see him, don’t speak. Removed everything. And still here I am 💔❤️🩹
Yes the World might be full of people, but I don’t click with just anyone.
@@kpopanimeia1256Omg same girl like not an hour goes by where i don't think of him no matter how hard i try.. it's really not that easy
I’m in the same situation right now.
Be careful. Every situation is different. The most DANGEROUS person out there is someone you care about a lot but they don’t feel the same but they don’t want you out of their lives. They will destroy you but it’s not because they are evil in many cases but they are sick and you can’t save them.
I am in that situation-I love him he doesn’t give me same back but still wants me to stay for 4 years now to work it out every time I go to move out 😢
@@ShellysLivingLife I’m sorry but it’s time for him to grow up. Don’t let him destroy you
@@joeskwara5823Same happened with me. He confessed me first and after some time when I confessed he said that he needs time. I literally gaev everything to him. like literally so much efforts. But now I realised that he never actually loved me. maybe he loved the fact that I like him. now he don't want me to get out of his life but I want to move on. today, I confessed to him that I want to move on and I can't put more efforts. he agreed. but now let's see what happens. but I literally need to move on.
@@ShellysLivingLife So leaving no one is forcing you to stay you do that yourself
the problem is when no one better comes around
Find yourself first then the right one will come when you least expect it
@@lofisky4355 not really
@@TurdBoi666 What makes you so certain to disagree?
@@lofisky4355 I recently had a breakup too . And I actually believe we get our person when we least expect just focus on ourselves.You are very right here.even if I am not able to move on right now I am trying cause I am a human and it's okay to not feel okay .
People just don't want to move themselves up from situation sometimes those negative feelings gives cheap pleasure being a victim card. This is why this people are not able to accept their lives.
I didn't replied to that person cause I really don't think he or she will understand so I just replied to you cause I just wanted to share this with someone. It made me feel good
Yep, I know single people who never found the one… and they are 80 now. Sad.
I loved the tips you have...... I pray that all of us break the unhealthy patterns that are not serving us...
Really needed to hear this. Was talking to a guy just over 6 months, met once but definitely had meeting up again as an option. Fast forward to holiday season, he says he won't be able to message me as often as he's busy and today I find he now has a girlfriend, so he was dating her within this month. Opened my eyes to a lot of things. I'm sad but at the same time I am glad he found someone for him, I just need time to grieve...
😢 the same happened to me
My gf cheated on me
She left me because she wanted to propose someone else
And u know the biggest heartbeat?
She proposed the guy whom she used to call brother infront of me 😢
How can I even trust anyone now?
Idk am just so exhausted rn
She broked up with me on 31st December 2022 and proposed him the very next day on 1st January 2023
She didn't let me say anything
And blocked me everywhere 😢
We were in a long distance relationship
We had planned so much for our future
Idk why she cheated
😢
Reply to @PRINCED
Look I don't quite know you or the way you feel but it's similar to me....and just keep moving on and try your best to avoid her catch up with your friends, spend more time with your family.....and try your best to love yourself and make yourself happy....I hope you'll find a way to move on..
@@PRINCEDMUSICZ @PRINCED Omg, how did I not see tbis until now?
I dunno how you have been able to get through this so far, but don't ever let that make you feel bad or like you're not enough. Remember that there's people like us everywhere, and while it's hard to trust again, if we don't want to be alone we have to take the risk. There is always a risk. Just remember that next time, keep your standards high. If you ever get weird vibes from someone you're dating and have some doubts that can't seem to be cleared even if they explain, then maybe it's your gut instinct telling you something is wrong. Trust it. I didn't trust mine and then I got heartbroken. In the past I've trusted too easily too and gave people the benefit of the doubt, only to get hurt again. So, from now on, if I can't feel safe enough to trust someone, I will trust my instinct and leave first. Only if I don't feel satisfied when I ask questions.
LDR's take a lot of time and effort to keep alive. She did you wrong. You deserve better, so just focus on yourself for now. Later, when you feel confident in yourself to not need to rely on others, then it's okay to test the waters again.
All the best. Remember, you're not alone. We're just some of the good and genuine ones that are taken for granted 💕
@LrXZia I feel you, girl. He made more than promises to just 'kiss' me lol 😂 But I am so grateful I found out who he was before I gave myself away amd regretted it. Now I have moved on, I will keep appreciating my patience to keep myself for the right guy 💕
I SERIOUSLY CAN NOT BELIEVE HOW CAN PEOPLE BE SO HEARTLESS! I hope they go through everything so intensely what they make people go through.
I just told my crush that I liked him and he said he didn’t like me. So I’m trying to get over him. So thanks for the tips!
Your so brave for being able to do that. Don't worry you deserve better!
I did the same just now! I feel really bad rn! Please help! How do I get over it?
@@shagufta2170 hey! So I’m really sorry abt what happened, it always sucks. But to get over him, it takes a lot of self love and telling yourself that there are so many other people in the world that you could love. So I hope that kinda helps! Lmk if you need someone to talk to
@oh wait is the light of the star sorry luv
@@delilah.ellise ayy Thanks for your comforting words! It somehow helped!
Ok, zero contact, feel your feelings, don't keep hurting yourself in the pursuit of they want feel the same, and one I'd like to add is take time to heal! Not enough people take time to heal from heart break.
GOD Bless us all Amen ❤
we were together on and off for three years i tried so hard to make it work. it’s been almost two months since we’ve spoken because we decided to go our separate ways. this is the hardest thing i’ve had to go through. i dont feel in love very much anymore but i know for certain i love him so much still. i just want to move on and be okay
Im dealing with this now. 3 years. Almost 4. Crazy. When you lose it all you u realize their true intentions instead of helping you and being the invisible hand behind you. That's when you leave glow up and finally wait for them to come want you and give it right back. Say bye and replace them.
can you give a update?
I wrote down my feelings and felt so good. THANK YOU FOR YOUR ADVICE!!!
Thank you. Stuff I already know, but it’s so hard to let it out. Especially as a dude. We’re supposed to be unfeeling so it’s hard to be able to vent or process feelings sometimes.
i feel you bro. notjing happened between me and this girl, just friends. but she had a really great energy and it was stupid easy to talk to her. but i was too slow and now someone else is with her. i dont want overthink it cuz in reality it was just a crush that only effects me now, but its hard to think about anything else rn
I am really desperate now to get over him because I realized that I like him for too long. I think I have said enough or vent enough to my friends so I want to put all my feelings here. So I have like him for so long as I could remember. I don't even see him everyday and honestly I haven't seen him much this year. I could remember faint memories I have back then we where still a literal child. I just thought that I want to be friends with him but little thought did I ever realize that I was developing a crush on him. I never truly accept it but whenever there's a chance I would see him, I couldn't talk and just ended up running away. It's sad to think I didn't get to be close to him other than just being his classmate. Years passed I would still occasionally remember him and I would sometimes mention him to my friends by telling them that he was my old crush.
I didn't know I was so much in denial back in elementary. I also tried finding guys to like other than him but they always turns to be different than him that I ended up not liking them further. It's like as if I was finding replacement because I could even see him that much. That it's sad. But eventually in highschool I develop another crush on someone. He was older than me and they are a bit similar in a way. I really like this guy but somehow he always seems to crawl back in my mind. And whenever I look around at school I would imagine him just walking here even though I know his not there. I did get over with the guy I have crush in highschool because he graduated and he had a gf already so I stop.
And when I graduated junior highschool and now entering my senior year that I realized something big. Looking up on my FB newsfeed did I see his name again for so many years. Just looking at his pictures made me really have a heart pounding moment. I was truly shacking and in shock to see myself the same way I was back when I was child having lovestruck moment when his around. That's when I knew and no longer deny it that i truly like that guy for so long that i ended up in this predicament right now.
I send him friend request on Facebook after confirming my friend that it was h because they go to the same school which is I am pretty jealous of. And I was so happy when he accepted it that I was smiling throughout the day. I would literally stalk his account but there's not much to see so I kinda gave up so I would just ask my friend what is he like on their school and what is he doing there. I found so many things about him that way. I never knew that he played basketball, a really smart and responsible student and as my friend would always mention is that his handwriting are pretty. She would tell me stories about the nice things he would do. I am really happy to know that he seems to be doing well and enjoying life. I wish I could be closer to him. See him at school and talk to him. But I know that those are just wishful thinking. As the days pass by so quickly. I realized that maybe I should put an end to this crush I have because I have been overthinking a lot of things. And I am getting crazy with all the what if's that I ask myself. Eventually I made a decision to confess to him. Through chat of course because I am coward. I decided it to be the day and when it came I was so nerbouse and couldn't think straight. I manage to get enough courage to just say hi and it really took a long time for him to reply to it. And with that sign I already knew that he didn't feel the same way as I did. After months of rethinking life decision I finally let him know about my feelings for him. And as expected he rejected me. In a gentle way because it wasn't direct. That guy sure is too nice. I would have wanted a clear answer. But if that what he choose to say then I accepted it.
I guess I was expecting too much that it had taken me for weeks to realize that I should move on. But it seems to be not working and maybe it got even worse for sure. So I am really thankful for this advice. I would want to try them but it would really take a long time for me to stop thinking about him. So hopefully his name would no longer hold any meaning for me. One day I would find myself being cool about this situation I am experiencing and laugh about it. Thank you for listening to this messy story of mine
Update: I am so glad he rejected me, I have move on
@@chewishie_cherishyourselfHope your happy now
@@pearlimalrig I do thank you
@@chewishie_cherishyourself girl right now im literally crying bc i have such similar experience. but i'd say mine is kinda weird cause he liked me first and when i knew that this boy likes me i started to make fun of him w my friends cause he was my bully.
anyways so he didnt know that i know abt him liking me. we never talked . so after knowing all these i started to stalk him and romanticize every little post he shared abt his crush. i caught myself laughing like an idiot over those silly little cute things he did without even knowing that his crush literally knows everything.
SO a month or two later he messaged me thru a fake acc (even tho we were friends in fb but dude choose to listen to his ego) and got caught lol.then after getting caught he smh tried to cover it up by saying thats not him but one of his friends hence the acc was anon. i also behaved so weird as i wanted him to know that i dont like him. I swear on my life little did i know i was devolaping A CRUSH OVER THIS MAN. i put him on a pedestal. i even romanticized every post he liked. i created a whole multiverse in my head where we were the perfect couple of my dreams. the thing that had me was him posting a song of lana del rey for impressing me . damn things went like this for a long time. he didnt even try to put any effort after getting caught and started to talk to a girl (SHE WAS ONE OF HIS FRIENDS EX) and they devoloped a good relationship. they used to flirt w eachother in the comment section. and my dumbass was so invested that it thought he was doing this for me to get jealous. that girl also had a crush on him. she still has and now they are gf bf posting cute stories with each other . he forgot me completely. i dont know how could someone do this if they actually had loved their so called loved ones. he still pops up in my head every time i see wholesome couple videos. its been over a year :) we could make such a nice pair. all we needed was a lil effort from eachother. or maybe he never loved me and i got caught into him forever? i dont want it to be forever. its been over a year my grades also got worse because all of this.
i just wanted to vent so bad and your story made me tear up. im so glad that you got over him. anw sorry for my bad english and this long paragraph. my heart feels so light after writing all this down.
@@coc0bean.It's okay. You'll get over him one day.. I have a crush on a guy and I love him fr.. (my prob is I can't express my feelings I have for anyone, but my actions speaks it all.. In case for everyone) but that guy has the best personality. Am in love with him. I confessed him, he rejected me politely(and I'm thankful too, am an ovethinker) as he has a crush too. I can't get over him.
I see him everyday at work , makes it hard 😢. I’m trying my best
Change work😢
@@mandolaa no wtf, why should she change her job? that's a stupid thing to say.
Same my ex and i use to work in same office, and ge keeps coming back in my life, and try to talk, so i had no option to leave that job and after that i never saw his face ever again.
I understand. I'm going through it right now. I'm quitting my job because of this. I can't focus and my mental health is declining. The fact that hurts the most is they don't care at all. I'm over here having breakdowns in the middle of work but they just seem so nonchalant and seems way happier and when I'm gone. I don't interact at all but they come to me and speak as if nothing happened. That's the worst thing ever. It would be better if they just ignored me too
That last thing you said about someone better coming into your life is so true! I had a a crush on a guy who didn’t like me but then I started hanging out more with my childhood BFF and I started liking him and turns out he liked me for a long time I still have to tell him I feel the same way though so wish me luck!
hopefully you have luck
Update please?
I'll never get over her. Love is eternal. You can't just turn it off like a light switch.
it might seem like that at the moment, but it's not true. love can fade out. memories too. time is all you need.
Love will stay, but intensity of it slowly reduces over time... Especially if you maintain your distance
You sounds Pyscho. Out of sight out of mind.
@@dylanshorrorchannel1378I agree with the 2nd part of your comment but hmm calling them “psycho “ over that? A bit harsh
@@natalie7424 it’s been 4 years for me 😭 it’s been impossible to grow feelings for someone else
These literally present my life. And i cannot get over this crush I had for almost a year. Well things went south and now I need to move on. THANK YOU!!!
And how am I supposed to stop thinking about him
-He is in the same class
-Can't avoid staring at him
-Can't block him on snapchat as -I was the one forcing him to add me back
-We do snapstreak and that instantly hits my mind that i like him a looooooot.
😢😔🥺
Edit: Guys you can do it
I ...I.. I deleted snapchat and it helped me a lot!!.
Edit 2: Does someone has any idea how to not stare at your crush during school time...
Do tell if u know !
Find another crush? 🤷🏻♀️
Mans stuttering in writing god 💀
Tell me about it😢😢
Sit a few seat ahead of them, so you are forced to only look forward.
US SIS. US
I listened to video last year April and it was hard but this advice worked for me and I've never been so emotionally healthy before just wanna say thank u ❤
I'm 22, and I've a crush on a woman around 38 years old. I've already confess to her, but she rejected me, but she does everything to makes me feel not rejected. She's a great and sweet woman, but I have to move on, and this video helps me a lot.
Thank you so much!
Awww hang in there…
I'm 19 and I have a crush on a man around 26 yr old😭
It's so hard, we met for the first time yesterday...
Idk how to get him out of my mind
How's the situation for u buddy?
I loved my BFF so much! But everything I touch, chase or love just crumbles. 😢 I loved my right hand enough to let him free! I'll still be around if he needs me! ILY4E L. 🐻😘💖🤗🥰🤞🏾
Wow this is helpful also i love the way you speak, bff vibes, no shouting this is all i needed rn love you so much ❤
This woman is so right. All steps do work 💗💯
your face when you said “you are just wasting your time” had me laughing for some odd reason 😭
Thx so much. I’m in this situation rn. I’m the type of person who looks out for others more than myself, and when I met my ex, I had felt loved, and finally accepted, but yesterday she came up to me and told me she didn’t want to be together no more and wanted to be friends. Now she isn’t even talking to me. Thx again, this helps me so much
Thank U - trying to uncrush on someone I work with 🥰
Oh and found out the crush is mutual followed by - he’s married’s dang it🙄
More updates?@@margueritemcgeehaygood839
Hey thanks i needed this, I just got my heart broken by one of the most toxic people i’ve ever met.. So thank you
update: it worked
Thanks, I Needed this!👀❤️
Thank you so much , I’m actually going through in a situation like this … and nothing gave more relief.
Thank you so much 🎉
ok my crush in sixth grade i wrote him a love letter and he tore it up and threw it away-
the letter if anyones interested:
I write under the streetlight, but none shines as bright as your eyes. My hearts breaking with each letter in fear of rejection, so every now and then I cry again. I like to read, I also like to write, but your voice is more beautiful than any poem. Your smile can make me happy even on the worst day, like a candle in the dark, like water in the desert, like a friend when you're entirely alone. I'm not poor as long as you are in my life, because you are the only riches that I need. You are the most precious thing in my life, the only person I love with all my heart, and I will never let sadness knock on your door. I'm afraid to lose you, because I know far too well what it's like when a lover becomes a stranger. Whenever I see you, a smile appears on my face, and I wouldn't replace you for all the money in the world
I cried for 2 days until i noticed that was ffing pathetic and pulled myself together. hardest rejection ive had by far felt so good after getting over it
Thank YOU!!! I've been stuck with this toxic crush that I now hate bc he HURT my best friend and I'm now defending and protecting them now! So I owe you! 😊
It’s hard when your crush is your best friend 😭
im getting a lot of stress loving this guy, and i always try to stop but i cant. my friend is friends with him but i think he likes my friend so now idk what to do, but this posts really opens me up. Thank you🙇🏻♀️🌸😭
I’m watching this for one of my friends to try to help them. He has been venting a lot and I’m glad I can try helping him.
Did he get his heart broken
@@Ash-x9m yea, I feel rlly bad for him- and I feel even worse that I have a crush on him...
@@nutm3g12that’s nice of you I love a very pretty girl to unfortunately she has someone
what a true friend
@@twinklingxstar ty- i try.
it's the feeling, not the person. I'm too attached to chasing that feeling that comes up within me with that person
Thank you so much for this I needed this cause they broke my heart
Me and my boyfriend of 5 months just broke up and right now im really just trying to focus on myself. We just decided to become friends and stay friends and tbh im happy that way. So if anyone else is going through a breakup I hope you find peace and are able to move on. (Love you Riley) ❤️
I want a girl she probably doesn’t want me
Bro its litterally summer and school just ended and im going to a new school so I'm leaving the person behind and I still love them.
Same
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This actually helped. Especially the last one. Thanks.
Never in my life did I think I would become one of those high school girls obsessing over a cute boy. Yet here I am.
Lol same here except I’m out of HS and at work going through it😂
And they’re dating someone already but I still have these minor feelings. I guess I’ll let time fade it out
@@lessismore8533 dang that’s tough. I hope things get better
God bless you women! Thank you so much.
Yep, definitely what I needed. Thank you❤
she's helping us to forgot someon but i fallin love with him 😂😂
When you said wasting your time I instantly got over them, thanks :)
I was dating someone for 2 years and they just recently left me alone even though I followed them to college at a state I don't even recognize, I loved them so much it made me blind and now it's the worst mistake I ever made
I was being persuaded to do something similar but didn't give in, lol. Good decision in hindsight since we're no longer in each others' lives.
@@jordanferguson2254 yeah same I’m over it now, gone to a college closer to home and I’m actually studying something I enjoy instead of what she enjoyed
Thank you. Instantly feel better!
Me and my crush have been talking for a while. It went great at first. We both liked each other, just needed to get to know each other better. We are in the same class, so we often talked. We could hold eye contact for 5-10 second, but suddenly she went cold. She had asked to go to a place together, but I couldn't at the time. I asked two days later if it we could hang out then, but she just dodged the question. Now she can't even look me in my eyes. I thought we could work out, but apparently not. She could have been my first girlfriend, so it is really hard to try to remover her from my life. I can barely focus at school now. It is har for me to accept the fact, but I know I have to and I am slowly getting better.
This is my exact situation, thank you so much for your advice ❤
I have a crush on someone who’s 20. i’m 15, it’s so stupid bro and ofc he doesn’t like me back! but i’ve liked him for over half a year now and every time I see him he’s so kind to me.. but he’s dating someone who’s his age and he loves very much. he has no idea i like him and obviously I can’t tell him. I can’t stop thinking about him and it hurts so. so bad.
Bestie that would've be so hurting! 😭
I can relate.
Bestie its the same for me kinda good and kinda worst than your situation first up
Iam 13 and he is 20
Secondly he is my first cousin
And third he is not dating anyone tho
And Finally - he is really nice to me he touches me and all
But iam not sure if he likes me as a
CRUSH or a sister and Idk if my family would allow
So I am trying to get over him and love my anime charectors
thank you. it may seem crazy. but I am suffering from an obsession with a fictional character and I wanna get rid of it. and it comes back even stronger. this helped a lot.
My crush hooked up with my friend. She was really nice and had manners and me and my crush are friends but I never told her how I feel. But my other friend ( not my crush ) came in and just started dating her. I try hiding my jealousy and hate but it’s really hard and I just act so calm on the outside. This video helped me so now I’m trying to move on and find other girls
This is me
US BRO US
BROOO same...
Kenny rel miss
Thank you sooo much it really helped me.❤😊
My gf left me yesterday. I got cussed out in a gc. I was prepared for the pain but it was worse then last time. I finally decided for a smarter approach so instead of getting fat again and becoming a hunk of junk with all F’s again, I’m gonna keep doing my workouts, AND also I’m for sure subscribing to you and other creators to help me with this.
I honestly still like him even tho we can never even SEE each other anymore, and I still cry abt him
I have it so hard , im trying my best to move on but like i actually cant like i have never felt like this with anyone like and ive taken a day of like doing stuff taking a shower and treating myself with face masks and skincare so yk😢
Thank you
Needed this
Thank you, this is really going to help me get over you.
Bro Ty so much I’ve been trying to get over him for SOO long cause now my friend is his gf so I couldn’t get over him and this will help SOOOOOOOO much Ty so much!
Bro that just happened to me but his girl best friend is his new girlfriend and I liked him for so long
It’s just heartbreaking 💔
@@lil_budgie actually we started dating but he broke up w me today and said he didn’t actually love me
Tysm, they were so manipulative and the biggest gossiper
I don't have someone to vent. I can't escape her. I can't do anything. Im losing in a pit of fucking pain.
Thank you so much. After 10 years, I confessed to my crush. He was praising me at first for my bravery and we have these sweet conversations going on, then I asked the ultimate question. Do you really do not have someone else right now? Then he called me and said to me that, he is chasing a person right now and he said that I know that person too, we were friends back at school. And even if that friend rejected me, he would not easily come to me. Then I said, I agree since I do not want to be your second choice. I appreciate his honesty and now I am trembling with tears after tears coz it’s really not easy to forget someone you have loved with your whole heart for more than 10 years, especially when he is being so kind with my confession. But I need to move on to live.
I’m scared he knows now…so I have to just forget
Yep I feel you except my friend who is now my former friend in my brain, told my crush who is her crush, that I like him without telling me and he likes her back so I just have to forget about him
I got 20x happier when I watched this video I can not get over my crush and it makes me so depressed just to think about him or look at him and he won’t get off my head and this video helped a log
How to vent if you have no one to talk to. Also it was a 7 year relationship. I feel like I'm dying inside.
I'm in the same situation! Just create a hobby or work 24/7 til you forget why your heart got broken! That's my plan as well. You can do it!!! 🎉🥳🥳🙌🏾
The exact thing I needed to hear
Thank you Nikki
She's my co worker i have to see her everyday it's so hard. 6 months later and it's still hard.
Lol same here
Same
Thank you for your advice, i have been crushing over a boy for more than 3years , he never reciprocate my feelings and i feel unlovable person with low self esteem. I have realized that this is just a waste of time. I like him allot but looking at myself makes me regret about my feelings as i think i am way too ugly for anyone. I always think he will never ever like me because i am ugly and i have no right to get feelings for anyone in this world. So now i want to get over this exhausting feeling and want to work on myself, want to love myself. Ok goodbye crush, memories of you will slowly fade away from my mind now. Jope you live a best and healthy life ❤😢
I'm scared to tell my friends so I will tell it here. I found out about him at the beginning of February this year I liked him as soon as I saw him, he wasn't iny class so it wasn't a big deal, but this year (u know what I mean) he's in my class, and he has a really good personality, and he is also funny, but the thing is he likes someone else 😢and nearly every one ships them... (I'm not kidding)
Basically they like each other, I am his class partner but he barely talks to me cause I don't talk much, and he's new to me, it makes me really sad that we don't talk much, and I only want to be friends with him, I'm not good at making friends..... I keep on thinking about him all the time, I haven't been myself because of this, he is also friends with most girls in my class but just not me, amd some loser kid every one hates, I hate her too, she acts like a baby and never talks,people mistake me being like her cause I don't speak to them, unlike her I have friends! So my crush may be seeing it like that, he will be my class partner only for this month, it's like my only chance, if I fail I fail, but I do think it's time to let go... Cause he likes someone else... It's a very long story short!
Welcome to the club :(
u better have a good reason to why ur class hates that "loser kid" other than her not talking cause that shit is bullying 💀
I think you would let him go cuz you’ll receive a person who really cares about you . Trust me
How old r u?
How’d it go?? I’m curious, since it’s been 3 months 👀👀
To follow up on step number 2, *please* be careful when venting to your friends. Ask first before you vent and say thank you when you're done. This is so that you don't drain your friends energies, and add on to their own problems. It's unhealthy to dump all your negative energy onto them. If your friends aren't available (or if you don't have any), try recording a video and just vent your feelings there. Or go to a school counselor or therapist. Or express your feelings through art or writing (I do both :D). Or, this is ny favorite, SING!!!!!! Sing sad songs that you resonate with, or even write your own :3
i love you so much what thank you 😭 i needed to hear this
I hate crying while watching this.
That makes me feel worst 😭😭💔
This is really solid advice
instructions unclear, now i have a crush on you
YES😭. Like ever since i realized that my obsessive situation and problems happened to come from my mother, and my daddy issues kinda came into play, i was OBSESSED with this dude that was a year older then me. I confessed on Halloween last year and he is still impacting my life even though im still getting over him. I have a bf and i love him very dearly. But he is 2½ years older than me😢. But thank you 🙏
2.5 years isn’t bad. My parents are almost 4 yrs apart. It’s not a huge age gap.
My crush's name is Jackson. I swear I'm losing sleep over him. I truly feel like I can't get him off of my mind. I don't follow him on social media or know any of his accounts but I have to see him in 2 of my classes at school every single day of school.
Sammeee :((
Thank you so much… I was in love with a girl I dated and then she just didn’t talk to me anymore… thank you for the motivation
My situ, my best friend(former) and my crush(former) like each other and it’s driving me insane!! They held hands while sitting down and I just had to leave. Also then they hugged it bothered me. I only have one person to talk to about this that won’t judge me. It’s so hard but I don’t like him anymore! Why do I feel this way.
Thank you for this. It’s been hard with someone that I just split with.
Thank you my friend likes the same guy I do and I kinda lied to her that I didn’t like him so I really need to end that crush
writing things down and drawing actually helped me
it sort of popped that bubble of accumulated feelings, although might not be pleasant, but effective
"wasting you're time" is the one which made me feel better!
i lovee her, this helped so much
I need help on this one, I’ve been venting for a year after the breakup and each time it feels worse to say something about them. I still cannot think about them without bringing me pain
This was actually really helpful. But damn it's tough and just plain old hurts. Loves sucks. No other way of saying it. 😔
Well I found out today that my crush wasn't single and it made sense why he never showed interest during our conversations on IG.. Geez I was starting to think if he was gay😆
Talented, good looking and tall guys are always taken! Note that down
lol true
So true about the LAST line of your comment 😭
@@lessismore8533 yeah all the shortys are only left atm
thank you. need to be reminded of this every now and then♥️
I had a family friend who I talked to in a group chat with a two other friends. I didn't really know anyone else so when they left the chat I messaged them why? We had all been talking for a while and all they said was they didn't feel like talking anymore. My two other friends in the chat slowly stopped talking as well and I don't live close to them so I can't talk irl. That was my main group of friends, and at that point it wasn't possible for me to make new friends. I'm homeschooling and traveling so there weren't many people my age. But I have new friends now.
Matthew 11:28-30 (NIV)
“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”
But... he’s my best friend and my legit only friend and I can’t vent about him to um him
Yeah I feel u
This actually helps me, thank you
6 year relationship over and the best explanation I got was she lost her feelings and needed to find herself.
I feel like I'm dying.
Just exactly what im going through right now. 6 year relationship and his best explanation I got was he just fell inlove with someone else. Lol.
@user-mp8vg6ww2z It's been two months, and I'm still in a haze. I really can't say that it's gotten much better.
The mentality that must be required to drop such a relationship like that, I can't imagine. It leaves me with just a few logical options, and I don't like any of them.
1. They were miserable in the relationship, and I was oblivious to it.
2. They met someone new and liked them more, very petty and should be discussed.
3. They were or at some point became mentally unwell, because I don't know how someone could just do something like that.
Anyway, if you wanna talk about your situation or vent, I'd be happy to listen. I very much enjoy hearing other peoples points of view. It helps me to better understand my own beliefs.
@@Riley_27 maybe it will never get any better soon. We jjst learn to live with the pain. Idk. But appreciate you for sharing.
And I can definitely relate. thousands of questions running through my mind every hour in every day and I have zero answers.
I asked him why what happened how come. We were supposed to get married next month and tomorrow is his birthday we were supposed to meet. But then lately he just been really cold and distant he hasnt been replying to my messages. And this afternoon he just sent me a message saying he fell inlove with his coworker.
I felt so betrayed. For months I worked so hard for 16 hours a day just to pay his debts and save him from his hellish situation. He lost his job he got covid. So i provided everything for him. Food. Medicine. Rent. I even helped him go back home find work so he can start again but...
Turns out he'll just fall inlove with his coworker because she cooks for him she cares for him. Lol lame reasons. I just want to stop hoping and let go. Though its really hard when wer'e just left with no reasonable answers at all.
I dont know how a human being can do that to someone whose intention is nothing but pure. I loved him unconditionally through thick and thin. I dont think anyone who loves this much deserves to go through this hell.
But yeah such is life. I just want to sleep peacefully and wake up without checking if hes online.
Anyway, i hope we'll get through this.
Yup, facts. I have a crush on much younger guy at the gym. Been going on for months. We have never even talked. Only passed each other. Thinking about him all the time. Until the next time I see him at the gym. He walked in recently with his gf. They were all over each other. I literally cried in the way home. There is NO WAY IN HELL anything was going to come of my obsession. I try to go to the gym when I know he is not going to be there. Hopefully the crush will go away. I don't want to waste time and energy on someone that I can never be with. I feel so stupid. 😢