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  • @krystalmarie2719
    @krystalmarie2719 11 месяцев назад +505

    Ashley you should send the poster to Mak as a house warming gift 😂

    • @2nd3rd1st
      @2nd3rd1st 11 месяцев назад +23

      Or a burglar warning gift for the front yard "BEWARE of the ANGRY LESBIAN"

    • @BanszaBunnny
      @BanszaBunnny 11 месяцев назад

      @@2nd3rd1st are we talking about the same poster? :D

    • @2nd3rd1st
      @2nd3rd1st 11 месяцев назад +3

      @@BanszaBunnny She may not look it on the poster but she's not to be trifled with! 😅

    • @Screw126
      @Screw126 4 месяца назад +1

      I think Ashely should bring the poster to Alayna’s wedding 😂

  • @unstableratdog4179
    @unstableratdog4179 11 месяцев назад +360

    absolutely insane how alayna respects her fiancées privacy more than most parents respect their kid’s

  • @niinlotantapaista
    @niinlotantapaista 11 месяцев назад +271

    Seeing Ashley's and Mak's joy for Alayna made me so happy I had to watch the reveal a few times over! Congratulations Alayna! 😍❤

  • @seasonal.plants
    @seasonal.plants 11 месяцев назад +125

    When Alayna was talking about still being burnt out even after a break from school,,,,, I feel that so hard right now

    • @Grounded_Gravity
      @Grounded_Gravity 11 месяцев назад +3

      Yesss, two weeks after graduation + holidays, and I *still* feel like my body is recovering. It's no joke!

  • @Mialotic
    @Mialotic 11 месяцев назад +123

    The “ah she’s 23” feels so real. I wasn’t a late bloomer or anything, but I definitely had a change between 22 and 23 that was noticeable. Maybe a little life experience and then confidence helping a lot

    • @J17891
      @J17891 11 месяцев назад +2

      I felt a big change between 21 and 22 and I’m sensing another change is coming soon cause I’ll be 23 in a month 😂

  • @barbaradiaper2448
    @barbaradiaper2448 11 месяцев назад +183

    Re falling in love a number of times. I've never been in love. Might have something to do with the fact I only came out 15 months ago at the age of 68. So very shy me just enjoying the feeling of being part of the community and trying to embrace what's left of my life. I have joined a Lesbian Social and I look forward to your podcast every week which has helped give me a sense of belonging. Barbara x
    Congratulations to Alayna 🎉

    • @helen2710
      @helen2710 11 месяцев назад +14

      Oh Barbara, I wish you the best with your queer journey! ❤️ I hope you will find fulfillment and joy.

    • @caseymay123
      @caseymay123 11 месяцев назад +7

      that is incredible, it just shows it’s never too late to live an authentic life. welcome barbara to the alphabet family ! ❤️ we’re a hoot

    • @missknisely
      @missknisely 11 месяцев назад +3

      Welcome to the family, Barbara! You've always been a part of it, but now we get to welcome you out loud!! Proud of you.

    • @krissicarsonart
      @krissicarsonart 11 месяцев назад +3

      I came out at 39 (42 now). And I've only been in love once. Hoping you find that if that's what you want! But feeling you on the not in love 48 times thing.

  • @22kelseydillabaugh
    @22kelseydillabaugh 11 месяцев назад +116

    Alayna is so adorable with that ring. She looks so happy ✨

  • @sarabear3
    @sarabear3 11 месяцев назад +74

    My wife's proposal to me wasn't at all planned. We were hanging out in her room after work just talking. We started getting a little cheesy & she turned to her bookshelf & grabbed her grandma's ring (like one of her favorite & most important memories of her favorite woman), and sat it down in front of me. I always thought I wanted a planned/sentimental/memorable thing, but I wouldn't have changed a thing! 😍😍😍

    • @emmi3785
      @emmi3785 11 месяцев назад +3

      I also had very unplanned proposal. I (f) proposed my partner (m). I did not kneel down. I sat with him on a couch. I spoke about symbolism of it. We are equal, so I will not kneel. (I also still use term "partner" a lot as we both are somewhat in gender spectrum. Also, up-coming marrige is not such a big deal for us, that I would want to highlight it to _others_ by using term fiance.)
      I did not have a ring. I gave him shitly folded paper ring. (I folded it when he was in toilet, so I did not have much time.) The paper strip used to make a ring had been teared from envelope, which came with some bill. 🤣He kept it for months and months. When we moved, he finally let go of it. It was partly unfolded and we had had actual rings already for a many months.

  • @FlaminTubbyToast
    @FlaminTubbyToast 11 месяцев назад +190

    I will always appreciate when Alayna is saying she actually had a break and then they pan to Ashley’s shit eating grin. 9:57 😂

  • @jaceiselsewhere
    @jaceiselsewhere 11 месяцев назад +67

    I love what Ashley said about wanting future you to tell you everything’s gonna be okay. When I’m particularly anxious I like to imagine 80 year old me talking to me about the situation, giving me advice and putting things in perspective. I find it really helpful for reconnecting with my core values, looking at the bigger picture, and trusting future me/that I will create the life I want.

    • @celinel9750
      @celinel9750 11 месяцев назад +1

      I'm not you and I'm not 80 yet, but surerly older then you and can give you that ''pep talk'' You will be fine, you will cross many river and bumpy road but you will always manage to get true cuz you are alive, cuz you are beautyfull and you are strongue. Belive in you lady, you'll make it. Life is sh*t and will always trow sh*t at you, but life is also beautyfull and as sure as the sun rise every morning you will find your way to go tru life. Now decide every morning what you want to take out of it: the sh*t part or the beautyfull part? Take your time to smell the flower, take the time to tell ppl that you love them, take the time to enjoye the beauty, cuz for sure some sh*t will happend, but also beautyfull things will happend, you have to be open to the beauty to recognise it when it's their. Have a beautyfull day 🙂

  • @JuMixBoox
    @JuMixBoox 11 месяцев назад +36

    I've been thinking about wedding traditions and how to queer them a lot lately because I got certified as a wedding planner last month and queer weddings were my chosen specialty and therefore I read all the lists and articles and wedding stories about whether more lesbians go for a separate first look photo shoot or get ready together, how the walking down the aisle is organised (my personal favourites are walking down together, which is also culturally and religiously what would be the default for me, or going completely off the book and walking towards each other on two aisles because that just feels very special), how the wedding party and speeches and pre-wedding events can work and be inclusive and fun and queer and rediscovering old traditions and starting new ones and what cool things to wear are (I've fallen in love with capes, btw) and how to include symbols subtly but openly (like white knots for same sex marriage if you don't want all rainbows) and it's just such a fun and great and creative and magical topic and I'm so happy for you guys having found your people. Of course, this topic also comes with a lot of additional stressors that straight weddings, which are already very stressful, don't have. But I'm confident that Alayna will have an amazing time. It sounds like it might be soon, if it's a smaller ceremony and the wife-title sounds so good. Congratulations!

  • @livbrooks4194
    @livbrooks4194 11 месяцев назад +5

    oof Alayna talking about taking back something that has hurt her made me tear up. Been a fan of Alayna for over a decade and just so happy to see her bloom like this ❤

  • @monicajoanna98
    @monicajoanna98 11 месяцев назад +48

    OMG ALAYNA THAT'S HUGE!!!! i wish you both nothing but happiness, love, success and absolutely everything you wish for yourself. you deserve it so so much 😭😭

  • @datghettoazn127
    @datghettoazn127 11 месяцев назад +32

    Roflll the engagement realization 😂😂and the bathtub dress talk was such a good lead up to this

    • @celinel9750
      @celinel9750 11 месяцев назад +1

      At the second she showed the ring in the bathtube I knew, so today wasn't a surprise ;-)

  • @sienagallo199
    @sienagallo199 11 месяцев назад +30

    the retro ashley poster has me on the floor

  • @stephtaylor6292
    @stephtaylor6292 11 месяцев назад +50

    OMG Congratulations Alayna! SO overwhelmed with joy for you! You deserve this so much. 🥰Thankyou for sharing the story with us! Congratulations to your Fiancée too! 🎉💖🎉

  • @heyishitagg
    @heyishitagg 11 месяцев назад +23

    omg congratulations alayna! The parasocial is so strong that I'm weeping with joy. Ashley's & mak's reaction was so heartwarming, I had to watch this ep a couple extra times to take it all in ❤

  • @ninreck5121
    @ninreck5121 11 месяцев назад +12

    we need Jen on the pod more often, she has a wonderful very pod worthy voice

  • @buuuuuuuuuu
    @buuuuuuuuuu 11 месяцев назад +39

    CONGRATS TO THE COUPLE 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @kalifischer412
    @kalifischer412 11 месяцев назад +6

    my wife and I didn’t set out to queer our wedding, we just wanted to plan something that felt right for us, but it ended up being very queer lol. It was LOTR themed, I dressed like Sam and my wife like Rosie and we wore pointed ears, we had a handfasting ceremony in front of 15 select friends and family and part of the ceremony included telling each of our guests how much we love and appreciate them in personalized “toasts.” We also ate dinner with our guests before the ceremony because I was not going to be hungry for my own wedding. Being queer is such a blessing because at no point did my wife and I ever feel like we had to do things traditionally, because there’s nothing traditional about our relationship. God I love love. Congrats Alayna!

  • @marziadelevo
    @marziadelevo 11 месяцев назад +39

    I'm so happy for you and your fiancé, Alayna❤️

  • @Domisdom
    @Domisdom 11 месяцев назад +7

    Ashley stroking her own face on the poster was so loving and caring. Why did I like that so much? 😂

  • @187942
    @187942 11 месяцев назад +36

    I am actually crying lmao I’m so happy for you Alayna

  • @ignorance_is_not_bliss
    @ignorance_is_not_bliss 11 месяцев назад +38

    CONGRATS ALAYNA!!

  • @laurasto
    @laurasto 11 месяцев назад +4

    The number of times mak said “guys this is crazy” in a mix of joy and shock is so real 😂

  • @victorias.bremmenkamp509
    @victorias.bremmenkamp509 11 месяцев назад +7

    The way I JUMPED out of my bed to run to my tv to see the ring up close 😂 So happy for Alayna!!!! Also l love the word fiancée I think it’s so melodic lol

  • @Meghan.E18
    @Meghan.E18 11 месяцев назад +4

    CONGRATULATIONS, ALAYNA, THAT'S HUGE NEWS! I LOVED watching everyone's faces when you raised your hand. That was such a sweet moment.

  • @itslildil
    @itslildil 11 месяцев назад +4

    listener writing in:
    - FIRST OF ALL CONGRATS ALAYNA. it feels so sweet to see all of you guys making big accomplishments. you guys all moving in with your partners, alayna getting married. none of us knew this would happen back at the first episode. the family has grown so much. :’)
    also…
    - i would not hook up with my clone
    - personally i would like my partner to get down on one knee. but my wedding won’t be traditional for sure!
    - i LOVE the word fiancee holy shit

  • @Miss.sassycassy
    @Miss.sassycassy 11 месяцев назад +10

    The way I gasped at the coffee holding ring wearing that happened! Seeing this journey for mom from well idk like 6-7 years ago to see her so happy and authentically herself is just wonderful. Congrats Alayna! You deserve to feel the queer joy you are feeling ❤❤❤

  • @ROCKONplaceboforever
    @ROCKONplaceboforever 11 месяцев назад +34

    My favorite episode big congrats Alayna so happy for you love u guys ❤ 😊

  • @vampods
    @vampods 11 месяцев назад +27

    OMG CONGRATULATIONS ALAYNA!!!

  • @XBloodwork1
    @XBloodwork1 11 месяцев назад +17

    Mak is on Fire this episode 😂

  • @Amarande_R
    @Amarande_R 11 месяцев назад +7

    THIS NEWS IS CRAZY! CONGRATULATIONS ALAYNA!!!! I GASP SO HARD ON THE TRAIN PEOPLE AROUND ME LOOKED AT ME

  • @juanalegrand8651
    @juanalegrand8651 11 месяцев назад +11

    Jajaja I love the fact that Alayna was taking duck pictures.

  • @kapowjam3462
    @kapowjam3462 11 месяцев назад +18

    There is no way Alayna had wedding cake for dinner unless there was a savory cake 😂

  • @jasflint
    @jasflint 11 месяцев назад +2

    Congratulations Alayna, what lovely news! ❤ I loved your commitment to keeping your hand hidden for so much of the podcast 😂

  • @mariannetfinches
    @mariannetfinches 11 месяцев назад +22

    Congratulations Alayna🎉🎉🎉
    How beautiful was that engagement story!
    In my language we can call our partner/spouse "fy nghariad" which means "my love". Like in everyday conversation "my love is an engineer". Totally normal thing to say. And I love it 💗

  • @LordPandos
    @LordPandos 11 месяцев назад +2

    I never thought I could be so happy for a stranger engagement ❤ CONGRATULATIONS ALAYNA!! I wish you so much happiness and love!

  • @gemblu7745
    @gemblu7745 5 месяцев назад

    This episode was so wholesome 😍😍 it made me so happy seeing you all so happy
    Congratulations Alayna 🎉

  • @biancasmith308
    @biancasmith308 11 месяцев назад +9

    I actually love this podcast so much

  • @someonesomehow379
    @someonesomehow379 2 месяца назад +2

    12:04 guys RESPECTFULLY mattea has definitely had a glow up dude

  • @jaecanfly
    @jaecanfly 11 месяцев назад +2

    Congratulations Alayna! The ring is amazing and I love that we got the story even if you choose to keep the photos/video private. So happy for you! 🎉

  • @TashaRansomArt
    @TashaRansomArt 11 месяцев назад +2

    Just Ashley doing casual inner child work😂❤

  • @leoanne06
    @leoanne06 11 месяцев назад +2

    I have an unpopular opinion day: I agreed with Mak on the clone thing and agreed with Alayna about the word fiancé...
    Also, I'm SO RELIEVED that I'm not the only one asking the clone question to people around me 😂
    Congrats on the engagement! 🎉

  • @Do.Your.Best.345
    @Do.Your.Best.345 11 месяцев назад +3

    Congratulations, Alayna! 💜 I'm so happy for you 🌈

  • @gryranfelt5473
    @gryranfelt5473 11 месяцев назад +1

    Gay time travel: a novella about a modern day lesbian going back in time to meet cave women, queens, courtiers, etc and opening their hearts while she herself sees all the ways to be historically gay ❤

  • @rosebudscott
    @rosebudscott 11 месяцев назад +10

    I didn’t like using the word fiancée because it meant I had to come out more, just saying “my girlfriend” or “my wife” made the constant coming out easier…also congratulations Alayna!

    • @mariannetfinches
      @mariannetfinches 11 месяцев назад +4

      I hear that. I was in a really safe place socially & professionally, plus I'm an extrovert, so for me it was great fun to subvert people's expectations by saying "my fiancé", & then "she". Especially as we didn't have full marriage rights at the time. But yeah, it was sometimes uncomfortable 😅

  • @reasonkaa
    @reasonkaa 11 месяцев назад

    CONGRATULATIONS ALAYNA!!! I am so so happy for you! I’ve been watching this pod as soon as the first episode came out and it made my Wednesday’s so special.

  • @claudiacarmona264
    @claudiacarmona264 11 месяцев назад +1

    Since we were talking about past self, 2020 Alayna would be impressed on everything in your life.

  • @themorales6
    @themorales6 11 месяцев назад +4

    Btw, I agree with Mak on the clone question. 🙋🏻‍♀️ Mak, be confident!!!!

  • @Emmathelady
    @Emmathelady 11 месяцев назад

    As a long time fan of Alayna’s content, I am so happy for her!!!!

  • @lc360
    @lc360 11 месяцев назад +8

    Good morning and a blessed plunge to you all

  • @honeybri7061
    @honeybri7061 11 месяцев назад +2

    Truly loved Ashley doing the math face meme to figure out Alayna's news.

  • @philhatch483
    @philhatch483 11 месяцев назад

    That "sort of" answer to the bathtub question vid gave it away to me. CONGRATULATIONS ALAYNA❤❤❤!!!

  • @milianesa
    @milianesa 11 месяцев назад +4

    ashley and mak's reactions were so 🥺🥺🥺

  • @ericadecopas
    @ericadecopas 11 месяцев назад +3

    When Ashley talked about wanting future her to come say that everything is gonna be ok I literally just went "oh shit" and started crying. And then Alayna said "that makes me want to ask if you're ok" ahhahahahahaa. I feel ya Ashley, I want that too

  • @madi32
    @madi32 11 месяцев назад +1

    So glad I'm watching this on RUclips.

  • @oakokapi
    @oakokapi 11 месяцев назад +1

    Mak closing out with "RATS" like Charlie Brown 😆

  • @bingbongalong
    @bingbongalong 11 месяцев назад +2

    I'm so happy for you Alayna! Congrats! ❤

  • @theopinionatedwoman
    @theopinionatedwoman 11 месяцев назад

    I have the biggest smile on my face! Congratulations Alayna!

  • @lexil8212
    @lexil8212 11 месяцев назад

    CONGRATS, Alayna!!! You deserve all the love ❤

  • @onemoresongs
    @onemoresongs 11 месяцев назад

    Amazing! Congrats, Alayna!! Happy for your happiness! :)

  • @WAMilyFamily
    @WAMilyFamily 11 месяцев назад

    I felt that future me topic so hard.
    I feel like I've wanted that since I was a kid.

  • @mamakahuna
    @mamakahuna 11 месяцев назад +1

    alayna really has the therapist pondering "huh" down

  • @teaganbialobrzeski2806
    @teaganbialobrzeski2806 10 месяцев назад +1

    WE NEED A WEDDING VLOG!

  • @junevertucci3420
    @junevertucci3420 11 месяцев назад

    Congrats to Alayna. Wishing you joy on your journey,

  • @loupelizzo2399
    @loupelizzo2399 11 месяцев назад +1

    Absolutely great podcast and Alayna congratulations and I just couldn’t stop laughing it’s very funny funny thank you so much for making my day so great.

  • @JulesLern
    @JulesLern 11 месяцев назад +1

    Such a great episode! Congratulations Alayna!! 🎉❤

  • @themorales6
    @themorales6 11 месяцев назад +1

    Alayna, “Am I?” 👀 😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰 Congratulations, Alayna!!!❤

  • @margarett406
    @margarett406 11 месяцев назад

    I proposed to my wife in our own kitchen after a magical day. I knew I was going to propose, but didn't have a plan for when/how. It felt very organic and perfect and I wasn't on a knee and I never thought about it but also don't love the power dynamic of genuflection (as a recovering Catholic especially).

  • @Jayden.A.M
    @Jayden.A.M 11 месяцев назад +8

    Congrats Alayna!

  • @Meghan.E18
    @Meghan.E18 11 месяцев назад

    I must say of you have the most flawless, lovely, smooth skin. Ashley, I think you won the Perfection Skin Award. Jealous of your skins. Love you ppl. Love from Manitoba

  • @naty58pr
    @naty58pr 11 месяцев назад +2

    Congrats Alayna!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @arualstarr
    @arualstarr 11 месяцев назад

    Hahaha. I never got to go to an SAB carnival (damn!) but I was my college's variety chair for a year, and in that time I hired a comedian (who later went on AGT), a balloon animal making mime, an emo band, and some Swing Dance instructors. None of my other events required creating a contract, they were lazy on-campus events because deadlines. Also I co-founded my school's improv club so I could make the guys do openers for me 😆

  • @alisontippett2618
    @alisontippett2618 11 месяцев назад

    Ashley - can’t wait to see you in Boston!!!

  • @MiguelSantos-vf5yn
    @MiguelSantos-vf5yn 11 месяцев назад

    Congratulations Alayna! 😍❤ Much love to you all.

  • @berniesenske994
    @berniesenske994 10 месяцев назад

    Congratulations Alayna, I'm so very happy for you. Bernie ❤

  • @margueritelarson2573
    @margueritelarson2573 11 месяцев назад

    Ashley wanting future her to come say everything will be ok is so so relatable

  • @Billie-s8w
    @Billie-s8w 11 месяцев назад +2

    Mak " babe alyna got engaged" 😂❤

  • @GaymerTran
    @GaymerTran 11 месяцев назад

    lmfao alayna's reaction to the proposal is so relatable, i can ttly see it going down similarly for me 😂

  • @palaksinghal
    @palaksinghal 11 месяцев назад +1

    Congratulations Alayna!! Wohoo!!

  • @ribon-ichigo
    @ribon-ichigo 10 месяцев назад

    as a nonbinary person i love the term fiance. My partner and I aren't engaged but we call each other fiance sometimes and it just fits so much better than partner or "spouse" for us. We've been together for over 10 years at this point (disability/financial reasons keep us from tying the knot) so calling him my "boyfriend" makes our relationship feel so trivial in my mind.

  • @Evalynn
    @Evalynn 11 месяцев назад +1

    Congratulations, Alayna!!! 🎉❤
    This comment may be longer than I intended, but: I am with Alayna, I couldn't get myself to say fiancé much & I did not like the word very much. I have always called my partner, partner. I am a bisexual woman who proposed to my cis-het male partner, on one knee, where we hugged on our first date. Once we were engaged, for some reason I started resorting to immediately calling him my husband before we were married to explain to people what we were, probably easier for my brain & mouth because we knew we'd have such a short engagement (also had a very small, private ceremony before moving across the country to California). There is also a safety to it, both in the feeling it gives me from my connection to him, & also, unfortunately, the lack of signaling to the straights/conservatives back home what/who I really am. So! All this to say, marriage never felt good to me either, it was not something I dreamed of & seemed like only bad news for women always. Plus, it seemed impossible because for a long time I struggled with thinking I was just a lesbian, having been raised very Catholic, and not realizing there is the option of not liking just the binary of women or men. (Alayna, you actually helped a lot with that.) & when I was a hopeful single searching for a wife, I found the angel of a man that is now my lawfully wedded partner.

  • @keelyatlover739
    @keelyatlover739 11 месяцев назад

    Lol the Ozempic Ad playing during this.

  • @marleykotylak1194
    @marleykotylak1194 11 месяцев назад

    I went to those as part of student activities in 2012 and 2013. Have a funny story about one of the comedians who came to our college all the years I was there

  • @dododans
    @dododans 11 месяцев назад

    Yesss congrats Alayna! I was hoping you weren't pranking us in your new years vid hahah! So happy for you ❤️

  • @seasonal.plants
    @seasonal.plants 11 месяцев назад +4

    Ahhhhh CONGRATS ALAYNA!!

  • @deloresd7500
    @deloresd7500 11 месяцев назад

    Congratulations Alayna!!! OMG so exciting

  • @ragreen2
    @ragreen2 11 месяцев назад +1

    O.K. I'm a patron .... You can say that I left the clone question and I will totally say to anyone who asked that I did 😉 ... I love you guys! ❤❤❤🌈🌈🌈

  • @aliviafletcher8926
    @aliviafletcher8926 11 месяцев назад +2

    pov you already knew because of alayna’s bathtub video but were still jumping up and down when she told them

  • @rorolilred
    @rorolilred 11 месяцев назад +1

    Congratulations Alayna!!!!! ❤

  • @leolovsen1448
    @leolovsen1448 11 месяцев назад

    CONGRATS ALAYNA!!!!🥳 I honestly wasn't sure about it in your bath video because there had been so much fizz lol😂 Really happy for you!!

  • @Jayden.A.M
    @Jayden.A.M 11 месяцев назад +1

    I already know this is gonna make me feel better

  • @milou_1241
    @milou_1241 11 месяцев назад +2

    Congratulations Alayna !!🎉💍🎉

  • @stephben8042
    @stephben8042 11 месяцев назад +1

    Insecure Clone is a great bit

  • @buuuuuuuuuu
    @buuuuuuuuuu 11 месяцев назад +6

    my dumbass really thought
    omg the ring is a FUCKING fizz bom,,,,, this mlm rotted my brain

  • @brittnyritchie2439
    @brittnyritchie2439 11 месяцев назад

    Now, more than ever, is the best time for Mak to sort out the passport situation👏🏼 Congratulations!🤍

  • @taylorkills4711
    @taylorkills4711 11 месяцев назад +1

    Congratulations Alayna!!!

  • @melissaeastridge7402
    @melissaeastridge7402 11 месяцев назад +1

    I have the same thing with Ashley of wanting future me to come and tell me everything is okay or whatever and I am not okay😂

  • @lovebug1116
    @lovebug1116 11 месяцев назад

    Ahhhh Alayna congratulations 🥺💘
    I had my suspicions from the bathtub video; I'm over the moon for you!!
    PS. Mak, I love your kitchen