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“Deep down we’re all scared” is something that’s 100% true, everyone is scared and there’s so much growth in diving into the unknown. Even if everything goes to shit (it won’t) but if it does, you will still come out with so much more knowledge, experience and the knowing that you can do it again. Beautiful vlog, thank you for sharing.
i have never commented before but i really want to say this. You are very inspiring, the way you carry yourself, your passion is so clear. Many people like me don’t know what their ambitions are but seeing you doing what you want to do despite your doubts is admirable. Dooby u got this! You don’t have to have life figured out. Those feelings you have will eventually motivate yourself to do better, and before you know it you are healed. U got this im rooting for u dooby ❤
Really appreciate your openness about your childhood and how it’s effecting you now as an adult. This video makes me want to dig deeper in therapy and open up more. We are expected to just grind and get over past traumas and keep going when in reality, it’s always with us. Takes energy of its own just to get through the day let alone all the endeavors you’re currently doing. Proud of you!!
She is obviously a serious oenophile. Her expression of gratification, tasting the wine at 9:54, would make any sommelier blush. Made me happy and thirsty. 🍷☹️
Aww, I wish I could tell you in person how awesome I think you are. I'm old enough to be your mom. I'd be over the moon proud of you for the things youve done and will be doing!! The ONLY failures are when we don't even try or take chances. As long as you are trying, even if you're feeling like you're failing, you're still trying so you havent failed! Hold your head high, be proud of being such a beautiful, smart, independent, hard working, funny, kind and determined soul!! You are so young and have done more then some folks (me included lol) will do in their entire lives. Don't let anyone else's support, or lack thereof, steer your journey. Your content has always been so well done and easy to watch. You have gifts that when shared with the world, will change lives. Think about the jobs you will create,the friendships you will make and even the ones that don't go well will still help you along the way. The food you share with folks will feel amazing. You cook from the heart and are soon going to be able to share that with so many people. I am nobody, but I AM PROUD OF YOU!!! I was also a chunky kid... I feel ya on all that. I'm 46 and still insecure. You are going to do great, Dooby. No doubt in my mind!!! ♥ I wish you the best in this journey and I'm looking forward to seeing your dreams come to life.
But I love that she spoke a bit about her insecurities and her bullying experience. Like it’s so refreshing to know that there are people who are willing to be real and vulnerable.
it takes a lot to be this vulnerable to such a big audience! you are so strong, and I know you can do anything you want to, the dooby gang will support you forever 💖
I was listening to a podcast that said, “it’s important to live life by design rather than emotion. Basically, sticking to a routine is what allows us to be the healthiest version of ourselves (especially when you're fighting these demons from childhood). I made the most productive changes in my life when I began practising mediocre consistency. Now I try to put in consistent 40-60% effort into my habits (ex. journaling/working out) - to make sure I do it I began recording it and posting it on my youtube channel. Because historically I have a habit of going too hard, not being able to sustain the Herculean effort, giving up and hating myself. So now I’m trying to give a small-ish, consistent mediocre effort everyday. And it’s crazy how it adds up. I feel like I’m finally building real self esteem.
It's really a brave thing to show to many people your vulnerable side and ur purpose of it is not just to dump your emotion to us but to tell us that "everyone feel sht in some days and that's okay." & this really gives so much comfort to anyone out there including meee.
dooby watching your vlogs is my therapy... Whenever I'm down i would watch your vlogs and it would lift up my mood and you also encourage me in a lot of ways.... Love you so much and will always support you ❤️❤️❤️
Seeing you trying to heal in your twenties, made me think how wrong I was when I thou that I am late to healing (I am not even 19 yet). You made me feel like healing never happens overnight, it takes time and effort and mostly brain energy. I feel So proud of you and I think all doobies are too.even if you are not getting support from people you expected to be supportive, we are here for you girl! I believe in your power and ability to achieve more and more than the greatness you achieved already
Thank you for being so open Tina, I’m only 23 and feel like a failure. I know that I have time but I feel it slipping from me sometimes. You make me feel like I’m not alone in my feelings. I hope these insecurities go to hell and you become a successful businesswoman!!
I'm currently jobless and feel so insecure too, I seem to be behind everyone in all the life aspects. Your reflection and openness made realize we all feel insecure and that's okay, we should keep trying. you made my day
Dooby, i love watching your shorts but i dont think ive ever properly watched one of your videos but im so glad i did. i feel like i somehow could connect with someone through this and suprisingly felt understood and heard by your experiences right now. i love how vulnerable you are and how much it motivates, inspires me to push through. i havent cried in weeks but this made me tear up and im so so grateful for your channel. keep doing your best, im cheering you on and thank you "its going to be okay" keeps replaying through my head, im grateful for your comfort!!!
I just lost my job a few days ago and you showing your vulnerability was exactly what I needed. Everyone has doubts, everyone is afraid to fail, and that is apart of the process. Reflecting on your words and having time to process losing my job has shown me that better and exciting things are on the horizon for me, like they are for you. I can't wait to continue to watch your career grow and flourish🧡
I lost my job over a month ago (they got rid of me for being sick even though I had a doctors note, so that’s nice) and I understand how you feel. I’m hoping to get a job by February but meanwhile I’ve feeling so awful. But as you said, we have good things waiting over the horizon ❤
I love dooby so much because she shows her ups and downs, we have saw all the parts of her, i also love this journey. she inspires me to get out of my comfort zone and live life!!! You are the best and keep going dooby we are here for you no matter what!!!! 🥺💗💗
Thank you so much for sharing something so deeply to you Dooby. Being someone who felt such insecurities due to being bullied in school..it feels relatable. At the same time seeing you so strong and successful now, also feels inspiring to work hard for your passions and dreams.
Thanks for opening up about your insecurities and feeling down this year. I, unfortunately/fortunately, can relate to your childhood story and recent feelings quite a bit. I am 27 and feel so incredibly lost and insecure this year, I am questioning every decisions I've made. All I want to do is pack a bag and go to the beach, disappear for a while, if only this was possible.. I know we've got this if we keep moving forward, this adulting shit is just real scary.
you have no idea how much i love and appreciate you opening up to us and the honesty you give. you are a light in this dark world. thank you for being so amazing, dooby. you are truly, truly loved
I’ve never been one to enjoy watching vlogs but I came across your videos about a month ago and they have honestly helped me so much. I just recently got out of a relationship around 2 months ago & I related a lot with what you shared today on insecurities and being a serial monogamist. Your videos have helped me get back to myself in some way, inspiring me to do more things on my own and truly enjoying my solitude. I know you have a lot on your plate rn with the restaurant, family, and what not but I wanna let you know your work truly is inspiring and admirable ❤ just remember these feelings will pass and everything is temporary so might as well enjoy the journey
I appreciate your honesty, because it is very relateable. You are an awesome person. From the ability to think critically, have incredible work ethic, take on challenges to better yourself, and you're an amazing cook and editor, there is nothing about you that isn't wonderful. You are a good person, and I really do appreciate your content. So Thank You
It was so nice to see that you are doing well in your journey. Although you may have a lot of difficulties, you have been doing everything constantly. Life is a constant journey, so we are becoming a perfect version in our own journey! Love you sis !
I’ve been having the exact same thoughts these past few weeks and I haven’t told anyone so thank you for sharing your feelings with us and for making us feel like we’re not alone. We can’t wait for you to open up your restaurant!!! We’ll be visiting from the Philippines 🤍
Bro, you’re an inspiration. I have body insecurities and don’t feel like I can be taken seriously but listening to how evidently everyone has these feelings makes me feel better about it. Thanks.
she is so sweet, showing us her strengths and her weaknesses. we need more people who will show the reality of being human, because we all have our problems and some people act like they don't wich makes me feel insecure. thanks Doby
Dooby…thank you for being transparent about this season in your life! I am actually in the process of opening my own restaurant and these past few days have felt extremely daunting. The stress of living up to others standards and my own are a lot to shoulder. Watching your videos have really given me solace and I don’t feel as alone. The anxiety eats away at me but I know it is also fulfilling and I have worked really hard to get to this point. I’m proud of us! I’m cheering you on and hopefully I will be able to visit your restaurant the next time I’m in Korea.
I know how you feel, I did that work for about 15+ years for remodeling interiors. I did it full time for about a decade. I'm older and have arthritis now. Take it steady. Eat wonderful food like you do. Stay motivated. I wash most of our dishes.
After hearing Dooby's thoughts, I really really empathised with her. Thank you Dooby. And you're right. Deep down, everyone is scared for what's to come. I really want to mention a song here. I know it's random, but it gave me such comfort and reassurance. I don't know if most of the people here watched Hospital Playlist s2? But one of their osts called 'Superstar' just reminded me of this video and how we're gonna be okay. If you don't know Korean, searching up the English lyrics would be great. Nobody has to, but if it gives anyone help, that'd be fine with me.
I appreciate that you shared your thoughts and opened up so much, it must have taken a lot of courage and maturity. One of the better vlogs on your channel, you definitely stand out from other vloggers whose videos are empty and don't add anything to the viewer's life. Love ya
Today its been an entire year since I followed you. I have seen you grown so much in 1 year and its been very inspiring to me. It was very real seeing you be so open about the issues you talked and it really felt great to see that. It is probably because it is always easier to publicize your achievements, but what you shared takes a lot more. Hats off to you Tina !!
Thank you wholeheartedly for sharing your childhood story and what is happening in your life now! We cherish you! Remember, we love you for who you really are, Tina! YOU are the very best! Looking forward to more videos from you! Take care of yourself! 🙏🏼💜
Never commented on a yt video, but really love all your videos, your energy. The way you share not only your recipes but also your struggles. I feel very identified with many of yours. And for todays video, I have been feeling like you lately, and had some similar issues in the way I connect with people, thanks for sharing yours, really make me feel better and realised it’s fine and it’ll be ok! You’re an inspiration!
Kevin gave "up his life" and moved to you in Korea so I think you are on good ground there !! :) I am sure he saw how you and him could be together and furfill dreams together. :)
I know im not the only person who gets therapy from watching your videos Dooby, so thank you very much for your content. I love how “real” you are in your videos, it’s such a refreshing change from the facade most put on. Sending positive energy to you from the USA
Tina im really thankful from you to be real and honest and to show ups and downs. Im tired of watching people living a perfect life. The way you vlog, although im kms away but i genuinely feel your happiness and sadness and all the emotions you go through. Thank you. Btw your doing great believe me. You got this (you already knew just a reminder..)
I’ve never commented on a RUclips video before, but this resonated so much with me in so many ways. Please never stop creating your content I love it so much
Mama Dooby is here imma watch the video i was feeling low your video will definitely help me and when I read the title i was how the hell this woman is insecure but i guess we all have bad days sending you virtual hugs you will be fine soon ❤️
I’ve been balling my eyes out today after some personal stuff happened recently and I clicked on this video. I feel every words you said. I was a chubby kid as well, struggled with self image for a long time, now I’m fit and have no problem getting attention and all that, but deep down I never fully become secure even though I really tried. The feeling of nobody would ever truly accept who I am and keep loving me is hitting me so hard, bc I have no problem doing this for others, but never reciprocate the same treatment. Thank you for sharing your vulnerable side and I feel you! Hang in there❤ You are already doing so many amazing things at a young age!
I am starting my own business in 2023 as well because I've been wanting too for a while and recently I've been overwhelmed by how much work it is just to set up the business in the state and federal govts eyes. I cried a lot just thinking about it and I have a lot going on at the same time and hearing you talk about your own insecurities made me feel so validated in my feelings and I appreciate your "it's gonna be okay". Thank you for sharing your journey, you are such an inspiration for me to continue doing what I wanna do. Keep going, you're doing great! I hope when I get to go to Korea I can go and eat at your place!
YOUR CREATING AMAZING CONTENT!! AND YOU WILL GET THROUGH THIS STORM!! i relate to you so soo much and legit seeing you fight through the same issues i have gives me more motivation than those motivation vieos on yt. THANK YOU VERY MUCH!!!
I've been feeling this exact same way with the insecure thoughts putting me down for a while and I just wanted to say thank you Tina for opening up and making me feel not so alone in these feelings. Your honesty and vulnerability is one of the coolest things about you ❤️
I redid the flooring for my family’s upstairs and to say it was tiring is an understatement. I was EXHAUSTED after everyday. Didn’t even have the energy to workout and this was during a time when i was consistently working out too. Major props to you for doing this HUGE renovation and all people who do this type of work for a living
you have such a deft hand with storytelling. what i’d give for a tenth of your editing aptitude. even if the entire restaurant project failed from top to bottom, we’d go on the journey with you and resonate with your content. but i think that project will work out, in time. i think you’re doing a great job ❤
I just adore you and everything you’ve experienced with your insecurities resonated because I’ve been through similar. Thank you for sharing your vulnerabilities with us. Love you Dooby❤
She's literally so honest and transparent about herself and always gives best of the advices to us doobies and i love love love her for that. Feeling insecure is normal so hang in there your doobies are with you all the way
Hey Dooby I resonate with those insecurities and I got a better grip around things when I went for therapy. Specifically with therapy that addresses my childhood/my inner child that has been lost through the years growing up. This journey is definitely a roller coaster ride, sending love from Singapore 🇸🇬 ❤
Dang, can we all just agree that that sukiyaki looks amazing? 😑 also, dearest Dooby, props to you for pumping iron and trying to keep your strength up to counter things like stress and anxiety. It's the way to go ❤️
I like these talks you have directly into the camera that open up about the difficult parts of growing up and how it changes you as an adult. I think about it a lot but don't have anyone but a psychotherapist to talk about any of it with and even then, it's once a week.
Being scared and feeling like a failure is so deeply rooted in society's idea of what it means to be a success. Don't listen to that voice. Keep pushing! You are doing amazing things x
Highly recommend therapy! Not sure what the stigma around therapy is in Korea, but it's really helpful to process trauma, build healthy coping mechanisms, and have support beyond just your partner. Esp since it sounds like you're estranged from family/friends, even if its unintentional you might be concentrating your support needs on your bf which can be a source of stress on your relationship
If you have not been in love skip to 9:58 dooby is so preety the moment she starts putting on her apron. She's always preety even without a makeup but that was heart melting preety✨
Love your content! You're doing very ambitious things, it's natural to feel uncertain, but it looks like you have good support. It'll be okay, no matter what happens.
This might be a weird comment to put but I’d like to preface by saying I am a loyal subscriber commenting out of your well-being. I hope you are well protected legally in case you and the umbrella man separate. I can see that you have invested so much time, money and love for this project. I wouldn’t want you to suffer for any loss because unfortunately not all relationships are permanent. (I’m reposting this for the last time in hopes you see it and take actions if you haven’t done so yet. Sorry if the comment seems so negative but I truly want the best for you as your loyal fan.)
i think emma chamberlain created this vlogging personality-style where girls think they need to be overly relatable, make funny faces, crack sex jokes, etc etc. i think it suits some and doesn’t suit others. you seem to be much more of a serious, more cerebral, nerdier kind of person than you let on. you should really lean into just being yourself and anytime you have the urge to act or do something unlike yourself for the viewers gaze/for the camera, resist. sitting and being honest in front of a wonderful meal you made was wonderful… though there are moments when you seem to be acting, or when you are overly scripted in a not ironic kind of way that you seem to lose your luster
i've been watching your renovation journey quite anxiously since i know it's a hecking ton of work, being an interior architect myself - especially for a hospitality space. i always recommend people to seek advice from architect/ design professional before starting any project just to have a better understanding of what you're actually dealing with (given you manage to find the right people to start the conversation) glad that you seem to have found a good creative partner on this journey & excited to see how you guys realise the space together!
You have inspired me throughout your journey as a youtuber and I have always truly enjoyed any content you have made, and I cannot express how grateful I am that you made this video! It helped me realize things within myself and I appreciate your willingness to put yourself out there to share your experience with others and I think that's amazing and you are amazing. I believe in you. Make sure you believe in you
today's younger generation is so spoiled despite having toooooo many conveniences in life. grow up and stop acting to get attention or to get youtube hits. jezus f krist, these adult babies...
It’s gonna be okay 🥹💗- Ty for sharing this message dooby..I know how it is to no longer have the support from family. It’s funny how when we do what we really love and what our heart tells us is right, it can sometimes draw us apart from our loved ones. Doing what is right can sometimes feel lonely but you’re inspiring to so many and if you keep doing what you know is right then all the right people will come around. Your inner circle will grow and it’ll be with the healthiest people for you- keep going. You got this. Take some extra rest time when you need it. As a fellow content creator I’m telling you we HAVE to find little ways to take extra breaks to avoid burnout. Hugs dooby thanks again for sharing your journey with us! You got this dood
Love your videos so much Dooby. Your videos helped me get through an incredibly difficult period when I was and felt totally alone - thank you for doing what you do!
Thanks for opening up and feeling like this is a safe space. I empathize a lot with what you’re saying, I was also bullied in different stages of my life growing up and it really creates deep insecurities. I hope you find peace in the realization that your community thinks your wildly talented and successful. You’re doing so much, I know sometimes it seems weird to recognize your growth, you just have to believe that with all the effort your dreams will come true ♥️
Thank you for showing the vulnerable side.. I think that's what we all need. To be able to be vulnerable and not being afraid of it.. :) I loved this video, it was very authentic and honest and right came out from the heart and found its place in our hearts:)
Thank you for being honest with us TIna! It really helps as a reminder that it's okay to not be our 120% all the time...and also even if most of us are just numbers in your views data and probably won't meet in real life... you can know we share these feelings with you so you're not alone even when you feel like that
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings dooby💖 I hope you are feeling much better. A lot of us definitely relate to feeling so down all of a sudden even if things are working out. I recently read somewhere that we are always more capable than we feel and that we are always doing better than we think we are. Its okay to pause to be reminded of the good things.💖
Hey dooby 👋 first time caller here. Just sending some appreciation for your vulnerability and honesty all the way from Rhode Island, USA. Your vlogs have helped me understand some fellow humans in my own life in ways I didn't expect. Keep doing what you're doing - this internet stranger is affirming that your impact is so much larger than you know. And good luck on the restaurant renovations! 🙌
Dooby, thanks for being vulnerable. It made my realize that I'm not the only one. Sometimes I wish I was not that sensitive or insecure at all, because I feel like a burden to the people I love most of the times. I have always wished I was different and that I was not this "weak". I wish I could put a positive spin towards the end of this comment, but I can't. I'm still in the joirney towards trying to be better at handling my emotions and insecurities and hoping one day that I would be able to get a hold of my emotions. Keep believing you're worthy!!!
It's ok to go through such rollercoaster of emotions when you're initiating such a big project . Be patient with yourself and give yourself time to deal with those emotions. You were wrong about not having your family support. Doobies are right here always rooting for you 🌟
Watching Dooby is so chill, like I’ve loved watching people cook for years and she’s my fav! I don’t know how I’m getting to Korea but I’ve gotta go to her restaurant one day!
Thanks for showing us your vulnerabilities as a person. You've shown us that it's okay not to feel okay sometimes.
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bruh sophia from ysf
So youre saying you didnt know that before this vid
Like the kdrama
@@avan912 Of course not. If she had that kind of insight she would not be a fan of this channel.
“Deep down we’re all scared” is something that’s 100% true, everyone is scared and there’s so much growth in diving into the unknown. Even if everything goes to shit (it won’t) but if it does, you will still come out with so much more knowledge, experience and the knowing that you can do it again. Beautiful vlog, thank you for sharing.
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i have never commented before but i really want to say this. You are very inspiring, the way you carry yourself, your passion is so clear. Many people like me don’t know what their ambitions are but seeing you doing what you want to do despite your doubts is admirable. Dooby u got this! You don’t have to have life figured out. Those feelings you have will eventually motivate yourself to do better, and before you know it you are healed. U got this im rooting for u dooby ❤
Really appreciate your openness about your childhood and how it’s effecting you now as an adult. This video makes me want to dig deeper in therapy and open up more. We are expected to just grind and get over past traumas and keep going when in reality, it’s always with us. Takes energy of its own just to get through the day let alone all the endeavors you’re currently doing. Proud of you!!
Agree 100%. Opening up is the key, and that happens a lot on this channel, which is why I enjoy tuning in.
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watching dooby eat makes me happy
Same... and watching her cook!
She is obviously a serious oenophile. Her expression of gratification, tasting the wine at 9:54, would make any sommelier blush. Made me happy and thirsty. 🍷☹️
Aww, I wish I could tell you in person how awesome I think you are. I'm old enough to be your mom. I'd be over the moon proud of you for the things youve done and will be doing!! The ONLY failures are when we don't even try or take chances. As long as you are trying, even if you're feeling like you're failing, you're still trying so you havent failed! Hold your head high, be proud of being such a beautiful, smart, independent, hard working, funny, kind and determined soul!! You are so young and have done more then some folks (me included lol) will do in their entire lives. Don't let anyone else's support, or lack thereof, steer your journey. Your content has always been so well done and easy to watch. You have gifts that when shared with the world, will change lives. Think about the jobs you will create,the friendships you will make and even the ones that don't go well will still help you along the way. The food you share with folks will feel amazing. You cook from the heart and are soon going to be able to share that with so many people. I am nobody, but I AM PROUD OF YOU!!! I was also a chunky kid... I feel ya on all that. I'm 46 and still insecure. You are going to do great, Dooby. No doubt in my mind!!! ♥ I wish you the best in this journey and I'm looking forward to seeing your dreams come to life.
Gosh this made me tear up. Hope she read it and is encouraged.
But I love that she spoke a bit about her insecurities and her bullying experience. Like it’s so refreshing to know that there are people who are willing to be real and vulnerable.
it takes a lot to be this vulnerable to such a big audience! you are so strong, and I know you can do anything you want to, the dooby gang will support you forever 💖
I love following ur journey its so entertaining and eye opening that how much it really takes to start a business!
I was listening to a podcast that said, “it’s important to live life by design rather than emotion. Basically, sticking to a routine is what allows us to be the healthiest version of ourselves (especially when you're fighting these demons from childhood).
I made the most productive changes in my life when I began practising mediocre consistency. Now I try to put in consistent 40-60% effort into my habits (ex. journaling/working out) - to make sure I do it I began recording it and posting it on my youtube channel.
Because historically I have a habit of going too hard, not being able to sustain the Herculean effort, giving up and hating myself. So now I’m trying to give a small-ish, consistent mediocre effort everyday. And it’s crazy how it adds up. I feel like I’m finally building real self esteem.
I’d never heard that quote before but it resonated with me. Will def have to keep that in mind.
It's really a brave thing to show to many people your vulnerable side and ur purpose of it is not just to dump your emotion to us but to tell us that "everyone feel sht in some days and that's okay." & this really gives so much comfort to anyone out there including meee.
dooby watching your vlogs is my therapy... Whenever I'm down i would watch your vlogs and it would lift up my mood and you also encourage me in a lot of ways.... Love you so much and will always support you ❤️❤️❤️
True that, this channel is definitely a 'mood lifter'... 🙏
"ITS GONNA BE OKAY" gave me support and helped me to cope up to the struggle im going thru thanks and love you!
Seeing you trying to heal in your twenties, made me think how wrong I was when I thou that I am late to healing (I am not even 19 yet). You made me feel like healing never happens overnight, it takes time and effort and mostly brain energy. I feel So proud of you and I think all doobies are too.even if you are not getting support from people you expected to be supportive, we are here for you girl! I believe in your power and ability to achieve more and more than the greatness you achieved already
i appreciate how transparent you are with being vulnerable, it's truly a strength.
Wow seeing a person that you really admire open up about her insicurities creates a very empathic connection. I truly resonate with her words.
Thank you for being so open Tina, I’m only 23 and feel like a failure. I know that I have time but I feel it slipping from me sometimes. You make me feel like I’m not alone in my feelings. I hope these insecurities go to hell and you become a successful businesswoman!!
You're not alone don't worry ❤️
I'm currently jobless and feel so insecure too, I seem to be behind everyone in all the life aspects. Your reflection and openness made realize we all feel insecure and that's okay, we should keep trying. you made my day
Being this honest and openly vulnerable is giving you such strength!!! And to me as well I am so motivated to be this open as well it's so healing
Dooby, i love watching your shorts but i dont think ive ever properly watched one of your videos but im so glad i did. i feel like i somehow could connect with someone through this and suprisingly felt understood and heard by your experiences right now. i love how vulnerable you are and how much it motivates, inspires me to push through. i havent cried in weeks but this made me tear up and im so so grateful for your channel.
keep doing your best, im cheering you on and thank you
"its going to be okay" keeps replaying through my head, im grateful for your comfort!!!
everytime I watch dooby's vlogs, I feel relaxed and motivated 😍💖💕❤❤🤍🤍🔥🔥✨
I just lost my job a few days ago and you showing your vulnerability was exactly what I needed. Everyone has doubts, everyone is afraid to fail, and that is apart of the process. Reflecting on your words and having time to process losing my job has shown me that better and exciting things are on the horizon for me, like they are for you. I can't wait to continue to watch your career grow and flourish🧡
Regret to hear about your job loss!
Praying you get a new and better job!
God bless you! 🙏
@@manuelm5664 that is so kind of you thank you
I lost my job over a month ago (they got rid of me for being sick even though I had a doctors note, so that’s nice) and I understand how you feel. I’m hoping to get a job by February but meanwhile I’ve feeling so awful. But as you said, we have good things waiting over the horizon ❤
I love dooby so much because she shows her ups and downs, we have saw all the parts of her, i also love this journey. she inspires me to get out of my comfort zone and live life!!!
You are the best and keep going dooby we are here for you no matter what!!!! 🥺💗💗
Thank you so much for sharing something so deeply to you Dooby. Being someone who felt such insecurities due to being bullied in school..it feels relatable. At the same time seeing you so strong and successful now, also feels inspiring to work hard for your passions and dreams.
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Thanks for opening up about your insecurities and feeling down this year. I, unfortunately/fortunately, can relate to your childhood story and recent feelings quite a bit. I am 27 and feel so incredibly lost and insecure this year, I am questioning every decisions I've made. All I want to do is pack a bag and go to the beach, disappear for a while, if only this was possible.. I know we've got this if we keep moving forward, this adulting shit is just real scary.
Giving you so much props for making content while starting your business! So motivating 😍🥹🥰
you have no idea how much i love and appreciate you opening up to us and the honesty you give. you are a light in this dark world. thank you for being so amazing, dooby. you are truly, truly loved
I’ve never been one to enjoy watching vlogs but I came across your videos about a month ago and they have honestly helped me so much. I just recently got out of a relationship around 2 months ago & I related a lot with what you shared today on insecurities and being a serial monogamist. Your videos have helped me get back to myself in some way, inspiring me to do more things on my own and truly enjoying my solitude. I know you have a lot on your plate rn with the restaurant, family, and what not but I wanna let you know your work truly is inspiring and admirable ❤ just remember these feelings will pass and everything is temporary so might as well enjoy the journey
I appreciate your honesty, because it is very relateable. You are an awesome person. From the ability to think critically, have incredible work ethic, take on challenges to better yourself, and you're an amazing cook and editor, there is nothing about you that isn't wonderful.
You are a good person, and I really do appreciate your content. So Thank You
It was so nice to see that you are doing well in your journey. Although you may have a lot of difficulties, you have been doing everything constantly. Life is a constant journey, so we are becoming a perfect version in our own journey! Love you sis !
I’ve been having the exact same thoughts these past few weeks and I haven’t told anyone so thank you for sharing your feelings with us and for making us feel like we’re not alone.
We can’t wait for you to open up your restaurant!!! We’ll be visiting from the Philippines 🤍
Bro, you’re an inspiration. I have body insecurities and don’t feel like I can be taken seriously but listening to how evidently everyone has these feelings makes me feel better about it. Thanks.
It feels so personal when she talks to us. Like i am sitting in front of her and listening to her. Its great tbh
The real influencer, you are gonna go really far believe me. So proud of you.
she is so sweet, showing us her strengths and her weaknesses. we need more people who will show the reality of being human, because we all have our problems and some people act like they don't wich makes me feel insecure. thanks Doby
Dooby…thank you for being transparent about this season in your life! I am actually in the process of opening my own restaurant and these past few days have felt extremely daunting. The stress of living up to others standards and my own are a lot to shoulder. Watching your videos have really given me solace and I don’t feel as alone. The anxiety eats away at me but I know it is also fulfilling and I have worked really hard to get to this point. I’m proud of us! I’m cheering you on and hopefully I will be able to visit your restaurant the next time I’m in Korea.
I know how you feel, I did that work for about 15+ years for remodeling interiors. I did it full time for about a decade. I'm older and have arthritis now. Take it steady. Eat wonderful food like you do. Stay motivated.
I wash most of our dishes.
After hearing Dooby's thoughts, I really really empathised with her. Thank you Dooby. And you're right. Deep down, everyone is scared for what's to come.
I really want to mention a song here. I know it's random, but it gave me such comfort and reassurance. I don't know if most of the people here watched Hospital Playlist s2? But one of their osts called 'Superstar' just reminded me of this video and how we're gonna be okay. If you don't know Korean, searching up the English lyrics would be great. Nobody has to, but if it gives anyone help, that'd be fine with me.
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I appreciate that you shared your thoughts and opened up so much, it must have taken a lot of courage and maturity. One of the better vlogs on your channel, you definitely stand out from other vloggers whose videos are empty and don't add anything to the viewer's life. Love ya
Today its been an entire year since I followed you. I have seen you grown so much in 1 year and its been very inspiring to me. It was very real seeing you be so open about the issues you talked and it really felt great to see that. It is probably because it is always easier to publicize your achievements, but what you shared takes a lot more.
Hats off to you Tina !!
it was a pleasure meeting you, Tina. looking forward to continue working with you! - David 중꺾마
Can’t wait to see the result
Thank you wholeheartedly for sharing your childhood story and what is happening in your life now! We cherish you! Remember, we love you for who you really are, Tina! YOU are the very best! Looking forward to more videos from you! Take care of yourself! 🙏🏼💜
Never commented on a yt video, but really love all your videos, your energy. The way you share not only your recipes but also your struggles. I feel very identified with many of yours. And for todays video, I have been feeling like you lately, and had some similar issues in the way I connect with people, thanks for sharing yours, really make me feel better and realised it’s fine and it’ll be ok! You’re an inspiration!
Kevin gave "up his life" and moved to you in Korea so I think you are on good ground there !! :) I am sure he saw how you and him could be together and furfill dreams together. :)
I know im not the only person who gets therapy from watching your videos Dooby, so thank you very much for your content. I love how “real” you are in your videos, it’s such a refreshing change from the facade most put on. Sending positive energy to you from the USA
Tina im really thankful from you to be real and honest and to show ups and downs. Im tired of watching people living a perfect life. The way you vlog, although im kms away but i genuinely feel your happiness and sadness and all the emotions you go through. Thank you. Btw your doing great believe me.
You got this (you already knew just a reminder..)
I’ve never commented on a RUclips video before, but this resonated so much with me in so many ways. Please never stop creating your content I love it so much
It's Hard... But you've got this Dooby !!! More power to you and anyone who is going through similar train of thoughts. 💐
Nicely said. There are so many people who go through (and are going through) these kinds of anxieties...
Mama Dooby is here imma watch the video i was feeling low your video will definitely help me and when I read the title i was how the hell this woman is insecure but i guess we all have bad days sending you virtual hugs you will be fine soon ❤️
I’ve been balling my eyes out today after some personal stuff happened recently and I clicked on this video. I feel every words you said. I was a chubby kid as well, struggled with self image for a long time, now I’m fit and have no problem getting attention and all that, but deep down I never fully become secure even though I really tried. The feeling of nobody would ever truly accept who I am and keep loving me is hitting me so hard, bc I have no problem doing this for others, but never reciprocate the same treatment. Thank you for sharing your vulnerable side and I feel you! Hang in there❤ You are already doing so many amazing things at a young age!
Thanks for showing us all the hard work your going through with the reno and everything else. Your doing a awesome job
This is gonna be one of those videos that I'm gonna rewatch whenever I feel low.... ❤
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I am starting my own business in 2023 as well because I've been wanting too for a while and recently I've been overwhelmed by how much work it is just to set up the business in the state and federal govts eyes. I cried a lot just thinking about it and I have a lot going on at the same time and hearing you talk about your own insecurities made me feel so validated in my feelings and I appreciate your "it's gonna be okay". Thank you for sharing your journey, you are such an inspiration for me to continue doing what I wanna do. Keep going, you're doing great! I hope when I get to go to Korea I can go and eat at your place!
YOUR CREATING AMAZING CONTENT!! AND YOU WILL GET THROUGH THIS STORM!! i relate to you so soo much and legit seeing you fight through the same issues i have gives me more motivation than those motivation vieos on yt. THANK YOU VERY MUCH!!!
I've been feeling this exact same way with the insecure thoughts putting me down for a while and I just wanted to say thank you Tina for opening up and making me feel not so alone in these feelings. Your honesty and vulnerability is one of the coolest things about you ❤️
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I always love when a creator/influencer show's his or her real side on camera like dooby ❤️
Agreed!
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I redid the flooring for my family’s upstairs and to say it was tiring is an understatement. I was EXHAUSTED after everyday. Didn’t even have the energy to workout and this was during a time when i was consistently working out too. Major props to you for doing this HUGE renovation and all people who do this type of work for a living
Thanks for being so vulnerable with us. Love from Texas!
Stay strong tina!♥️
you have such a deft hand with storytelling. what i’d give for a tenth of your editing aptitude. even if the entire restaurant project failed from top to bottom, we’d go on the journey with you and resonate with your content. but i think that project will work out, in time. i think you’re doing a great job ❤
I just adore you and everything you’ve experienced with your insecurities resonated because I’ve been through similar. Thank you for sharing your vulnerabilities with us. Love you Dooby❤
She's literally so honest and transparent about herself and always gives best of the advices to us doobies and i love love love her for that. Feeling insecure is normal so hang in there your doobies are with you all the way
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KEPP GOING. ❤
i really needed to hear someone else share their insecurities especially when they sort of match mine... so thank you a bunch
Hey Dooby I resonate with those insecurities and I got a better grip around things when I went for therapy. Specifically with therapy that addresses my childhood/my inner child that has been lost through the years growing up.
This journey is definitely a roller coaster ride, sending love from Singapore 🇸🇬 ❤
Dang, can we all just agree that that sukiyaki looks amazing? 😑 also, dearest Dooby, props to you for pumping iron and trying to keep your strength up to counter things like stress and anxiety. It's the way to go ❤️
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sad to hear that the family thing is not getting better. I hope soon they will see how great he is for you and how happy you are now.
If they act this way toward a white guy, they would have flipped out if she brought home a black guy.
I like these talks you have directly into the camera that open up about the difficult parts of growing up and how it changes you as an adult. I think about it a lot but don't have anyone but a psychotherapist to talk about any of it with and even then, it's once a week.
Being scared and feeling like a failure is so deeply rooted in society's idea of what it means to be a success. Don't listen to that voice. Keep pushing! You are doing amazing things x
Highly recommend therapy! Not sure what the stigma around therapy is in Korea, but it's really helpful to process trauma, build healthy coping mechanisms, and have support beyond just your partner. Esp since it sounds like you're estranged from family/friends, even if its unintentional you might be concentrating your support needs on your bf which can be a source of stress on your relationship
If you have not been in love skip to 9:58 dooby is so preety the moment she starts putting on her apron. She's always preety even without a makeup but that was heart melting preety✨
Love your content! You're doing very ambitious things, it's natural to feel uncertain, but it looks like you have good support. It'll be okay, no matter what happens.
the level i relate to your insecurities is crazy, love what you do. major inspo. keep doing you dooby
This might be a weird comment to put but I’d like to preface by saying I am a loyal subscriber commenting out of your well-being. I hope you are well protected legally in case you and the umbrella man separate. I can see that you have invested so much time, money and love for this project. I wouldn’t want you to suffer for any loss because unfortunately not all relationships are permanent.
(I’m reposting this for the last time in hopes you see it and take actions if you haven’t done so yet. Sorry if the comment seems so negative but I truly want the best for you as your loyal fan.)
i think emma chamberlain created this vlogging personality-style where girls think they need to be overly relatable, make funny faces, crack sex jokes, etc etc. i think it suits some and doesn’t suit others. you seem to be much more of a serious, more cerebral, nerdier kind of person than you let on. you should really lean into just being yourself and anytime you have the urge to act or do something unlike yourself for the viewers gaze/for the camera, resist. sitting and being honest in front of a wonderful meal you made was wonderful… though there are moments when you seem to be acting, or when you are overly scripted in a not ironic kind of way that you seem to lose your luster
i've been watching your renovation journey quite anxiously since i know it's a hecking ton of work, being an interior architect myself - especially for a hospitality space. i always recommend people to seek advice from architect/ design professional before starting any project just to have a better understanding of what you're actually dealing with (given you manage to find the right people to start the conversation) glad that you seem to have found a good creative partner on this journey & excited to see how you guys realise the space together!
You have inspired me throughout your journey as a youtuber and I have always truly enjoyed any content you have made, and I cannot express how grateful I am that you made this video! It helped me realize things within myself and I appreciate your willingness to put yourself out there to share your experience with others and I think that's amazing and you are amazing. I believe in you. Make sure you believe in you
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today's younger generation is so spoiled despite having toooooo many conveniences in life. grow up and stop acting to get attention or to get youtube hits. jezus f krist, these adult babies...
It’s gonna be okay 🥹💗- Ty for sharing this message dooby..I know how it is to no longer have the support from family. It’s funny how when we do what we really love and what our heart tells us is right, it can sometimes draw us apart from our loved ones. Doing what is right can sometimes feel lonely but you’re inspiring to so many and if you keep doing what you know is right then all the right people will come around. Your inner circle will grow and it’ll be with the healthiest people for you- keep going. You got this. Take some extra rest time when you need it. As a fellow content creator I’m telling you we HAVE to find little ways to take extra breaks to avoid burnout. Hugs dooby thanks again for sharing your journey with us! You got this dood
I'm so glad you are getting help making the restaurant your vision.
Can't wait to see it all come true for you!
I like your videos but please respect your audience. I don't want you to point your middle finger on me. Morally wrong please stop.
Thank you for being vulnerable about that, I can relate to some level and yeah its very difficult but we will get through it!!!!
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Love your videos so much Dooby. Your videos helped me get through an incredibly difficult period when I was and felt totally alone - thank you for doing what you do!
Thanks for opening up and feeling like this is a safe space. I empathize a lot with what you’re saying, I was also bullied in different stages of my life growing up and it really creates deep insecurities. I hope you find peace in the realization that your community thinks your wildly talented and successful. You’re doing so much, I know sometimes it seems weird to recognize your growth, you just have to believe that with all the effort your dreams will come true ♥️
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thank you for being so wholesome and real. we love you dooby
Thank you for showing the vulnerable side.. I think that's what we all need. To be able to be vulnerable and not being afraid of it.. :) I loved this video, it was very authentic and honest and right came out from the heart and found its place in our hearts:)
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Thank you for being honest with us TIna! It really helps as a reminder that it's okay to not be our 120% all the time...and also even if most of us are just numbers in your views data and probably won't meet in real life... you can know we share these feelings with you so you're not alone even when you feel like that
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings dooby💖 I hope you are feeling much better. A lot of us definitely relate to feeling so down all of a sudden even if things are working out. I recently read somewhere that we are always more capable than we feel and that we are always doing better than we think we are. Its okay to pause to be reminded of the good things.💖
Hey dooby 👋 first time caller here. Just sending some appreciation for your vulnerability and honesty all the way from Rhode Island, USA. Your vlogs have helped me understand some fellow humans in my own life in ways I didn't expect. Keep doing what you're doing - this internet stranger is affirming that your impact is so much larger than you know. And good luck on the restaurant renovations! 🙌
Thank you for what you said about insecurities,it really helped me think about life in a different way and i'm happier now.
Dooby, thanks for being vulnerable. It made my realize that I'm not the only one. Sometimes I wish I was not that sensitive or insecure at all, because I feel like a burden to the people I love most of the times. I have always wished I was different and that I was not this "weak". I wish I could put a positive spin towards the end of this comment, but I can't. I'm still in the joirney towards trying to be better at handling my emotions and insecurities and hoping one day that I would be able to get a hold of my emotions. Keep believing you're worthy!!!
It's ok to go through such rollercoaster of emotions when you're initiating such a big project . Be patient with yourself and give yourself time to deal with those emotions. You were wrong about not having your family support. Doobies are right here always rooting for you 🌟
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youve became my comfort person in just a day of watching series of ur uploads, i felt that. i hope u peace of mind cos u desrve it sm girlie ily
So much strength and courage. You’ve got us and we’ve got you!
Watching Dooby is so chill, like I’ve loved watching people cook for years and she’s my fav! I don’t know how I’m getting to Korea but I’ve gotta go to her restaurant one day!
wow I have never related more.. thanks for sharing, makes like minded people feel less alone
When you said, “it’s going to be ok” I really felt it. We’re all in this till together and being guided home.
And ps I am also having a bath filled with essential oils
I feel your pain. I went through the same thing at that age. I think you turned out pretty amazing.