Jacoby Shaddix Feeling Suicidal (Papa Roach Interview)

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  • Опубликовано: 15 окт 2024
  • Jacoby Shaddix from Papa Roach talks about what it's like to be in a place of feeling suicidal. He talks about how many of those feelings feed on isolation and how he's fought suicidal thoughts in his own life.
    If you're feeling suicidal, you are not alone.
    Jesse Leach from Killswitch Engage felt the same way:
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    So did Elliott from Blessthefall:
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    All of them mention it's important to talk about the pain you're going through. Comment below your story, or share on our anonymous Support Wall and receive encouragement on the same day you post: forum.heartsupport.com
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Комментарии • 103

  • @BrotherRed53
    @BrotherRed53 4 года назад +75

    I feel like Jacoby Shaddix is really the type of person who EVERY addict, depression victim, or anyone who struggles with a substance needs to have a SERIOUS talk with. Because with all the unfortunate shit hes had to deal with in life and how much it influenced his life, I fell like he can really help them on a super high level. We love you Jacoby, keep doing what you're doing!

    • @arrowdjrh6862
      @arrowdjrh6862 4 года назад +8

      And he seems like he happy and on better path now don’t you think this newest album seems more positive n I love it

  • @afroheadwes
    @afroheadwes 5 лет назад +54

    Man he sounds like he is on the brink of tears here

    • @TheCowOfNow
      @TheCowOfNow 7 месяцев назад +3

      people who have been in his spot, we've all had to hold em back but dont need to either. The tears i mean

  • @lightdestructions
    @lightdestructions 5 лет назад +38

    We already lost Chester Bennington from linkin park and that was bad enough we don’t want to lose Jacoby Shaddix

  • @KingsWorld2015
    @KingsWorld2015 3 года назад +22

    This guy is so humble, he really appreciates what he's got. Notice that in all his interviews.

  • @chriskeller3229
    @chriskeller3229 6 лет назад +81

    Your music and breaking benjamin has saved my life

    • @BrotherRed53
      @BrotherRed53 4 года назад +5

      What's interesting is I'm pretty sure Ben and Jacoby are actually buddies in real life!

    • @arrowdjrh6862
      @arrowdjrh6862 4 года назад +4

      And Chris Cornell soundgarden and audioslave

    • @Evski-if4gn
      @Evski-if4gn 3 года назад +4

      Your comment about his music and breaking Benjamin saving your life, has saved my life.

    • @allcapsguy5629
      @allcapsguy5629 3 года назад

      never forget #chester

  • @sarahzintl4106
    @sarahzintl4106 5 лет назад +32

    This interview saved my life

    • @arrowdjrh6862
      @arrowdjrh6862 4 года назад +7

      That’s amazing we all support you

  • @sfmikica
    @sfmikica 6 лет назад +37

    It's been a tough couple of years, and still is. The first thing I did with the healing process is to start loving myself. Everyday a bit more from the day before.

    • @danielluxi9899
      @danielluxi9899 6 лет назад +2

      Hope you're doing fine buddy

    • @chaddavis2992
      @chaddavis2992 4 года назад +2

      Hope you're doing good today man

    • @allcapsguy5629
      @allcapsguy5629 3 года назад +1

      im here for you today my friend, how are you?

  • @matthewclark3189
    @matthewclark3189 5 лет назад +8

    Thank you Jacoby.

  • @KodieCollingsGaming
    @KodieCollingsGaming 6 лет назад +25

    Feelings of guilt and fear prevented me from committing suicide on multiple occasions. In the final moment, I just couldn't imagine inflicting the loss of my life onto those that know me and possibly making them depressed.
    The worst experience I had was when those thoughts and feelings were drowned out by the thought of being dead. The thought of no more suffering gave me an overwhelming feeling of peace and comfort. I was determined that suicide was the only option. But then I managed to reach out and get help.

    • @HeartSupport
      @HeartSupport  6 лет назад +8

      We are so glad you reached out and got help. Your life is worth living, and we are so happy you chose to keep fighting. Know you are never alone. For resources and to find help, check out heartsupport.com

  • @LyoshaLipatov
    @LyoshaLipatov 2 года назад +3

    I have been living like a zombie for the second year. I have no interest in anything and feel almost nothing. my parents do not believe that I feel bad, and my mother only aggravates the situation abusing me psychologically. she never accept me. I had suicide plans, but out of pity for my friends and relatives, I couldn't do it. there is no way to go to the doctor, so I struggle with this problem myself.
    music is the one among the few things that can cause me sincere emotions. it's like talking to a friend who is experiencing the same thing as you. thank you, Jacoby.

  • @visarbruncaj4507
    @visarbruncaj4507 5 лет назад +22

    Your music and Linkin park is the reason why I’m still surviving

    • @sumdude4
      @sumdude4 3 года назад

      You and me both.

    • @limo4630
      @limo4630 3 года назад

      You might like Citizen Soldier aswell.

    • @allcapsguy5629
      @allcapsguy5629 3 года назад

      I FUCKING MISS CHESTER

  • @chriskeller3229
    @chriskeller3229 6 лет назад +25

    That's some really good advice

  • @suicidalroach4864
    @suicidalroach4864 6 лет назад +8

    Jacoby!! You are a hero bro. Your inspiring, and your doing the right thing. You've helped me through my darkest times, your lyrics speak so well to my soul dude. I relate alot. I've been writing song do was 13 and I'm 22 now, and I'm working on singing and I've always wanted to change the world man. So fuck yeah. Keep it up.

  • @woundedduck
    @woundedduck 2 месяца назад

    Thank god for Mr. Shaddix is still in this world. Thanks to this band i will always stay strong for the people around me.

  • @arrowdjrh6862
    @arrowdjrh6862 4 года назад +4

    I love 💕 papa roach he seems in a great place now love 💕 new album every song smart n true talk

  • @narmora666
    @narmora666 4 года назад +3

    Thank you! Just thank you. I can feel every word you say.

  • @artofvalor9396
    @artofvalor9396 2 года назад +2

    Man he seems like such a good dude! Rock artists just seem so damn real and genuine.

  • @xXxArcher13xXx
    @xXxArcher13xXx 2 года назад +1

    Such a real, honest and nice person

  • @susanclement4147
    @susanclement4147 2 дня назад

    JACOBY.......you are strong. I also tragically lost four family members within two years. I can't find the answers. The processing had a process. Music became my medicine for pain.

  • @allcapsguy5629
    @allcapsguy5629 3 года назад +1

    I love you jacoby, Certainly you have saved many lives

  • @eviltour89
    @eviltour89 3 года назад +3

    The first time I went to a mental institution was literally the day they came out with I need help and released the album a week after I got out and man did it help me through a lot of shit

  • @preyfan
    @preyfan 6 лет назад +11

    Thank you so much !!!

  • @melissa4691
    @melissa4691 5 лет назад +10

    I love this band so much. I can never express the impact they have had on my life. Jacoby’s vulnerability and honesty has saved lives. I didn’t feel alone when I listened to them, I felt they could relate. They gave me hope when I felt empty and was lost inside. I know I am not the only one to feel this way about their music. Love these guys so much and am so grateful for them!

  • @daughter_of_hades5312
    @daughter_of_hades5312 3 года назад +1

    Had this huge fight with my boyfriend recently. I've been dealing with depression for quite a while, struggling with meds, therapy and self harm. I had my bad moments but this, this was my breaking point. I don't know what I would do if it wasn't for my dog that was going everywhere with me and try to engage me to play with him or pet him. It feelz good to know that I am not alone in my struggles. That I can relate to people whom I admire. Thank you for sharing this with us. You probably saved a lot of people in this community.

  • @bsbznumber1fan
    @bsbznumber1fan 6 лет назад +53

    I can relate to what he's saying because I do hold it all inside and I have attempted suicide more times than I can count I just feel so alone and that no-one cares see music has always been there for me and Papa Roach their music has helped me alot when I suffered from a painkiller addiction and when my fiancee left me and I lost my son there are days I just feel like the world would be better off without me but then I turn on my favorite CD by a band I love and it changes I'm gonna try what he suggested and see how I feel in ten days jacoby is a wise man so I'm gonna take his advice and see what happens thank you Papa Roach for always being there for me when no-one else was❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @HeartSupport
      @HeartSupport  6 лет назад +3

      Thanks! If you need support definitely reach out at heartsupport.com/community

    • @fionapithouse9010
      @fionapithouse9010 6 лет назад +3

      dean's girl but the important thing is you where able to make a subconscious decision to do what was best for you and your welfare well done

    • @suicidalroach4864
      @suicidalroach4864 6 лет назад +1

      Right on. I feel it bro

    • @allcapsguy5629
      @allcapsguy5629 3 года назад

      judging by your YT name, I take it you've survived! Congrats my brother!

  • @littleregina7695
    @littleregina7695 4 года назад +1

    Jacob, its cuz people like U I'm still Standing TALL Today. Thank U & yur Music my Hero. I LOVE U & all yur Band mates sooooo muccchhh!!!!

  • @bittumandol5612
    @bittumandol5612 4 года назад +3

    Don't do that Jacoby. We're already missing a legend like Chester Bennington. We don't want to miss u. Plz don't do that. Love from bottom of my heart 💓💖😘😊

  • @benjaminramsey9950
    @benjaminramsey9950 5 лет назад +2

    I had a step sister who committed suicide and I have thought about it multiple times. I have a terrible habit of cutting and a craving for alcohol. Its like my whole being wants to end and theres no good reason why. But this mans music and words have helped me so much and everytime I get in that suicidal space, I watch this video. Thank you so much for inspiring me to keep going. Rock n Roll saved my life

  • @HPTFan
    @HPTFan 6 лет назад +5

    I used to listened to PR when I was in high school. I’m glad that Jacoby talks about this subject. It’s not easy, but taking step by step can help. 😌

    • @papasivir4241
      @papasivir4241 6 лет назад +2

      AVJR LOL I'm currently in high school and I listen to Papa Roach

  • @visarbruncaj4507
    @visarbruncaj4507 5 лет назад +5

    Your music is so inspiring

  • @sobster123
    @sobster123 4 года назад +2

    aww he's so inspiring 😣💜💜 He knows his shit. That was a very beautiful interview. I think I will go back to this if I ever have such thoughts in life💕 I love Papa Roach!!!!

  • @ashleyellis182
    @ashleyellis182 7 месяцев назад

    Very well spoken by him. There are no other words.

  • @Darkknight_420
    @Darkknight_420 5 лет назад +2

    I put my headphones in go outside put my rock Playlist on and air guitar walking to wherever. That is what always puts me in a better place

  • @DyingBreed00
    @DyingBreed00 6 лет назад +5

    Your music has been a blessing to me you know what people are feeling or going through and im glad I've found your music at a young age much love

  • @mechellejohnson3298
    @mechellejohnson3298 Год назад

    Thank you thank you for your courage and the 10 day challenge

  • @CatWomanInParadise
    @CatWomanInParadise 6 лет назад +6

    This is amazing and I know for sure that by sharing this, it will definitely save lives. :')

  • @johnnylawrence9686
    @johnnylawrence9686 2 месяца назад

    I have been trying so hard to get sober. I'm currently staying in a hotel because my wife kicked me out of our house, and doesn't want me around our daughter.
    I have Christ in my heart, but my addiction is outweighing my faith and any feelings of love.
    If my brother in Christ, Jacoby, can get thru it, I know I can too. I grew up fatherless, poor and lost. I am now a father, supporting his family, and know I have the love of the Lord and the love of my wife and daughter, but I have to get better. Please send me your prayers. Please leave a light on for me.

  • @PlurLogic
    @PlurLogic 6 лет назад +5

    💗💗💗💗💗💗💗👏👏👏👏👏 Thank you, dude!!! I'll deff have to try some of the stuff u suggested!! 😘😘😘

  • @laurak.9640
    @laurak.9640 5 лет назад +5

    just: thank you!

  • @ezra8129
    @ezra8129 6 лет назад +13

    Maybe I'll start *texting* people back and maybe i'll start *walking* Baby steps.

  • @preyfan
    @preyfan 6 лет назад +5

    Music and channelings of spiritual people like Kryon and Abraham Hicks helped me immensely.
    Also yes I agree with it sometimes being because people don't move enough , so I'm actually gonna go for a brisk walk now !!! :D
    Also Jacoby I Love you , you're amazing !!! :D

  • @m.i.t.h.
    @m.i.t.h. 4 года назад +1

    It can be selfish, but doesn't always come from that place. The issue I've had when I've been through it is usually guilt. Always trying to talk people through their problems because I can't bear to see them hurt. However after a while I start to feel like the cause of their pain.. that I'm the common link with everyone I try to help and it is my fault. That the weight is too heavy and I keep bringing others down. Then the voices and images of every mistake you've ever made flash before me and then I feel like the only way to save others is to eliminate the one causing them pain. Problem is... when you are so focused on helping with the negatives... sometimes you lose yourself and neglect the positives.

  • @cuervo7029
    @cuervo7029 3 года назад

    Awesome this does help a lot of people

  • @justinlyle7831
    @justinlyle7831 5 месяцев назад

    Jacoby is the man!!!!! 💪😎

  • @natenichols9569
    @natenichols9569 5 месяцев назад

    That's the Mariposa coming out. Went to highschool with his sister. We have a stubborn streak. He calls it cowardice I call it resilience.

  • @Craig_Black
    @Craig_Black 2 года назад +1

    Yeah just so you guys know… suicide is the most selfish thing you can do and you destroy lives when you do it. The world is not better without you no matter how much you believe it.
    I speak from unfortunate experience. Don’t do it.
    In fact, if any one feels suicidal, message my instagram and I’ll talk to you about my experience. You can make a decision off of that.. my insta is same as my RUclips.

  • @K_Kay1
    @K_Kay1 3 года назад

    I’m totally there . Even worse now days ….

  • @thesystemhasfailed
    @thesystemhasfailed 2 года назад

    Exactly, 'That's the most selfish act a human being can do'.

  • @mr_metal.
    @mr_metal. 3 года назад

    song is too loud in the background, it's difficult to hear the good man. I appreciate the video and I want to feel it 100%, what he is talking about. please pay more attention in the future during editing a vieo clip

  • @sloankooshan7494
    @sloankooshan7494 3 года назад

    Thank you ❤️

  • @magsdaviesakapinkyjacobysd388
    @magsdaviesakapinkyjacobysd388 3 года назад +1

    IVE LEARNED THROUGHOUT LIFE THERE'S NO HELP OUT THERE N NO1 CAN HELP YOU BUT YOU. IF THAT FIGHT IS WITHIN YOU YOU'LL SURVIVE. I WANNA GIVE UP ALL THE TIME BUT IT AINT IN ME TO. THERE'S 1 THING THAT STOPS ME. JACOBYS LOVE....... EVEN THOUGH I HAVEN'T SEEN OR HEARD FROM HIM IN OVER A YEAR ITS THERE IT NEVER FADES............. ALL I WANT IS TO SEE HIM AGAIN........... I GO THROUGH HELL. HES THE 1 WHO PULLS ME THROUGH

  • @NunoLuna
    @NunoLuna 3 года назад

    The thing is. It’s selfish to commit suicide but when you’re in that state of mind you feel like nobody gives a shit about you so in your head, you’re like “who cares if I’m gone?”.

  • @makeyourself1988
    @makeyourself1988 4 года назад +1

    Suicide is most certainly not selfish whatsoever. It is an illness and some people need help.

  • @TrymYoutubeMainChannel
    @TrymYoutubeMainChannel 8 месяцев назад

    Scars was a big song of my past by them

  • @jasonmatkovich6342
    @jasonmatkovich6342 4 месяца назад

    Not doing it shows your true strength

  • @Jessica-wo6rg
    @Jessica-wo6rg 6 лет назад +1

    I almost drowned myself. It was because of all of my sisters problems. Her boyfriend has a tumor in his head or something like that. So he gets looked at weird and bullied by strangers.. He has a super bratty family that make everyone suicidal. Luckily, me and my sisters boyfriend have gone out of that suicidal state. We were put on this earth for a reason. We have a purpose. 😊 I am cool and beautiful on the outside but on the inside I'm heart broken.

  • @keithagee8972
    @keithagee8972 4 месяца назад

    "Suicide is indecent." -OKA

  • @NikkiFeral
    @NikkiFeral 3 года назад

    I agree that it is a selfish act. But on the other hand, doing one thing in your life for yourself and not taking into consideration what other people think of you and your actions must be so freeing. That feeling of relief...
    When I talked to my friends about these kinds of thoughts they said, that they hate when people feel down all the time, are negative and always pity themselves.
    I think I should change my friends. When they make fun of your mental state and your suicidal thoughts, they are really not right people to have around.

  • @homeinmyhead
    @homeinmyhead 6 лет назад +3

    ❤️

  • @carpenoctem775
    @carpenoctem775 2 года назад

    Deep

  • @JoeJoe-di4oj
    @JoeJoe-di4oj 6 лет назад +2

    True

  • @БасангБадмараев
    @БасангБадмараев 5 лет назад +1

    Лидер группы《Папа Роач》Джекоби Шеддикс: конец 80-х - это время величайших амбиций (Кубань 24)

  • @silverundead6632
    @silverundead6632 Месяц назад

    I’ll be honest..I’m still struggling like a mf.. I’ve reached out for help but just got locked up like an animal and ignored..so now I’m scared to talk to anyone about my feeling’s because what if they toss me back in that environment again

  • @sarakrisanits7144
    @sarakrisanits7144 3 года назад

    Suicide is not selfish.

  • @jamessmith7959
    @jamessmith7959 4 года назад +1

    I've committed suicide 4 times with heroine on purpose and been brought back each time by narcan being dead for a total of 45 minutes makes me believe god has a plan for me because most die the first time oding on heroine but im still here for some reason?

  • @dillonx11
    @dillonx11 5 лет назад +1

    I'm not as strong as you, Jacoby

    • @laurataylor7960
      @laurataylor7960 5 лет назад +2

      Yes you are!

    • @dillonx11
      @dillonx11 4 года назад +1

      @@laurataylor7960 People like you are the kind of people this world needs, Laura. not me

    • @duhrelhall5501
      @duhrelhall5501 4 года назад

      @@dillonx11 stay strong man, this world is better with you in it

  • @ms.blueeyes3210
    @ms.blueeyes3210 6 лет назад +1

    I called the suey hotline i told them my mom was my gardian and he had ti tell i called

  • @Ashkracker
    @Ashkracker 4 месяца назад

    From an outside perspective I suppose it seems like it’s a selfish act but it’s a side effect of deep depression or other mental illnesses.

  • @christianhildebrandt8186
    @christianhildebrandt8186 3 года назад

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @nongsiejaibor5572
    @nongsiejaibor5572 4 года назад +1

    When you r homeless you fell like committing suicide coz you feel like you are the most unluckiest, worst, bad ,poor person in the world, but whats with all the successful and famous people in the world committed suicide

  • @Annstanton-g3e
    @Annstanton-g3e 2 месяца назад

    It’s not selfish

  • @summerslam2295
    @summerslam2295 5 лет назад

    What WWE event was this song on?

  • @Throbbing_Erectionist
    @Throbbing_Erectionist Год назад +1

    I remember going through bad alcohol withdrawal in 2013. I had a 45 in the drawer and nothing makes you want to blow your brains out like alcohol withdrawals. Fortunately I made it through, because Jesus loves me and its just a chemical imbalance anyway.

  • @iamjesuschristintheflesh5866
    @iamjesuschristintheflesh5866 Год назад

    I AM Jesus Christ in the flesh I give eternal life