Three Enemies of Raising Children and Training Horses
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- Опубликовано: 29 дек 2023
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A wise doctor once told me that the 8 year old kid that CAN sit still for 6-8 hours per day is the kid with the problem. So true
That sounds very accurate 😊
But as a kid I..........
Well shit
Hahaha now that’s exactly right!
Tyler is 😢😢 0:12 @@Michael-dj4iq
@@archer4740I too “liked to stack” as a kid haha.
Good morning from Moscow, Russia. It's 6:00 in the morning, and I was about to go to bed when I came across your video and realized I couldn't miss it. Dwayne, it's been a tough year. I divorced my wife because of her infidelity, almost killed myself, and went through a depressive episode, but you helped me. Your videos with the measured pace of narration, calm voice, metaphors about horses and nature, those stunning views in the background, a cigar in your fingers and a Midwestern American "cowboy" accent were like an asmr for me. In moments of anxiety or restlessness, I would often just turn on random videos from your channel and find peace in them.
Thanks to you, I survived the hardest episode of my 22 years of life and realized that the last two months of 2023 were the best, as I finally started breathing fully again. Thank you. I respect you and appreciate what you are doing for the younger generation.
P.S. I bought myself a "Romeo and Juliet number 3" cigar for New Year's Eve, and I'm going to savor it with "Sauza" tequila. You gotta poison yourself with quality and taste on such occasions
What kind words, God bless you young man.
I hope you have a wonderful year.
You're through the hardest part now, you can only go up from here. God bless you and protect you.
Stay strong brother
The only way out is through 🙏 stay strong
One of my favorite parts from “father forgets”: “It was not that I did not love you: it was that I expected too much of you. I was measuring you by the yardstick of my own years. There is so much that was good, fine and true in your character. The little heart of yours was as big as the dawn itself over the hills”.
I had never heard of that... just read it and it made me cry!
I do this with my own kid. I think it's because I'm afraid of failing him as a dad. I didn't really grow up with someone to look up to since I spent most of my childhood alone, so I feel like I'm going in blind and doing it badly with how I'm raising my own
The message about patience and the insecurity of the child is amazing. I wish I had had those lessons 12 years ago when my son was born.
Hang in there. It's tougher at 12, but it's not too late.
At least at 12 you can sit down and discuss / reason with them.
Remember also that YOU ARE NOT THERE TO BE THE KID'S BEST BUDDY!
You’ve placed a huge smile on my face Dewayne! About 52 years ago I told a young man that ‘my dad can beat up your dad’; and of course he wasn’t having it; so we rolled in the grass trading punches until we were both done from exhaustion; and we’ve been the best of friends for 55 years now. Your wisdom and integrity toward younger generations is awesome sir! Thank you.
You brought back bittersweet memories. My best friends father passed when we were 6 years old. His family lived next door. His mother didn't remarry until years later. My father stepped in to fill that void for him and always included him in everything we did and so taught him the same lessons as he did me. He was disciplined the same as me too! I always thought of him as my brother. Later as an adult, I moved away for my career. My father helped him get a job where he worked, and my friend retired after 35 years. He always cared for my father when I couldn't. I was blessed with a loving, giving father and I never minded sharing his attention. We are still best friends and I finally moved back to our small town. Yes, you can keep a decades old friendship. We are the older generation now. Dwayne always sounds a lot like my father. Children don't learn just by what they hear but by what they see. Hope your friendship lasts many, many more years.
@@fightinginflipflops7731That’s awesome! Thanks for sharing 👍🏻👊🏻
Seeing as my girl is 31 weeks pregnant this video came as a blessing, a good reminder on how to be a good parent. Have a good new year Dewayne and everyone that reads this
God bless you and your growing family brother! Hope this next year brings much happiness and joy , you got this!! I’m a father of two myself, my youngest being 3 months old tomorrow, and I can say without a doubt if you’re actively trying to educate yourself and be better, you’re doing something right!! Keep on keeping on my man, peace!
@@aldrick4762 thanks for the Kind words brother. Take care yourself too
Congratulations for your growing family good sir! Remember enjoyed experience its a blessing because my little girl born 27 weeks early now she 6 months now she kicking ass like her parents!😊
I wish you two all the best and have a great year!
Aggression is a learned trait.. i was under the influence of hot headed parent and mentor cowboys, it's taken me 50 yrs. to be quite, calmer, forgiving, loving..
Dewayne, thank you so much for the shout out! Proud to call you neighbor, Happy New Year to you and Deanna!
My pleasure!
I wish my family was neighbors with your family. Like minded ppl are hard to find. Happy New Year to All 🙏🏼📖
This channel was how I started my every morning in Navy Engineering school. Once I'm out, I'd like to attend the school. Wife and I are leaving Crowded Colorado (a.k.a. Colorfornia at this point) for Wyoming. Pray for me. Navy decided to set my family and I in the middle east for 4 years and I have baby #2 on the way.
🙏 Thank you for your service. Outrageous blessings on you and your family 💞
“Colorfornia” huh? Sounds like someone has a kind of “color” phobia hence they are the reason you’re leaving (seemingly the most considerable and possibly among others but still stated as the first) hmmmm…. I know exactly what you mean
@Es97Coqui COLORado + CaliFORNIA my guy. We have been swarmed with people from Texas and California, but the Californians are turning this state blue and making it to be just like the place they just left. Where did you get color phobia from and why did you assume the color of my skin?
A friend of mine turned me onto this video, and Man. I have to tell you, this was one of the greatest, most worthwhile things I've watched in SO long. The only thing I feel bad about is now, at 58, with all my kids gone and raising kids of their own, I have no chance to go back and undo all the mistakes I made, both with my kids, and with horses. And I would sure give anything to go back.
Same with yelling at your dog , they just think you are barking so they just bark louder !
Hi Dewayne, my 6 year old daughter absolutely loves this educational show about animals. She's learned all these animal facts and it has really spurned an interest in zoology at a young age. My wife and I are of the classical wisdom of minimizing screen time, but these educational shows blur that rule a little for us. We aren't sure how much is too much, but we find ourselves letting her watch a fair bit of it. But I do agree with the essence of your first point.
My boyfriend and I just welcomed our puppy home 5 days ago so this really resonates. It’s tough and frustration never works. She is eager to learn and at the end of the day having a child, puppy, horse, being in a relationship etc are responsibilities that we GET to choose. And get to grow from. Thanks Dwayne and Mamma, happy 2024
He’s not dropping dimes, he’s dropping whole hundreds!
Amen, no children but lots of horses over the years and helped a lot of horses on the track.
Had some come into my stable very aggressive or cuckoo; they changed so much people did not recognize them.
They also raced well for me.
Fun to see them get better ✨🕊️
Hey Dwayne, perhaps you remeber me from my comment a couple of weeks ago where i sought wisdom from you about my failed police academy entrance test. I promised you that ill be back when i made it and now im very proud to announce that ive passed the test today. I was the only person out of 50 to make it today and i couldnt be happier. You tought me that only quiters are losers, so ill never gonna quit a hard goal in my life ever again. Thank you so much and May god bless you and your family :)
Congratulations! I’m proud of you. Well done
my parents also have horses and I also have stories about them.
up until around 10 years ago, we had a horse, that was the leader our horses, she was very kind and super aware of other creatures. there was this instance, when I was around 3 years old, when she accidentally stepped on my foot, but as soon as she felt, that she was on my foot, she lifted her hoof. her death was the first encounter of death, that I can remember, from the moment on, when her light in her eyes dissapeared, it started raining. a lot.
we still have her daughters, one trying to fill the gap her mother left as best as she could, while she cant fill it completely, she is doing a great job at it. the other is the polar opposite of her mother, she kicks, she bites and she does that thing, that involves her pushing people away with her head, she is however the physically biggest horse we have, but who do the rest follow more closely? the calm daughter. whenever there is a part of the fence, that broke, we only have to get the calm daughter to follow us back, the rest follows her, sometimes the violent one has to be picked up individually, but most of the time they are fine. the violent one should not be blamed as much though, she often has painfull hoof-diseases, infections, cavities etc. and her hooves have to be grinded down quite often.
we have another horse, that is a totally different breed than the rest, they are often anti-social to her, but she doesnt exactly help herself either. whenever we have a foal, she would be agressive to them often even attacking them, but everyone else is not having it, they often protect the foal and even attack her back. there are often attempts to get her into the family as well, but she is not having it. I guess racism is not just a human problem.
So close to a mil subs been watching from the start so happy for you . The advice you give is worth millions . Ive turned my life around because of your advice and wisdom
As a soon to be father this is gold!
I don't have a horse, wish I did, but I do have a dog and have had a lot of training with K9's from the military and I can tell that what you said about horses apply to dogs as well. Clear boundaries, teach them right from wrong with a calm but firm manner is all you need. To Dewayne and anyone reading, have a great new year!
Thanks for sharing your thoughts, Dewayne! You're spot on.
The modern education system was designed not to educate, but to instill cooperative behavior, based on the design of the Prussian military about 2 centuries ago. None of us, horse or human, were evolutionarily adapted to sit and do the same, rote tasks for an entire day. We adult humans can adapt *enough* to make it work when necessary or when complacent enough, but children haven't developed the resignation or discipline (depending on circumstance and perspective) to do that for an entire day. I say this as an ADHD father who has two ADHD kids (and a third without)--the ones with ADHD are clearly less well adapted to sitting around in school all day.
Dewayne, this is exactly what I needed to hear today. My wife and I have 4 children from 4 years old to 4 weeks old. A C section was necessary for our newest arrival, and I suddenly found myself trying to be Dad, Mom, and housekeeper for the next 3 weeks. Last week, my wife fell and broke her ankle. She and the kids have been living with my parents 2 hours away, while Im trucking cattle over the road. I came home this weekend to find the kids running all over my wife and parents. I wish I could park the truck for a few weeks to lay down the law and bring boundaries back, but Ive already had a few weeks off, Im thousands of dollars in debt, year end renewal bills are rolling in daily for the business, and Im hardly keeping stuff paid as it is. I dont know what to do right now, Im between a rock and a hard place. Prayers and additional advice would be greatly appreciated. You know who I am, Im sure... I dont want to abuse the privilege of having your number...Keep the parenting and fatherhood videos coming.
Keep pushing and never give up make more calls.... and some one on one with each our your children and most importantly pray
That is extremely rough. Keep your chin up, good luck.
It's relaxing to be able to hear from you as a rancher, and I enjoy your heartwarming perspectives. God bless you :))
WOW! The part about yelling at your horse not always being verbal is soooo important! Even a gaze can be a yell to a horse. I try so hard to convey this to my students
Hi Dewayne...I have 3 dogs including a German Shepherd. You cannot allow then to be bored....so I get the out and super tired running around and playing in nature. It absolutely is the same principle with Children.....thry need to displace their energy. ❤
Glad that you share with us and I couldn’t put a price on this knowledge and experience! Thank you sir
Dogs too. Dogs are alot like children. Brilliant vid!
We homeschool so that they can actually learn important things. And I had to let the kids get a little bored before it ignited their creativity. I offered woodworking, leatherworking, knitting, papermaking, anything was there at their fingertips, and when they got bored, they went looking for something, and they’ve made shawls, benches, amazing food, they’ve fixed things that they saw were broken, they started harvesting things to make as collecting seeds, and seeing what would grow. By the way, I really miss having horses. 😭 Also, chickens are a great distraction to take care of. Those little beasts will give you a run for your money, and also teach you how to protect them from skunks, snakes, and raccoons.
This was an absolute homerun of a video. To me its a mark of your wording and abiliry to accurately compare parenting for care that os cross specie
I feel like the hot headed disciplinarian as a 24 year old father. I feel like a bad father. Idk how or who to talk to about it. This video hit hard for me. Appreciate you Dwayne. I need to stop yelling. Breaking my own heart anymore
Thank you sir, can’t wait for that book y’all are writing. Just saying you should sell some signed copies please!!
This cat should get some love ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ it is cute your first cat 😺❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Always great to catch your updates! Wishing you, Deanna and family a blessed, happy and healthy new year 2024! 🌅
Thank you Dwayne! I learn a lot from you and I appreciate that.
Thanks for the upload Dwayne. Happy New Years, and well wishes your way.
That sound before you introduce yourself on repeat sounds awesome.
watching his videos for a morning coffee is amazing
I wouldn’t have skipped school back then if I had this horse school by you, Dewayne.🙋🏻♀️🇨🇦
The book “Raising a Modern Day Knight” has brought some unique perspectives on me, particularly relating to religion. Great read when contemplating parenting and growth. :)
Good video. One fine cigar. One of my favorites
Why does knowledge and understanding always arrive too late to be put to practical use. The video i needed 20 plus years ago
Dwayne Let me tell you this. I have been searching around a decade before for ' wisdom and advices from good ol' folks' nothing satisfactory showed up. It has been a year I found this channel and I am grateful God bless you. Keep it up!! These kinda footages are rare these days. All the best and prayers from Kurdistan ❤
Been watching the Wyoming way for a few months now. Agree his channel is good.
Thank you for your thoughtful and profound wisdom. I wish I had seen you 40 years ago. It could have saved me a lot of grief and work. You are absolutely spot on. It took me a long time to learn the same lessons in life.
Wow just wow, I am in awe of the knowledge and the wisdom that you have. Everytime I watch a video of yours it's a humbling experience, just goes to show how I little I know in comparison, the mind of someone in their 20s cannot begin to comprehend. Wishing you all a happy, blessed new year.
Thank you for your wisdom
God Bless You Dwayne!
Thank you for this wisdom!
Happy New Year DeWayne and Mama !!! 🎉
Happy New Year, thank you for sharing true honest wisdom.
Love it, Duane - thank you for the message of wisdom as we enter the New Year! Cheers!
Happy New Year to you and yours! God Bless!!
A great episode to round out the year!
Happy New Year!
Wise man that I’m thankful for!!!🥰
This wonderful video, like all the others, gives great peace of mind and food for thought for the day ahead. Moscow is in touch.
You described my wife’s horses issues. He lives in a paddock (obviously) of limited size. I simply cannot make time outside weekends and wife only goes a few times a week to let him into a pasture to play and eat. Recently she’s started lunging him but he remains bored and resentful of me.
I think he did cows when he was younger, but as an aged neophyte I’m not capable of riding cows.
Thank you for your time and knowledge. I'm so proud to see my daughter calm with her small kids. She's calmer than I was.
As a girl growing up with ADHD boredom was really bad for me. Yes I had K.I.D.D as well but at the same time even doing stuff my brain just wouldn't focus on the task at hand and there's teaching and help for that but when I was done and everything else being bored would get me wandering and changing and getting into trouble more than my siblings who had KIDD with no ADHD.
Fortunately, my mom was a great supporter of mine and a great supporter of 'arts, crafts and games' especially ones that took us outside. My room growing up was often filled with random 'at the moment' hobbies I'd have picked up an interest in, and even to this day I still continue some of them like knitting and gardening and I had two bookshelves full of just books. Not always kids literature but just things i liked to read and I'd read them all.
This speaks to me. My boy in grade one struggles to sit still for eight hours. I get notes home and he gets punished for being a kid. They suggest he gets checked out to see if he has ADHD.
This just solidified my decision to homeschool him.
More great words of wisdom! Happy New Year to you and momma!
First off, let me wish you and Momma a HAPPY NEW YEAR! As a 75 year old father to two girls and three step sons, your words ring so true. My youngest girl and the middle son were the ones that really tested the boundaries growing up. Now they all range in age from 31 to 55 and have given us eight wonderful grandkids and the satisfaction that what we struggled with in raising them, they have struggled with in raising theirs. All in all, with all of the uncertainty about what we were doing, it appears we got through to them. Good talk DeWayne.
Great words of wisdom! Thank you.
As a side note, love that saddle siting just behind you last on the left on the shot.
Thank you Mr. Dwyane. I really appreciate all of your videos.
Thank you for everything you do, and say Dwayne. Your advice and perspective helps me a lot as a young man that doesn’t have many role models, or a mentor of sorts. Your videos have helped me tremendously and you have helped me learn how to be a better man with the knowledge and experience you share. You inspire me, and help me to keep going forward even when I feel like I have no idea how to do that. I am grateful that you take the time to record these videos, and share your experiences with all of us.
I hope you, momma, and all of your loved ones have a wonderful and blessed new year full of great experiences. Much love and appreciation.
Thankyou Dewayne. I've been using your wisdom to help me become a better man and father. I didn't really have my parents be present with me growing up, my dad was a trucker who would be gone for a week to three weeks at a time and only come back for 1 to 2 days on the weekends and my mom was not really present because my oldest sister passed away when I was four and she never seeked out help to deal with that grief, she still comes to tears when my sisters name gets brought up 21 years later(it still hurts to see it affect her like that), so all I knew growing up was trying to find somebody to fill that void I've always had and trying to not be a bad father to my kid is probably one of the heaviest fears I have right now. Your video here, among others, has helped alleviate that fear
I just found your channel and I’m loving all the videos. You have such a great way of explaining things.
AWESOME THOUGHTS DWAYNE. GOD BLESS, MUCH LOVE.
Duane your the man. Much respect from colo springs
You dont send ur words to my ears u send them to my heart thanks Dwayne
It’s 6.30am on January 1st here in Australia. Thank you for your videos and happy new year to you and yours. Never ever stop doing what you do. God bless your work.
15:00 wow I have never thought about it! This is genius
You saved the best for the last video of the year, my friend. Truer words were never spoken. I know almost nothing about horses save what I have learned from you. The similarities between children and horses had never occurred to me, so I learned something on that side of things. And I agreed with every single word you said about raising and protecting kids, something I do know a bit about. This is yet another one of your videos that needs to be seen by the world and especially by this country. Happy New Year to you and Mama. I look forward to seeing many new videos from both of you in 2024.
Well well well I needed to hear that Dwayne.
I was brought up by Yeller. So I am a Yeller, I have calmed down a decent bit from Bad things coming of it and age.
Boy see. looking in your face and hearing something to that nature that is life changing.
Man I wish I had heard it put that way at 18!
Thank you Dwayne mark 59
I was going to ask how Rae was doing; thanks for the update. And yes, mares get bored very easily! 😅
Happy New Year to you and yours! 🎉
I found you recently in the last month or so. I have always loved horses and your wisdom is just so priceless. Wish I could have come next year for a class. I haven't been on a horse in almost 30 years. I really hope you all do classes in 2025 but I understand if you don't with your book release. Thank you for the amazing words of wisdom. Hope you and the family have a Happy New Year and congrats on the new grandkid on the way!
I made the same mistakes as a father of 3 and wish I had someone like you Dewayne to guide me. Happy New Year to you and Deanna.
Almost 1,000,000 subs. All to a good man who speaks the truth, a truth that needs to be heard.
Man oh man do i miss homeschooling. My kiddo is "diagnosed" with ADHD and the school plays it like no other.
I started therapy which is helping a lot with my hot-headedness. I'm practicing a technique in which I count before I react.
Sometimes I don't realize that my kid is just bored. I like the analogy that he needs to figure out how to track instead of looking. This will be my golden nugget from your wise video 🌟 Thank you and happy new year to you and your family!🎉
Good Video for sure. Happy New Years to you & Momma. Keep up the good work DeWayne.
Such a Great Show !!!!!
Great seeing you on the call yesterday much respect for you sir
Pure wisdom, thank you. Also safer this for my parent time in the future.
I stumbled on this channel a few months ago and I keep watching because I know I’ll learn something sooner or later
Good morning, I stumbled across your channel the other day, glad I did!!! It's a great way to start my day. Thanks
Dwayne, I’ve been watching a lot of your videos recently and they have helped me immensely. I’ve always had a constant struggle being content with life. I’m 17 and I’m afraid of what is to come with the future, I don’t have anything figured out, and on top of that, This girl has popped into my life and we have been dating for a month now, she is different from anyone else, she gets me like no one else. And as happy as I am with her, it is hard for me to not think about her past with other guys, she used to be a very bad person but turned her life to God and is such a good person now. Do you have any guidance as to how I should go about this battle brewing in my head
Outstanding, thanks as always uncle Dwayne! Unc to us all at this point I'd say!
I really appreciate the authenticity brought by that squeaky chair. I have one too and it's annoying people around me which makes me want to seat calmly on it.
Thank you sir, my best wishes to you and yours and of course all the fine people in your audience.
Sir. Thank you for sharing your life wisdom.
Excellent video as always Sir!
Truth spoken in such a warm tender yet with firm assurance. Thank you for sharing you wisdom and experience. The world is in short supply of such as you.
So "stop putting your horse in front of the TV" is what I got out of this.
Thank you for all your good words. All the best to you and your family and a happy new year! J.Martin from Canada
Thank you, I agree about boundaries, when my five year old crosses the boundaries I have a little time out chair. I warn first but if he can’t stop he goes to time out for three minutes or so, then after we talk about why it happened and how it can not happen next time and give lots of hugs. I really don’t have to yell and it works he does not want to go to time out!
Thanks Dewayne, I'm getting into ranching, rode horses all my life, but I love ranching side of things!
You've given me a lot to think about. Thank you sir
Fantastic advice thank you
Love your videos, sir. Thank you
Dewayne your doing this as a service to any real man that wants guidance and want to improve there selves. Thats it. And i know several friends that are just like me that would love the opportunity to sit talk around a fire and enjoy a good cigar
Wisdom of patient guidance.
Hard to remember in the heat of the moment.
Thank you Sir
I like how the video starts with a chair creek and I thought it was a bass or something 😂