I love this!!!!! The only men that have an issue with what she said are the men that dont see the importance of the characteristics she is laying out. She communicated specifically what she wants in a husband...not a boyfriend or a situationship!
She sounds very insecure. I want.I want. She sounds like a baby. No i'm not being mean, But she says she wants a man's man, What she considers a man's,she may not be able to handle, Because a man's man aint gonna give you all that. They are just going to do a thing and not say. Another thing I noticed is these modern day.Christians use words like manifest.What purpose from physician?All those words are not biblical. And this is why we black men and women have failed each other. This is not a competition.We are supposed to compliment each other
She got the crowd going...She's a great orator....But dating doesn't work...Build your relationship with the Holy Spirit...God will present someone to you when it's time...Just make sure you've yielded to him and allowed him to renew your mind
The reason the Bible doesn't discuss much about the dating is because dating is a recent phenomenon. There was no dating in the Bible there was only marriage. The men on the stage sure look uncomfortable😂
@lalalovesmusic7218 maybe she's not as great as she thinks she is. She comes off very arrogant. Men want to see a certain level of humility in a potential wife.
This is flesh is on parade and the sisters are shouting. It’s not about him but about her and what a man can bring to her world. It’s not about being a helpmeet or helper to him in cultivating his vision, anointing and gifts. If this man doesn’t measure up to “her standards” she’s out the door. It’s not her about her destiny but about their destination as a couple. What this sister has said isn’t an example of biblical womanhood.
Without context, this makes sense but who is the God in that marriage? With all the expectations, I sense a quarrelsome takeoff already. As for vision, God told Abraham to go to a place He will show to him. If Sarah, went with this thinking. We wouldn't Isaac. We also must speak of the temperament of the speaker, there is evidence of work that still needs to be done but what do I know? Commenting all the way from South Africa.
Oh yeah, she was found out alright. Men just threw her back into the ocean. Not a good catch. Big mouthing all about what she wants but not about what she can contribute to any relationship
The issue is it women aren’t 1) leafing men lead 2) putting money over love, respect, and value 3) not honoring themselves 4) can not multiple let alone speak it into existence
Men must know how to lead and be Ephesians 5 men, not their own gods. Lead by example. Men are rarely taught to be husbands. Many miss this. I don’t necessarily agree with all her statements, but many adult-boys don’t know they need God. Discernment isn’t on their radar. People must also stop giving their essence away to anyone moving.
Here's the issue, you sound like you want a business partnership. Life is full of variables, and you'll be alone if you can't adjust to life. Men dont care about you multiplying money, especially if he already has it. You sound like a man baby. But you really got the women going. Now say this in front of a group of men, and see how we respond.
While I respect your viewpoint, here’s another issue. I often times hear/see men expressing how women don’t try to understand or cater to men’s true wants and needs, but here is a clear example of what women experience on the flip side. If she said this in front of a group of men, she would likely get the same reaction as if a man shared their true wants/needs in front of a group of women. Some will agree and some won’t. Some will meet the standard and others will never care to. Plenty of women and men out here who are in alignment with one another - on whatever level that may be.
It’s quite absurd that when a woman is asked what she wants and answers clearly, assertively, with dignity and respect for herself , some people say this is masculine. When did anyone start to have an an issue when someone is clear about what they desire. If only more women were clear, maybe men in our community would be inspired to step up. What this lady is saying is profound. Ultimately she is saying she wants to respect her man and these are the traits required for her to feel safe. Any man out there who cannot inner stand, that this is the knowledge women need in 2024 and should impart on their daughters as well, in order to not waste time focusing on the wrong things such as muscles, handsomeness, money, when the character is the highest value. These distractions can cost both woman and men big time. Why are people objecting, can’t they hear what she is saying….this is baffling as she is, in a nut shell, only asking for accountability from an adult. She is not demanding him to make large sums of money, only be accountable and men have a problem with this… Also some women missing the point and chasing the face, money and missing the real ingredients; which is the character. Any man who is intimidated by this clarity obviously has a lot of work to do. A women is a multiplier by nature so give her your sperm she will give you a baby. People need to not take things literally, the Bible isn’t literal. She is saying she will love her man by multiplying (referring to standing by her man and supporting her). We as a people know there is a lot going on in our community so it is irrelevant whether or not she has a man, she is obviously doing the necessary work on herself to know her worth so she can attract someone today, who has the qualities that will compliment her. We as a people, need to evolve from ignorance and grow. This woman is acknowledging that our people have gone through a lot, hence the trauma within our community. She is clearly saying I will be there for him. If any man internalises this woman’s confidence as masculine, it really speaks volumes about the society we are living in and the fear that some people have when they hear a woman speak with strength and wisdom. Our community needs to do better and evolve. Some men do not want the challenge to do better and so are clearly belittling this woman for no good reason. This woman told me exactly what my father told me when I reached aged. So the only issue here I can see, is that those men, including the male relationship coaches are annoyed that this woman figured this out by herself. If you have a brother of a father they should have told you this already. Woman have babies and we have to think of many things as by nature, we are usually the primary carers of the baby. Everything this women said speaks value of a woman who understands the importance of what it is needed to create a healthy, stable relationship and bring a baby into this world. Given the crisis of the family today, it’s clear that this woman is speaking common sense and it is absolutely sad that anyone would find any issue with this.
@ZiyahRumbidzia step up to what? What's her level? This is real life, not a video game or a movie. As a USMC Desert Storm Vet, a Journeyman Electrician, a musician, and a martial arts instructor, I could easily say she's nowhere close to my level. None of that really matters as they are only accomplishments, not personality traits. Where's the love of God, or fellow man? Or respect for our elders? I heard her mention none of these traits.
Please stop with the, “She sounds like a man “ cop out. Men really expect women to just be docile. I don’t agree with everything said here. I do feel she is on point with most adult-boys lack direction. I find it easy for me to cook, help him spark his goals if he understands” just me” as a woman of God. Most barely understand themselves. Men (over all are ego driven and lack compassion). Most couldn’t handle my walk. Don’t say,” here we go “ many can’t and don’t when they find out my story. So, please, we need to know who you are regarding integrity, mindset, soul and Most of all God. Please evaluate yourself on this. Marriage is a covenant and partnership with you, God and the woman to become your wife.
She sure can talk big and loud but, is she teachable? Will she listen? Or will she big mouth him and try to stop the plans of the Lord because she wants to be a queen. Pride comes a big fall. She should be in complete submission before the Lord with a gentle and quiet spirit. So many men don't want a woman like this. That's why they are still single.
Please don’t use the Lord’s word as a weapon. Deborah was a judge and gave wisdom. She orchestrated instruction for wisdom in battle. Submission starts with the man, men miss this. Most men barely know the Bible, miss they are to love as Christ loves the church, but try to use it as a weapon. Men rarely know how to be a husbands, let alone loving whole-heartedly. I don’t agree with all she’s said, but I do agree many men lack direction and goals. Jeremiah was single. Men need to stop saying, “ that’s why someone is single. “ You should be single but most of you rush. Since you supposedly know the Bible, here’s a verse. Isaiah 40:31: But they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint. Both parties need to know humility and to wait on Christ discernment.
@@mcu4286 Humility is a characteristic that both parties must possess. Both men and women need to check their egos otherwise it can destroy the dynamics of a healthy relationship. However, I would think that a true masculine man needs a woman who knows her worth and how they can work together to win at life. Knowing what you can do or what you want should not be a crime.
@@carlishaalexander7578 I never said men don't have to be humble, I only said that this women lacks humility and men are not attracted to that. Knowing your worth is fine but having an inflated worth is the problem with this generation. Women are almost never encouraged to be humble but are always told to focus on themselves and there self worth. Where is this in scripture
@@mcu4286 True.. You did not say that men should not be humble but you said 'This woman is extremely masculine' and followed up with the question 'so masculine men don't want a women to possess humility? This basically projected that you are of the perspective that a 'masculine' man should be the opposite of humble. As for as women being told to focus on themselves if it is in the realm of materialistic glow up and self centeredness, then the Bible does not speak about that. However as Christians, we are called to improve on ourselves, to transform and renew our minds to be more like Christ. So if a woman's stumbling block is picking men that do not possess godly qualities... don't you think she needs figure out why she is doing that and make better choices going forward?
MESSAGE: WE NEED LEADERSHIP!!!!! COME ON SIS!!!! SHE SAID ALL OF THAT!
When I tell ya’ll she said (All) the right things…. I was like YESSS!!! You Go Girl Tell Them… I love her for this.
She nailed it the type of husband she described is what I want too🥂❤️
Same sis!!!
Me too !!!
I love this!!!!! The only men that have an issue with what she said are the men that dont see the importance of the characteristics she is laying out. She communicated specifically what she wants in a husband...not a boyfriend or a situationship!
Exactly!!! They ain’t ready!
She sounds very insecure. I want.I want. She sounds like a baby. No i'm not being mean, But she says she wants a man's man, What she considers a man's,she may not be able to handle, Because a man's man aint gonna give you all that. They are just going to do a thing and not say. Another thing I noticed is these modern day.Christians use words like manifest.What purpose from physician?All those words are not biblical. And this is why we black men and women have failed each other. This is not a competition.We are supposed to compliment each other
Ok she said what she said..class may begin!
lol right
I'm a Hebrew man, and I approve this message.
I first found this on tiktok....my soul jumped out on my body
She got the crowd going...She's a great orator....But dating doesn't work...Build your relationship with the Holy Spirit...God will present someone to you when it's time...Just make sure you've yielded to him and allowed him to renew your mind
Talk That... This is so Powerful ❤❤❤
Drops mic….. she was the panel. Nothing else needs to be said after that powerful revelation! She articulated that to the T. Yasssss!
I know that's right 👋🏾 👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Preach it!!!!!! Sis. Preach it!!!!!!!!! This lady is speaking truth!!!! I love!! this video.
The reason the Bible doesn't discuss much about the dating is because dating is a recent phenomenon. There was no dating in the Bible there was only marriage.
The men on the stage sure look uncomfortable😂
Courtship and arranged marriages.
Say it again for the people in the front, back, and side to side!!!!
Need her voice on an affirmation app❤
Profound message thanks my Sis 🙌🙌🙏
Heeeyyyyyyyyy.... Speakkkkk 👏🏽 👏🏽 👏🏽 👏🏽
Preach Cecily.
Look at the man that sitting next to her in the tan jacket body language. Isn't he a relationship coach.
I think so! I can’t remember his name
@@CicelyReneeDoesLife I saw it too. Stephan Labossiere is his name.
He can tell a lot stuff she saying is foolishness. If she's so anointed and wonderful and great, why she struggling to get a man🤔
@@mcu4286Because a lot of men these days just want to play games and won’t do the things she is asking for.
@lalalovesmusic7218 maybe she's not as great as she thinks she is. She comes off very arrogant. Men want to see a certain level of humility in a potential wife.
Ok, my challenge is do you want to come out of it… a MSN’s man.
PREACH SIS!!!!!!
True story talk about it same here love it ❤❤❤lol your fan DJ glam beats from Vegas
I'm loving this !
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Facts👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Jesse was getting on my nerves she be doing too much 😒
AGREED!
lol!!
This was GOOD GOOD!!!
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Yes out of the trauma!!! I got you Hubs❤
Facts
Nope. Didn't get it and still doesn't get it. Stay single.
Keep playing that replay!! She gone make me preach!!
Ok. The whole show. Now we are done. Safety, discipline, washes her with the word… come on the favor comes with me.
This is flesh is on parade and the sisters are shouting. It’s not about him but about her and what a man can bring to her world. It’s not about being a helpmeet or helper to him in cultivating his vision, anointing and gifts. If this man doesn’t measure up to “her standards” she’s out the door. It’s not her about her destiny but about their destination as a couple. What this sister has said isn’t an example of biblical womanhood.
What's her name
Dr Kerri Turner
who is the lady speaking?
Dr Kerri Turner
What is her name?
Dr Kerri Turner
@@CicelyReneeDoesLife thank you
@@carlosw22av my pleasure
She's saying a lot. I just want to know when she finds her "man's man's."
You mean when her man's man find her.
It will never happen. Men don't want women like her. She is still single.
Without context, this makes sense but who is the God in that marriage? With all the expectations, I sense a quarrelsome takeoff already.
As for vision, God told Abraham to go to a place He will show to him. If Sarah, went with this thinking. We wouldn't Isaac.
We also must speak of the temperament of the speaker, there is evidence of work that still needs to be done but what do I know? Commenting all the way from South Africa.
I can agree.💯
So, she’s not married?
And? She's waiting to be found. Nothing wrong with that. A lot of women should try it.
Oh yeah, she was found out alright. Men just threw her back into the ocean. Not a good catch. Big mouthing all about what she wants but not about what she can contribute to any relationship
wow. Proof you weren’t listening at all. Just want to dump on a black woman. Go somewhere. Flee devil!!!
BBL’s
Or, God is her surgeon. I can tell you're miserable, be ause that's all you got from what she said? So sad.
Atlanta is this what we want in the churches. No respect for the children.
I believe this was a conference. I couldn’t tell if there were kids in the building
Yes, you're definitely miserable.
Yeah...Whatever...
😒
That's what all makes say when they can't step their game up.
The issue is it women aren’t 1) leafing men lead 2) putting money over love, respect, and value 3) not honoring themselves 4) can not multiple let alone speak it into existence
Maybe some women but definitely not all. But also everybody ain’t for everybody so if it ain’t jelling then next!!
You're talking about girls not women. Big difference.
Men must know how to lead and be Ephesians 5 men, not their own gods. Lead by example. Men are rarely taught to be husbands. Many miss this. I don’t necessarily agree with all her statements, but many adult-boys don’t know they need God. Discernment isn’t on their radar. People must also stop giving their essence away to anyone moving.
Lord, I can’t believe what I’m hearing. Girl go sit down.
Of course, you can't, because you have no standards. The fake hate the real.
Here's the issue, you sound like you want a business partnership. Life is full of variables, and you'll be alone if you can't adjust to life. Men dont care about you multiplying money, especially if he already has it. You sound like a man baby. But you really got the women going. Now say this in front of a group of men, and see how we respond.
While I respect your viewpoint, here’s another issue. I often times hear/see men expressing how women don’t try to understand or cater to men’s true wants and needs, but here is a clear example of what women experience on the flip side. If she said this in front of a group of men, she would likely get the same reaction as if a man shared their true wants/needs in front of a group of women. Some will agree and some won’t. Some will meet the standard and others will never care to. Plenty of women and men out here who are in alignment with one another - on whatever level that may be.
It’s quite absurd that when a woman is asked what she wants and answers clearly, assertively, with dignity and respect for herself , some people say this is masculine.
When did anyone start to have an an issue when someone is clear about what they desire. If only more women were clear, maybe men in our community would be inspired to step up. What this lady is saying is profound. Ultimately she is saying she wants to respect her man and these are the traits required for her to feel safe.
Any man out there who cannot inner stand, that this is the knowledge women need in 2024 and should impart on their daughters as well, in order to not waste time focusing on the wrong things such as muscles, handsomeness, money, when the character is the highest value. These distractions can cost both woman and men big time. Why are people objecting, can’t they hear what she is saying….this is baffling as she is, in a nut shell, only asking for accountability from an adult. She is not demanding him to make large sums of money, only be accountable and men have a problem with this…
Also some women missing the point and chasing the face, money and missing the real ingredients; which is the character. Any man who is intimidated by this clarity obviously has a lot of work to do.
A women is a multiplier by nature so give her your sperm she will give you a baby. People need to not take things literally, the Bible isn’t literal. She is saying she will love her man by multiplying (referring to standing by her man and supporting her).
We as a people know there is a lot going on in our community so it is irrelevant whether or not she has a man, she is obviously doing the necessary work on herself to know her worth so she can attract someone today, who has the qualities that will compliment her.
We as a people, need to evolve from ignorance and grow. This woman is acknowledging that our people have gone through a lot, hence the trauma within our community. She is clearly saying I will be there for him. If any man internalises this woman’s confidence as masculine, it really speaks volumes about the society we are living in and the fear that some people have when they hear a woman speak with strength and wisdom.
Our community needs to do better and evolve. Some men do not want the challenge to do better and so are clearly belittling this woman for no good reason.
This woman told me exactly what my father told me when I reached aged. So the only issue here I can see, is that those men, including the male relationship coaches are annoyed that this woman figured this out by herself. If you have a brother of a father they should have told you this already.
Woman have babies and we have to think of many things as by nature, we are usually the primary carers of the baby. Everything this women said speaks value of a woman who understands the importance of what it is needed to create a healthy, stable relationship and bring a baby into this world. Given the crisis of the family today, it’s clear that this woman is speaking common sense and it is absolutely sad that anyone would find any issue with this.
Say you can't get a woman like this without saying it.
@ZiyahRumbidzia step up to what? What's her level? This is real life, not a video game or a movie. As a USMC Desert Storm Vet, a Journeyman Electrician, a musician, and a martial arts instructor, I could easily say she's nowhere close to my level. None of that really matters as they are only accomplishments, not personality traits. Where's the love of God, or fellow man? Or respect for our elders? I heard her mention none of these traits.
Please stop with the, “She sounds like a man “ cop out. Men really expect women to just be docile. I don’t agree with everything said here. I do feel she is on point with most adult-boys lack direction.
I find it easy for me to cook, help him spark his goals if he understands” just me” as a woman of God. Most barely understand themselves. Men (over all are ego driven and lack compassion). Most couldn’t handle my walk. Don’t say,” here we go “ many can’t and don’t when they find out my story. So, please, we need to know who you are regarding integrity, mindset, soul and Most of all God. Please evaluate yourself on this. Marriage is a covenant and partnership with you, God and the woman to become your wife.
She sure can talk big and loud but, is she teachable? Will she listen? Or will she big mouth him and try to stop the plans of the Lord because she wants to be a queen. Pride comes a big fall. She should be in complete submission before the Lord with a gentle and quiet spirit. So many men don't want a woman like this. That's why they are still single.
Please don’t use the Lord’s word as a weapon. Deborah was a judge and gave wisdom. She orchestrated instruction for wisdom in battle.
Submission starts with the man, men miss this. Most men barely know the Bible, miss they are to love as Christ loves the church, but try to use it as a weapon.
Men rarely know how to be a husbands, let alone loving whole-heartedly. I don’t agree with all she’s said, but I do agree many men lack direction and goals. Jeremiah was single. Men need to stop saying, “ that’s why someone is single. “ You should be single but most of you rush.
Since you supposedly know the Bible, here’s a verse. Isaiah 40:31: But they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.
Both parties need to know humility and to wait on Christ discernment.
This woman is extremely masculine
🙄🙄🙄says every feminine man.
@@carlishaalexander7578 So masculine men don't want a women to posses humility?
@@mcu4286 Humility is a characteristic that both parties must possess. Both men and women need to check their egos otherwise it can destroy the dynamics of a healthy relationship. However, I would think that a true masculine man needs a woman who knows her worth and how they can work together to win at life. Knowing what you can do or what you want should not be a crime.
@@carlishaalexander7578 I never said men don't have to be humble, I only said that this women lacks humility and men are not attracted to that. Knowing your worth is fine but having an inflated worth is the problem with this generation. Women are almost never encouraged to be humble but are always told to focus on themselves and there self worth. Where is this in scripture
@@mcu4286 True.. You did not say that men should not be humble but you said 'This woman is extremely masculine' and followed up with the question 'so masculine men don't want a women to possess humility? This basically projected that you are of the perspective that a 'masculine' man should be the opposite of humble. As for as women being told to focus on themselves if it is in the realm of materialistic glow up and self centeredness, then the Bible does not speak about that. However as Christians, we are called to improve on ourselves, to transform and renew our minds to be more like Christ. So if a woman's stumbling block is picking men that do not possess godly qualities... don't you think she needs figure out why she is doing that and make better choices going forward?