it is important that you take time to get to know yourself. you must know who you are outside of a relationship. IF YOU CAN NOT BE ALONE THAN HOW CAN YOU BE WITH SOMEONE ELSE? Codependency aren't healthy relationships because we are supposed to be thriving individually and have an identity outside of our relationships and be able to survive with or without someone else because everything is temporary. we are all just passing through. Happiness is our responsibility; it is inner work that has to be done. No one else is supposed to be the source of your happiness just an addition. As humans naturally we are supposed to mate, we crave love and affection and partnership but so many people don't even understand the fundamentals of what it takes to have a healthy relationship or healthy love because they don't even know how to love themselves. You have to do the work on yourself and work towards becoming the best version of you. Growth is important, self-love, self-worth, accountability, knowing your value, respect for yourself and other, knowing who you are, what you want and how you want to get there, knowing your dos and don'ts and setting healthy boundaries for yourself and STANDING ON THEM!
"how can you be two when you don't even know how to be one?" SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PPL IN THE BACK !!! 📢📢📢📢
"i also know that i can survive just me" CAN I GET AN AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 09:30
it is important that you take time to get to know yourself. you must know who you are outside of a relationship. IF YOU CAN NOT BE ALONE THAN HOW CAN YOU BE WITH SOMEONE ELSE? Codependency aren't healthy relationships because we are supposed to be thriving individually and have an identity outside of our relationships and be able to survive with or without someone else because everything is temporary. we are all just passing through. Happiness is our responsibility; it is inner work that has to be done. No one else is supposed to be the source of your happiness just an addition. As humans naturally we are supposed to mate, we crave love and affection and partnership but so many people don't even understand the fundamentals of what it takes to have a healthy relationship or healthy love because they don't even know how to love themselves. You have to do the work on yourself and work towards becoming the best version of you. Growth is important, self-love, self-worth, accountability, knowing your value, respect for yourself and other, knowing who you are, what you want and how you want to get there, knowing your dos and don'ts and setting healthy boundaries for yourself and STANDING ON THEM!
Spoken very well 👏🏾