It takes a special kind of person to appreciate this song. I have tried in the past to share my love for La Dispute, and I have found that it falls on deaf ears.
@@breannareeves4267 I met them in florida about 13 years ago. I think the singer was 19 at the time. I love there screaming poetry and play it for my kids now. The young ones need to know there was once a time where music was good.
As someone who lost a 4 year relationship due to distance, this song really hits the heart, La Dispute made me realize I felt things I didn't know I felt, found the words I couldn't find, and healed me
It’s as if I wrote this comment myself. I also had a 4 year long relationship end due to distance and eventual cheating. The love is stronger with distance, and the end result is also stronger. Good or bad.
Every single lyric of this song is a recall to our memories. Still ,after all these years after all this time it still means something and tbh I'm glad it does,cause I don't wanna forget what I've felt nor what happened. Good or bad ,memories are memories and they should never be forgotten. I miss you,everyday and I'm gonna thank Distance for what she did to us ,but still whatever happened and now matter how we are now .. I would do it all over again. Those feeling were so unique.. It's something that everyone should feel once in their life time.
I've always adored this song. I just loved the emotion in it and I felt it all. I thought about how one must feel. Then I met someone and how everything ended. I remember the ride back from the airport and this song came up. I understood the pain. I never understood how you could hate the airport because of a person, but now I do.
its hard. This song reminded me so much of a girl I've loved for two years. We dated for a few months and that was one of the best relationships I had and we broke up because she was going through a lot. It was a messy break up and my grandfather was in the hospital. She broke up with me on February 13th and my grandfather died on February 14th (Valentine's day he was always a dramatic) but I never stopped loving her. We started talking again and she apologized for what she did and she has genuinely changed the bad parts of herself which is rare. We both still care about eachother which hurts the worst. She has a boyfriend now and she said I deserve someone who can be there for me physically (shes in a different country) and it's hard. I don't know how to more on and am so desperately stuck on her still im sorry but it helped to rant some. I haven't had any one really to talk ti about it because my only friend hates her for how she hurt me and doesn't really believed shes changed and the only other friend I have is another ex of mine and I can't really talk about being in love with someone to him. It helped to rant some and get my feelings out
I loved this song so much in high school but now that I've experienced life a little, I'm seeing and feeling this song and many more of theirs in a completely different way. Wow, they were preaching.
This song brings me back to when I dated this girl named Kaytlyn. Met her at a very rough time in my life at a coffee house and understood my jokes like this song says... My life felt together again and I was doing great until one awful day she was hit by a car and died the same night. Almost scares me how much this song relates to my entire situation
So beautiful and emotional. Love the contrast like he's screaming in pain from the loss as if his lover has been ripped out of his very being. Nice change from most breakup songs that are slow and soppy.
Lyrics You still cross my mind from time to time. And I mostly smile. Still so set on finding out where we went wrong and why So I retrace our every step with an unsure pen trying to figure out what my head thinks but my head just ain't what it used to be. And then again, what's the point anyway? I remember you ascending all the stairs up to the balcony to see if you could see me - hidden quietly away And I remember the skin of your fingers The spot three quarters up I'd always touch when I was out of things to say. You held my hand, but you were too afraid to speak, you were too afraid to speak and I could never understand. I remember when you leaned in quick to kiss me, and I swear that not a single force on earth could stop the trembling of my hand And I remember how you smiled through the smoke in a crowded little coffeehouse and laughed at all my jokes. And I remember the way that you dressed and how we wasted all the best of us in alcohol and sweat And I remember when I knew that you'd be leaving, how I barely kept up breathing and I bet if I had to do it all again, I'd feel the same pain And I remember panicked circles in the terminal in tears. How I wept to god in fits. I've hated airports ever since. It must be true what people say, that only time can heal the pain. And every single day I feel it fade away, but - I still remember how the distance tricked us and lead us helpless by the wrist into a pit to be devoured. I still remember how we held so strong to this though we had never really settled on a way out. I still remember the silence, and how we'd always find a way to turn and run to our mistakes. I still remember how it all came back together just to fall apart again. My dear, I hear your voice in mine. I've been alone here I've been alone here I've been afraid, my dear I've been afraid, my dear I've been at home here I've been at home here You've been away for years You've been away for years I've been alone I've been alone I've been alone I've been alone I breathed your name into the air; I etched your name into me. I felt my anger swelling; I swam into its sea. I held your name inside my heart, but it got buried in my fear. It tore the wiring of my brain; I did my best to keep it clear. So, dear, no matter how we part, I hold you sweetly in my head. And if I do not miss a part of you, a part of me is dead. If I can't love you as a lover, I will love you as a friend. And I will lay a bed before you; keep you safe until the end.
You still cross my mind, but I dont smile. I just cry. I hope whatever it is, you will find. Whilst you leave me here, far behind. Standing at the sea...it was all lies.
I tell everyone this song describes falling in love and then going through the horrible crush of heartbreak. And it’s so relateable when you’ve experienced both. The lyrics are so beautiful and perfect. Every single lyric in this song. And one of my favorite lines is “I remember when you leaned in quick to kiss me and I swear not a single force on earth could stop the trembling of my hand.” You can just picture it and can relate to how strong the force of falling in love can be and then the inevitable agonizing heartbreak after. I played this song for my daughter and I sing it and then go on about how great and powerful this song is 😅
I truly believe that I have never ever in my life listened to better and more attached lyrics, with such emotion. I don't know. I'm simply full of goosebumps every time.
The same woman that introduced me to this song, this amazing lyricist and the immaculately talented musicians in this band is the same woman every heart break in a la Dispute lyric now triggers every memory like the truest story I ever experienced.
their music gives me chills, the lead singer of the bad has so much emotion in this songs and all their other ones . Its even better that the lyrics are meaningful .
A couple of years ago I was so obsessed with this song that I went out and ordered a bottle of 'Andria' instead of 'Alexandria' (wine), the waiter and my friend laughed so hard😂😂
Haven't listened to this song in two years and I burst out crying because it was the first song I listened to by la dispute and it brought back too many emotions
i remember the skin of ur fingers, the spot three quarters up i d always touch when i was out of things to say u held my hand but u were too afraid to speak u were too afraid to speak and i could never understand i remember when when you leaned in quick to kiss me and i swear that not a single force on earth could stop the trembling of my hand
the end of 2023 is upon us and this song still has the strongest grip on me. This song was a comfort song for me after an extremely hard relationship 7 years ago and that relationship still has a hold on me which is why i'm almost trauma bonded to this song.
Jesus how this song resonates with my life. I feel this so hard when it comes to the mother of my daughter. As corny as it is if I can't lover has a lover I will love her as a friend. She screwed me over big time and doesn't even understand how I can look her in the face. I don't tell her that I want her in my life regardless of her role, or how I have grown so much to forgive what she has done to me and our family. Its my only option. I guess I kinda love her unconditionally and even though I absolutely hate ewhat she did I don't hate her as a whole
The last 3 years I was in an on/off relationship with the prettiest girl I've ever met.... She was so special. She had a tender heart, she was the one I trusted most. I miss her. I wish we could at least be friends
I used to love this song but I forgot abt it. But then lately its been stuck in my head, but only like the sound. Not the lyrics, the name, or the name of the band. After looking for like a week, I finally fucking remembered their name. Hell ya
I remember in highschool they are from Grand rapids where I'm from and I painted a vase with these whole lyrics on them ✌️ and now I have their logo tattooed on my hand ❤
i was in a two year relationship with someone who emotionally and physically abused me and ah just every lyric to this describes exactly how it felt to be in a toxic relationship that you just keep running in these countless circles for something that never improves. "you held my hand but you were too afraid to speak and i could never understand" after we broke up i found out that he never liked holding hands but he did it and never said anything. "i remember when you leaned in quick to kiss me, and i swear, not a single force on earth could stop the trembling of my hand" the last time we ever saw each other in person we were already broke up and i was giving him a birthday gift. ig he kissed me just to see what it felt like for the last time but he kissed me twice and that always seemed like something that i couldnt let go but since then hes told me he felt nothing when we kissed but i couldnt stop trembling when he did and it was probably the best kiss we ever shared. " i still remember hw the distance tricked us, and lead us helpless by the wrist into a pit to be devoured. i still remember how we held so strong to this though we had never really settled on a way out" we just kept going over and over through the same mistakes and issues but we were together so long that it made us think we had to stay to fix it but we never even knew how to fix it. "i still remember how it all came back together just to fall apart again" every time we were good again it just got bad eventually. "and if i do not miss a part of you a part of me is dead, if i cant love you as a lover i will love you as a friend" even though we went through so much shit and it was very one sided like i loved him and he didnt really love me, i still always hold the good stuff in a special place.
Andrea is my name. One of my ex-boyfriends sent me this song years ago. I asked him if he was sure that he didn’t write it himself. He was a musician and we were both so young. It’s OK we’re still friends. Time sure does fly
It takes a special kind of person to appreciate this song. I have tried in the past to share my love for La Dispute, and I have found that it falls on deaf ears.
Not everyone can hear what you hear darling.
La dispute has touched my soul since I was 15.. I'm almost 23
@@breannareeves4267 samee but ne when i was 16 and im 21 now
@@breannareeves4267 about 14 and I'm 22 now
@@breannareeves4267 I met them in florida about 13 years ago. I think the singer was 19 at the time. I love there screaming poetry and play it for my kids now. The young ones need to know there was once a time where music was good.
I can't get over the fact how beautiful this song is.It breaks my fucking heart every time.
“And if i do not miss a part of you,a part of me is dead.” That made a knot in my throat....
nobody:
not even the rain:
my long-distance relationship: haha look at this song
"not even the rain"
i see what u did there
Very nice 😂
Great reference ;)
Oof. Yeah. Feel this.
Glad to see the next generation of emo kids are having the same d struggles 😂
As someone who lost a 4 year relationship due to distance, this song really hits the heart, La Dispute made me realize I felt things I didn't know I felt, found the words I couldn't find, and healed me
It’s as if I wrote this comment myself. I also had a 4 year long relationship end due to distance and eventual cheating. The love is stronger with distance, and the end result is also stronger. Good or bad.
You can listen to this beautiful song or set yourself on fire they both feel the same way it's just one is physical and the other one is emotional
Please be a poet I love how you put this
+Sabrina Umstead same, Alexa this comment is pure poetry! Really so good 👏
Addict with a uke ff594
Alexa Demo truth..
But when the songs over your emotions still work.
Who else literally got chills?!
In that exact moment when I read this.
Not me. This shit is wierrrd
same exact moment as i read this!
And if I do not miss a part of you, a part of me is dead.. If I can't love you as a lover, I will love you as a friend.
"My dear, I hear your voice in mine"
Goodbye, sanity.
What does it mean?
@@zynerd it means, welcome insanity!
literally
same
:'(
Every single lyric of this song is a recall to our memories. Still ,after all these years after all this time it still means something and tbh I'm glad it does,cause I don't wanna forget what I've felt nor what happened. Good or bad ,memories are memories and they should never be forgotten. I miss you,everyday and I'm gonna thank Distance for what she did to us ,but still whatever happened and now matter how we are now .. I would do it all over again. Those feeling were so unique..
It's something that everyone should feel once in their life time.
Never been in love im my life nor had any type of affection ever, but still somehow this song makes me feel so many feelings
"I still remember how it all came back together just to fall apart again" can relate so much
I think Jordan has he most emotion I've ever heard in a singer... Not to mention how perfect the guitar goes with all the songs
Gaaaaaaayyyyy!
lmao
Super bold statement! Just sayin :p
I'd personally give that title to Billy Werner, but to each their own.
i dunno it believe myself Adam gontier deserves that one.
I've always adored this song. I just loved the emotion in it and I felt it all. I thought about how one must feel. Then I met someone and how everything ended. I remember the ride back from the airport and this song came up. I understood the pain. I never understood how you could hate the airport because of a person, but now I do.
V Dub I heard this song for the first time after the breakup of a long distance relationship and I felt like this song was written about my own life
I just came here to think of my ex like all of you...
I salute you
What's the point anyway?
Lmfao
stfu simp
...
its hard. This song reminded me so much of a girl I've loved for two years. We dated for a few months and that was one of the best relationships I had and we broke up because she was going through a lot. It was a messy break up and my grandfather was in the hospital. She broke up with me on February 13th and my grandfather died on February 14th (Valentine's day he was always a dramatic) but I never stopped loving her. We started talking again and she apologized for what she did and she has genuinely changed the bad parts of herself which is rare. We both still care about eachother which hurts the worst. She has a boyfriend now and she said I deserve someone who can be there for me physically (shes in a different country) and it's hard. I don't know how to more on and am so desperately stuck on her still im sorry but it helped to rant some. I haven't had any one really to talk ti about it because my only friend hates her for how she hurt me and doesn't really believed shes changed and the only other friend I have is another ex of mine and I can't really talk about being in love with someone to him. It helped to rant some and get my feelings out
im not reading this
@@mcstinky okay? no need to tell me that?
i hope you've found some peace ❤️
Stay strong brother, the night is always darkest just before the dawn. Time will help.
I loved this song so much in high school but now that I've experienced life a little, I'm seeing and feeling this song and many more of theirs in a completely different way. Wow, they were preaching.
I still remember how we held so strong to this, though we never really settled on a way out........
This song brings me back to when I dated this girl named Kaytlyn. Met her at a very rough time in my life at a coffee house and understood my jokes like this song says... My life felt together again and I was doing great until one awful day she was hit by a car and died the same night.
Almost scares me how much this song relates to my entire situation
I'm so sorry man, that must have been terrible for you :( my prayers go out to you
+GhostKidsEnt Do you have a video of this? I would like to see... For educational purposes of course...
Good now this band has one less fan !
+luckytattooing i hate you, really. go bother your grandmother but don't disrespect others opinion.
Schrummii Don't use that language! My boy lucky doesnt deserve that.
Ah the whole "if I can't love as a lover. I will love as a friend", just makes me cry. Love this band and I miss you Leah rip
So beautiful and emotional. Love the contrast like he's screaming in pain from the loss as if his lover has been ripped out of his very being. Nice change from most breakup songs that are slow and soppy.
it's been 5 years and i still remember like it was yesterday. i'll never forget you laura...
drinking and listening to this sound
made me realize that this shit really relayed to my experience. let’s me know i’m not alone in this
You’re not man
Lyrics
You still cross my mind from time to time. And I mostly smile.
Still so set on finding out where we went wrong and why
So I retrace our every step with an unsure pen
trying to figure out what my head thinks
but my head just ain't what it used to be.
And then again, what's the point anyway?
I remember you ascending all the stairs up to the balcony
to see if you could see me - hidden quietly away
And I remember the skin of your fingers
The spot three quarters up I'd always touch when I was out of things to say.
You held my hand, but you were too afraid to speak, you were too afraid to speak and I could never understand.
I remember when you leaned in quick to kiss me, and I swear
that not a single force on earth could stop the trembling of my hand
And I remember how you smiled through the smoke
in a crowded little coffeehouse and laughed at all my jokes.
And I remember the way that you dressed and
how we wasted all the best of us in alcohol and sweat
And I remember when I knew that you'd be leaving, how I barely kept up breathing
and I bet if I had to do it all again, I'd feel the same pain
And I remember panicked circles in the terminal in tears.
How I wept to god in fits. I've hated airports ever since.
It must be true what people say, that only time can heal the pain.
And every single day I feel it fade away, but -
I still remember how the distance tricked us
and lead us helpless by the wrist into a pit to be devoured.
I still remember how we held so strong to this
though we had never really settled on a way out.
I still remember the silence, and how we'd always find a way
to turn and run to our mistakes.
I still remember how it all came back together just to fall apart again.
My dear, I hear your voice in mine.
I've been alone here
I've been alone here
I've been afraid, my dear
I've been afraid, my dear
I've been at home here
I've been at home here
You've been away for years
You've been away for years
I've been alone
I've been alone
I've been alone
I've been alone
I breathed your name into the air; I etched your name into me.
I felt my anger swelling; I swam into its sea.
I held your name inside my heart, but it got buried in my fear.
It tore the wiring of my brain; I did my best to keep it clear.
So, dear, no matter how we part, I hold you sweetly in my head.
And if I do not miss a part of you, a part of me is dead.
If I can't love you as a lover, I will love you as a friend.
And I will lay a bed before you; keep you safe until the end.
Yo lyrics in the comments for the L Y R I C video? damn, i believe this is known as overkill.
Yo, the lyrics are already on the vídeo lmao
i can read the fucking video idiot
thanks I'm blind couldn't see the video
@@mcstinky I can’t lmao, I like to know what comes next anyhow
We`ve all been through this shit. I have been looking for this song for a year but its a year late to send it.
I'm not crying, you're crying!
it’s true, i am
Oh gosh I remember listening to this song all the time when I was was walking home from school in 7th grade
You still cross my mind, but I dont smile. I just cry. I hope whatever it is, you will find. Whilst you leave me here, far behind. Standing at the sea...it was all lies.
It’s a great day to be named Andria
Yep. you & I and this song share a name
I tell everyone this song describes falling in love and then going through the horrible crush of heartbreak. And it’s so relateable when you’ve experienced both. The lyrics are so beautiful and perfect. Every single lyric in this song. And one of my favorite lines is “I remember when you leaned in quick to kiss me and I swear not a single force on earth could stop the trembling of my hand.” You can just picture it and can relate to how strong the force of falling in love can be and then the inevitable agonizing heartbreak after. I played this song for my daughter and I sing it and then go on about how great and powerful this song is 😅
So dear no matter how we part, I hold you sweetly in my head
And if I do not miss a part of you, a part of me is dead
I truly believe that I have never ever in my life listened to better and more attached lyrics, with such emotion. I don't know. I'm simply full of goosebumps every time.
Everything I've wanted to say to him but never could .
This is the beauty of songs like this one...
Same
"And I will lay a bed before you, keep you safe until the end." Well, that... always hits home.
Word for word. I can't listen to this without being reminded of him
damn this song. so amazing! i love every single word!
Rei ZL like the word "how" and "and" ?
The same woman that introduced me to this song, this amazing lyricist and the immaculately talented musicians in this band is the same woman every heart break in a la Dispute lyric now triggers every memory like the truest story I ever experienced.
their music gives me chills, the lead singer of the bad has so much emotion in this songs and all their other ones . Its even better that the lyrics are meaningful .
My girlfriend died from an overdose two years ago from an overdose, 19. I love you ellie.
She’s worm food now
I'm really sorry for your loss
i never thought i'd find a song that i can COMPLETELY relate to.
Its almost 6 years and i still hold this feeling. At least, i can fulfill my promise as a men.
I Remember hearing this song for the first time when they were touring with Thrice! Awesomeness
A couple of years ago I was so obsessed with this song that I went out and ordered a bottle of 'Andria' instead of 'Alexandria' (wine), the waiter and my friend laughed so hard😂😂
haven’t heard this song in years and it used to just sound good but I just got out of a relationship and I feel this song on another level
This song means the world to me to represents the struggle I go through with my baby mom. I hope that nobody had to go through the same thing
Has all my feelings for my ex😔🔫
Precious Gutierrez hit me up
Haven't listened to this song in two years and I burst out crying because it was the first song I listened to by la dispute and it brought back too many emotions
This song reminds me of you 😂 just finished watching it, and it remembered this band! Gotta love em!
I used to listen to this song so much last year... never got old, and I still love it
Friend of mine recommend this, and god is worth it
..this fits my heartbreak so perfectly.. every verse depicts the last two years of me.
im not crying, i swear
Who's still listening to this??
Almost daily. Gets me through my workouts!
i remember the skin of ur fingers, the spot three quarters up i d always touch when i was out of things to say
u held my hand but u were too afraid to speak
u were too afraid to speak and i could never understand
i remember when when you leaned in quick to kiss me and i swear
that not a single force on earth could stop the trembling of my hand
Still here in 2022? Me too😌
feeling the intense pain.
trippy jytte me too
the end of 2023 is upon us and this song still has the strongest grip on me. This song was a comfort song for me after an extremely hard relationship 7 years ago and that relationship still has a hold on me which is why i'm almost trauma bonded to this song.
S
God people need to be this good of musiciane again, we really let ourselves go, we will heal
This song still absolutely rips my heart out every timeeee
this is my favourite song in the whole world
still here after 10 years
Same 🤣
Jesus how this song resonates with my life. I feel this so hard when it comes to the mother of my daughter. As corny as it is if I can't lover has a lover I will love her as a friend. She screwed me over big time and doesn't even understand how I can look her in the face. I don't tell her that I want her in my life regardless of her role, or how I have grown so much to forgive what she has done to me and our family. Its my only option. I guess I kinda love her unconditionally and even though I absolutely hate ewhat she did I don't hate her as a whole
Idk how to explain it but it's somehow one of the most beautiful things I've ever heard
¿Laura Sad?
cuando te gusta lo que ella odia v:
Im thankful for a girl i used to talk to for introducing me to this band.
i can’t describe it but this just feels like home
Beautiful!!!! Just beautiful....
The last 3 years I was in an on/off relationship with the prettiest girl I've ever met.... She was so special. She had a tender heart, she was the one I trusted most. I miss her. I wish we could at least be friends
I used to love this song but I forgot abt it. But then lately its been stuck in my head, but only like the sound. Not the lyrics, the name, or the name of the band. After looking for like a week, I finally fucking remembered their name. Hell ya
I held your name inside my heart but it got buried in my fear
I remember how it all came back together just to fall apart again. 💔
Holy shit that hit me hard
One of my favorite songs! 💗💕☁❤☁❤☁❤☁❤
this was my song of the summer after my girlfriend cheated on me, 4 years ago! Still hurts
Grow a set of balls , man up and listen to lamb of god , get hookers and do cocaine
+luckytattooing oh trust me, I've done all of that. except the hookers, I don't need to pay for my women.
+Legless Puffin if you've ever had sex with a female , you've paid for it !
+luckytattooing what the hell is wrong with you
+luckytattooing could you just shut the fuck up?
I remember in highschool they are from Grand rapids where I'm from and I painted a vase with these whole lyrics on them ✌️ and now I have their logo tattooed on my hand ❤
Magnifique.... Vraiment
Feeling this song right now..
I get The Cure vibes from this song
yeah I know those vocals sound just like an American Robert Smith
What the fuck is wrong with you.
They sound like a less heavy version of Silent Planet. The vocals mainly.
yeah!
no way, thursday and others bands
You and I in unison is such a good continuation of this
Love this. Thx Kody ❤️
this is great!
i was in a two year relationship with someone who emotionally and physically abused me and ah just every lyric to this describes exactly how it felt to be in a toxic relationship that you just keep running in these countless circles for something that never improves. "you held my hand but you were too afraid to speak and i could never understand" after we broke up i found out that he never liked holding hands but he did it and never said anything. "i remember when you leaned in quick to kiss me, and i swear, not a single force on earth could stop the trembling of my hand" the last time we ever saw each other in person we were already broke up and i was giving him a birthday gift. ig he kissed me just to see what it felt like for the last time but he kissed me twice and that always seemed like something that i couldnt let go but since then hes told me he felt nothing when we kissed but i couldnt stop trembling when he did and it was probably the best kiss we ever shared. " i still remember hw the distance tricked us, and lead us helpless by the wrist into a pit to be devoured. i still remember how we held so strong to this though we had never really settled on a way out" we just kept going over and over through the same mistakes and issues but we were together so long that it made us think we had to stay to fix it but we never even knew how to fix it. "i still remember how it all came back together just to fall apart again" every time we were good again it just got bad eventually. "and if i do not miss a part of you a part of me is dead, if i cant love you as a lover i will love you as a friend" even though we went through so much shit and it was very one sided like i loved him and he didnt really love me, i still always hold the good stuff in a special place.
2020 and I still fucking love it. Poetry.
No one cares but I'm soon editing my skate part to this song where the subject is my skateboard and not a lady.. Ve positive my friends!!
last bit of the song is the best part
THIS IS SO UNDERATED!
Andrea is my name. One of my ex-boyfriends sent me this song years ago. I asked him if he was sure that he didn’t write it himself. He was a musician and we were both so young. It’s OK we’re still friends. Time sure does fly
Forever regret not going to their concert
Love this
i still remember how it all came back together just to fall apart again
i love this so very much
La Dispute ♥️🔥🤘🏻
"And if I do not miss a part of you, a part of me is dead"
Big mood
i bet if i could do it all again I'd feel the same pain...
I miss her so much
I dunno how I went from BADBADNOTGOOD to this but Im definitely not complaining.
pretty song
oh my gosh
why am i still here