A relationship built on the hurt and pain of others will never last even if a Married man did leave his Wife for another Woman. It is much healthier to be with a Man who had no hidden baggage and you can trigger his hero instinct and it will be more honest and enjoyable.
@@marti8053 That is true. The poor Mistress gets badly hurt believing she is the exception and the Married Man will leave his Wife for her. It occasionally happens only. There are other type of Married men who pick on honest Women and hide their life situation from them. Got badly deceived myself that way but walked away when he could not lie anymore to me. Shame got to him. I did wish him well in life. That is all anyone can do and move on.
The #1 sign is: He is still married to her. He is already married and has not yet signed final divorce settlement. Still living in her house. Wearing the ring she gave him. Sleeping in her bed with her (among doing other things they do together there). Sharing children with her and parenting responsibilities.... All of these are big flags but they're not what you need to hear. I don't think you need to hear about what's unreal about him. I hope you begin to study what's not in alignment it integrity within YOU! Why would you want to risk all your love on somebody who isn't certain enough you're worth it not to share his with the gal he convinced before you came along? Why would you settle for 2nd fiddle to wifey? How would you ever trust him if you did marry him and why would you want to!?! He has already proven he is a cheat. To think he won't chest you might mean you refuse to see things clearly. Ask yourself why. Sincerely.
It's painful and expensive to divorce, so he won't put himself through all that just to be with you. Besides, you already gave him access to you with him getting a divorce.
He has a girlfriend in everywhere he travels with his business & don't tell me otherwise because he seems to always be going to those places where he knows these women mistresses or not I need a man not a Mummy's boy ..strong..healthy ..kind..loving no verbal abuse ..empathy is a must .. & believe in the Lord whether or not she does or he does ..
Especially if he's been in a marriage for 10 years, multiple relationships during those 10 years and no effort to divorce. Men lie to and pacify women all rhe time with their words, but men speak with their actions
@jimmy-j6465 No it’s about considering the time and emotion you’re investing with a married man and whether or not the relationship has a shot despite the obstacles. Keep in mind that people move from relationship to relationship every day. It doesn’t make them evil. I started dating my present husband while I was separated from my 1st husband. My 1st husband was abusive (but that’s beside the point) and we were already living in separate homes. My present husband and I dated for 2 years before the divorce was final.
@@marti8053Sorry it’s been a while since I’ve watched this video, so I may get this wrong, and I believe my original point was a bit muddled up, but isn’t this video promoting married men cheating on their wife? I mean, the respectful thing to do for the wife would be to cut ties before you go around dating, because its bad for both parties otherwise. Sure, moving from relationship to relationship does not make you evil, but it’s the manner in which you approach doing that that could make you evil. In my opinion, if someone is married to a partner and then randomly decides to cheat on them and date someone else behind their partner’s back, that would be a breach of trust, and it highlights that person’s personality: one of selfishness and perhaps even egocentrism. Sure, I see your point though, there could be an abusive marriage, and in that scenario, a divorce will have to happen, one way or another. In my opinion, why not get the divorce before you start dating again, just to minimise trauma? Or at the very least, just make it known that you’re separated. I mean, I’ve never had a wife or anything so I might be wrong, but that’s just my viewpoint on the matter :) .
I got told by my hubby's other woman cause wen they were in bed in the full sex act on the point of climax he screamed my name out . She had cheek to say spoilt it for her n she dumped him 😂cheek of it all .
Shame on you, the marriage is not the reason for the affair, happy or unhappy, it is a personal choice and to start an affair just because you !!! have some needs is so selfish. Think about all the people involved , what about their needs and suffering. You can not build your life destoning somebody else life just because YOU are in love. It is not moral and I hope it will hunt you till the rest of your days. The affair is a moral crime and everybody involved pay a very huge prize, the children and the wife are the people who are hurt the most, not YOU! I AM THE WIFE AND I LOVE HIM TOO-what about me?
I agree that cheating is very wrong and should never happen. But it is not selfish to have needs. If a man or woman have needs which are not fullfilled in their relationship/marriage then they should firstly try to solve those issues inside the relationship. If that does not work after much trying, then to separate. Having unmet needs does not give anybody rights to cheat. But it does give a reason why it happens. Then it is up to the person/persons to be mature enough to take responcible steps to solve the problem WITHOUT cheating!
@faithmbele7720 No it’s about considering the time and emotion you’re investing with a married man and whether or not the relationship has a shot despite the obstacles. Keep in mind that people move from relationship to relationship every day. It doesn’t make them evil. I started dating my present husband while I was separated from my 1st husband. My 1st husband was abusive (but that’s beside the point) and we were already living in separate homes. My present husband and I dated for 2 years before the divorce was final.
A relationship built on the hurt and pain of others will never last even if a Married man did leave his Wife for another Woman. It is much healthier to be with a Man who had no hidden baggage and you can trigger his hero instinct and it will be more honest and enjoyable.
@oliviasmith6192
I agree. And not only is it built on the hurt and pain of others, but on the hurt and pain of the mistress as well.
@@marti8053 That is true. The poor Mistress gets badly hurt believing she is the exception and the Married Man will leave his Wife for her. It occasionally happens only. There are other type of Married men who pick on honest Women and hide their life situation from them. Got badly deceived myself that way but walked away when he could not lie anymore to me. Shame got to him. I did wish him well in life. That is all anyone can do and move on.
I will NEVER be, "the other woman!" If I have feelings for someone, but I know that they are in a relationship, I may be hurt. However, I'M OUT!
The #1 sign is:
He is still married to her.
He is already married and has not yet signed final divorce settlement.
Still living in her house.
Wearing the ring she gave him.
Sleeping in her bed with her (among doing other things they do together there).
Sharing children with her and parenting responsibilities....
All of these are big flags but they're not what you need to hear.
I don't think you need to hear about what's unreal about him.
I hope you begin to study what's not in alignment it integrity within YOU!
Why would you want to risk all your love on somebody who isn't certain enough you're worth it not to share his with the gal he convinced before you came along?
Why would you settle for 2nd fiddle to wifey?
How would you ever trust him if you did marry him and why would you want to!?! He has already proven he is a cheat. To think he won't chest you might mean you refuse to see things clearly. Ask yourself why. Sincerely.
It's painful and expensive to divorce, so he won't put himself through all that just to be with you. Besides, you already gave him access to you with him getting a divorce.
He has a girlfriend in everywhere he travels with his business & don't tell me otherwise because he seems to always be going to those places where he knows these women mistresses or not I need a man not a Mummy's boy ..strong..healthy ..kind..loving no verbal abuse ..empathy is a must .. & believe in the Lord whether or not she does or he does ..
Especially if he's been in a marriage for 10 years, multiple relationships during those 10 years and no effort to divorce. Men lie to and pacify women all rhe time with their words, but men speak with their actions
Onli complications we are all married....its better to be married by a married man..than a spiritual man...
But there are men will leave their wives and choose their mistress
yes
that's why I'm glad my husband didn't
@rebeccacarreiro7631
Yes, I know a few.
Low percentage
Exactly,
So this is a video on how make men get divorced? Nice XD!
@jimmy-j6465
No it’s about considering the time and emotion you’re investing with a married man and whether or not the relationship has a shot despite the obstacles. Keep in mind that people move from relationship to relationship every day. It doesn’t make them evil. I started dating my present husband while I was separated from my 1st husband. My 1st husband was abusive (but that’s beside the point) and we were already living in separate homes. My present husband and I dated for 2 years before the divorce was final.
@@marti8053Sorry it’s been a while since I’ve watched this video, so I may get this wrong, and I believe my original point was a bit muddled up, but isn’t this video promoting married men cheating on their wife? I mean, the respectful thing to do for the wife would be to cut ties before you go around dating, because its bad for both parties otherwise. Sure, moving from relationship to relationship does not make you evil, but it’s the manner in which you approach doing that that could make you evil. In my opinion, if someone is married to a partner and then randomly decides to cheat on them and date someone else behind their partner’s back, that would be a breach of trust, and it highlights that person’s personality: one of selfishness and perhaps even egocentrism. Sure, I see your point though, there could be an abusive marriage, and in that scenario, a divorce will have to happen, one way or another. In my opinion, why not get the divorce before you start dating again, just to minimise trauma? Or at the very least, just make it known that you’re separated. I mean, I’ve never had a wife or anything so I might be wrong, but that’s just my viewpoint on the matter :) .
I got told by my hubby's other woman cause wen they were in bed in the full sex act on the point of climax he screamed my name out . She had cheek to say spoilt it for her n she dumped him 😂cheek of it all .
This is a lousy advertisement for his books disguised so he doesn't have to pay to run it while collecting off views. Get ya coming and going.
Shame on you, the marriage is not the reason for the affair, happy or unhappy, it is a personal choice and to start an affair just because you !!! have some needs is so selfish. Think about all the people involved , what about their needs and suffering. You can not build your life destoning somebody else life just because YOU are in love. It is not moral and I hope it will hunt you till the rest of your days. The affair is a moral crime and everybody involved pay a very huge prize, the children and the wife are the people who are hurt the most, not YOU! I AM THE WIFE AND I LOVE HIM TOO-what about me?
I agree that cheating is very wrong and should never happen.
But it is not selfish to have needs. If a man or woman have needs which are not fullfilled in their relationship/marriage then they should firstly try to solve those issues inside the relationship. If that does not work after much trying, then to separate.
Having unmet needs does not give anybody rights to cheat. But it does give a reason why it happens. Then it is up to the person/persons to be mature enough to take responcible steps to solve the problem WITHOUT cheating!
This video is so evil…encouraging women to break marriages…you can never build a happy home on someone’s tears…what you are encouraging is selfishness
Actually, if she can take him, she can have him. It is not a marriage if someone is cheating, much less a happy one.
@faithmbele7720
No it’s about considering the time and emotion you’re investing with a married man and whether or not the relationship has a shot despite the obstacles. Keep in mind that people move from relationship to relationship every day. It doesn’t make them evil. I started dating my present husband while I was separated from my 1st husband. My 1st husband was abusive (but that’s beside the point) and we were already living in separate homes. My present husband and I dated for 2 years before the divorce was final.