Why It Hurts So Much When Somebody Uses You | with Matt Fradd

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  • Опубликовано: 30 сен 2024

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  • @Destassan
    @Destassan 3 месяца назад +2

    Yes, and if responsibilty is the ability to respond then we know why it's so painful. Because every human being has the potential/ability of reflecting your dignity back to you. You might start questioning and even losing your dignity when it's not reflected back to you. I mean, if mosquito is using you for your blood or if virus is using you for your DNA and nutrients it's not painful for your soul because they're not capable of relfecting your dignity back to you. But humans are.

  • @isaacpariza9103
    @isaacpariza9103 3 месяца назад +3

    i love these guys. GOD BLESS US

  • @ShiloBenShalom
    @ShiloBenShalom 3 месяца назад +1

    How i see it:
    When tempting to use someone, we say: "I will consider you - in condition that - you will stop considering yourself."
    & When done forcibely - that person is forces to stop considering him/herself. & That hurts. Because 1: They need their own love because theyre allways there with themselves physically, but theyre not there mentally. Because of the abuser/manipulator/caregiver/lover who provides them fake or wrong or inconsistant kind of love. & No one can be 24 for other expect him/herself. Thats why we hurt. In condicion to love ourselves - we need to push away others care love which is free & unwanted really.
    Thats hurt & healing from it ❤️‍🔥

  • @Justyouraverageguy172
    @Justyouraverageguy172 3 месяца назад +1

    This is the main reason why I have so many trust issues is after so many betrayals this way after helping out someone, offering up ideas to my local parish only for others to get all the credit for when they implemented, etc.

  • @jdelarosa89
    @jdelarosa89 3 месяца назад +2

    From the first sentence in this video- I cannot imagine what these fellas think about when corporations use people as things, cogs in the machine.

    • @tylergran1
      @tylergran1 3 месяца назад +2

      well a coporation isn't a person so...

    • @jdelarosa89
      @jdelarosa89 3 месяца назад

      @@tylergran1 uhhhhh but share holders are, mangers, executives, etc.

    • @borrico1965
      @borrico1965 3 месяца назад

      People WORK in corporations. When one works for someone like a janitor working for a manager, the janitor is not being used in the sense as discussed in this episode. To work is not allowing oneself to be used since through work one gains something for one's sustenance. It would be trickier when a sex worker, gains money by providing sex to a customer.

  • @milaszczecina5553
    @milaszczecina5553 Месяц назад

    Fido and fidette lol

  • @tonyhayes9827
    @tonyhayes9827 3 месяца назад

    Yes only people have a moral law. We're not just animals.