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  • Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024

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  • @Megha486
    @Megha486 Месяц назад +276

    Never stop making videos in this style. Its raw, honest and very comforting.

  • @lelashorts
    @lelashorts Месяц назад +122

    i feel like we were on facetime catching up on life. love these videos, please keep making them.

    • @AbdulHamal
      @AbdulHamal Месяц назад +1

      let's make this comment get over 600 likes as it did at previous video this legend have dropped

  • @anjogenow
    @anjogenow Месяц назад +53

    'problems never go away they just become better problems' felt that

  • @SophiaWilson
    @SophiaWilson Месяц назад +55

    just recently stopped telling people about plans for the same reason. almost cried when u said lazy and sensitive and naive because those are the exact three words i’ve been struggling with. it’s so odd finding such a keen solidarity with strangers on youtube. i admire ur honesty. it’s one of the things i value most in people

  • @_.Max.i.mus._
    @_.Max.i.mus._ Месяц назад +47

    this is how I get at 3 am and then go back to being a nonchalant asshole once the sun rises

  • @thahirah11
    @thahirah11 Месяц назад +23

    i keep this guy playing in the background while I do my work, its comforting

  • @sophia-vs6yv
    @sophia-vs6yv Месяц назад +22

    The way you express yourself is beautiful. I think the way you speak is so touching to people because you express thoughts stunningly that most are too afraid to face and say out loud. Don’t worry this video is not a flop even if it doesn’t have as many views, the message is still compelling and purposeful. Can’t wait to watch future videos of yours!

  • @ludovicomagini9524
    @ludovicomagini9524 12 дней назад +2

    Watching your videos feels exactly like watching myself talking at the mirror! It feels like you understand me way better then any other person. So crazy. Thank you so much for this content and to be yourself. Never stop.

    • @amotheplayer798
      @amotheplayer798 10 дней назад

      i feel the same way hah he reminds me of me but i cant express the way im feeling but he is expressing my mind and adding wisdom to my mind.

  • @taylorbirtch1296
    @taylorbirtch1296 11 дней назад +2

    found your channel today and you’re motivating me so much, i have been on my grind the last year but i just recently fell in love and it’s very easy to get distracted and invested in that but i still have personal goals i want to reach and continue to pour into myself so this was almost a really good reality check for me and i feel as though i came across this when i needed it. Keep making these videos bc you never know who you might be helping

  • @AmineBlall
    @AmineBlall Месяц назад +1

    ur inspiring thousands of people around the world! greats from Netherlands

  • @Kcaia06
    @Kcaia06 Месяц назад +10

    You just have this calmness to yourself which I feel radiates through the screen when i watch your video. I wish I could reply to you and say a little about my life and have a one on one convo with you.

  • @rebelsoldierdom9166
    @rebelsoldierdom9166 Месяц назад +6

    So glad I found this channel. You inspire me bro🙏🏼

  • @hajarharakat9013
    @hajarharakat9013 25 дней назад +1

    Love your video santiago, please don’t stop, and keep up with this work, you’re going to make it one day❤️

  • @furyy4fun
    @furyy4fun Месяц назад +2

    Your videos it's kind of calmness, when you listen stranger on youtube and understand that you are not alone on that path. I from Ukraine and 17 y.o. and found your channel. The first puprose was i want to learn english and understand better, but with time, i found something more special in your channel, these calmness, thoughtfulness it's a really needed things for me. Appreciate you a lot man, keep do it.

  • @serennna3
    @serennna3 Месяц назад +12

    DONT be scared of posting and yes we want Q&A

  • @bruh.1214
    @bruh.1214 Месяц назад +7

    Honestly its good watching you talk..Feels like a close friend talking which I need right now.

    • @bellyhere
      @bellyhere Месяц назад

      Hii✨how are you today?:)🌙

    • @bruh.1214
      @bruh.1214 Месяц назад

      @@bellyhere im good thankyou for asking

    • @bellyhere
      @bellyhere Месяц назад

      @@bruh.1214 yeah🫶🏼

  • @shrpixie
    @shrpixie Месяц назад +13

    okay :) I'll do it scared.

    • @illusivespirit
      @illusivespirit Месяц назад

      What is with the smiley face

    • @shrpixie
      @shrpixie Месяц назад

      ​@@illusivespiritis something wrong

  • @kitokoko8455
    @kitokoko8455 Месяц назад +6

    your videos is really my comfortable place T^T ❤

  • @ashishattri9550
    @ashishattri9550 Месяц назад +2

    There is something in the way you speak or in you yourself that stirs something in me..your wisdom, profoundness and the way u subtly say wise things, pause ,letting yourself and us too, to contemplate what u have said in video so far...This is the thing I love about you, your videos. The patience, calmness and authenticity in you. You have alot of potential, just keep pushing yourself, it is my sure belief that you will make it in no time..trust me you will..

  • @loonyb1n
    @loonyb1n Месяц назад +2

    "I need to be patient with myself" really hit hard for me, man. I'm also going through a break up, and planning some pretty big life changes soon. Will be travelling solo for about 6 months for the first time. Don't know what to expect, but will try to be patient with myself, appreciate that it's a lot, and enjoy the journey of growth.

  • @Dinsung3
    @Dinsung3 Месяц назад +1

    This is one of the rare videos that I've watched without putting the speed on x1.5. I've actually learned some things too.

  • @gloomypoppy
    @gloomypoppy Месяц назад +3

    your vids give me sm comfort, i enjoy it sm bcs i feel like im finally being heard. thank you

  • @TimR4702
    @TimR4702 Месяц назад +2

    q&a would be amazing santiago. BTW Ive been watching a few of your videos and i love your open mindedness and its so relaxing

  • @julianachewy
    @julianachewy Месяц назад +4

    YAY YOU DID A GOOD START SAN 🎉
    i'm one of ur very first followers who got attracted to the way you share your thoughts with very natural flow, no BGM, filter, not noisy... It's like talking with a buddy, really friendly and relaxing 😊😊😊 please keep this vibe in other videos later on.
    ALWAYS BE HERE SUPPORTING YOU ❤

  • @elliem263
    @elliem263 Месяц назад +2

    You have a gift for talking like this and sharing your knowledge. Don’t give up ever

  • @thelegendofthefive838
    @thelegendofthefive838 Месяц назад +8

    Ayyy one minute ago. I am 15 i started working in a factory but its calming watching ur videos at 5 in the morning

  • @layanm5536
    @layanm5536 Месяц назад +1

    I relate so much with the way you think and talk i always have these talks with myself, i feel deep comfort when listening to your video, thank you

  • @leylab.k
    @leylab.k Месяц назад +3

    bruh ur videos are gold💛

  • @jendryalpizar4370
    @jendryalpizar4370 Месяц назад +2

    I see you and I’m rooting for you, your channel has already grown a lot which means people are also being seen by what you say. I get that anger and annoyance but I’ve realized that sometimes that’s what’s required to drive change. Remember to extend the same grace to yourself that you’re trying to extend to others, I often forget that myself but it’s crazy what you can accomplish when you don’t put so much pressure on yourself to be perfect. Hope you have a fulfilling day, whatever that may look like to you and anyone else that comes across this comment.

    • @jendryalpizar4370
      @jendryalpizar4370 Месяц назад

      Also I guess my question would be, what’s that moment that you see as before and after that has led to where you are now? In other words, when did you snap out of the matrix?

  • @hanan.2548
    @hanan.2548 Месяц назад +2

    Omg I think I found my favourite channel of all the time thanks for making this video pls keep going sending love

  • @Jake_Towne
    @Jake_Towne 13 дней назад

    Your so calm and real! Just discovered your channel! Keep it up🔥

  • @umbra9029
    @umbra9029 Месяц назад +1

    I'm just getting ready for the day and listening to u again. 🎶
    it's almost 9 and for the first time in a long time, I woke at sunrise after I watched your video.
    And wow... it's so peaceful. Your voice brings me a weird sense of peace. I just listen to you and calm myself. I identify with many things: being naive, being sensitive, I don't finish the things I start.
    I think being sensitive is okay... but the rest tho... I guess we need to elevate our boundaries and that's the hardest thing ♡
    Actually... I want to build an ONG so... yeah... 😅 shh let's not talk about it

  • @CAMJ9
    @CAMJ9 Месяц назад +1

    Keep these videos up they are really motivational and im learning and realizing a lot thank you and keep up the good work

  • @thaiscristina_0
    @thaiscristina_0 Месяц назад +1

    Not me watching this before driven alone for the first time to my work. Keep posting 🤞🏽

  • @anchorsea6
    @anchorsea6 Месяц назад +2

    Once again, sir, you are fine.

  • @fr9570
    @fr9570 Месяц назад +2

    Love your vids man. I found your channel from your last video and I gotta say your the first youtuber who I actually sit through the whole vid without skipping, your very honest and I relate to a lot of the thing u talk about

  • @Imogen-el1bn
    @Imogen-el1bn Месяц назад +1

    random but you have a really calm and soothing presence, it makes your videos create a stress-free environment.

  • @Eramaph
    @Eramaph Месяц назад +1

    These are the best typa videos on RUclips 100%. Perfect for getting through work ong. Inspiring asf bro Fr

  • @bangertrois
    @bangertrois Месяц назад +1

    he's so taehyung coded

  • @snwy_autumn
    @snwy_autumn Месяц назад +1

    I often forgot us humans have the same feelings, maybe not in the exact same way, but it's just feel... nice? relief to know we still figuring out.
    I don't like telling ppl what I'm planning, too. I just don't like being... seen. It's like they're watching every step I take. I guess that's why when I'm home I'm so unproductive. But when I'm in my own flat I just feel great. Cuz I fail nobody would know.
    And "empathy", sometimes I just hate someone or don't like themso much. Yet, can't thinking about why they did that yk... . I want to be more cruel, more selfish but I can't really change that, that's just who I am.
    ( As always great video, and don't think too much about flopping or more viewers. You're doing great

  • @nursdigitaldiary
    @nursdigitaldiary Месяц назад +1

    it is very rare that people talk honestly and not try to cover their lifes with some fancy words. you are one of a kind, I like the realness in your videos. keep going!!

  • @bruhban70
    @bruhban70 Месяц назад

    Hey man, im 20 going through the exact same headspace as you in terms of a breakup, reflection, insecurites, people pleaser and wanting to find myself again. Youve inspired me to vlog myself and talk outloud. Thank you bro its helped listening to you not be angry at the world but to know how to handle the card you were dealt with

  • @malekbekka9597
    @malekbekka9597 28 дней назад

    bro, i found this video when my head was running super fast. idk why but just watching this helped me slow down. thank you bro

  • @-dvr03-72
    @-dvr03-72 25 дней назад

    Doing a QnA video would definitely be helpful. It's nice seeing a different perspective and having someone to refer to for people who are just starting their own growth journey or self reflection is somethings thats really cool. Whether you do make a video like that, do you have any suggestions for books that you found helped improve or change your perspective on life or helped you in your own growth journey?

  • @yayhina
    @yayhina Месяц назад

    i love you for this. my face is warm with soaked up tears, my lips are chafed with silence and my eyes are heavy from the wake of the daylight as I type this message. Today has been one of the worst days of all. It has been unimaginably long and horrible. I could not stop crying for the life of me until this video was just what I needed. I want you to know that it has brought me a deep comfort in this time of internal crisis. it was a virtual embrace. I found such sense of solace in knowing that I am not alone in this hurt. your description of the non-ideal self is a downright reality-check and just so aptly put. We are all simply trying to be a bit more than our guilt and that's all we're left with. The next time you're scared of posting another video, I hope you remember that you're one of the most human humans out there and this content is long overdue. Thank you, Santiago.

  • @beomieee4176
    @beomieee4176 4 дня назад

    throughout my life I've gotten compliments from strangers when I never styled myself or even tried to look decent. the thing is I'm a very honest person and I just don't try to hide my thoughts so when I talked about my insecurities, I've had people look at me with the "are you kidding me?". sometimes it felt like it is a sin for me to feel bad about myself, I knew I'm pretty and conventionally attractive but am I not allowed to feel disgusted to be in my own skin? I never grew up from feeling super insecure with myself lol to the point that my only saving grace is my physical looks. crazy how our conception on looks could fuck up a girl

  • @notInaaya
    @notInaaya Месяц назад +1

    first!! loving ur content, keep it going really, it’s like having deep conversations with someone like-minded, the gallery of thoughts

  • @blablabla8045
    @blablabla8045 Месяц назад

    Thank you so much for this video, Thank you for posting even though you're afraid, I really needed this and thank you for your kind words.

  • @elifmeryemdemirhan
    @elifmeryemdemirhan Месяц назад

    This spontaneous way of speaking is as if you are opening new windows for yourself while speaking, and we witness this by looking into your eyes.
    its feels so intimate!

  • @O.vincccce
    @O.vincccce Месяц назад +1

    Thank you for sharing your thoughts .

  • @poppytree
    @poppytree Месяц назад

    I appreciate your courage. As someone who also has a habit of not finishing what they start, some of that is the fear that the end product won't be as good as my ideal. Listening to your videos while working on my project helps me push forward, and I hope you don't lose your drive to improve. Looking forward to the next video!

  • @enzoknol3388
    @enzoknol3388 Месяц назад

    These videos always grab my attention, whilst also helping calming myself down before going to sleep. Grateful youtube recommended your channel to me. Keep up the good work!

  • @PatrickRuddy-po9cq
    @PatrickRuddy-po9cq Месяц назад +1

    Plus your hair is dope. I wish I had the simple courage to wear my hair like yours!

    • @Lia-uu1eu
      @Lia-uu1eu Месяц назад

      you can do it scared

  • @ameliorate5621
    @ameliorate5621 Месяц назад

    Thank you for your past two videos, I just started watching and I really appreciate your calm and unscripted content. I struggle a lot with overcoming my anxiety since I've moved overseas a year and a half ago. Just over these past two videos I've recognized a lot of similarities and you've inspired me to make more active changes to my everyday routine. Regarding your fear towards posting content, I would just say that "perfect is the enemy of good," and if people are connecting to your videos, it's because there is something you provide of value, just keep being yourself.

  • @EsperanzaAnnetteRE
    @EsperanzaAnnetteRE Месяц назад

    I feel so emotional and sensitive during this video but at the same time so deeply warming idkw, I identify myself in many things you said so please keep up uploading videos like this, they're so helpful

  • @maxxxiemum
    @maxxxiemum 29 дней назад

    hey san, as a culinary student too, thank you for this video. i feel every of your experiences. it made me feel better knowing that we’re going thru similar things

  • @peknuenia4549
    @peknuenia4549 Месяц назад

    No but like honestly a lot of this sounds exactly like myself. I know I haven’t been through what he has, but it’s good to know you’re not alone or feel like the only one not living up to what you want being held back by your comfort zones and pervious perceptions of the world around you.
    So yeah basically thanks, these videos are a good motivator to feel less ashamed (for literally just being human tbh)

  • @vitorlaroi
    @vitorlaroi Месяц назад +3

    I struggle with the same problems as you bro. I'm 19 and lost. I will start posting on my yt channel as well.

  • @elifcelikkanat
    @elifcelikkanat Месяц назад

    Hi, just found you like 20 mins ago w your last video. Just wanted to say that I’ve never felt someone super relatable that fast before. Thank you for that. Made my day tbh

  • @idkz5d
    @idkz5d Месяц назад

    i love this video ! we need more content like this

  • @yadig8157
    @yadig8157 Месяц назад

    I have conversations like these with myself in front of my bathroom mirror, i TOTALLY relate. Aside from that, love the videos, keep it up!

  • @Hibsara
    @Hibsara Месяц назад

    I love the way u brought up sympathy as such a confronting feeling becuz there are a lot of people these days who think that being preserved and trying not to get angry but rather be calm and choose peace is weak, or forgiving and having sympathy and understanding for people is weak which is wild thinking in my opinion so i really appreciate ur take on it. Keep posting pls It's rare to find honest people out here ❤.

  • @selenaz6795
    @selenaz6795 Месяц назад +2

    I think its ok to talk about ur plans with a real best friend

  • @Msnoname
    @Msnoname Месяц назад

    Man there's something about your videos that makes me wanna watch the whole thing without skipping. Keep posting more great videos

  • @Araamqveyniuriarseba
    @Araamqveyniuriarseba 21 день назад

    I'm watching the man that I want to become. Never stop making vlogs^^

  • @amiraaaa197
    @amiraaaa197 Месяц назад

    Omg Im actually passing through a new beginning in my life starting a thing I've never done before and I have no idea about it😂 so I feel like I'm pushing myself to never give up and do it even though scared too, so this video came to me as a sign..I really like it and I like your type of videos keep going 👏

  • @Mely-zv8or
    @Mely-zv8or Месяц назад

    ❤ love the video , thank you for posting and for share your deep thoughts 💕

  • @forgormyname33
    @forgormyname33 29 дней назад

    I feel like a part I liked about the last video was that it was in the dark like early morning, and it was kinda comforting. please do more videos like just in the early morning. shanks

  • @robbeweemaels8603
    @robbeweemaels8603 23 дня назад

    would love a vid where you explain your situation and how you got there moving continent and shi.

  • @newandoldgizem
    @newandoldgizem Месяц назад

    Your videos are inspiring in a way. I look at audio recordings and videos more positively because in such situations, when people spill out, they confront each other, become serious, focus, the possibility of understanding increases. I had taken a break from writing but I started again recently. Although it is still difficult and disturbing for me sometimes, I will try not to try to escape or destroy what I write as I have done many times in the past. I am trying to push myself because I have given up many times.

  • @karenmoonlight
    @karenmoonlight Месяц назад +1

    Thank you

  • @Cora-w4c
    @Cora-w4c Месяц назад

    Like you said in the video about having to go through the same cycle again and again i could very much relate to that thing. As a student I've been really struggling to be who i was in the past i used to have good grades and stuff, lots of friends, talkative but now all of that has just faded as i entered senior school. I have to go through the same loophole again and again I've been doing worse each time my grades fell from straight a's to c's no friends and I've become a really quite person so quite and after watching your video i could just not stop crying. And it hurts more when you know you can do better. the only question i have is how do we get out of this loophole? this constant humiliation of disappointing yourself knowing the outcomes?

  • @selenaz6795
    @selenaz6795 Месяц назад +2

    Like im pretty sure studies show this, but guys don’t get to heal much cuz they don’t reflect or process their emotions or talk about them. So I think it’s good u being very reflective imo

    • @selenaz6795
      @selenaz6795 Месяц назад

      And HONESTY WITH URSELF

    • @selenaz6795
      @selenaz6795 Месяц назад

      But i realize many times it’s best to not take things deeply. Just be positive , don’t let negatives affect u, have fun. set ur own basic boundaries?

    • @selenaz6795
      @selenaz6795 Месяц назад

      Like don’t spend time too much overthinking on old stuff. just have fun. Life okay

    • @selenaz6795
      @selenaz6795 Месяц назад

      Sometimes

  • @Mclovinnnn
    @Mclovinnnn Месяц назад

    im so glad i came across ur channel. we r alike..so rare

  • @drakemosher7363
    @drakemosher7363 Месяц назад

    Not a flop brother. Please keep it up! I feel like we’d be good friends and are very similar. You’re inspiring me to share my story.

  • @f.m5396
    @f.m5396 28 дней назад

    I usually don’t comment that often on RUclips videos, but when you said at 7:12, “I think this video is gonna flop.”
    I had to respond. Not at all! Don’t worry about it, just give it some time ✌🏼
    You’ll see how your videos are going to help a lot of people, and they’ll get the recognition they deserve.
    Never stop this channel, keep rocking👌🏼
    You’ve earned a new subscriber, and you’re doing an amazing job ;)

  • @hamada-13
    @hamada-13 Месяц назад

    this really hits me to the core. this is exactly how I feel

  • @Nadjingar
    @Nadjingar Месяц назад

    😵‍💫 There is no program in Ba Sing Se. There is no program in Ba Sing Se.
    Your videos are raw asl dude. I could listen to you for hours. Definitely anticipating more in the future. And a Q&A would be dope!

  • @paulmoreno6279
    @paulmoreno6279 Месяц назад

    Awesome my guy 💯 Happy Monday from Palm Beach Florida 😎

  • @akajannis
    @akajannis 28 дней назад

    I really feel what you´re saying. I struggle with the same things as you, and so many others do too. You´re saying what I haven´t managed to express to the people around me.
    I would really love if you did a q&a. In the first video I saw, there was german whole milk on the table, so I knew you are in Germany. Since you said you moved to a different continent, I guess you´re from the US. But I´m really curious where you are really from and how/why you moved to Germany. Also: Herzlich Willkommen! Es freut mich sehr, dass du dich für Deutschland entschieden hast.

  • @llemon05
    @llemon05 Месяц назад

    Love these videos man please keep them coming 🙏

  • @Aleena-jx2zn
    @Aleena-jx2zn Месяц назад

    Thank you so much for this video.

  • @GYMMotivation_2024
    @GYMMotivation_2024 Месяц назад +2

    GOD IS GOOD 🙏🙏🙏

  • @blidardiapinal
    @blidardiapinal Месяц назад +1

    you can see those wrist curls 😂👏

  • @frankling.castillo996
    @frankling.castillo996 29 дней назад

    this is me. you is me. man i needed to see this video. thank you. i really want to get better at it and i know i will learn.

  • @aidansoats
    @aidansoats Месяц назад +2

    Don’t tell, show

  • @Rj-jz7tm
    @Rj-jz7tm 19 дней назад

    What was the best way to make yourself think more about purposeful and fulfilling things in life and make yourself think less about nonsense that automatically enters your brain like for instance, shoutwords, unuseful videos, negative thoughts and things like that?

  • @yofrqn810
    @yofrqn810 Месяц назад

    hey bro, liked your last video, keep it up, be consistent, you have a lot of potential bro and seem like a cool genuine person, i saw that you mentioned that you have been thinking about quitting alcohol, im 18 and i have never in my life consumed alcohol, some people call me an extremist, other people admire and respect the fact that I abstain, but regardless of my thoughts in alcohol i still do party a lot and have a social life, going out without drinking in my opinion is so cool and i would fully reccommend you to try quitting, you dont have to, but you can try, God bless bro

  • @rand0mplayer267
    @rand0mplayer267 Месяц назад

    Awesome video brother. Thank you

  • @ahmetcartcurt
    @ahmetcartcurt Месяц назад

    What do u want to be in the future
    What kind of person do u want to be
    Which behaviors do u want to fix?

  • @shaylynv.3037
    @shaylynv.3037 Месяц назад

    I really really like these. Here lately I've been thinking a lot about taking up my own space. Its something I really don't know how to do without feeling immensely guilty. I was wondering if you had any thoughts or advice on that?

  • @ishikadhillon2496
    @ishikadhillon2496 Месяц назад

    As a person who has a history of not finishing, how do u try to be consistent?
    Biggest epiphany in life?

  • @harryhawkins2019
    @harryhawkins2019 Месяц назад

    We need a tattoo tour

  • @officialyusra
    @officialyusra Месяц назад

    ik you’re gonna make it man

  • @amotheplayer798
    @amotheplayer798 10 дней назад

    i got what you mean by dont tell people the plans i have for the future because your plan may not always play out as you intended it to.

  • @ganyaka7916
    @ganyaka7916 Месяц назад

    Also it did well cuz you’re a 10/10 bhahhahaha oop i got distracted again

  • @riddhiksr
    @riddhiksr Месяц назад

    love ur content keep doing what ur doing

  • @ishikadhillon2496
    @ishikadhillon2496 Месяц назад

    Brother, you are me.

  • @Azertrl
    @Azertrl 25 дней назад

    8:24 this is real af

  • @denella7611
    @denella7611 Месяц назад

    very calming
    😍