To be honest I don't think there's anything wrong in being part of someone else's plan, as long as you're aware of it and you've made that decision on your own
Although, sometimes we buy things to save hours, too. I got a new mower and it's far more efficient than the one I got for free. The higher end paint and the 15 dollar Wooster cutting brushes help speed things up for me, too. Higher quality tools get jobs done faster.
This hit so hard. We all fear of failure because of social stereotypes. But regret in life is more severe. We have to find our “why”, our values in this world, and our “me”.
Sorry to hear about your grandfather. I’m sorry you missed those last hours. Thank you for sharing such a personal story. It was very brave of you to be so authentic and real. You learned a powerful life lesson. You are more powerful than the people you left behind trapped and dying in their gilded corporate prison. I hope the money is truly worth it for them. You have saved your soul and the best years of your life while you’re still young. You kept to your values. I believe your grandfather would be so proud of you today. I wish you the very best in life.
It was your boss's error to find himself in the situation that he couldn't even let his associate visit a dying relative. What a failure as a lawyer, as a boss. What a failure as a human being.
The whole point of making money is to have freedom to do what you want in life. If you have to work every waking hour until the grave, it completely defeats the purpose.
I quit at 35 so I can spend more time with my husband, create memories, and focus on health. The day we paid off our house and became debt free that was it. You dont need millions to retire, invest but also focus on the now, because we dont know how much time we have. :)
@@Isabella-wo9bg yes, without IRAs we need 1700 to live comfortably here in the Midwest, we started going out to eat 1-2 times a weeks as a treat, we fund2 IRAs.. everything else is for whatever, possible bathroom renovation and may be going to the beach once a year, our son is 16 so we want to help him out with school as well
I worked for 2 Big 5 accountancy companies 20+ years ago as a tax lawyer. In short: horrible experience! 3 out of 5 of my room mates were burned out or were on medical leave and I remember saying goodbye to someone leaving the company almost on a weekly basis. Toxic, horrible work environment. But when you are young (20's/ 30's) you think that you have to "sell" yourself to get ahead, which is not true at all. Currently, I have my own small law firm. I help people, and I am appreciated. And I make enough money to buy my first home.
For those of us in the legal world, this woman is a gem. Seriously. It's hard to explain what's she's been through without seeing it first hand, but this woman has worked countless hours to achieve a dream then had the balls to quit that job and pursue her own path. May her Grandfather Rest in Peace, I'm sure he's proud of her. And may she live in regret no longer.
My grandmother passed away and I missed out on the last few hours with her because of work... I empathize so much. Thank you for having the courage to share this. It helps me with my regret too. Your story is priceless to me 💞
You said it perfectly :as a lawyer who has been lucky enough to work laterally from the profession I can so appreciate this lady's sentiments. Lawyers tragically are slaves not to money but to status. Just tell any fellow lawyer 'if I had a chance to work for double the. Money as a bin man I would happily do so and watch their face'. I deploy this statement and instantly discover so much. The longer one stays in lawyer the more disappointed and regretful kindred spirits one meets.
A Quarter of a MILLION DOLLARS in a YEAR!!! Shut the FU@% up! When was the last time you gave your Maid a raise and tipped tour Barista!? Cry me a River! 60% of Americans live on $50k a Year! 50% under 30k! Get over yourselves!
Folks, it's an elitist attitude to think that only lawyers trade their time for money. That has become the "American dream" - the small business owner is rare. The majority of us work for corporations where we're just a number and if we don't like the 'abuse' well, don't let the door hit you in the a** on your way out.
@@timothyoherlihy5391 Folks, it's an elitist attitude to think that only lawyers trade their time for money. That has become the "American dream" - the small business owner is rare. The majority of us work for corporations where we're just a number and if we don't like the 'abuse' well, don't let the door hit you in the a** on your way out.
I quit a highly coveted job when I was 40, I’m 56 now and never regretted my decision. If I die tomorrow, I would be proud that I chose to have less money and more time to help others in the most meaningful way to me. So happy you made the choice and that you posted this VDO. ❤ from 🇹🇭
The words that changed my life direction were "Money is the drug they give you to forget your dreams". That hit me like a gut punch and motivated me to start my own business.
@@WanderlustingCouple yes and salary to follow lifestyle. Thanks for your advice im useing help like yours to plan and start a auto restortion business 👍
it's all illusion. if i can't happily earn enough to buy a beautiful car, then that beautiful is not worth my happiness. i can only work pass 60 hours a week on condition that my work is part of my happiness.
Hi. I'm a 58-year old man who has been working everyday for the last 15 years. And this video has opened my eyes. I don't want to have regret. Thank you for so much for sharing your story. You can add another one to the thousand you have helped. You are so strong and amazing. Thank you so much
I cried watching this. Biglaw shed off years of my health and I still shudder at the thought of how soul crushing that toxic environment is. Thank you for sharing your story and congratulations for taking back your time and your life.
Investing in alternative income streams that are independent of the government should be the top priority for everyone right now. especially given the global economic crisis we are currently experiencing. Stocks, gold, silver, and virtual currencies are still attractive investments at the moment.
Big moving stochastics are not the secret to high returns. It involves controlling risk in relation to reward. Putting on the proper size and spinning your edge as many times as required to achieve your objective. That is valid for both day trading and long-term investments......
@@AstaKristjan I've been able to scale from $50K to $189k in this red season because my Financial Advisor figured out Defensive strategies which help portfolios be less vulnerable to market downturns.
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I am not a lawyer, but a doctor. I see this in my profession all the time, too. Somehow hard work and long hours are truly glamorized, you're totally right. I only took one week off of work when my youngest daughter was born--simply to prove I was as hardworking and tough as the men I worked with. I "quit" shortly after. I now work less than 30 hours a week in my own private practice. Much less pay for MUCH MORE FREEDOM and HAPPINESS! Thanks for this video.
Hi Amy, thank you so much for sharing! I'm so sorry to hear this but happy that you have your own practice now - congratulations! It's true. I can't remember if I mentioned it in the video, but I think a lot of the pressure I put on myself was to prove that I was equal to the men.
@@amygarza1571 sorry to hijack this convo but I also have a question. I am thinking about med school as well and anesthesia was something of interest. Would you recommend it?
.when I decided to go to college I decided to stay local for my grandparents (they raised me). I passed on Berkeley because it was too far from me. I was a low income student and my grandparents didn’t speak english. On my second year of college grandma had a heart attack and we managed to help her. She had a slip next year and broke her hip and I was able to help her there as well. I took a job as a teacher for stability and soon after my grandpa had a stroke. I was able to help him as well. I will never regret staying close to them because it bought me more time with them. At the end of the day, no matter how much I was able to help them, it pales in comparison to the life they gave me. I needed them more than they ever needed me. Thank you for sharing your story!
I quit my job 8 years ago. I come to the conclusion that time is very valuable and we don’t have a lot of it. I have friends that has a bit of a superior complex because they went to the traditional route. They went to college and got multiple degrees and work for corporate America. They are so proud about bringing work home that they post about it. Lol! My husband and I went the non traditional route. No college. But I we are so happy with multiple stream of income/ passive income. I get to stay home and raise our kids. My husband only works 20-30 hours a week. We have the freedom of time to go out and enjoy nature and the world. We try to see as many states and country as possible.
Probably one of the best personal positioning statements I've ever seen. Way to speak your truth with courage, integrity, and honor, Erika. I have no doubt your Grandpa is extremely proud of you.
It’s never enough and it is never appreciated. The loyalty is not reciprocated. I’ve heard the saying that if you are not building your dream that you are building someone else’s. True. Pace yourself. Save some of that time and energy for your own pursuits and building your own financial freedom. Erika is a gem and her message is so true!
Please don’t delete this video! I think this message is something people hear a lot but can’t hear enough. No B-rolls or over-use of fancy typography to keep your audience visually entertained - just a simple face-to-face message with your moving story because the topic matter is so relevant to so many people that a sit down is all it needed. P.S. I’m sorry to hear about your loss and regret. It’s heartbreaking to hear how your boss (likely being puppeteered by his own boss) handled the situation knowing damn well that if he were on his deathbed, he’d want his family to visit. I hope you find peace in what you’re doing now and what a great way to honor your grandpa’s memory ❤️
We read news in the media that doom and gloom is coming and we just accept it, doom and gloom doesn’t always have to be coming, I’ve read numerous success stories of people that are pulling off tremendous gains of up to $250K within weeks in this crazy market and I just want to learn how to achieve such figures.
Since the crash, I've been in the red. I’m playing the long term game, so I'm not too worried but Jim Cramer mentioned there are still a lot of great opportunities, though stocks has been down a lot. I also heard news of a guy that made $250k from about $110k since the crash and I would really look to know how to go about this.
Exactly why i enjoy market decisions being guided by a pro , seeing that their entire skillset is built around going long and short at the same time both employing risk management and market experience , been using a portfolio-coach for over 2years+ and I've netted over $3million in that time frame.
This description of Biglaw is absolutely uncanny. It is not only the norm that you will sacrifice your own health and relationships in order to clock as many billables as possible, it is the expectation. There is no such thing as a family emergency, a holiday, a vacation, or a weekend. There are certainly outliers who are willing to make those sacrifices or manage to end up on a unicorn team, but I have yet to meet a lawyer who regretted quitting their Biglaw job. Best night of sleep I ever got was right after I put in my two weeks' notice. Great work, Erika!
This resonates with me and my experience in medicine. I went to medical school in my 30's, didn't come from a well off background, and worked extremely hard to become a doctor because I wanted to help people. I graduated during the pandemic, and believe it or not I found myself feeling morally drained and that clear vision of helping people in the way I envisioned became so much murkier. I am not sure what I want to do with my career at this point. I really appreciate you sharing your story, thank you!
I wonder how many people spend years and a ton of debt to get into a profession....only to question what they actually got into. It's sad. But how can you prevent it?
come to the UK & work in the NHS. I am serious. pick an area and ring the local hospital. I don't know what training is involved but they'd be able to tell you....
Investing in alternative income streams that are independent of the government should be the top priority for everyone right now. especially given the global economic crisis we are currently experiencing. Stocks, gold, silver, and virtual currencies are still attractive investments at the moment...
This seems like the worst period.Even the markets are very unpredictable.started investing recently when the market prices were a bit high,today i am more than 60% down
I started investing about 2 years ago. But with the way things are going, I honestly do not see my self making a million box anytime soon. I trade on stocks but my profit and loss margin are grossly miles apart
The best course of action if you lack ma-rket knowledge is to ask a consultant or invest-ing co-ach for guidance or assistance. Speaking with a con-sultant helped me stay afloat in the market and grow my port-folio to about 65% since January, even though I know it sounds obvious or generic. I believe that is the most effective way to enter the business at the moment.
"I fear regret more than I fear failure" - this is the true path to finding fulfilment. Success is inevitable if you keep working and learning from your failures. But lost time is lost forever. You are so brave and inspiring! Wish you the very best ❤️
Not really you shouldn't fear anything since you should act so you don't leave regrets and failure is just a process to success no one can achieve success without failures along the way but no one talks about the failures usually only the achievements and success. That is why having your own job is the best, since working for someone means they own you for that amount of time to do a certain task. In reality we haven't changed from the slave system, it is a system with make up so people can't tell they are just slaves to it.
"Regret implies you had the opportunity to do something differently but you choose not to." That really resonates. Congratulations on getting your priorities straight, and more importantly finding the courage to believe in yourself. Nice video!
No matter what we do, we will regret not doing the other thing and taking the alternate path. Think carefully before we make a serious decision and find peace in the decision we have made
Erika, Great story. I also have a son who was in Big Law in DC. I was very proud of him when he landed this big law job but I am even more proud of him when he had the courage to walk away from a multi 6 figure salary to follow his passion. I know that most immigrant Asian parents push their kids to succeed at all cost but as an immigrant parent myself I can say that there is nothing more important than health and happiness for your kids.
Thank you so much for publishing this video! There’s nothing worse than being controlled. Feeling like someone else owns your time is a horrible feeling when you simply need an inch
Your grampa would be so proud of you and how much you're positively impacting a lot of people in need!! You have no idea how much this video touched me. I needed to hear this kind of message today. Thank you !
“I fear regret more that failure” wow. I felt this so deeply. That line alone answers how I’ve been feeling about “living my life” without the guilt of not being too accessible and forgetting me.
You are absolutely correct for walking away. When we sign on to our high paying jobs, we work for blood money. Our freedom to do what we want to do, what we need to do for our souls is more important than the money we make realizing someone else's bidding.
From being unemployed to actually deciding not to take a 9-5 job, it has been more than a year now, I have never learnt so fast in life, the motivation is real. my body has never felt better
It took me 40 years to realize these things. But, it's better late than never! As a dad, though....your dad is going to be proud of you no matter what you do. When we're young, we worry about what others thinks, but now I'm older and a dad, i don't care what anyone thinks. It really has freed me from so much and allowed me to grow personally and financially.
I'm a corporate lawyer and I've been planning to quit my job in a few weeks to do RUclips full-time! Thanks SO much for being courageous in sharing your story and helping me realize that I'm not alone :) Congrats on remembering your "why" and building a life you're proud of!
@@ettab.7838 Thanks Etta!!! ☺️ I'm so grateful for your kindness and for the number of signs I'm receiving from the Universe telling me to do this 🥰 You're a wonderful person and I wish you so much happiness and fulfillment! 🙌 Whatever you're going through, you got this! 😎
Thank you for sharing this personal story. I'm so sorry for your loss. Your perspective on labor is refreshing. As broke as I am, I always put myself and family before corps I work for, and people call me "spoiled" or "lazy" for it, but stories like this let me know that I'm making the right decision. Your channel is so empowering and valuable. Thank you!
Your biggest regret turned into your biggest opportunity. None of this would’ve happened if that one “no” from your boss had never happened. I’m sure your grandpa is/would be very happy to know how your life is better because of your love for him and how it changed the course of your life.
It’s hard that she missed that time with beloved grandpa - can’t get those special moments back! I don’t think the opportunity was the reason! I would say it was the aha moment that was the biggest gain - is her eyes were opened! Many opportunities will come still…! 🙏
A 100 hours a week is not a 250K a year job. Effectively you're making the same as a UPS worker. When you calculate the actual hourly rate you're working, it hits home.
😂😂😂 it IS a 250k a year job! It may not be that great but doesn't mean she's not making that per year. Also that would be about $48 an hour. UPS drivers make about $15 an hour.
I work in the medical field. I feel your pain. This is what I learned. If you don't chase your dreams, someone else will use you to chase theirs. I am so sorry about your lost. Wishing you the best
Totally agree! I came to that same revelation &: quit working after retirement. I realized I was helping others to retire instead of following my dreams.
Quitting sometimes leads one to a much higher level. Just like when I quit my high paying position in order to take care of my mother who was hospitalized and was put into ICU. Guess what, when she was discharged and has fully recovered we were able to improve our family business and I was able to do multiple side hustles that enabled me to earn more than the job which I left.
They keyword is "sometimes". There are no guarantees that simply going for it will lead to success. Afterall, there are many unsuccessful businesses. However, if you think you can fly, then there is a possibility that you can, so you owe it to yourself to at least try. If you fail, pat yourself on the back and acknowledge the fact that you got further than most people, because most people aren't willing to try due to the fear of failure.
Such an important message and delivered so authentically. Got a bit emotional watching this - I'm sure your grandpa is super proud of the bold actions you've taken and I'm very happy for you. Thank you for sharing your story 🙏
I was working on a project once and a team member of ours commuted in weekly from another city. His young son got really sick and was hospitalized. He asked his boss if he could fly back home and work from home so he could be close to his son... Our boss said to him "Is he really that sick?" and did not allow him to go home... That's when you need to contemplate and start making life changing decisions.
Your grandpa would be so proud! You're inspiring people like me to quit our jobs and satisfy that hunger to use our skills and knowledge to support others and their dreams. 💛
He'd be proud that she didn't say no to her boss so that she could come spend the last hours of his life with him? No I don't think so in fact I think that this young woman is terrible and has terrible morals and that her misplaced loyalty to her job instead of her dying relative is one of the worst things I've ever heard
@@trinitywright7122 her grandfather would be super proud of her accomplishments, because if he can see her right now, she is what every parent would like to see in there children. She is smart, strong and overall very self centered in what she needs to donin her life. If i was her father i would applaud her all the way, and tell her she did an amazing job. You became better than me and that what it is all anout being better thAn your parents not like your parents. “Everything has a sacrifice in life for you to be able to conquer what the future holds for you.” Fear is your biggest enemy, if she would have stopped and turned the other way she would have seen her grandfather and lost her opportunity of a lifetime and her grandfather still would have passed away. I believe her grandfather would be really lroud of her. Im proud of her, and i dint even know her 🤷🏻♂️.
Grace. We all get to give ourselves grace. There are learning moments in life where we do something that we realize afterward didn’t work. This is how we grow. Thank you Erika for the courage you had in sharing your story with us. 💕
I love your story Erika and your message. I came from nothing and now I’m a doctor and own assets. A lot of my colleagues work for private companies or work abroad for lots more money. I choose to work in the NHS and serve the community. Be your why and stay human ❤
@@OrganicFreedom wasnt something I came up with, it's a quote I read one day when noticed a calendar in a house I was putting a hardwood floor in and that saying stuck with me all these years after
Your story is close to my heart. I lost my grandpa, too, under the same circumstances in medical residency. I carry that regret that I prioritized other patients dying over my own grandfather. It’s a pain of medicine that most people will never understand about doctors. We sacrifice for others, but need to know when to prioritize ourselves, so that we can continue to outpour our souls in our work.
Originally came across this video earlier in the year when I (Em) was thinking about when I should quit my Big Law job. I found it extremely reassuring to hear you talk about issues like complacency and the pressure of doing what society wants you to do, all of which had been weighing on my mind. But what resonated with me the most was hearing you talk about fearing regret more than fearing failure - when you said that, I think that was the first time I consciously realized that I also felt that way. It helped give me the courage to finally quit my Big Law job to pursue something I'm more passionate about, and now that I'm out, I had to come back and comment to say thank you for sharing your story!!
Making the first 100k has been a marathon, I am 26 and at 75k mark, No useless spending, no vacations, just work, save and most importantly invest, thanks to my fiduciary Mr Arlto Eric, I am blessed and I believe I will keep been blessed
I stopped believing in anything a long time ago, I have had to stand and fight for myself and family but 75k at 26 years is quite a milestone so cheers
When you said “I fear regret more than I deal failure” I felt that on a personal level. I’ve been working so hard to push myself out of my comfort zone because I never want to regret not accomplish my goals!
Sorry to hear you missed out on those final moments with your Grandpa. In retrospect, you've learnt to value your time over money which will guide your priorities moving forward. Your Grandpa would be proud.
So needed to hear this Erika! I am nurse who had to step away from the bedside when my husband almost lost his life in 2021 due to illness! We are in our 20s and our lives were turned upside down. Everyone told it wasn’t possible, but I found a remote job that allows me to stay home with my husband and still grow as a nurse. Now I share our story on RUclips and through our podcast. We can do anything we set our minds to, specially when it’s all about helping others!
I found this video in a roundabout way, just as I was questioning my decision to take a promotion for a job I don't even like. I felt a lot of pressure to accept because it was "the next logical step" and now I'm miserable. No amount of money makes up for being too busy to enjoy life. You've given me a lot to think about and reflect on. Can't wait to see more.
I always wanted to trade crypto for a long time but the volatility in the price has been very confusing to me although I have watched many RUclips videos about it but I still find it hard to understand.
Take my advice ( don't trade )buy or hold for years then get retired. You don't want all the stress and crazyness involved in trading. Don't believe the is formula
Thank you so much for your story 🙏🏾 I’m a staff sergeant in the Air Force Active Duty & I became serious about my finances after getting into over $50K in debt. I was basically trying to keep up with the Jones. My prospective on money changed dramatically. Living within your means & saving $500-$1000 month is critical. Saving for retirement is critical. Owning a piece of real estate is critical. I’m currently 25 years old & I hope to be debt free by 30 ! I learned a valuable lesson !
@NJ he bought liabilities instead of investing and being financially intelligent. At least he realized and he is still young, you can recover being in debt at a young age compare to being older
Amazing. At the beginning of this video I was thinking $250K/ year is more money than I could ever imagine. After hearing your story, I'm thinking, that doesn't come close to what my time with my family is worth to me. Money shouldn't be the point, life is the point.
Perfectly said, no amount of money will get you your time back. Regrets make one so unhappy that all those fancy objects still can't take away the pain.
Wow! I’m so proud of you for figuring this out at such a young age when most people barely have the strength to make bold decisions like this in their 50s! You were brave to stay strong and listen to your instincts despite all the criticism from “colleagues” Who is laughing now?? Lol you GO girl! We appreciate you!
I grew up wanting to make an impact too on society. After over 30 years, I decided that enuff is enuff. The more I work with pple for people, the more I like my dog.
I know that almost noone can see to the heart of this argument, but I believe that passive income is one the major problems in our society. Income is truly never passive. Someone is actively creating that income. The person who is creating that income is also most likely getting much less that he/she created. Just because I'm stronger, tougher, and a better combatant than you doesn't mean that I should take advantage of you. The same should be said about income.
I love it how some people think they know what is best for you, and if you don't follow the path they chose, you're considered "less-than" in their eyes. Live and let live.
This is my second time listening to Erika. The first video was the interview she had with Shark Tank Barbara! I must say, after watching these two videos; this really made me feel so confident! Right now, I am at the verge of losing my “job”. At the same time my wife and I have started to start a business! Thank you for this! We are so ready to finally take control of lives!
Thank you Erika. You are already helping people like myself by sharing this testament. We're told that there is a certain way to live life and be successful, but at what cost? It's refreshing to hear the way you speak about challenges in the world. Keep up the great work. It's very inspiring and practical.
I know this video is a bit older but I am very sorry to hear this about your grandpa. I was once unable to take my kids to their great grandpa’s funeral because I was not allowed to leave work. I only made $15 an hour at that job but I had 3 kids to provide for 😞 I wish I could have left at that moment
You are young, pretty, inspirational, and your grandpa would've been proud of you if he knew you are such a capable person not only intellectually but also in dealing with difficult decisions in life.
You came up on my “Recommended” youtube search, I watched this video, and tears began to fall watching your video. I am not smart like you , but I understand coming from nothing and I’m still there, but I have hope that as I study and learn from you as well as others... I will make it. Thank you for sharing your “Why” to me💪🏾☝🏾👏🏾🙏🏾
I wanted to thank you for your comment. This made my day to read and I'm so happy that you could relate. I'm wishing you the very best in everything you do!
Inspiring! I’m 31 and happily retired from my job last year, built over $1 million in net worth.Just being smart and frugal with my money right now. A lot of Thanks to my parents for putting me forward to personal finances and investing earlier. I’m teaching my Husband the same lol.
This is an important offering. You traded an impressive paycheck for a life of purpose and meaning. I think that your grandfather would be proud that you have the courage to live your values. Thanks for your inspiring message.
I’m so happy to come across this video. I feel a lot of pressure to find my passion in a career, but I finally realized that I am doing exactly what I’ve wanted to do since I was a child. I’m a housewife/stay at home mom and I absolutely love it. I was very much a latch key kid and always wanted to have a sahm like my friends. It means everything to me that I can spend as much time with my son as possible, really know him and what’s going on in his life, know his friends, and have him know that he is incredibly loved, important, and absolutely the best thing that has ever happened to me. Thank you so much for speaking on your decision and your why ♥️
I was sooo mad when you said you never did take those extra hours with your grandpa like nothing would've stopped me tbh. But if through him passing is what gave you the courage to not waste and actually live then i'm sure he would've been proud knowing the final gift he was able to give you was the courage to live your life.
Really incredible story. Same things happened to me when I started my career in NYC. I missed the last chance with my grandfather due to work and I’ll regret it forever. Like you, I learned the lesson early and never let a company own me again. Thank you for sharing.
A professor of mine asked us to write something on the topic of courage. I walked up to him, handed him a sheet of my paper with only my name written on it, and went home. He gave me an A. Your story is powerful. I'm extremely happy you found your intent and purpose.
@@deandeck that's funny. Sincerely, I don't. Her testimony reminded of me courage and here we are :) Next time I retell this story will be to my baby son when the moment and opportunity presents themselves.. Have a blessed day.
Erika, that fact you accomplished law school & passed the bar exam is a feat to itself. I'm so glad you set your priorities (the value of time & family). Too many place their self worth on where they work & how much they earn, but forget that in exchange, the boss dictates their time leading to a poor quality of life with just paying more taxes & accomplishing someone or some entity (in your case, the Big law firm) goals. It takes a lot of courage to fly away from the flock, but all who accomplished their dreams dare to fly higher than the rest setting out their own destiny.
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Thank you for sharing Erika 🙏😇 It is very brave of you to share your heartbreak of losing your grandfather without being able to say goodbye 💔 And like others are saying on here, perhaps that’s what it took to save your life ❤️🩹 God works in mysterious ways ✝️ I know your grandfather is proud of you. You’re a true asset to society. Your videos are sooo informative, helpful and really fun! I love watching them 💖 Now that you’re on your own path and not working for those soul-less monsters anymore, you’re servicing people who actually appreciate you! 🤗 you are a gift 💝 Thank you for educating us with your wisdom, sharing your truth and inspiring others to assess what truly matters in this world 🌎 we love you!!! ❤️❤️
The best quote I have ever heard was "if you don't have your own plan, you are part of someone elses plan".
That hit hard son
What’s wrong with working for someone else
To be honest I don't think there's anything wrong in being part of someone else's plan, as long as you're aware of it and you've made that decision on your own
What's so bad about having no plan?
Wow. I envy your honesty and your courage. I am proud of your story.
"We don't buy things with money, we buy them with hours from our lives."
This is deeppp
That's how I price stuff. How many hours does this cost and how many hours is it worth?
Truth!!!
Truth 💯
Although, sometimes we buy things to save hours, too. I got a new mower and it's far more efficient than the one I got for free. The higher end paint and the 15 dollar Wooster cutting brushes help speed things up for me, too.
Higher quality tools get jobs done faster.
"I fear regret more than I fear Failure" - I just found your channel, thank you for being so inspiring!!
Yes, I love this quote. Powerful message.
Fear is:
False Evidence Appearing Real
99% will fail and will regret.
2 in 1 combo!
This hit so hard. We all fear of failure because of social stereotypes. But regret in life is more severe. We have to find our “why”, our values in this world, and our “me”.
Sorry to hear about your grandfather. I’m sorry you missed those last hours. Thank you for sharing such a personal story. It was very brave of you to be so authentic and real. You learned a powerful life lesson. You are more powerful than the people you left behind trapped and dying in their gilded corporate prison. I hope the money is truly worth it for them. You have saved your soul and the best years of your life while you’re still young. You kept to your values. I believe your grandfather would be so proud of you today. I wish you the very best in life.
It was your boss's error to find himself in the situation that he couldn't even let his associate visit a dying relative. What a failure as a lawyer, as a boss. What a failure as a human being.
But there are people that don't say no to this abusive behavior either. I am glad she did.
Yucky boss leave asap
Just proves the point that lawyers are bottom feeding lowlifes and they eat their young.
This is the only way of life that her boss knows. It's what he was taught by his bosses. He is only a cog in the machine, just like she was.
I wonder if she could have hired a paralegal to handle it?
The whole point of making money is to have freedom to do what you want in life. If you have to work every waking hour until the grave, it completely defeats the purpose.
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TRUE
Couldn't agree more
=slavery
I quit at 35 so I can spend more time with my husband, create memories, and focus on health. The day we paid off our house and became debt free that was it. You dont need millions to retire, invest but also focus on the now, because we dont know how much time we have. :)
That’s inspiring. Thanks. Advice on paying down a home?
@@Isabella-wo9bg yes, without IRAs we need 1700 to live comfortably here in the Midwest, we started going out to eat 1-2 times a weeks as a treat, we fund2 IRAs.. everything else is for whatever, possible bathroom renovation and may be going to the beach once a year, our son is 16 so we want to help him out with school as well
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I like this. Another way to retire w/o being an entrepreneur 👍
💯 debt and material things weigh you down and rob you of freedom
I worked for 2 Big 5 accountancy companies 20+ years ago as a tax lawyer. In short: horrible experience! 3 out of 5 of my room mates were burned out or were on medical leave and I remember saying goodbye to someone leaving the company almost on a weekly basis. Toxic, horrible work environment. But when you are young (20's/ 30's) you think that you have to "sell" yourself to get ahead, which is not true at all. Currently, I have my own small law firm. I help people, and I am appreciated. And I make enough money to buy my first home.
If more people realized this than those caught up in chasing their next elitist fix, the whole world would be a much better place.
whoa...can we chat? I just left big 4/tax law life. I'm happy to hear there is life after hell.
Good on you, this is what my partner is pursuing as a lawyer - to be in a position to help people who need it.
@@hayleynhassanCan you tell me ab tax law?
@@TheNamesFarquaad it’s like the wizard of oz
For those of us in the legal world, this woman is a gem. Seriously. It's hard to explain what's she's been through without seeing it first hand, but this woman has worked countless hours to achieve a dream then had the balls to quit that job and pursue her own path. May her Grandfather Rest in Peace, I'm sure he's proud of her. And may she live in regret no longer.
My grandmother passed away and I missed out on the last few hours with her because of work... I empathize so much. Thank you for having the courage to share this. It helps me with my regret too. Your story is priceless to me 💞
You said it perfectly :as a lawyer who has been lucky enough to work laterally from the profession I can so appreciate this lady's sentiments. Lawyers tragically are slaves not to money but to status. Just tell any fellow lawyer 'if I had a chance to work for double the. Money as a bin man I would happily do so and watch their face'. I deploy this statement and instantly discover so much. The longer one stays in lawyer the more disappointed and regretful kindred spirits one meets.
A Quarter of a MILLION DOLLARS in a YEAR!!! Shut the FU@% up! When was the last time you gave your Maid a raise and tipped tour Barista!? Cry me a River! 60% of Americans live on $50k a Year! 50% under 30k! Get over yourselves!
Folks, it's an elitist attitude to think that only lawyers trade their time for money. That has become the "American dream" - the small business owner is rare. The majority of us work for corporations where we're just a number and if we don't like the 'abuse' well, don't let the door hit you in the a** on your way out.
@@timothyoherlihy5391 Folks, it's an elitist attitude to think that only lawyers trade their time for money. That has become the "American dream" - the small business owner is rare. The majority of us work for corporations where we're just a number and if we don't like the 'abuse' well, don't let the door hit you in the a** on your way out.
“We have two lives, and the second begins when we realize we only have one.” - Confucius
Stay Based
❤️!!!
Deep!! I love it
Read this daily.
Wow!!!!!!!!
This is SO true. Thanks for sharing
Your boss wasn't worth knowing. At least you figured this out young, I'm sure your grandpa would be proud.
I quit a highly coveted job when I was 40, I’m 56 now and never regretted my decision. If I die tomorrow, I would be proud that I chose to have less money and more time to help others in the most meaningful way to me. So happy you made the choice and that you posted this VDO. ❤ from 🇹🇭
"I fear regret more than I fear failure".
As an aspiring artist these words hit hard. Thanks for the video! Liked and subbed :)
The words that changed my life direction were "Money is the drug they give you to forget your dreams". That hit me like a gut punch and motivated me to start my own business.
I love this 💕I wish you nothing but success.
This was one of changing quotes in my life too
@@mckell38 should be *salary :)
@@WanderlustingCouple yes and salary to follow lifestyle. Thanks for your advice im useing help like yours to plan and start a auto restortion business 👍
@@mckell38 All the best to you, Cheers!!! :)
Worker: Your car is beautiful.
Boss: If you're determined and work hard for 5 years, I will buy me another one.
Sooo true!
it's all illusion. if i can't happily earn enough to buy a beautiful car, then that beautiful is not worth my happiness. i can only work pass 60 hours a week on condition that my work is part of my happiness.
Bitter truth
YOU, will buy me another one.
Hilarious….
Hi. I'm a 58-year old man who has been working everyday for the last 15 years. And this video has opened my eyes. I don't want to have regret. Thank you for so much for sharing your story. You can add another one to the thousand you have helped. You are so strong and amazing. Thank you so much
“If you don’t build your dreams then someone else will hire you to build theirs.”
“No amount of money, ever bought a second of time” - Howard Stark
I cried watching this. Biglaw shed off years of my health and I still shudder at the thought of how soul crushing that toxic environment is. Thank you for sharing your story and congratulations for taking back your time and your life.
I'm sorry for making you cry :( It sounds like you've taken your life back in your hands now. I'm proud of you!
Amen. What are you doing now?
Soul crushing.
Perfectly said!
Lesson number one. NEVER work for corporations..
Such a great message! Love the video.
Investing in alternative income streams that are independent of the government should be the top priority for everyone right now. especially given the global economic crisis we are currently experiencing. Stocks, gold, silver, and virtual currencies are still attractive investments at the moment.
Big moving stochastics are not the secret to high returns. It involves controlling risk in relation to reward. Putting on the proper size and spinning your edge as many times as required to achieve your objective. That is valid for both day trading and long-term investments......
@@AstaKristjan I've been able to scale from $50K to $189k in this red season because my Financial Advisor figured out Defensive strategies which help portfolios be less vulnerable to market downturns.
@@IrenaDolinsek Who is your financial coach, do you mind hooking me up?
@@simonbad I happen to know Michelle Christine Parker, She has been my fin coach since 2018, no major losses has been recorded. Totally recommend her too.
@@IrenaDolinsek Oh found her! Looked up her full name and she was my top search. Thank you for this! Really appreciate.
I am not a lawyer, but a doctor. I see this in my profession all the time, too. Somehow hard work and long hours are truly glamorized, you're totally right. I only took one week off of work when my youngest daughter was born--simply to prove I was as hardworking and tough as the men I worked with. I "quit" shortly after. I now work less than 30 hours a week in my own private practice. Much less pay for MUCH MORE FREEDOM and HAPPINESS! Thanks for this video.
Hi Amy, thank you so much for sharing! I'm so sorry to hear this but happy that you have your own practice now - congratulations! It's true. I can't remember if I mentioned it in the video, but I think a lot of the pressure I put on myself was to prove that I was equal to the men.
Hi Amy! I am interested in pursuing a career in medicine. May I ask what specialty you are in?
@@deutercoyg I’m board certified in anesthesia, but I now practice lifestyle medicine specializing in hormones and sexual health.
@@amygarza1571 sorry to hijack this convo but I also have a question. I am thinking about med school as well and anesthesia was something of interest. Would you recommend it?
@@amygarza1571 Really inspiring Amy. How long were you a practicing doctor before you started your own practice?
Money can be replaced. Time with your family/relative/friends can never be replaced.
👏👏👏🙏🙌👍
But all my friends are dead.
@@undeadblizzard Make new ones!
Money can also buy you more time with friends/family!
.when I decided to go to college I decided to stay local for my grandparents (they raised me). I passed on Berkeley because it was too far from me. I was a low income student and my grandparents didn’t speak english. On my second year of college grandma had a heart attack and we managed to help her. She had a slip next year and broke her hip and I was able to help her there as well. I took a job as a teacher for stability and soon after my grandpa had a stroke. I was able to help him as well. I will never regret staying close to them because it bought me more time with them. At the end of the day, no matter how much I was able to help them, it pales in comparison to the life they gave me. I needed them more than they ever needed me. Thank you for sharing your story!
Thank you for sharing yours! I’m so happy for you and I’m sure your grandparents are very proud ❤️
Almost cried. This is beautiful.
WOW! Totally respect you!
This made me cry! Albert, you are an awesome grandchild. I am sure your grandparents are proud of you. Thank you for sharing your story.
Thanks for sharing your story. So moving and wonderful grandchild you are.
This is one of the most inspirational stories I've heard. You're helping people just by doing this video.
Her story is another example of why I hate when people say rich and successful people "just got lucky."
$250k sounded like a large annual salary, until you said that it meant 100+ hours per week.
I felt the same way. Even Working for 40 hrs a week for $60k used to make me feel trapped.
...100+ hrs a week??? Hell no...omfg!!! so most all of that 250k is ot money.
Not to mention the government takes about 65-75% of that in income tax and social security
@@mg-by7uu 65% is ridiculously exaggerating
Ahh thats the catch. Wow. If 40-50 hrs, thatd be better.
I quit my job 8 years ago. I come to the conclusion that time is very valuable and we don’t have a lot of it. I have friends that has a bit of a superior complex because they went to the traditional route. They went to college and got multiple degrees and work for corporate America. They are so proud about bringing work home that they post about it. Lol! My husband and I went the non traditional route. No college. But I we are so happy with multiple stream of income/ passive income. I get to stay home and raise our kids. My husband only works 20-30 hours a week. We have the freedom of time to go out and enjoy nature and the world. We try to see as many states and country as possible.
May I ask what kind of passive income you have?
How do you get money to survive?
Inquiring minds would like to know how
Guess we're just gonna be left hanging on what they do 😂
@@Victoria-eo1xp fr
Probably one of the best personal positioning statements I've ever seen. Way to speak your truth with courage, integrity, and honor, Erika. I have no doubt your Grandpa is extremely proud of you.
It’s never enough and it is never appreciated. The loyalty is not reciprocated. I’ve heard the saying that if you are not building your dream that you are building someone else’s. True. Pace yourself. Save some of that time and energy for your own pursuits and building your own financial freedom. Erika is a gem and her message is so true!
Nobody on their death bed ever said "I wish I just could've got in a few more billable hours"
Please don’t delete this video! I think this message is something people hear a lot but can’t hear enough. No B-rolls or over-use of fancy typography to keep your audience visually entertained - just a simple face-to-face message with your moving story because the topic matter is so relevant to so many people that a sit down is all it needed.
P.S. I’m sorry to hear about your loss and regret. It’s heartbreaking to hear how your boss (likely being puppeteered by his own boss) handled the situation knowing damn well that if he were on his deathbed, he’d want his family to visit. I hope you find peace in what you’re doing now and what a great way to honor your grandpa’s memory ❤️
I just quit my job. They announced it to my team today too. Feels unbelievable. Freedom. Weight off my shoulders like no other
It feels great the first week... Not so much later.
How are you doing?
He is probably bored depressed and hating that he quit.
@@msnzbody3712 bad mindset
@@msnzbody3712 bad mindset
We read news in the media that doom and gloom is coming and we just accept it, doom and gloom doesn’t always have to be coming, I’ve read numerous success stories of people that are pulling off tremendous gains of up to $250K within weeks in this crazy market and I just want to learn how to achieve such figures.
Since the crash, I've been in the red. I’m playing the long term game, so I'm not too worried but Jim Cramer mentioned there are still a lot of great opportunities, though stocks has been down a lot. I also heard news of a guy that made $250k from about $110k since the crash and I would really look to know how to go about this.
There are actually a lot of ways to make high yields in a crisis, but such trades are best done under the supervision of Financial advisor.
Exactly why i enjoy market decisions being guided by a pro , seeing that their entire skillset is built around going long and short at the same time both employing risk management and market experience , been using a portfolio-coach for over 2years+ and I've netted over $3million in that time frame.
Impressive can you share more info?
Credits to 'Carol Vivian Constable' she has a web presence, so you can simply
This description of Biglaw is absolutely uncanny. It is not only the norm that you will sacrifice your own health and relationships in order to clock as many billables as possible, it is the expectation. There is no such thing as a family emergency, a holiday, a vacation, or a weekend. There are certainly outliers who are willing to make those sacrifices or manage to end up on a unicorn team, but I have yet to meet a lawyer who regretted quitting their Biglaw job. Best night of sleep I ever got was right after I put in my two weeks' notice.
Great work, Erika!
Thank you Blake!
This resonates with me and my experience in medicine. I went to medical school in my 30's, didn't come from a well off background, and worked extremely hard to become a doctor because I wanted to help people. I graduated during the pandemic, and believe it or not I found myself feeling morally drained and that clear vision of helping people in the way I envisioned became so much murkier. I am not sure what I want to do with my career at this point. I really appreciate you sharing your story, thank you!
I wonder how many people spend years and a ton of debt to get into a profession....only to question what they actually got into. It's sad. But how can you prevent it?
Hang in there. We need you.
@@johncollado3610 Thank you!
Congratulations! And all the best, hang in there!
come to the UK & work in the NHS. I am serious. pick an area and ring the local hospital. I don't know what training is involved but they'd be able to tell you....
*”Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is to relax.”*
-Mark Black
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Amen
yep, that's when i do all of my best thinking!
Absolutely!
Investing in alternative income streams that are independent of the government should be the top priority for everyone right now. especially given the global economic crisis we are currently experiencing. Stocks, gold, silver, and virtual currencies are still attractive investments at the moment...
This seems like the worst period.Even the markets are very unpredictable.started investing recently when the market prices were a bit high,today i am more than 60% down
I started investing about 2 years ago. But with the way things are going, I honestly do not see my self making a million box anytime soon. I trade on stocks but my profit and loss margin are grossly miles apart
It's a delicate season now, so you can do little or nothing on your own
The best course of action if you lack ma-rket knowledge is to ask a consultant or invest-ing co-ach for guidance or assistance. Speaking with a con-sultant helped me stay afloat in the market and grow my port-folio to about 65% since January, even though I know it sounds obvious or generic. I believe that is the most effective way to enter the business at the moment.
Fantastic! can u share more details?
I worked at Microsoft and was on call when my father passed away back home .. I can feel your pain and lover your why
I'm so sorry for your loss
I'm so sorry!!! I feel your pain. 😭
"I fear regret more than I fear failure" - this is the true path to finding fulfilment. Success is inevitable if you keep working and learning from your failures. But lost time is lost forever.
You are so brave and inspiring! Wish you the very best ❤️
Well said! Thank you so much!
Not really you shouldn't fear anything since you should act so you don't leave regrets and failure is just a process to success no one can achieve success without failures along the way but no one talks about the failures usually only the achievements and success. That is why having your own job is the best, since working for someone means they own you for that amount of time to do a certain task. In reality we haven't changed from the slave system, it is a system with make up so people can't tell they are just slaves to it.
Regret is an awful thing
"Regret implies you had the opportunity to do something differently but you choose not to." That really resonates. Congratulations on getting your priorities straight, and more importantly finding the courage to believe in yourself. Nice video!
No matter what we do, we will regret not doing the other thing and taking the alternate path.
Think carefully before we make a serious decision and find peace in the decision we have made
Erika, Great story. I also have a son who was in Big Law in DC. I was very proud of him when he landed this big law job but I am even more proud of him when he had the courage to walk away from a multi 6 figure salary to follow his passion. I know that most immigrant Asian parents push their kids to succeed at all cost but as an immigrant parent myself I can say that there is nothing more important than health and happiness for your kids.
Thank you so much for publishing this video! There’s nothing worse than being controlled. Feeling like someone else owns your time is a horrible feeling when you simply need an inch
You're the best!!
I agree. I really enjoyed this video.
Tell me about it I just started working at a bank and it’s sucks I’m basically babysitting rich peoples money
Dude, she is a attorney. More or less she has more options. Don’t have this attitude if you are not in this caliber, you will be hungry and jobless.
@@BabyGirlRavenHahahaha this is so true @melissa
Your grandpa would be proud that you learned this lesson and now have a fulfilled life. ❤
Look what your grandpa did for you. He loved you and believed in you so much that his spirit catapulted you to become the real you! Beautiful.
That is the same thing I thought... he liberated her before he transitioned.
I felt the same way. 😭
Your grampa would be so proud of you and how much you're positively impacting a lot of people in need!! You have no idea how much this video touched me. I needed to hear this kind of message today. Thank you !
“I fear regret more that failure” wow. I felt this so deeply. That line alone answers how I’ve been feeling about “living my life” without the guilt of not being too accessible and forgetting me.
Whenever I feel guilty about being off from work I tell myself this "No one ever lies on their death bed and says "Gee I wish I worked more!"
Me to!
Thank you for this
My wife would she's a workaholic lol
lol right
@@tonyasanders6927 to where?
“20 years from now you’ll be disappointed by the things you didn’t do than the ones you did do” - Mark Twain.
The quote made me decide to pursue financial freedom.
You are absolutely correct for walking away. When we sign on to our high paying jobs, we work for blood money. Our freedom to do what we want to do, what we need to do for our souls is more important than the money we make realizing someone else's bidding.
From being unemployed to actually deciding not to take a 9-5 job, it has been more than a year now, I have never learnt so fast in life, the motivation is real. my body has never felt better
If you don't mind sir, what are you doing now?
@@volarex5311 hes homeless. jk
Lmao
I am now trading futures and stocks at home, at the same time, I am also a freelance PR consultant for different companies.
@@DaiXuan-i7p what's trading futures?
It took me 40 years to realize these things. But, it's better late than never! As a dad, though....your dad is going to be proud of you no matter what you do. When we're young, we worry about what others thinks, but now I'm older and a dad, i don't care what anyone thinks. It really has freed me from so much and allowed me to grow personally and financially.
Agreed😊
I'm a corporate lawyer and I've been planning to quit my job in a few weeks to do RUclips full-time! Thanks SO much for being courageous in sharing your story and helping me realize that I'm not alone :) Congrats on remembering your "why" and building a life you're proud of!
I believe in you!
@@tristanshaffer4151 your timing is impeccable. Can't thank you enough for this right now, Tristan! ☺️
Yes! Happy you’re listening to your heart’s desires! The universe is with you no matter what! ❤️🍀😎☀️
@@ettab.7838 Thanks Etta!!! ☺️ I'm so grateful for your kindness and for the number of signs I'm receiving from the Universe telling me to do this 🥰 You're a wonderful person and I wish you so much happiness and fulfillment! 🙌 Whatever you're going through, you got this! 😎
Goodluck on your journey. I am going to sub.
Thank you for sharing this personal story. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Your perspective on labor is refreshing. As broke as I am, I always put myself and family before corps I work for, and people call me "spoiled" or "lazy" for it, but stories like this let me know that I'm making the right decision. Your channel is so empowering and valuable. Thank you!
We become “golden handcuffed” is the most useful expression I heard this year. Thank you, Erika, you’re absolutely right.
Your biggest regret turned into your biggest opportunity. None of this would’ve happened if that one “no” from your boss had never happened. I’m sure your grandpa is/would be very happy to know how your life is better because of your love for him and how it changed the course of your life.
It’s hard that she missed that time with beloved grandpa - can’t get those special moments back! I don’t think the opportunity was the reason! I would say it was the aha moment that was the biggest gain - is her eyes were opened! Many opportunities will come still…! 🙏
That's why money is temporary, time is permanent. Young people should follow their dream, Money will follow them.
Time is also temporary...
How is time permanent?
Like hell XD 🥴
@@phylisiadaley5995 maybe he’s immortal?
Idk what my dream is anymore I feel lost
A 100 hours a week is not a 250K a year job. Effectively you're making the same as a UPS worker. When you calculate the actual hourly rate you're working, it hits home.
😂😂😂 it IS a 250k a year job! It may not be that great but doesn't mean she's not making that per year. Also that would be about $48 an hour. UPS drivers make about $15 an hour.
@@SherrieHatch07 my metric is what do you earn for 40 hours a week. Overtime should not be included.
@@deejames9380 😵💫
I work in the medical field. I feel your pain. This is what I learned. If you don't chase your dreams, someone else will use you to chase theirs. I am so sorry about your lost. Wishing you the best
Thank you for sharing! I love that - "If you don't chase your dreams, someone else will use you to chase theirs."
So true 🙌🏽
I wish I knew what my dream was.
@@apeacefulmcadory1627 this is real thing that no one talks about
Totally agree! I came to that same revelation &: quit working after retirement. I realized I was helping others to retire instead of following my dreams.
The fear of running out of money, having to go back to work, and hearing folks say “I told you so”. This is a real thing! Sheesh.
Thats why passive income and being debt free and minimalism means freedom
yup. Quit our jobs and selling house....not going back to that.
Idk what to do for a living besides work that's the only thing
Quitting sometimes leads one to a much higher level. Just like when I quit my high paying position in order to take care of my mother who was hospitalized and was put into ICU. Guess what, when she was discharged and has fully recovered we were able to improve our family business and I was able to do multiple side hustles that enabled me to earn more than the job which I left.
They keyword is "sometimes". There are no guarantees that simply going for it will lead to success. Afterall, there are many unsuccessful businesses. However, if you think you can fly, then there is a possibility that you can, so you owe it to yourself to at least try. If you fail, pat yourself on the back and acknowledge the fact that you got further than most people, because most people aren't willing to try due to the fear of failure.
Thank you for sharing! ☺
Such an important message and delivered so authentically. Got a bit emotional watching this - I'm sure your grandpa is super proud of the bold actions you've taken and I'm very happy for you. Thank you for sharing your story 🙏
I was working on a project once and a team member of ours commuted in weekly from another city. His young son got really sick and was hospitalized. He asked his boss if he could fly back home and work from home so he could be close to his son... Our boss said to him "Is he really that sick?" and did not allow him to go home...
That's when you need to contemplate and start making life changing decisions.
Your grandpa would be so proud! You're inspiring people like me to quit our jobs and satisfy that hunger to use our skills and knowledge to support others and their dreams. 💛
Umm she could’ve actually quit and not been a baby and seen her grandpa
Sooooooo
He'd be proud that she didn't say no to her boss so that she could come spend the last hours of his life with him? No I don't think so in fact I think that this young woman is terrible and has terrible morals and that her misplaced loyalty to her job instead of her dying relative is one of the worst things I've ever heard
@@trinitywright7122 her grandfather would be super proud of her accomplishments, because if he can see her right now, she is what every parent would like to see in there children. She is smart, strong and overall very self centered in what she needs to donin her life. If i was her father i would applaud her all the way, and tell her she did an amazing job. You became better than me and that what it is all anout being better thAn your parents not like your parents. “Everything has a sacrifice in life for you to be able to conquer what the future holds for you.” Fear is your biggest enemy, if she would have stopped and turned the other way she would have seen her grandfather and lost her opportunity of a lifetime and her grandfather still would have passed away. I believe her grandfather would be really lroud of her. Im proud of her, and i dint even know her 🤷🏻♂️.
Grace. We all get to give ourselves grace. There are learning moments in life where we do something that we realize afterward didn’t work. This is how we grow. Thank you Erika for the courage you had in sharing your story with us. 💕
Your grandpa is looking down on you smiling and proud of who you've become.
true
How he can look at her when he is dead
AMEN!!!
this comment had me crying a min :)
I love your story Erika and your message. I came from nothing and now I’m a doctor and own assets. A lot of my colleagues work for private companies or work abroad for lots more money. I choose to work in the NHS and serve the community. Be your why and stay human ❤
"Two things that reveals alot about someone, Their patience when they have nothing and their attitude when they have everything."
So deep and true. Who said that?
@@OrganicFreedom wasnt something I came up with, it's a quote I read one day when noticed a calendar in a house I was putting a hardwood floor in and that saying stuck with me all these years after
As a young gambler I related with this quote and applied it to my life often lol.
@@camrendavis4268 Thank you for sharing, Camren.
@@camrendavis4268 I didn’t expect that gambling part 😂
Your story is close to my heart. I lost my grandpa, too, under the same circumstances in medical residency. I carry that regret that I prioritized other patients dying over my own grandfather. It’s a pain of medicine that most people will never understand about doctors. We sacrifice for others, but need to know when to prioritize ourselves, so that we can continue to outpour our souls in our work.
Originally came across this video earlier in the year when I (Em) was thinking about when I should quit my Big Law job. I found it extremely reassuring to hear you talk about issues like complacency and the pressure of doing what society wants you to do, all of which had been weighing on my mind. But what resonated with me the most was hearing you talk about fearing regret more than fearing failure - when you said that, I think that was the first time I consciously realized that I also felt that way. It helped give me the courage to finally quit my Big Law job to pursue something I'm more passionate about, and now that I'm out, I had to come back and comment to say thank you for sharing your story!!
Congratulations Em! I'm so proud of you and I'm sure you won't regret your decision.
@@Erika2 Thanks so much Erika, that means a lot! I'm sure I won't regret my decision either :)
Making the first 100k has been a marathon, I am 26 and at 75k mark, No useless spending, no vacations, just work, save and most importantly invest, thanks to my fiduciary Mr Arlto Eric, I am blessed and I believe I will keep been blessed
Amazing. great path to make and retain money, please share your fiduciary link for me
I stopped believing in anything a long time ago, I have had to stand and fight for myself and family but 75k at 26 years is quite a milestone so cheers
Arltoeric that's his gmai okay
Thank you for your response
I just mailed mr Eric now for assistance starting investments
Trading living life for wealth. Odd how many take this path.
When you said “I fear regret more than I deal failure” I felt that on a personal level. I’ve been working so hard to push myself out of my comfort zone because I never want to regret not accomplish my goals!
Sorry to hear you missed out on those final moments with your Grandpa. In retrospect, you've learnt to value your time over money which will guide your priorities moving forward. Your Grandpa would be proud.
Yep...I ahree
So needed to hear this Erika! I am nurse who had to step away from the bedside when my husband almost lost his life in 2021 due to illness! We are in our 20s and our lives were turned upside down. Everyone told it wasn’t possible, but I found a remote job that allows me to stay home with my husband and still grow as a nurse. Now I share our story on RUclips and through our podcast. We can do anything we set our minds to, specially when it’s all about helping others!
I found this video in a roundabout way, just as I was questioning my decision to take a promotion for a job I don't even like. I felt a lot of pressure to accept because it was "the next logical step" and now I'm miserable. No amount of money makes up for being too busy to enjoy life. You've given me a lot to think about and reflect on. Can't wait to see more.
We work for years to have , $1million while some people I know put thousand of dollars in some meme coins and they are millionaires.
I always wanted to trade crypto for a long time but the volatility in the price has been very confusing to me although I have watched many RUclips videos about it but I still find it hard to understand.
How? I know it's possible, I would appreciate if you show me how to go about it
@WalterNRoark .Big pump's to you what a step you took. Please any recommendation from you! Need to start somewhere.
@WalterNRoark .I will definitely try to reach her through. I can't wait to become rich if all this about her is absolutely true
Take my advice ( don't trade )buy or hold for years then get retired. You don't want all the stress and crazyness involved in trading. Don't believe the is formula
Thank you so much for your story 🙏🏾 I’m a staff sergeant in the Air Force Active Duty & I became serious about my finances after getting into over $50K in debt. I was basically trying to keep up with the Jones. My prospective on money changed dramatically. Living within your means & saving $500-$1000 month is critical. Saving for retirement is critical. Owning a piece of real estate is critical. I’m currently 25 years old & I hope to be debt free by 30 ! I learned a valuable lesson !
@NJ he bought liabilities instead of investing and being financially intelligent.
At least he realized and he is still young, you can recover being in debt at a young age compare to being older
Bravo!! And thank you for your service!
Amazing. At the beginning of this video I was thinking $250K/ year is more money than I could ever imagine. After hearing your story, I'm thinking, that doesn't come close to what my time with my family is worth to me. Money shouldn't be the point, life is the point.
Nice comment
Dyor trust no one passive income is power
Perfectly said, no amount of money will get you your time back. Regrets make one so unhappy that all those fancy objects still can't take away the pain.
Wow! I’m so proud of you for figuring this out at such a young age when most people barely have the strength to make bold decisions like this in their 50s!
You were brave to stay strong and listen to your instincts despite all the criticism from “colleagues”
Who is laughing now?? Lol you GO girl! We appreciate you!
I grew up wanting to make an impact too on society. After over 30 years, I decided that enuff is enuff. The more I work with pple for people, the more I like my dog.
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How true
This is so true.
Passive income had such a dramatic impact on my life. Earning passive income has helped my family reach so many goals.
I know that almost noone can see to the heart of this argument, but I believe that passive income is one the major problems in our society. Income is truly never passive. Someone is actively creating that income. The person who is creating that income is also most likely getting much less that he/she created. Just because I'm stronger, tougher, and a better combatant than you doesn't mean that I should take advantage of you. The same should be said about income.
What are your passive income? If you don’t mind, can you share? 😅
@@kenstar3692 if I write a book and I get royalties from it for the rest of my life, who am I taking advantage of?
@A Z you forgot the business and royalty income though. 😅
I love it how some people think they know what is best for you, and if you don't follow the path they chose, you're considered "less-than" in their eyes. Live and let live.
This is my second time listening to Erika. The first video was the interview she had with Shark Tank Barbara! I must say, after watching these two videos; this really made me feel so confident! Right now, I am at the verge of losing my “job”. At the same time my wife and I have started to start a business! Thank you for this! We are so ready to finally take control of lives!
when you die, your money won't miss you or cry for you regardless if it's $10 or $10 million.
Impossible lesson to convey
Must be experienced
"I'm more afraid of regret than of failing" strong words.
Thank you Erika. You are already helping people like myself by sharing this testament. We're told that there is a certain way to live life and be successful, but at what cost? It's refreshing to hear the way you speak about challenges in the world. Keep up the great work. It's very inspiring and practical.
I know this video is a bit older but I am very sorry to hear this about your grandpa. I was once unable to take my kids to their great grandpa’s funeral because I was not allowed to leave work. I only made $15 an hour at that job but I had 3 kids to provide for 😞 I wish I could have left at that moment
You are young, pretty, inspirational, and your grandpa would've been proud of you if he knew you are such a capable person not only intellectually but also in dealing with difficult decisions in life.
I’m a consultant and I flat out refuse to work beyond my hours without compensation. This or the highway.
I completely agree with you, what is your specialty?
@@Love-zh5ow influencer
Wow! This has never been my reality.
@@praveensg what kind of influencer?
How do you get people to pay you on time? I want to do a consulting job but I'm not sure were to start
This brought tears to my eyes. Beautiful message. Thank you, Erika.
Me too.😢 I needed this encouragement. Thanks Erika.😊
You came up on my “Recommended” youtube search, I watched this video, and tears began to fall watching your video. I am not smart like you , but I understand coming from nothing and I’m still there, but I have hope that as I study and learn from you as well as others... I will make it. Thank you for sharing your “Why” to me💪🏾☝🏾👏🏾🙏🏾
I wanted to thank you for your comment. This made my day to read and I'm so happy that you could relate. I'm wishing you the very best in everything you do!
Inspiring! I’m 31 and happily retired from my job last year, built over $1 million in net worth.Just being smart and frugal with my money right now. A lot of Thanks to my parents for putting me forward to personal finances and investing earlier. I’m teaching my Husband the same lol.
The key is building passive income! Congrats to you and your parents 👏
Big Congratulations to you!
@@yvonneerik2510 Thanks 💕
@@michelle-rose I’m just starting out to improve my finances. Great seeing this video!
Share some tips too
Simple steps; cut your expenses and grow more income.(passive income), save and invest
That feeling when you quit a toxic job is pure bliss.
"The only thing we have to fear is fear itself." - Franklin D. Roosevelt
100%
This is an important offering. You traded an impressive paycheck for a life of purpose and meaning. I think that your grandfather would be proud that you have the courage to live your values. Thanks for your inspiring message.
I’m so happy to come across this video. I feel a lot of pressure to find my passion in a career, but I finally realized that I am doing exactly what I’ve wanted to do since I was a child. I’m a housewife/stay at home mom and I absolutely love it. I was very much a latch key kid and always wanted to have a sahm like my friends. It means everything to me that I can spend as much time with my son as possible, really know him and what’s going on in his life, know his friends, and have him know that he is incredibly loved, important, and absolutely the best thing that has ever happened to me.
Thank you so much for speaking on your decision and your why ♥️
I was sooo mad when you said you never did take those extra hours with your grandpa like nothing would've stopped me tbh. But if through him passing is what gave you the courage to not waste and actually live then i'm sure he would've been proud knowing the final gift he was able to give you was the courage to live your life.
Man I felt the same way! And her grandpa passing, was indeed his last gift. :)
Damn
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Very well said
hey, i'm not your grandpop or dad, but I am definitely very proud of you for taking things in your own hands. AWESOME
Really incredible story. Same things happened to me when I started my career in NYC. I missed the last chance with my grandfather due to work and I’ll regret it forever. Like you, I learned the lesson early and never let a company own me again. Thank you for sharing.
A professor of mine asked us to write something on the topic of courage. I walked up to him, handed him a sheet of my paper with only my name written on it, and went home. He gave me an A.
Your story is powerful. I'm extremely happy you found your intent and purpose.
Wait...wHaT.....
Is it for real :?
@@mantosh56 yeah UCIrvine circa 1998.
@@salvatrooch6537 Damn...he was a one of a kind teacher for actually doing that!!!
Hope that teachers doing well...and same wishes to U too :)
@@mantosh56 yeah Dr. Rosenbloom is doing well. Him and his wife came to my wedding. Take risks , my friend . Blessings from Southern California.
@@deandeck that's funny. Sincerely, I don't. Her testimony reminded of me courage and here we are :) Next time I retell this story will be to my baby son when the moment and opportunity presents themselves.. Have a blessed day.
Erika, that fact you accomplished law school & passed the bar exam is a feat to itself. I'm so glad you set your priorities (the value of time & family). Too many place their self worth on where they work & how much they earn, but forget that in exchange, the boss dictates their time leading to a poor quality of life with just paying more taxes & accomplishing someone or some entity (in your case, the Big law firm) goals. It takes a lot of courage to fly away from the flock, but all who accomplished their dreams dare to fly higher than the rest setting out their own destiny.
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This is the best video you have ever made! Great job. I don’t know you but I’m very happy for you. Congratulations
Your videos have meant the world to me in my life. You're a game changer. Happy New Year to you. ❤️
Good health prosperity peace for you 2021 Erika thank you
Thank you for the well wishes in the upcoming year. All the very best to you and yours in 2021 as well.
Thank you Erika! 😁🙏
Thank you for sharing Erika 🙏😇
It is very brave of you to share your heartbreak of losing your grandfather without being able to say goodbye 💔 And like others are saying on here, perhaps that’s what it took to save your life ❤️🩹 God works in mysterious ways ✝️
I know your grandfather is proud of you. You’re a true asset to society. Your videos are sooo informative, helpful and really fun! I love watching them 💖
Now that you’re on your own path and not working for those soul-less monsters anymore, you’re servicing people who actually appreciate you! 🤗 you are a gift 💝
Thank you for educating us with your wisdom, sharing your truth and inspiring others to assess what truly matters in this world 🌎 we love you!!! ❤️❤️