You’re right, yesterday I found a comment from a lady stating, “I want a Godly man.” When I visited her page she has a playlist with the name “Secular Music.” By the videos alone she was not lying being secular music. Came back to her comment and wrote, “You need to align yourself with God. ‘Seek first the kingdom of God and His Justice, everything else will fall in their place.’ By listening that type of music you’re opening a portal for Satan and his demons into your life.” Let’s hope she does what she needs to do to accomplish anything on God’s name and honor.
You don’t need to be with someone that is far ahead of you on the spiritual path, but rather someone that is willing to go to the fullest length on that path with you.
My wife is a third generation preacher's kid, very pure in heart. I was a druggie hippy when I met her. As a five year old she prayed that God would give her a husband that was a preacher. I got saved her in her parents church, married her. 48 yrs of marriage, 35 yrs starting a church and pastoring it together! God used her to heal my broken heart and together we have touched many lives for Christ! Think about it!
Only God! 🙌🙏 Thank you for this wonderful testimony of God's grace and mercy. Does not matter the person, God knows the heart and the plans and purpose for each of us. We just have to trust our Heavenly Father. He loves us. ❤
You girls are doing great. I would love to meet you guys physically. I'm a Nigerian, from Plateau State. I'm single and seriously trusting God for a wife for many years now. I have a dream to relocate to the United States of America one day. I'm a Medical Laboratory Scientist. Currently doing my master's in a field of Medical Laboratory Science and trusting God to prepare and write the American Society of Clinical Pathology international (ASCPi) examination to enable me secure a job in the United States of America and relocate. If or when I relocate, I will love to meet with you guys. Thank you and God bless!
My wife and I both had our own list of what we wanted in a spouse and God laughed at us both and none of what we were looking for was on either of our lists besides being a Christian. You may THINK you know what you want but just listen and watch to what God has for in store for you and you’ll TRULY be blessed by it. Just make sure you’re both equally yoked and they love God more then anything else and then pray about it, He’ll let you know!
Beautiful that you get this respons from GOD. I work with him, live with him, laugh with him, enjoy his eternal presence and protection and be still amazed and wondering how the whole creation of our world and dimensions is constructed, so genius, wisely, creative, beautiful, loving, connected and intertwined. And everyone's world is also a Mirow of them self. As inside so outside. So make peace and love to and with everyone and everything, because it's all you. And there is no hierarchy. Nobody is more or less. Even GOD says this, because every piece and everyone is part of him or of you. There is only you or GOD. Only the identification with your ego makes it difficult to comprehend this truth and live it. That takes time. That's the reason why Jesus said: "The father and I are one"! We are all one. Pieces Consciousness on the way to "know" not believing, no to know it, that we are all one and that kind of Consciousness is Christ-Conciousness. Knowing that all is one. We are pieces of GOD but at the same time we are all, what we can experience in different ways. But when you don't know it yet than takes it also the necessary time to integrate this truth, to live it, to express it more and more with every encounter. How do you love your home, your neighbor, your Government, other countries like Russia, how do you interact with all animals and nature to give your love is more easy but all parts? Every moment. Being grateful to the air, to the sun and moon and so on, these are all area's where we can develop and express our Love and ONENESS. We are all on the way to become fully the unconditional true Love that we truly are. GOD bless you all and I love you all too.
This. Thank God it was His way and not mine, because my husband went from drug addict to pastor and I’m glad I didn’t tell God “no this isn’t good enough for me. He has to be perfect first “
@@cameocaprice7366 Absolutely. I think it's just something she desires in her heart. We all do that, you know? I hope she doesn't miss out because of that tho. What's the old adage..."If you want to make God laugh, tell him your plans."? Lol. ❤❤
Beautiful. As long as Christ is the foundation upon which a relationship is built the distance you already walked does not really matter imho. May God bless you.
Half true there, brother. Attraction plays a very important element as well, it has to show some glimpse of Realization or else what differs them from anybody?
Love is about finding the right person in every situation, so work harder on yourself the time you meet the one make sure you are the right person simple 😂or choose to learn before cause we all going to count on you whether you like it or not 🧐🤣👋
Same goes to a man, this is dangerous times. Porn, only fans, narcissistic people, delusional and deprived minds. Self centred instead of putting family and God first. Be careful out there!
Once your Married it's for like Roman 7:2-3kjv. If you know people the divorced and remarried and their partner still alive they are living open adultery sinning against God and there partner. Luke 16:18kjv. Mark 10:9-12kjv Matthew 5:31-32kjv. Malachi chapter 2:14-17kjv.
Yes like my ex pastor husband did. He will beat me in the house while pregnant and go outside to "evangelise" then come back and say he saved a soul today and my mouth will just stare at him opened 😮. Please choose a man that will have strong values and believes in God. Many false prophets and hypocrites during the end times.
You can teach your dear daughters whatever you want but a man has it 50% in him to kill your sweet darling daughters it's not really what you teach your daughters it's the amount of time you will be there checking in on the relationship while you are still alive.
Y’all missing the point OP made. A man who “Loves” God. Big difference. Being religious, going to church, and evangelizing doesn’t automatically mean you love God. Unfortunately we can do all those things without giving ourselves completely to God to change us. The Bible talks about this. Hence reason to watch people’s actions and not what they say. You can’t say you love God and not exhibit the fruit of the Spirit. Loving God requires death to self (flesh) and picking up your cross to live your life for him so that you can bear fruit. Galatians 5:19-23 lays out what actions to look for. Have a blessed day.
From one who’s happily married to the same woman for 43 years - the key is first BEING the right person and then letting God lead in CHOOSING the right person.
Actually you are wrong. If we are reasonably mature and socially adjusted, we can be happy with many thousands of different people. The one and only soulmate is a myth and a lie infatuated people want to believe.
We are at the beginning of the end of times. Marriage is from God because God created Eve from Adam and gave him Eve, and this is where God created marriage. So marriage is from God but Satan is against everything that belongs to God, and this is why the devil made many youths single, to divorce, to make abortion, enforced them to be engaged in same-sex marriage, which even the animals can't do, etc. By the way, I myself am single.
This woman took the words, thoughts, compassion, understanding and wisdom out of my heart! Yes exactly…a Godly woman desires a Godly man that knows the deeper things of God and is on a higher level than her❤. Amen sis amen
@@wiseman4160 The mirror correctly said that she looks competitive in the dating pool, so she got full of herself and overreached. To her, likely everything started to look like a settle that is not good enough. This is why she basically set the bar at the level of a priest or a pope. Or maybe she's just virtue signaling to cover up her inner thot lol
After several years of dating I was looking for a life partner. I got down on my knees and said God your word says to ask and you shall receive. I believe this and I am asking you for a wife. One that is smart, beautiful, and knows how to cook as I love to eat. Within that month I saw her and knew she was the one and even asked to meet her parents to show I was sincere in dating her honorably. 8 months later I proposed got married 3 months after that. She is beautiful; engineering degree, loves to cook. 2 year later had our first child. We have had more kids in our 35 years together. God is so good. Don’t give up on God.
Oh wow nice! I'm an engineer, i love history, and im a christian. And i love cooking. Ive had suitors but things dont work out because they are not men of God and because im waiting til marriage. I pray that the right man of God finds me in the right time😊
Good 4 you, but many are not so lucky : And, some prefer Not to defile their souls with the love for females, because they Love God Faaar Far Above everything else . ruclips.net/video/YIHMPc6ZCuI/видео.html&pp=ygUaZGlyZSBzdHJhaXRzIC0gc28gZmFyIGF3YXk%3D
That's exactly the man I had, and I took him for granted. He was much older than me and he was just an amazing man. He was the most loving person I ever have known. He passed away with cancer March 15, 2024. I miss him terribly every day and wish I could have known how special he truly was before he was diagnosed with cancer. You never know what you have until you lose it. At least I know he is with the Lord and one day we will be together again.
I am so sorry for your loss. Bereavement is a painful journey especially when you deepy loved the person you've lost. I pray that you will know God walking with you through this time. You may question at times where God is but later you will know that he was with you all along ncluding those times when it seemed he wasn't. God bless you.
Thank you for your time to even read my comment and respond. This is definitely a journey, the Lord is testing me, and for a moment I was completely failing. But I am beginning to get back to myself, the person Mel helped me become. He was such a blessing to me, and I thank the Lord for bringing him into my life. There are moments that I find myself angry with God, but mostly I am angry with myself. Had I not have been so selfish and careless for Mel and his discomfort I believe that we could have found the cancer. But I have learned something about myself and I will forever try to be better, to listen, and to act. Mel and I knew something was really wrong but we ignored the signs and the thoughts, the Holy Spirit. This is where I grow up and become the woman Mel strived for me to be. Bless you all.
I have been with the same man since I was 18, we have grown together, our faith has grown, and we are going to have a son. God has blessed us so much. 🙏 but when we both got together neither of us was the best. But we want to be better for God and for eachother. And growing together has been amazing and has been the foundation of our journey together.
I'm with the same man since 16, married in Barbados at 21, we are 45 now, we met via our local CB radio gang, kids talking on the C B and meeting up. We don't do religion, the CB brought us together. My brothers CB 😂😂😂.
Sometimes being single is the only way your life can be quiet enough, so you can truly listen to God. The right person is someone that you see God in, and they will make you grow closer to Him.
Yes yes yes! This is so true. I love being single because it does, indeed afford you the quiet time to really tune into God‘s instruction. At least, for me, being single, has truly allowed me to silence the noise, have an enormous amount of me time, and has helped me further understand and appreciate the basic elements of life.
I remember thinking this, and maybe not for her, but for me, it was pride and immaturity. I married a wonderful man who is growing in his leadership and I’m growing in my submission. You have to be ok to submit to a man who isn’t as far along as you’d like but has the earnestness and potential to get there.
Years ago, I met a man who knew the Bible front to back. Raised in church and could hold a good Bible study. BUT he was void of the presence of Jesus. He had no true relationship. Come to find out he was doing this with many women in the church. I was just 1 of em. This was of my doing not God too. But I NEVER felt the presence of Jesus with him. See a man can give you so much theology but NOT love Jesus at all. Meanwhile, there's a man who may not be as biblically literate who Loves Jesus and SHOWS Jesus in his actions and CAN authentically lead his family and Love his wife as Christ loved the Church. Ladies let Jesus CHOOSE your spouse no need to go on endless dates. God can direct every other part of your life, so why not in your season of wanting a mate? Let HIM CHOOSE. 😊 Trust him with this!! And yes! Most certainly pride. I'm not married yet. But this was my thinking too. Had a long, exhausting list of spiritual things I wanted in my husband. God humbled me and told me, nope. Are you marrying Jesus in the earthly flesh? No. You're marrying a human. And he will have flaws. As long as he is willing to grow with you and Jesus, God will be glorified. He must be glorified in our weaknesses. Prayerfully, her mind changes, and Jesus shows her this is not what truly matters. But that he truly follows Jesus foremost in all his imperfections. Leadership will grow. She wants an already made man. Can this happen sure? But what is God's plan for HER ultimately?
Well, I do think some of the high standards are just plain having a BS meter and selectivity, our healthy hypergamy if you will, but yes, feminism has been a poison suggesting women don't need men. We DO! We need GOOD men!! @@beingroxy
A sad thing that has happened is so many are after a man who has already finished his journey and then they want to meet him at his finish line; to "help him" celebrate (with his winnings). They don't want the inconvenience of waiting for the journey.
Someone can be full of head knowledge, self-righteous, and memorize the entire bible and have a theological discussion. And yet have no clue what it means to truly abide in Christ and allow His life to flow through you! Just having a revelation about all of this. Thank you Jesus!
Very well said. It's good to know scriptures but it's about your relationship with Christ. How you react in everyday ups and downs. in your faithfulness. you said best in all the post.
Very very true. God's word is important but if we don't know Him know Him it doesn't matter. I couldn't agree more with you I say it all the time. Jesus will teach His children one to one in relationship.
@@parentscribjudgment is necessary in the church we must judge and hold other Christians accountable because they are supposed to know the truth already there is no excuses in Gods house God hates excuses everyone is without excuse the Bible says
@@Adam2-13 so on what grounds are you judging her, what wrong did she do now. Ain't people just judging her based on assumptions? Have you met her before?
Agree. I waited, too, for the right one. I thought I found the one (a Christian guy from a different church) when I was 23, my first date. A few guys courted me who came from same church, too. But it seemed that these guys I first dated were not mature enough for me to lead me spiritually. And thank God I waited for the right one and God gave me my husband now. ❤❤❤ We are 11 years married now.
You just motivated me🥹 I'm 24 and still waiting to find a girl that goes to the gym and want to grow physically, mentally and specially... Spiritually with me😭😭😭... Please lord hear my prays 🙏😭😭😭
Also bear in mind that men are usually very intimidated by and insecure about approaching extremely beautiful women. So God must give your Mr. Right a healthy dose of boldness. Please, please, please don't settle for a man you don't find physically attractive just because he's a great theologian. Mr. Right will be the right one, not a compromise that you try to justify because people keep asking or reminding you that time is ticking.
Also, remember Matthew 5:3 “Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.” Don’t ever feel like you are further along than other believers because God will show you just how much you have left to learn. We are ALL on a journey seeking after God. There is no spiritual gauge with which we can rightly measure others. Like Pharisees, some may have lots of head knowledge of the Word, but only God truly knows how close someone is to Him.
Sometimes we get so interested in looking for what we seek that we don’t recognize the thing that God puts in front of us. The Bible tells us to seek and you shall find. That is what we are taught, but sometimes we’re too busy seeking through our human eyes that we don’t miss what God shows us what he has put there in front of our spiritual eyes. We are all spiritual beings and Jesus wants us to learn from his teachings. When we look for a mate we aren’t supposed to look for a boyfriend or girlfriend material we look for Husband and Wife material. And grow in His grace together.
@@abella11 Certainly… “Feet of clay” is simply a figure of speech for areas of life where the flesh is still active and not submitted fully to the Holy Spirit. Aside from Jesus himself, all men and women battle with these areas. That is why marriage is such a wonderful gift. It reveals many blind spots, exposes our pride and selfishness, and reveals areas where we still need to grow. While it is healthy in some ways to set a very high bar for our future mate, we must also understand that we must be prepared to bring a very large vessel filled with grace to the marriage, because forgiveness will be hugely needed. Billy Graham’s wife, Ruth, once said that a healthy marriage is the union of two people who have learned how to forgive. Even the most godly man who studies theology, is very familiar with his Bible, and leads his household well will need forgiveness and grace on many occasions. So will his godly wife. After 26 years of marriage to a godly woman, who married me because she thought I was that, godly, biblically sound man, I can confidently say that It has been boatloads of forgiveness and the unlimited grace of God that has fueled our success thus far… and we continue to discover unsubmitted areas that still need work. Dream, big, forgive big! Extend grace big.
@@abella11we are all but dust. Dust with water and the breath of Life breathed into his frame. This could be an issue if delivery, but standards are powerful and great, but the next level of faith for her will most likely be humility in trusting the Lord in being led by someone that is not perfect.
As a Christian man who studied theology, masters to be exact, I searched for someone to match my faith. Thank God I finally did. Not only in education but serving in Gods kingdom as well. You’ll find that man, but be the person you’d wish to have and you’ll be that much closer.
This girl is suffering from the ultimate "daddy's girl" complex. She perceives herself as "greater" than every single man she sees because she is believing the lie her earthly father sold her that she is a princess. She believes the lie that she is better than any man out there, which is how her earthly father has crippled her. This is sad. I know gorgeous young women, one who is 35 and a committed Christian who wants to find her husband; badly, in fact. However, no guy has yet measured up. Part of it is that feminism has killed healthy masculinity by "toxifying" it and vilifying it. Part of it is the fact that he father has hamstrung her by searing her sense of what she wants in a mate. She will end up an old spinster. VERY sad, and so is this girl in the video.
Ever since I was baptized in the Holy Spirit I encounter people who are sick, need healing, in pain or have other physical problems and I have had the privilege of laying hands on hundreds of people in Jesus name and I’ve seen more people get healed than I can keep track of and most of them were healed instantly. I love being in His presence. Now I just need someone who will walk beside me in this gift. I’m looking for my best friend, the one God created just for me. I know she’s out there.
I knew a men of faith was the one for me. I remember after our first date my husband sent a paragraph long prayer. 4yrs later I still receive them! Our conversation has turns into insightful conversations then breaking into a heartfelt prayer over us…that’s the man I was waiting for ❤
I am thankful to GOD for marrying a man who led me to the faith in JESUS CHRIST. We always talked and discussed about GOD and HIS WORD. One thing he always tell me, in whatever I do, think and say always give glory to GOD.
It’s not about theology. It’s about knowing The Triune God in such an intimate way that everyone knows that there is something different about you, without speaking about Him. The fruits of the spirit : love, joy peace, patience gentleness kindness faithfulness and self control are evident in all you say and do. That’s the husband I met and married. Thank you Jesus for your kindness in bringing him to me.
@@christopherhoye975 You CAN know the triune God without theology. I did. I knew Him at 6 yrs old when He came to me and I hadn't been to a church, read a child's Bible or had any knowledge of theology. I knew Him and Know Him today.
@paulwise998 we all received the Holy Spirit The minute we got saved! The Holy Spirit lives in us at the time of our conversion. The gifts of the Holy Spirit and the Fruits of the Holy Spirit are completely different and comes after we develop our personal relationship with God by repenting of our sins daily, fasting, praying, worshipping, reading and studying the Bible, living Holy and getting to know God on a deeper level
Thats a good desire. The reason I married my wife was because I was able to talk to her for hours about God and it was genuine. The foundation of our relationship is the will of God. If you do that, you will have good marriage.
All I’ll say is, don’t block your blessings. The spouse that God has in store for you may look nothing like what you see in your head. Don’t let God put someone good into your life, and you miss them looking for someone else.
If a man knows the voice of the Holy Spirit, and the voice of Satan, and He is a real child of God and God is watching him all the time. The devil will be buried and never have a voice in the marriage. Truth by experience. This is an extraordinary power of God
Usually the devil comes through the woman. The weaker vessel. Always has been that way biblically throughout history. Both parties man and woman need to be on there toes. Always. Which doesn't happen. So at the very least both parties need to have immovable love as a foundation in there soul for there spouse. And a maturity.
The sad part for me is that ex did do such things in front of me, but little did I know that he was listening to the devil all these time. He turned out to be an abusive narc who portrayed himself to be an angel.
Zoey, You came from somewhere- this is what is MISSING… But where? ???God was just bored and created the Universe and ALL of us??? No, He says I KNEW YOU BEFORE I FORMED YOU IN YOUR MOTHERS WOMB” One of the most import verses for clarity in ALL of scripture… I suggest that this life is an opportunity to be reconciled to Almighty through Christs sacrifice (the Door) and obedience (the WAY) to Heaven… Christ saved and continues to guide you to the light and away from evil…
Romans 7:2-3 King James Version 2 For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband. 3 So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man. Luke 16:18 King James Version 18 Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth adultery: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth adultery. Matthew 5:31-32 King James Version 31 It hath been said, Whosoever shall put away his wife, let him give her a writing of divorcement: 32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery. Those are Jesus words not mine in the Matthew Luke mark.Mark 10:9-12 King James Version 9 What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. 10 And in the house his disciples asked him again of the same matter. 11 And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth adultery against her. 12 And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery.
@@trevrockrock16 “He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord.” Proverbs 18:22 “Take delight in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart.” Psalms 37:4 I never said every single person is meant to be married. He calls some to be single, but clearly this lady desires a godly husband. Thus my prayer for Him to bring her to the man has for her. You know, it’s not very “christian” for you to jump to conclusions about people you don’t know and say their faith isn’t genuine and they’re not a Christian.
@@trevrockrock16 If you keep reading in that same chapter you’ll see that staying single is PAUL’S preference for us, not a command! “I say this as a concession, not as a command.” 1 Corinthians 7:6 Jesus, in fact reiterated what was said in Genesis. “Haven’t you read,” he replied, “that at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female,’ and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’? So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.” Matthew 19:4-6 The “Therefore” portion was Him adding to the OT verse telling us to still obey the OT in regards to marriage. God is not a god of confusion. The entire Bible is His word and has no contradictions. Jesus himself quoted from the OT in the NT all the time, thus showing the OT is not null and void. He even said, “Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them.” Matthew 5:17 “You study the Scriptures diligently because you think that in them you have eternal life. These are the very Scriptures that testify about me,” John 5:39 - The scriptures Jesus is talking about are all in the OT, again showing that the OT is not void. The entire Bible speaks of Christ and is still relevant and truth.
I'm an evangelist in what she's saying here is very true I'm very cautious in ministering to women because they quickly become attached to you when you are guiding them spiritually and biblically I wouldn't go with somebody either unless they are further in their face than I am and really truly love the Lord Jesus Amen to what you're saying in this video that's wisdom sister
I married a very good woman that has great faith, More than I had. Because God loves us so much he saw inside my heart and brought me up to speed real fast. Don't discard Christian men who are not up to speed. God will bring it out of him!! It's just another form of Evangelizing!!
This is why it's important to not just be a Christian, but a true Christian, a believer. Jesus clearly said you should be evenly yoked. There is a reasom why he said that and many 'Christians' love to find imaginary loop holes in this simple command. The man must lead his family spiritually. It's fine to be a good Christian man, perhapse not to even be an outspoken man in the congregation but it's totally different to marry a man who is not spiritual or a man who has fleeting faith. It's dangerous for your own spirituality. When hard times come and tough decisions need to be made, those that may even test a family's spirituality, you need a Godly man who is strong in the faith. Don't be fooled.
I’m not sure she fully understand what that type of man would come with. Men like that tend to want to go into monasteries, and serving the Lord is their #1 priority, not a woman. I’m not so sure she’s gonna enjoy that.
No. I understood her. You need to be in her spiritual level to agree with her. There is a level you'll get with God that nothing else matter anymore. she is just putting God first, that's all.
@@dapootolasun1852 this is not how God created women. If you’re a woman who only wants to serve the Lord and nothing else matters, then it’s best to become a nun. Most women are more practical than that. As soon as they start having children priorities really shift, and she will want a partner who is present with the children, with her, who pays attention to her and makes her feel like a woman. It’s too hard to find a man who has the entire package, from the type she describes. I know the types, they tend to not make the best husbands. You can’t do it all.
I have a husband like that and it’s worth the wait! There are many great men out there that truly love God and who make great leaders and will always pray for their wife and love her!
Leaders? Marriage is a partnership not a follow the leader train wreck. Paul wrote that submit/ obey shit and Paul is the Benjamin wolf antichrist. He plagiarized one of his 3 contradictory conversion stories from Eurpidedes and then From THE SAME PLAY, Antichrist Paul plagiarized his escape from prison by earthquake story. Jesus warned you 6 ways from Sunday about Paul. The Ephesians turned away from him. Paul admitted "All in Asia have turned away from me." Ephesus was in Asia. Jesus commended the church of Ephesus in Revelation for trying the apostles and finding them false. Only Paul and Silas had been to Ephesus by that time.
Amen & Amen to this!!! If he’s not spiritually, mentally, emotionally, financially & morally compatible to me, then I’m better off single. Settling is overrated! 💯💯💯
Let's see Pound of make up ☑️ Attention seeker ☑️ Thinks very highly of themselves (prideful) ☑️ No doubt materialistic ☑️ A virgin? No ☑️ You know, I think I'll pass on this one👎
She’s not that close herself. Women who are truly devoted to God to the level she speaks on do not care about keeping up on social media. She’s dated men who God would not approve of all her life that alone tells you about the choices SHE makes which reflects on her. I’ve heard many women talk like this yet their actions always say otherwise. Gotta always watch what they do and not what they say.
Social media is a part of how she and many others earn their living. It takes a lot of time and energy to develop the content every week, film, refilm if necessary, edit the videos. The cost of mics, lighting, making sure their appearance is presentable (the reason 75% of you men are here). I believe she does other things to earn an income as well though. You watching this video and commenting is putting food on her table, yet you're complaining.
The amount of bitterness in these comments simply because these women are conventionally attractive and talking about Jesus at the same time is actually insane
you mean plastically attractive - they have had plastic surgery already .... how is that Christ like to focus on your appearance in a fake way? it's not
@@sassysays29To be modern means to accept these things as common practice even with girls within the church. They dont see it as being artificial or vane, specially if they come from fsmilies with a lot of money
'I have such a yearning to be led spiritually.' That right there speaks volumes. I would love to be led spiritually by someone that is further along in their faith than myself.
She’s in just another dream world that is ruled by her dreamy ego. Why is this any different than finding your “Prince Charming”. All words and looks eventually wear thin and then what. Fear is an emotion that wears many masks!
As someone who is very spiritual but not religious, I think there is some truth to what you're saying for this girl/girls in her situation... though I suppose it goes much deeper than we are assuming here, probably more complex than what we assume so we should reserve judgement since it's not something hurting anyone, just her/their spiritual development journey, maybe it's exactly where she needs to be at the moment... the good thing is she is looking and has made her life revolve around spirituality rather than materialism... I'd say she's doing good in my book - ie. not everyone's goal/journey is that of a nun/monk/priest/etc - even though I've essentially crucified myself spiritually, I still allow myself to be extremely flawed as an individual since truly the framework of god or the spirit is such that it exists to guide us out of our mischievious selfishness and to a greater purpose in life... so we remain flawed regardless of how spiritually inclined we are, but we get really good at catching ourselves degrading and thus immediately correct ourselves to get back on track and even further along... perhaps that's what is or will happen for this girl/etc. @@abelmcguire1951
Not true, God helps those who helps themselves. People who just sit around and wait for someone special to come into life won’t receive that kind of blessing
@@vincew4297 After being a Christian for over 50 years.. I say that you are right. Also Christians have a misconception of divine protection. So many good disciples have been killed in history. (martyred). starting with Stephen.
This is exactly what I was looking for in a future husband! When my now husband and I went on our first date he took me through a psalm, teaching it to me, and I knew right then he was the man I was going to marry. It was so precious and I’m so thankful for his spiritual leadership! I have grown so much in my faith since marrying him!
This is beautiful indeed. It would be so beautiful to have this experience especially on a first date if the guy and the girl both intentionally bring their Bibles. After talking to each other and getting to know one another in a cafe or something, they could just break bread together and study the word of God for some time, just imagine having that intimate time together with God, ughh my heart😩. This is a way to show commitment in seriousness with intentionality to honor God and the relationship the girl and the guy are pursuing together You know when that happens he is the keeper and so is she. Now this is a desire to have.
People aren't perfect and we all come with flaws. The beautiful things about relationships is funding someone with the same commitment as you, someone who wint give up when things get difficult.
I was on a Chistian dating site for two years and could not find a Godly woman that could understand the deep things of God , i gave up and he saved a woman that was broken like i had been broken , 3 years later she knows the bible better than any woman ive known . Thank you Jesus
Praise God brother, that's great to hear and I'm so happy to hear that you no longer feel the need to spend time on dating sites. God bless you and yours always
'christian dating sites" really shouldn't be used to be honest. Real followers of Yeshua don't have to position themselves at all God will do all of that. Christian dating sites, really defeats the whole purpose of waiting for God's pick and what God has for His children that's His BEST. It's basically taking control in one's hands and against God's word because people are not patient. With that being said, glad it worked out for you the way Our Father wanted it and not your way. Good testimony I hope people read your comment and listen and learn. Jesus Bless you.
She's into her religion too early that she's gonna get burned out and have nothing but resentment for it later. She should've waited until she matured and realized what she's based her life around.
I knew how to be loved treated in way I wanted to be from young kid thanks to my well adjusted loving parents who I trusted & honoured. We were shown not just told good examples of how to live take care of ourselves given respect trust protected. Regularly told how much we were loved wanted made their life ❤ I truly believe because we grew up in such a close connected family that it definitely contributed to both my Brother & I growing up to be strong independent proud & appreciative of our lives given. I definitely can say I only had good young men I dated who always looked after me well because of the way I was raised/treated...all thanks to my parents who were the best 💞
Yeah luckily for all of the guys out there, this chick is going be alone forever because no one is good enough for her. Half of the earth dodged a bullet.
When she gets the handsome fella with the big church, they will direct your p.os. car to the lot in back of the church, that leads to the back row seats, for ugly people, so you don't ruin the pod cast. They still need your money for the hair color appointment tomorrow, and the tan salon the next day, and so on.
I’ve been to a few churches where the women would complain to the pastor about being single, and making comments such as “the men in the church do not approach them.” But when these single men do build the courage to approach a woman in church, they over spiritualize the entire situation. And because they are unable to make a choice, they’ll deny that man altogether without taking a chance. Meanwhile, these same women would give men outside of the covenant of God chance, after chance, after chance, after chance, after chance, and etc..
She is giving the big talk to appear pious and clean. She is not after a man of God first and foremost at all. It'll just be a bonus to her if he is Christian. But It'll be 3rd on her list. She is a very pretty girl. Model gorgeous. She is primarily after a jock. A baller. And she could land one.
In truth, romantic success is primarily determined by genetic blessing/physical desirability/sex appeal and often their expression of interest in other factors is a facade/pretence and does not decide/influence their true romantic choices.
You just said it “unable to make a choice” …with social media and dating apps plus the men they meet in public, women have so many options it leads to choice paralysis and constantly holding out for the better option.
@@umarchowdhury7752 Physical and sexual attraction is what gets your attention. Spiritual connection with your partner and Christ at the center is what sustains it and makes it flourish
Isaiah 60:22 NLT “…when the time is right, I, the lord will make it happen”. I am editing this because of some comments and further comments that may appear. I am currently using my NLT study bible. Which says this “The smallest family will become a thousand people, and the tiniest group will become a nation. At the right time, I, the Lord will make it happen” I’ll give some context but first I’ll use the full version from the KJV Isaiah 60:22 KJV “A little one shall become a thousand, and a small one a strong nation: I the Lord will hasten it in his time.” For the end of that chapter, in context, is the Lord saying your people shall be righteous, you shall inherit the land forever because of the work of my hands from which i have planted. So that I may be glorified. In Verse 22 the Lord identifies himself as the covenant God of Israel. His identity ensures that it’s not gonna happen until it happens and when it happens it’s going to happen quickly. All by his hand! Praise the Lord! Now why did I post this verse in relation to the video? First, Praise Jesus because his word is alive! He can bring his word through the mouth of a mule and bring his word through….his word!! Now In short, Jesus told me this very word because I am not ready to be a steward for one of his daughter’s hearts. I have been wrestling with him. I asked him, “why do you close every door?” And he said when the time is right, I the Lord will make it happen. So, after seeing this short I felt led to share this verse because I believe he will use his word to tell someone this very same thing! And if that’s you praise our Father! 😊
There is nothing better than growing in faith together and watching your relationship grow from the struggles of life together. Theres nothing greater than walking together in life. How does one expect a great man to just show up in life. Men and women were created for eachother to help eachother.
When I started looking to date, my friend told me the same thing: make sure the girl you find is more spiritually mature than you.. I was perplexed and said: If the girl is looking for the same thing, how does that work..?? lol
It's the way that God intended. A woman of God and a man leading her spiritually so that they both stay strong in faith. And if he struggles, she reminds him too. That's why it's crucial that both are Christian
Yeah but she is delusional. She wants a spiritual man who is 6 feet or more, makes mid-Six figure income, is a 10 in the looks category, is willing to do the household chores, etc.etc.etc.😮🤣😘👋
As a grandma I absolutely love watching and listening to you girls talk about the Lord and waiting for a man that's spiritually further along than. This is also my heart's desire after being left by my husband years ago. You are so on the right track🙏💙🙏
Romans 7:2-3 King James Version 2 For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband. 3 So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man. Luke 16:18 King James Version 18 Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth adultery: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth adultery. Matthew 5:31-32 King James Version 31 It hath been said, Whosoever shall put away his wife, let him give her a writing of divorcement: 32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery. Those are Jesus words not mine in the Matthew Luke mark.Mark 10:9-12 King James Version 9 What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. 10 And in the house his disciples asked him again of the same matter. 11 And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth adultery against her. 12 And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery.
I agree. Also, she is searching for a narcissistic guru on whom she should rely instead on Jesus and the word of God. She sees this future man as a sort of God who would lead her, which gives me the creeps. This would be a typical manipulative relationship in which this guy would be her compass.
God chose a man for me that wasn't even close to believe in God. But he listens and his faith is growing. He trusted me right from the beginning and turns to God more and more by himself. It's beautiful to witness the unfolding of his own path in God. Even when he doesn't recognize it, he speaks the wisdom of God to help me grow and walk on this path. As God wants more souls to awaken to Its glory, i think we should lead those souls ready to open their heart to God but unaware yet. It's not easy, even challenging, but so rewarding in God going out of our comfort zone.
Are you saying there is more true men of God than women ? Do you go to church ? I think the ratio of spiritually disciplined people is quite equal that’s only my real life observation though
@@rainsara2795 I took his comment to mean that women have to be very disciplined in their submission to what he THINKS is a true man of God. But I could have taken it wrong. I am a Christian feminist woman married happily to my partner who happens to be Muslim. We have a boy and a girl both raised Christian with full knowledge of Islam who have both graduated from college. My daughter is a mechanical engineer ( rocket scientist)married to a nice Christian man and they have 3 children. My son is a heart surgeon like his father. He, too, is a Christian married with 2 young children. I NEVER would EVER submit to a male just because he was male. If he was my employer, I'd submit to his reasonable requests. I taught my children the same. We are equals. Sometimes I lead in things. Sometimes my husband leads in things. I am led by Jesus and the Holy Spirit. I go to NO man for what I can get directly from God. Between you and me, most men are STUPID. Not mine; but most. These FAKE Christian guys complain feminists wacked their balls. Nope. feminism just EXPOSED them as the eunuchs that they already are. They did it to themselves. Can you imagine standing next to a guy that you have to blow hot air into all the time just to puff up his ego? Or can you imagine dummying it down spiritually so your husband can feel like the "leader"? The whole message of the torn vail is that ALL believers have direct access to God through Jesus in us. That is also how we HEAR His VOICE audibly, make trips to heaven ( it's IN HIM), exercise the Spiritual gifts of healing, prophecy and words of knowledge. Thank God I don't have to go to the Pope. Thank God that I don't have to go to my husband or ANY man. I have an EQUAL say in what goes on in our home. For instance, if I wanted to move to Florida and my husband wanted to move to Pennsylvania, we would either mutually agree on the location or I would move to Florida and he could move wherever he wanted. There is NO rule that I submit or obey him just because of his plumbing. These poor churched boys still want to be gods. None of that comes from Jesus. If a man is really a man, there is no woman on the planet that can emasculate him. It's really difficult to find an intact Christian male. You'll find one on the farm long before you'll find one attending these FAKE churches today. I'll tell you a man's "role" in the household: Replace the engine in the truck faster than I can do it or I'll replace the engine and he can clean the house, do the laundry and cook dinner. These "churched" boys want a female and a family to rule and reign over. They can find that in Mormonism.
When I was around 15, I asked God to send me the perfect woman to marry. And I got married at the age of 35. Before I got married, I had several girlfriends, but after a few weeks in the relationship, there was a sign from God telling me that I got the wrong person. I was never desperate to get married. I have been married for over 12 years, but family, love, and faith are still growing.
This is nice, been the same for me God always showed me the wrong one after a short time into the relationship. I dated some lovely ladies but they weren’t searching for God the way I was.
Story of my life I was too smart to be fooled by every girl I dated Never liked anyone within a few months together as I was not a simp Finally got married at the age of 31
@@ralfulrich6254that s a worldy perspective she won’t as long as she is obedient to God submits to him and she will eventually submit to her future husband, walks in faith, and strives to be the spouse she desires in her future spouse she is good.
So Interesting to see so many sides to her desire in a man of God in her life. I totally understand her point & thank her for being vulnerable & sharing one of her deepest desires with us. She is a Christian so she is speaking both logically & spiritually. I am pretty sure she knows its not about just getting a guy who is further along in faith but someone who is deeply in love with God who has something to bring to the relationship for the long haul. Only God can give her that peace & confirmation that she so desires. God created us, so he knows what he is doing with her faith in God. From experience, I had a desire for my man to love God more than me & was goal driven. And.....God answered my prayer and beyond... God is amazing. I couldn't share this desire with others because people would not understand and see it one-sided. We have been married for over 8 years this year & he still leads us in the Lord every day. ❤
When I met my wife I was so lost. Not an atheist, but just so mad at the world, and no direction. She spoke of God to me and introduced me to Christian music. On my birthday 15 years ago she took me to see Third Day in a small venue. I was drinking the whole way up there, not knowing she was going to surprise me. I had been battling alcoholism since a young age and when I saw the sign on the theatre that said, Third Day live, I just broke down and cried like a little kid. I walked into that concert smelling like beer, buzzed, wondering what people would say. But God was with me there. Shining His light on us. Pouring Himself into my brokenness. Blessing us. He saved me. He blessed me with an amazing wife and best friend. I say this because I believe that sometimes a good woman can also lead a man. She had faith in God, in our marriage. We now have a strong marriage and family, with God as our center. Our kids know God, and this story too. I want women to know that they also have so much power to help a man, to influence a man in a positive way so they can see God in you, and seek Him. A woman’s faith is just as powerful as a man’s.
Comment section seems to forget that the lady said "For me". She wants and deserves a man that will lead her, this is the desire that God put in her heart.
@@skyislight3804she will find him coz the same way there are women who as on the spiritual path, there's also men in the same journey and when you find your partner... Damn even Christmas can compare to that joy
1. What do you understand by being led spiritually ?? 2. Having a lot of knowledge of theology or the Bible does not necessarily mean you are more advanced in your faith. The most important thing is to live in obedience to God, to live a life that is pleasing to him. 3. Knowing scriptures does not mean you understand the Word of God, although to understand the Word you must know the scriptures. In French we say: La Parole de Dieu c'est la révélation derrière les écrit dans la Bible.
When women talk like this they have no idea that their calling is so much deeper with God, and the one who they're looking for is God himself not another man.
Very true. A good marriage should not be one sided. “For the unbelieving husband has been sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife has been sanctified through her believing husband.“ 1 Corinthians 7:14
Amen! Jesus is the mandatory third wheel everyone needs in their marriage! Because He is the yoke that will bind both husband and wife together. Don't look for the man. Look for God!
@Yeshua_is_the_messiah I agree with your point and that is why I don't buy into the whole excitement. Idolizing a "man" and I will leave the stereotype of what that "man" looks like, is opening a door to something that is spiritually unhealthy. In other words, this is the confirmation that any woman who is in search of that perfect man is really in need of our saviour, the only perfect man. Imagine finding a so called perfect "man" , God forbids especially in looks and as time goes, the "Christian" lady becomes disillusioned and guess what another reason why there is rampant divorce in the Christian community. May God have mercy on anyone who is in it (in the faith) for a marriage. Your faith is so much more than that and marriage, although a good thing, should not be idolized nor a partner worshipped. Jesus should be worshipped and the focus of our faith. Should He, in his sovereignty, bless us in due time with a partner, with the understanding and discernment that both are not perfect and submit and rely on Jesus to make them one, then That's a good thing. Finally I appreciate this channel for the content that helps the conversation, however I caution everyone not to be distracted but the superficiality of the Christian theme, stay vigilant and keep your eyes on Jesus.
Such a wise words. I totally am in the same boat as you Angie, it’s easy to date but finding a spiritual human leader is not running around town. This is why only God can write the right matching love story for each of us. ❤
yes sister! I pray God blesses you with the man God has in store for you because He absolutely will in Jesus Name. May He shine HIs face upon you and be gracious to you and fill you with Peace that surpasses all understanding in Jesus Name!
God is allowing this to happen so that you can trust in Him for what seems impossible. What seems impossible to you, is possible to God :) I felt God leading me to spread the gospel to guys I have talked to in the past and tell them to stop being lukewarm. I chose God over the flesh and a desire for a relationship. As a result, I earned some people’s respect because I was willing to put God before the person. Furthermore, I am not worried about finding a man that is more spiritual than me because I know there are many out there. If you u choose to worry, you are not trusting in God completely and you are making room for the enemy to attack your mind. Faith is trusting God without seeing His promise in our lives (yet.) God wants to grow and strengthen your faith, not let you worry, stress and fear that a godly man like this is does not exist. They do and I have met men who are not afraid to preach the gospel and be bold for Christ. It’s just not God’s Time for you yet. He’s still working on you: growing your faith and building your character. The Bible says “trust in the lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways, acknowledge Him, and He shall make your paths straight.” If your not trusting in the lord with ALL OF YOUR HEART❤️ your path will be crooked., I hope you understand. It’s important for all Christian’s to seek Christ and not earthly things because these things are distractions that keep us away from Christ. Most people want a man so they won’t feel lonely anymore, but God could be calling a women to spread the gospel through her marriage. How would she be prepared for that task if she’s not reading the Bible and praying daily instead of worrying she will never find a true man of a God who is compatible to her? No. God calls us to “seek peace and pursue it.” Do this with all your heart, pray, fast, read the Bible daily and their will not be room for the lies of the enemy in your mind. Of the devil is attacking you more, start praying and fasting more. Turn on the audio Bible when you exercise. Fill your mind with God’s word instead of the voices of people if you want to see the path God has prepared for you. “God has plans to prosper you and not to harm you. To give you a hope and a future.” -Jeremiah 29:11
I needed the opposite to balance out my strengths and I his. My husband isn't big on talking about theology like I am, he will when it is applicable....but he has cultivated the Queen of virtue: wisdom, and his silent sermons to our 10 children via his actions--protection, provision, and tangible love to his children--has taught me how to love Jesus and live as I believe.
It’s troublesome that a imperfect human would know what Gods approval is or is not. Do we truly know Gods approval system? It’s one thing to ask… yes… but to know? With such confidence… that God did or did not approve? Hmmmm 🤔
Yes, I was about to say the same as these comments in that you just have to grow together. And sometimes 1 really helps the other and oftentimes. If the husband isn't as far along or mature spiritually, it helps the wife to mature. If you'll cling to God and let God grow you first. There's just so much to say about this.
Biblically, the man is suppose to be the priest of his home. He is suppose to wash his wife with the word. He is supposed to be the leader. The Bible doesn’t say anything about partner.
@@KevinSamuelsKid But head needs brain, isn't it ? So logically if man is a head, woman is a brain. It is said that woman is a soul of a family. Where is soul dwells ?
Interesting. By her standards she would never marry a man like you bc you’re not “further along” than her. But you and your wife did it (which is completely okay) and grown. Glad you’re both being blessed brother.
But how long will you be single ? A strong bond builds at a young age, when you share and create great memories with one another and feel connected with their families.
Honestly im scared to start a journey with someone lets say age 26 or 31..like she says building a bond at a young age and not gave went througgh so many thungs in life is strong@Vs1one
Amen 🙏 I waited and God sent me my husband 3 yrs ago and Hold on Sister 💖 God does choose the best for us!!! I have a leader, a teacher, a protector and provider!!! He is my Head but I am his Heart 💜 And I am so happy to have waited for the Lord and obeyed Him... God Bless you and hold fast!!!
most of the men who are further along in their faith than you are 20 or more years older and they have acquired the wisdom that only experience can provide.
No, I am where I am spiritually because I pursue God not perfectly but because I am seeking I am finding. It isn't because of 20 years of experience, it is intentional pursuit of the Lord and that is what she is looking for.
Not true I've been pretty far along in my faith since I was 15. I've walked with God (Jesus) the past 32 years since then and still single, but I was in a place (Air Force) where there were very few if not many Christian women at all so I'm single. I'm in seminary now so I'm praying and hoping things change. Been praying for that wife for almost 30 years so I know what it is like to walk alone with God. There are mature Godly men that are young, and a woman isn't going to attract that kind of man unless she does the same. I've met plenty of women that were 10's but I wasn't attracted to them, but they were to me, because they were not walking with God.
Because unlike this girl. You didnt give up on him. Message to this girl. So if you won't date a man below your level of faith why do you feel god has a man ABOVE your level of faith that will overlook it to be with you? You get what you give in this world. Instead of giving up on people. Help them find the way. You're saying you wont be with someone below your faith level but want someone above yours. That is narcissistic and hypocritical.
georgemuggleton6571 Your spirituality is your personal responsibility and journey with God, and reflects on your character as a man and leader. Stop demanding and guilt tripping women into leading you - that’s unfairly putting her into masculine energy.
I am a born again believer in Jesus Christ. He is tge only one more Spiritual dear. Your greatest works are like filthy rags. There is not one worthy or righteous.
@@georgemuggleton6571I think that the words "narcissistic and hypocritical" are very unfortunate. I am a man and i understand exactly what she is saying. It is embedded in scripture. For me, what she is saying resonates with Ephesians 5 : 22 -24.
Exactly. But that doesn't seem enough for her, which means that she is not interested in Christ but in a narcissistic experience with a narcissistic guru, whom she would follow and adore as if he were Christ himself. Her statement gives me the creeps.
Mrreality Idk. There are good Christian men that go to church and listen to scripture but they also couldn’t hold an hour long intellectual discussion on scripture. It’s not that she’s narcissistic but that she craves intelligent conversation it seems to me. I’ve had many conversations and sometimes debates on subjects for fun purely to expand and test knowledge on a subject. The majority of people I know don’t seem to care that much to have deep conversations especially if the subject maybe unknowable. But there are some people that do. I remember once having a conversation about if Christ will return with a beard or not. This woman isn’t narcissistic but wanting intellectual conversation rather than purely a religious man that’s churched.
Michael She’s not narcissistic. I listened to and it seems she just wants someone that’s knowledgeable enough to teach her. Many Christian’s are good people but not motivated enough to read the Zohar or Jewish commentary on the Bible. Many just read the Bible and are good people which is good. Others like a deeper historical and intellectual perspective or analysis of things. Some Christians will admit how similar the Adam and Eve story is to stories on tablets from Babylon but it’s almost like if you try to learn to much it’s almost heretical. A century ago or more experts were actually worried about translating some of those tablets in fear of religious backlash.
@@davidhvacddc you don't listen to her. she gotta summit to you and you gotta lead not her lead that goes against God. Look how Eve got us all into this mess by an adam following after her lead.
Having a man who will follow The Lord wholeheartedly and be submissive to His will is more important than someone who knows the components of dispensationalism… Yes, Theology is important, but the heart is what God looks at… so should we when seeking a spouse.
I guarantee this woman's standards are so high that even if one of the apostles were alive and single today would be shunned. She wants a GQ man from Hollywood that looks like Brad Pitt and has the same bank account but says they love Jesus.
Im a God fearing, single Christian woman. And even yet I don't expect my husband to this theologian. I don't expect him to be a preacher. What I am looking for is a man with a kingdom mindset. To be of one mind. To love and serve the Lord together using our spiritual gifts to serve God and others.
She just has a jezebel goal to tick off on her wishlist to break a Godly man & she desires for him to worship her instead of god, so many jezebels like her getting a major high from breaking a religious man...💯 It's exactly the same mindset but higher just like their getting a married man to commit adultery with a jezebel like this to then leave his wife & children for her, they believe their looks are more deserving of being worshipped than God, do not be fooled by the supposed religious deceptive jezebel...💯
She just has a jezebel goal to tick off on her wishlist to break a Godly man & she desires for him to worship her instead of god, so many jezebels like her getting a major high from breaking a religious man...💯 Dating is not a biblical concept & it is ungodly, shes a hypocrite, a real religious man would only ever court a woman with her fathers awareness, approval & pre-vetting before consenting to him courting his daughter, she has never been courted & is definitely not a virgin either...💯 It's exactly the same mindset but higher just like their getting a married man to commit adultery with a jezebel like this to then leave his wife & children for her, they believe their looks are more deserving of being worshipped than God, do not be fooled by the supposed religious deceptive jezebel...💯
@@PretentiousCaddybaby baptism does count or Father Son Holy Ghost baptism doesn't count because they fail to call on the name of Lord. Acts 22:16 King James Version 16 And now why tarriest thou? arise, and be baptized, and wash away thy sins, calling on the name of the Lord. Jesus said repentance of sins in his name and Acts 2:38 u get name. Luke 24:47-48 King James Version 47 And that repentance and remission of sins should be preached in his name among all nations, beginning at Jerusalem. 48 And ye are witnesses of these things.
Wise man?... the guy believes in an invisible bearded man who lives in the sky, who can walk on water, and is a son of himself... I think your wisemeter is not working well...
This is a very true statement. I'm studying at the same seminary he did but, I was in the armed forces much longer than him. I've met a few women here so far initially I wasn't attracted too but after spending time with them and talking to them I find them allot more attractive. A deep love for Jesus (God) and humility are very important traits to look for in a woman. As a guy you should be the same. The fruits of the spirit usually fall into place in both lives when they walk humbly with Jesus. Not only can you see it in their life but in how they treat other people. Attitude and humility are two very important traits in a marriage. You also have to learn to love unconditionally for a marriage to work or else it will eventually fall apart.
I’m literally going through a break up rn but I know it’s bc God has something better for me. When me and my ex started dating I wasn’t with Christ. It’s through our relationship that I found God and it changed everything in our relationship. He was no longer the man I wanted bc my wants had changed and now I know that what I need is a Man of God
For a girl to have the Love of God and Fear of the Lord is undoubtedly one of the best qualities a girl can have! Unfortunately as a man I’m still not married. But I pray to God for someone like that.
@@SeemoreButts-d6xThat's not true at all. I encourage this brother to persevere and wait patiently in the Lord because he does everything in his time!! 👌🏻🎉 And it's wonderful! Not your time, not mine, HIS! We need to truely be patient, which we often fail to be lol. We need to asked God for that. He teaches us. But hey... ☆Waiting for God's timming may also give us a greater miracle than we had hopped for!☆
Unfortunately, many "Christian" ladies can't walk the talk. I found it problematic when a lady is waiting and praying for a "great or good" man instead of praying to be a "great or good or mature" woman. This applies also to Christian brothers, pray that God makes you the right husband. Let me point out also that the definition of greatness can also be concerning in Christian circles, be careful and be humble. Fall in love with God and be committed to him, surely that will teach you humility and commitment.
It should be done in balance. She can pray for a good man and also strive to be a good woman. Same goes for men. They both should change to be what they are looking for simple as that. They can’t expect to find the godly man or godly woman if they can’t work on themselves being the godly man or godly woman for their future spouse.
I think it's better to find a good man who shares your values and wants to walk in faith with you. He doesn't need to be on a higher spiritual plane. I think most women are naturally more "spiritual" than men. My husband of 30 years is good and kind and lives his faith. He doesn't necessarily talk about his faith much, he just lives it. I'm a proud and thankful wife.
Word of advice: always watch what a woman does, not what she says.
Stay Blessed
Ty🙏
Very true brother.
Jezebel..pub crawler..
You’re right, yesterday I found a comment from a lady stating, “I want a Godly man.” When I visited her page she has a playlist with the name “Secular Music.” By the videos alone she was not lying being secular music. Came back to her comment and wrote, “You need to align yourself with God. ‘Seek first the kingdom of God and His Justice, everything else will fall in their place.’ By listening that type of music you’re opening a portal for Satan and his demons into your life.” Let’s hope she does what she needs to do to accomplish anything on God’s name and honor.
She doesn't look any humble from inside, just listen...
@@LdAmaro71 is music considered a sin in Christianity?
You don’t need to be with someone that is far ahead of you on the spiritual path, but rather someone that is willing to go to the fullest length on that path with you.
Wow, good one!!
I screenshot it your comment, so I never forget it
In the U.K. you’ll never find a woman that looks as good as her that preserves her virginity. Literally impossible. I might need to move to the US🤣🤣
Also someone who is further along spiritually may want someone just as equal or further than he is.
Just my thoughts
Unfortunately hypergamy can't be hacked
My wife is a third generation preacher's kid, very pure in heart. I was a druggie hippy when I met her. As a five year old she prayed that God would give her a husband that was a preacher. I got saved her in her parents church, married her. 48 yrs of marriage, 35 yrs starting a church and pastoring it together! God used her to heal my broken heart and together we have touched many lives for Christ! Think about it!
Only God! 🙌🙏 Thank you for this wonderful testimony of God's grace and mercy. Does not matter the person, God knows the heart and the plans and purpose for each of us. We just have to trust our Heavenly Father. He loves us. ❤
Wow! This is great! So touching.
You girls are doing great. I would love to meet you guys physically. I'm a Nigerian, from Plateau State. I'm single and seriously trusting God for a wife for many years now.
I have a dream to relocate to the United States of America one day. I'm a Medical Laboratory Scientist. Currently doing my master's in a field of Medical Laboratory Science and trusting God to prepare and write the American Society of Clinical Pathology international (ASCPi) examination to enable me secure a job in the United States of America and relocate. If or when I relocate, I will love to meet with you guys.
Thank you and God bless!
Spot on ! Well spotted. @@abel4776
Praise GOD. Amen ! The Lord Jesus is Awesome ! GOD Bless you guys !!
My wife and I both had our own list of what we wanted in a spouse and God laughed at us both and none of what we were looking for was on either of our lists besides being a Christian. You may THINK you know what you want but just listen and watch to what God has for in store for you and you’ll TRULY be blessed by it. Just make sure you’re both equally yoked and they love God more then anything else and then pray about it, He’ll let you know!
haha nice one
Beautiful that you get this respons from GOD. I work with him, live with him, laugh with him, enjoy his eternal presence and protection and be still amazed and wondering how the whole creation of our world and dimensions is constructed, so genius, wisely, creative, beautiful, loving, connected and intertwined. And everyone's world is also a Mirow of them self. As inside so outside. So make peace and love to and with everyone and everything, because it's all you. And there is no hierarchy. Nobody is more or less. Even GOD says this, because every piece and everyone is part of him or of you. There is only you or GOD. Only the identification with your ego makes it difficult to comprehend this truth and live it. That takes time. That's the reason why Jesus said: "The father and I are one"! We are all one. Pieces Consciousness on the way to "know" not believing, no to know it, that we are all one and that kind of Consciousness is Christ-Conciousness. Knowing that all is one. We are pieces of GOD but at the same time we are all, what we can experience in different ways. But when you don't know it yet than takes it also the necessary time to integrate this truth, to live it, to express it more and more with every encounter. How do you love your home, your neighbor, your Government, other countries like Russia, how do you interact with all animals and nature to give your love is more easy but all parts? Every moment. Being grateful to the air, to the sun and moon and so on, these are all area's where we can develop and express our Love and ONENESS.
We are all on the way to become fully the unconditional true Love that we truly are.
GOD bless you all and I love you all too.
hahaha, YUP!
My husband and I grew in faith together.
This.
Thank God it was His way and not mine, because my husband went from drug addict to pastor and I’m glad I didn’t tell God “no this isn’t good enough for me. He has to be perfect first “
@@cameocaprice7366 Absolutely. I think it's just something she desires in her heart. We all do that, you know? I hope she doesn't miss out because of that tho. What's the old adage..."If you want to make God laugh, tell him your plans."? Lol. ❤❤
Beautiful. As long as Christ is the foundation upon which a relationship is built the distance you already walked does not really matter imho. May God bless you.
You need to follow him.
That's really precious
Love isn't about finding the right person, it's about becoming the right person.
DING-DING-DING-DING-DING!!!
The ego judges
Half true there, brother. Attraction plays a very important element as well, it has to show some glimpse of Realization or else what differs them from anybody?
Love is about finding the right person in every situation, so work harder on yourself the time you meet the one make sure you are the right person simple 😂or choose to learn before cause we all going to count on you whether you like it or not 🧐🤣👋
Are you saying she needs to not be religious?? Clearly not
It is better to be single than settle for the wrong man!!! (or woman)
Same goes to a man, this is dangerous times.
Porn, only fans, narcissistic people, delusional and deprived minds. Self centred instead of putting family and God first.
Be careful out there!
Or women
Once your Married it's for like Roman 7:2-3kjv.
If you know people the divorced and remarried and their partner still alive they are living open adultery sinning against God and there partner. Luke 16:18kjv. Mark 10:9-12kjv Matthew 5:31-32kjv. Malachi chapter 2:14-17kjv.
Amen to that ❤
@@JediKnight006any women abuse me, her funeral is the next day
As a Man I totally agree with her. I am teaching this to my daughter. If women chose Man who love God more than them. They will love you for sure. ❤
Yes like my ex pastor husband did. He will beat me in the house while pregnant and go outside to "evangelise" then come back and say he saved a soul today and my mouth will just stare at him opened 😮. Please choose a man that will have strong values and believes in God. Many false prophets and hypocrites during the end times.
Lmfao literally all my married religious friends all cheat
Grow up
There's no infinite recipe to Monogamy
You can teach your dear daughters whatever you want but a man has it 50% in him to kill your sweet darling daughters it's not really what you teach your daughters it's the amount of time you will be there checking in on the relationship while you are still alive.
Y’all missing the point OP made. A man who “Loves” God. Big difference. Being religious, going to church, and evangelizing doesn’t automatically mean you love God. Unfortunately we can do all those things without giving ourselves completely to God to change us. The Bible talks about this. Hence reason to watch people’s actions and not what they say. You can’t say you love God and not exhibit the fruit of the Spirit. Loving God requires death to self (flesh) and picking up your cross to live your life for him so that you can bear fruit. Galatians 5:19-23 lays out what actions to look for. Have a blessed day.
@@karter64 and you have x ray eyes 😆 you can oick out the wrong and right liars 😆 don't make me laugh and grow 🪴 up
From one who’s happily married to the same woman for 43 years - the key is first BEING the right person and then letting God lead in CHOOSING the right person.
Actually you are wrong. If we are reasonably mature and socially adjusted, we can be happy with many thousands of different people.
The one and only soulmate is a myth and a lie infatuated people want to believe.
"111" 🙌💯
We are at the beginning of the end of times. Marriage is from God because God created Eve from Adam and gave him Eve, and this is where God created marriage. So marriage is from God but Satan is against everything that belongs to God, and this is why the devil made many youths single, to divorce, to make abortion, enforced them to be engaged in same-sex marriage, which even the animals can't do, etc. By the way, I myself am single.
That's well said
@@cammontreuil7509You're pooping on their parade just let them think what they want to
This woman took the words, thoughts, compassion, understanding and wisdom out of my heart! Yes exactly…a Godly woman desires a Godly man that knows the deeper things of God and is on a higher level than her❤. Amen sis amen
A "Godly woman" doesn't casually speak of "all the great guys" she's slept with.
Absolutely ridiculous.
Lol, so she wants to marry the Pope.
Amen 🙏🏽
Why does she have no accountability. Maybe she should look in mirror and become person she is trying to attract. And also not be delusional.
@@wiseman4160 The mirror correctly said that she looks competitive in the dating pool, so she got full of herself and overreached. To her, likely everything started to look like a settle that is not good enough. This is why she basically set the bar at the level of a priest or a pope. Or maybe she's just virtue signaling to cover up her inner thot lol
After several years of dating I was looking for a life partner. I got down on my knees and said God your word says to ask and you shall receive. I believe this and I am asking you for a wife. One that is smart, beautiful, and knows how to cook as I love to eat. Within that month I saw her and knew she was the one and even asked to meet her parents to show I was sincere in dating her honorably. 8 months later I proposed got married 3 months after that. She is beautiful; engineering degree, loves to cook. 2 year later had our first child. We have had more kids in our 35 years together. God is so good. Don’t give up on God.
Beautiful ♥️
Oh wow nice! I'm an engineer, i love history, and im a christian. And i love cooking. Ive had suitors but things dont work out because they are not men of God and because im waiting til marriage. I pray that the right man of God finds me in the right time😊
@@roses993 Hi, can I ask to see you on instagram..? there is no private messages on youtube
Good 4 you, but many are not so lucky : And, some prefer Not to defile their souls with the love for females, because they Love God Faaar Far Above everything else . ruclips.net/video/YIHMPc6ZCuI/видео.html&pp=ygUaZGlyZSBzdHJhaXRzIC0gc28gZmFyIGF3YXk%3D
@@roses993I'm right here
That's exactly the man I had, and I took him for granted. He was much older than me and he was just an amazing man. He was the most loving person I ever have known. He passed away with cancer March 15, 2024. I miss him terribly every day and wish I could have known how special he truly was before he was diagnosed with cancer. You never know what you have until you lose it. At least I know he is with the Lord and one day we will be together again.
MHSRIP
Amen
Im so sorry rip ❤ you will be with again
I am so sorry for your loss. Bereavement is a painful journey especially when you deepy loved the person you've lost. I pray that you will know God walking with you through this time. You may question at times where God is but later you will know that he was with you all along ncluding those times when it seemed he wasn't. God bless you.
Thank you for your time to even read my comment and respond. This is definitely a journey, the Lord is testing me, and for a moment I was completely failing. But I am beginning to get back to myself, the person Mel helped me become. He was such a blessing to me, and I thank the Lord for bringing him into my life.
There are moments that I find myself angry with God, but mostly I am angry with myself. Had I not have been so selfish and careless for Mel and his discomfort I believe that we could have found the cancer. But I have learned something about myself and I will forever try to be better, to listen, and to act. Mel and I knew something was really wrong but we ignored the signs and the thoughts, the Holy Spirit.
This is where I grow up and become the woman Mel strived for me to be.
Bless you all.
I have been with the same man since I was 18, we have grown together, our faith has grown, and we are going to have a son. God has blessed us so much. 🙏 but when we both got together neither of us was the best. But we want to be better for God and for eachother. And growing together has been amazing and has been the foundation of our journey together.
✝️🙌🏻✝️👊🏻✝️
This is so awesome ❤
Are you married?
❤❤❤
I'm with the same man since 16, married in Barbados at 21, we are 45 now, we met via our local CB radio gang, kids talking on the C B and meeting up. We don't do religion, the CB brought us together. My brothers CB 😂😂😂.
Sometimes being single is the only way your life can be quiet enough, so you can truly listen to God. The right person is someone that you see God in, and they will make you grow closer to Him.
Quelle belle phrase 😮 je suis d’accord
Amen ,amen
Yes yes yes! This is so true. I love being single because it does, indeed afford you the quiet time to really tune into God‘s instruction.
At least, for me, being single, has truly allowed me to silence the noise, have an enormous amount of me time, and has helped me further understand and appreciate the basic elements of life.
I understand each one of you because where there’s silence is peaceful, but in my case I long for that Godly companion. 🙏🏼
Unfortunately god is a fictitious construct of the human mind. Sad to see
I remember thinking this, and maybe not for her, but for me, it was pride and immaturity. I married a wonderful man who is growing in his leadership and I’m growing in my submission.
You have to be ok to submit to a man who isn’t as far along as you’d like but has the earnestness and potential to get there.
Years ago, I met a man who knew the Bible front to back. Raised in church and could hold a good Bible study. BUT he was void of the presence of Jesus. He had no true relationship. Come to find out he was doing this with many women in the church. I was just 1 of em. This was of my doing not God too. But I NEVER felt the presence of Jesus with him. See a man can give you so much theology but NOT love Jesus at all. Meanwhile, there's a man who may not be as biblically literate who Loves Jesus and SHOWS Jesus in his actions and CAN authentically lead his family and Love his wife as Christ loved the Church. Ladies let Jesus CHOOSE your spouse no need to go on endless dates. God can direct every other part of your life, so why not in your season of wanting a mate? Let HIM CHOOSE. 😊 Trust him with this!!
And yes! Most certainly pride. I'm not married yet. But this was my thinking too. Had a long, exhausting list of spiritual things I wanted in my husband. God humbled me and told me, nope. Are you marrying Jesus in the earthly flesh? No. You're marrying a human. And he will have flaws. As long as he is willing to grow with you and Jesus, God will be glorified. He must be glorified in our weaknesses. Prayerfully, her mind changes, and Jesus shows her this is not what truly matters. But that he truly follows Jesus foremost in all his imperfections. Leadership will grow. She wants an already made man. Can this happen sure? But what is God's plan for HER ultimately?
Well, I do think some of the high standards are just plain having a BS meter and selectivity, our healthy hypergamy if you will, but yes, feminism has been a poison suggesting women don't need men. We DO! We need GOOD men!! @@beingroxy
Very true. You set expectations for a man and we will struggle through anything to meet them. Don't set expectations and we will drift lazily.
That was well said.
Is youtube hiding comments? I can't see my original comment lol?
A sad thing that has happened is so many are after a man who has already finished his journey and then they want to meet him at his finish line; to "help him" celebrate (with his winnings). They don't want the inconvenience of waiting for the journey.
Well said.
No one has ever finished their journey!
@@jamtime69 Fair enough! That's true. I just meant already having some amount of financial freedom, but yeah...we are always improving 😁
@@jamtime69 way to totally miss his point.
@@everythingmatterstheory7043 I didn't miss anything
Not just theology, but someone who is truly humble. Many proud men can talk about theology. Being married to a prideful person is hard.
EXACTLY
True theology will lead to Godliness
Theologians aren't christian and christian are not theologians
@@nathanmccumber8965Some are
Everybody on RUclips need get off study God word king James bible God word in English. Including myself. These woman know not Lord Jesus Christ
Someone can be full of head knowledge, self-righteous, and memorize the entire bible and have a theological discussion. And yet have no clue what it means to truly abide in Christ and allow His life to flow through you! Just having a revelation about all of this. Thank you Jesus!
Very well said. It's good to know scriptures but it's about your relationship with Christ. How you react in everyday ups and downs. in your faithfulness. you said best in all the post.
Very very true. God's word is important but if we don't know Him know Him it doesn't matter. I couldn't agree more with you I say it all the time. Jesus will teach His children one to one in relationship.
At least they started from somewhere, is it not better to encourage, than judge her based on assumptions?
@@parentscribjudgment is necessary in the church we must judge and hold other Christians accountable because they are supposed to know the truth already there is no excuses in Gods house God hates excuses everyone is without excuse the Bible says
@@Adam2-13 so on what grounds are you judging her, what wrong did she do now. Ain't people just judging her based on assumptions? Have you met her before?
Agree. I waited, too, for the right one. I thought I found the one (a Christian guy from a different church) when I was 23, my first date. A few guys courted me who came from same church, too. But it seemed that these guys I first dated were not mature enough for me to lead me spiritually. And thank God I waited for the right one and God gave me my husband now. ❤❤❤ We are 11 years married now.
Praise the Lord!❤
🙌🏾🙌🏾
You just motivated me🥹 I'm 24 and still waiting to find a girl that goes to the gym and want to grow physically, mentally and specially... Spiritually with me😭😭😭... Please lord hear my prays 🙏😭😭😭
Also bear in mind that men are usually very intimidated by and insecure about approaching extremely beautiful women. So God must give your Mr. Right a healthy dose of boldness.
Please, please, please don't settle for a man you don't find physically attractive just because he's a great theologian. Mr. Right will be the right one, not a compromise that you try to justify because people keep asking or reminding you that time is ticking.
Good testimony.
Also, remember Matthew 5:3 “Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.” Don’t ever feel like you are further along than other believers because God will show you just how much you have left to learn. We are ALL on a journey seeking after God. There is no spiritual gauge with which we can rightly measure others. Like Pharisees, some may have lots of head knowledge of the Word, but only God truly knows how close someone is to Him.
I agree wholeheartedly.
Sometimes we get so interested in looking for what we seek that we don’t recognize the thing that God puts in front of us. The Bible tells us to seek and you shall find. That is what we are taught, but sometimes we’re too busy seeking through our human eyes that we don’t miss what God shows us what he has put there in front of our spiritual eyes. We are all spiritual beings and Jesus wants us to learn from his teachings. When we look for a mate we aren’t supposed to look for a boyfriend or girlfriend material we look for Husband and Wife material. And grow in His grace together.
Be careful to not wait forever and not find anyone, generally you have to grow together spiritually
Not sometimes. All the times.
Sometimes in this case means the exactly same thing as all the time. @@WatchList-xf8ic
Based!!
You still have to be equally yoked.
She's not going to sleep with you bro.
Ladies, when you find this man, he will have feet of clay, just like you do. Much Grace will be required, no matter who that man is. All the best.
Hopefully no iron and clay....that's a world power
@@abella11 Certainly… “Feet of clay” is simply a figure of speech for areas of life where the flesh is still active and not submitted fully to the Holy Spirit. Aside from Jesus himself, all men and women battle with these areas. That is why marriage is such a wonderful gift. It reveals many blind spots, exposes our pride and selfishness, and reveals areas where we still need to grow. While it is healthy in some ways to set a very high bar for our future mate, we must also understand that we must be prepared to bring a very large vessel filled with grace to the marriage, because forgiveness will be hugely needed. Billy Graham’s wife, Ruth, once said that a healthy marriage is the union of two people who have learned how to forgive. Even the most godly man who studies theology, is very familiar with his Bible, and leads his household well will need forgiveness and grace on many occasions. So will his godly wife. After 26 years of marriage to a godly woman, who married me because she thought I was that, godly, biblically sound man, I can confidently say that It has been boatloads of forgiveness and the unlimited grace of God that has fueled our success thus far… and we continue to discover unsubmitted areas that still need work. Dream, big, forgive big! Extend grace big.
Or stinky feet. But at least his theology will be straightened out.
@@abella11we are all but dust. Dust with water and the breath of Life breathed into his frame.
This could be an issue if delivery, but standards are powerful and great, but the next level of faith for her will most likely be humility in trusting the Lord in being led by someone that is not perfect.
@@Heytherebuds sounds like a cyborg; iron mixed with clay.
As a Christian man who studied theology, masters to be exact, I searched for someone to match my faith. Thank God I finally did. Not only in education but serving in Gods kingdom as well. You’ll find that man, but be the person you’d wish to have and you’ll be that much closer.
This girl is suffering from the ultimate "daddy's girl" complex. She
perceives herself as "greater" than every single man she sees because
she is believing the lie her earthly father sold her that she is a
princess. She believes the lie that she is better than any man out
there, which is how her earthly father has crippled her. This is sad. I
know gorgeous young women, one who is 35 and a committed Christian who
wants to find her husband; badly, in fact. However, no guy has yet
measured up. Part of it is that feminism has killed healthy masculinity
by "toxifying" it and vilifying it. Part of it is the fact that he
father has hamstrung her by searing her sense of what she wants in a
mate. She will end up an old spinster. VERY sad, and so is this girl in
the video.
A friend of mine married her husband when he had no faith. 30 years later, he's an amazing man of God. Everyone has a different journey.
So Christian’s should make sure they marry someone with degrees? I don’t see that in the Bible at all…
@@AmritaMadhaviGod never sends nobody to those Jesuit bible colleges. Just study your King James Bible
@@AmritaMadhavichristian aren't theologians and theologians aren't christian.
God is not trinity or oneness those man made doctrines of devils.
Ever since I was baptized in the Holy Spirit I encounter people who are sick, need healing, in pain or have other physical problems and I have had the privilege of laying hands on hundreds of people in Jesus name and I’ve seen more people get healed than I can keep track of and most of them were healed instantly. I love being in His presence. Now I just need someone who will walk beside me in this gift. I’m looking for my best friend, the one God created just for me. I know she’s out there.
I knew a men of faith was the one for me.
I remember after our first date my husband sent a paragraph long prayer. 4yrs later I still receive them! Our conversation has turns into insightful conversations then breaking into a heartfelt prayer over us…that’s the man I was waiting for ❤
Amen to you
i am looking for a woman like your man.
Wow I'm so happy for you
Exactly that's the man my soul is longing for with whom the conversation turns into some insightful conversation❤
I'm glad that works for you ..
I am thankful to GOD for marrying a man who led me to the faith in JESUS CHRIST. We always talked and discussed about GOD and HIS WORD. One thing he always tell me, in whatever I do, think and say always give glory to GOD.
It’s not about theology. It’s about knowing The Triune God in such an intimate way that everyone knows that there is something different about you, without speaking about Him. The fruits of the spirit : love, joy peace, patience gentleness kindness faithfulness and self control are evident in all you say and do. That’s the husband I met and married. Thank you Jesus for your kindness in bringing him to me.
Yes. And also GOODNESS !
You can’t know the triune God without theology
@@christopherhoye975but you can totally know theology and not KNOW God. I feel like the lady in this snippet likely meant the latter, too
@@christopherhoye975 You CAN know the triune God without theology. I did. I knew Him at 6 yrs old when He came to me and I hadn't been to a church, read a child's Bible or had any knowledge of theology. I knew Him and Know Him today.
@@MandyAltamirano
Theology is literally the study/knowledge of God.
“I sent you five good men and you keep turning them down. Quite being such a girl!!”-God
😹😹amen
My hubby is 100% this. Praise God for him! I respect and admire him more than anyone I've ever met.
Have you received the Holy Ghost since you believed?
You are blessed. It's so hard to find a man so in love and with such a deep faith in Our Heavenly Father. I pray I find this one day. 🙏
Your blessed..
Always felt like this young girl.. still haven't know a God fearing Man ✝️📖🙏🏼
@paulwise998 we all received the Holy Spirit The minute we got saved! The Holy Spirit lives in us at the time of our conversion. The gifts of the Holy Spirit and the Fruits of the Holy Spirit are completely different and comes after we develop our personal relationship with God by repenting of our sins daily, fasting, praying, worshipping, reading and studying the Bible, living Holy and
getting to know God on a deeper level
Focusing on God in your singleness is such a blessing I will never forget. I never appreciated it till those days were gone!
The scripture says it pretty good.
You will be concerned more about them than God.
🙌
Thats a good desire. The reason I married my wife was because I was able to talk to her for hours about God and it was genuine. The foundation of our relationship is the will of God. If you do that, you will have good marriage.
Amen
❤
That's what I'm prying for. I want a woman who loves God first so that we can both fully commit to pleasing Him! 🙌
I agree
Praise the Lord
All I’ll say is, don’t block your blessings. The spouse that God has in store for you may look nothing like what you see in your head. Don’t let God put someone good into your life, and you miss them looking for someone else.
that last sentence really spoke to my spirit 😮💨😮💨😮💨
Believe me, if you don't marry a man who listens to holy spirit. The devil will destroy your relationship.
If a man knows the voice of the Holy Spirit, and the voice of Satan, and He is a real child of God and God is watching him all the time. The devil will be buried and never have a voice in the marriage. Truth by experience. This is an extraordinary power of God
Usually the devil comes through the woman. The weaker vessel. Always has been that way biblically throughout history. Both parties man and woman need to be on there toes. Always. Which doesn't happen. So at the very least both parties need to have immovable love as a foundation in there soul for there spouse. And a maturity.
The sad part for me is that ex did do such things in front of me, but little did I know that he was listening to the devil all these time. He turned out to be an abusive narc who portrayed himself to be an angel.
Bullshit
I've seen non Christian marriages happier than Christian marriages.
this is such a word, yes yes yes
lead me, teach me, take me through the deeper revelations of the word and Christ 😭💯
Period. 💯
Zoey,
You came from somewhere- this is what is MISSING…
But where?
???God was just bored and created the Universe and ALL of us???
No,
He says I KNEW YOU BEFORE I FORMED YOU IN YOUR MOTHERS WOMB”
One of the most import verses for clarity in ALL of scripture…
I suggest that this life is an opportunity to be reconciled to Almighty through Christs sacrifice (the Door) and obedience (the WAY) to Heaven…
Christ saved and continues to guide you to the light and away from evil…
Total crap and denial of Jesus.
Jesus said "You have no need that any MAN should teach you. The Holy Spirit will guide you into all truth."
Salvation is a solo membership not a duo
It really is a blessing to have Biblical conversations with my husband daily. I pray God brings you to the man He has for you.
😍🙏🏼
@@trevrockrock16 I didn’t say it was. What’s your point?
Romans 7:2-3
King James Version
2 For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband.
3 So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man.
Luke 16:18
King James Version
18 Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth adultery: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth adultery.
Matthew 5:31-32
King James Version
31 It hath been said, Whosoever shall put away his wife, let him give her a writing of divorcement:
32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.
Those are Jesus words not mine in the Matthew Luke mark.Mark 10:9-12
King James Version
9 What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.
10 And in the house his disciples asked him again of the same matter.
11 And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth adultery against her.
12 And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery.
@@trevrockrock16 “He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord.”
Proverbs 18:22
“Take delight in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart.”
Psalms 37:4
I never said every single person is meant to be married. He calls some to be single, but clearly this lady desires a godly husband. Thus my prayer for Him to bring her to the man has for her.
You know, it’s not very “christian” for you to jump to conclusions about people you don’t know and say their faith isn’t genuine and they’re not a Christian.
@@trevrockrock16 If you keep reading in that same chapter you’ll see that staying single is PAUL’S preference for us, not a command! “I say this as a concession, not as a command.”
1 Corinthians 7:6 Jesus, in fact reiterated what was said in Genesis. “Haven’t you read,” he replied, “that at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female,’ and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’? So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.” Matthew 19:4-6 The “Therefore” portion was Him adding to the OT verse telling us to still obey the OT in regards to marriage.
God is not a god of confusion. The entire Bible is His word and has no contradictions. Jesus himself quoted from the OT in the NT all the time, thus showing the OT is not null and void. He even said, “Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them.” Matthew 5:17
“You study the Scriptures diligently because you think that in them you have eternal life. These are the very Scriptures that testify about me,” John 5:39 - The scriptures Jesus is talking about are all in the OT, again showing that the OT is not void. The entire Bible speaks of Christ and is still relevant and truth.
I'm an evangelist in what she's saying here is very true I'm very cautious in ministering to women because they quickly become attached to you when you are guiding them spiritually and biblically
I wouldn't go with somebody either unless they are further in their face than I am and really truly love the Lord Jesus Amen to what you're saying in this video that's wisdom sister
I married a very good woman that has great faith,
More than I had. Because God loves us so much he saw inside my heart and brought me up to speed real fast. Don't discard Christian men who are not up to speed. God will bring it out of him!! It's just another form of Evangelizing!!
Yes God not another female
And that's just it, not every woman is the same. So many women will be happy with someone that's on the journey with them rather than ahead.
True
This is why it's important to not just be a Christian, but a true Christian, a believer. Jesus clearly said you should be evenly yoked. There is a reasom why he said that and many 'Christians' love to find imaginary loop holes in this simple command. The man must lead his family spiritually. It's fine to be a good Christian man, perhapse not to even be an outspoken man in the congregation but it's totally different to marry a man who is not spiritual or a man who has fleeting faith. It's dangerous for your own spirituality. When hard times come and tough decisions need to be made, those that may even test a family's spirituality, you need a Godly man who is strong in the faith. Don't be fooled.
I agrée
I’m not sure she fully understand what that type of man would come with. Men like that tend to want to go into monasteries, and serving the Lord is their #1 priority, not a woman. I’m not so sure she’s gonna enjoy that.
Welp i mean God should always be your first priority if you are in a relationship for both the girl and the boy. Thats a healthy relationship.
No. I understood her. You need to be in her spiritual level to agree with her.
There is a level you'll get with God that nothing else matter anymore. she is just putting God first, that's all.
@@dapootolasun1852es verdad la entiendo ella busca a su san José a la persona que la ayude en su camino a la santificación
@@dapootolasun1852 this is not how God created women. If you’re a woman who only wants to serve the Lord and nothing else matters, then it’s best to become a nun. Most women are more practical than that. As soon as they start having children priorities really shift, and she will want a partner who is present with the children, with her, who pays attention to her and makes her feel like a woman. It’s too hard to find a man who has the entire package, from the type she describes. I know the types, they tend to not make the best husbands. You can’t do it all.
@@dapootolasun1852lmao do u really believe that😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
I have a husband like that and it’s worth the wait! There are many great men out there that truly love God and who make great leaders and will always pray for their wife and love her!
She's casting a wide net 🐟 , he's got to be out there somewhere.
I came to God a little over a year ago, now i’m just looking for a woman of God
Leaders? Marriage is a partnership not a follow the leader train wreck. Paul wrote that submit/ obey shit and Paul is the Benjamin wolf antichrist. He plagiarized one of his 3 contradictory conversion stories from Eurpidedes and then From THE SAME PLAY, Antichrist Paul plagiarized his escape from prison by earthquake story. Jesus warned you 6 ways from Sunday about Paul. The Ephesians turned away from him. Paul admitted "All in Asia have turned away from me." Ephesus was in Asia. Jesus commended the church of Ephesus in Revelation for trying the apostles and finding them false. Only Paul and Silas had been to Ephesus by that time.
Amen sister! 🙌
@@MandyAltamiranowow, where did you go wrong in your doctrine? You sound very bitter.
Amen & Amen to this!!! If he’s not spiritually, mentally, emotionally, financially & morally compatible to me, then I’m better off single. Settling is overrated! 💯💯💯
Amen!!!!!
Something tells me that nobody is gonna be far along in their faith enough to satisfy this woman.
Christian friends are the worst especially if they are religious like her.
Let's see
Pound of make up ☑️
Attention seeker ☑️
Thinks very highly of themselves (prideful) ☑️
No doubt materialistic ☑️
A virgin? No ☑️
You know, I think I'll pass on this one👎
She’s not that close herself. Women who are truly devoted to God to the level she speaks on do not care about keeping up on social media. She’s dated men who God would not approve of all her life that alone tells you about the choices SHE makes which reflects on her. I’ve heard many women talk like this yet their actions always say otherwise. Gotta always watch what they do and not what they say.
Her laugh in the beginning said it all
Social media is a part of how she and many others earn their living. It takes a lot of time and energy to develop the content every week, film, refilm if necessary, edit the videos. The cost of mics, lighting, making sure their appearance is presentable (the reason 75% of you men are here). I believe she does other things to earn an income as well though. You watching this video and commenting is putting food on her table, yet you're complaining.
I married a woman who likes to talk theology. It has blessed my life like Psalm 128.
Wish I could have found that.
66 now. Maybe there's still a chance. Been looking in the wrong places probably.
Thanks Ajpreus, 🙏, I pray that God might do the same for me!
Thanks, Andrew 🙏, I mean!! Be blessed 🙌 🙋
The amount of bitterness in these comments simply because these women are conventionally attractive and talking about Jesus at the same time is actually insane
It's crazy
Yeah it's ridiculous
😂
you mean plastically attractive - they have had plastic surgery already .... how is that Christ like to focus on your appearance in a fake way? it's not
@@sassysays29To be modern means to accept these things as common practice even with girls within the church. They dont see it as being artificial or vane, specially if they come from fsmilies with a lot of money
'I have such a yearning to be led spiritually.' That right there speaks volumes. I would love to be led spiritually by someone that is further along in their faith than myself.
To be this young, so anchored in faith and know exactly what you want is such a blessing...God bless this young lady.
She’s in just another dream world that is ruled by her dreamy ego. Why is this any different than finding your “Prince Charming”. All words and looks eventually wear thin and then what. Fear is an emotion that wears many masks!
As someone who is very spiritual but not religious, I think there is some truth to what you're saying for this girl/girls in her situation... though I suppose it goes much deeper than we are assuming here, probably more complex than what we assume so we should reserve judgement since it's not something hurting anyone, just her/their spiritual development journey, maybe it's exactly where she needs to be at the moment... the good thing is she is looking and has made her life revolve around spirituality rather than materialism... I'd say she's doing good in my book - ie. not everyone's goal/journey is that of a nun/monk/priest/etc - even though I've essentially crucified myself spiritually, I still allow myself to be extremely flawed as an individual since truly the framework of god or the spirit is such that it exists to guide us out of our mischievious selfishness and to a greater purpose in life... so we remain flawed regardless of how spiritually inclined we are, but we get really good at catching ourselves degrading and thus immediately correct ourselves to get back on track and even further along... perhaps that's what is or will happen for this girl/etc. @@abelmcguire1951
It's not what she wants but what God has planned for her
@@abelmcguire1951if you're not a practicing Christian, you won't understand the importance of what she's looking for.
more like indoctrinated by family and community from a young age and still hasn't questioned the difficult things in christian theology.
You are on the right path. Those who wait God will send someone special in their lives.
not necessarily...
Not true
Not true, God helps those who helps themselves. People who just sit around and wait for someone special to come into life won’t receive that kind of blessing
@@vincew4297 After being a Christian for over 50 years.. I say that you are right.
Also Christians have a misconception of divine protection. So many good disciples have been killed in history. (martyred). starting with Stephen.
@@vincew4297 I agree with you 1000%. No doubt about that.
This is exactly what I was looking for in a future husband! When my now husband and I went on our first date he took me through a psalm, teaching it to me, and I knew right then he was the man I was going to marry. It was so precious and I’m so thankful for his spiritual leadership! I have grown so much in my faith since marrying him!
Pharisee
This.
Wow, I love this. Makes us single women want to keep waiting and preparing
This is beautiful indeed. It would be so beautiful to have this experience especially on a first date if the guy and the girl both intentionally bring their Bibles. After talking to each other and getting to know one another in a cafe or something, they could just break bread together and study the word of God for some time, just imagine having that intimate time together with God, ughh my heart😩. This is a way to show commitment in seriousness with intentionality to honor God and the relationship the girl and the guy are pursuing together You know when that happens he is the keeper and so is she. Now this is a desire to have.
People aren't perfect and we all come with flaws. The beautiful things about relationships is funding someone with the same commitment as you, someone who wint give up when things get difficult.
I was on a Chistian dating site for two years and could not find a Godly woman that could understand the deep things of God , i gave up and he saved a woman that was broken like i had been broken , 3 years later she knows the bible better than any woman ive known . Thank you Jesus
Praise God brother, that's great to hear and I'm so happy to hear that you no longer feel the need to spend time on dating sites.
God bless you and yours always
You do know the bible is mostly fiction right?
'christian dating sites" really shouldn't be used to be honest. Real followers of Yeshua don't have to position themselves at all God will do all of that. Christian dating sites, really defeats the whole purpose of waiting for God's pick and what God has for His children that's His BEST. It's basically taking control in one's hands and against God's word because people are not patient. With that being said, glad it worked out for you the way Our Father wanted it and not your way. Good testimony I hope people read your comment and listen and learn. Jesus Bless you.
Hahahahaha
Hahaha better stay seated 😆
This girls parents did a top notch job. Well done!!! I want my daughter to speak these words too one day.
How do we know she didn’t just finish 3 hours of squirting videos last week?
Amen amen
As long as she loyal
She's into her religion too early that she's gonna get burned out and have nothing but resentment for it later. She should've waited until she matured and realized what she's based her life around.
How? She's been ran thru? She ain't wifey material
This is my story!! ❤ 🥲 🙌
GOD has blessed our marriage and our children because of our obedience to Him.
Total BS😂😂😂😂😂😂
So few of you left out there! Most modern women are de-mons in disguise!
Ten years in and we love serving GOD together. ❤
@@3178527 congrats ignore the troll.
Wait, and see.
Couples need to be ‘in Alignment’ - Mind, Body, and Spirit.
🙌💯
I knew how to be loved treated in way I wanted to be from young kid thanks to my well adjusted loving parents who I trusted & honoured. We were shown not just told good examples of how to live take care of ourselves given respect trust protected. Regularly told how much we were loved wanted made their life ❤ I truly believe because we grew up in such a close connected family that it definitely contributed to both my Brother & I growing up to be strong independent proud & appreciative of our lives given. I definitely can say I only had good young men I dated who always looked after me well because of the way I was raised/treated...all thanks to my parents who were the best 💞
@@jangriffin-fi1yx you are a blessed person and clearly are grateful. 😇Not everyone shares your experience which is a sad state of affairs.
@@Supportfreespeech True & that saddens me greatly as kids do not ask to be born. Thank you for your kind words 🤗 💗
Aligned with God's will and equally yoked by God's grace.
Stay away from narcissistic types guys.
Yeah luckily for all of the guys out there, this chick is going be alone forever because no one is good enough for her. Half of the earth dodged a bullet.
That’s the perfect guy for her bc that’s what she is
When she gets the handsome fella with the big church, they will direct your p.os. car to the lot in back of the church, that leads to the back row seats, for ugly people, so you don't ruin the pod cast. They still need your money for the hair color appointment tomorrow, and the tan salon the next day, and so on.
@@johnsimoney2035absolutely agree with you!
That is exactly what she is... using anyone spirituality intead of having her own journey
I’ve been to a few churches where the women would complain to the pastor about being single, and making comments such as “the men in the church do not approach them.” But when these single men do build the courage to approach a woman in church, they over spiritualize the entire situation. And because they are unable to make a choice, they’ll deny that man altogether without taking a chance. Meanwhile, these same women would give men outside of the covenant of God chance, after chance, after chance, after chance, after chance, and etc..
She is giving the big talk to appear pious and clean. She is not after a man of God first and foremost at all. It'll just be a bonus to her if he is Christian. But It'll be 3rd on her list. She is a very pretty girl. Model gorgeous. She is primarily after a jock. A baller. And she could land one.
Most (younger single) men in the church are socially awkward - and they have no personality ( game) other than quoting scripture.
In truth, romantic success is primarily determined by genetic blessing/physical desirability/sex appeal and often their expression of interest in other factors is a facade/pretence and does not decide/influence their true romantic choices.
You just said it “unable to make a choice” …with social media and dating apps plus the men they meet in public, women have so many options it leads to choice paralysis and constantly holding out for the better option.
@@umarchowdhury7752
Physical and sexual attraction is what gets your attention. Spiritual connection with your partner and Christ at the center is what sustains it and makes it flourish
Isaiah 60:22 NLT “…when the time is right, I, the lord will make it happen”.
I am editing this because of some comments and further comments that may appear. I am currently using my NLT study bible. Which says this
“The smallest family will become a thousand people, and the tiniest group will become a nation. At the right time, I, the Lord will make it happen”
I’ll give some context but first I’ll use the full version from the KJV
Isaiah 60:22 KJV
“A little one shall become a thousand, and a small one a strong nation: I the Lord will hasten it in his time.”
For the end of that chapter, in context, is the Lord saying your people shall be righteous, you shall inherit the land forever because of the work of my hands from which i have planted. So that I may be glorified. In Verse 22 the Lord identifies himself as the covenant God of Israel. His identity ensures that it’s not gonna happen until it happens and when it happens it’s going to happen quickly. All by his hand! Praise the Lord!
Now why did I post this verse in relation to the video? First, Praise Jesus because his word is alive! He can bring his word through the mouth of a mule and bring his word through….his word!!
Now In short, Jesus told me this very word because I am not ready to be a steward for one of his daughter’s hearts. I have been wrestling with him. I asked him, “why do you close every door?” And he said when the time is right, I the Lord will make it happen.
So, after seeing this short I felt led to share this verse because I believe he will use his word to tell someone this very same thing! And if that’s you praise our Father! 😊
AMEN 🙏 😊❤❤❤❤❤😊😊😊
Isaiah 60:22
"A little one shall become a thousand, and a small one a strong nation: I the Lord will hasten it in his time."
YES! ABSOLUTELY 🙌💜♥️ AMEN 🙌
I'm still waiting
Amen, I am also waiting 😊
Beautiful when you see two ladies who keep their bodies covered, literally puts tears of joy in my eyes. May God favour them for their modesty
There is nothing better than growing in faith together and watching your relationship grow from the struggles of life together. Theres nothing greater than walking together in life. How does one expect a great man to just show up in life. Men and women were created for eachother to help eachother.
That is very true statement
Agreed
True.
OMG! I thought i was the only crazy person to aspire for this, so thanks! This makes me feel so included❤❤
You're the new firebrand generation of God.
When I started looking to date, my friend told me the same thing: make sure the girl you find is more spiritually mature than you..
I was perplexed and said: If the girl is looking for the same thing, how does that work..?? lol
You are not crazy at all. Many of us aspire for this, myself included.
It's the way that God intended. A woman of God and a man leading her spiritually so that they both stay strong in faith. And if he struggles, she reminds him too. That's why it's crucial that both are Christian
Same.
It's Soo good to hear a woman talk with such enthusiasm about religion and relationships
Yeah but she is delusional. She wants a spiritual man who is 6 feet or more, makes mid-Six figure income, is a 10 in the looks category, is willing to do the household chores, etc.etc.etc.😮🤣😘👋
And she is beautiful too......
May God bless her and all of us!
Yeah
Agreed
Yes and she's gorgeous to boot
Really need to hear this and know that patience, faith, and love is the key to keep going. God bless you sister🙏💞
As a grandma I absolutely love watching and listening to you girls talk about the Lord and waiting for a man that's spiritually further along than. This is also my heart's desire after being left by my husband years ago. You are so on the right track🙏💙🙏
Romans 7:2-3
King James Version
2 For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband.
3 So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man.
Luke 16:18
King James Version
18 Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth adultery: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth adultery.
Matthew 5:31-32
King James Version
31 It hath been said, Whosoever shall put away his wife, let him give her a writing of divorcement:
32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.
Those are Jesus words not mine in the Matthew Luke mark.Mark 10:9-12
King James Version
9 What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.
10 And in the house his disciples asked him again of the same matter.
11 And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth adultery against her.
12 And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery.
A spiritual man would not be interested in a spiritually immature woman. Theology, is not the route to spiritual growth.
True.
So true. Jesus is the route. Jesus said: I am the way, the true and the life. He didn’t say theology was the way to follow
@@mysaviorisjesus3416no man cometh unto the Father but by Him!
literally, i have a feeling, what she want has nothing too do with spiritual maturity probably , mature pockets lol
I agree. Also, she is searching for a narcissistic guru on whom she should rely instead on Jesus and the word of God. She sees this future man as a sort of God who would lead her, which gives me the creeps. This would be a typical manipulative relationship in which this guy would be her compass.
God chose a man for me that wasn't even close to believe in God. But he listens and his faith is growing. He trusted me right from the beginning and turns to God more and more by himself. It's beautiful to witness the unfolding of his own path in God. Even when he doesn't recognize it, he speaks the wisdom of God to help me grow and walk on this path.
As God wants more souls to awaken to Its glory, i think we should lead those souls ready to open their heart to God but unaware yet. It's not easy, even challenging, but so rewarding in God going out of our comfort zone.
God works in many ways and not everyone's story is the same due to that. Yours is very encouraging sister.
Yes this is God's purpose in relating now. It is sad little Christians have their heart open for this because this is what God's heart is like. ❤
Mines the same way! He wasn’t more spiritually mature than me but he was willing and that’s all that ever matters. ❤
Thank you much for saying this!
This is encouraging, thank you for sharing. I pray that mine will be more willing
I’ve been with my Husband for 20 years and understand you. I am so happy I found a true Spiritual Leader. He is amazing ❤
Most women can't handle the level of discipline that comes with a true man of God I promise you
It takes a hell of a man to be better than no man at all. I married a great Muslim guy. Christian guys want someone to rule and reign over.
yep because God will expect more out of THEM
Are you saying there is more true men of God than women ? Do you go to church ? I think the ratio of spiritually disciplined people is quite equal that’s only my real life observation though
@@rainsara2795 I took his comment to mean that women have to be very disciplined in their submission to what he THINKS is a true man of God.
But I could have taken it wrong.
I am a Christian feminist woman married happily to my partner who happens to be Muslim. We have a boy and a girl both raised Christian with full knowledge of Islam who have both graduated from college. My daughter is a mechanical engineer ( rocket scientist)married to a nice Christian man and they have 3 children. My son is a heart surgeon like his father. He, too, is a Christian married with 2 young children.
I NEVER would EVER submit to a male just because he was male. If he was my employer, I'd submit to his reasonable requests. I taught my children the same. We are equals.
Sometimes I lead in things. Sometimes my husband leads in things. I am led by Jesus and the Holy Spirit. I go to NO man for what I can get directly from God. Between you and me, most men are STUPID. Not mine; but most.
These FAKE Christian guys complain feminists wacked their balls. Nope. feminism just EXPOSED them as the eunuchs that they already are. They did it to themselves.
Can you imagine standing next to a guy that you have to blow hot air into all the time just to puff up his ego? Or can you imagine dummying it down spiritually so your husband can feel like the "leader"? The whole message of the torn vail is that ALL believers have direct access to God through Jesus in us. That is also how we HEAR His VOICE audibly, make trips to heaven ( it's IN HIM), exercise the Spiritual gifts of healing, prophecy and words of knowledge. Thank God I don't have to go to the Pope. Thank God that I don't have to go to my husband or ANY man.
I have an EQUAL say in what goes on in our home. For instance, if I wanted to move to Florida and my husband wanted to move to Pennsylvania, we would either mutually agree on the location or I would move to Florida and he could move wherever he wanted. There is NO rule that I submit or obey him just because of his plumbing. These poor churched boys still want to be gods. None of that comes from Jesus.
If a man is really a man, there is no woman on the planet that can emasculate him. It's really difficult to find an intact Christian male. You'll find one on the farm long before you'll find one attending these FAKE churches today.
I'll tell you a man's "role" in the household: Replace the engine in the truck faster than I can do it or I'll replace the engine and he can clean the house, do the laundry and cook dinner.
These "churched" boys want a female and a family to rule and reign over. They can find that in Mormonism.
@@rainsara2795
That's gonna change EXTREMELY SOON!
When I was around 15, I asked God to send me the perfect woman to marry. And I got married at the age of 35. Before I got married, I had several girlfriends, but after a few weeks in the relationship, there was a sign from God telling me that I got the wrong person. I was never desperate to get married. I have been married for over 12 years, but family, love, and faith are still growing.
This is nice, been the same for me God always showed me the wrong one after a short time into the relationship. I dated some lovely ladies but they weren’t searching for God the way I was.
Amen
God sure took his time.
How did you guys meet if you don’t mind me asking? Was it in a religious event or out in the wild?
Story of my life
I was too smart to be fooled by every girl I dated
Never liked anyone within a few months together as I was not a simp
Finally got married at the age of 31
So so wonderful to see healthy strong spiritually uncompromising women, the smile of heaven is over you xx
Don't you see it? They will likely end up with a cat or two
@@ralfulrich6254that s a worldy perspective she won’t as long as she is obedient to God submits to him and she will eventually submit to her future husband, walks in faith, and strives to be the spouse she desires in her future spouse she is good.
So Interesting to see so many sides to her desire in a man of God in her life.
I totally understand her point & thank her for being vulnerable & sharing one of her deepest desires with us. She is a Christian so she is speaking both logically & spiritually. I am pretty sure she knows its not about just getting a guy who is further along in faith but someone who is deeply in love with God who has something to bring to the relationship for the long haul. Only God can give her that peace & confirmation that she so desires. God created us, so he knows what he is doing with her faith in God.
From experience, I had a desire for my man to love God more than me & was goal driven. And.....God answered my prayer and beyond... God is amazing. I couldn't share this desire with others because people would not understand and see it one-sided. We have been married for over 8 years this year & he still leads us in the Lord every day. ❤
God designed us to be led spiritually by the HOLY SPIRIT, not by another person, including a spouse.
god speaks to us through people
No god is leading us by rules and manners documented in Quran, there is no third party in between, it doesn't make sense anyways, wake up people
@@bluetiger5852did god wrote the quran himself😅
What trash is this??? Have you not read Genesis 2 or Ephesians 5:22-24??? Wives are to be led by their husbands AND by HOLY SPIRIT.
@@bluetiger5852 Bro, this is a discussion amongst Christians. You're on the wrong thread. Turn to JESUS!
When I met my wife I was so lost. Not an atheist, but just so mad at the world, and no direction. She spoke of God to me and introduced me to Christian music. On my birthday 15 years ago she took me to see Third Day in a small venue. I was drinking the whole way up there, not knowing she was going to surprise me. I had been battling alcoholism since a young age and when I saw the sign on the theatre that said, Third Day live, I just broke down and cried like a little kid. I walked into that concert smelling like beer, buzzed, wondering what people would say. But God was with me there. Shining His light on us. Pouring Himself into my brokenness. Blessing us. He saved me. He blessed me with an amazing wife and best friend.
I say this because I believe that sometimes a good woman can also lead a man. She had faith in God, in our marriage. We now have a strong marriage and family, with God as our center. Our kids know God, and this story too. I want women to know that they also have so much power to help a man, to influence a man in a positive way so they can see God in you, and seek Him. A woman’s faith is just as powerful as a man’s.
Good for you man
Love this testimony 🥲 God bless you & your family 🙏
Hallelujah, praise the Lord. Our God is amazing God.
Comment section seems to forget that the lady said "For me". She wants and deserves a man that will lead her, this is the desire that God put in her heart.
True
Correct.
She’s not gonna find it unless it’s a man twice her age
@@skyislight3804 True
@@skyislight3804she will find him coz the same way there are women who as on the spiritual path, there's also men in the same journey and when you find your partner... Damn even Christmas can compare to that joy
1. What do you understand by being led spiritually ??
2. Having a lot of knowledge of theology or the Bible does not necessarily mean you are more advanced in your faith. The most important thing is to live in obedience to God, to live a life that is pleasing to
him.
3. Knowing scriptures does not mean you understand the Word of God, although to understand the Word you must know the scriptures. In French we say: La Parole de Dieu c'est la révélation derrière les écrit dans la Bible.
I prayed for a husband who loves God more than me and he answered me 18 years together 14 married, we also waited till marriage❤
You waited till marriage? Now were you a virgin?
4 years dating? This is not permissible according to the Bible.
When women talk like this they have no idea that their calling is so much deeper with God, and the one who they're looking for is God himself not another man.
Very true. A good marriage should not be one sided. “For the unbelieving husband has been sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife has been sanctified through her believing husband.“ 1 Corinthians 7:14
Very true
AMEN
Amen! Jesus is the mandatory third wheel everyone needs in their marriage! Because He is the yoke that will bind both husband and wife together. Don't look for the man. Look for God!
@Yeshua_is_the_messiah I agree with your point and that is why I don't buy into the whole excitement. Idolizing a "man" and I will leave the stereotype of what that "man" looks like, is opening a door to something that is spiritually unhealthy. In other words, this is the confirmation that any woman who is in search of that perfect man is really in need of our saviour, the only perfect man. Imagine finding a so called perfect "man" , God forbids especially in looks and as time goes, the "Christian" lady becomes disillusioned and guess what another reason why there is rampant divorce in the Christian community. May God have mercy on anyone who is in it (in the faith) for a marriage. Your faith is so much more than that and marriage, although a good thing, should not be idolized nor a partner worshipped. Jesus should be worshipped and the focus of our faith. Should He, in his sovereignty, bless us in due time with a partner, with the understanding and discernment that both are not perfect and submit and rely on Jesus to make them one, then That's a good thing. Finally I appreciate this channel for the content that helps the conversation, however I caution everyone not to be distracted but the superficiality of the Christian theme, stay vigilant and keep your eyes on Jesus.
Such a wise words. I totally am in the same boat as you Angie, it’s easy to date but finding a spiritual human leader is not running around town. This is why only God can write the right matching love story for each of us. ❤
Same , I’m still not far in my faith with God but when I am . He will bring me someone much farther in faith and worships him .
yes sister! I pray God blesses you with the man God has in store for you because He absolutely will in Jesus Name. May He shine HIs face upon you and be gracious to you and fill you with Peace that surpasses all understanding in Jesus Name!
You're a wise girl, i pray for you so God gives the right one for your life 🙏
God is allowing this to happen so that you can trust in Him for what seems impossible. What seems impossible to you, is possible to God :) I felt God leading me to spread the gospel to guys I have talked to in the past and tell them to stop being lukewarm. I chose God over the flesh and a desire for a relationship. As a result, I earned some people’s respect because I was willing to put God before the person. Furthermore, I am not worried about finding a man that is more spiritual than me because I know there are many out there. If you u choose to worry, you are not trusting in God completely and you are making room for the enemy to attack your mind. Faith is trusting God without seeing His promise in our lives (yet.) God wants to grow and strengthen your faith, not let you worry, stress and fear that a godly man like this is does not exist. They do and I have met men who are not afraid to preach the gospel and be bold for Christ. It’s just not God’s Time for you yet. He’s still working on you: growing your faith and building your character. The Bible says “trust in the lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways, acknowledge Him, and He shall make your paths straight.” If your not trusting in the lord with ALL OF YOUR HEART❤️ your path will be crooked., I hope you understand. It’s important for all Christian’s to seek Christ and not earthly things because these things are distractions that keep us away from Christ. Most people want a man so they won’t feel lonely anymore, but God could be calling a women to spread the gospel through her marriage. How would she be prepared for that task if she’s not reading the Bible and praying daily instead of worrying she will never find a true man of a God who is compatible to her? No. God calls us to “seek peace and pursue it.” Do this with all your heart, pray, fast, read the Bible daily and their will not be room for the lies of the enemy in your mind. Of the devil is attacking you more, start praying and fasting more. Turn on the audio Bible when you exercise. Fill your mind with God’s word instead of the voices of people if you want to see the path God has prepared for you. “God has plans to prosper you and not to harm you. To give you a hope and a future.” -Jeremiah 29:11
@@sherinjacob2748 thanks beautiful🙏🏼 wish you all the best too
I needed the opposite to balance out my strengths and I his. My husband isn't big on talking about theology like I am, he will when it is applicable....but he has cultivated the Queen of virtue: wisdom, and his silent sermons to our 10 children via his actions--protection, provision, and tangible love to his children--has taught me how to love Jesus and live as I believe.
You are a wise, blessed lady.
"I never dated a guy that GOD would've approved for me..."
That's a warning gentlemen...
May the force be with you!
Litterally the bar is so high you'll end up pinned to the ceiling.
@@spaceboy3101sounds demonic
Huge red flag lol
@@spaceboy3101 Lmao.
It’s troublesome that a imperfect human would know what Gods approval is or is not. Do we truly know Gods approval system? It’s one thing to ask… yes… but to know? With such confidence… that God did or did not approve? Hmmmm 🤔
Yes, I was about to say the same as these comments in that you just have to grow together. And sometimes 1 really helps the other and oftentimes. If the husband isn't as far along or mature spiritually, it helps the wife to mature. If you'll cling to God and let God grow you first. There's just so much to say about this.
This generation kills relationships. People make things so complicated they end u dying alone. its a lot of good men and women out there.
Facts!
So true.
I just want a nice girl
There’s not a lot of good men and women out there. 😎👍🏻
@@GarrotWire This is the truth. Let’s be real here
A woman can think she’s spiritually ahead and not be. The man isn’t your pastor he’s a partner.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 spot on
Biblically, the man is suppose to be the priest of his home. He is suppose to wash his wife with the word. He is supposed to be the leader. The Bible doesn’t say anything about partner.
Man is a Priest in that house
Man is the “head of his wife” yall should read the scripture lmao
@@KevinSamuelsKid But head needs brain, isn't it ? So logically if man is a head, woman is a brain. It is said that woman is a soul of a family. Where is soul dwells ?
I’m so thankful that God yoked me with a Godly woman who is further along in her faith journey. She has been a blessing for me in my faith journey.
Interesting. By her standards she would never marry a man like you bc you’re not “further along” than her. But you and your wife did it (which is completely okay) and grown. Glad you’re both being blessed brother.
That's really nice 😊
It’s not real though. It just makes you feel good.
Amen
But how long will you be single ? A strong bond builds at a young age, when you share and create great memories with one another and feel connected with their families.
It doesn’t work that way for everyone.
Honestly im scared to start a journey with someone lets say age 26 or 31..like she says building a bond at a young age and not gave went througgh so many thungs in life is strong@Vs1one
@@Andrianapm1first get an education so you can articulate your thoughts properly and use proper spelling and grammar. 🥴
@TheBlogWasWendi omg I didn't even notice lol. Must've been autocorrect
Amen 🙏 I waited and God sent me my husband 3 yrs ago and Hold on Sister 💖 God does choose the best for us!!! I have a leader, a teacher, a protector and provider!!! He is my Head but I am his Heart 💜 And I am so happy to have waited for the Lord and obeyed Him... God Bless you and hold fast!!!
If you're going to be anything to him....trust me....just be his peace, and keep him satisfied. That is it! He'll run through brick walls for you.
Amen . This is beautiful 😁👌🏾✨
most of the men who are further along in their faith than you are 20 or more years older and they have acquired the wisdom that only experience can provide.
No, I am where I am spiritually because I pursue God not perfectly but because I am seeking I am finding. It isn't because of 20 years of experience, it is intentional pursuit of the Lord and that is what she is looking for.
Amen she's kinda delusional
@@corybee1👀👀
Weird pedo answer. Seek jesus christ to fix that for u buddy.
Not true I've been pretty far along in my faith since I was 15. I've walked with God (Jesus) the past 32 years since then and still single, but I was in a place (Air Force) where there were very few if not many Christian women at all so I'm single. I'm in seminary now so I'm praying and hoping things change. Been praying for that wife for almost 30 years so I know what it is like to walk alone with God. There are mature Godly men that are young, and a woman isn't going to attract that kind of man unless she does the same. I've met plenty of women that were 10's but I wasn't attracted to them, but they were to me, because they were not walking with God.
My husband was actually not a believer when I met him... But he found Christ and has grown so much. We are married and have a son. ❤
Oh what made him believe. I'm not a particular religion but I wouldn't mind marrying a Christian woman tbh
Because unlike this girl. You didnt give up on him. Message to this girl. So if you won't date a man below your level of faith why do you feel god has a man ABOVE your level of faith that will overlook it to be with you? You get what you give in this world. Instead of giving up on people. Help them find the way. You're saying you wont be with someone below your faith level but want someone above yours. That is narcissistic and hypocritical.
georgemuggleton6571 Your spirituality is your personal responsibility and journey with God, and reflects on your character as a man and leader. Stop demanding and guilt tripping women into leading you - that’s unfairly putting her into masculine energy.
I am a born again believer in Jesus Christ. He is tge only one more Spiritual dear. Your greatest works are like filthy rags. There is not one worthy or righteous.
@@georgemuggleton6571I think that the words "narcissistic and hypocritical" are very unfortunate. I am a man and i understand exactly what she is saying. It is embedded in scripture. For me, what she is saying resonates with Ephesians 5 : 22 -24.
I agree that compatibility in Spiritual maturity is very important in finding a life partner
You dont need no theologian you just need a good christian man who loves God loves you and loves your children.
Exactly. But that doesn't seem enough for her, which means that she is not interested in Christ but in a narcissistic experience with a narcissistic guru, whom she would follow and adore as if he were Christ himself. Her statement gives me the creeps.
It can also mean that God wants her to be single.
@@michaelasun7593 I didn't take that at all I take it that she wants a Super Christian that leads a better life than her
Mrreality
Idk. There are good Christian men that go to church and listen to scripture but they also couldn’t hold an hour long intellectual discussion on scripture.
It’s not that she’s narcissistic but that she craves intelligent conversation it seems to me. I’ve had many conversations and sometimes debates on subjects for fun purely to expand and test knowledge on a subject. The majority of people I know don’t seem to care that much to have deep conversations especially if the subject maybe unknowable.
But there are some people that do. I remember once having a conversation about if Christ will return with a beard or not.
This woman isn’t narcissistic but wanting intellectual conversation rather than purely a religious man that’s churched.
Michael
She’s not narcissistic. I listened to and it seems she just wants someone that’s knowledgeable enough to teach her. Many Christian’s are good people but not motivated enough to read the Zohar or Jewish commentary on the Bible. Many just read the Bible and are good people which is good. Others like a deeper historical and intellectual perspective or analysis of things.
Some Christians will admit how similar the Adam and Eve story is to stories on tablets from Babylon but it’s almost like if you try to learn to much it’s almost heretical. A century ago or more experts were actually worried about translating some of those tablets in fear of religious backlash.
If you find this 'perfect man', leave him alone; you'll ruin him.
WTF
Literally, like you don’t want a man who isn’t as far in his faith journey as you but you want someone so unbelievably far in his faith journey?
My wife has this. Yet I went from 5 times a day to once a month? So listening to her makes me think she doesn't like passion where it's needed.
@@davidhvacddc you don't listen to her. she gotta summit to you and you gotta lead not her lead that goes against God. Look how Eve got us all into this mess by an adam following after her lead.
Lol was not expecting this comment
Having a man who will follow The Lord wholeheartedly and be submissive to His will is more important than someone who knows the components of dispensationalism… Yes, Theology is important, but the heart is what God looks at… so should we when seeking a spouse.
I guarantee this woman's standards are so high that even if one of the apostles were alive and single today would be shunned. She wants a GQ man from Hollywood that looks like Brad Pitt and has the same bank account but says they love Jesus.
Im a God fearing, single Christian woman. And even yet I don't expect my husband to this theologian. I don't expect him to be a preacher. What I am looking for is a man with a kingdom mindset. To be of one mind. To love and serve the Lord together using our spiritual gifts to serve God and others.
Amen! And God does the melting proces.
She just has a jezebel goal to tick off on her wishlist to break a Godly man & she desires for him to worship her instead of god, so many jezebels like her getting a major high from breaking a religious man...💯
It's exactly the same mindset but higher just like their getting a married man to commit adultery with a jezebel like this to then leave his wife & children for her, they believe their looks are more deserving of being worshipped than God, do not be fooled by the supposed religious deceptive jezebel...💯
She just has a jezebel goal to tick off on her wishlist to break a Godly man & she desires for him to worship her instead of god, so many jezebels like her getting a major high from breaking a religious man...💯
Dating is not a biblical concept & it is ungodly, shes a hypocrite, a real religious man would only ever court a woman with her fathers awareness, approval & pre-vetting before consenting to him courting his daughter, she has never been courted & is definitely not a virgin either...💯
It's exactly the same mindset but higher just like their getting a married man to commit adultery with a jezebel like this to then leave his wife & children for her, they believe their looks are more deserving of being worshipped than God, do not be fooled by the supposed religious deceptive jezebel...💯
You all are absolutely beautiful! It is awesome to watch people who truly love GOD! And that you make you’re entire podcast around the word of GOD
My God-fearing husband found me and led me back to Christ. He even re-baptized me. I am so blessed! Ty, Father!
Wait, re baptized you ??
@@cduenas2008right ? Shitshow lol
Unless your first baptism has invalid. Then that’s calm
No need for re baptism, once washed in the blood of Christ all you need is repentance of the sins and mistakes you make….
@@PretentiousCaddybaby baptism does count or Father Son Holy Ghost baptism doesn't count because they fail to call on the name of Lord. Acts 22:16
King James Version
16 And now why tarriest thou? arise, and be baptized, and wash away thy sins, calling on the name of the Lord.
Jesus said repentance of sins in his name and Acts 2:38 u get name.
Luke 24:47-48
King James Version
47 And that repentance and remission of sins should be preached in his name among all nations, beginning at Jerusalem.
48 And ye are witnesses of these things.
Pastor Chuck swindoll once said,” Don’t find a woman you can’t live without, find one you can live with “ chuck is a very wise man.
Wise man?... the guy believes in an invisible bearded man who lives in the sky, who can walk on water, and is a son of himself...
I think your wisemeter is not working well...
Nope. You’ve got it wrong. James Dobson said don’t chose a person you can live with. Chose one that you can’t live without.
@@queenofdahouse1591his quote is the other way around lol it got me confused.
This is a very true statement. I'm studying at the same seminary he did but, I was in the armed forces much longer than him. I've met a few women here so far initially I wasn't attracted too but after spending time with them and talking to them I find them allot more attractive.
A deep love for Jesus (God) and humility are very important traits to look for in a woman. As a guy you should be the same. The fruits of the spirit usually fall into place in both lives when they walk humbly with Jesus.
Not only can you see it in their life but in how they treat other people. Attitude and humility are two very important traits in a marriage. You also have to learn to love unconditionally for a marriage to work or else it will eventually fall apart.
I’m literally going through a break up rn but I know it’s bc God has something better for me. When me and my ex started dating I wasn’t with Christ. It’s through our relationship that I found God and it changed everything in our relationship. He was no longer the man I wanted bc my wants had changed and now I know that what I need is a Man of God
Good for you! Hold out for a man who honors God first, and also honors you ❤️
Good for you
You wanted something new to ride on just say that
For a girl to have the Love of God and Fear of the Lord is undoubtedly one of the best qualities a girl can have! Unfortunately as a man I’m still not married. But I pray to God for someone like that.
Expect to wait decades like I have been, and I mean DECADES!!!!
@@SeemoreButts-d6xThat's not true at all. I encourage this brother to persevere and wait patiently in the Lord because he does everything in his time!! 👌🏻🎉 And it's wonderful! Not your time, not mine, HIS!
We need to truely be patient, which we often fail to be lol. We need to asked God for that. He teaches us.
But hey...
☆Waiting for God's timming may also give us a greater miracle than we had hopped for!☆
@Ruv555 my previous comment is to encourage you and to not take the negativity from people which are humans and not God.
Which god ?
Translation: None of the Christian guys I’ve dated passed the looks test…your welcome.
You don't respect a man because is more mature in faith no you respect him because it's commanded by scripture to do so.
Unfortunately, many "Christian" ladies can't walk the talk. I found it problematic when a lady is waiting and praying for a "great or good" man instead of praying to be a "great or good or mature" woman. This applies also to Christian brothers, pray that God makes you the right husband. Let me point out also that the definition of greatness can also be concerning in Christian circles, be careful and be humble. Fall in love with God and be committed to him, surely that will teach you humility and commitment.
Thank you bro. Very good point
It should be done in balance. She can pray for a good man and also strive to be a good woman. Same goes for men. They both should change to be what they are looking for simple as that. They can’t expect to find the godly man or godly woman if they can’t work on themselves being the godly man or godly woman for their future spouse.
@@daughteroftheking3220 We both agree, don't We?
@@godeleinpatrick yes we do God bless you 🙏
I think it's better to find a good man who shares your values and wants to walk in faith with you. He doesn't need to be on a higher spiritual plane. I think most women are naturally more "spiritual" than men. My husband of 30 years is good and kind and lives his faith. He doesn't necessarily talk about his faith much, he just lives it. I'm a proud and thankful wife.
But living the faith is & comes off higher than talking the faith in the hallmark of faith. Your dude is a great person