How to impress your crush: be elegant, not underdressed or overdressed, be calm, smile, keep looking at him, wait patiently until he approaches you. When he approaches you, don’t try to make things happen - just let him lead. Don’t initiate texts! Don’t try to let him know you fancy him! Let him discover it. Don’t pursue him - it’s his job to pursue you. It feels good to a man to pursue a woman. It doesn’t feel good to a wonan to pursue a man. If his desire for you is strong enough, he will pursue you and he will make things happen (without your help). If not, he won’t. You can’t make him love you, if you turn out not to be his type. But there will be other men whose type you will be and who you will like.
Hello, ladies. I have something I want to share with you. I want to ask a question to a person from an application. The person I am talking about is a relationship coach. But in my country, there is no access to this application. So I can't download it. Is there anyone who is willing to download the application for me and ask questions in exchange for money? The application is only accessible in the USA and Canada.
Lots of men say that they like when women text first. They also feel confused about where they stand if a woman is just sitting around waiting on him to do everything. There’s nothing wrong with women also showing interest.
Hello, ladies. I have something I want to share with you. I want to ask a question to a person from an application. The person I am talking about is a relationship coach. But in my country, there is no access to this application. So I can't download it. Is there anyone who is willing to download the application for me and ask questions in exchange for money? The application is only accessible in the USA and Canada.
Women connect through talking. Men connect through action. Women have to understand that 3 hrs of talking over the phone is not bonding for a man. May be bonding beetween a woman and her female friends but not between a woman and a man. A man connects and bonds with a woman when he DOES something for her , not just sits and talks.
@@SaveTheMessengerHello, I want to ask you a question. Some male relationship coaches say that a man should always love a woman a little less than a woman does. Because they say that when a man loves a woman a little more, a woman always cools down. On the contrary, they say that men do not cool down. Do you think this is true?
@@BesteKutlu-s5lbecause that benefits THEM .. a man has to be a little bit more obsessed with a woman in order for it to be long term because they are naturally polygamous 😢
Hello, ladies. I have something I want to share with you. I want to ask a question to a person from an application. The person I am talking about is a relationship coach. But in my country, there is no access to this application. So I can't download it. Is there anyone who is willing to download the application for me and ask questions in exchange for money? The application is only accessible in the USA and Canada.
Hello, ladies. I have something I want to share with you. I want to ask a question to a person from an application. The person I am talking about is a relationship coach. But in my country, there is no access to this application. So I can't download it. Is there anyone who is willing to download the application for me and ask questions in exchange for money? The application is only accessible in the USA and Canada.
Hello, ladies. I have something I want to share with you. I want to ask a question to a person from an application. The person I am talking about is a relationship coach. But in my country, there is no access to this application. So I can't download it. Is there anyone who is willing to download the application for me and ask questions in exchange for money? The application is only accessible in the USA and Canada.
psychopaths stare (and blink), keeping eye contact FAR longer than most people would in social settings. They are analysing you. Sociopaths are like psychopaths, though they choose to become this way. With psychopaths it is genetic, they are literally born without the wiring for empathy, and cannot overcome this.
None of these tips matter if you’re not physically attractive. More than 50% of impressing a dude is your appearance, energy, style, confidence, self-esteem and presentation. If he looks at you and he’s impressed, you already got his attention. Now keep it with your intelligence and personality. I’m surprised you didn’t once mentioned about how a woman should present herself.
@@effortlesssuccess2585 That's not true. Men also care about soulmates and someone who really looks into their eyes and if someone genuenly has feelings towards you it's hard to not respond to it. Looks is not everything.
@@sachalebabe No man wants you to be looking into his eyes when you’re not attractive. He’s going to be repulsed and not interested. You have to get his attention first. If you can’t even get his attention, you can forget about it. Men are hardwire to physical attraction first, all the other stuff which is emotional and psychological are after. If you ladies don’t even understand this basic concept that physical attraction is extremely important for men to get their attention. Then you’re never going to impress any dude that you want.
@@effortlesssuccess2585 Thsn those gyys can very possibly meet shallow women whom they might marry but won't be real soulmates and they won't hsve a deep conection with.
@sachalebabe True. I agree. Physical attraction can only attract people with shallow personalities. It is the person that is inside that can sustain a relationship. Physical attraction can only bring a one night stand. And if a woman or a man relies on the Physical then they will be a very lonely person as they age. So always better to concentrate on the person you are and to better the soul you are. That will attract the right person for you for long term happiness.
@@sachalebabe No man wants a woman to be looking into his eyes if he doesn’t find her attractive. Physical attraction sets the stage for getting someone’s initial attention.
This came on just the right time, about to go meet up with him, Ill share the outcome when I'm back, THANK YOU SO MUCH! EDIT: Me and the guy used to just be friends before I picked up feelings we grew a bond but then we departed because of a great misunderstanding, today I tried these tricks and he talked to me again telling me he just felt too comfortable with me too believe the misconception, we talked it out and we're back together stronger than ever!! I couldn't have done it without the vid cuz I'm really socially awkward and shy around him but now in a few hours we solved 22 weeks worth of argument. I really appreciate THANK YOU!!
I have two gym crushes but they both best friend and likes me a lot… always give me eye contact and smiles and one would raised his eyebrows. But I’m 34th and they both looks like 18th. Lol I
One guy used to follow me for three months. And all of a sudden he disappeared. I don't even know his name. We never spoke to each other. But we have a strong eye contact. I can't forget him. Its been three months now. I don't know what happened.
@@Carmen-hu9vk Not stalking, we used to look at each other. He did try to approach me, but I did something stupid. I barely saw him twice later, that too in some other places by chance. I don't know why I can't stop thinking about him, I don't even know his name.
@Isushmasagar Too bad. Maybe his self-esteem suffered somehow. You are curious about this mystery man. After all, he caught your attention. Hope you two hook up somehow. If not, it wasn't meant to be. I wish you the best.
Ismael I need to ask on your opinion about second chances. What I hear a lot is: if someone left you once, they will do it again. Or: never trust someone who already hurt you once. Can you make a video on that? Because on the other hand: wouldn't we all like to get second chances ourselves? Isn't it posible to learn and grow or that there was wrong timing and then things change? I'd love your advice on that.
My man is pretty wonderful… calls sometimes several times a day and night, sends gifts on all holidays, looks forward to me visiting him monthly because I am in Arizona he in California. Treats me great when there. Why don’t I trust him? Maybe something happening I can’t see? Don’t understand my feeling of fear. Can you help?
This is all high school. Why can't people just be who they are, and if it's not unfortunately mutual, then you have no choice but to move on. It's a sad fact of this shallow, sad world that people will get rejected but hey, what can you do??!
Hi ismael , Thank you so much for your work❤.. Can you please do a video on how to break cycle of falling in love with emotionally unavailable men.. I don’t know how to help myself
I have a crush on this guy for more than 2 years, he is not interested in relationship or anything like that.last year he also developed a crush on me. He used to text me first and everything went well. We only talked two or three times. He used to make eye contacts with me, stare at me in class. But suddenly one day he stopped and never contacted me, we still see eachother at school but i think he does not like me anymore. What can i do to bring him back.(There is no other girl in his life)
I would say, don’t obsess about 1 guy. See multiple guys and only give your time and attention to those whose energy you feel is coming towards you. Then choose your most favourite one.
If he switched on you so abruptly and did not give you a reason then firstly I would have talked to him and asked him maturely what happened that he changed so much but if he is not interested in explaining himself then maybe he just backed off as he realised he might have not been as interested in you as he thought. I know that is not easy to deal with but sometimes we need to just face the truth and accept it and move on. The thing is you have not had closure as you are still confused so then I suggest you talk to him first and then if you get no clear answer move on. Good luck.
@@XYZ-qu4yq I am deeply inlove with him and I don't wanna do that, I wanna marry him and have his kids☹️and I do try to move on and talk to other guys but I am not interested in any other boy
@@KaiyaKN26 omg thank you so much! I needed this. I think I got my answer, I will definitely try to talk to him about the situation and what he feels. Btw sorry for bad English
I know you do a lot of videos on relationships, but can you also do some videos on relationship with self? I'm not really looking for a man, I'm looking to give myself the things I depended on men for
Great suggestion Kathleen. I've been thinking about making more of those in the future. I think the one many of you enjoyed the most is the one about never chasing a man again.
But I don't think I can give myself sex, babies, or the flattering feeling of the opposite sex liking (or even loving) you . I do get lonely for external validation at times.
Great video ! Your insights are always spot-on. 🌟 I’m curious, do you believe that the key to making a meaningful impression lies more in showing our authentic selves or in understanding and adapting to the other person's needs? As the quote goes, 'To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.' EDIT : You should wink sometimes 😉
Thank you Ismael for your helpful videos. I've a guy who says he loves me but sometimes he goes off for days without talking to me and that is what he did when we initially met last year and I left him alone and now he came back this year with the same attitude. What do I do?
talk to him, is the love he said still valid? if he say yes then tell him you will be more assured if you can spend more time together in various activity and communicate more bout anything. then see his response
*inhale* *exhale* I was recommended this video and 😂😂, I'm just here to input an honest good luck to anyone going to try, as for me...I'm not busy wanting to impress a boy😴😭. Good luck to all!✌ (I didnt watch the video tho 😂)
I have two gym crushes but they both best friend and likes me a lot… always give me eye contact and smiles and one would raised his eyebrows. But I’m 34th and they both looks like 18th. Lol
I don't worry about multitasking, I can't do it, and whoever wants to multitask when this good looking Man comes on. Definitely not me !!! I to busy thinking, whoever he marries is one damn lucky lady😊!!! We need to clone him!!! LOL
Thanks to all of you that have subscribed to my channel.
It means a lot to me to see you want to learn about these topics.
How to impress your crush: be elegant, not underdressed or overdressed, be calm, smile, keep looking at him, wait patiently until he approaches you. When he approaches you, don’t try to make things happen - just let him lead. Don’t initiate texts! Don’t try to let him know you fancy him! Let him discover it. Don’t pursue him - it’s his job to pursue you. It feels good to a man to pursue a woman. It doesn’t feel good to a wonan to pursue a man. If his desire for you is strong enough, he will pursue you and he will make things happen (without your help). If not, he won’t. You can’t make him love you, if you turn out not to be his type. But there will be other men whose type you will be and who you will like.
Hello, ladies. I have something I want to share with you. I want to ask a question to a person from an application. The person I am talking about is a relationship coach. But in my country, there is no access to this application. So I can't download it. Is there anyone who is willing to download the application for me and ask questions in exchange for money? The application is only accessible in the USA and Canada.
Do u have a channel
Lots of men say that they like when women text first. They also feel confused about where they stand if a woman is just sitting around waiting on him to do everything. There’s nothing wrong with women also showing interest.
No, this is too generic ...doesn't work
Somehow, Ismael's videos always come up at the very right time i need them.
Exactly!!!!!💗
The universe is speaking to you through me.
The same for me 😊
Hello, ladies. I have something I want to share with you. I want to ask a question to a person from an application. The person I am talking about is a relationship coach. But in my country, there is no access to this application. So I can't download it. Is there anyone who is willing to download the application for me and ask questions in exchange for money? The application is only accessible in the USA and Canada.
Women connect through talking. Men connect through action. Women have to understand that 3 hrs of talking over the phone is not bonding for a man. May be bonding beetween a woman and her female friends but not between a woman and a man. A man connects and bonds with a woman when he DOES something for her , not just sits and talks.
You got that right. Thanks for sharing your insights.
@@SaveTheMessengerHello, I want to ask you a question. Some male relationship coaches say that a man should always love a woman a little less than a woman does. Because they say that when a man loves a woman a little more, a woman always cools down. On the contrary, they say that men do not cool down. Do you think this is true?
@@BesteKutlu-s5lbecause that benefits THEM .. a man has to be a little bit more obsessed with a woman in order for it to be long term because they are naturally polygamous 😢
You're a great coach! I find your content sò interesting,knowledgeable & informative..Well explained!!keep up the good work Ismael..
Hello, ladies. I have something I want to share with you. I want to ask a question to a person from an application. The person I am talking about is a relationship coach. But in my country, there is no access to this application. So I can't download it. Is there anyone who is willing to download the application for me and ask questions in exchange for money? The application is only accessible in the USA and Canada.
Ismael , I love your videos and learn a lot every time
I enjoy your channel and the wisdom that exudes from it. Thank you for these wonderful nuggets!
Hello, ladies. I have something I want to share with you. I want to ask a question to a person from an application. The person I am talking about is a relationship coach. But in my country, there is no access to this application. So I can't download it. Is there anyone who is willing to download the application for me and ask questions in exchange for money? The application is only accessible in the USA and Canada.
I thought it was a sociopath who stares and doesn't blink😂.
Hello, ladies. I have something I want to share with you. I want to ask a question to a person from an application. The person I am talking about is a relationship coach. But in my country, there is no access to this application. So I can't download it. Is there anyone who is willing to download the application for me and ask questions in exchange for money? The application is only accessible in the USA and Canada.
psychopaths stare (and blink), keeping eye contact FAR longer than most people would in social settings. They are analysing you. Sociopaths are like psychopaths, though they choose to become this way. With psychopaths it is genetic, they are literally born without the wiring for empathy, and cannot overcome this.
None of these tips matter if you’re not physically attractive. More than 50% of impressing a dude is your appearance, energy, style, confidence, self-esteem and presentation. If he looks at you and he’s impressed, you already got his attention. Now keep it with your intelligence and personality.
I’m surprised you didn’t once mentioned about how a woman should present herself.
@@effortlesssuccess2585 That's not true. Men also care about soulmates and someone who really looks into their eyes and if someone genuenly has feelings towards you it's hard to not respond to it. Looks is not everything.
@@sachalebabe No man wants you to be looking into his eyes when you’re not attractive. He’s going to be repulsed and not interested.
You have to get his attention first. If you can’t even get his attention, you can forget about it.
Men are hardwire to physical attraction first, all the other stuff which is emotional and psychological are after.
If you ladies don’t even understand this basic concept that physical attraction is extremely important for men to get their attention. Then you’re never going to impress any dude that you want.
@@effortlesssuccess2585 Thsn those gyys can very possibly meet shallow women whom they might marry but won't be real soulmates and they won't hsve a deep conection with.
@sachalebabe True. I agree. Physical attraction can only attract people with shallow personalities. It is the person that is inside that can sustain a relationship. Physical attraction can only bring a one night stand. And if a woman or a man relies on the Physical then they will be a very lonely person as they age. So always better to concentrate on the person you are and to better the soul you are. That will attract the right person for you for long term happiness.
@@sachalebabe No man wants a woman to be looking into his eyes if he doesn’t find her attractive. Physical attraction sets the stage for getting someone’s initial attention.
This came on just the right time, about to go meet up with him, Ill share the outcome when I'm back, THANK YOU SO MUCH!
EDIT: Me and the guy used to just be friends before I picked up feelings we grew a bond but then we departed because of a great misunderstanding, today I tried these tricks and he talked to me again telling me he just felt too comfortable with me too believe the misconception, we talked it out and we're back together stronger than ever!!
I couldn't have done it without the vid cuz I'm really socially awkward and shy around him but now in a few hours we solved 22 weeks worth of argument. I really appreciate THANK YOU!!
Plz dont forget to share I'm curiousss
I have two gym crushes but they both best friend and likes me a lot… always give me eye contact and smiles and one would raised his eyebrows. But I’m 34th and they both looks like 18th. Lol I
SPILL THE TEA GIRL!!!
We’ll all be waiting to hear back.
Check the edit on the comment for outcome sorry for the wait just had to take in what just happened!
If we cannot naturally attract someone without having to impress them, then its not worth it!
Thank you for sharing !
One guy used to follow me for three months. And all of a sudden he disappeared. I don't even know his name. We never spoke to each other. But we have a strong eye contact. I can't forget him. Its been three months now. I don't know what happened.
Follow you where?
@@SaveTheMessenger At my work place.
Stalking???
@@Carmen-hu9vk Not stalking, we used to look at each other. He did try to approach me, but I did something stupid.
I barely saw him twice later, that too in some other places by chance. I don't know why I can't stop thinking about him, I don't even know his name.
@Isushmasagar Too bad. Maybe his self-esteem suffered somehow. You are curious about this mystery man. After all, he caught your attention. Hope you two hook up somehow. If not, it wasn't meant to be. I wish you the best.
Ismael I need to ask on your opinion about second chances. What I hear a lot is: if someone left you once, they will do it again. Or: never trust someone who already hurt you once.
Can you make a video on that? Because on the other hand: wouldn't we all like to get second chances ourselves? Isn't it posible to learn and grow or that there was wrong timing and then things change? I'd love your advice on that.
You are amazing man. Thank you and god bless you
Blessings to you too.
Great advice.
Thankyou so much 💓
My man is pretty wonderful… calls sometimes several times a day and night, sends gifts on all holidays, looks forward to me visiting him monthly because I am in Arizona he in California. Treats me great when there. Why don’t I trust him? Maybe something happening I can’t see? Don’t understand my feeling of fear. Can you help?
Ismael l am agirl from sfghanistan and i watch your videos you are a kind and attractive man.😊
Yes me im facing surten obstacles but i think there is a way out.😊
This is all high school. Why can't people just be who they are, and if it's not unfortunately mutual, then you have no choice but to move on. It's a sad fact of this shallow, sad world that people will get rejected but hey, what can you do??!
Ismael. How do I go about getting him to not want to smoke or do drugs? If this continues it will be the end of the relationship.
Hi ismael ,
Thank you so much for your work❤..
Can you please do a video on how to break cycle of falling in love with emotionally unavailable men..
I don’t know how to help myself
I have a crush on this guy for more than 2 years, he is not interested in relationship or anything like that.last year he also developed a crush on me. He used to text me first and everything went well. We only talked two or three times. He used to make eye contacts with me, stare at me in class. But suddenly one day he stopped and never contacted me, we still see eachother at school but i think he does not like me anymore. What can i do to bring him back.(There is no other girl in his life)
I would say, don’t obsess about 1 guy. See multiple guys and only give your time and attention to those whose energy you feel is coming towards you. Then choose your most favourite one.
If he switched on you so abruptly and did not give you a reason then firstly I would have talked to him and asked him maturely what happened that he changed so much but if he is not interested in explaining himself then maybe he just backed off as he realised he might have not been as interested in you as he thought. I know that is not easy to deal with but sometimes we need to just face the truth and accept it and move on. The thing is you have not had closure as you are still confused so then I suggest you talk to him first and then if you get no clear answer move on. Good luck.
@@XYZ-qu4yq I am deeply inlove with him and I don't wanna do that, I wanna marry him and have his kids☹️and I do try to move on and talk to other guys but I am not interested in any other boy
@@KaiyaKN26 omg thank you so much! I needed this. I think I got my answer, I will definitely try to talk to him about the situation and what he feels. Btw sorry for bad English
I know you do a lot of videos on relationships, but can you also do some videos on relationship with self? I'm not really looking for a man, I'm looking to give myself the things I depended on men for
Great suggestion Kathleen. I've been thinking about making more of those in the future. I think the one many of you enjoyed the most is the one about never chasing a man again.
But I don't think I can give myself sex, babies, or the flattering feeling of the opposite sex liking (or even loving) you . I do get lonely for external validation at times.
Great video ! Your insights are always spot-on. 🌟 I’m curious, do you believe that the key to making a meaningful impression lies more in showing our authentic selves or in understanding and adapting to the other person's needs? As the quote goes, 'To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.'
EDIT : You should wink sometimes 😉
Always be your authentic self. But there's definitely a version of you more attractive and confident so learn to embody that.
What if you both are in no contact . He asked for us to be friends , I said no cause I couldn’t be friends with him while I like him
That's the best way to go about it. Don't let him change your mind. Keep focusing on you and he may come around in the future.
I feel so called out on the multitasking thing 😂
I see you...
@@SaveTheMessenger it's always the men with accounts like this who end up being the biggest stalkers..
Thank you Ismael for your helpful videos. I've a guy who says he loves me but sometimes he goes off for days without talking to me and that is what he did when we initially met last year and I left him alone and now he came back this year with the same attitude. What do I do?
talk to him, is the love he said still valid? if he say yes then tell him you will be more assured if you can spend more time together in various activity and communicate more bout anything. then see his response
@SaveTheMessengerr okay sir
*inhale* *exhale*
I was recommended this video and 😂😂, I'm just here to input an honest good luck to anyone going to try, as for me...I'm not busy wanting to impress a boy😴😭.
Good luck to all!✌ (I didnt watch the video tho 😂)
I have two gym crushes but they both best friend and likes me a lot… always give me eye contact and smiles and one would raised his eyebrows. But I’m 34th and they both looks like 18th. Lol
Age is only a number 😉
I don't worry about multitasking, I can't do it, and whoever wants to multitask when this good looking Man comes on. Definitely not me !!! I to busy thinking, whoever he marries is one damn lucky lady😊!!! We need to clone him!!! LOL
And besides I'm in love with a man, who is so passionate and sexy...😊
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