This stuff may work for A man that had his mama "mother" him. Ideally alot of BLACK or Hispanic man DONT like to cuddle. They call women like this that u describe as "CLINGY " and they HATE it. They actually cheat on women that do these things. These men would call her desperate for attention and to CLINGY and they will rip a woman to pieces and break her heart. They walk all over a woman like this. May be u should atart off with describing THE TYPE of man that wants these things. Bc a man that has been neglected by his mama, abused or mistreated, will NOT want this. Or appreciate this. This actually sounds like this is stuff a woman wants.
#1 Giving your full presence #2 Words of affection #3 Cuddling and intimacy #4 Caring about his day #5 Noticing when his mood is off #6 Gentleness #7 Being willing to use the reset button #8 Being loyal and trustworthy #9 Being natural #10 Taking risks #11 Improving yourself #12 Taking care of your health and yourself
I recently went through a difficult breakup. My five year relationship ended a month ago, and it's been incredibly hard. I still have so much love for my ex girlfriend, and I can't seem to get her out of my mind. Despite my best efforts to win her back, nothing has worked, and the thought of being with anyone else feels impossible right now. I know it might sound odd to share this here, but I miss her deeply and can't stop thinking about her.
I completely understand the pain of letting go of someone you love. I went through a similar experience when my 10 year relationship ended. I couldn't imagine my life without her, so I tried everything to rekindle our love. I eventually found guidance from a spiritual counselor, and their support helped me bring her back into my life
If this seems exhausting, you haven't found the right man. You will want to do all of these things if your guy is just completely amazing and worthy of this treatment. Just don't waste time on men who are really not that great. Find GREATNESS.
@@upgrade1015No most men don’t, a woman will give to her detriment and death, and he will take her for granted and literally suck the life out of her , most women are nurtures and don’t mind making their men happy , but a lot of don’t appreciate it and take advantage of that!
I do all these things and always have, but if it’s not the right guy, if he is unhealed and is toxic in how he approaches a relationship, it’s not going to be appreciated and you will be taken for granted. This is what I hear “you’re too good to be true” “you’re out of my league” “I don’t deserve you”….so they run out of fear b/c ultimately they feel like it’s safer to leave first than to be left. They fear rejection due to self-worth issues and insecurities. What happens is they only realize what they had when they lose it and it’s gone. When a woman who exhibits these traits is gone and they try to move on with other people, they start to realize what they truly had with this special woman was unique bc no one else is able to give them the kind of love and care they had when they were with this special woman. Then they try to come back, but most of the time it’s too late. I’ve had countless men try to return again and again, trying for many years, but I was done and it was too late. Moral: appreciate a good woman who has these traits and show her how much you love her every day. Don’t ever let her go, bc a woman like this is not desperate. She knows her worth, knows what she deserves, and she is not afraid to walk away if she is being treated poorly, if someone is playing games with her, and is choosing others over her.
I hear you Angel..you are soooo right. Im 9 mnths in relationship with a man who gets ALL of this from me...I feel Im just getting the crumbs from his table..he says " no matter what happens you ll do just fine"...." you re so warm and wonderful, any man would be lucky to have you"...Yada Yada Yada..Im thinking of ending it..stepping away..hes just doesnt make me feel special ....👎
@viviennethorpe1035 When they talk like that, they don't see themselves with us! A guy told me something like that in a sweet romantic letter, but he didn't say I would make HIS perfect wife! Pay attention to what they say & how they say it!! Because otherwise we're just hoping for something that won't happen! Not right then anyway!
Exactly my situation with my recent ex & every other guy! I don't want him anymore because he didn't appreciate me when he had me! Nor when I was sticking around for almost 2 years!!
TRUE!!! This MAN doesn't realize that there are alot of men that HATE this type of woman and will abuse her and hurt her!!! This video is dangerous for women!
There is this man called HG Tudor who is very authoritive on Narcissistic cementation and of course Narcs would love this throw in a good bit of empathy and you will be ensnared.
This should be a list for both humans to do withing one relationship. This is not what makes tbe man chase, this is repect, love and showing that you care about the relationship. Those are basis and then you can build on this.
I noticed that everything you said is what I want in the man I'm with. My guy does everything he shouldn't do. It's like guys want woman to do all the things you said for them but they don't do any of them for us women
Cuddling and intimacy in front of family is probably uncomfortable for her for a lot of personal reasons. You should have asked her instead of judging her. My family loves to shame and judge PDA is extremely difficult for me in front of my family
Regardless, that does not mean he chooses you. If his goal is to enjoy life without commitments and experience different women, most likely he will follow his own plan despite your characteristics or behavior .
Ps been through severely betrayed and heart broken. GOD helped me through ended up married to a much better man. Was with my Dear Husband many years until he left this world to be with JESUS. I call the first guy what's his name HA. My mother told me honey your hurt now but in a year you won't remember his name.(Thus "what's his name")Hold on to GOD he can help you when nobody can. Much love and a prayer.❤🎉❤
I feel it takes the right person. I feel a woman can do any and all of the things he said in the video but if you are messing around with the wrong guys then none of this will ever work. It only works with Mr. Right. Mr. Wrong will never appreciate these kinds of things.
I am this way naturally. But, I always get neglected, cheated on, and dumped for wlnen who are extremely toxic. Then, these women end up dumping the man. Only after treating me like crap, and after leaving for her, and her trashing him, he suddenly realizes his mistake and wants me. But, by this point, they had disrespected me so badlt that I no longer want them. Then, these men will want me seemingly FOREVER. I can go without seeing them for 10, 15, 20, 25 years, and they will tell me tgat I'm the one that got away, losing me was their biggest mistake, and I am unforgettable. They will beg to be with me. They will cry over me. Theg will chase after me. But, whh couldn't they just treat me nicelg when we were together?
I believe these things come naturally if you care about the person you are with. If it's phoney it's a game and you are not really caring about the person.
I really like the values you represent in creating the possibilities for a loving relationship…. However - I took your quiz and results are anything but free…. Still - your videos refresh the important elements within each of us as individuals and how to be or become a partner for life.
Number 12 is tricky because I can´t take care more than fibromyalgia allows me to do. Sometimes I like to be totally painless and then I drink some alcohol. = Mental health for me and my friends.
Did all of these things- as this is who I am - without knowing or trying to keep him- he still just ghosted me despite us having SO much in common and the same sense of humour. I think his life must be a lot poorer without me!!
Men need more than just having stuff in common. We have friends for that. If you want more, you need to venture more. Sorry, but a pretty face isn't enough for you to leapfrog out of the "just casual" stage
You DONT want a man to “desperately chase” you. The opposite of ghosting does NOT mean chasing. Someone chasing you, is a red flag. It gets worse. Run. Look for normal ladies, not ghosting, emotional unavailability nor chasing. Look for NORMAL. Why are influencers encouraging women to want being “chased”???
Ding ding ding. The only men that enjoy "the chase" are predators. Playing hard to get only drives away men who will be respectful and issues an open challenge to the fuck boys you hate so much
This is great. As you spoke, o reflected and realize that I am in a good relationship. I'm divorced as he is. We've been together for 11months . Both divorced 8 years. And ❤️ I don't know if we want to get married. I am successful and so is he. I'm good with being at his house and vise versa. We're apart 2 nights out of 7. Kinda funny but it works. No rush. Will see...lol. we are exclusively in a committed relationship. Talk all the time. Every day. See each other 5 days in and out of the weekdays.and weekends. He rest at his house and I let my hair down at mine. It's a good thing. I'm in no rush. We're both 60. Above average incomes.
Don't let that narc win. You are worth more than that. Don't play into that game. Been there done that. Not all men are like that. Keep boundaries, check out some of the podcasts that talk about identifying narcissistic men. You deserve a beautiful, wonderful relationship.
@@eleonoraivanova-kd2zbyeah, no. Sex is an important part of a relationship. I feel sexual attraction looooooong before i feel romantic attraction. This attitude is just going to get you more aggressive fuckboys
That's because this is shitty advice. Don't go for men who are good at chasing and flirting. You only get good at those things by practicing them, so do you think a good flirt is more likely to be a good guy or a fuckboy?
Hello there,me n my man we have all these in our relationship, however at time he is a bit weird in a sense where i feel him doing things only when it pleases him.!!!we re living at 1000 miles away but whenever he feels having me over the phone i always make a room to that!!but with him it a different story!!!offlate a just turnoff my phone coz i wouldn't take it from him
Wow, what is SO interesting about this list........I am naturally all of these things whenever me and my divine masculine have been together. Every one of them. I've naturally been all of them with him without even doing it consciously or because I heard about these things and was purposely implementing them. Yet, I can say that with all of my ex's...... I was not most of these things or even the ones that I was I don't think I was that way all of the time.
Hi Brody, thanks for the video, very interesting. What do you think is a good way to bring up criticism with your guy? I usually refrain from that bc i don’t like it…but what you said about hitting the „reset“ button I noticed really bothered me, bc my ex would keep asking me that. He had a severe lack of self-reflection though, you may call it narcissistic. He wouldn’t recognize his own behavior as problematic even if it war truly abusive, so I kept trying to convey… In other words, if I’m expected to hit a reset button about things that are still bothering me - how is that supposed to work well?
@ primavera558 Take a video of his behaviour and show it to a minister an abuse counselor and anpoloce officer and get their comments on it? Video their comments? Show to ur doctor too. Then ask mate do u want to 1. Turn urself in to police as abuser or 2. Get reg counseling with checkups fr these people...n sign him up
This is a healthy attitude to take. I, as a man, absolutely despise chasing. And I definitely don't want a woman that's servile to the point of "blind loyalty". I find that sort of relationship dynamic repulsive. I think women should see being good at flirting as a red flag. Flirting is not a fun character trait, it's a skill that you only get better at through practice. And trust me, the only men practicing that skill are fuckboys
I have a Question! If a man is so profuse in his love for the woman , saying all those love messages to the woman but the woman who is deeply in love with the guy, does not have the capacity to give in to te demands of the guy who has a child who wants something from the woman like for example an expensive gift, and the guy who says he loves the woman, suddenly leaves the woman without waitin g for an explanation , can you say that it is fair? And his love for the woman is only lip service?please I need your advice on this!
Listennnnnnnn...as a older woman...no, not happening. Not interested. It either connects or not...nothing is needed. Do not need you to chase me...Please!
I better not make comments right about my person except that i am so ready to get to know him better. I like that idea of setting a reset button. Someone must be doing that to me now. I have already wrote 3 or 4 comments that slipped away from me. I am feeling love ❤sick. Dear Lord, I thank you for all you do for me. I am following your advice now. I am letting go of all my worries and hoping you can help me by sending me healing, knowledge, energy, creativity, tenacity, wisdom, harmony, magic, blessings, intuition, positivity, humor, compassion, shapeshifting, and more times 10.
Blimey! Spinster alert, I'm bloody exhausted just listening to this list. Listen chaps make me a great cuppa that looks & tastes like treacle. You - name within reason. If I'm your brown eyed girl. I've got your back & front. "Let's make a rendezvous", Basement Jaxx 💞May 14, 2024
My problem isnt in attracting good men it’s stopping obsessed men from blocking me from speaking to anyone and threatening everyone who wants to talk to me. lol like I was writing last night before the obsessed men turned off my phone and deleted the message. lol 😂 but thanks 🙏
My heart does that but once the do’s attracted narcissists. I calmed them down So women read and study the behaviors of narcissists who once dated you so that you never fall in trap again. A true man who loves you will eventually cone. I now have the prettiest man, all you have to do is first go slow on him and read the other past experiences if he isn’t a narcissist. Then go further. I went slow on him until he has showed his prettiness 😊
I'm overweight cause I was injured while I was crossing the street,a man stopped to let me get across, but he was rear end.Both of my legs and my left foot were run over.I have been chatting with a man online who is very good and handsome.Shd I reveal my weight
Overweight means … Weight above what's considered healthy, often measured using body mass index (BMI). What about losing the extra pounds and back to normal? Fasting, healthy food, portion control and good sleep.
All of these things should come naturally if you love your other half you body thoughts naturally find their own way around each other’s bodies don’t need guidances from an outsider no offence intended I know I can do a great job on my own thank you keep up your good work ❤
This may sound kinda crass or too blunt but things I’ve learned about keeping and attracting a man is 1- fill up his stomach 2- empty his balls 3 fill up his heart with gentle love 4 empty my pride 😊
What if you’re already married to the man? I’m really struggling but I’m trying to keep pushing forward. I used to do all of these things but now I don’t bc he keeps doing one thing that keeps hurting me. He drinks to much at times and we do great other than that but it’s once or twice weekly and won’t change.
Sorry Sir...I got a selfish n arrogant man ...those things u mentioned makes him think I am clingy ... Only certain traits I agree ...like be natural and not quarreling with him n respect him The rest of the reasons are not working for me...or him😂😅 Relationship must be both ways ...period ...
All things a woman wants. I wonder how many men, percentage wise, work on personal growth, and relationships. I'm guessing less than 30%. Soo many men have the 'take me as I am' attitude. 🚩
LMAO! I've done all these things because it's just who I am, and he still runs. I'm at the point where I'm just going to give up now. He knows where to find me if he's interested, which he probably isn't.
The example you provided for #3 of your ex girlfriend not being affectionate on the trip but was affectionate in other moments. Did you ask her why her mood was off like #5? Maybe she has family issues or went through something difficult and instead of asking her about why she was distant, you made it about yourself not getting intimacy. Wouldn’t it work both ways?
Some of these points are just basic. But keeping up with all these directives sounds like a full time job. I don't think all of us are made for relationships.
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This stuff may work for A man that had his mama "mother" him. Ideally alot of BLACK or Hispanic man DONT like to cuddle. They call women like this that u describe as "CLINGY " and they HATE it. They actually cheat on women that do these things. These men would call her desperate for attention and to CLINGY and they will rip a woman to pieces and break her heart. They walk all over a woman like this. May be u should atart off with describing THE TYPE of man that wants these things. Bc a man that has been neglected by his mama, abused or mistreated, will NOT want this. Or appreciate this. This actually sounds like this is stuff a woman wants.
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@@AnitaWilliams-b2o mine was sexually abused by his mother and neighbors and had 12 kids with the demon mother🥴🥵🤮
#1 Giving your full presence
#2 Words of affection
#3 Cuddling and intimacy
#4 Caring about his day
#5 Noticing when his mood is off
#6 Gentleness
#7 Being willing to use the reset button
#8 Being loyal and trustworthy
#9 Being natural
#10 Taking risks
#11 Improving yourself
#12 Taking care of your health and yourself
I recently went through a difficult breakup. My five year relationship ended a month ago, and it's been incredibly hard. I still have so much love for my ex girlfriend, and I can't seem to get her out of my mind. Despite my best efforts to win her back, nothing has worked, and the thought of being with anyone else feels impossible right now. I know it might sound odd to share this here, but I miss her deeply and can't stop thinking about her.
I completely understand the pain of letting go of someone you love. I went through a similar experience when my 10 year relationship ended. I couldn't imagine my life without her, so I tried everything to rekindle our love. I eventually found guidance from a spiritual counselor, and their support helped me bring her back into my life
By the way, how did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with them?
Thank you for sharing this valuable insight. I just looked him up, and I'm genuinely impressed.
Why didn't you marry her....
If this seems exhausting, you haven't found the right man. You will want to do all of these things if your guy is just completely amazing and worthy of this treatment. Just don't waste time on men who are really not that great. Find GREATNESS.
A guy needs to be worthy of this. Then I think all of this will happen
What do you think men do for you? They do all this plus more. If this is exhausting, there’s a reason why you’re single.
T ,@@upgrade1015
Spot on! 💯
@@upgrade1015No most men don’t, a woman will give to her detriment and death, and he will take her for granted and literally suck the life out of her , most women are nurtures and don’t mind making their men happy , but a lot of don’t appreciate it and take advantage of that!
*A relationship is like a rose. How long it lasts, no one knows. Love can erase an awful past, love can be yours, you'll see at last.*
I do all these things and always have, but if it’s not the right guy, if he is unhealed and is toxic in how he approaches a relationship, it’s not going to be appreciated and you will be taken for granted.
This is what I hear “you’re too good to be true” “you’re out of my league” “I don’t deserve you”….so they run out of fear b/c ultimately they feel like it’s safer to leave first than to be left. They fear rejection due to self-worth issues and insecurities.
What happens is they only realize what they had when they lose it and it’s gone. When a woman who exhibits these traits is gone and they try to move on with other people, they start to realize what they truly had with this special woman was unique bc no one else is able to give them the kind of love and care they had when they were with this special woman. Then they try to come back, but most of the time it’s too late. I’ve had countless men try to return again and again, trying for many years, but I was done and it was too late.
Moral: appreciate a good woman who has these traits and show her how much you love her every day. Don’t ever let her go, bc a woman like this is not desperate. She knows her worth, knows what she deserves, and she is not afraid to walk away if she is being treated poorly, if someone is playing games with her, and is choosing others over her.
Facts
I hear you Angel..you are soooo right. Im 9 mnths in relationship with a man who gets ALL of this from me...I feel Im just getting the crumbs from his table..he says " no matter what happens you ll do just fine"...." you re so warm and wonderful, any man would be lucky to have you"...Yada Yada Yada..Im thinking of ending it..stepping away..hes just doesnt make me feel special ....👎
@viviennethorpe1035 When they talk like that, they don't see themselves with us!
A guy told me something like that in a sweet romantic letter, but he didn't say I would make HIS perfect wife! Pay attention to what they say & how they say it!! Because otherwise we're just hoping for something that won't happen! Not right then anyway!
Exactly my situation with my recent ex & every other guy! I don't want him anymore because he didn't appreciate me when he had me! Nor when I was sticking around for almost 2 years!!
TRUE!!! This MAN doesn't realize that there are alot of men that HATE this type of woman and will abuse her and hurt her!!! This video is dangerous for women!
When you love your man deeply ,he is the One all these things that you mentioned come naturally from a woman. Me I've been doing it.
I posses all this qualities naturally. And I'm the one who always leave when i see that you don't deserve me..
Same here😓
and one day you wont leave. dont worry
I always do all these things and end up being taken for granted😂
Me too.
wait till they earn that from you and show it to you first. as soon as you see a red flag, bounce
Yes don't overgive. Pull back and walk in feminine polarity
But that's you letting that happen
You have to give them a bit of uncertainty from time to time. Men like a challenge so don't over do on the giving.
I think gentleness and sharing emotions is being a decent human being.
I do all these things and all I do is attract narcissists like crazy!!!
True!!!!
Yes! Thats the kind of traits narcissists LOVE in a woman. They are looking to take, take, take and never to give!
@@Florida_gyrl So very true
There is this man called HG Tudor who is very authoritive on Narcissistic cementation and of course Narcs would love this throw in a good bit of empathy and you will be ensnared.
Probably the area you live in you might want to move lol
I will forever clap for others until its my turn 🎉🎉
You just described what any woman wants from her man.
Came here to say this. Women want the same thing from the boyfriend or husband. Rarely are they giving full presence in a relationship.
This should be a list for both humans to do withing one relationship. This is not what makes tbe man chase, this is repect, love and showing that you care about the relationship. Those are basis and then you can build on this.
We want this too .. if both parties did this we’d have lasting, loving relationships!!
I noticed that everything you said is what I want in the man I'm with. My guy does everything he shouldn't do. It's like guys want woman to do all the things you said for them but they don't do any of them for us women
Many relationships are transactional and not reciprocal. Asymetrical.. Healthy relationships are based on equality mutuality and reciprocity.
PREACH!!
Hang in there and ask Spirit to send you they right man💖
👁️💛🌹🏵️😄😁
I have a notebook started from everyone of these podcasts.And I am learning so much just waiting for the guy to see me
Find yourself first before you find a man.
That I definitely did….
Never believe a narcissist pretending chasing you because they are just playing games.They don't know how to love but only themselves.
True
They have no love in their soul they r broken forever...it began at childhood👁️
This only works if he wants you.
and no one wants to be with someone who does not want to be with them
Right. You can't fabricate attraction.
God bless you dear.Some people view my niceness as pretence and it hurts.
A ghoster was never worth anything in the first place!
Cuddling and intimacy in front of family is probably uncomfortable for her for a lot of personal reasons. You should have asked her instead of judging her.
My family loves to shame and judge PDA is extremely difficult for me in front of my family
Regardless, that does not mean he chooses you. If his goal is to enjoy life without commitments and experience different women, most likely he will follow his own plan despite your characteristics or behavior .
Bitte truth
I believe that I have done all of these for 7 years in my relationship and he still broke up with me. I am heartbroken.
Aww sorry to hear that. Someone wonderful will come along for you, and treat you so good. Dont lose hope x
Pray for GOD to help you with your feelings and. Your need to have a significant other (preferably a faithful husband). ❤🎉
Ps been through severely betrayed and heart broken. GOD helped me through ended up married to a much better man. Was with my Dear Husband many years until he left this world to be with JESUS. I call the first guy what's his name HA. My mother told me honey your hurt now but in a year you won't remember his name.(Thus "what's his name")Hold on to GOD he can help you when nobody can. Much love and a prayer.❤🎉❤
I guess those 12 things apply both ways....
I did all of those things and he still dump me saying I was too pushy because I constantly express concern about his telephone communication style
I feel it takes the right person. I feel a woman can do any and all of the things he said in the video but if you are messing around with the wrong guys then none of this will ever work. It only works with Mr. Right. Mr. Wrong will never appreciate these kinds of things.
Then you chose poorly. Join the club
Wonderful....I believe these things will only appeal to the man for you. Not some random person.
How to keep the long distance relationship strong...thank u
If he truly cherishes you, he'd bridge that gap & marry you .
Thats why I want to stay single , love it
EXACTLY!!
I am this way naturally.
But, I always get neglected, cheated on, and dumped for wlnen who are extremely toxic.
Then, these women end up dumping the man. Only after treating me like crap, and after leaving for her, and her trashing him, he suddenly realizes his mistake and wants me. But, by this point, they had disrespected me so badlt that I no longer want them.
Then, these men will want me seemingly FOREVER. I can go without seeing them for 10, 15, 20, 25 years, and they will tell me tgat I'm the one that got away, losing me was their biggest mistake, and I am unforgettable. They will beg to be with me. They will cry over me. Theg will chase after me.
But, whh couldn't they just treat me nicelg when we were together?
I believe these things come naturally if you care about the person you are with. If it's phoney it's a game and you are not really caring about the person.
Nothing about flirting comes naturally. If you're good at it that means you've had a lot of practice. Just like lying.
I really like the values you represent in creating the possibilities for a loving relationship…. However - I took your quiz and results are anything but free…. Still - your videos refresh the important elements within each of us as individuals and how to be or become a partner for life.
Exactly right on spot 😊
i really love watching coaching so that when im in relationships i know more. thank u sir
Number 12 is tricky because I can´t take care more than fibromyalgia allows me to do. Sometimes I like to be totally painless and then I drink some alcohol. = Mental health for me and my friends.
Have fibro exhaustion. But no alcohol for me.
You need to try TRS to detox! Helps with fibromyalgia.
In other words treat him like a king and then pretty soon he will treat you like a doormat.
I couldn't have said it better myself! 💯
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Did all of these things- as this is who I am - without knowing or trying to keep him- he still just ghosted me despite us having SO much in common and the same sense of humour. I think his life must be a lot poorer without me!!
Men need more than just having stuff in common. We have friends for that. If you want more, you need to venture more. Sorry, but a pretty face isn't enough for you to leapfrog out of the "just casual" stage
These are all good suggestions, but it should be reciprocal. 🙂
Nobody said it shouldn't be. Lol
Thank you!
Thanks you Mr
You DONT want a man to “desperately chase” you. The opposite of ghosting does NOT mean chasing. Someone chasing you, is a red flag. It gets worse. Run.
Look for normal ladies, not ghosting, emotional unavailability nor chasing.
Look for NORMAL.
Why are influencers encouraging women to want being “chased”???
Pursued rather
Ding ding ding. The only men that enjoy "the chase" are predators. Playing hard to get only drives away men who will be respectful and issues an open challenge to the fuck boys you hate so much
This is great. As you spoke, o reflected and realize that I am in a good relationship. I'm divorced as he is. We've been together for 11months . Both divorced 8 years. And ❤️ I don't know if we want to get married. I am successful and so is he. I'm good with being at his house and vise versa. We're apart 2 nights out of 7. Kinda funny but it works. No rush. Will see...lol. we are exclusively in a committed relationship. Talk all the time. Every day. See each other 5 days in and out of the weekdays.and weekends. He rest at his house and I let my hair down at mine. It's a good thing. I'm in no rush. We're both 60. Above average incomes.
i m 68, a complete relationship failure, i dated a NARC for 2 years. i m dead inside now.
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Don't let that narc win. You are worth more than that. Don't play into that game. Been there done that. Not all men are like that. Keep boundaries, check out some of the podcasts that talk about identifying narcissistic men. You deserve a beautiful, wonderful relationship.
Don't act like a victim.
It's the most unattractive thing
I did all this and he still played with my feelings 💔
We have to vet them
Same with me. Forst we need to get to know people and then commit
We need non negotiables and six months trial period with dates no sex
@@eleonoraivanova-kd2zbyeah, no. Sex is an important part of a relationship. I feel sexual attraction looooooong before i feel romantic attraction. This attitude is just going to get you more aggressive fuckboys
That's because this is shitty advice. Don't go for men who are good at chasing and flirting. You only get good at those things by practicing them, so do you think a good flirt is more likely to be a good guy or a fuckboy?
Hello there,me n my man we have all these in our relationship, however at time he is a bit weird in a sense where i feel him doing things only when it pleases him.!!!we re living at 1000 miles away but whenever he feels having me over the phone i always make a room to that!!but with him it a different story!!!offlate a just turnoff my phone coz i wouldn't take it from him
Thx I m finding solution of problem in my relationship
Wow, what is SO interesting about this list........I am naturally all of these things whenever me and my divine masculine have been together. Every one of them. I've naturally been all of them with him without even doing it consciously or because I heard about these things and was purposely implementing them. Yet, I can say that with all of my ex's...... I was not most of these things or even the ones that I was I don't think I was that way all of the time.
👏👏👏excellent content with deep great analysis 👍!!!
Hi Brody, thanks for the video, very interesting. What do you think is a good way to bring up criticism with your guy?
I usually refrain from that bc i don’t like it…but what you said about hitting the „reset“ button I noticed really bothered me, bc my ex would keep asking me that. He had a severe lack of self-reflection though, you may call it narcissistic. He wouldn’t recognize his own behavior as problematic even if it war truly abusive, so I kept trying to convey…
In other words, if I’m expected to hit a reset button about things that are still bothering me - how is that supposed to work well?
@ primavera558
Take a video of his behaviour and show it to a minister an abuse counselor and anpoloce officer and get their comments on it? Video their comments? Show to ur doctor too.
Then ask mate do u want to 1. Turn urself in to police as abuser or 2. Get reg counseling with checkups fr these people...n sign him up
This is wonderful!! Thank you for your insight :)
I do all of these things and people still think I am clingy ❤or too available which is crazy
No, they haven't chased me despite all of these. And I hope a man doesn't want blind loyalty, but to be deserving of it or else wanting correcture.
This is a healthy attitude to take. I, as a man, absolutely despise chasing. And I definitely don't want a woman that's servile to the point of "blind loyalty". I find that sort of relationship dynamic repulsive.
I think women should see being good at flirting as a red flag. Flirting is not a fun character trait, it's a skill that you only get better at through practice. And trust me, the only men practicing that skill are fuckboys
Did all of these....
I have a Question! If a man is so profuse in his love for the woman , saying all those love messages to the woman but the woman who is deeply in love with the guy, does not have the capacity to give in to te demands of the guy who has a child who wants something from the woman like for example an expensive gift, and the guy who says he loves the woman, suddenly leaves the woman without waitin g for an explanation , can you say that it is fair? And his love for the woman is only lip service?please I need your advice on this!
Other stressor..ASK IN PRIVATE
Listennnnnnnn...as a older woman...no, not happening.
Not interested. It either connects or not...nothing is needed. Do not need you to chase me...Please!
Yup. As a man I absolutely despise chasing and the "game" around romance and dating. Playing coy is a MASSIVE turn off.
Used to do that.
All I got was being seen as a comforter/a friend wjos always there to be used.
And now you have an idea of how a lot of men feel.
@@samuelbrown3405 No, I don't. I'm not a man 🤷♀️
Is that all the diff is is just hairstyle?
Hi
Thank you for the the advice. I will watch your videos from now on to learn more.😊
I better not make comments right about my person except that i am so ready to get to know him better. I like that idea of setting a reset button. Someone must be doing that to me now. I have already wrote 3 or 4 comments that slipped away from me. I am feeling love ❤sick. Dear Lord, I thank you for all you do for me. I am following your advice now. I am letting go of all my worries and hoping you can help me by sending me healing, knowledge, energy, creativity, tenacity, wisdom, harmony, magic, blessings, intuition, positivity, humor, compassion, shapeshifting, and more times 10.
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Blimey! Spinster alert, I'm bloody exhausted just listening to this list. Listen chaps make me a great cuppa that looks & tastes like treacle. You - name within reason. If I'm your brown eyed girl. I've got your back & front. "Let's make a rendezvous", Basement Jaxx
💞May 14, 2024
My problem isnt in attracting good men it’s stopping obsessed men from blocking me from speaking to anyone and threatening everyone who wants to talk to me. lol like I was writing last night before the obsessed men turned off my phone and deleted the message. lol 😂 but thanks 🙏
Love your video,very true.thanks
I love this. Thanks for the honesty ❤
My heart does that but once the do’s attracted narcissists. I calmed them down
So women read and study the behaviors of narcissists who once dated you so that you never fall in trap again.
A true man who loves you will eventually cone. I now have the prettiest man, all you have to do is first go slow on him and read the other past experiences if he isn’t a narcissist. Then go further.
I went slow on him until he has showed his prettiness 😊
And also learn a lot to be feminine not masculine on him
I'm overweight cause I was injured while I was crossing the street,a man stopped to let me get across, but he was rear end.Both of my legs and my left foot were run over.I have been chatting with a man online who is very good and handsome.Shd I reveal my weight
Overweight means …
Weight above what's considered
healthy, often measured using
body mass index (BMI).
What about losing the extra
pounds and back to normal?
Fasting, healthy food, portion control
and good sleep.
All of these things should come naturally if you love your other half you body thoughts naturally find their own way around each other’s bodies don’t need guidances from an outsider no offence intended I know I can do a great job on my own thank you keep up your good work ❤
I did all this didn’t work mate
Great video thank you! 🙏
Excellent excellent advice! Thank you so much
Quite interesting indeed ❤
I thought this was fantastic
I agree with your wife that she believed in you to be a genius in your work- and together as team teachers good happens
Thank you so much for your insights
From a french lady in Québec
Great, thank you 👍👍👍
❤ thank you that was very helpful ❤❤❤❤
At the age I have now reached I can ASSURE all women out their that Men don’t give a SHIT ABOUT YOU or “your day”- it’s all about their ego.
Every man has different attitude...and sometimes women are doubtful showing all this things bcoz nowadays guys are not serious in relationships
This may sound kinda crass or too blunt but things I’ve learned about keeping and attracting a man is
1- fill up his stomach
2- empty his balls
3 fill up his heart with gentle love
4 empty my pride 😊
What if you’re already married to the man? I’m really struggling but I’m trying to keep pushing forward. I used to do all of these things but now I don’t bc he keeps doing one thing that keeps hurting me. He drinks to much at times and we do great other than that but it’s once or twice weekly and won’t change.
FORGET HIM, LEAVE HIM.
Sorry Sir...I got a selfish n arrogant man ...those things u mentioned makes him think I am clingy ...
Only certain traits I agree ...like be natural and not quarreling with him n respect him
The rest of the reasons are not working for me...or him😂😅
Relationship must be both ways ...period ...
I found out, men like when You care but don't care😅 that's why I accept taking just the sugar and loving myself and my family the most
Absolutely not. The kind of men YOU choose to date think that way. And that's why you're bitter
I already have these qualities and have done these things and I was still cheated on, smh
Looking for a men with all these qualities 😂😂😂
This was an extremely interesting and useful video, thank you
All things a woman wants.
I wonder how many men, percentage wise, work on personal growth, and relationships. I'm guessing less than 30%. Soo many men have the 'take me as I am' attitude. 🚩
Very lovely l loved Ur advise thank u made me think.❤
Wow , yes please, where do I sign up for one right away!🇦🇺
I’ve done all these things and got taken for granted and then dumped
Let my reasons be part of your next lecture on how to deal with a difficult man...
LMAO! I've done all these things because it's just who I am, and he still runs. I'm at the point where I'm just going to give up now. He knows where to find me if he's interested, which he probably isn't.
Stop going for men who chase. Men who have the time to play bullshit games are only after one thing
So it leads me to feel upset and be on mine 😢
The example you provided for #3 of your ex girlfriend not being affectionate on the trip but was affectionate in other moments. Did you ask her why her mood was off like #5? Maybe she has family issues or went through something difficult and instead of asking her about why she was distant, you made it about yourself not getting intimacy. Wouldn’t it work both ways?
Yeah. I was always an option I was the wife but I feel like I’m the other girl. That no other place to go. Until the one he talk to wanted him back
Very interesting
doing all these but he doesnt care about it
Some of these points are just basic. But keeping up with all these directives sounds like a full time job. I don't think all of us are made for relationships.
Yet he keeps his phone on the table and checks every bell & whistle