my talking stage just failed with this guy tonight😭 hes actually the sweetest most caring genuine guy i have ever met. he even let me down gently n made sure i was ok with everything 😭 obviously i said i was ok but it really really hurt and i dont know how to get over him .
I WANT TO GET OVER MY CRUSH 😭 Here's why I think I fell for him: •He's smart •He cares about me, I think? I'm probably just assuming •He's confident •He's funny •Has a good taste on music •I like his appearance (height, face, eyes, hair, etc..) •Good at everything, literally, he's so smart like damn I really need help moving on cos it's not an infatuation anymore, I've liked him for 8 months now 😭
I followed him on his public account and liked his ideology. He sent me a request from 2nd account I never accepted his request (I still won't). I don't know what got onto me but removed his request. Tho I had a lil interest in him. He posted something sad and I being a nice person for the first time massaged him and he asked for some suggestions for his relationship. The way he spoke was so nice I liked it. Knowing he had gf I had a crush on him but NEVER in my life I am going to confess. He posted two reels that was... I feel like directed towards me (long story short I think he broke up with her according to the way he posted) I am still laying in the middle of nowhere and not ready for a relationship so just want to get over that little stupid crush of mine.
@@whores.arguewithme I, myself, is also going through this. 💀The boy that I've liked for 9 months has now found someone last month. For your situation though I think you have a chance on him but for my opinion, you should let your heart decide, if you're not ready tell him. If he is really what your heart desires I think u should give him a chance, well except if he's toxic or a redflag, that's for another story.
I want her because 1. She’s been traje only person to ever care about me 2. She is the sweetest and kindest person I have met in ages 3. She supported me and was always there for me 4. She took away my depression and without her it came back. It hurts hella bad cause Ik we would prob never work out and just be friends but damn it hurts when you feel like you finally found who you want
I’ve liked this girl for over 4 years now and a week or so ago we started to talk a lot again like all day for a week, it was the best thing ever, she’s so smart kind caring talented and super pretty but also a bit shy sometimes but a few days age she sounded more angry and dry than normal she was so friendly before, now we haven’t spoken in ages and I’m wandering if we r still friends, I like her just as much as a friend as I find her attractive and it hurts the think that maybe I’ve upset her somehow. She’s way out of my league like everyone is, my longest lasting relationship also ended and idk what to do now I can’t move on from it either
I’ve been talking to this girl for years. Day and night on the phone. Their is no other man but we got into a bad argument/misunderstanding when I went to go see her. She thought I was lying about a few things and she’s just been overwhelmed about a lot of other things. She told me she was thinking about cutting me off over the whole situation. I left her a bday gift the next day and she told me “I seen the gift I appreciate it” I told her “your welcome and I hope we can get past this” I haven’t heard from her since (5 days ago) not sure if this is going to last or not but it’s driving me crazy
a girl i liked for a long time didnt have the heart to reject me when i asked her out... i found out a few days later that she was just being nice. it hurt like hell and it still does over a month later. she is smart, very kind, athletic, fun to spend time with, and i find her drop-dead gorgeous. there is no bad blood between us but i still look at photos and struggle to comprehend how for one night i was all that and now im sometimes just ignored when we walk by each other
Same bro I thought I had it in the bag when I asked her to dance with me and she said yes but the next times I saw her we were friendly with each other but she never showed signs of interest apart from wanting a picture with me
I love him because hes sweet, hes caring and brings me happiness, but he isnt ready for a relationship,and when i feel sad or annoyed at someone i become toxic and rude, he loves me but doesnt want to date me, if anyone has advice please tell me, i really love him
Omg guys I need to understand why you are calling a situation someone you never dated? Is it like virtual ? Or is it because you didnt stay long enough than a month or you didnt have sex ? (because if i get it well if the guy make it official yet by tell me he is my boyfriend he want to be in a relationship with me what should i think.. ) because now that your saying it i dont even know when i have i reached a new step to be on a relationship/situationship/dating
So sorry no one has answered your question! I think it could be virtual but they're mostly talking about if you're really in love with someone but never make it official and you cry about them all the time because you want them so bad, you're getting heartbroken over someone you never dated so pretty much just loving someone you can't have, therefore you're getting heartbroken over them (I think that's what they mean) I hope this helped!
They are saying someone you never dated as a crush they are saying that you have a crush on someone and you have never dated them and that you need to get over the crush and find another one 😅
I like this girl I mean she's eveything 1 she's so God damn gorgeous every time I look at her I just see a beaming light of beauty 2 She's pretty funny and we can make jokes and stuff 3 she's smarter than I am like way smarter than me 4 she loves doing stuff with me and it's easy beacuse we live close Now the bad 1 she's short I mean I'm 5"9 and she's 4"11 just a little to short 2 Every boy that liked her she's has played and I think I'm getting played 3 ik it wouldn't work out we have are differences and it just wouldn't work out
the bad stuff is definitely something that can be worked with, height is something you get used to, differences are okay to learn from each other, now about the getting played part you should look more signs into that and not jump to conclusions from the past
I’ve liked this kid for over two years and he always like flirts with me yk and he asked someone else to be his valentine which is not the point but anyway the girl he asked told him I liked him (she tells him everything she knows) so now I’m embarrassed and can’t trust anyone and I’ve been crying for the past four hours
My crush is a RUclipsr I recently found his channel For about 2 months now I cannot stop crushing on him He’s very attractive And he makes videos that mostly help people’s age in gen z And every video my crush on him gets worse But his videos are made to help what do I dooooo 😩
yall i need help, a guy used to like me but i have clearly rejected him a lot of times, but now he stopped liking me and moved onto someone else, now i cant stop thinking about him and its bugging me so much. idk this feeling
This happened with my best friend the guy who liked her did this, he said since you rejected me I am dating xyz she (my best friend) might be a little hurt but she was like yesss go ahead but we will stay friends na? The xyz girl was a walking talking red flag(he said that) so they broke up after 2 days of being together. Now after 2 years he is my best friend's boyfriend. So you should talk to him often and be friends with him and try showing your interest in him just a little and he might again fall for you If it's the other scenario... If you want to get over this feeling and don't really like him then remember you liked the attention he gave your not him.
Got to expect that once you reject, that person will have no choice but to move on. If you really wanted him, you should of cashed in and said yes. What you did is played hard to get. When you play games, they think you were never interested. If you like someone, rule #1 is never push them away. They aren't going to beg you. You had already pushed him away. That is why he moved on. Can't expect anyone to come crawling to you. If you ended up cannot stop thinking about him after pushing him away, it is like you want to come crawling back. So if a good opportunity represent itself to you, take it. It is like a job interview. If a interviewer decides to hire you and it is a good company to work in, you cannot say no. Same rules apply in this relationship. Don't push opportunity away. Some of us do not get opportunities handed to us but you got opportunities handed to you but you said no.
I need to get over him becuase I know he doesn’t like either and I know I’m gonna get hurt and I don’t want to feel even worse than I alr do - HIS SMILEEE can literally light up the whole entire world - He is SO CARING and THOUGHTFUL - He’s professional and very goal driven (like if he had a goal he would have so much drive and passion to purse it) - He artistic and he likes art
@@RASHMIKAKK I’m still not over him I think even more in love. I used to be scared to say that I love him cuz I thought if he ever wasn’t the right one I don’t know what I would do with myself with the pain but over the months idk I keep falling and falling more in love it’s impossible😭. Also a tip writing or drawing helps so much ikkkk that feeling like you have so muchhhh feeling emotionnn inside you that you don’t know what to do with your self and you feel like your quite litterly about to go crazy I suggest writing about it. I write poems about him and also journal pretending like it’s to him. It helps a lot. I also draw and that helps to. I just gave it to God and asked if he is the one remove him from my life cuz I don’t want to get hurt (and I still do till this day) but he’s still in my life so I just have peace with it and allow myself to love him without feeling scared or anxious. I thank God everyday for bringing him into my life and I continue to pray for him. I suggest asking God for guidance and just have peace with how it goes if he leaves it’s okay God has a better person for you but if he stays pray for him and care and love him even from afar until you guys meet
@@loiseu_ OMG gurl I could literally feel u. I know writing abt him helps but try this method write about him in a way of letter (like he is writing to u) yk what I mean then sleep with it one night and then burn that paper stop thinking about him just leave it as such sit back and see
I have liked this girl since she is Kind Funny We have known each other for a while and talk pretty Smart Athletic Overall a nice and well rounded person. I have found out they don’t like me and have been obsessed with another boy 😢pretty sad now
I have been there in the early 2000s. She is a student but she takes a part time job as a doing library jobs. She can be pretty, kind, funny, and know how to beat me in badminton. There are times a coach paired me up with her. I don't need to know because I prefer not to find out. I only prefer to admire her from afar. Difference is, I don't need to know whether she likes me or not. I rather not know. I rather just enjoy my time seeing her as my classmate and then go my separate ways. Knowing nothing is bliss. I don't know how you find out but it is best not to investigate. You can like someone and not investigate. You can like someone and prefer not to act upon them. If she don't know how you feel and as long as you don't confess, she cannot reject you.
If any one could help abit i would like to know how do i get over a girl wich is literally EVERYTHING THAT I LOOK FOR and I can't be with her pls some help
1. I don’t know why I want to be with them 😂, maybe coz I “think” we have some things in common and I can be silly around him or I won’t mind if he is being silly around me. Maybe coz I want a genuine friendship and a relationship with someone that I “think” would understand me. Maybe coz when I see his videos it reminds it makes me feel like that I’ve known him for years as if we can be best friends but we are different lol How can I explain it to anyone that I feel like I know him. In 2017 he posted a snap from Jalandhar Model Town Gym along with his brother with “dishkyaoon” lol, oh he was wearing red 😉, then another snap when he was driving a bullet and was wearing green 👕. Oh then another one when he got engaged lol, with pink turban looking up, and the list goes Oonnnnnnnn This was unexpected lol and the only thing that made it easy for me is that I never met him ☺️
I also want to get over my crush but this is so freakin' hard😭 I mean: • you can have really cool and deep conversations with him and there were times we talked about 2½ hours • he has niveau and is not like the other guys •He is so caring and supportive •He is smart and has goals he wants to achieve (he wants to become a doctor) • You can really have fun with him and we have the same humor • He is really honest It's really hard because I had a crush on him for almost 2 years and he also used to have feelings for me but we never actually dated and now he told me that he lost his feelings because we haven't seen eachother for a while... But he still wants to be friends with me🥲
It still hurts! 😢
my talking stage just failed with this guy tonight😭 hes actually the sweetest most caring genuine guy i have ever met. he even let me down gently n made sure i was ok with everything 😭 obviously i said i was ok but it really really hurt and i dont know how to get over him .
I WANT TO GET OVER MY CRUSH 😭
Here's why I think I fell for him:
•He's smart
•He cares about me, I think? I'm probably just assuming
•He's confident
•He's funny
•Has a good taste on music
•I like his appearance (height, face, eyes, hair, etc..)
•Good at everything, literally, he's so smart like damn
I really need help moving on cos it's not an infatuation anymore, I've liked him for 8 months now 😭
Me too I have a crush on a boy and I like him doesn’t like me. He has a crush on my best friend. I’m trying to. get over him 😭😭😭
I followed him on his public account and liked his ideology. He sent me a request from 2nd account I never accepted his request (I still won't). I don't know what got onto me but removed his request. Tho I had a lil interest in him. He posted something sad and I being a nice person for the first time massaged him and he asked for some suggestions for his relationship. The way he spoke was so nice I liked it. Knowing he had gf I had a crush on him but NEVER in my life I am going to confess. He posted two reels that was... I feel like directed towards me (long story short I think he broke up with her according to the way he posted) I am still laying in the middle of nowhere and not ready for a relationship so just want to get over that little stupid crush of mine.
@@emelyjuarez5928 HUHU ON UR BSF?! Good luck girl and stay strong, I'm sure you can get over him someday
😭😭😭😭😭
@@whores.arguewithme I, myself, is also going through this. 💀The boy that I've liked for 9 months has now found someone last month. For your situation though I think you have a chance on him but for my opinion, you should let your heart decide, if you're not ready tell him. If he is really what your heart desires I think u should give him a chance, well except if he's toxic or a redflag, that's for another story.
@maddy07737 that's good if you're trying to get over him, congrats!!
I want her because 1. She’s been traje only person to ever care about me 2. She is the sweetest and kindest person I have met in ages 3. She supported me and was always there for me 4. She took away my depression and without her it came back. It hurts hella bad cause Ik we would prob never work out and just be friends but damn it hurts when you feel like you finally found who you want
I was there at one point
I feel you man, I hope you’re doing alright ❤
I’ve liked this girl for over 4 years now and a week or so ago we started to talk a lot again like all day for a week, it was the best thing ever, she’s so smart kind caring talented and super pretty but also a bit shy sometimes but a few days age she sounded more angry and dry than normal she was so friendly before, now we haven’t spoken in ages and I’m wandering if we r still friends, I like her just as much as a friend as I find her attractive and it hurts the think that maybe I’ve upset her somehow. She’s way out of my league like everyone is, my longest lasting relationship also ended and idk what to do now I can’t move on from it either
I have the disgustingly same story 😭😭
I’ve been talking to this girl for years. Day and night on the phone. Their is no other man but we got into a bad argument/misunderstanding when I went to go see her. She thought I was lying about a few things and she’s just been overwhelmed about a lot of other things. She told me she was thinking about cutting me off over the whole situation. I left her a bday gift the next day and she told me “I seen the gift I appreciate it” I told her “your welcome and I hope we can get past this” I haven’t heard from her since (5 days ago) not sure if this is going to last or not but it’s driving me crazy
I really like my crush but I don't think she has ever liked me;( she just finds me as a friends 😭😭
Same here man same here
nah, i wanna destroy my mind until im driven to insanity. thanks anyways tho.
Any update?
Good idea
a girl i liked for a long time didnt have the heart to reject me when i asked her out... i found out a few days later that she was just being nice. it hurt like hell and it still does over a month later. she is smart, very kind, athletic, fun to spend time with, and i find her drop-dead gorgeous. there is no bad blood between us but i still look at photos and struggle to comprehend how for one night i was all that and now im sometimes just ignored when we walk by each other
How did you find out she was just being nice?
Same bro I thought I had it in the bag when I asked her to dance with me and she said yes but the next times I saw her we were friendly with each other but she never showed signs of interest apart from wanting a picture with me
I love him because hes sweet, hes caring and brings me happiness, but he isnt ready for a relationship,and when i feel sad or annoyed at someone i become toxic and rude, he loves me but doesnt want to date me, if anyone has advice please tell me, i really love him
So relatable 💔 did you ever find a way to move on? If so, how?
@@ty8915 oh...it was simple....
He's now my boyfriend after I didnt give up on him 🤭
Omg guys I need to understand why you are calling a situation someone you never dated? Is it like virtual ? Or is it because you didnt stay long enough than a month or you didnt have sex ? (because if i get it well if the guy make it official yet by tell me he is my boyfriend he want to be in a relationship with me what should i think.. ) because now that your saying it i dont even know when i have i reached a new step to be on a relationship/situationship/dating
So sorry no one has answered your question! I think it could be virtual but they're mostly talking about if you're really in love with someone but never make it official and you cry about them all the time because you want them so bad, you're getting heartbroken over someone you never dated so pretty much just loving someone you can't have, therefore you're getting heartbroken over them (I think that's what they mean) I hope this helped!
They are saying someone you never dated as a crush they are saying that you have a crush on someone and you have never dated them and that you need to get over the crush and find another one 😅
I like this girl I mean she's eveything
1 she's so God damn gorgeous every time I look at her I just see a beaming light of beauty
2 She's pretty funny and we can make jokes and stuff
3 she's smarter than I am like way smarter than me
4 she loves doing stuff with me and it's easy beacuse we live close
Now the bad
1 she's short I mean I'm 5"9 and she's 4"11 just a little to short
2 Every boy that liked her she's has played and I think I'm getting played
3 ik it wouldn't work out we have are differences and it just wouldn't work out
the bad stuff is definitely something that can be worked with, height is something you get used to, differences are okay to learn from each other, now about the getting played part you should look more signs into that and not jump to conclusions from the past
I’ve liked this kid for over two years and he always like flirts with me yk and he asked someone else to be his valentine which is not the point but anyway the girl he asked told him I liked him (she tells him everything she knows) so now I’m embarrassed and can’t trust anyone and I’ve been crying for the past four hours
My crush is a RUclipsr
I recently found his channel
For about 2 months now I cannot stop crushing on him
He’s very attractive
And he makes videos that mostly help people’s age in gen z
And every video my crush on him gets worse
But his videos are made to help what do I dooooo 😩
yall i need help, a guy used to like me but i have clearly rejected him a lot of times, but now he stopped liking me and moved onto someone else, now i cant stop thinking about him and its bugging me so much. idk this feeling
This happened with my best friend the guy who liked her did this, he said since you rejected me I am dating xyz she (my best friend) might be a little hurt but she was like yesss go ahead but we will stay friends na? The xyz girl was a walking talking red flag(he said that) so they broke up after 2 days of being together. Now after 2 years he is my best friend's boyfriend. So you should talk to him often and be friends with him and try showing your interest in him just a little and he might again fall for you
If it's the other scenario...
If you want to get over this feeling and don't really like him then remember you liked the attention he gave your not him.
@@whores.arguewithme oh thank you!
this is why women are not respected, walking piece of garbage
Got to expect that once you reject, that person will have no choice but to move on. If you really wanted him, you should of cashed in and said yes. What you did is played hard to get. When you play games, they think you were never interested. If you like someone, rule #1 is never push them away. They aren't going to beg you. You had already pushed him away. That is why he moved on. Can't expect anyone to come crawling to you. If you ended up cannot stop thinking about him after pushing him away, it is like you want to come crawling back. So if a good opportunity represent itself to you, take it. It is like a job interview. If a interviewer decides to hire you and it is a good company to work in, you cannot say no. Same rules apply in this relationship. Don't push opportunity away. Some of us do not get opportunities handed to us but you got opportunities handed to you but you said no.
@@hp2546 oh
I need to get over him becuase I know he doesn’t like either and I know I’m gonna get hurt and I don’t want to feel even worse than I alr do
- HIS SMILEEE can literally light up the whole entire world
- He is SO CARING and THOUGHTFUL
- He’s professional and very goal driven (like if he had a goal he would have so much drive and passion to purse it)
- He artistic and he likes art
OMG gurl if u got over him tell me how i don't know why my heart feels heavy and i couldn't express it to anyone
@@RASHMIKAKK I’m still not over him I think even more in love. I used to be scared to say that I love him cuz I thought if he ever wasn’t the right one I don’t know what I would do with myself with the pain but over the months idk I keep falling and falling more in love it’s impossible😭. Also a tip writing or drawing helps so much ikkkk that feeling like you have so muchhhh feeling emotionnn inside you that you don’t know what to do with your self and you feel like your quite litterly about to go crazy I suggest writing about it. I write poems about him and also journal pretending like it’s to him. It helps a lot. I also draw and that helps to. I just gave it to God and asked if he is the one remove him from my life cuz I don’t want to get hurt (and I still do till this day) but he’s still in my life so I just have peace with it and allow myself to love him without feeling scared or anxious. I thank God everyday for bringing him into my life and I continue to pray for him. I suggest asking God for guidance and just have peace with how it goes if he leaves it’s okay God has a better person for you but if he stays pray for him and care and love him even from afar until you guys meet
@@loiseu_ OMG gurl I could literally feel u. I know writing abt him helps but try this method write about him in a way of letter (like he is writing to u) yk what I mean then sleep with it one night and then burn that paper stop thinking about him just leave it as such sit back and see
@@loiseu_ I'm telling u do it 🫂❤️
Thankyou❤
I have liked this girl since she is
Kind
Funny
We have known each other for a while and talk
pretty
Smart
Athletic
Overall a nice and well rounded person.
I have found out they don’t like me and have been obsessed with another boy 😢pretty sad now
I have been there in the early 2000s. She is a student but she takes a part time job as a doing library jobs. She can be pretty, kind, funny, and know how to beat me in badminton. There are times a coach paired me up with her. I don't need to know because I prefer not to find out. I only prefer to admire her from afar. Difference is, I don't need to know whether she likes me or not. I rather not know. I rather just enjoy my time seeing her as my classmate and then go my separate ways. Knowing nothing is bliss. I don't know how you find out but it is best not to investigate. You can like someone and not investigate. You can like someone and prefer not to act upon them. If she don't know how you feel and as long as you don't confess, she cannot reject you.
If any one could help abit i would like to know how do i get over a girl wich is literally EVERYTHING THAT I LOOK FOR and I can't be with her pls some help
1. I don’t know why I want to be with them 😂, maybe coz I “think” we have some things in common and I can be silly around him or I won’t mind if he is being silly around me.
Maybe coz I want a genuine friendship and a relationship with someone that I “think” would understand me.
Maybe coz when I see his videos it reminds it makes me feel like that I’ve known him for years as if we can be best friends but we are different lol
How can I explain it to anyone that I feel like I know him. In 2017 he posted a snap from Jalandhar Model Town Gym along with his brother with “dishkyaoon” lol, oh he was wearing red 😉, then another snap when he was driving a bullet and was wearing green 👕. Oh then another one when he got engaged lol, with pink turban looking up, and the list goes Oonnnnnnnn
This was unexpected lol and the only thing that made it easy for me is that I never met him ☺️
Just be grateful for whatever comes and don’t be sad if it don’t last. Surrender to god’s will.
I'm not going to be sweet with my comment some romeo and juliet or something, ima straight being honest she's fine as hell just thats it.
İ dated her she was the only female i genuinely enjoyed interacting with
Any update?
Female.
Logic doesn't work here
I also want to get over my crush but this is so freakin' hard😭
I mean:
• you can have really cool and deep conversations with him and there were times we talked about 2½ hours
• he has niveau and is not like the other guys
•He is so caring and supportive
•He is smart and has goals he wants to achieve (he wants to become a doctor)
• You can really have fun with him and we have the same humor
• He is really honest
It's really hard because I had a crush on him for almost 2 years and he also used to have feelings for me but we never actually dated and now he told me that he lost his feelings because we haven't seen eachother for a while... But he still wants to be friends with me🥲
I really dont suggest you staying frnds with him. I am assuming it will hurt you even more. But thats just a personal perspective.
@@saminyeaser3939 Thank you for your advice....
@@saminyeaser3939To be honest, I also don't think anymore he is the 'perfect' guy... He came together with my best friend💀...