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💖Hi Melissa, thank you for this video! We as women need to be frank when we’re discussing these topics so it can possibly help someone else. It’s also great that you put it in every day words. I’m a fellow breast ca survivor although my type was different than yours. It was invasive ductal but the subtype was not hormonal. Thank you Melissa and please don’t feel bad about being blunt, we are women who need to talk about these things, if it doesn’t apply then those people can click off if it they aren’t interested but it’s good for them to know too. ❤️
So true; I too am a breast cancer survivor and had a bilateral mastecomy with a reconstruction 5 years later; my cancer was not hormonal so I could not take anything but got a preventative chemo for 7 months; it was tough but never wanted a could of should of. During my journey the best information I got was what was shared by other women; primarily online. During the primary operation I had skin saving even though at that time I wasn't sure what I wanted to do; I wanted to be completely healthy, 5 years is the usual time they give you as been "cured"; I did not have any lymph nodes involvement so none were removed; that was lucky! I still see my oncologist primarily because it gives me comfort. He gives me a thorough exam; I asked him why he checks my breast so carefully; he says returns usually occur near the scar area; learned something new. I discuss with my doctor recently about HRT because I appear to have more UTI but said to me though they have topical form that stays within the vaginal area why would I want to introduce something to my body.
@@houston5568Was yours Triple Negative? Mine was and I had chemotherapy too as well as radiation because I had a lumpectomy at stage 1b, no lymph node involvement and BRACA Negative. If something ever arises there again, I will have a full mastectomy.
@@houston5568 Exactly. I didn't want to look back someday and regret not taking this medicine and doing all I could to keep it away. This is so helpful. I want to always see my oncologist too. I think it will bring me comfort. I do use the vaginal form and my doctor said it's safe even with hormonal cancer. It really hleps "that area". Good luck and thank you.
Thank you for this!💕Melissa, I went into premature menopause at 37 and took HRT until 60. I have no regrets- in fact my doctor said that I protected my bones and heart immensely! We need to stop looking at HRT as evil! 😏
I am an RN. Sounds like you had a bilateral subcutaneous mastectomy. Just removed the breast tissue under the skin. Great choice. I'm 72 and never have taken HRT. I had hysterectomy at age 29 but kept my ovaries. Breezed through menopause with hardly any symptoms. I take no prescription meds and consider myself blessed. Thank you for this very informative video and being so transparent.
Thank you for sharing. I am 63, menopausal since age 48, and have used no hormone replacement. My symptoms were mild and managable, and I simply preferred not to go on HRT. I have recently been second guessing my decision as a result of all the recent chatter of how "devastating" the loss of hormones is to basically every organ, bone, tissue, system in the body. My weight, blood pressure, cholosterol, blood sugar are all good with no meds. It is comforting to hear an RN has chosen the same path.
@@trishthedishbliss60Same case.... Recently listening influencers all the time saying how "devasting" my decision of not taking HRT is for my body, even when I feel much better than before, not weight gain, sleeping like a baby... But the influence is so strong on the part of Menopause Taylor, and all the advocates that they even made me feel insecure about my own health . Fearing I am lossing my bones, my mind, my cardio health, my youth and beauty...losing EVERYTHING by not taking HRT. I don't say they are campaigning with any interest (it never crossed my mind), but the truth is that they are making much pressure in favour of HRT. My mother was on it some years ago and got breast cancer. We visited gynecologists, oncologists, radiologists and ALL of them asked how much time she had been on HRT. 😢My own doctors (and I have visited several) agreed HRT the less the better Are all of them bad educated? Only doctors who prescribe hormones are the ones to be listened to?
Melissa, you’re such a sweetheart! Sharing your journey through all this. I talked to you awhile back about mine, I had breast cancer in 2005. What alerted me, was the Man upstairs, I had pain during my menstrual cycle, in both breast, it was kinda strange, but I paid attention. I called my doctor on Monday and he had me in to get a mammogram on Tuesday, Wednesday he called me and said Brenda you have a mass on your right side against the chest wall. I went on Friday to get a biopsy from my surgeon, I made him promise to call me with the results that evening and he said he would. So late that evening he called, and said it was cancer. I was mostly in shock, that is what everyone else gets, not me!! That was a whirlwind of a week!! My cancer was stage 3, and 3cm. They did all kinds of tests on me and poked and prodded me. I had a lumpectomy, chemotherapy and radiation treatment. My hair fell out and I know that it is vain, I hated being bald more than anything. I got through all these things with the Lord’s help. It was tough. During this time my legs were hurting so badly. Come to find out I was bone on bone in both hips. My doctor figured that the chemotherapy ate the cartilage out of my hips. So in February and May of 2006, I had to have total hip replacement surgery on both hips. My cancer was hormone negative so I was not to take anything to do with hormones. Glad to be alive today, but it was a rough ride. I will pray for you and your upcoming surgery.❤
Brenda, you have so been through the ringer. It's hard to believe sometimes that we have gone through things we do, and you have just been through so much. But you just sound like such a positive person and an informed person and I think that is key to getting well. I'm thankful for you. I appreciate this!
I wore an HRT patch, Climara, for 17 years. I had a total hysterectomy at 31 due to ovarian cancer. Im 67 now, I don't regret using HRT. There is a strong history of breast cancer on my father's side; my grandmother and 2 of dads sisters had breast cancer my grandmother lost her battle, my 2 aunts are fine and have been for 30+ years as am I. Thanks for sharing your story, God bless you❤
I am adopted so don’t know family history. I have dense breast tissue (level C) and never had children (which supposedly increases my risk for all female cancers including breast cancer because I never had a break from estrogen). No doctor (including doctors at Duke University Medical Hospital and John’s Hopkins) would prescribe me any form of HRT. They all said the risks outweigh the benefits. I’m only trying to be helpful by sharing this. I wanted HRT, but women and men doctors told me no. Even for bio identical. So far, I am cancer free ... though I am always called back for extra mammograms and have had to have a lumpectomy for what turned out to be benign. I eat vegetarian and just do the best I can. Again, I’m only adding this in case it helps anyone else. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
This was so very moving...Melissa, you explained everything so well..your honesty and willingness to share your journey will save the lives of countless women. You are beautiful, wise and have been through hell...and you are making a difference! I pray for you everyday....much always, Susan & Desi
I’m a breast cancer survivor. No one on my mother’s side ever had it, but on my father’s side a couple of aunts did. I’ve always been scared of hormone replacement, both before and after having cancer.
I also had a bilateral mastectomy with reconstruction for a very similar overall situation. I am about 9 months post surgery. Just FYI the most comfortable bra for me is actually a nursing bra if you can believe it. Less pressure on my nipples, poor things have been through a lot! Weird, but supportive and comfortable. I had numbness at the beginning but that got better for me, I hope for you too. I send you hugs and wishes for health and happiness.
That is good to know about the numbness. Thank you! What is the brand name if you don't mind my asking? I'm still wearing those from the breast center. Thank you!
I had a hysterectomy at 40 also. I took Premarin pills for 10 years. I would’ve stayed on them, but my doctor wouldn’t give them to me anymore because she said I was high risk for breast cancer as I never had kids. I’m gonna be 69 at the end of this month and fortunately I never did a breast cancer. I’ve had a biopsy that was benign. I had really wanted to stay on them. I hope you are feeling well as you look amazing. I’m traveling and in SC on my way to my new apt and life in NC. 💕🙏
Thank you for sharing your story so candidly. I was diagnosed with hormone positive breast cancer this year, too. Fortunately, it was caught early and after two lumpectomies (the second showing clear margins) and two sentinel nodes removed being clear, I only received radiation and no chemo. I’m also on anastrozole and side effects are mild and tolerable, mostly achy joints. I had a recent DEXA scan which showed minor osteopenia, so I’m doing what I can to improve my bone health, such as working with a PT on weight bearing exercises, eating calcium rich food and cutting down on coffee (caffeine) consumption. Cancer is a journey and can be all consuming at times. You have such a wonderful attitude, though I’m sure you’ve had some difficult moments. I work everyday at having gratitude and creating joy, even with cancer often in the background.
I admire your positive attitude! Believe me, it will go a long way as you tackle this journey. I had a stroke four years ago, and I was taking HRT also. The doctors said I could NOT go back on it. They didn't say the HRT was the culprit, but... I feel fantastic today, and I thank God every day that I'm going to be 71 in February!!! I pray for you often.
Thank you, Terry. Oh my gosh, what a scary time that was for you. I am so sorry. You look fantastic and I am so grateful for you. Take care. Love, Melissa
I’m a breast cancer survivor. I’m thankful for everything that you share and so happy to see you. You look beautiful Melissa. Prayers from Mississippi 🙏🏻💖🙏🏻
Well done lovely lady. I love you so much. I am recovering from BII (breast implant illness ) and discovered a double rupture in both implants. Silicone leakage and feeling very unwell for a long time. I don’t want to discourage or distress anyone going through this. Bone pain due to inflammation being so so bad for me. Since explant many symptoms have cleared up. X x you are wonderful x ❤
Thank you for being so transparent and vulnerable. I pray our Lord Jesus will heal you and keep you and bless you with a long and satisfying life! You shine His light so beautifully! Glory be to God of the Most High!
Melissa: prayers up. It's so hard to have to find the right balance of treatment, to where you can protect your bones (important!), and, still try to avoid the chance of it metastasizing anywhere else, God forbid. A lot of serious choices to be made, with the added complication of the Crohn's disease. You still look incredibly beautiful, despite the ordeal. I hope the worst is behind you, and, I hope also that your bone density exam results are good. Life does not get easier, that's for certain. Take good care of yourself! Rosemarie. 🙏🏻✝️❤️🌻
It's not the oestrogen that's associated with a slight increase of breast cancer, its the progesterone. Infact years ago estrogen was used as part of treatment for breast cancer. It's a very individual decision with Hrt , but hope your healing goes well and recovery
Melissa, thank you so much for your honesty and explaining everything. I am so happy they caught it early and your doing well. I am 51 and I have been getting mammograms and ultrasounds since I’m 37 because my mom passed away from breast cancer at 48. I haven’t received any HRT because of my mothers history. I’ve chosen to go through menopause without it. Thank you for being so candid and may God bless you! 💕
TY for sharing your experiences, it has helped me as next year, I enter my 60's and I am on HRT. I am on top of my mammograms. Such great food for thought. I am following your journey and I think that you have made beautiful personal decisions and I pray for a healthy path forward for you. Thank God. Blessings, Nancy
I have a wonderful HRT doctor. She said that anyone on Estrogen (Estradiol in my case) needs to be on progesterone to balance estrogen levels out. The reason for this is unbalanced estrogen replacement can cause breast cancer. It is important to have hormone levels checked at least once a year. Hope this helps. Blessings to all.
REMARKABLE LADY ❤You are sooo wise. I am so glad you made the choice you did 😊😘🫶 AGAIN my experience briefly, had hysterectomy at 40, found out Stage 1B in Uterus. Oncologist said 22 sessions of Radiation. BIG MISTAKE. My whole digestive changed. Given a 2nd chance, I will never put Radiation in my body. I would never put Chemo in my body, decided that long ago. My GP and my Oncologist told me I could not take HRT AFTER I had my Cancer. They said AFTER you have Cancer, HRT can cause issues. HRT DOES NOT CAUSE CANCER. After you have Cancer, HRT can cause issues. That is what I was told. Melissa..you are wise not to take Radiation or Chemo..PLEASE AVOID THEM . JUST MY OWN OPINION 🥰😘🫶
Hello Melissa, I can’t thank you enough for explaining an sharing what you went thru an still going thru. Knowledge is power, on any cancer subjects I will always listen and take note, I’m in my early 50’s. An breast cancer does not run in my family but on my husband’s side most definitely our girls do get checked because it is so strong on his family side. I lost my Mom to colon cancer she was only 57 way to young, but in return my doctors keep a watch on me because I do have to get checked quite often. So thank you so very much. I hope you have a wonderful blessed week an then some 💖🌷
I was under the impression that the nipples and ducts are susceptible to cancer and should also be removed, esp. if you are going through the trouble of opting for the bilateral. Yt Menopause Taylor has tons of info on hrt and is currently doing a series on breast cancer.
Thank you for having this important discussion, Melissa. Your willingness to share your story helps all women who may be going through the same health challenge. Prayers to you for a continued strong recovery! 🙏
Hello,Melissa I was diagnosed with Premature Ovarian Failure at 39 Put on HRT immediately,no problem I’m now 56 and still on it No regrets Thanks for sharing Hugs 🤗
I don't regret being one it. I sort of have mixed feelings. Did the estrogen feed it? I just don't know. But I'm going to do my best to overcome any side effects from taking the new medication. I sure appreciate it!
Hi Melissa, I had ductal carcinoma also. Stage 0..was caught very quickly. Not invasive. Had a lumpectomy and 21 days radiation. This was during pandemic. Immediately after I had covid vaccine. It was recommended that I take HRT also, but onocologist said I had negative receptors and it would not help. I have been clear for two years. I have been doing the eliptical several times a week. That helps with lymph system. Eat alot of yogurt, kale and blueberries. Thank you for sharing what you have gone through. This is very helpful to all women no matter what their age.
As a breast cancer survivor in 1999 I feel you explained everything so well. I too had ductal carcinoma in situ on the chest wall. It was tough because I have dense breast tissue and am fairly large busted. It is so important to take notes, research and ask 10 questions at each visit. My first surgeon was a horror story but I will not go into it here. My good surgeon was fabulous and healing was a breeze under his skill and care. Continue to heal dear Melissa and please keep us posted on future procedures. This video was so informative for many women. ❤Kathy
Just got really good bone density report, no problems, I am 70 but do weight training twice a week and its obviously paying off. Good luck Melissa get those weights out.
So glad to see you and to know the procedure you have gone through. Modern breast surgery sure has come a long way. I remember my Mother’s friends having their breasts removed with no hope of saving skin, nipples or anything. One thing to also include for bone health. Taking calcium and Vitamin D supplements as cleared by your doctor of course. Funny story, but I have loved cheeses all my life and am always snacking on them. One doctor told me years ago after an x-ray that I have the bone density of someone 20 years younger than me. So if you can tolerate a cheese or yogurt into your diet it really helps.
Thanks for being honest about this. You have remained so beautiful for so long, and I'm sure a lot of that has to do with the HRT, but there are downsides. Those of us who are online a lot and who are getting older wonder about what choices we should make when the time comes.
Thank you for being so open and candid about your experience. Regarding HRT, it is always so hard to know what is best. I have heard HRT protects the brain (memory) and the heart (as long as people don’t drink alcohol when on it). My mother had horrible menopause symptoms and chose NOT to go on HRT, ended up with breast cancer in her 70’s and developed dementia. Who knows whether being on HRT would have saved her brain? She may have still gotten breast cancer in either scenario. Our bodies are so individualized. We have to do what is best for ourselves based on our personal experiences and medical advice.
Thank you for sharing your experience, I'm in awe of you. I have a close friend who just went through breast cancer treatment. Had a lumpectomy and chemo/radiation and is all done now. She is also someone I am in awe of. It's amazing how many women get this so I am hopeful someday there will be a cure. You are beautiful inside and out as well, a beauty guru. Thank you again for sharing everything. It's important for all of us to know.
Thank you so much. I so hope there is a cure very soon. Of all kinds of cancer. Too many people have paid the ultimate price with this disease. Thank you and much love, Melissa
Thank you for sharing your journey with us. I have been a mammography technologist for 37 years, but I became a breast cancer survivor in 2014. I was 49 at the time of diagnosis and was not on HRT, but my cancer was hormone positive. I had 5 months of chemo, followed by a double mastectomy (nipple sparing), radiation therapy, and breast reconstruction surgery. I also took Tamoxifen for 7 1/2 years. I can honestly say I have no regrets with the choices I made, and I would do it all the same way if I had it to do over. I have used my story to educate and inspire other ladies who are dealing with a breast cancer diagnosis, especially my sweet patients. God bless you as you share your story and use this experience to touch other lives.
Thank you for sharing your experiences so frankly. I had a hip surgery many years ago and I had the numbness in my hip skin just like you are having. The feeling did come back very slowly. I believe it is as a result of nerve damage. I appreciate your openness and bravery in sharing your journey. Hindsight is often 20/20 and you did what you thought was best at the time. Make peace with it ❤
I would take the anastrozole too having discovered what type of tumour you had. I think your doctors have done very well by you indeed. Thanks for all that sharing; as an RN I am interested medically in your travels through the cancer maze. I shudder when I think you were so close to cancelling that appointment!! Love you heaps. Gai. X❤
Thank you so much! Yes, to double my chances of success and with all these grandkids I'm wanting to see grow, it was a no brainer. Oh my goodness thinking of cancelling that appointment gives me nightmares! Many thanks!
Thank you so much for talking about your journey. No doubt you have saved lives by talking about the I, pittance of early detection. And to let others know that they are not alone. You are the best! xo. Patyi🌹
Thanks for being honest. In my opinion, females with strong family hx of breast cancer should never be placed on HRT. The risk outweighs the benefit significantly.
Thank you so much for such an honest description of your mastectomy and HRT. I have a dear friend who has just been diagnosed. I can't imagine a greater gift to give her than this wonderful video. I'm on the lowest dose estrogen patch but there is no breast cancer in my family. With that said, sharing your story has given me some important things to consider. And, as usual :) you look beautiful doing it. Thanks ever so much Melissa, Allison
Melissa, you are an amazing warrior and so generous to share quite frankly the details of your journey to healing. Wishing you a complete recovery, health, and vitality for many decades to come. So beautiful on the outside and inside, too, you are! Hugs ~Janis
You have been through SO much in one lifetime!....thank you for sharing...you may save a life, my dear. Many prayers continuing for your recovery. Love you much!♥❣❣
Thank you so much for your explanation Melissa. Didn’t even know it was possible to save the skin that covers the breast. I’m thinking that if the breasts still look normal apart from the surgery scars it must be easier to come to terms with psychologically. Can’t believe how well you are healing. Your positive attitude before and after the surgery has been a credit to you. Wishing you a future of good health. Xx
I recently quit hrt because of estrogen buildup . Its been maybe two months an my skin is looking very dry. I am told i had beginning of osteoporosis...... So i want to help my bones an heart. Ive ordered some progesterone only. Later i will take a plant based estrogen. My sister in law had masectomy but they did a fat transfer. I hope it works out well an you stay healthy.
Thank you for your frank discussion - I had ovarian c when I was 32 - and immediately went on HRT - and was on until I was 58 (when I got a blood clot - ugh...). all is well now - there was always a worry in the back of my mind about the HRT - and I am glad to hear that it does not cause breast cancer.....
Thank you for sharing your story. I am also a breast cancer survivor who took HRT for many years. I realize now I had taken it for too long. I have osteopenia, but do weight bearing exercises to help keep it from getting worse.
So sorry you had to go through this but you look great and sound very positive about the whole ordeal. I took HRT many, many years ago for maybe 2 years when the issue of breast cancer was talked about and my doctor told me to get off of it. I then went through all the menopause symptoms but don't regret that at all. I rather have that than breast cancer. I know you will do what is best for your bones since you already are doing that and will do more. May God bless you and keep you healthy as you go through this journey. You are very courageous in sharing this with us.
Thank you, Kathy. It is a tough decision to make for sure. I do think the key for my bones will be weight lifting exercises. I sure appreciate you. Much love, Melissa
You have always been a beautiful soul, so kind-hearted and giving of your self to all of us who follow you, you are sn optimistic warrior and you will be fine. When cancer knocked at my door i did not receive well its company. Its was living another dimension not familiar to me, but God gave me the strength to endure my process snd has changed me for the better. I also took the five year pill and till this dsy have that numbness with my lymph node removal. Went through chemo radiation snd partial mysectomy. Since 2011 I've am cancer free and in good health. I wish upon you all the good that awaits you ahead, and God's blessing upon you.❤❤❤
Thank you so much for sharing this, it was very informative. Breast cancer does run on my mother's side of the family although my mother did not have it. I have had 2 aunts and 3 cousins that have had it. I had a lump taken out of my left breast about 20 years ago but thank the Lord it was not cancerous! I was on the HRT patches about 5 or 6 years but my doctor took me off of them after the lump showed up. I have a mammogram and just this year he wants a sonogram as well. Have a great week! Much love!!
Thank you for sharing your very private story. So glad you’re healing. I have eczema and I chose not to take the injectable they recommended because it had a warning of increasing cancer in general due to it lowering the immune system. I will just deal with the eczema.
Thank you for your honest update…..it saddens me so much you had to go through this. I m 64 and would like to think I am pretty healthy, but one never know. Hearing you speaking about all this inspires me so much to take better care of myself. I feel I went through hell with my menopause….25 plus hot flushes a day, night sweats, mood swings. One time I was sitting and talking to a vendor and one of my flushes came on. My face beet red and sweat flowing down my face…. He said …..are you ok, what’s wrong, can I help, are you passing out? I’ve never been more embarrassed. I didn’t say anything and carried on, this was my day for about 10 years. None of my dr mentioned HRT I had a partial hysterectomy…..that was it about 14 years ago. Now 15 years later I am DONE I have night sweats…..but oh well no big deal. I am actually grateful that the dr here in Southern California never brought up HRT. With that said……..thank you and I wish you the best always, you are such a “doll”, true inspiration….much love ❤️
Oh Melissa, I have DCIS and am having a lumpectomy with a lift and reduction this coming Wednesday. Scary because Ive never had surgery, even though Im 72. Stitches only.. It's so good for me to see you back and with full range of motion. It shows me what is possible. I face radiation, no chemo. Best of luck, I will say a prayer for you. Thank you for sharing. You may want to consider Egoscue. I have 2 herniated discs and no pain!
God bless you Melissa and thank you for sharing your journey. I lost my own mother to breast cancer, plus my daughter in law had a double mastectomy at the age of 28. I understand your journey. I am on BHRT myself and I am 67, for my bones etc, I just ensure I always balance the estrogen with progesterone. Just me. I wish you and your family all the best Melissa, if I can be of any assistance please let me know.
I really appreciate this video and the way you speak from the heart. You are in my prayers and I hope you make a full recovery and you have a very long and happy life.
Oh Melissa! I am so sorry that you had to go through all of this! Your story is candid and well articulated for all of us that could potentially face this. You are the epitomy of strength, determination and beauty from the inside out! I honesty can't believe how great you look after going through all of this and serve as an inspiration to women everywhere! I think a positive outlook is mandatory and your positivity always shines right through!! I carefully listened to everything you said and really appreciate you sharing your experience. Thank you and wishes for continued good healing moving forward! Wishing you and your family much peace and love, ~Jackie
Thank you for being so frank-knowledge is power. I to have a strong family history of breast cancer and just was told by my Mothera dr about a link between some breast cancers, ovarian, colon and Pancreatic cancer which my mother has. We have to be vigilant and make the best, most informed decisions we can for our own bodies. You are a brave soul for sharing-as a cancer survivor myself it's not always easy. You are giving strength to other women with your telling. Thank you and you continue to be in my prayers🩷🙏🩷
Melissa melatonin (Terry Naturally is the most scientifically studied) is very useful in keeping breast cancers from returning. I love how you are paying attention.
Thank you for sharing your experience with us. It will certainly help others. Your positive outlook on life is beautiful. I was on ERT for 11 years due to a hysterectomy at age 36. I went off it at age 47, but I wish I'd stayed on it a little longer because I now have osteoporosis (I'm 62) and I am terribly afraid to take the bisphosphonate medication. I wanted to mention this because there are life-style choices you can make now to help your bone health, such a reducing caffeine intake to no more than 2 cups of coffee per day, lowering sugar, salt and alcohol consumption, eliminating carbonated cola soda, and getting 1,200 mg of calcium per day as well as vitamin D (this varies by person so your doctor would have to check your levels). Also, your doctor can write a prescription for physical therapy so you can learn the proper weight-baring exercises to do for your body. I wish I'd paid more attention to this advice when I was younger before I got osteoporosis because I have a strong family history of it but I was foolish and didn't even worry about it then. I wish you all the best as you heal and focus on a healthy future. ❤
Please if you have a dentist talk to him about bisphosphonates and what can happen if you have to have a tooth extracted and you have taken these I have a patient that we had this situation with. Please look into this the oral surgeon I used to work for has a pamphlet about this information look into it before you make this decision.❤️
I'm reluctant to take it too. The problem with me is I have tried to take calcium before and it messed up my Crohn's disease. I might try again but I'm worried about triggering that. I swear sometimes I think I'm going mad. I will stay awake at night just worried about my body to be honest. Anyway, I'm going to do the best I can and I guess that's all I can do. Much love and thanks, Melissa
@@Melissa55It would be a good idea to get a thorough check up with your dentist before starting your treatment so they are aware and can assess any issues you have before you start😊❤️So thankful you shared in depth your experience so others can use this information ❤
You’re doing great Melissa! That numbness will start to go away. I had my lumpectomy on March 13, finished radiation in the middle of June. I still have some numbness under my arm from the lymph node removal, much better than before. I had the same kind of cancer. I’m on letrozole/femara. It’s giving me hot flashes, so I have to take clonidine for that. Not fun, but I feel thankful like you. I know mine could have been so much worse. God bless you. ❤
Great job! Women helping women. We need to have frank discussions and you did it. You have a lot of women who you have touched. Thanks you for your openness.
💖🌸 Good morning sweet Melissa. I'm so happy to see how wonderful you're doing. This video was so important. I'm glad that you've decided to tell us your story. Since my lumpectomy in 2011 🎀 I've been going for exams a few times a year. Thank you for sharing your experience that will no doubt bring comfort to so many. God Bless 🙌 💞
Thank you for your frankness and sharing your journey. Women have many health issues that are complicated and you really have to be your own advocate and stay up on all the information available to you.
Melissa, I am a breast cancer survivor of three years. Thank you God. It has been a very hard and scary experience to deal with. I had surgery, radiation and am on anastrozole for five years. So grateful for the anastrozole. So thankful for treatment. It is such a hard place knowing what to do or not to do. What to eat and what makeup and products you can not use. What does not have parabens. Chemicals in cleaning products just everyday living. Should you eat diary? Your life choices are harder. God bless you.
I was taken off Estrace after 8 years because my gynecologist said it was a higher risk of stroke. I had complete hysterectomy at 46 and off HRT at 54. Talk to your doctor. No cancer for me just take HRT cautiously. There are risks.
You’re right Melissa when you say everyone’s journey is different. I can share that the nerves never regenerated where the lymph nodes were removed on me. I have had no feeling for 30 years….lol…..you get used to it! The worst is getting an itch in my armpit…..there’s no relief because you can’t feel the scratching. You just feel pressure. Hopefully you’ll get some feeling back!
Thank you for talking so honestly. It is so helpful to hear your story and that you are coming through still beautiful still smiling. Well I think you are a beautiful angel 👼🌸🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
You are amazing. Thank you for the frank information, I am so happy that you are doing so well I think it’s because of your attitude that you are doing so well. Take care dear lady thank you for your honesty. Linda, PA.
Thank you Melissa for sharing your story. I admire you for this. You speak so eloquently and are quite the class act. As a nurse in the same age bracket and dealing with some age related health issues, I can say that no one fully prepares you for this period in life. It’s a real eye opener and not for the faint hearted! That’s why sharing as you did of your recent breast cancer surgery will be so helpful to other women. We cannot avoid how life changes, nor like the experiences change brings, but we can support each other through our experiences. You generously did just that.
You are very kind to say such nice things, and I thank you. No, we don't have much preparation do we? It can be jarring and make us fearful. I have had my moments of being afraid, but I think I'm stubborn enough not to let this thing break me. I sure appreciate you so much.
I honor that stubborn nature Melissa and can relate! Life can throw things at us unexpectedly and sometimes it feels like too much. Yet I do believe we are bigger than any circumstance we might find our self in. Gratitude is a big grounding force for me. I remind myself of my family or whatever else is going well. @@Melissa55
I had total hysterectomy at the age of 26 due to heavy endometriosis. I was under HRT which I stopped at around 35 years old after my mom has been diagnosed with breast cancer. It was hormonal caused since she was under HRT for several years after cervical cancer. I had no problems with bone loss over all those years - don’t be afraid of that too much! The menopause symptoms were quite hard, but now in my 50‘s it’s okay.
Wonderful video. Knowledge is power & we women need it. I had a complete hysterectomy at 40 & was put on estrogen. The doctor said I was young & needed to protect my bones. I stayed on it about a year. I took myself off it. I was so scared of cancer. My mom had it & hers was hormone fed. She went through quite a bit. Her oncologist told her I’d probably have cancer in my 30’s. Thank God that didn’t happen. She was hysterical when she got home. She was so scared for me. I told her the doctor isn’t God so don’t worry about it. I thank God for every year of my life. I don’t know if I should’ve stayed on estrogen. Maybe I wouldn’t be in such bad shape. I’m so happy you did all the right things. I’m especially glad your lymph nodes were clear. Bless you for being so open. Love you, Lucy
You are so sweet and pretty and thank you for explaining your procedure for us. This is good to know. I never knew they could pull the skin of your breast up and you could keep your natural breast and nipples. Sending healing and love Melissa!
You are an inspiration! Thank you so much for sharing your story. I suspect you’ll never know how many women this video reaches and helps. I wish you the very best in your recovery. Your plan for the weight bearing and flexibility exercises sounds exactly right. Much love to you.
I'm on Prolea once every 6 months for my bones. I'm on Exemestane and a monthly Zolodex injection. It isn't pleasant, but I'm still here. Maybe ask your doctor about Prolea for your bones. I do wish you the very best. I'm thankful yours was caught early.
Oh Melissa. Thank you for sharing your story. You are such an amazing woman and an inspiration. I have enjoyed your channel for a long time. Wishing you the best. Peace and love.
Hi Melissa, I’ve been in the medical field for 35 years. I think your explanations were perfect. It will help a lot of people. You are a good person. Thank you ❤ I pray that you will continue to heal.
Thank you for generously sharing first-hand experience and being so knowledgeable. You look so lovely Melissa. Very very best wishes and luck as you continue to heal! 💕
I agree with the others. You have done others a great service by sharing your story. Being a BC survivor myself, I know we need to listen to our doctors, but we get a lot of different and valuable knowledge from others who have been through it. And listening to others makes us feel less alone. So thank you.
Hi Melissa! Thank you for sharing. I'm an oncology nurse & love when people speak about their journey. It can really help others not feel alone. Do you mind sharing what your hormone receptors were? These are the ER (estrogen receptor), PR (progesteron receptor) and HER-2 neu? Did you get genetic testing?
Thank you for being so honest and frank about your journey. I think that is helpful to women going through a similar diagnosis. You look beautiful and healthy. I was diagnosed with BC this summer and had lumpectomy/lymphectomy . I keep saying and believing that the cancer is gone!! In regards to the osteoporosis I walk, lift weights and practice yoga. Dr. Fishman from Columbia University did a study on how yoga is really helpful for that; he even has a series of poses that specifically help (you can find that on YT. God bless and heal you and all of us.
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💖Hi Melissa, thank you for this video! We as women need to be frank when we’re discussing these topics so it can possibly help someone else. It’s also great that you put it in every day words. I’m a fellow breast ca survivor although my type was different than yours. It was invasive ductal but the subtype was not hormonal. Thank you Melissa and please don’t feel bad about being blunt, we are women who need to talk about these things, if it doesn’t apply then those people can click off if it they aren’t interested but it’s good for them to know too. ❤️
So true; I too am a breast cancer survivor and had a bilateral mastecomy with a reconstruction 5 years later; my cancer was not hormonal so I could not take anything but got a preventative chemo for 7 months; it was tough but never wanted a could of should of. During my journey the best information I got was what was shared by other women; primarily online. During the primary operation I had skin saving even though at that time I wasn't sure what I wanted to do; I wanted to be completely healthy, 5 years is the usual time they give you as been "cured"; I did not have any lymph nodes involvement so none were removed; that was lucky! I still see my oncologist primarily because it gives me comfort. He gives me a thorough exam; I asked him why he checks my breast so carefully; he says returns usually occur near the scar area; learned something new. I discuss with my doctor recently about HRT because I appear to have more UTI but said to me though they have topical form that stays within the vaginal area why would I want to introduce something to my body.
@@houston5568Was yours Triple Negative? Mine was and I had chemotherapy too as well as radiation because I had a lumpectomy at stage 1b, no lymph node involvement and BRACA Negative. If something ever arises there again, I will have a full mastectomy.
Thank you so much!!! It is hard to kjnow how forthcoming to be sometime! lol. I thank you and hope you are well.
@@houston5568 Exactly. I didn't want to look back someday and regret not taking this medicine and doing all I could to keep it away. This is so helpful. I want to always see my oncologist too. I think it will bring me comfort. I do use the vaginal form and my doctor said it's safe even with hormonal cancer. It really hleps "that area". Good luck and thank you.
Thank you for this!💕Melissa, I went into premature menopause at 37 and took HRT until 60. I have no regrets- in fact my doctor said that I protected my bones and heart immensely! We need to stop looking at HRT as evil! 😏
I am an RN. Sounds like you had a bilateral subcutaneous mastectomy. Just removed the breast tissue under the skin. Great choice. I'm 72 and never have taken HRT. I had hysterectomy at age 29 but kept my ovaries. Breezed through menopause with hardly any symptoms. I take no prescription meds and consider myself blessed. Thank you for this very informative video and being so transparent.
Thank you for sharing. I am 63, menopausal since age 48, and have used no hormone replacement. My symptoms were mild and managable, and I simply preferred not to go on HRT. I have recently been second guessing my decision as a result of all the recent chatter of how "devastating" the loss of hormones is to basically every organ, bone, tissue, system in the body. My weight, blood pressure, cholosterol, blood sugar are all good with no meds. It is comforting to hear an RN has chosen the same path.
@@trishthedishbliss60Same case.... Recently listening influencers all the time saying how "devasting" my decision of not taking HRT is for my body, even when I feel much better than before, not weight gain, sleeping like a baby... But the influence is so strong on the part of Menopause Taylor, and all the advocates that they even made me feel insecure about my own health . Fearing I am lossing my bones, my mind, my cardio health, my youth and beauty...losing EVERYTHING by not taking HRT. I don't say they are campaigning with any interest (it never crossed my mind), but the truth is that they are making much pressure in favour of HRT.
My mother was on it some years ago and got breast cancer. We visited gynecologists, oncologists, radiologists and ALL of them asked how much time she had been on HRT. 😢My own doctors (and I have visited several) agreed HRT the less the better Are all of them bad educated? Only doctors who prescribe hormones are the ones to be listened to?
Melissa, you’re such a sweetheart! Sharing your journey through all this.
I talked to you awhile back about mine, I had breast cancer in 2005. What alerted me, was the Man upstairs, I had pain during my menstrual cycle, in both breast, it was kinda strange, but I paid attention.
I called my doctor on Monday and he had me in to get a mammogram on Tuesday, Wednesday he called me and said Brenda you have a mass on your right side against the chest wall. I went on Friday to get a biopsy from my surgeon, I made him promise to call me with the results that evening and he said he would. So late that evening he called, and said it was cancer. I was mostly in shock, that is what everyone else gets, not me!!
That was a whirlwind of a week!!
My cancer was stage 3, and 3cm.
They did all kinds of tests on me and poked and prodded me.
I had a lumpectomy, chemotherapy and radiation treatment. My hair fell out and I know that it is vain, I hated being bald more than anything.
I got through all these things with the Lord’s help. It was tough.
During this time my legs were hurting so badly. Come to find out I was bone on bone in both hips. My doctor figured that the chemotherapy ate the cartilage out of my hips. So in February and May of 2006, I had to have total hip replacement surgery on both hips.
My cancer was hormone negative so I was not to take anything to do with hormones.
Glad to be alive today, but it was a rough ride.
I will pray for you and your upcoming surgery.❤
Brenda, you have so been through the ringer. It's hard to believe sometimes that we have gone through things we do, and you have just been through so much. But you just sound like such a positive person and an informed person and I think that is key to getting well. I'm thankful for you. I appreciate this!
I wore an HRT patch, Climara, for 17 years. I had a total hysterectomy at 31 due to ovarian cancer. Im 67 now, I don't regret using HRT. There is a strong history of breast cancer on my father's side; my grandmother and 2 of dads sisters had breast cancer my grandmother lost her battle, my 2 aunts are fine and have been for 30+ years as am I. Thanks for sharing your story, God bless you❤
I am adopted so don’t know family history. I have dense breast tissue (level C) and never had children (which supposedly increases my risk for all female cancers including breast cancer because I never had a break from estrogen). No doctor (including doctors at Duke University Medical Hospital and John’s Hopkins) would prescribe me any form of HRT. They all said the risks outweigh the benefits. I’m only trying to be helpful by sharing this. I wanted HRT, but women and men doctors told me no. Even for bio identical. So far, I am cancer free ... though I am always called back for extra mammograms and have had to have a lumpectomy for what turned out to be benign. I eat vegetarian and just do the best I can. Again, I’m only adding this in case it helps anyone else. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
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Estrogen-only hormone replacement for people who've had a hysterectomy does not increase breast cancer risk. Per my breast cancer surgeon specialist.
Really only your mother and sister matter
@@KateWoodehouseI read that too. And a female Dr told me that.
This was so very moving...Melissa, you explained everything so well..your honesty and willingness to share your journey will save the lives of countless women. You are beautiful, wise and have been through hell...and you are making a difference! I pray for you everyday....much always, Susan & Desi
I’m a breast cancer survivor. No one on my mother’s side ever had it, but on my father’s side a couple of aunts did. I’ve always been scared of hormone replacement, both before and after having cancer.
Vitamin D3with K2. Best for your bones. 😊
It is very brave of you to share your story with everyone. Your honesty is truly appreciated. I am so happy to see you doing well. ❤️
That is so kind. Thank you!
So brave and strong - thank you for sharing your journey, beautiful Melissa! Prayers for years of good health and happiness!🙏⚘️
I also had a bilateral mastectomy with reconstruction for a very similar overall situation. I am about 9 months post surgery. Just FYI the most comfortable bra for me is actually a nursing bra if you can believe it. Less pressure on my nipples, poor things have been through a lot! Weird, but supportive and comfortable. I had numbness at the beginning but that got better for me, I hope for you too. I send you hugs and wishes for health and happiness.
That is good to know about the numbness. Thank you! What is the brand name if you don't mind my asking? I'm still wearing those from the breast center. Thank you!
I had a hysterectomy at 40 also. I took Premarin pills for 10 years. I would’ve stayed on them, but my doctor wouldn’t give them to me anymore because she said I was high risk for breast cancer as I never had kids. I’m gonna be 69 at the end of this month and fortunately I never did a breast cancer. I’ve had a biopsy that was benign. I had really wanted to stay on them. I hope you are feeling well as you look amazing. I’m traveling and in SC on my way to my new apt and life in NC. 💕🙏
Thank you for sharing your story so candidly. I was diagnosed with hormone positive breast cancer this year, too. Fortunately, it was caught early and after two lumpectomies (the second showing clear margins) and two sentinel nodes removed being clear, I only received radiation and no chemo. I’m also on anastrozole and side effects are mild and tolerable, mostly achy joints. I had a recent DEXA scan which showed minor osteopenia, so I’m doing what I can to improve my bone health, such as working with a PT on weight bearing exercises, eating calcium rich food and cutting down on coffee (caffeine) consumption. Cancer is a journey and can be all consuming at times. You have such a wonderful attitude, though I’m sure you’ve had some difficult moments. I work everyday at having gratitude and creating joy, even with cancer often in the background.
I admire your positive attitude! Believe me, it will go a long way as you tackle this journey. I had a stroke four years ago, and I was taking HRT also. The doctors said I could NOT go back on it. They didn't say the HRT was the culprit, but... I feel fantastic today, and I thank God every day that I'm going to be 71 in February!!! I pray for you often.
Thank you, Terry. Oh my gosh, what a scary time that was for you. I am so sorry. You look fantastic and I am so grateful for you. Take care. Love, Melissa
I’m a breast cancer survivor. I’m thankful for everything that you share and so happy to see you. You look beautiful Melissa. Prayers from Mississippi 🙏🏻💖🙏🏻
Thank you Debra! And I admire you! You are one of the strong ones that inspire me. 💚💚💚
Well done lovely lady. I love you so much. I am recovering from BII (breast implant illness ) and discovered a double rupture in both implants. Silicone leakage and feeling very unwell for a long time. I don’t want to discourage or distress anyone going through this. Bone pain due to inflammation being so so bad for me. Since explant many symptoms have cleared up. X x you are wonderful x ❤
Thank you for being so transparent and vulnerable. I pray our Lord Jesus will heal you and keep you and bless you with a long and satisfying life! You shine His light so beautifully! Glory be to God of the Most High!
Melissa: prayers up. It's so hard to have to find the right balance of treatment, to where you can protect your bones (important!), and, still try to avoid the chance of it metastasizing anywhere else, God forbid. A lot of serious choices to be made, with the added complication of the Crohn's disease. You still look incredibly beautiful, despite the ordeal. I hope the worst is behind you, and, I hope also that your bone density exam results are good. Life does not get easier, that's for certain. Take good care of yourself!
Rosemarie. 🙏🏻✝️❤️🌻
It's not the oestrogen that's associated with a slight increase of breast cancer, its the progesterone. Infact years ago estrogen was used as part of treatment for breast cancer. It's a very individual decision with Hrt , but hope your healing goes well and recovery
Synthetic progesterone is associated with an increased risk. Bio identical is associated with a decreased risk.
@@leslieh3785 I'm in the UK. We use Utrogestan usually .
Vitamin K 2 is suppose to help you absorb calcium. It helped me stabilize my bone loss. Best wishes for continued healing.
Melissa, thank you so much for your honesty and explaining everything. I am so happy they caught it early and your doing well. I am 51 and I have been getting mammograms and ultrasounds since I’m 37 because my mom passed away from breast cancer at 48. I haven’t received any HRT because of my mothers history. I’ve chosen to go through menopause without it. Thank you for being so candid and may God bless you! 💕
It's a hard decision about the HRT. I did make the wrong one, BUT I can't go back so I'm looking forward. I so appreciate this. Love Melissa.
TY for sharing your experiences, it has helped me as next year, I enter my 60's and I am on HRT. I am on top of my mammograms. Such great food for thought. I am following your journey and I think that you have made beautiful personal decisions and I pray for a healthy path forward for you. Thank God. Blessings, Nancy
I have a wonderful HRT doctor. She said that anyone on Estrogen (Estradiol in my case) needs to be on progesterone to balance estrogen levels out. The reason for this is unbalanced estrogen replacement can cause breast cancer. It is important to have hormone levels checked at least once a year. Hope this helps. Blessings to all.
REMARKABLE LADY ❤You are sooo wise.
I am so glad you made the choice you did 😊😘🫶
AGAIN my experience briefly, had hysterectomy at 40, found out Stage 1B in Uterus. Oncologist said 22 sessions of Radiation. BIG MISTAKE. My whole digestive changed. Given a 2nd chance, I will never put Radiation in my body. I would never put Chemo in my body, decided that long ago. My GP and my Oncologist told me I could not take HRT AFTER I had my Cancer. They said AFTER you have Cancer, HRT can cause issues. HRT DOES NOT CAUSE CANCER. After you have Cancer, HRT can cause issues. That is what I was told.
Melissa..you are wise not to take Radiation or Chemo..PLEASE AVOID THEM . JUST MY OWN OPINION 🥰😘🫶
Hello Melissa, I can’t thank you enough for explaining an sharing what you went thru an still going thru. Knowledge is power, on any cancer subjects I will always listen and take note, I’m in my early 50’s. An breast cancer does not run in my family but on my husband’s side most definitely our girls do get checked because it is so strong on his family side. I lost my Mom to colon cancer she was only 57 way to young, but in return my doctors keep a watch on me because I do have to get checked quite often. So thank you so very much. I hope you have a wonderful blessed week an then some 💖🌷
Thank you! It just pays to be vigilant and do what we can to keep an eye on things. I worry a lot, which I'm trying to get past. I sure appreciate it.
✨♥️COURAGEOUS!♥️✨
🙏🏻Praying for Full Recovery n Restoration😇
I was under the impression that the nipples and ducts are susceptible to cancer and should also be removed, esp. if you are going through the trouble of opting for the bilateral. Yt Menopause Taylor has tons of info on hrt and is currently doing a series on breast cancer.
Thank you for having this important discussion, Melissa. Your willingness to share your story helps all women who may be going through the same health challenge. Prayers to you for a continued strong recovery! 🙏
That is so kind of you to say, Julie. Thank you!
Hello,Melissa
I was diagnosed with Premature Ovarian Failure at 39
Put on HRT immediately,no problem
I’m now 56 and still on it
No regrets
Thanks for sharing
Hugs 🤗
I don't regret being one it. I sort of have mixed feelings. Did the estrogen feed it? I just don't know. But I'm going to do my best to overcome any side effects from taking the new medication. I sure appreciate it!
Hi Melissa, I had ductal carcinoma also. Stage 0..was caught very quickly. Not invasive. Had a lumpectomy and 21 days radiation. This was during pandemic. Immediately after I had covid vaccine. It was recommended that I take HRT also, but onocologist said I had negative receptors and it would not help. I have been clear for two years. I have been doing the eliptical several times a week. That helps with lymph system. Eat alot of yogurt, kale and blueberries. Thank you for sharing what you have gone through. This is very helpful to all women no matter what their age.
Thank you for sharing.
As a breast cancer survivor in 1999 I feel you explained everything so well. I too had ductal carcinoma in situ on the chest wall. It was tough because I have dense breast tissue and am fairly large busted.
It is so important to take notes, research and ask 10 questions at each visit. My first surgeon was a horror story but I will not go into it here. My good surgeon was fabulous and healing was a breeze under his skill and care.
Continue to heal dear Melissa and please keep us posted on future procedures. This video was so informative for many women.
❤Kathy
Just got really good bone density report, no problems, I am 70 but do weight training twice a week and its obviously paying off. Good luck Melissa get those weights out.
So glad to see you and to know the procedure you have gone through. Modern breast surgery sure has come a long way. I remember my Mother’s friends having their breasts removed with no hope of saving skin, nipples or anything. One thing to also include for bone health. Taking calcium and Vitamin D supplements as cleared by your doctor of course. Funny story, but I have loved cheeses all my life and am always snacking on them. One doctor told me years ago after an x-ray that I have the bone density of someone 20 years younger than me. So if you can tolerate a cheese or yogurt into your diet it really helps.
Thanks for being honest about this. You have remained so beautiful for so long, and I'm sure a lot of that has to do with the HRT, but there are downsides. Those of us who are online a lot and who are getting older wonder about what choices we should make when the time comes.
lots great supplements for bones I'm sure you know.. magnesium glucinate is very important to take for women with digestive issues..🎉
Thank you for being so open and candid about your experience. Regarding HRT, it is always so hard to know what is best. I have heard HRT protects the brain (memory) and the heart (as long as people don’t drink alcohol when on it). My mother had horrible menopause symptoms and chose NOT to go on HRT, ended up with breast cancer in her 70’s and developed dementia. Who knows whether being on HRT would have saved her brain? She may have still gotten breast cancer in either scenario. Our bodies are so individualized. We have to do what is best for ourselves based on our personal experiences and medical advice.
Thank you for sharing your experience, I'm in awe of you. I have a close friend who just went through breast cancer treatment. Had a lumpectomy and chemo/radiation and is all done now. She is also someone I am in awe of. It's amazing how many women get this so I am hopeful someday there will be a cure. You are beautiful inside and out as well, a beauty guru. Thank you again for sharing everything. It's important for all of us to know.
Thank you so much. I so hope there is a cure very soon. Of all kinds of cancer. Too many people have paid the ultimate price with this disease. Thank you and much love, Melissa
Thank you for sharing your journey with us. I have been a mammography technologist for 37 years, but I became a breast cancer survivor in 2014. I was 49 at the time of diagnosis and was not on HRT, but my cancer was hormone positive. I had 5 months of chemo, followed by a double mastectomy (nipple sparing), radiation therapy, and breast reconstruction surgery. I also took Tamoxifen for 7 1/2 years. I can honestly say I have no regrets with the choices I made, and I would do it all the same way if I had it to do over. I have used my story to educate and inspire other ladies who are dealing with a breast cancer diagnosis, especially my sweet patients. God bless you as you share your story and use this experience to touch other lives.
GOD bless you Melissa, for sharing. May GOD strengthen n continue to watch over you n Doug 💕💕🙏🙏
Thank you for sharing your experiences so frankly. I had a hip surgery many years ago and I had the numbness in my hip skin just like you are having. The feeling did come back very slowly. I believe it is as a result of nerve damage. I appreciate your openness and bravery in sharing your journey. Hindsight is often 20/20 and you did what you thought was best at the time. Make peace with it ❤
I would take the anastrozole too having discovered what type of tumour you had. I think your doctors have done very well by you indeed. Thanks for all that sharing; as an RN I am interested medically in your travels through the cancer maze. I shudder when I think you were so close to cancelling that appointment!! Love you heaps. Gai. X❤
Thank you so much! Yes, to double my chances of success and with all these grandkids I'm wanting to see grow, it was a no brainer. Oh my goodness thinking of cancelling that appointment gives me nightmares! Many thanks!
Thank you so much for talking about your journey. No doubt you have saved lives by talking about the I, pittance of early detection. And to let others know that they are not alone. You are the best! xo. Patyi🌹
Thanks for being honest. In my opinion, females with strong family hx of breast cancer should never be placed on HRT. The risk outweighs the benefit significantly.
Thank you so much for such an honest description of your mastectomy and HRT. I have a dear friend who has just been diagnosed. I can't imagine a greater gift to give her than this wonderful video. I'm on the lowest dose estrogen patch but there is no breast cancer in my family. With that said, sharing your story has given me some important things to consider. And, as usual :) you look beautiful doing it. Thanks ever so much Melissa, Allison
Melissa, you are an amazing warrior and so generous to share quite frankly the details of your journey to healing. Wishing you a complete recovery, health, and vitality for many decades to come. So beautiful on the outside and inside, too, you are! Hugs ~Janis
You have been through SO much in one lifetime!....thank you for sharing...you may save a life, my dear. Many prayers continuing for your recovery. Love you much!♥❣❣
Thank you so much for your explanation Melissa. Didn’t even know it was possible to save the skin that covers the breast. I’m thinking that if the breasts still look normal apart from the surgery scars it must be easier to come to terms with psychologically.
Can’t believe how well you are healing. Your positive attitude before and after the surgery has been a credit to you. Wishing you a future of good health. Xx
That's why I wanted to mention it, so people could be sure to consider it if they are so inclined. I sure do thank you!
I recently quit hrt because of estrogen buildup . Its been maybe two months an my skin is looking very dry. I am told i had beginning of osteoporosis...... So i want to help my bones an heart. Ive ordered some progesterone only. Later i will take a plant based estrogen. My sister in law had masectomy but they did a fat transfer. I hope it works out well an you stay healthy.
Thank you for your frank discussion - I had ovarian c when I was 32 - and immediately went on HRT - and was on until I was 58 (when I got a blood clot - ugh...). all is well now - there was always a worry in the back of my mind about the HRT - and I am glad to hear that it does not cause breast cancer.....
Thank you for sharing your story. I am also a breast cancer survivor who took HRT for many years. I realize now I had taken it for too long. I have osteopenia, but do weight bearing exercises to help keep it from getting worse.
So sorry you had to go through this but you look great and sound very positive about the whole ordeal. I took HRT many, many years ago for maybe 2 years when the issue of breast cancer was talked about and my doctor told me to get off of it. I then went through all the menopause symptoms but don't regret that at all. I rather have that than breast cancer. I know you will do what is best for your bones since you already are doing that and will do more. May God bless you and keep you healthy as you go through this journey. You are very courageous in sharing this with us.
Thank you, Kathy. It is a tough decision to make for sure. I do think the key for my bones will be weight lifting exercises. I sure appreciate you. Much love, Melissa
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You have always been a beautiful soul, so kind-hearted
and giving of your self to all of us who follow you, you are sn optimistic warrior and you will be fine. When cancer knocked at my door i did not receive well its company. Its was living another dimension not familiar to me, but God gave me the strength to endure my process snd has changed me for the better. I also took the five year pill and till this dsy have that numbness with my lymph node removal. Went through chemo radiation snd partial mysectomy. Since 2011 I've am cancer free and in good health. I wish upon you all the good that awaits you ahead, and God's blessing upon you.❤❤❤
I really appreciate your story and your frankness. I wish you continued improvement and good health. Thanks for sharing your experience.
I'm so glad most of this is behind you now. Thanks for your honesty and kindness.❤
Thanks, Deb! I am glad too!
Thank you so much for sharing this, it was very informative. Breast cancer does run on my mother's side of the family although my mother did not have it. I have had 2 aunts and 3 cousins that have had it. I had a lump taken out of my left breast about 20 years ago but thank the Lord it was not cancerous! I was on the HRT patches about 5 or 6 years but my doctor took me off of them after the lump showed up. I have a mammogram and just this year he wants a sonogram as well. Have a great week! Much love!!
I'm so sorry you had to go through all of that but I am so grateful you are doing well now.
Thank you for sharing your very private story. So glad you’re healing.
I have eczema and I chose not to take the injectable they recommended because it had a warning of increasing cancer in general due to it lowering the immune system. I will just deal with the eczema.
Thank you for your honest update…..it saddens me so much you had to go through this. I m 64 and would like to think I am pretty healthy, but one never know. Hearing you speaking about all this inspires me so much to take better care of myself. I feel I went through hell with my menopause….25 plus hot flushes a day, night sweats, mood swings.
One time I was sitting and talking to a vendor and one of my flushes came on. My face beet red and sweat flowing down my face…. He said …..are you ok, what’s wrong, can I help, are you passing out? I’ve never been more embarrassed. I didn’t say anything and carried on, this was my day for about 10 years. None of my dr mentioned HRT I had a partial hysterectomy…..that was it about 14 years ago. Now 15 years later I am DONE I have night sweats…..but oh well no big deal. I am actually grateful that the dr here in Southern California never brought up HRT. With that said……..thank you and I wish you the best always, you are such a “doll”, true inspiration….much love ❤️
Oh Melissa, I have DCIS and am having a lumpectomy with a lift and reduction this coming Wednesday. Scary because Ive never had surgery, even though Im 72. Stitches only.. It's so good for me to see you back and with full range of motion. It shows me what is possible. I face radiation, no chemo. Best of luck, I will say a prayer for you. Thank you for sharing. You may want to consider Egoscue. I have 2 herniated discs and no pain!
You are a born sharer and a gift to us! We appreciate and treasure you, gf. You did everything the way I would. ❤❤
God bless you Melissa and thank you for sharing your journey. I lost my own mother to breast cancer, plus my daughter in law had a double mastectomy at the age of 28. I understand your journey. I am on BHRT myself and I am 67, for my bones etc, I just ensure I always balance the estrogen with progesterone. Just me. I wish you and your family all the best Melissa, if I can be of any assistance please let me know.
I really appreciate this video and the way you speak from the heart. You are in my prayers and I hope you make a full recovery and you have a very long and happy life.
You are such an amazing woman! I know there have to be many women who have been encouraged and inspired by your sharing this so personal journey.
Oh Melissa! I am so sorry that you had to go through all of this! Your story is candid and well articulated for all of us that could potentially face this. You are the epitomy of strength, determination and beauty from the inside out! I honesty can't believe how great you look after going through all of this and serve as an inspiration to women everywhere! I think a positive outlook is mandatory and your positivity always shines right through!! I carefully listened to everything you said and really appreciate you sharing your experience. Thank you and wishes for continued good healing moving forward! Wishing you and your family much peace and love, ~Jackie
Thank you for being so frank-knowledge is power. I to have a strong family history of breast cancer and just was told by my Mothera dr about a link between some breast cancers, ovarian, colon and Pancreatic cancer which my mother has. We have to be vigilant and make the best, most informed decisions we can for our own bodies. You are a brave soul for sharing-as a cancer survivor myself it's not always easy. You are giving strength to other women with your telling. Thank you and you continue to be in my prayers🩷🙏🩷
Melissa melatonin (Terry Naturally is the most scientifically studied) is very useful in keeping breast cancers from returning. I love how you are paying attention.
Thank you for sharing your story. I think your honest and frank discussion will really help someone out there. You are very brave to share.
Thank you for sharing your experience with us. It will certainly help others. Your positive outlook on life is beautiful. I was on ERT for 11 years due to a hysterectomy at age 36. I went off it at age 47, but I wish I'd stayed on it a little longer because I now have osteoporosis (I'm 62) and I am terribly afraid to take the bisphosphonate medication. I wanted to mention this because there are life-style choices you can make now to help your bone health, such a reducing caffeine intake to no more than 2 cups of coffee per day, lowering sugar, salt and alcohol consumption, eliminating carbonated cola soda, and getting 1,200 mg of calcium per day as well as vitamin D (this varies by person so your doctor would have to check your levels). Also, your doctor can write a prescription for physical therapy so you can learn the proper weight-baring exercises to do for your body. I wish I'd paid more attention to this advice when I was younger before I got osteoporosis because I have a strong family history of it but I was foolish and didn't even worry about it then. I wish you all the best as you heal and focus on a healthy future. ❤
Please if you have a dentist talk to him about bisphosphonates and what can happen if you have to have a tooth extracted and you have taken these I have a patient that we had this situation with. Please look into this the oral surgeon I used to work for has a pamphlet about this information look into it before you make this decision.❤️
@@southernsass7624 Yes, I have been reading about what you are saying!!! Thank you for mentioning it.!
I'm reluctant to take it too. The problem with me is I have tried to take calcium before and it messed up my Crohn's disease. I might try again but I'm worried about triggering that. I swear sometimes I think I'm going mad. I will stay awake at night just worried about my body to be honest. Anyway, I'm going to do the best I can and I guess that's all I can do. Much love and thanks, Melissa
@@Melissa55It would be a good idea to get a thorough check up with your dentist before starting your treatment so they are aware and can assess any issues you have before you start😊❤️So thankful you shared in depth your experience so others can use this information ❤
You’re doing great Melissa! That numbness will start to go away. I had my lumpectomy on March 13, finished radiation in the middle of June. I still have some numbness under my arm from the lymph node removal, much better than before. I had the same kind of cancer. I’m on letrozole/femara. It’s giving me hot flashes, so I have to take clonidine for that. Not fun, but I feel thankful like you. I know mine could have been so much worse. God bless you. ❤
Great job! Women helping women. We need to have frank discussions and you did it. You have a lot of women who you have touched. Thanks you for your openness.
💖🌸 Good morning sweet Melissa. I'm so happy to see how wonderful you're doing. This video was so important. I'm glad that you've decided to tell us your story. Since my lumpectomy in 2011 🎀 I've been going for exams a few times a year. Thank you for sharing your experience that will no doubt bring comfort to so many. God Bless 🙌 💞
Your a brave woman and doing wonderful you look fantastic much love xxxxx hugs
Oh Melissa - I didn't know this! Prayers for you and you're not alone... many of us have been through similar.
Thank you for your frankness and sharing your journey. Women have many health issues that are complicated and you really have to be your own advocate and stay up on all the information available to you.
Melissa, I am a breast cancer survivor of three years. Thank you God. It has been a very hard and scary experience to deal with. I had surgery, radiation and am on anastrozole for five years. So grateful for the anastrozole. So thankful for treatment. It is such a hard place knowing what to do or not to do. What to eat and what makeup and products you can not use. What does not have parabens. Chemicals in cleaning products just everyday living. Should you eat diary? Your life choices are harder. God bless you.
I was taken off Estrace after 8 years because my gynecologist said it was a higher risk of stroke. I had complete hysterectomy at 46 and off HRT at 54. Talk to your doctor. No cancer for me just take HRT cautiously. There are risks.
I have been thinking about you and been praying for you. I am so glad you are doing much better. Please keep us in your journey. God bless
You’re right Melissa when you say everyone’s journey is different. I can share that the nerves never regenerated where the lymph nodes were removed on me. I have had no feeling for 30 years….lol…..you get used to it! The worst is getting an itch in my armpit…..there’s no relief because you can’t feel the scratching. You just feel pressure. Hopefully you’ll get some feeling back!
Thank you for talking so honestly. It is so helpful to hear your story and that you are coming through still beautiful still smiling. Well I think you are a beautiful angel 👼🌸🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
You are amazing. Thank you for the frank information, I am so happy that you are doing so well I think it’s because of your attitude that you are doing so well. Take care dear lady thank you for your honesty. Linda, PA.
You are a beautiful soul and deserve the very best in life. Hopefully the worst is behind you and there are plenty of wonderful things ahead🌷
Thank you Melissa for sharing your story. I admire you for this. You speak so eloquently and are quite the class act. As a nurse in the same age bracket and dealing with some age related health issues, I can say that no one fully prepares you for this period in life. It’s a real eye opener and not for the faint hearted! That’s why sharing as you did of your recent breast cancer surgery will be so helpful to other women. We cannot avoid how life changes, nor like the experiences change brings, but we can support each other through our experiences. You generously did just that.
You are very kind to say such nice things, and I thank you. No, we don't have much preparation do we? It can be jarring and make us fearful. I have had my moments of being afraid, but I think I'm stubborn enough not to let this thing break me. I sure appreciate you so much.
I honor that stubborn nature Melissa and can relate! Life can throw things at us unexpectedly and sometimes it feels like too much. Yet I do believe we are bigger than any circumstance we might find our self in. Gratitude is a big grounding force for me. I remind myself of my family or whatever else is going well. @@Melissa55
You look fabulous, Melissa! You're doing everthing right! Hugs ❤
Thanks, Sandra! I sure am trying!
I do hope you heal and I’m sorry this happened to you. Stay close to God he is the one who heals.
I had total hysterectomy at the age of 26 due to heavy endometriosis. I was under HRT which I stopped at around 35 years old after my mom has been diagnosed with breast cancer. It was hormonal caused since she was under HRT for several years after cervical cancer. I had no problems with bone loss over all those years - don’t be afraid of that too much! The menopause symptoms were quite hard, but now in my 50‘s it’s okay.
Wonderful video. Knowledge is power & we women need it. I had a complete hysterectomy at 40 & was put on estrogen. The doctor said I was young & needed to protect my bones. I stayed on it about a year. I took myself off it. I was so scared of cancer. My mom had it & hers was hormone fed. She went through quite a bit. Her oncologist told her I’d probably have cancer in my 30’s. Thank God that didn’t happen. She was hysterical when she got home. She was so scared for me. I told her the doctor isn’t God so don’t worry about it. I thank God for every year of my life. I don’t know if I should’ve stayed on estrogen. Maybe I wouldn’t be in such bad shape. I’m so happy you did all the right things. I’m especially glad your lymph nodes were clear. Bless you for being so open. Love you, Lucy
You are so sweet and pretty and thank you for explaining your procedure for us. This is good to know. I never knew they could pull the skin of your breast up and you could keep your natural breast and nipples. Sending healing and love Melissa!
You are an inspiration! Thank you so much for sharing your story. I suspect you’ll never know how many women this video reaches and helps. I wish you the very best in your recovery. Your plan for the weight bearing and flexibility exercises sounds exactly right. Much love to you.
Beth, thank you so very much for this. I am grateful to you and all the women I have met here. Many thanks.
I'm on Prolea once every 6 months for my bones. I'm on Exemestane and a monthly Zolodex injection. It isn't pleasant, but I'm still here. Maybe ask your doctor about Prolea for your bones. I do wish you the very best. I'm thankful yours was caught early.
Thank you so much for having the courage to share your journey Melissa. Very much appreciated 💖
You are so brave for putting this out there like this. I appreciate you.
Hi Melissa! ❤You are an incredible woman. Brave, strong, determined, loving and beautiful. 😊
Oh Melissa. Thank you for sharing your story. You are such an amazing woman and an inspiration. I have enjoyed your channel for a long time. Wishing you the best. Peace and love.
Thank you for sharing your experience with us. God bless you on your journey as you continue to heal and stay healthy. 😊
Hi Melissa, I’ve been in the medical field for 35 years. I think your explanations were perfect. It will help a lot of people. You are a good person. Thank you ❤ I pray that you will continue to heal.
Thank you for generously sharing first-hand experience and being so knowledgeable. You look so lovely Melissa. Very very best wishes and luck as you continue to heal! 💕
I agree with the others. You have done others a great service by sharing your story. Being a BC survivor myself, I know we need to listen to our doctors, but we get a lot of different and valuable knowledge from others who have been through it. And listening to others makes us feel less alone. So thank you.
Hi Melissa! Thank you for sharing. I'm an oncology nurse & love when people speak about their journey. It can really help others not feel alone. Do you mind sharing what your hormone receptors were? These are the ER (estrogen receptor), PR (progesteron receptor) and HER-2 neu? Did you get genetic testing?
You are so brave and strong, amazing! I have so much respect and admiration for you ❤ love you and wish you all the best! You are the light ☀️
Thank you for being so honest and frank about your journey. I think that is helpful to women going through a similar diagnosis. You look beautiful and healthy. I was diagnosed with BC this summer and had lumpectomy/lymphectomy . I keep saying and believing that the cancer is gone!! In regards to the osteoporosis I walk, lift weights and practice yoga. Dr. Fishman from Columbia University did a study on how yoga is really helpful for that; he even has a series of poses that specifically help (you can find that on YT. God bless and heal you and all of us.