Is kissing before marriage a sin? - Funke Felix Adejumo

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  • Опубликовано: 14 янв 2025

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  • @SkkyyC
    @SkkyyC Год назад +195

    Kissing before marriage is lustful and of course we all know lust is a sin. Who kisses someone they’re attracted to without feeling anything?- Nobody!!! If anyone says they don’t, it is a massive lie. That “something” you feel is lust and a sin. Period!

    • @salomebulus
      @salomebulus 11 месяцев назад +9

      Factssssss!!!!!!!!!

  • @queenbaker3431
    @queenbaker3431 Год назад +1003

    The lips have nerves, and kissing can become smooching. The bible says: put no confidence in the flesh. You might not be able to control yourself so keep it off

  • @jonathansinkala3623
    @jonathansinkala3623 Год назад +336

    2Tim.2.22
    - Run from anything that stimulates youthful lust. Follow anything that makes you want to do right. Pursue faith and love and peace, and enjoy the companionship of those who call on the Lord with pure hearts.[NLT]
    My answer inform of a question says
    If kiss can stimulate lust in you then it is bad.

  • @twikirizepeninah1769
    @twikirizepeninah1769 2 дня назад

    I really appreciate your teaching may God almighty continue to protect and bless you and your family always.amen

  • @tahjashepherd5112
    @tahjashepherd5112 Год назад +199

    Yes Mama! There is a reason the minister says “You may kiss THE BRIDE.” If she ain’t your bride yet don’t KISS HER!

  • @Meloooody1357
    @Meloooody1357 Год назад +143

    As YOUNG PEOPLE we need to hear this 📌🔥👏✍🏽

  • @komuhangikate7468
    @komuhangikate7468 Год назад +132

    True love waits....thanks mama....this is so powerful ❤

    • @Kaydee-p7x
      @Kaydee-p7x Год назад +3

      be careful another partner is not satisfying him or herself somewhere else while waiting for the D-day. This world we live in these days is messed up

    • @philemonebiesuwa7588
      @philemonebiesuwa7588 Год назад +6

      ​@@Kaydee-p7xthe world has been messed up thousands upon thousands of years before our era; even during the time of the great flood, Sodom and Gomorrah, great martyrdom of christ-believers and other eras after. It's not excuse for us to defend sin. What was sin thousands of generations is still the same sin as this generation, no matter how we water it down. We should not pet sin and wrongdoings for these offended generation

    • @lstvchannel25
      @lstvchannel25 Год назад +4

      ​@@philemonebiesuwa7588The statement says 'be careful' not otherwise. Meaning, watch while you pray, so you do not become a victim of pretenders in this sinful world

    • @lstvchannel25
      @lstvchannel25 Год назад +3

      ​@@Kaydee-p7xThe world has been messed up right from ages till date. So we all need to be careful. The Bible says WATCH & PRAY😊

    • @PritywaKinitha
      @PritywaKinitha Год назад

      Wow I wish he understands😢😢

  • @NalediGoldinah
    @NalediGoldinah 11 месяцев назад +27

    Thank you Ma🙏I a single 38 years old woman and a born again Christian, you have just taught me how I have compromised myself just by taking a kiss fogranted.

  • @tindimwebwaGerald
    @tindimwebwaGerald 10 месяцев назад +4

    i agree with you ,considering what runs in both of their minds .

  • @oghenekevweorovwigho9928
    @oghenekevweorovwigho9928 Год назад +86

    The partner that's telling her there's nothing to it, is the same person that will proceed to sexual intercourse....I had to let go my relationship for too much pressure...I'm free in my soul...

    • @ziyandakebeni6739
      @ziyandakebeni6739 5 месяцев назад

      @@oghenekevweorovwigho9928 You are wise. Stay blessed

  • @gezelscott4480
    @gezelscott4480 Год назад +173

    GOOD MORNING FROM NEW YORK CITY , MY HUSBAND AND I DID'T KISS MOUTH TO MOUTH UNTILL WE WERE STANDING AT THE ALTAR ON OUR WEDDING DAY, WE DID KISS EACH OTHER ON CHEEK ONLY. I AGREE WITH YOU 110% PASTOR ,YOU WILL ONLY BE SETTING YOURSELVES UP FOR TROUBLE .

    • @Femi_Adigun
      @Femi_Adigun  Год назад +2

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    • @goloobagordon2848
      @goloobagordon2848 11 месяцев назад

      That's good

    • @rosemaryMussa-jt5yy
      @rosemaryMussa-jt5yy Месяц назад

      Be blessed madam

  • @diobeebongdivine
    @diobeebongdivine Месяц назад +5

    Self control or temperance is the watch word. Why rush over what's yours. Just control yourself and it will help from the devastating consequences

  • @tossyntemi7957
    @tossyntemi7957 3 месяца назад +3

    Thanks ma’am . You answered a question must of the church youth never dared to ask their leader.

  • @SylviaMsukuma
    @SylviaMsukuma 16 дней назад +1

    Thanks... really powerful message..
    True lovers must wait 🤝🙏🏿.

  • @chinazaohagi1547
    @chinazaohagi1547 Год назад +42

    Anything that propels a sin is a sin, When Jesus said, if you hand will lead you to sin cut it off, it didn't mean that having a hand is sinful 📌 in that note if kissing will lead you into sin avoid it 👌

    • @remonambongwe1876
      @remonambongwe1876 2 месяца назад

      @@chinazaohagi1547 so if your lips lead you to sin you must cut them off...?I don't think Jesus meant it like that cos he spoke in parables and now you wicked (Christians) take it figuretively.

    • @rikim1693
      @rikim1693 27 дней назад

      @@chinazaohagi1547 True

  • @benjaminolukayode3007
    @benjaminolukayode3007 Год назад +218

    4 years in a relationship.
    Please, Marry the lady and stop disturbing her life with unfulfilled emotions.

    • @gracenwawo3780
      @gracenwawo3780 5 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@benjaminolukayode3007 what if they're both students or they don't have jobs?

    • @gracenwawo3780
      @gracenwawo3780 5 месяцев назад +1

      What if they are both students or they don't have jobs?

    • @isicheiprince3966
      @isicheiprince3966 4 месяца назад +1

      Thank you sir 😂

    • @nalugocaroline7933
      @nalugocaroline7933 4 месяца назад

      @@benjaminolukayode3007 thank you

    • @ogwuchemercy6761
      @ogwuchemercy6761 3 месяца назад

      @@gracenwawo3780 then they should breakup and focus on getting Job and being better instead of been in a relationship as jobless people. When you become more focus, more valuable people begins to chase you around

  • @EllisRealty55
    @EllisRealty55 Год назад +25

    True love waits! Thank you ma

  • @tossyntemi7957
    @tossyntemi7957 3 месяца назад +7

    And the truth is, if there is a need to ask if it is a sin or not, It actually means your spirit man is against it. So sometimes this are questions we already know the answers but then we still ask in other to justify our actions.

  • @Niilantey_
    @Niilantey_ Год назад +17

    i like, how she elaborated it, very simple to the point

  • @HeavenlyHeavenllie-tr3ey
    @HeavenlyHeavenllie-tr3ey Год назад +192

    The problem is not the kissing, the issue is what happens after, the possible sin it will lead to which you may not have control of

    • @afuaampoma4661
      @afuaampoma4661 Год назад +8

      That's what I wanted to say... Where the kissing will lead to is the sin

    • @aniekponekpott9545
      @aniekponekpott9545 11 месяцев назад +14

      @@afuaampoma4661 Why kiss in the first place when you know it can lead to sin? The sin starts from the point of kissing. Anything not done in faith is a sin.

    • @chisommuoma39
      @chisommuoma39 2 месяца назад

      The problem is the kissing please.

  • @debbiequeen4785
    @debbiequeen4785 Год назад +6

    Simple truth ma
    More grace 🙏

  • @amarebeebenezerculturaltro6149
    @amarebeebenezerculturaltro6149 Год назад +11

    I Love You Mama ❤❤ Watching from Uganda

  • @hitoch_26
    @hitoch_26 Год назад +9

    I love ur messages. u look real alot.u r a mumy. let them be decieving themselves.we all know the truth.i pray for God to help me remain faithful.

  • @elvisdaniel2349
    @elvisdaniel2349 Год назад +23

    I love the answers you are giving madam, may God grant you more wisdom, knowledge and grace to continue with what you are doing IJMN

  • @IsaacDafom-ch6yn
    @IsaacDafom-ch6yn Год назад +38

    She spoke the truth and nothing but the truth .

  • @teyeabigail903
    @teyeabigail903 Год назад +7

    I love you mummy Funke...God bless you

  • @ReginaWealth
    @ReginaWealth Год назад +18

    Wisdom has spoken
    Thank you ma

  • @owolabifiyinfoluwa4550
    @owolabifiyinfoluwa4550 4 месяца назад +2

    Thanks for this message ma.

  • @jermybexs
    @jermybexs Год назад +23

    😂😂heart of man not heart of woman is desperately wicked. Thank you for this timely message

    • @joykenn9772
      @joykenn9772 Год назад +5

      L TAKE. The Bible uses 'Man' as a general term for both men and women.

    • @shaveonne26
      @shaveonne26 11 месяцев назад

      Though I know that scripture is speaking of both the man and woman being currupt... you can't deny that a man is more likely to change his mind/heart towards love long before a woman does.

  • @jennifernyarko6779
    @jennifernyarko6779 Год назад +30

    All I heard was THE BIBL IS COMPLETE. Thank you Ma

  • @journeywithjesus
    @journeywithjesus Год назад +55

    Thanks so much for this video. True love waits even for the kiss.

  • @TrueGospellight
    @TrueGospellight Месяц назад

    You are very correct ma, you answered correctly

  • @hadassaheatali
    @hadassaheatali Год назад +50

    😂 Truth spilt out gently
    I love this woman of God

  • @strawberrycupcake2783
    @strawberrycupcake2783 11 месяцев назад +4

    I needed this

  • @Nedah-nq9nl
    @Nedah-nq9nl Год назад +10

    Few weeks ago I had a dream were I made love with a guy and when I was asked I said there was nothing wrong but I was told by someone in my dream that as a child of God even kissing before marriage is a sin

  • @JessicaMaraibe
    @JessicaMaraibe Год назад +1

    Thank you ma for the advice

  • @doreennti9013
    @doreennti9013 5 месяцев назад +20

    After the kissing, what happens next? That should be the question that you should ask yourself. Is it worth it? Don’t let any man or woman deceive you that is not a sin because it is. Run from lustful desires 🙏🏾

  • @faith6367
    @faith6367 11 месяцев назад +1

    Very true 🙏🇺🇬

  • @rogermorejoe5827
    @rogermorejoe5827 Год назад +115

    Marriage is not the escape way out sexually immorality. Christians who are not married should be taught the importance of sexually sanctity and how to discipline themselves as far as sex intercourse. It's not in written in the bible that kissing is a sin but our living saviour and Lord Jesus Christ taught us that thoughts that come from kissing is sin. No kiss leaves the parties involved the same. Therefore kissing provokes sinful thoughts.

    • @blessing_Adejumo
      @blessing_Adejumo Год назад +1

      Very true

    • @Femi_Adigun
      @Femi_Adigun  Год назад

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  • @apostlewexsir
    @apostlewexsir 6 месяцев назад +4

    Emotions in the soul get ingnited and trigger touching beyond kissing when you launch into it

  • @ifedayobright3358
    @ifedayobright3358 Год назад +3

    Thank you mama

  • @SalomeAnotidaishe
    @SalomeAnotidaishe Год назад +7

    You're a role model

  • @danielfaleti7084
    @danielfaleti7084 5 месяцев назад +3

    Kissing can lead you on to other things so yes it is

  • @NaigagaTina-jz3wv
    @NaigagaTina-jz3wv Год назад +2

    🙏 thanks mama indeed true love waits

  • @reychellbrooks6276
    @reychellbrooks6276 Год назад +32

    Okay, I’ll admit that when I watched this a few months ago, I didn’t really agree with Mama’s take on this subject. However, I have even grown deeper in my faith and I am now convicted. I won’t be kissing during courtship by the guiding of the Spirit, Amen!

    • @Femi_Adigun
      @Femi_Adigun  Год назад +6

      Thank God for making you see the brighter side to this. He will help and sustain you through this stage of your relationship. Kindly, share with your loved ones, hopefully they will also be blessed.

  • @AdejoFaith-ek9rz
    @AdejoFaith-ek9rz Месяц назад +1

    Awesome

  • @ifeomambah7304
    @ifeomambah7304 Месяц назад +1

    I found this page cos I wanted to know if it is wrong to kiss before marriage.I have gotten my answer and I am so happy I did the right thing.

  • @gladysphiri5607
    @gladysphiri5607 11 месяцев назад

    True love waits🙏🙏🙏

  • @olufemiidowu7840
    @olufemiidowu7840 9 месяцев назад

    Thank you ma

  • @thelegaldoyen
    @thelegaldoyen Год назад +1

    Very true. Thank you Mummy.

  • @oghenetegacooper6255
    @oghenetegacooper6255 Месяц назад

    I love this woman 🥺

  • @AkinkunmiBoluwatife-v4l
    @AkinkunmiBoluwatife-v4l Год назад

    Thank You very much ma🙏🙏

  • @naaadjeley9818
    @naaadjeley9818 Год назад +38

    Hypocrisy is too much in the body. In the sight of God, who can boast? Kissing is sin by the letter, period! Because it generates bonding emotions n thoughts. Love is pure in all things! Walk in the spirit to have holistic knowledge.

    • @derrick7were
      @derrick7were 11 месяцев назад

      The way people kiss during their wedding day, people better Repent.

    • @thefacelessquestion3333
      @thefacelessquestion3333 9 месяцев назад +1

      Sooo "bonding emotions" is a sin?

  • @BLESSINGOTSE
    @BLESSINGOTSE Год назад

    Thank you so much ma'am,l have learned something today

  • @adetoyeayomikun6368
    @adetoyeayomikun6368 Год назад +4

    This woman ehnn🔥🔥

  • @GoodnessAnaele-hk3qd
    @GoodnessAnaele-hk3qd 5 месяцев назад

    God bless you maama

  • @toyinayinla_dorcas
    @toyinayinla_dorcas Год назад +2

    True love waits

  • @apstab6235
    @apstab6235 Год назад +12

    You are a blessing mama 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @welerolfallahare9703
    @welerolfallahare9703 Месяц назад

    True love pushes you to wait.

  • @josephintegrity4800
    @josephintegrity4800 Год назад +6

    Kissing is not ordinary, the lips have nerves that transmit impulse to the brain making where it will be interpreted

  • @GlorytomniyMoses
    @GlorytomniyMoses Год назад

    Mama God bless you

    • @Femi_Adigun
      @Femi_Adigun  Год назад

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  • @golderlynne
    @golderlynne 11 месяцев назад +4

    When is marriage said to have taken place,if at all you too don't want to have a wedding.Because I think wedding is not a necessity.

    • @beatricebenibo9807
      @beatricebenibo9807 9 месяцев назад +1

      Well, you may not have something flamboyant. At least, invite your pastor, family and friends. This is so that God can bless the union and people around are aware of the union. That way, you don't have to spend too much money, especially if you don't have much. Just remember that marriage is honourable to all, with the bed undefiled.

  • @Biimessaround88
    @Biimessaround88 Год назад +72

    It is a sin because kissing can lead to sex or lustful desires with the partner your not married to yet

    • @lstvchannel25
      @lstvchannel25 Год назад +6

      This is why abstinence is key

    • @nelsongondwe2772
      @nelsongondwe2772 Год назад +1

      What if it does not lead you to sin, is it right?

    • @emmanueladeniji9096
      @emmanueladeniji9096 Год назад +5

      It is not a sin, yet, it is advisable to abstain to be on a safer side.

    • @kaalssportfilla2378
      @kaalssportfilla2378 Год назад

      ​@@nelsongondwe2772so as far as the person is not ur wife, it becomes a sin because sexual feeling will generate in your body during the kiss

    • @BienfaitMfaume
      @BienfaitMfaume Год назад

      @@nelsongondwe2772if it’s a habit, it’ll definitely lead, if it’s not with the two of you, one can find their own way without the other.

  • @besalehntumsi
    @besalehntumsi Год назад +2

    This is great momma God bless you

  • @stanleynjau902
    @stanleynjau902 3 месяца назад

    How about hugging?, Holding hands? That is where it all begins!

  • @chinazaohagi1547
    @chinazaohagi1547 Год назад +14

    Value gotten 💪 Kissing is no sin but it can propel a sin, lets be guilded 🙏 my fellow gender especially, we are the ones to bear the shameful outcome, it is not written in a man's face that he impregnate a lady but it is shown on the lady 🙄🙆 chai 😢😢

    • @preyegodgift9998
      @preyegodgift9998 Год назад +4

      Kissing is lust b4 marriage therefore it is a sin. Not only the result

  • @PriscillaMalachy-w6v
    @PriscillaMalachy-w6v Год назад

    Thank you ma for

  • @TheendTimeMusicMinistry-GH
    @TheendTimeMusicMinistry-GH Год назад

    God bless you

  • @n.a.t.swithstan1135
    @n.a.t.swithstan1135 9 месяцев назад

    The overarching message is fair. What i think is that wheb you truly love someone,you take that person as an extension of yourself, and as you'll do nothing to hurt yourself... you'll do nothing to hurt the person either.

  • @ElizabethDube-dn6ln
    @ElizabethDube-dn6ln Год назад

    Thank you

  • @babyblack1696
    @babyblack1696 Год назад

    Love all about you mom God bless you

  • @LornaPrince-i7u
    @LornaPrince-i7u Месяц назад

    Just the thought of kissing someone you love sends shivers down your spine. Hmmmm ???

  • @BeesTreat
    @BeesTreat 2 месяца назад

    I love this❤

  • @amobikafilat9734
    @amobikafilat9734 Год назад +12

    Mummy I love you so much, you are doing a great job ma.

  • @ToyiRachael
    @ToyiRachael Месяц назад

    Thank God I come across this

  • @emmanuelsamuel2283
    @emmanuelsamuel2283 3 месяца назад

    Well said ma

  • @nelsongondwe2772
    @nelsongondwe2772 Год назад +64

    According to my understanding it all depends on;
    (i) Your intentions and interests.
    (ii) The feelings driving you to do the act.
    (iii) The type of kissing.

    • @emmanuelnwabuodafi6415
      @emmanuelnwabuodafi6415 Год назад +3

      i think this is the balanced way to say it

    • @MsCollinsboy
      @MsCollinsboy Год назад +16

      What kind of intention and interest moves to kiss a last you're in love with?
      What feelings drive you to the act?
      And what type of kissing do you share with her that is appropriate and not laced with emotions, holy kiss?

    • @emmanuelnwabuodafi6415
      @emmanuelnwabuodafi6415 Год назад +15

      @@MsCollinsboy as slim a line as it can be it can be totally pure, if it wasn't possible bible won't make mention of a Holy kiss. Guy everything doesn't have to be sexual. The kiss I give my nephews and niece when I see them after a long time and they jump on me isn't sexual. So I see my babe even in public say an airport after a while and in the excitement of it we hug her and kiss does that make it sexual? That's quite different from being alone behind closed doors and things are going on, of which every law believing Christian and couple should know certain boundaries in Godly relationships and that being alone behind closed isn't a good idea at all.

    • @nelsongondwe2772
      @nelsongondwe2772 Год назад

      @@MsCollinsboybefore I answer your questions clarify your point are you saying it's wrong or sin to kiss or you are just concerned to know what exactly I mean? Whats your point on my view on this topic, be clear whether its a sin or not? and show me your evidence that backs up your views and I will answer your questions.

    • @favouritesworld
      @favouritesworld Год назад +5

      ​@@emmanuelnwabuodafi6415. The question was coming from 2 people that are in a relationship or possibly dating. It is a narrowed question not broad one. I think her answer is the best for the question.

  • @emmanuelmwanzia
    @emmanuelmwanzia Год назад +6

    and one thing led to another

  • @adejumoomolade8849
    @adejumoomolade8849 Год назад

    Thank you mummy

  • @oduyemigraceabosede-fy4bz
    @oduyemigraceabosede-fy4bz Год назад +7

    TRUE LOVE WAIT. THANK YOU MOMMA FOR THIS

  • @franciscadwumaah
    @franciscadwumaah Год назад +11

    Spiritual marriage can even take place after kissing, please wait for the the right time

  • @Alvira-lz2bi
    @Alvira-lz2bi 3 месяца назад

    You are right ma😔😔😔

  • @danielsunday2958
    @danielsunday2958 Год назад +6

    When the Bible talked about "the heart of man", it's referring to the heart of "HUMANS" generally. Please don't twist it.

  • @Nenye_Alexx
    @Nenye_Alexx Год назад +63

    When are we going to start teaching men to be responsible as well? Fornication is a sin for both men and women. The Bible does not exempt men. We should start teaching our male children to be better men please and stop blaming only women for fornication, jeez.

    • @Simthembile.Shange
      @Simthembile.Shange Год назад +8

      I believe she's speaking from the perspective of being a woman herself. Also we cannot deny that women beat the greater responsibility when falling pregnant. This responsibility can change the course of your entire life. We cannot say the same for men

    • @lstvchannel25
      @lstvchannel25 Год назад +4

      Men are not left out of this. As we see Christ Jesus did while on earth having primarily men as the first disciples. When they become responsible, they teach others in turn.

    • @lstvchannel25
      @lstvchannel25 Год назад +10

      She never sided with men. Her emphasis is that women will seemingly bear more biological weight than men in terms of the sexual nature of the human body. So no need not be gender-spirited😂😢 peace❤

    • @YophiSmith
      @YophiSmith Год назад +3

      In what way did she exempt men from sin here?

    • @owolabipeters7905
      @owolabipeters7905 Год назад +2

      Fight yourself if you have appetite to fight.

  • @FredGDangote
    @FredGDangote 5 месяцев назад +1

    😂😂😂❤❤❤I've enjoyed the intro 😂😂

  • @zeeonlineworld
    @zeeonlineworld Год назад +9

    One thing can lead to another. Don't start what you do want to go into.

    • @Femi_Adigun
      @Femi_Adigun  Год назад +1

      Exactly, as humans, we are not perfect, even the perfect of all still had weakness. So, don't start because it will open doors to many to come.

  • @chiagoziemunachukwu
    @chiagoziemunachukwu Год назад

    Thank you Ma'am

  • @FrankAmaizu
    @FrankAmaizu 2 месяца назад +1

    100% True.
    True love waits.
    Get married so you can have the license to kiss for free.

  • @PetesKinah-cm8ot
    @PetesKinah-cm8ot Год назад

    I like all your massage mama is very good for me to listen

    • @Femi_Adigun
      @Femi_Adigun  Год назад

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  • @priceless279
    @priceless279 11 месяцев назад

    Deep words

  • @jodiesamie
    @jodiesamie 11 месяцев назад

    100% agree

  • @D3d9-c5j
    @D3d9-c5j Год назад +12

    Yes , it is a sin.

  • @CiciliaWamalwa
    @CiciliaWamalwa Год назад +6

    Very profound ❤

  • @ogbulivictorifeanyi149
    @ogbulivictorifeanyi149 Год назад

    Thanks mama

  • @CharityRobert-n1q
    @CharityRobert-n1q 9 дней назад

    Una too dey do oh

  • @omotolapeter2843
    @omotolapeter2843 Год назад +1

    Yes o. Very True

  • @ngozinwamarah8771
    @ngozinwamarah8771 11 месяцев назад

    This is true

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      @Femi_Adigun  11 месяцев назад

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  • @lucksontheodore8001
    @lucksontheodore8001 Год назад +19

    Yes, kissing before marriage is a sin

    • @mr.4ut109
      @mr.4ut109 Год назад +1

      what type of kissing?

  • @lydiahpraise4510
    @lydiahpraise4510 Год назад +1

    Please full sermon where's it?

  • @amicuslex4897
    @amicuslex4897 9 дней назад

    It is not sin but it's advisable not to. Where you are not sure of your hormonal balance , you should not kiss