TIME TO MOVE ON! Let’s Talk About How by RC Blakes
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And sometimes the part where “God has something better for you” ain’t the love of another person. It’s the love of you, loving yourself.
❤️
And letting our hope come from father , son & holysprit!
Powerful wisdom right there ☺️
What a blessing. Thank you for this message.🙌
This right here is the comment for me
I played this message 3 times yesterday and decided to release him , I went to dance class and danced him out of my system and as soon as I got back home he called me, trying to flirt knowing fully well he just wants to keep me in his "Just incase" box, he doesn't really want me in his life or he would put me there. . for the 1st time I felt NOTHING! I usually cry after he calls, I felt nothing. I'm so very grateful for you and this message. Thank you!!!!!
I’m in this situation
@@lorenzo2074 a covert narcissist did this to me and discard me with no closure and remorse after getting the ego bloost and manipulations. I was in a situationship
❤️🙏🏾
My now exhusband cheated, got his side chick pregnant with twins…just born in July. He would still come to my house for whatever & flirt with me. What the hell is that???? Maybe he wanted to keep me around just in case. Telling me he wants to come home. Well sir, this isn’t your house anymore! 😂✌️
Proud of you sis! I felt that part about keeping you just in case, smh. I blocked him, cause that's all he's gonna do is talk his way back in. No thank you Buddy!!
“The person who broke me will not heal me.”
“I am above the treatment I’ve allowed, and my hurt will not last.”
“You’re not grieving the person, you’re grieving the disappointment and loss of hope.” Wow.
Yes that touched my soul!🙏🏾❤️
😆😆😆 the same things that'll make you 😊 will also make you 😭
☝️🙌🙌🙌🙏🙏🙏
Yes Lord I'm moving on.
POWERFUL 🙏🏼
Went to the park by myself today and in the car had a revelation that I was not alone. I had GOD with me. Who is better than Him??? No one!! Wasn't lonely and it was a beautiful day spending time with GOD!
It’s the Only way. Single or married. Divorced or engaged. God is a jealous God, anyway.
Isn’t it the best when you get it. When you realize God is right here .I Love him so much and spending time with God it’s peaceful and fun.❤️Enjoy yourself Little Lamb
Please be alert for carjackers. ready to deal with them instantly. The devil is busy 24/7.
Amen
I understand that comment i feel the very same The Lord is my constant companion and I talk to him daily like he was beside me Love him and your comment
Keep your emotions private and burry it, grieve it , walk away !! No conversation, no contact PERIODT. The closure you need is from within 💜 Get your joy back hallelujah and live a healthy peaceful life not full of bitterness from the past
Amen I totally agree I needed to here this . Thank you Jesus Hallelujah!!🙏🏾🙏🏾
"The closure you need is from within." You never need a toxic person who has done nothing but waste your life and time, to give you closure.
He once said something along the lines of "why are you looking for closure from the one who opened the wound in the first place?" It stuck with me.
@@florencepl4343 exactly. R.C. has a gift for using words in a concise but powerfully descriptive way.
Thank you for this message!
The Lord is trying to tell me something 🎶
Thank You Abba & Thank You Pastor for allowing The Holy Spirit to move you to shift the atmosphere.! 🕊🔥
Yes find you someone to love I'm not the one move on she's out there
“Sometimes you have to be able to feel the pain, cry the tears, and still make the right decision.”
Letting go when you know you deserve better is the most difficult part.
I keep hoping he'll change...4 years later...why??? Why stay???
I need to go to therapy
@@hopppy54 I think it’s because we have a piece of our heart to them and it hurts to walk away without it….fortunately God will fill that missing piece with his Love!!
After the grieving though, in your heart, you know you deserve more. Is he capable of loving you in a way that is satisfactory to you? It hurts when you love someone, and you are in a different book in another chapter. What positives did he bring to you? What could have you done better? Most importantly, how did you evolve in knowing this person? Did you learn about more boundaries for a healthier relationship? How do you want to be treated? The man I fell in love with gave me hope, even though we were wrong for each other. For that, I am truly grateful. Keep on keeping on! Best wishes on your journey.
Moving on hurt so much all wen u no the person is not the right one...but u just have to ask god for help believe it's better being by your self than with someone that's not for you ..... because if u don't let go and let god that pain will come one way are the other because that person is not for u
@@hopppy54 men change for who they WANT to change for.
"The person that broke me cannot heal me, I am above the treatment I have allowed and this hurt will not last!" Hallelujah! 👏🏾👏🏾 thank you Jesus ❤
😊truth ...
AMEN!!
No baby, they did not break you.
DON'T CLIP YOUR WINGS TO GO CRAWL WITH THEM!
Deep!
Okrrrr
Amen sister!❤
Don't he be preachen! 😊❤
Absolutely... testify!
“Sometimes you have to feel the pain, cry the tears, and still make the right decision.” - RC Blakes
Been there! It was hard to do but I pushed through with the help of God. I refuse to stay in a unhealthy relationship or fight to stay in one. That’s pure nonsense to me. It’s not a good feeling. I’d rather hurt for awhile while MOVING ON!!!
Amen!
Love it, gotta put me first
Well said I am in a process of making that decision
Its amazing how God will use a 2 year old message to give u confirmation. Gods timing is everything
Exactlyyyyyyyy 💯❣️🙏🏾
" Grieve the disappointment. You're not grieving the INDIVIDUAL but the lost hope " this is so liberating
Gurl!How profound
#THIS 🎯🙌🏾
Thank you rc blakes for everything I appreciate you and Lisa thank you for everything ❤ 💗
Preach someone who broke you cant heal you
Thanks for making me think more of myself.
It is not even about loving ourselves, it is about respecting the value that God has given us.
Amen
I like this comment - simple and deep.
WOW DARLING YOU SAID A MOUTH FULL.... TO GOD BE THE GLORY
You are the value and self love is fulfillment of law
Amen and Amen!
13:40 “Truth is the most painful blessing”
15:05 “Because you don’t want anybody to disrupt this fantasy of a situationship that you’re trying to create”
15:25 You need a purely objective truth “you cannot separate freedom from truth”
18:30 “you got to pay attention to the thoughts you’ve always ignored”
20:20 “you got to be able to feel the pain, cry the tears and still make the right decision”
21:15 “you’ve been lying to yourself too long”
22:30 “you playing the role of a side chick bae”
24:30 “you sitting around here losing your whole life to a situation that you should never even entertained”
25:40 “grieve the disappointment, you’re not grieving the individual, you’re grieving the lost hope”
26:55 “You need to grieve the lost hope because you had a whole lot of hope in this thing that it would be exactly what you desired it to be that it would be what you needed it to be and it turned out to be a lie, now you have to grieve it”
28:04 “you grieve it to finalize in your mind that is dead”
30:14 Anchor yourself in dignity/privately vent your emotion/you got to bury it psychologically where it needs to be and then you walk away from it (cancel them)
34:26 “You must create your own closure” (you need them to answer this for you/the idea the same person that opened the wound is the one that’s going to close the wound: finding ways to interact)
39:40 “The person that broke me will not heal me, I am above the treatment I’ve allowed and my hurt will not last”
43:00 “Revisit and reinvest in your vision” (Invest in you/do the things you always wanted to do/you need a revelation of you/remember your goals before you were distracted)
45:00 Summary
46:26 “Calm down and wait on God” stop being driven by your emotions/stop expecting men to do what only God can do. IT’S TIME FOR YOU TO MOVE ON, THIS THING IS DEAD, LET’S BURY IT.
@The REAL Truth Army oh, those were just my highlights in a difficult time of my life last year when I needed to move on from a situationship. Every time I felt weak I came back to this video and I found the strength (and the punch in the face as well) to “survive” and face the reality. It really opened my eyes.
Thank You ♥️
Thank you ❤
Thanks for capturing this words. Now I have a list in front of me to look at til Im healed.. 🙂👍
Thank you
“Sometimes.... you’ve got to be strong enough, to rescue yourself”...
Sometimes you’ve got to be able to feel the pain, cry the tears......and STILL make the right decisions!✨🙌🏽✨
Yes!! Think it through in spite of error joining to a ungodly soul tie! Don't focus on your mate but, look to the Lord. Allow him to bring you out!! It's ministry though. All things shall work out for the good, from the only one who is good!😉. (Romans 8:28). Wait on the Lord. Trust Him with your lives. Our first love. Was just studying the letters to the 7 churches. Concentrate on the Lord. He always has a plan. Apologize, repent to Him. Be about the father's business. Refocus!! BE RESTORED ⭐
All facts... ALL FACTS!
You really have to rescue yourself... I felt that in my spirit 🙏🏽
Thank you for the truth yes
@@patriciawilliams5519 Well said! Ameeeeen!!! 👏👏👏👍👍👍
“The person that broke me will not heal me. I’m above the treatment that I’ve allowed and my hurt will not last.” Amen 🙏🏽
I posted those three statements on my bathroom mirror as RC suggested and I swear in just one ☝🏻 24 hour period speaking that over myself and seeing it ... God changed my mindset!
A M E N 🙏
Amen 🥰🙏🏽
Amen 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Amen!!! Writing ✍🏽 this on my mirror 🪞 as a daily reminder!!
No matter the situation never let your emotion over power your intelligence ✨ I always tell myself this pastor
When your companion (marriage/relationship) is a constant source of weighing you down/hurting and pulling you down, he/she isn’t for you! Walk away peacefully and reclaim your life in God’s path and happiness❤️🙏🏾
Yes Amen 💖🙏😇🐧💯🦀⏳😊
Thank you!!! I needed to hear this🙏🏼💔
Come on Mrs Lady
Amen! My husband only brings me down! No more!
I agree with you to the utter most! No! Your walk is where you should be.Your happiness IS WHAT GOD IS PULLING YOU TO. PRAISE JESUS🙌🏿 HOLY HANDS. . MY SAVIOR DELIVERD ME FROM ALL THAT PHONEY SHINE- YOUR HAPPINESS IS JESUS🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
When you find yourself in situations like this.. God will make it so uncomfortable that you will move away from whatever is making you feel this way. Keep praying and stay watchful
I broke out, something was burrowing into my skin as well. I became dehydrated with severe bags under my eyes from how dry and hot it's home was, I would itch so badly that scratching made me bleed. Anxiety was so bad and the Most High was telling me that situation is was not for me. Could only be in it's house for 2 days otherwise the above stuff would happen
I stays home now. No more itching, puffy eyes etc. I am at peace
I’m Catholic and I follow you. I don’t listen to religious freaks I listen to wisdom and those that help me navigate through life. I listen to people who speak or the spirit and God.
Same. Im Catholic as well and I can recognize wisdom within others. God’s truth and message will always shine even outside Catholicism.
I was at mass one Sunday and our Priest said in his homily sometimes God speaks through others,are you listening? Yes as Catholic we know when Holy Spirit is at work for those who serve. 🙌🙏🏻
Catholic here as well and I love not to mention LEARN so much from Pastor Blakes❤
"Grieve this thing" Hurts when you wanted something so bad. 💔
But happiness comes in morning, girl and you going to feel so wonderful later♥️♥️♥️♥️😊
@@elaineturner2941 can't see it but I hope and pray. Regret of a bad decision can be the worst.
Don't live in regret💎⚓. Jesus loves you so much more than anyone. Certainly someone who doesn't appreciate or demonstrate having your best at heart!! Grieving over someone who's breathing still and not worried about you, NO! You're better than that. Know your worth. He's not for you. Keep Reminding Yourself. Love doesn't leave you and wound you!!⭐😇. Let Go and trust, obey and wait on the Lord!! So many of these men are users, and wicked! He has someone who will lead you and cover you into purpose!!!⚓
@@patriciawilliams5519 You don't know how much I needed ALL of those words.When you see the 👿 you have some guards up but when the come like charming angels then switch when you're hooked is something will have one questioning reality.I receive all you said and pray that day comes soon.❤️
❤❤❤❤❤
"The person that broke me will not heal me. I am above the treatment I've allowed and my hurt will not last."
☝This
Thank you for this video Pastor
Amen 💙
Amen🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
That is the best statement I have heard!! and it’s so true 🙏👍❤️
That's so good I am putting it on a post it and putting it on my bathroom mirror to be mindful! Thank you
Amen. I forgive them and cleanse my heart and mind. Be released. Making room for the one god has!! Do not waste anymore emotions, words, energy!! Cut Off. Flee, Run, Avoid. He, they do not belong in our space. On evil assignment. By my own allowance, or error! Jesus forgives and so shall we!! Take back your power. Responsibility. Trouble nor weeping will last always. It has an expiration date, time😉💎👑
I'm going through it. So true, my husband left me for another and ran away from his responsibilities, and ran his mouth that all I did was complained and nag. When all I did was pay all the bills, took care the house and the kids while he was filled with excuses. Since I put my foot down and I know my worth my value and listen to worship music and to your preaching I'm called difficult! I'm called money hungry! No... it's because the truth came out he was using me! I had to take matter in my own hands!
Proud of you !! Tremendous blessings are coming your way ❤️ keep on trusting
You cannot change those in the world 🌎 You Can only change Yourself! Self love 💕 and self Care is a necessity . And Never try to figure out why progress are damaged. It has nothing to do with you. A damaged person will always be damaged, You don’t have to worry about his choices. Why, because you cannot control any human being except yourself ❤
I am coping with the disappointment but rather suffer in my heart ♥️ than to suffer in my spirit. -my Motto
🤗 im proud of u...u right that is what he was doing he was going to do what he was going to do anyways...u just don't waste anymore of your life! Im proud of u u was doing it yourself anyways at least u free now 🙌🏽🙏🏽
“...You grieve it, then you have the funeral...anchor yourself in dignity...”Pastor Blakes
This break down of the word is all meat
Amen sister...
Amen. I had the funeral yesterday. Now I'm grieving but at peace. And peace is priceless.
" The person who broke me will not heal me" wow, this is pure wisdom. He [God] is the source, He is the deliverer. This has been powerful.
q8
Yes, Great message 😇
@@alfredasprings6476 Jon
Exactly!!! I had to learn this. It’s funny because one of the men who broke me deceived me stole from me!! Was named DC the initials of his first and last name!!😮
oOOOOOOOO
“I’m above the treatment that I’ve allowed and my hurt will not last. “ 🙏🏽
Now wait a minute. This is a prophetic word for me right now. I literally just broke off a relationship with someone who lives in a friend's basement. And Pastor specifically said you want to go to the penthouse and they satisfied with the basement. If I wasn't at work right now I would shout. I held onto their relationship for so long because I didn't want to look like a failure. I didn't want to be alone. I was being abused 3 ways and still hung in too long. This is a word!
@@lala5061 sounds like me 3 kids 21 yrs. marriage, left my house running around with the kids, I too thought about giving in. I really feel like that would be giving up though. Thank you for sharing that. We're not alone. God bless you sister we gone have a testimony real soon in Jesus Name Amen
Girrrrrrl! This is for you!!!!
@@lala5061 stay strong! You got this!
Steer clear of men and basement living
Truth is freedom! Peace and blessings to you on your healing journey. Never turn back. The path forward is so grand and the yoke is light.
“Sometimes you ain’t got no superhero to rescue you…Sometimes you got to be strong enough to rescue yourself.”
My mantra for each day
Ive always felt it important to be brave and courageous to make the right decisions, knowing that my life is precious and God has a purpose for me. No matter the disappointment and hurt Im accountable to live my best life and staying in God’s will.
I agree. Then you walk with God and walk out together.
This touched my soul. Once I began to love myself. Truly love myself. I stopped worrying about a relationship. I concentrate on myself. Me!!! The more I’m in love with me, the better I feel… When I love me, that means I’m not broken anymore. I can discern, from right from wrong. I can choose a healthy loving partner. That knows I love me. I’m still not rushing into a relationship but when and if it happens I will be ready.
Amen sista 🙏🏽 🤗
Hallelujah!!!!
Me too I’m moving with patience this time and working on me.
FACTS, I was told to work on my marriage, I was married to a Narcissist, and he was violent! I finally got away. God never had me in that situation, I put myself into that.
Yes im going thru this noe.hes very violent broke court orders.first fear was guiding me,but then i was on my hands and 2 hours scream God please redemption, grace something show me your real get me freed.Man he showed me 2 days later.whoo all the times i left God but he still carried me out of the gaps amen.THANK YOU SO MUCH RC
I've been there. I was so unhappy. Every one kept saying work it out. God wasn't in it. I stayed longer than I should have. Finally I divorced. And happy I'm not with him.
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 Sending, Prayers, Love and Light Queen. May God pour blessings upon blessings onto you and your family.
I deceived myself
I know so many people doing that! It's sad too! Married and not married. Life is too short to be unhappy!
In my situation it wasn’t a physical but he was killing me mentally and emotionally abusing me.
It understand just what you went through, I'm away from it but got to heal the open wounds. Bless you.
@@HD-xb9mj I am healing every day ❤️
Exactly what I am going through now
@@Pootietang67 I'm getting there🙏🏾
@RC Blakes Jr What is the woman’s name
“The person that broke me will not heal me. I am above the treatment I’ve allowed and my hurt will not last.”
My new daily prayer/mantra. Thank you 😊
They didn’t break You they made you stronger. I think there are too many toxic damaged mental men out here. Women be wise and cautious and love yourself enough to protect your peace and nurture your spirit ❤
I was just a paycheck to my ex husband. I didn’t want to believe it for years. He left me to sleep around and sow his wild oats six months ago. It’s one thing when someone lies to you, it’s a whole other thing when you lie to yourself. This video is the truth.
Omg my husband only wanted money from me. I worked he did then stopped soon after we married. 5yrs I did it all. And he would get mad when I refused to hand over money. I didn't want to admit it. I was embarrassed 😳. But I left. I prayed God if this isn't you let him end it. Within a week he broke up with me. Then he tried to come back a week after. I refused and moved on.
And maid. Don't forget the built in maid part
You're not alone... going through something similar
I feel you
Thank you pastor God bless you , I am going through the same situation and this sermon has been a source of strength to me . Aldis
I was ready to die in my dead marriage, I felt like I had a life sentences over my life and I would never be free... Pastor Blakes after 17yrs marriage im free im 60yrs and im living my best life now, because im free....
💚
I feel like that, you give me hope 🙏
That was me in my marriage!!! Got a divorce and totally found myself. It’s been such a beautiful journey
I've been there..freedom is better
I'm still struggling to get out mine and it has been very painful. Seeing the truth is painful but necessary. This video gives me light. At the same time your words give me hope. Thank you and God bless everyone.
"Get this yoke off of your neck!" I FELT that. THE PERSON THAT BROKE ME WILL NOT HEAL ME. I'm above the treatment I've allowed and my hurt will not last. AMEN
I was a donkey, in a narcissistic 27 year relationship. He supported this and thrived on me being less than. My ignorance allowed this. Now I'm 51, no career raising my 11 year old alone finding out he's had numerous affairs and I'm working going to school and living with my mom. He's got a younger wealthy girlfriend who he wants to start a new family with. I supported him when he had not, he grew his $ and career to leave me and give to another. I turn to Jesus. I live for him first now.
I am so happy you left this toxic relationship. Time to focus on yourself and your child. It’s never too late to start over. I wish you well
Great decision and God will see you through victoriously
His time will come beloved
@@skknnn1859 Amen
It will not last.. karma is real.. continue to focus on your goals and your baby..
“Not grieving the individual but grieving the lost hope”
Gooooood point!
I needed this message. Thank you. I have been ready to move on. My biggest hurdle is finding a place to live. I pray for protection that when I leave, he won't harm me. I'm ready to move on with my life and away from him. I'm ready to get my light back and be able to shine for others. Amen.
😢
🙏🏽🤗
Don't let that stop you. Keep lookin for it.. Seek and you shall find, knock and the door will be open unto U. You mean business... trust the Lord he will give you the desires of your heart. And find a place just for you..😇🙌🏾🙏🏾🙋🏾♀️
I am proud of You! 👏🏽 You can’t change others You Can only change your Self ❤
A real man of God who truly cares about God's daughters!
Calm Down & Wait On God...🙏🏽
I think that's a spam message
@@julietranger8326 Reporting these scammers removes their comments.
1. Objective truth (never playing side chick role)
2. Grieve the disappointment the lost hope (not the person)
3. Create your own closure (forgiveness move forward, use intentional language)
4. Generate the momentum of progressive distraction (new person isnt your distraction but be heal first invest in yourself)
5. Calm down n wait god (stop being driven by your emotion, stop expecting man, God is deliverer)
Anchor yourself in dignity
“When your mind is trying to talk you out of what is purely common sense, you have to talk with yourself and have the strength to rescue yourself” - Preach Pastor Blakes!
“Sometimes. you’ve got to be strong enough, to rescue yourself”
Sometimes you’ve got to be able to feel the pain, cry the tears..and STILL make the right decisions!
Amen 🙏🏼❤️
Talk to me, Pastor! This is me 😢, I'm not even married to the man. Everything you said is about me, and it's the truth, but I'm no longer sleeping. Thank you for the truth!
"Most of us make the mistake of investing everything before we read the fine print!" That statement reminds me of a quote my professor recited: "Do you know the difference between education and experience? Education is when you read the fine print; experience is what you get when you don't." -Pete Seeger
I know that it's not by mistake that this channel showed up on my feed some months ago! Thank you very much.
True warning wearing rose colored glasses.
The person that broke me will not heal me. I am above the treatment I have allowed and my hurt will not last. “
I was definitely lying to myself. I gave more chances than necessary, with each time a circumstance getting worse or argument blowing up. I finally made the decision to leave and move on. I’m a mom and have to set the proper example for my child. We share this child, but now refuse to keep going through dysfunction. The love I constantly poured out started going into myself. I need this time to be completely alone and be next to God, and not put anyone on a pedestal before Him. All lessons learned and now being applied.
My God 😭.. I’ve listened to this video over and over. It’s helping me move forward
Me to. This is POWER
My God.......is Right ❤️⭐️🙏🏽🙏🏼
Praise God 😊
Hi-5, Stacy!!!
Me too; I've had to put this on rewind so many times!!!
This is the third time I have listened also and will listen again tonight before dozing off. This message needs to penetrate.
Feel the pain, cry the tears and make the right decision..
Mr. Blakes, you posted this video a year ago, but I’m so grateful it was here for me TODAY. THANK YOU for the work that you and Lisa do. You are changing my life by speaking in plain, logical english. Your channel is a timeless legacy! So valuable!!
DITTO ❤
“Truth is the most painful blessing” objectivity is a blessing - truth leads the way out of untruth and to freedom
This was GREAT!!!!!!!!
This message! Was !! Alll That tooooo me
So true
Thank you 🙏
That’s deep just sooo deep!
The two people on this earth, that I Loved the Most, that NEVER minced words with me...my Mom and Dad told me straight up that he was no good for me! I didn't listen to them. I stayed in it for over 24 years, and in the end, I lost everything! God grabbed me by the scruff of my neck, and Delivered me. I thank Him for His Love, Grace, and Wisdom. He saved my life. Please don't let this happen to you. You're worth far more than this! God Bless You Pastor RC Blakes and Thank You!😘❤
@@lala5061 Dear LaLa, God Bless You And Keep You In His Care Always😘❤
My mother got to know my husband and told me “he is not what you think he is, he will disappoint you”. I thought she was jealous. Boy did he disappoint me! He was far from everything I thought he was. Straight narcissistic and evil.
@@vivavidadela My Heart goes out to You & God Bless You & Keep You In His Care Always❤ Hopefully, those days are behind You now😁
The HOLY SPIRIT WOKE UP ON ME during this sermon HALLELUJAH
I've been stuck on a broken relationship for over 10 years and every year I pray I can move on, My heart seems stuck. He has moved on with his life and I'm still here waiting for I don't know what. I pray this is the year Im released from this heart break and move on.
Wow sis yes . Don’t waste anymore years . Put that energy into loving yourself for I can relate so much
Hi Aisha,, I'm praying for you. It's hard.
Take it one day @ a time!! You Got This!! Stay Beautiful & Strong!!
Claim it’s over speak it girl
I’ve been in this situation almost 3 years
I'm warn out. Got nothing left.. But can't make it on my own.
Please pray for me
Hang in there!
Take just 5 minutes at a time. That is all you can do. Crowder sings a song called, hold on, we're almost home.
Check it out and play it loud sister.😊
God, wrap your arms around this sister and hold her hand when she can't stand on her own.
Read the Psalms. Claim the promises.
Listen to music that lifts you up, not keeping you stuck.
I like Crowder, run devil run. It lifts me up. Also his song, undignified, and good God Almighty.
They helped me.
You are not alone!
Yes u can't. That's y the holy spirit is there. Our helper. Your helper. Let him help u
I'm with you.
@@atimetobestill1132 Thank you❗ 🙏
@@xanris74dj 🙏🙏❤
Correct!!! I filled for divorce. I got post separation alimony. And when it’s over I will have half of two pension s and substantial marital property.
I started watching and I started working on myself. God healed me while he was grinning and cheesing in his ladies faces.
I told him I was leaving last year after 25 years but he didn’t listen…Good riddance 🎉🎉🎉
Lol now who’s grinning. Good for you!
Congratulations 🎉 you are not alone. This is so good! Same amount of time vested.Ive forgiven myself and finally feel good about moving on!
Pastor RC as a victim of domestic violence where I nearly lost my life and I had to send my own husband to jail in order to save my own life, this message is a blessing that many people may need to hear. Thank you. 🙏🏻
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Bless you glad you made it through luv.
Amen 💜
CONGRATULATIONS Girl. That's right I agree with you 100 %
I too am a healing from domestic violence I listened to this over and over! It’s just what I needed! I’m going to be victorious not a victim and break everything my ex placed on me and in me!
This popped up for me and you have no idea how much I needed to hear this, it was the Holy Spirt. Abba please help me and give me the courage to walk away from the bad relationship I'm in, please heal me from codependency.
@Julie T.:🙏🏽♥️
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@Bufftygirl 72: Absolutely; providing you don’t over eat and stroke out!
You can do it! I didn't think I could. I am on 2 weeks from when I left, and I feel wonderful. This message tonight is helping me with the funeral process.
It's like a drug you gonna get sick tired and wanna free yourself God give you the strength
My Dad is no longer here, and when I need that life lesson, I seek God and go to your channel. You're a blessing. ❤
YOU'RE THE FATHER I NEVER HAD WHILE GROWING UP. I'M CURRENTLY GOING THROUGH A SPERATION FROM MY HUSBAND OF 13 YEARS. THESE LESSONS ARE SO NECESSARY FOR THIS PROCESS I'M EXPERIENCING. IT'S DEFINITELY A DEATH OF WHAT I THOUGHT WOULD BE UNTIL DEATH SEPARATE US. I'VE IGNORED THE OBVIOUS FOR YEARS BECAUSE I'M A MINISTER OF THE GOSPEL. I TRIED EVERY WAY POSSIBLE TO HOLD ON, SAVE & EVERYTHING ELSE DUE TO KINGDOM MANDATES. HOWEVER, IF YOU'RE WITH SOMEONE THAT KNOW THE WORD BUT REFUSE TO SUBMIT TO IT, YOU FIND YOURSELF EVENTUALLY BROKEN. I AM INDEED A BROKEN VESSEL THAT'S ON MY JOURNEY OF HEALING. THANK YOU AGAIN PASTOR. YOUR MESSAGES TOUCHES MY SOUL.
MORE GRACE IN YOUR WALK & WORK FOR THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN. MAY YOU & YOUR LOVELY FAMILY REMAIN BLESSED🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿.
God be you🙏
Am in too for yrs ,u are giving me courage thank .may God be with u all the time .😍
This is the plain true and nothing but the True.for a hold year I have invested my all to a relationship that I know is going nowhere.Pray for me .Give me strength Lord to grieve this and let it go.
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Prophetess, thank you for sharing. I am a Pastor married to a Pastor and I stayed for 16 years. I finally walked away physically this past summer. I have to admit that he came very close to breaking me Spiritually. He was after my Anointing. I have never ever experienced a Man that wants to be like me. I've experienced a few women but never a man. Today I awake with the mandate from God to discover me presently!!! WOG this is a Powerful Mandate. Special thank you to Bishop Blakes......
I put myself through a whole lot b/c I really loved him.
Then, one day...after....a pic of him sitting close to another woman on the internet, him sending naked pics of himself to other women on social media, him hitting on other women (some were my coworkers and friends), wasted money, time, and resources...I had enough.
My last words to him were...GOD BLESS YOU, MY BROTHA.
Then, the clown had the nerve to call back and try to come-back after a few weeks of my no-contact; like I really missed his mess.
I have accomplished so much since I allowed GOD to pull me outta the fog I was in.
Amen sista
My mother and sister is always accusing me of being too impatient and judgmental. This has led me to stay and put up with bad characters because I couldn't separate whether or not it was me being judgmental or they are just bad. Plus, my mother and sister would just tell me to be patient. After this year, it dawned on me that my mother and sister NEVER had my back and were always envious of me. Yes, YOUR OWN FAMILY CAN BE ENVIOUS OF YOU AND SECRETLY HOPING YOU FAIL. That's why they were always leading me to make bad decisions. My mom has passed a long time ago but how I came to find out that my sister is envious is because I started noticing her reactions. Whenever I was happy about something, she'd accuse me of being too gullible, bragging, and she'd instill a lot of doubt. Whenever something bad happened to me and I was upset, she'd start preaching about patience, understanding, and for me to look at how I may have inadvertently contributed to it. She was never supportive of my feelings.
You accidentally popped up on my phone so I'm going to say it was meant to be so here I am listening to this message. Yes Lord!
Me too! I’m blown away with his message
My phone was on my back and I started hearing a voice as I left the shop. Hilarious🤣😇😎
He is the best RUclips feed accident EVER! So glad his channel was suggested to me! That’s why I thumbs up the video so others can accidentally find him too 💕
It was no accident
Girl, it was God. Nothing happens by accident. Be blessed.
"Calm Down and Wait On God". Sounds like a best selling t-shirt, to me!
Whenever I see a Nike T-shirt that says "just do it" I want to make one that says "Just think it through...."
Or a best selling book!❤️
Great teacher
Calm down, wait on God and eat some🍫….yep I like it!!!
God said that “Ye shall know the TRUTH and the Truth shall make you FREE”.
My goodness. Is there a way to hit the like button a 100 times?! This message is right on time. I thank God for you, Pastor Blakes! Please keep teaching, we're listening. 🙏🏾🇨🇦
@RC Blakes Jr stop just stop
Same here!
I have to agree this seriously changed my life today!
Amen 🙏🏾
“The truth is the most painful blessing!”
@RC Blakes Jr to whomever you all are posing as Bishop Blakes are pitiful! Bishop would NEVER ask for a donation to an orphanage. You all should be ashamed of yourselves; you heartless scammers!
I'm not a religious person but I have been listening to your videos. When I run in the morning your words (that are inspired by God) are very encouraging and truthful. You're doing a good thing brotha! Keep it up. Respect.
“The person that broke me will not heal me. I am above the treatment I allowed and my hurt will not last.” -Pastor Blakes
I repeated that to myself and it instantly brought tears to my eyes.
Thank you Pastor Biakès you've help me to see life clearer
My prayers are for everyone who has issues with pulling down strong holds and for strength to walk away from that toxic reality Lord give them peace and comfort and truth.
I'm a Christian and totally agree with you. Thank you, this is really critical information. The church has really ruined millions of lives because they do not encourage common sense or consider Proverbs and other scriptures that are clear on what kind of people to avoid and rebuke and that we are to love ourselves. Pastors do not understand this and do don't preach on it because they say women should be more submissive, obey their husbands, put up with any and all bad treatment, except for adultery and being left by an unbeliever. That is ignorant, dangerous, ludicrous and uses no common sense whatsoever! The church unfortunately has kept many women in longterm, abusive situations. You are helping to change that and set women free with these videos. I need to listen to this every day! God bless
"Calm down and wait on God. God is coming to your rescue, just get out of his way...God is going to restore. God is going to repair. Calm down and wait on God. Stop expecting men to do what only God can do." 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom. Your voice and message truly reached me at the most difficult time of my life. Thank you for helping us reconnect with God when no one and nothing else can help.
My grandfather used to say, "Common sense, isn't that common." He would flip out if he saw how upside down the world is now.
Yes, our ancestors had so many words of wisdom. How upside-down the people in the world have become.
You grieve it to finalize it’s dead. Have the funeral. Anchor yourself in dignity!! Privately vent your emotions, bury it psychologically. Insulate your soul. Need a objective truth. Forgiveness helps me to move on. Create your own closure by using good language. “ The person that broke me will not heal me I am above the treatment that I have allowed and my hurt will not last “.
My God!
Whenever I start to think about the wrong things I just go watch one of your videos to get me on track! You give those much needed father-daughter talks that I never had 🙏🏾
Thank you for the encouragement & guidance!
I appreciate it 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💛
God Bless you & you family!
I also go to your videos for guidance when I am feeling or thinking some kind of way that is not good for my soul
Been doing this daily for past 3 weeks, got weak and let him in after he reeled me in 3 days later he was back to his same ways. I have a child with him, & yet he’s no co parenting because he’s mad I’m finally done
Me 2
Me today!! I know RC gone get me together lol
Me too sis.
Purposeful and Powerful Words!
I am above the treatment I've allowed...and the hurt WILL NOT last ❤️
I have grieved the lost hope. Maybe that's why we get sooo mad, we feel like they stole our hope. Hope should never be able to be stolen from us. Keep hope alive!!!
Adult takes the reins from the angry inner teenager protecting the inner child. True the one who hurt you will not heal you. Lust blinders are pretty powerful and keeping the fantasy alive to avoid feeling abandoned and hurt. Yes the hurt heals. Work, service, art, spiritual community helps bridge to a new life.
I am so glad he made it clear that a man can be a side chick. Especially when he thinks he's a player when he's just a bill payer...
Amen sister take the L because he is loser!!!!!🌻🌻🌻🌾🌻🌻🦋
I can’t express enough how much of a blessing you have been to me during this hard time in my life. I have been losing sleep over a man.. and the day I started watching your videos, I slept so peacefully that night. God is good and will always meet us in our mess!
I know this message is old but I wish you could know how much I needed this word! Thank you for allowing God to use you to heal so many broken hearted women 🙏
When things that we love die, we grieve with God to finalize that it’s DEAD! Remind yourself who you are! Respect yourself and Cancel him Sis!
@RC Blakes Jr stop falling the hand of Nigerians with this scam. Stop it for God sake!!!!!😣😣😣😣😣😣 Reporting you..
Derrick wife needs to hear this message .smh
I was thinking the same thing. Hiding behind religion when God wasn't in it to begin with. We make decisions that have nothing to do with God and we didn't seek Him at all in these decisions. Then when everything is unraveling including ourselves then we want God to cosign the mess and wave a magic wand and shout to God be the glory. TGBTG in divorce court and child support court. Just making a mockery out of God!
Yes Lord
@@UniquelyVickie oooohhhhh sis, you brought it home 🏡 knock knock bayB 😭
She already knows yet she has decided to still stay with this man. Hard to feel any sympathy or respect for women or men who insist on being a door mats. Absolute idiots.
Pray For her
This was needed. I thank you for this. Im hurt and torn, but I've decided to make a move.
Reinvest myself in my vision.
You can do this. I just did it. Be sure to do the work to heal
Praise God sis!
I feel your pain Taneisha. I am 55 y/o and dated a man for 2yrs who comes from a good family. Our wedding was dated for July 2021 and I just reminded myself of all the red flags that I continue to ignore, knowing things wouldn’t get any better. I didn’t think a person could be this cruel & self-centered. I thank God for discernment and called the wedding off. I was so emotionally disturbed, I had to ask for two weeks off before staring a new job. So, girlfriend I truly feel your pain. Stay strong, Tarneisha🙏🏾
this set me free from my baby daddy, hearing a real man with God in his heart, and really listening to the TRUTH. thank-you Pastor
I like that about closure is within, if they lie the whole time, they will not tell the truth, a person that made the wound cannot heal it. This was so pivotal
Your message rings true tonight, Pastor, as I legally bury a 40 year marriage. I HAVE learned how to anchor myself in dignity because I have finally come to understand your truth..."I am above the treatment I have allowed." I love your passion and spirit for speaking the truth. Tonight's message has been just what this girl needed to hear. Thank you!
God bless you. I'm breaking free from a 30 year marriage. Believed (falsely) that I was the only one dealing with such a issue. I am determined to be free. Thank God for Pastor RC and his powerful teachings.
I am breaking away from a 21 yr. marriage. Thank you for sharing that. I needed this Word as well.
@Victoria Akoms Great point. 🙏
@@sheilasquare4339 God bless you. I'm determined to be free as well.
How come when you are taking steps to leave once and for all..14 years..all sudden he is calling me " babe" first time ever, always said to me I don't like that word. Now being all nice and it's now creeping me out ..finally see , trying to see my worth through Christ and he is acting all nice for first ever, that's confusing!!
“ Giving it to God” that part is so freeing. It feels like a weight off my shoulder holding on to bitterness and wanting closure or an apology. I release this to God in exchange for peace.
Thank you Pastor Blakes for your care, your wisdom, and insight! Here is something I've kept in my mirror. Never let getting lonely make you re-connect with toxic people. You shouldn't drink poison just because you're thirsty. God help me to get rid of the noise and channel my anointing! Sit, Think and Process.
Thank you...😢❤ I truly needed every word of this message. I given 28 years of my 43 year of life to this man; and he truly tried to destroy me! I've been praying, knowing I already knew the answer; but my spirit needed confirmation. I asked God to lead me to the answer that I know it's from God, then this message came up as soon as I opened my phone. Thank you Minister Blake; but Thank you Heavenly Father that He's always on time. Please pray for me.
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It's time to be happy. Let God guide us to find the right one. God bless you.
Wish I could give Pastor Blakes and this video one million likes . What a POWERFUL message!!!!!!!
Thank you Pastor Blakes..... you are greatly appreciated !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Going through a divorce right now and this video speaks to me deep. Thank you Pastor Blake for your words of wisdom
How are you now? How long did the pain last. I am now going through a divorce and it is the hardest thing i have ever faced.
This has came to me in the perfect time in my life and I so totally understand and 100agree with everything you are saying
Very wise words. I’m a few months out of a 12 year relationship with a narcissist. Prayers for all.
I too had left but I kept wondering what is going to happen next. I left to protect my children now I'm trying to find a way to get my children to accept him. Essentially, I'm forcing them to see where they did wrongs to cause this dysfunction.I nèed the strength to leave once and for all.
I love the book Queenology. It has unlocked things inside of me, changed my mindset, negative self talks, and negative thinking. I praise the Lord for what you are doing and how he is using you to help us! I am growing spiritually and gracefully into the queen that I am. I have released the toxicity in my life and I have joy because of it😊! No longer under the bondage of oppression and depression. I am set free and those chains no longer have me bound! Thank you so much! God bless!
Pastor,the only regret I have about this teaching is that I can't press like a thousand times!!!!! Nothing but total truth here!! God bless you!!
Bruh. Thank you for this word. Speaking right to my life. It’s hard to get out because she pins the kids against me and goes nuts every time I’ve tried to leave in the past. God give me the strength to follow through.
Amen
Misery loves company
So what are you teaching the kids about honoring their individual choice to create a life of joy for themselves….kids know the truth anyway!!!
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Thanks... RC... Blake's🌹
There's something called a gut feeling which God gives to all mankind. If your gut feeling is telling you something is wrong then the probability is that something is wrong. A marriage only works when both parties are in the same frame of mind. "Yoke," don't yoke yourself with an unbeliever.
I believe your message, my brother. I'm caught up in the same scenario you mentioned, but in GOD's time I will make the move to leave. I feel like I failed GOD, because I married a woman who was not from the church, an unbeliever. I love God and now that I have been married for a while, I want nothing more than to live in Peace. I want the peace of GOD IN MY LIFE and it starts by letting go.
I'm sorry I feel for you. God will heal you