Analyzing the Psychology of Women With Inferiority Complexes
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This may be controversial but a lot of plus size people aren’t actually nice people. They just feel like they have to keep their rude thoughts and opinions to themselves because of how society views heavier people. Which is why as soon as they lose weight they go right into mean girl/boy mode because it was always there. They just feel more confident in standing on it now.
True but the ones I knew never waited to loose weight before showing their true colors..In fact almost ALL the bullies I have ever encountered have been obese.
@@carolinesalv Agree completely. What I’m saying though is they a lot of times act as if they’re these helpless people being relentlessly picked on for no reason when they typically the ones that started it lol. They say all people did was pick on them for being big w/o telling what they said.
This is true! Just look through the fat acceptance community, that community was founded on insecurity, with most of those women bonding over their insecurities of being bigger; they will openly speak poorly about thin women, calling them out by their name because it makes them feel better about themselves. I see so many similarities between their community, UADSBW, and the Red Pill community, they all need healing.
Facts girl one women who was mean to me recently is plus size she was mad that I was prettier than her
Unfortunate pattern I’ve noticed through life. Women can be so mean, rude, aggressive & hostile for no reason if you have any type of desirability trait going on. Happy, secure ppl are generally turned off by those who project misery & inferiority. I personally can’t be around these ppl long.
Her threatening to get RAN THRU to try and affect someone else's esteem and feelings is literally WILD and PSYCHOTIC😭
Right! I had to rewind when she was like “any guy you like imma f-ck him” I was like HUH?!
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Exactly, I’m like we’re not the one who’s going to catch something like std’s.
Thanks for the shoutout!! Typical bully behavior. They think they can hurt you and berate you but when you turn the focus back on them, they’re the victim 🤔😒
I cringe at the divestors. I’m not talking about black women who have just happened to fall in love with a white man but it’s pedestalizing a guy just because he’s white.
They get the lowest yt men too and think they have a prize. But they don’t want to be fetishized.
I agree, it's so cringe and shows their desperation
She’s not a divestor.
@@winxclubstellamusa she said she would date black men, she just won’t pursue them. Divestors wouldn’t give a black man a chance.
@babyblue667 I agree that she doesn’t have respect for them, however the term ‘divestor’ doesn’t apply to her.
She seems to have disdain towards light skin women and white women when it comes to social power because she’s dark skin and SHE felt like she’s not good enough.
Yup that’s exactly what it is . She wanted the social power then she realized there were still other forms of social power that she didn’t have but deep down inside you can tell she wants those other girls “privileges” too
She seems like the type who wants to put others down bc it makes her feel big. But deep down inside she is completely hollow and lacking true self love and substance.
Right . If she gained the weight back would she still love herself?
I’m a WLS patient like Fannita. I get it. But I’d also like to remind her that there’s an 80% chance of regain of ALL or MORE of your initial weight loss in the first 18 months. Just saying. Being a pickmeisha is forever.
She thought that people would bow to her and compliment her 24/7 whenbshe lost lost weight. She also needs to realize that people dont fuck with her because she is loud and a bully.
Also she did weight loss purely for "looks and power". No mentioning of her health, and wellness
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she actually has mentioned her health before
@@theceech well we see those morals are out the window
Didn’t she get lipo lol ?
@@axisv99 Gastric bypass If I remember correctly. She will look Aged in no time. I work in surgery for a living I wouldn't suggest it to my worst enemy
Shes miserable
Shes the only person whos had a glow up and bombed it! lmbo internal work is so important.
Also I think its crazy she thinks people who are skinny or fit have immunity to do whatever they want .
I think she’s realizing that Skinny Priviledge doesn’t always mean Pretty Privilege and is spiraling out 🫠
Yeah her “skinny” was me at my biggest and I considered myself fat. But I guess different people have different standards ? 😮
@@ExoticalsUnited same 😂
@@justafellowsamaritan7845 true!
Bingo.
In my opinion, she has pretty privilege. She's beautiful, but her personality is ruining it.
She is the prime example of the UABW who wants to cultivate her phenotype while she looks down on those WITH HER PHENOTYPE.
Her phenotype is not winning though. 🤦🏽♀️
That shit’s wild innit?
@@AnAdorableWombat1it really aint😂
This ,1000% !!!
@@AnAdorableWombat1She’s pretty ! Yall just weird lol
I was hoping you would talk about this, and it’s very ironic how she views calling someone biracial as an insult but she wants a white guy, what does she think her children will be if she ever has a kid with a white guy?
Exactly that’s how I know these types of women don’t care about social justice it’s about social status 😂
Yep
She will (wrongly) say they are "just black with a white father, because the world sees them as black!" *eyeroll*. Same script...different day.
None of the white men she worships would ever get her pregnant lol so we don’t have to worry about that
I wouldn't worry about it. With a personality like hers, she's going to have to literally steal a WM's sperm in order to get a baby from one of them. No future biracial child is in jeopardy to be created with this one.🤣🤣🤣
Ngl stuff like makes me understand those people who only associate themselves with attractive people and avoid anyone they find unattractive 😭. It’s fucked up but I dealt with many Fannita’s and red-pilled men in my life to know how irritating they can be. They always make being the “ugly kid” their whole personalities. I understand how traumatizing people mistreating you for your looks can be but they use that as an excuse to be assholes. They. come for people’s looks like they weren’t crying about how a boy or girl asked them out for a date.
When you said that these people don’t want to make a change and want privilege, I clapped my hands. She is mad that losing weight didn’t give her the stardom and privilege her white competitors like Alix Earle have. I remember watching a video of a woman saying that since she’s considered attractive, she gotta be careful with woman who aren’t on her level because of how much they trip over anything she does. I feel like Fannita will be one of those older women at jobs who “school” younger girls and yap about how they shouldn’t be concerned with their looks because “beauty fades”.
I had a divestor come after me and say Celene is against interracial dating and black women leveling up. I don’t have any problems with interracial dating as long as it’s a happy fulfilling relationship. The issue I have with the divestment movement is they put white men on a pedestal most of them don’t deserve to be put on
Thanks for speaking on this topic! This is a great Case Study. I know a woman with this mentality. As soon as she got a tiny whiff of privilege, she began to act like a damn fool and really showed her true colors.. It’s shameful
That's why some people need to stay ugly
I think she still feels inferior somewhat. She seems so angry.
Yes she definitely feels inferior still and she’s hiding it behind all this boasting
It's the same thing as a truly wealthy person doesn't go around flexing on poor ppl. 1st because they have nothing to prove. 2nd because they don't get fulfilment out of low vibrational ppl being jealous of them. 3rd because they are focused on better things. She's not truly happy in her life & her actions show it.
I lost 20 kgs by myself and I have so much respect for the skinny girls and the girls that are on their weight loss journey. If her weight loss was essentially just handed to her she isn't 'spiritually' connected to her past body and her current one. I accept i do feel some type of way towards individuals that want pity because they're fat and don't want to work for their 'dream body'.
I’m not multiracial phenotypically but I’m actually glad that you’ve created a space for multiracial people, it was very needed.
Carrington was clearlyy uncomfortable when she was all overl him !! gross !!!
Yes and she randomly talked about him being good at eating 🐱. Imagine if you were out with a guy and he talked on social media about you being good at sucking 🍆 it’s giving desperate thirsty vibes
@@ExoticalsUnited Exactly!! I've seen clips of her a while back on tiktok where she was saying weird things like this to men. It made me cringee watching them 🤢
@@ExoticalsUnited some people don't have shame. Jesus wtf
it reminds me of how some UABW think they cant be rightfully criticized because they're all "at the bottom" like you said. However it's okay for them to act how they want and never take any accountably, it's so hypocritical.
Tbh it’s sounding like she’s talking to her old self and it’s sad to see as someone w a similar phenotype to her
Right, she seems to be talking to the women who represent her old self
She's a serious case study.
Also Fannita, like other uadsbw. Think that she’s entitled to white owned luxury brands to put her up first for band deals before someone like Alix Erkle, but luxury brands are seeing her wild out on the internet. So she basically just writes herself from getting brand deals by shiting on ww from the same community as the luxury brands
Right 😂😂
Inferior complexes coupled with mimetic desire is the epitome of nasty work. People like that are the danger.
They will try to clown pretty girls too and its embarrassing because they are clowning someone who they clearly feel is better than them
Real confidence is silent like a feather hitting concrete. Fake cconfidence is like super loud like a semi truck horn.
Don't know who this person is and I'm glad that I don't.
She’s a toxic tiktoker
@@honks9484 Thank you. I don't have tiktok.
@@honks9484Good I deleted the app😊
Damn 😂😂😂
No seriously.. I have so many thoughts. I don't even know where to begin ...
Just keep her far away from us 😭
i’m not lightskin, moreso a brownskin or darkskin woman (idk where i fall in the scale nor do i care) but hearing different perspectives from lighter skinned members of the black community is very interesting to me. the division in the black community really makes me upset. i wish we could all just see eachother as equals but i know that would be a difficult goal to accomplish due to the individuals in the community with inferiority complexes
This is such a great analysis video. I hope Fannita heals from those traumatic experiences. People can be so mean and fatphobic. Self love is so important. I do believe that Fannita needs to take accountability for the hurtful words she said online but I really hope she gets help for real.
She gives off the same energy as red pill men.
Exactly
It's really sad how big her ego is just for losing weight. It's still great for her, but does she want a reward for now being at a normal healthy weight?
Lowkey, she was always outspoken 💀 lmaooo she’s a real troll
Yes from what I saw it seems like that was always her personality, now she just feels like she can let it out more I’m guessing 😂
I completely agree with your take on this woman. I believe this is who she’s been the whole time and now has the confidence to do so. Very weird.
Everyone on black tiktok is going viral for analyzing fanitta. People are calling her manic, addicted to coke, token black girl etc....
Oh😮. But they're not lying though.
Prime example of while you can’t control what happens to you, you have complete control of how you react n that’s what defines someone. A lot of people including myself felt inferior earlier in life because of a number of reasons. For me I was overweight first my height and struggled socially and academically. I’ve now lost the excess weight and refined my talents into a career that pays well where I have a lot of respect, but there are those who repeat the toxic cycle and those who use their new found power to create change. I honestly feel nothing but pity for those who become their past selves worst enemy because in the end that’s all theyre doing, hurting their inner child.
Omg yes let’s talk about the guy who tries to go for confident women and try to ruin their confidence just to make themselves feel better
I was hoping you'd discuss Fannita. Prayers up for her, she's down bad emotionally and otherwise.
23:25 his name is carrington. he’s “the white boy of the month”-whichever white boy is popular online at the moment, usually for their looks.
which fannita prides herself on always having them on her podcast. she literally made a tiktok saying it 😭
Im like, girl, they dont like youuu. Stop😂
Another uabw I work around is very mean, rude , unhelpful and unprofessional towards me. She always bring up past mistakes that I corrected. She tried to get me written up at work but thankfully my boss sees through her delusional bullshit.
She reminds me of bitter envious highschool girl 🙄
Yep!
It’s like when people say they wanna bring back bullying…. Like it doesn’t happen still.. just not a good look for her at all.
Lets hope she doesn't add the weight back on lol😂😂😂
@@Love-Fashion-Makeup Life has a way of humbling people eventually.
😅😅😅 I am a mono racial light brown woman .these types of girls give me PTSD the kinds that were really mean😮😮😮😮😮😮 ..and for some strange reason they had a big head with no hair ,a struggle bun with 50 strands..I'm even scared ...🙉🙉🙉🙉🙉
Lmaooo @ struggle bun😂😂😂
I’m a light skin Ethiopian she reminds me of the girls who used to bully me in HS heavy on the PTSD 😭😭😭
It’s a shame the channels are complaining about exoticals making channels instead of addressing ladies that are ruining their image😬
Fannita is ruining their own image by making uadsbw to be known for being desperate for wm attention
Rollie Pollie from BGC is another great example of this.
QC calls women "hoes" constantly without even knowing the women. I unsubbed long ago because she downs certain M/LS artists that get a lot of streams for no reason according to her, but someonees listening to Ice Spice, Cardi, Coy Lerae, etc. Saying they're not attractive & their music is trash while pushing her, ummmm, "music" that's nowhere near the level the others are on. But, kudos to her for trying & doing what she loves.
I would love to be mean to people in their faces but I don't because, believe it or not, as a BLACK PASSING person, I also get accused of being an angry Black woman. And being mean only feels good for a moment because then I feel like trash for being snippy or rude when it was not called for, it's just not right. If you are mean and rude to people and it makes you feel better and you can't see yourself stopping, go get some therapy. She should confront the people who actually bullied her, that might help her heal
Girl hit the head on nail this so true about meaner plus size people I had it happen to me recently too the women was plus and not happy where she was at in life and I knoticed I was prettier than her but she was targeting me for a Least a year it’s crazy they be so mean too but thank god I am a really nice person and good one that just happens to be pretty with a good heart I love everybody hopefully she can heal and not hate beautiful women girl this is so true too
This always happens to me
@@nikicarrie4071 right girl I understand I go through it with those type of women sending u love beautiful 🫶🏽🌸🌸💕💕💕
This wrecks of 0% personality besides suffering, first she was on the passive side of suffering, next on the other extreme. The happy people know suffering is inevitable but navigate the waters and have a secure, fun journey ... "any guy/ furniture / material things you want I'll get" is so boring! Zero personality. No one can copy my gardening, photography, cooking, hair routine, etc etc my glow up is so subtle and powerful, I wore heels just to go to the library and was turning heads. Exotical tax!!!!
3:16 when I got a gigantic glow up about four years ago (went from purposely dressing myself in XXXL with a shaved head, literally, to allowing myself to be beautiful) I made it a point to not change my demeanor and keep acting cute, goofy and extra nice because I didn’t want people to assume I had turned out like that. I really really tried to keep off the cold bitch energy for as long as I could, sadly people are ridiculous and will abuse your kindness and niceness. Bitch energy it is now, they can assume all they want
Ohh I was waiting for you to talk on this!!!
Like the hypocrisy is insane!!
A girl who looks just like her tried this weird behavior on me. Went from being a fan to jealous stalker
I love your channel, i binge watch your videos for last week
Also if she was a real pretty girl like she thinks she is she wouldn’t be able to get away w acting a fool towards others lik…… y do u think Alex earl or Mecca has to be classy w their comebacks or not comeback at all
And also she said she has the same amount of followers and engagement as one of those girls and I checked the girls page, she has like 6 million followers … 😂 so of course they would pay her more
@@ExoticalsUnited omg I saw tht too just delulu!!! Nd wanna be them both!
18:36 Women who didn't take take no for an answer in the past (when pursuing my husband) have gotten cussed out for the disrespect lol. If he's pissed enough, it might even be in Portuguese 😂
Excellent vid! I only came across her kast week because of those vids and I clocked all this! It is very on the surface and clear to see and you laid it out so well. I wonder how self aware she is and whether she has introspection on what is going on with her but is pretending not to or if that is her blind spot and anyone attempting to tell her is a hater in her eyes?
Even though I am in the same place as Fanita in regards to weight and looks, stuff like that, im glad that im not the type of person she is - Although I may find myself being envious of other women’s looks I would NEVER go out of my way to disrespect, talk down to or just flat out be an ugly person to them or anyone else. It’s just childish and you shouldn’t do that. Everyone is already having a tough time in this time period as it is, we don’t need the extra nastiness added on. I understand how it feels to have been bullied & 💩 on so many times in life but the way she’s acting is just no way to go about it. You love & appreciate the ones who love you, you are kind to others, the ones who hurt you are the ones you should be after not everybody else. One thing I’ve had to learn growing up is that not EVERYBODY is out to get you. She should learn the same.
You’ll never succeed if your intentions were malicious to start
The title, the thumbnail, wow! Also, are you a licensed psychologist? Love the video. Please also do one of men with inferiority complexes.
I’ve never heard of her, but she sounds like an absolute terror now that she’s thin. 😬
Clearly her glow-up was/is based on revenge and nothing else. 🤔
shes not thin shes just a normal weight not skinny whatsoever
I was waiting on this!!
I'm ngl, I'm a brownskin woman but I love your channel! Ig bc people often mistake me as being mixed bc of my hair texture, but I often relate to a a lot of what you speak on.
wow! that’s sad because in that situation that you really feel like you did the work outside and not internally!
my ex bestie lol! She stank like fish always and was messing around bad whilst having a bf (how can she then talk the way she did bout her self?!?!) talking real bad bout everyone else to feel better herself, tried to literally copy my style and even my personality at one point.. ion think woman that always look at other gardens really got them good flowers they be talking bout!! 😂😮💨💐
I grew up with DSBW like thiiiiis… it sucks… it sucks when you can lose the weight…. And still not meet the beauty standard… doesn’t matter how mean you are… you’ll never meet the standard… doesn’t matter how thin you get… still won’t meet the standard. Instead of finding your value in other concrete places … you chose to focus all of your energy on your looks… and she’s still at the bottom… that’s GOTTA suck!
Yes I agree. It sucks to pretend you look just like skinny exoticals when you don’t
This was a great video 🫶🏽.
This is very creepy and weird for an adult. Very damaged child like mindset. I had no idea this was a real thought process. 🙆🏽♀️
For most of my life, I thought I was "at the bottom." I didn't mind being ugly, but I did speak up when I was clearly disrespected.
I took the space to explore myself and develop a strong character. Learned a few useful skills along the way.
I've come to find out, through my (white) husband, that I was a totally alienated "exotical" and highly attractive.
Jokes on them. I developed into a confident, resourceful, well-traveled woman with lucrative tech skills and living with a strong hard-working provider of a husband.
A classic Pickmeisha.
She sounds terrifying
not the 3xual harassment of a white man though IM SCREAMING
I see why God gave some women beauty and didn't give others. They put a wig on and start acting like they're better than other people. Put on makeup and fake hair and start talking about how beautiful they are. Real actual pretty girls are humble
When people show you who they are... believe them the first time 🌊🌊🌊
This might be a stretch but I think she wants to be like Nara Smith I just got that feeling…
@purplelove937 Adding to a comment i seen on this video, i currently am working on a video talking about fetishization of white and foreign men that NO ONE seems to tall about. We talk about how black men fetishize white women and vice versa and white men fetisizhing black women but never Address how black women such as myself also fetishize men SPECIFICALLY white and foreign men, simply because of the idea of being with a white man as well as it being rooted in classism and what is associated with white men. Idk if im wording this right bur i wish we talked about it more
Yes that’s a great idea !
Stop embarrassing yourself simpqueen.
Why doesn’t she level up instead of being so desperate! Wow this is embarrassing for her
Glow up gone wrong!!
Not she looked better before ...
It's moments like these where I realize I have more personal development to do 😂😂😂
While she git her outfit from fashion nova , i know cause i shop there 😂😂
Divestment gone wrong...
Is that Carrington? That white boy
Nailed it
Angry revenge
I couldn’t watch all, she seems hurt. Hurt people hurt people 🌸 there is nothing wrong with helping others to feel better and do better in the world 🌎
THIS IS MISERY! NOT ANYTHING ELSE
Fannita is SO annoying idc
YESSSS I LIVE THIS VIDEO
Ngl chioma’s corny AF sometimes and I let her know that
Kinda reminds me of Patty from Netflix’s Insatiable
😩😩 Very sad case
i didn’t expect you to talk this, but let me grab my popcorn and drink 😭🩷
I didn’t expect to talk about it either until I saw a bunch of clips 😂😂😂
She is Narcissist
Omg are you kidding me?? She harrassed Carrington??.. World really is small. I been following him for a year...
Girl I thought she was on a coke binge lol jk
Omg! I’ve been waiting for you to cover this!! 🥳
Im not surprised
Not finnitaaaa 😭😭😭