Respect your native mother back in the day that was a nationality black is not a Nationality I am a Native Dutch woman and I will help anybody the corrupt system label me as black because under the 14th amendment you are a dead entity no standing in law cannot enter into a contract
This is my very first time on your channel but when I clicked on this video I was listening and the first few sentences that you said honestly put me into tears because you hit the nail right on the head perfectly. I felt everything that you said because my own family treated me like garbage and I'm from a mixed diverse family including african-caribbean descent and I have a 3 year old daughter and I am currently pregnant with my second child and when you said those words that we get treated battery is very true because I am the only one in my family to get put in foster care and was never adopted because of the simple fact that nobody wanted me but people just wanted to abuse me. My children have a African-American male father and I got treated like a piece of trash right here and I am trying to manage my daughters to be more respectful to themselves and to others and to not become what they see or how they feel because I never want them to go through what I went through.
I was in a store a lil white boy lost his brother he walked passed 3 white people and came straight to me asking for help finding his brother in the store. The white people looked stunned as I said ok baby what color are his clothes and how old is he. It's in our DNA to do that. Our ancestors survived in this country cause the women were strong.
I’m Asian but grew up in a black neighborhood in Philly and we were welcomed and cared for - especially by black women. That’s why my friends and i say, “Trust black women. Periodt. Oh, and always remember to season your food!
I’m of Mexican descent and onetime I was on my bicycle and somehow my foot got trapped between the wheel and the fork. A black woman helped me and carried me all the way back home. Im 74 and I never forgot her. I was raised around black people and to this day they are my favorite people.
Awww baby im black and honestly yall are my favorite too. Yall dont act all timid and untrusting of us like wht people do and that is hood karma. There are bad black people of course but the average black person especially weman will protect u and defend u.
Speak for yourself. Would him or his mother acknowledge a black woman as a love interest? Some of us aren’t muling for anyone. Go and seek help elsewhere!
We are meant to be a light to the whole world. Not just black females but both the males and females that are the most hated in a world given to Satan. It will hate what God loves most
I love us! Because most of us are "love"... I have to thank and acknowledge GOD for putting Love in our spirits and our ❤'s... I mean it when I say, "I love everyone. Except for anyone who hates me for no particular reason... skin color is not my problem..."GOD" chose to make us/ we/ me who I am... We all should strive to love one another regardless of our culture... when we get to heaven, only the righteous will survive. Hearts are read, seen by God...ijs
I almost hate it how compassionate we are, how empathetic black women are. And we go through the most trauma. Thank you for recognizing. Thank you to all the black women in your life that led you here 👏🏾🙏🏾💯🥰
I just wish black women would uplift each other more. Stop all the fighting, embarrassing themselves on these shows for other people's entertainment. We are so much more.
He's not wrong. We ARE the most disrespected group. Our style is considered vulgar, but if a white woman decides to appropriate it, it's cute and trendy. If we assert ourselves in the face of abuse, racism, etc., you're the "angry black woman," but if someone else of another hue gets angry, people listen. We're considered dirty, but it was our ancestors who cleaned your nasty houses. We are considered ugly, manly, not ladylike, etc. If we create a line of products specifically for Black women, we are not being "inclusive", while at the same time, we have had generations of women having to use makeup that doesnt match our skin tone, and use products that destroy our hair in order to be accepted in this God-forsaken world. And to be honest, it's getting old, and we are tired. We need to stop getting lumped together with stereotypes that do not fit all of us. The majority of us are educated, entrepreneurial, family-oriented, and willing to share the spirit of love to anyone who enters our space. The problem is, we don't get that love on return. After generations of being treated like shit, don't be surprised that the tiger you keep poking won't bite back.
In My country afro hair is consider """inapropiate"" for work, is unkepmt or something around that ....liek excuse me ??? S afro women either keep it in a tight bun (which is scientitifically proven to induce traction allopecia )) or they use relaxers .... Is SO sad, cuz by being black means a Lot of extra money just to achieve bare minimum for straight hair .... Exists
You've worded this perfectly. Everything we had is made fun of but when a white woman does it it's cute and trendy. Like the bbls and lip fillers. When we used to be made fun of for our big bums and big lips
@@robinhall3893 I’m a Black woman and this is a LIE!! We have exceptions who do try, but my deepest scars come from Black women. But I’m grateful for social media bc we are becoming aware of our traumas and trying to rise above the cycle of abuse Black women (and men too honestly, but this is about women) inflict on one another.
Hahahaha. They’re not standing up for black women. They’re saying that black women are to be used by everyone, even those who don’t reciprocate the kindness. I’m amazed that this comment section thinks being a mammy is a compliment.
I’m Asian and when I first came to America, I got lost from my parents after getting off the plane… it took a Beautiful Black/ African American mother to stand by my side to help me find my parents because I got lost till this day my parents and I am Grateful to this Beautiful Goddess… Thank you Mrs. Deidre I’m forever 🙏 Grateful for everything you done to help me at the time of frustration and lost.
@@ame5723 I have enough sense to know that if anybody child gets missing and looks lost, I will pray that God would have anybody or everybody looking for that child’s parents for them !! in other words I believe anybody would come to the rescue of a child
47 year old white man here. I honestly can’t count the times I was given help by a black woman. You name it. Food, ride to or from work, access to a phone I am not supposed to use. The list goes on. They were never stupid and they always showed me love. Nothing but respect.
@@sashalawrence4786 he is doing it right here. We don’t fulfil good deeds in hopes of a “return” but to feed kindness into our soul & keep the energy around us pure. As long as he stays in our corner when we’re innocently faced with adversity is enough for me. The acknowledgment & gratefulness is enough for me. Maybe there hasn’t been an opportunity for him to be our saviour yet? But I hope he continues to execute this attitude throughout his life and protect us if need be
Every Nation enslaved our ancestors and we are still spreaded across the four corners of this world. Still in captivity. We are not a color in a crayon box nor by-words. HEBREW
Our worth isnt based in being the mules of society . Anyone 45 and under with self esteem and doing the inner work to decolonise the mind doesn’t see this as a compliment.
Thank you Young Man for Acknowledging us😢As Black Woman,I Appreciate whatu said, because most of the time we are Put Down by our own Black Men. Thank You So Much. Love ❤️
You made this grown black man shed some tears with those words. I just thought about my 90 year old mother who we lost this year. Growing up, Our home was always full of neighborhood kids who she treated like her own. Her love for people, often complete strangers, continued until her last breath.
I’m a black women who wants to say; Thank you for your very kind and heartwarming words, it means a lot. I think your Mom has raised a compassionate, deep, and empathetic young man. Blessings to you and your family.🙏🏾♥️🙏🏾♥️🙏🏾♥️🙏🏾
Exactly ❤us as Black Women are the most interesting appreciate most disrespected out of human raise. When we are the chosen ones by God we love all no matter what we will help all because we are love ❤🎉God bless all Black Woman remember we are special and we are the light ❤
This made me cry happy tears. When I move down from Philadelphia to South Carolina, I was alone no family, no husband no children no mother. Black women save my life. They took me in when I was homeless. They fed me when I was hungry. They gave me wisdom that I did not have being raised in a small Philadelphia neighborhood. I am grateful with every ounce of my being. We should all be like black women. Strong, powerful patient loving and fierce. Thank you for this post. ❤
@saadmustafauk YES! THANK you for your genuine compliment, Sa’ad! 🙏🏾 I’m so happy you and your family were loved on during rough times. I myself have experienced this when most others look down upon you. I feel like they are the hands and feet of Jesus sometimes. Most of us are raised to show this type humanity to our fellow man by our grandmothers and mothers. Blessings! ❤
Im a white woman and I really call on all my white brothers and sisters to dig into the roots of our racism and work to REMOVE it from our mindset. I’ve learned that I need to work on my mindset daily to keep moving forward on changing the white superiority in my mindset. I definitely don’t have it all figured out, but I’ve grown so much from doing anti-racism work. Black women ARE all the things you say and it’s time for the weight of racism to be lifted…more and more everyday, so that those who are treated the worst, can live free from the lies of racism.
I honestly felt your heart in this post.😢 Thank you for your bravery in acknowledging the ignorance of racism. We all, as a people, need to focus on loving one another as well as accepting and respecting each other's differences. As long as you and I move forward WITHOUT that deceiving mindset of darkness, WE WIN!!! Let's allow the LOVE of Christ Jesus to illuminate from within us daily. One by one, day by day, WE all will benefit significantly by this much needed change.❤🧔🏾🧔♂️👩🦰👩🦳🧑🏽🦲👨🏻🦰👵👩🏼🦱👱♀️🧔🏿♂️👱👶🏻👶🏾👨🏿🦱👨🏼👵🏾 May your day be richly blessed.🙏🏾🫶🏿❤
Man, if only this comment can impact the entire nation! This is called being lucrative, taking action, and being affective! May not reach the nation, but it’ll reach someone! God bless you and all others you bring clarity to! ❤️🙏🏽🙌🏽
ALL OF THIS! I am one of those black women... One time I saved a young white child who was peeping over the tracks at the public transportation system subway. I spoke softly to the child, got her to take my hand and asked where her mom and dad were and she took me to them. They spanked her for "going" with a stranger and never even said thanks to me. God put me in the right place to save the little one and that was all the reward and praise I needed!
Thank you for being there! I'm so sorry that their shame for their inadequacies as parents and apparent racism treated you as invisible. They would have gone to prison if it wasn't for you.
I agree with you I just turned 62 myself and I have been through a lot with these other communities and I'm still standing strong and you know what sister, I have boiled it down to they are purely jealous, and not all females from different community I'm just speaking of the ones whom I have encountered and I can see it on their faces, I'm a security guard and I sat down a lot but when I stand up and walk around and do my tours of the buildings, they just looks at me and AWE!!! I'm 5'10 and tall in statue and a few of the white females who I communicate with, it's three large corporate office buildings where I work where I do security and a lot of them were like WOW!!!! I had no idea you were that tall!!! cuz I'm tall and statue and then plus I weigh like over 200 lb but it do not show I carry it very well And when they see me walking down the hall or something they just look at up at me like wow I didn't know you were This tall and that makes me feel good because I feel like a warrior, which that I am I truly am because us as black women's we are constantly at war with society but I take it all in stride and I continue to smile and I keep the peace and joy in my heart that I am blessed with be proud of yourselves young black women older women and very mature women an age cuz we are some bad MA'AM JAMMERS 🎶🎶🎶🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👍🏿🙏🏿
Appreciation doesn’t pay the bills. At your age I would think you would understand that. Younger black women are dying off at alarming rates. We are crashing out. We are tired. And appreciation doesn’t move the needle on any of the metrics that are needed to survive. Grow up
As a child, my neighbor was a black woman who made me meals and gave me the best grape Kool aid when I was hungry and thirsty and I will never forget she stood with me my first day in kindergarten and has passed on.... Thank you Annette
He is 100% WRONG. We are not the world’s “help”, we are not the global maids and we are not laying in wait to take care of everyone else’s kids. Read the comments of Black women on this channel. We are tired of these backhanded compliments.
@@autumnjade815 Sis I don't think that he meant it that way. I think that he is speaking from a place of love and respect for the black women who have shaped his life. As a black woman I can totally understand and feel where you are coming from because I have also been in those situations. But I don't that this young man means it that way. You have a blessed one and be safe out there.
@@aysdailey I have to agree with you that I don’t think he meant it in that way but I see that as part of the problem. I have noticed that non Black POCs are very good at highlighting WS while not discussing the anti Black sentiment they have within their own community. He may have had good intentions but he also knows Black kids could never rely on his community for help. He knows that same Indian mother who told her child to look to a BW for help would not be happy if he brought one home as a wife. That’s the problem.
I am a 68 year old black woman, and I can’t even run anymore but I have a Mouth, and I know how to use it! I’m with you honey, sign me up! I try to help my black women as much as I can. But we as black women have to take charge of our own lives and not depend on men to prop us up, black or white! Learn to take care of your own health, and I don’t mean we get skinny as rails to be taken seriously! Look at Jasmine Crockett, just look at OUR PROUD BLACK YOUNG CONGRESS WOMAN from TEXAS! She is the kind of woman I would want a daughter of mine to be like! We need to learn how to HELP, GIVE AID to all that need it! To let them know they matter, and are needed to help the next generations coming up behind us! To give them a BLUEPRINT OF WHAT AND HOW TO PRESENT AND ACHIEVE ALL THE THINGS THEY ARE CAPABLE OF! GOD BLESS US BLACK WOMEN!
But who can black women run too? Are white women as willing to help black women as you have be trained that black women are willing to do? This sickens me.
@utubechannel3846That's not me nor my daughters AT ALL!!! I don't know who you're hanging out with, but I want ALL of my sisters to succeed and how to achieve their goals!!! 💯💯💯
@utubechannel3846 Maybe the ppl you know & the things you’ve seen that others put on tv or internet for views. In reality most of us are getting on with the pursuit of life - education, family, community, faith, work.
@utubechannel3846 😂😂😂. Who is this we you speak of? My family doesn't behave this way. Neither do the people in my circle. You are an agent. Spread love❤
As a black woman myself this is heart felt.. however for so many centuries black woman have helped/carried so many and have received little in return.. black woman are getting tired of carrying ours and are now going to focus on ourselves..
We are not mules and labour. Do you know what that mother would call a black woman if he decided to date her? They view us as the help. I'm sickened by the comments on here praising this nonsense.
Thank you for explaining in detail how special a black woman is. Black men, please list to this young man's emotional stance on black woman. Brother Ty, ❤❤❤❤for your kind words
Jamaican is a culture not a race!! AfricanAmerican the white man created that title!! Black is what we are for real!! We were called black because of our skin color!! We were black as Slaves!! What changed??
When I was a young white girl from Sweden who had no knowledge of how to navigate school in the US, who befriended me, who came to my rescue, who showed me the ropes? Black girls, that’s who! I love each & every one of them & still treasure their friendships even if it’s in memory. Their moms were bad friggin ass too!!
@Kevin.e.Turner He's not black, so why would he? 😅 Don't be offended. I've had other races that helped me. That doesn't mean I'd want to marry into those cultures. I have my own!
@@Kevin.e.TurnerYou really don’t know that for certain, because he doesn’t really address dating or marriage. You are simply assuming. Now, go do something productive with your pathetic life.
@@Kevin.e.Turner why would she? And why would he be obligated to marry a black woman just cuz hes humane and supports us? You sound bitter and delusional.
@@Yahshuaismyeverything I’m cringy???👀…..You got that right- I’m NOT talking to you. Those who know, know!….….. hope you feel better getting that one off🤣
@@Pebbles0831 But the thing about us black folks, we already know !! Some of them other ones is just finding it all out …because they’ve been lied to for so many years!!
Thank you for jumping in to rescue them when they would have never done the same for you? What videos do you see of black women in danger and someone running to rescue them?
I couldn't be the success that I am as a black man if it wasn't for the love of my black women in my life!!! Thank you my BLACK, BEAUTIFUL AND LOVING BLACK WOMAN!!!!
@@timothyleebrown1593 Success according to you. Because to some black men, success is the bare minimum. I bet if I asked her she would tell a different story.
@@theunicornishere I bet you have a lot of nerve to assume something based on your limited knowledge. I am a retired military officer. I can see you are very arrogant .
He’s not wrong. I watched my mom‘s 🇯🇲 kindness towards everybody. It’s remarkable. Even when we are mistreated, we find someway to be joyful and to treat others with kindness.
Your mother is right. I am a so- called black woman. The Black Woman is the mother of civilization. I will give you the shirt off of my back to keep you warm. Thank you for your acknowledgement. We’ll do it anyway. HalleluYah 💙 Be safe
All Loved in these times, but there is great heap in acknowledging those who have given us strength to keep going if just a sweet tight hug. True kindness and help, Acceptance because we were alike when we too felt shunned for no good reason. ❤
I am engaged to a wonderful african woman. I question her parental skills though. And there things of her culture I don't understand. But it's because black American women are so hateful that I had to look to Africa for a quality woman. I hope things work out for us. But she'll. Need to let me be a man. I can protect her from hateful whites and blacks in this usa if she listens to how I instruct her to navigate and not trust black and white Americans. I don't even trust.
@greenytaddict Yes she well. I hope I pull it together. Even though I think badly of black Americans it doesn't translate to africans. I compartmentalize the two.
We as a group are tired of having to help everyone when we don't get any help in return. We have not been placed on this earth to look after the world and work ourselves to death taking care of other people. We aren't the world's mammy.
Idk if I fully agree. We are the original mother of humanity, of ALL mankind… sure we aren’t anyone’s “mammy” but even for those of us who are childless (me🙋🏽♀️) people of ALL races and genders know that they are safe with us (majority of us)
I agree wholeheartedly!!! We can become readily despised just for shining and doing things in an excellent way. As in the words of the late poet, Maya Angelou: “You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still like air, I rise”
Thank you Thank you Thank you!!! Prayerfully like one white woman pointed out in her comment above, she is working on ridding her psyche of the toxic white superiority mindset imbued from years prior which I think is a remarkably STRONG MOVE!!! 💪 Prayerfully, other races will glean from her MOVE and look at the person in the mirror starring back at them and deliberately MAKE A CHANGE in Jesus' name, Amen!!! 🙏
We have done it throughout the years. That’s how we made it through slavery and Jim Crow and the Civil Rights Movement and, now Black Lives Matter. Other countless advocacy groups. The sororities, the societies and social clubs, the neighborhood groups, etc. Nothing like the Sistahood!
Amen. That's the secret his mother was telling him. God's chosen will never hurt anyone but it's portrayed on media tel lie vision as a projection. Illusion. ❤
@@Royalty40 Yess, media, telievison has brain washed the world to see Blks as a menace, a threat, when in reality they miss the real threats, the real menace, but we know exactly who they are, and others are opening their eyes and seeing clearer.
Thank you so much. You are the best ever! U brought tears. Not very often do we get flowers. Not even from our own brothers who seem to navigate to any other race but their own.
I’m grateful for the two black women who stood up for me and were my friends at work when I was being bullied by two black, mean women in my department.
Thx you for all black women. I don't have any children but all children are our children. Perhaps bc of an inate nurturing spirit that most women should have. 5:04 It's nice of you to say it to world.
Not that we need other people's approval, but this is why we have to look out for and support ourselves. Because clearly other communities are looking to us to uphold the strong "Black woman trope" and I don't want that for us. This time around, let's live and enjoy our lives without feeling like the world is on our shoulders or like we gotta be the martyrs for others. We're human beings, too...
Thank you so much for lifting black women up like this. I am a black woman and your words remind me of my family of strong, fierce, but loving black women. Thank you💖💖🥰
Too much ain't shitness on both sides, unfortunately. Riding for the wrong people and taking the pain caused by said wrong people and dumping it on the good people that are trying to help and do better. Wrapping their whole entire personalities and existence in drugs, money, sex, and violence instead of the things that actually matter. A lot of it has to do with some being too afraid to call out the bad behavior in the company they keep because their afraid of becoming the target/victim of their ire and spite. It's sad.
@@slippyquack7672Well, BM have failed their community for centuries. Yet, they still expect things from BW. Even BM complain about BM failure. When you ask BM why they don't do the things for the community that even BW do, they say it's because there aren't enough supposed good BM to work with.
@@mrsjwp588black men have literally fought and died through out the course of history just so you could inevitably speak your mind and opinion on social media today 🤷🏾♂️
The unfortunate thing attest to the safety bw bring, but bw aren't afforded that same safety by others, a lot of the time. Bw are naturally nurturers, giving, loving, selfless and extremely feminine and beautiful. Why should bw be expected to be mamies, cooks and carers to everyone? Protective towards others without being protected on return? Nah..
I really needed this message!! I've been feeling quite down these days, due to us as black women enduring constant discrimination and disrespectful behavior from others!! They only see us for our beauty and our bodies but not our hearts or our souls and the love that we show to others, regardless of what we're going through!! So yeah, I really needed this message today!! Thank you for the beautiful and kind words!!
I commend you brother for making this video. I am not a black female (I'm female Asian like yourself) but you are absolutely correct. The black woman and her family that raised and protected me during the day for years while my parents went to work in the early 70s...where would I be. She watched a group of us kids, kept us fed, made sure we washed and said grace before eating, protected us. She was strict with us old school southern style. She did not play but we were in good hands with her. All of my best friends in my entire life to this day have been black females. I'm always aware of who accepts me and welcomes me and would stand by me just as you said...always a black female.
I hope your mom also told you when you are looking to start a family - look to marry a black woman. This is all true & a sweet sentiment but its simultaneously - exhausting for some of us. See black women as ideal wives, partners, damsels, innovators, women to be pampered, held, & honored....not only helpers when in need.
How she gon tell him who to be attracted to and who to marry and build a family with? What’s wrong with him being with his own? O my goodness these bitter black females!
How desperate do you sound? We are not supposed to marry the other nations. What are you talking about girl get a grip!!!!!!!! I could smell the desperation through the phone📞 !! If black men don’t wanna marry you, then stand still girl you’ll be alright.
Exactly. Many of these men decide to seriously date us once they’ve been through the other races-married and had children-serious commitments. We’re typically seen as either a fantasy or an afterthought.
I have to agree! We sure are there to build up every culture... including our own, but never receive the build up. Then videos like this come along and we eat it up. Then we look up and see the Justin Timberlake, Robin Thicke's, J Cole, Omari Hardwick's, etc of the world. Sad to see these are men the black community has built up, but we get looked over.
That’s a good point! And then they’ll say, “well Black women just aren’t my preference” but people need to personally examine why they have their “preferences”, if they look closely and honestly it’s really just rooted in racism…like so many other things!
This Black Senior Woman 🌻 Has Served...others All my life. Gave up my plate so another Precious one could eat. My kids asked me one day a lady came by on a Sunday...Stranger and asked for food begging and Moma why you give her food and our last $5 which was 35 years ago? My reply was Silence and a hug. They are 50's 40's today and They do the same 😂 Those who are hurt the Most.... Love and Give Everything!!! We have a System that NO BANK could count... A well that NEVER goes DRY!!! It Flows like a Mighty Stream. THANK 🌻 YOU Precious one
Literally only the 3rd video I've ever seen where someone non black sees us as we actually are. Not what they see focused on in social media or TV. It's sad...but I appreciate this. My daughters appreciate this. ❤
I kept skipping over this video because I thought it would be derogatory. But, I just wanted to say THANK YOU. We are wonderful, smart, caring and a loving set of human beings, BLACK WOMEN!
Thank you my dear, I will call you Son Oh dear, I'm crying😢😢. You are so right and honest n grateful.No one has ever said this to me, to us. I LOVE you n send a big virtual hug to you. May God continue to richly bless you.
Instead of that, how about we hold the landlords and corporations accountable for their skyrocketing prices and greed? So everyone would be able to pay rent which is affordable for them@@gloriajose3088
@@gloriajose3088I think it was deeper than that! Every genuine person who knows that someone is reliable and always ready to help tends to just love and help that person back. His mother meant that he could find in a black woman that true friend. I'm not sure that by saying that she wanted to teach him to use black women!🤔
I’m appreciative of his kind words and defense of Black women but when he said that his mother told him and his siblings that if they were “ever in trouble in the real world, look for a Black woman” it brought to my remembrance a book that I read years ago titled, “In Search of Our Mother’s Gardens” by Alice Walker. In that book, she said that Black women are seen as “the mule of the world.” We are also seen as the mammy, caretaker, courtesan, and comforter. This upset me because it’s the truth. Black women are expected to shoulder burdens that others refuse! It’s one thing to thank Black women for their phenomenal ability to love, accept, and nurture others when they seek us out in their time of need but it’s another thing to expect that we do so without reciprocating. We selflessly pour into others' lives but who’s pouring into ours? Who is saving us? Who do we seek out in our time of need? As Malcolm X said (and the statement that kind young man tried to quote), “The most disrespected person in America, is the black woman. The most unprotected person in America is the black woman. The most neglected person in America is the black woman.” Replace “America” with “the world”!
That's right! And sadly he's infected by that trope of the strong black woman. Did you hear the part where he said something about seeing the inner person instead if looking at beauty as if we're to be treated with compassion and appreciation in spite of our lack of physical beauty. Wth?. He meant well but he can't see us. He's under the illusion of some very old stereotypes that we're the mules of the world as you so eloquently pointed out.
@@Nina-fh1bgexactly beautiful queen. More black kings and queens need to determine the difference between genuine love and appreciation that is certainly reciprocated and low vibrational pandering. Many politicians will use the same talking points as this arab/middle eastern looking guy in order to get black ppls vote and support. Then soon as they get what they want from us they disregard us and our needs and don’t pay us any attention until the next election season. Only way we can truly survive is with each other ❤️🤎❤️👩🏾❤️💋👨🏾
It’s not to late to seek God 💙 - linktr.ee/chandrameriel
Respect your native mother back in the day that was a nationality black is not a Nationality I am a Native Dutch woman and I will help anybody the corrupt system label me as black because under the 14th amendment you are a dead entity no standing in law cannot enter into a contract
Damn, bro. Black woman here and I will help anyone...most especially a child....of any race❤
@@tanisha.r.thomas so would I. Most of my friends are of another race. I love everyone.
This is my very first time on your channel but when I clicked on this video I was listening and the first few sentences that you said honestly put me into tears because you hit the nail right on the head perfectly. I felt everything that you said because my own family treated me like garbage and I'm from a mixed diverse family including african-caribbean descent and I have a 3 year old daughter and I am currently pregnant with my second child and when you said those words that we get treated battery is very true because I am the only one in my family to get put in foster care and was never adopted because of the simple fact that nobody wanted me but people just wanted to abuse me. My children have a African-American male father and I got treated like a piece of trash right here and I am trying to manage my daughters to be more respectful to themselves and to others and to not become what they see or how they feel because I never want them to go through what I went through.
I was in a store a lil white boy lost his brother he walked passed 3 white people and came straight to me asking for help finding his brother in the store. The white people looked stunned as I said ok baby what color are his clothes and how old is he. It's in our DNA to do that. Our ancestors survived in this country cause the women were strong.
First to be disrespected and the first to be relied on.
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You said a mouthful there
This!!!!!
Yea tired of helping people. Then when ridiculed silence. Little defense. GO TO THEM OTHERS FOR HELP.
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As a black woman I appreciate this message
Same! Thank you for putting this out there. This was beautiful. @Daughter of the Most High
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So do I Queen Sistah...so do I❤🎉
Amen. 🤍
Same here ❤
I’m Asian but grew up in a black neighborhood in Philly and we were welcomed and cared for - especially by black women. That’s why my friends and i say, “Trust black women. Periodt. Oh, and always remember to season your food!
I hope you showed the same appreciation.
Support a Black woman by voting for Kamala Harris for President 💙
As a Black woman from Philly, that’s good to hear that! 😊
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lol.. illy Philly
As a black woman I love you like a son💙
I wish you are my mom as my family is extremely violent and I feel like I need a loving family. From POC with love.
I’m of Mexican descent and onetime I was on my bicycle and somehow my foot got trapped between the wheel and the fork. A black woman helped me and carried me all the way back home. Im 74 and I never forgot her. I was raised around black people and to this day they are my favorite people.
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Awww baby im black and honestly yall are my favorite too. Yall dont act all timid and untrusting of us like wht people do and that is hood karma. There are bad black people of course but the average black person especially weman will protect u and defend u.
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We love yall too ❤
What a beautiful tribute to Black women. We thank you!
Sorry so many black men don't see black women the same way he does 😢😢😢
Yes indeed. ❤
Speak for yourself. Would him or his mother acknowledge a black woman as a love interest? Some of us aren’t muling for anyone. Go and seek help elsewhere!
@jaijai5250 would you take a black woman home🤔🤔
@@dianeholmes2097why not. This is terrible to say! You shouldn’t be taken home
I'm a black woman and a nurse. Thank you and yes I'm crying right now ❤
We are meant to be a light to the whole world. Not just black females but both the males and females that are the most hated in a world given to Satan. It will hate what God loves most
Me too sis, such a beautiful message♥️
I love us! Because most of us are "love"... I have to thank and acknowledge GOD for putting Love in our spirits and our ❤'s... I mean it when I say, "I love everyone. Except for anyone who hates me for no particular reason... skin color is not my problem..."GOD" chose to make us/ we/ me who I am... We all should strive to love one another regardless of our culture... when we get to heaven, only the righteous will survive. Hearts are read, seen by God...ijs
Me too, I am also a Black woman and a nurse!
Me four ❤❤❤❤😢😢😢
I’m a black woman with a heart of gold 💛 Any child is safe with me!!
I almost hate it how compassionate we are, how empathetic black women are. And we go through the most trauma. Thank you for recognizing. Thank you to all the black women in your life that led you here 👏🏾🙏🏾💯🥰
Sometimes compassion comes from traumatic experiences.
Compassionate for our enemies ain’t really compassion. We are filled with fear rejection and self hate and always looking for love.
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I just wish black women would uplift each other more. Stop all the fighting, embarrassing themselves on these shows for other people's entertainment. We are so much more.
He's not wrong. We ARE the most disrespected group. Our style is considered vulgar, but if a white woman decides to appropriate it, it's cute and trendy. If we assert ourselves in the face of abuse, racism, etc., you're the "angry black woman," but if someone else of another hue gets angry, people listen. We're considered dirty, but it was our ancestors who cleaned your nasty houses. We are considered ugly, manly, not ladylike, etc. If we create a line of products specifically for Black women, we are not being "inclusive", while at the same time, we have had generations of women having to use makeup that doesnt match our skin tone, and use products that destroy our hair in order to be accepted in this God-forsaken world. And to be honest, it's getting old, and we are tired. We need to stop getting lumped together with stereotypes that do not fit all of us. The majority of us are educated, entrepreneurial, family-oriented, and willing to share the spirit of love to anyone who enters our space. The problem is, we don't get that love on return. After generations of being treated like shit, don't be surprised that the tiger you keep poking won't bite back.
Thats why this world is going to hell in a hand basket for disrespecting us.
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In My country afro hair is consider """inapropiate"" for work, is unkepmt or something around that ....liek excuse me ??? S afro women either keep it in a tight bun (which is scientitifically proven to induce traction allopecia )) or they use relaxers .... Is SO sad, cuz by being black means a Lot of extra money just to achieve bare minimum for straight hair .... Exists
Exactly 💯💯💯
Everything You Said ❤
You've worded this perfectly. Everything we had is made fun of but when a white woman does it it's cute and trendy. Like the bbls and lip fillers. When we used to be made fun of for our big bums and big lips
I pray one day Black women will learn to love one another as much as we love everybody else.
-Black American woman
ALL BLACKS ARE NOT THE SAME!! Praise God we not…please don’t put us all in the same box! Overall the AVERAGE BLACK ARE WONDERFUL PEOPLE!
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I’m a Black woman and this is a LIE!! We have exceptions who do try, but my deepest scars come from Black women. But I’m grateful for social media bc we are becoming aware of our traumas and trying to rise above the cycle of abuse Black women (and men too honestly, but this is about women) inflict on one another.
😢 💯 facts
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@joyadams4883 Yes, and realize that we are allies, and not enemies.
Thank you for standing up for black women
Hahahaha. They’re not standing up for black women. They’re saying that black women are to be used by everyone, even those who don’t reciprocate the kindness. I’m amazed that this comment section thinks being a mammy is a compliment.
@@jaijai5250 I’m amazed you interpreted it that way and that that’s what you got out of it. Literally no one is saying that.
@@thelymewarriorLet him be in delusion.
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I’m Asian and when I first came to America, I got lost from my parents after getting off the plane… it took a Beautiful Black/ African American mother to stand by my side to help me find my parents because I got lost till this day my parents and I am Grateful to this Beautiful Goddess… Thank you Mrs. Deidre I’m forever 🙏 Grateful for everything you done to help me at the time of frustration and lost.
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I believe anybody child gets lost anybody with her sense enough and love enough to help!!
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I have enough sense to know that if anybody child gets missing and looks lost, I will pray that God would have anybody or everybody looking for that child’s parents for them !! in other words I believe anybody would come to the rescue of a child
@@robinhall3893 But you don't have enough sense to understand that the OP simply recalled an instance where a Black woman stopped to help.
That's your answer@@robinhall3893
@@DeniseV
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47 year old white man here. I honestly can’t count the times I was given help by a black woman. You name it. Food, ride to or from work, access to a phone I am not supposed to use. The list goes on. They were never stupid and they always showed me love. Nothing but respect.
Big up 👊🏾 😊
How have you ever supported or protected us in return?
@@sashalawrence4786 he is doing it right here. We don’t fulfil good deeds in hopes of a “return” but to feed kindness into our soul & keep the energy around us pure. As long as he stays in our corner when we’re innocently faced with adversity is enough for me. The acknowledgment & gratefulness is enough for me.
Maybe there hasn’t been an opportunity for him to be our saviour yet? But I hope he continues to execute this attitude throughout his life and protect us if need be
Thank you for sharing this. We appreciate you 🙏🏾 🥰🫶🏾
@@cchaunceytriestch6251 Thank you for sharing! Respect!
53 years old here. Thank you son for recognizing Black women worth in society.
Every Nation enslaved our ancestors and we are still spreaded across the four corners of this world. Still in captivity. We are not a color in a crayon box nor by-words. HEBREW
If you’re worth is attached to muling for other races that hate you, then you have none.
@@Dontbecoldhere come the delusional Hebrew Israelites
@@Dontbecold ok Marxist get a husband a job and wow you’re free get off the stamps
Our worth isnt based in being the mules of society . Anyone 45 and under with self esteem and doing the inner work to decolonise the mind doesn’t see this as a compliment.
Thank you Young Man for Acknowledging us😢As Black Woman,I Appreciate whatu said, because most of the time we are Put Down by our own Black Men. Thank You So Much. Love ❤️
Thank you. We love you back.
You made this grown black man shed some tears with those words. I just thought about my 90 year old mother who we lost this year. Growing up, Our home was always full of neighborhood kids who she treated like her own. Her love for people, often complete strangers, continued until her last breath.
You brought happy tears to my eyes. But you know she is still with you and can see everything you are doing. She just relocated.
Condolences on the loss of ur Mom.🙏🏽🙏🏽God bless her for her kindness
Amen🙏@@heatherd5788
Sounds like a standup Lady!🥰
You're blessed to have her as well as She is blessed to have you as her Son. Beautiful tribute to your Momma .. may she journey well with the Lord ❤
You know why that is because we've been rejected the most. People don't understand it but trials builds character in you
That makes sense. We’re naturally mama bears.
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Lol. No one has the opposition . Like black men. Their biggest threat. But BW isn't far after
True story ❤
@famousnobody7574 😊 My daughter calls me mama bear, it touches my heart when she says it.
I’m a black women who wants to say; Thank you for your very kind and heartwarming words, it means a lot. I think your Mom has raised a compassionate, deep, and empathetic young man. Blessings to you and your family.🙏🏾♥️🙏🏾♥️🙏🏾♥️🙏🏾
Yessssssssssss totally agree
Absolutely 💯 agree. He appears to be very genuine and I personally am very thankful for those kind words.
Exactly ❤us as Black Women are the most interesting appreciate most disrespected out of human raise. When we are the chosen ones by God we love all no matter what we will help all because we are love ❤🎉God bless all Black Woman remember we are special and we are the light ❤
AAAAAAAAMEN!
This made me cry happy tears. When I move down from Philadelphia to South Carolina, I was alone no family, no husband no children no mother. Black women save my life. They took me in when I was homeless. They fed me when I was hungry. They gave me wisdom that I did not have being raised in a small Philadelphia neighborhood. I am grateful with every ounce of my being. We should all be like black women. Strong, powerful patient loving and fierce. Thank you for this post. ❤
On behalf of Black Women, I say Thank you!!!!!💙🍃💙🍃💙🍃
Yes thank you sir
@saadmustafauk YES! THANK you for your genuine compliment, Sa’ad! 🙏🏾 I’m so happy you and your family were loved on during rough times. I myself have experienced this when most others look down upon you. I feel like they are the hands and feet of Jesus sometimes. Most of us are raised to show this type humanity to our fellow man by our grandmothers and mothers. Blessings! ❤
Thank you dear son
Same🎉
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Im a white woman and I really call on all my white brothers and sisters to dig into the roots of our racism and work to REMOVE it from our mindset. I’ve learned that I need to work on my mindset daily to keep moving forward on changing the white superiority in my mindset. I definitely don’t have it all figured out, but I’ve grown so much from doing anti-racism work. Black women ARE all the things you say and it’s time for the weight of racism to be lifted…more and more everyday, so that those who are treated the worst, can live free from the lies of racism.
I honestly felt your heart in this post.😢 Thank you for your bravery in acknowledging the ignorance of racism. We all, as a people, need to focus on loving one another as well as accepting and respecting each other's differences. As long as you and I move forward WITHOUT that deceiving mindset of darkness, WE WIN!!! Let's allow the LOVE of Christ Jesus to illuminate from within us daily. One by one, day by day, WE all will benefit significantly by this much needed change.❤🧔🏾🧔♂️👩🦰👩🦳🧑🏽🦲👨🏻🦰👵👩🏼🦱👱♀️🧔🏿♂️👱👶🏻👶🏾👨🏿🦱👨🏼👵🏾 May your day be richly blessed.🙏🏾🫶🏿❤
Thank you friend❤
Man, if only this comment can impact the entire nation! This is called being lucrative, taking action, and being affective! May not reach the nation, but it’ll reach someone! God bless you and all others you bring clarity to! ❤️🙏🏽🙌🏽
Thank you 🙏🏽
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We're treated with inhumanity yet We're the most humane with humility
That's why black women need to start looking out for themselves.
We are the mothers of all living...
Exactly. 🎯💯 And that's sickening. 👎
Because we are God’s chosen people
Well said thank you🥲❤️
ALL OF THIS! I am one of those black women... One time I saved a young white child who was peeping over the tracks at the public transportation system subway. I spoke softly to the child, got her to take my hand and asked where her mom and dad were and she took me to them. They spanked her for "going" with a stranger and never even said thanks to me. God put me in the right place to save the little one and that was all the reward and praise I needed!
Thank you for being there! I'm so sorry that their shame for their inadequacies as parents and apparent racism treated you as invisible. They would have gone to prison if it wasn't for you.
As a black woman, I needed this video at this very moment. Thank you 🫶🏾
As a black woman. I didn't need this video. Smh
@@GordaBGonegood for YOU.
It's so much easier to be KIND AND PLEASANT---We not like them and they not like us!!!
Me, too. Go see Wild Robot....its an allegory of the black woman...I feel.
@@GordaBGonewell kick rocks then as you always could have. Without the negative comment🤬
As a 62 yr old Black woman who has been through it….and still standing strong. You moved me with your appreciation. ❤
I agree with you I just turned 62 myself and I have been through a lot with these other communities and I'm still standing strong and you know what sister, I have boiled it down to they are purely jealous, and not all females from different community I'm just speaking of the ones whom I have encountered and I can see it on their faces, I'm a security guard and I sat down a lot but when I stand up and walk around and do my tours of the buildings, they just looks at me and AWE!!! I'm 5'10 and tall in statue and a few of the white females who I communicate with, it's three large corporate office buildings where I work where I do security and a lot of them were like WOW!!!! I had no idea you were that tall!!! cuz I'm tall and statue and then plus I weigh like over 200 lb but it do not show I carry it very well And when they see me walking down the hall or something they just look at up at me like wow I didn't know you were This tall and that makes me feel good because I feel like a warrior, which that I am I truly am because us as black women's we are constantly at war with society but I take it all in stride and I continue to smile and I keep the peace and joy in my heart that I am blessed with be proud of yourselves young black women older women and very mature women an age cuz we are some bad MA'AM JAMMERS 🎶🎶🎶🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👍🏿🙏🏿
Appreciation doesn’t pay the bills. At your age I would think you would understand that.
Younger black women are dying off at alarming rates.
We are crashing out.
We are tired.
And appreciation doesn’t move the needle on any of the metrics that are needed to survive.
Grow up
You not old where just more mature ❤sis
Same Sis God is good we get our flowers anyhow …62 as well.
@azureavocado5195 I love this comment and I love you!❤
What a shame a middle Eastern man had to give black women their flowers! Thank goodness Ive always had King Jesus by my side!!
I’m sure he’s South Asian actually.
But still good point.
Why is a shame?
@@chicagoforniahelladope because black men don't do it.
He’s south Asian not Arab
As a child, my neighbor was a black woman who made me meals and gave me the best grape Kool aid when I was hungry and thirsty and I will never forget she stood with me my first day in kindergarten and has passed on.... Thank you Annette
Because we have SOULS.
Preach!
yaaaas!
Exactly
God created all human beings with pure souls. It depends how you guide your soul
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I'm a white woman and I can't argue with you. You are 100% right.
He is 100% WRONG. We are not the world’s “help”, we are not the global maids and we are not laying in wait to take care of everyone else’s kids.
Read the comments of Black women on this channel. We are tired of these backhanded compliments.
@@autumnjade815 Sis I don't think that he meant it that way. I think that he is speaking from a place of love and respect for the black women who have shaped his life.
As a black woman I can totally understand and feel where you are coming from because I have also been in those situations. But I don't that this young man means it that way. You have a blessed one and be safe out there.
'...think that...'
@@aysdailey I have to agree with you that I don’t think he meant it in that way but I see that as part of the problem. I have noticed that non Black POCs are very good at highlighting WS while not discussing the anti Black sentiment they have within their own community.
He may have had good intentions but he also knows Black kids could never rely on his community for help. He knows that same Indian mother who told her child to look to a BW for help would not be happy if he brought one home as a wife. That’s the problem.
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Your mom raised you well. You do justice to her. You are beautiful inside out
His mom raised him well just because he's putting bw on a pedestal? Most of what he said is not true.
Bless you as your mum
Tnxs dear!!!
Yes! ❤❤❤ thank you for literally everything 🎉
Black woman I’am sending out a call for U all to come together and show that same kind of love to one another
We do
Exactly
@@honeyisnatural5 Depends very much on personal experience, but the majority are supportive. Otherwise BP really would be finished.
I am a 68 year old black woman, and I can’t even run anymore but I have a Mouth, and I know how to use it! I’m with you honey, sign me up! I try to help my black women as much as I can. But we as black women have to take charge of our own lives and not depend on men to prop us up, black or white! Learn to take care of your own health, and I don’t mean we get skinny as rails to be taken seriously! Look at Jasmine Crockett, just look at OUR PROUD BLACK YOUNG CONGRESS WOMAN from TEXAS! She is the kind of woman I would want a daughter of mine to be like! We need to learn how to HELP, GIVE AID to all that need it! To let them know they matter, and are needed to help the next generations coming up behind us! To give them a BLUEPRINT OF WHAT AND HOW TO PRESENT AND ACHIEVE ALL THE THINGS THEY ARE CAPABLE OF! GOD BLESS US BLACK WOMEN!
@honeyisnatural5 Unfortunately, sister, we dont
As a 63 year old white woman, this young man speaks the truth. I knew this as a child, too.
I'm black, and I'm so glad you see the true light.🙏🏾😌
But who can black women run too? Are white women as willing to help black women as you have be trained that black women are willing to do? This sickens me.
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Despite the way others feel about us we don't focus on that, we keep on keeping on.
@utubechannel3846That's not me nor my daughters AT ALL!!! I don't know who you're hanging out with, but I want ALL of my sisters to succeed and how to achieve their goals!!! 💯💯💯
@utubechannel3846
Maybe the ppl you know & the things you’ve seen that others put on tv or internet for views. In reality most of us are getting on with the pursuit of life - education, family, community, faith, work.
@utubechannel3846 😂😂😂. Who is this we you speak of? My family doesn't behave this way. Neither do the people in my circle. You are an agent. Spread love❤
Thats true.
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We at the most forgiving people! It angers me sometime, and that’s sad. We just get tired of getting stepped on…
Amen to this and to this beautiful young soul taking a moment to acknowledge us
As a black woman myself this is heart felt.. however for so many centuries black woman have helped/carried so many and have received little in return.. black woman are getting tired of carrying ours and are now going to focus on ourselves..
@@deborah-r that part.
🙋🏾♀️ exactly
❤ABSOLUTELY ❤
@deborah-r 100% agree with your comment sis. Thank you! for your comment, Much apprericated.
We are not mules and labour. Do you know what that mother would call a black woman if he decided to date her?
They view us as the help. I'm sickened by the comments on here praising this nonsense.
I am a black woman educator soldier filled with so much love and I love this message…. Thank you Sir !
Thank you for your Service. 🇺🇸
I want to give that young man one of those hugs that only a Black auntie can give.
🥹 I knooow!
Thank you for explaining in detail how special a black woman is. Black men, please list to this young man's emotional stance on black woman. Brother Ty, ❤❤❤❤for your kind words
Black women are THE BEST.
As a Black woman I thank you for your words of truth. ❤️🙏🏾😍
As a black Jamaican woman, THANK YOU. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Jamaican is a culture not a race!!
AfricanAmerican the white man created that title!!
Black is what we are for real!!
We were called black because of our skin color!!
We were black as Slaves!! What changed??
Thank you for the flowers. We thank you so much.
As a black woman, I thank you for recognizing us in our strength handsome young man. God bless you.
As a black man, I’m grateful to the Chinese women who showed love to me
@@Shangjinkogood for you go report that under one of their post not this one✌🏾
@@sewblue187 is there a problem with what I said?
@@Shangjinko this is about black women that Chinese talk elsewhere
@@sewblue187 this is about Asian love for black people, is the Asian man in the video the only person allowed to give praises to black people?
When I was a young white girl from Sweden who had no knowledge of how to navigate school in the US, who befriended me, who came to my rescue, who showed me the ropes? Black girls, that’s who! I love each & every one of them & still treasure their friendships even if it’s in memory. Their moms were bad friggin ass too!!
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How cool! I'm a black girl, I went to Norway and had a similar experience ❤ lots of love and acceptance 💕 💗 ❤️
Thank you! ❤
Wow I just found your video & your mom Is 100% right😂
But his mom never told him to date or marry black women. Just run to them when you need "The Help"😢
@Kevin.e.Turner He's not black, so why would he? 😅 Don't be offended. I've had other races that helped me. That doesn't mean I'd want to marry into those cultures. I have my own!
@@Kevin.e.TurnerYou really don’t know that for certain, because he doesn’t really address dating or marriage. You are simply assuming. Now, go do something productive with your pathetic life.
@@Kevin.e.Turner why would she? And why would he be obligated to marry a black woman just cuz hes humane and supports us? You sound bitter and delusional.
Culture is a moving feast like race. Humans have always mixed, hence different ethnicities - where they don't they die out.
And even having said this I bet his mother would never want him to bring one home😢.
I have always said Black women are AMAZING! I love my sisters and will always hold my sisters high!
We love you back! 🫶🏾
Cringey I'm not ur sister 😂
@@Yahshuaismyeverything I’m cringy???👀…..You got that right- I’m NOT talking to you. Those who know, know!….….. hope you feel better getting that one off🤣
@@MoonLightOnWater1 really what do you do for us?
@@MoonLightOnWater1 Ignore the trolls.
Yes, God is vindicating Black Women.
@@martinajohnson9376 The Asian man is God now? 🙄
@@sashalawrence4786 Really?
Are you stupid? Nobody said that
@@sashalawrence4786Now try and read it again. Your mind is obviously fixed on the wrong thing.
This is not the vindication you think it is. Do you like being a mule?
She wasn’t lying ! Most of us are very caring and nurturing!!
@@Pebbles0831
So in other words, we already know all of this already. We don’t need any other rates to tell us how we are.
These should already know
RACE
@@robinhall3893 it’s not that serious ! I know we already know this . I’m just commenting on the post 🤷🏽♀️
@@robinhall3893... You're everywhere...RELAX😂😂😂
@@Pebbles0831
But the thing about us black folks, we already know !! Some of them other ones is just finding it all out …because they’ve been lied to for so many years!!
That's beautiful messages ❤
I'm a black woman from New Orleans ⚜️ just want to say thank u so much for this message. Very appreciative
Wow thats beautiful, I'm 62yo black woman and it's the first time I've ever heard someone say that, thank you, young man, God bless you 🙏🏾♥️
Thank you for jumping in to rescue them when they would have never done the same for you? What videos do you see of black women in danger and someone running to rescue them?
That is wild,
In my youth I received a almost identical advice and I'm white
I’m crying. I get treated so badly. It’s hard to bare.
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Now you know where to go when you need protection, love and support. Go to the Indian man and his mother who want to use you for your kindness.
I couldn't be the success that I am as a black man if it wasn't for the love of my black women in my life!!! Thank you my BLACK, BEAUTIFUL AND LOVING BLACK WOMAN!!!!
Thank you.
And what are you doing for her sir? Can she say the same thing about you?
@@theunicornishere I said I was a success, that's all you need to know!
@@timothyleebrown1593 Success according to you. Because to some black men, success is the bare minimum. I bet if I asked her she would tell a different story.
@@theunicornishere I bet you have a lot of nerve to assume something based on your limited knowledge. I am a retired military officer. I can see you are very arrogant .
I just started crying so hard. I must really be damaged by this world and i overlook it daily. GOD BLESS us and our children.
I know it hurts deep down inside. Big hug to you.
@@sonteesontee4227 thank my sister🤎
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Amen♥️💐♥️💐♥️💐♥️💐♥️💐♥️same the way im snotty and crying right now. My Lord continue to heal, Protect, and keep us all!
You matter sis!! Love you@@sonteesontee4227
He’s not wrong. I watched my mom‘s 🇯🇲 kindness towards everybody. It’s remarkable. Even when we are mistreated, we find someway to be joyful and to treat others with kindness.
AMEN💙💚
Real talk ❤❤❤🇯🇲🇯🇲
My mama was one of those women…Miss her so very much 😢🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲
That’s the spirit of the lord
Same
Your mother is right. I am a so- called black woman. The Black Woman is the mother of civilization. I will give you the shirt off of my back to keep you warm. Thank you for your acknowledgement. We’ll do it anyway. HalleluYah 💙 Be safe
Thank you…we don’t get enough flowers in our lives. Bless you for seeing us!
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All Loved in these times, but there is great heap in acknowledging those who have given us strength to keep going if just a sweet tight hug. True kindness and help,
Acceptance because we were alike when we too felt shunned for no good reason.
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I am engaged to a wonderful african woman. I question her parental skills though. And there things of her culture I don't understand. But it's because black American women are so hateful that I had to look to Africa for a quality woman. I hope things work out for us. But she'll. Need to let me be a man. I can protect her from hateful whites and blacks in this usa if she listens to how I instruct her to navigate and not trust black and white Americans. I don't even trust.
@@Travis-f5m Good luck to your wife, she will need it
@greenytaddict
Yes she well. I hope I pull it together. Even though I think badly of black Americans it doesn't translate to africans. I compartmentalize the two.
We as a group are tired of having to help everyone when we don't get any help in return. We have not been placed on this earth to look after the world and work ourselves to death taking care of other people. We aren't the world's mammy.
Amen!!
And again, we must stop!
Idk if I fully agree. We are the original mother of humanity, of ALL mankind… sure we aren’t anyone’s “mammy” but even for those of us who are childless (me🙋🏽♀️) people of ALL races and genders know that they are safe with us (majority of us)
Real talk
@@SheIsFearfullyWonderfullyMadewhy are yall fighting to be mules? You look fcking ridiculous right now. Pathetic
I agree wholeheartedly!!! We can become readily despised just for shining and doing things in an excellent way. As in the words of the late poet, Maya Angelou: “You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still like air, I rise”
I needed this comment. ❤thank you
Ok now you have me bawling,.... this poem by Maya always makes me cry.
Thank you Thank you Thank you!!! Prayerfully like one white woman pointed out in her comment above, she is working on ridding her psyche of the toxic white superiority mindset imbued from years prior which I think is a remarkably STRONG MOVE!!! 💪
Prayerfully, other races will glean from her MOVE and look at the person in the mirror starring back at them and deliberately MAKE A CHANGE in Jesus' name, Amen!!! 🙏
Thank you for the shout out sweetie!! Much appreciated but we got the assignment from the big boss!!! Gonna subscribe to support! Blessings!!
I love all my black queens 🥹I really hope one day we all can come together and love one another ✊🏻✊🏼✊🏽✊🏾✊🏿
We really do need more unity we are all beautiful! I love you sis ✊🏾
We have done it throughout the years. That’s how we made it through slavery and Jim Crow and the Civil Rights Movement and, now Black Lives Matter. Other countless advocacy groups. The sororities, the societies and social clubs, the neighborhood groups, etc. Nothing like the Sistahood!
❤love you too one and all
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Thank you my son. Thank you for giving us our flowers whilst we are alive.❤
This just made me shed a tear. Sitting at my desk... You're loved...Thank you for the recognition brother. ❤
Thank you we appreciate you be blessed always❤
From a black American woman, thank you young man ❤
Protect black children
@@chaniquasmith6258 You Hear Me! They definitely will not do that... historically! ♥️
YESSSSS ‼️ ‼️ ❤
We, as daughters of The Most High are everything!
Yes true 👍
Amen. That's the secret his mother was telling him. God's chosen will never hurt anyone but it's portrayed on media tel lie vision as a projection. Illusion. ❤
HalleluYah
@@Royalty40 Yess, media, telievison has brain washed the world to see Blks as a menace, a threat, when in reality they miss the real threats, the real menace, but we know exactly who they are, and others are opening their eyes and seeing clearer.
All praises!
Thank you so much. You are the best ever! U brought tears. Not very often do we get flowers. Not even from our own brothers who seem to navigate to any other race but their own.
I’m grateful for the two black women who stood up for me and were my friends at work when I was being bullied by two black, mean women in my department.
Thx you for all black women. I don't have any children but all children are our children. Perhaps bc of an inate nurturing spirit that most women should have. 5:04 It's nice of you to say it to world.
Not that we need other people's approval, but this is why we have to look out for and support ourselves. Because clearly other communities are looking to us to uphold the strong "Black woman trope" and I don't want that for us. This time around, let's live and enjoy our lives without feeling like the world is on our shoulders or like we gotta be the martyrs for others. We're human beings, too...
Buy black women owned EVERYTHING!!! Screw everyone else, I want to see what we can do.
@@AGirlCalledNicole Say this again for the people in the back of the room.
Thank you. I've learned to stand down and let one of their own kind do it.
Yessssssss! You took the words out of my mouth! ❤
Thank you so much for lifting black women up like this. I am a black woman and your words remind me of my family of strong, fierce, but loving black women. Thank you💖💖🥰
If the blk women, and blk man look out/take care of each other like we’re capable to do with any other none blk group. We’d be UNSTOPPABLE
Well the men ran the other way instead of fix
We do but so many black men don’t want the love because it requires accountability and makes you grow which means change
@@Lovely-ladi This!!
Too much ain't shitness on both sides, unfortunately. Riding for the wrong people and taking the pain caused by said wrong people and dumping it on the good people that are trying to help and do better. Wrapping their whole entire personalities and existence in drugs, money, sex, and violence instead of the things that actually matter. A lot of it has to do with some being too afraid to call out the bad behavior in the company they keep because their afraid of becoming the target/victim of their ire and spite. It's sad.
@@slippyquack7672Well, BM have failed their community for centuries. Yet, they still expect things from BW. Even BM complain about BM failure. When you ask BM why they don't do the things for the community that even BW do, they say it's because there aren't enough supposed good BM to work with.
1:52 it's sad someone from a different race had to say it in order for it to be heard!! Thank you!!
Period! It's terrible that our own men don't say anything like this.
Exactly
@@mrsjwp588black men have literally fought and died through out the course of history just so you could inevitably speak your mind and opinion on social media today 🤷🏾♂️
Black men don't care, they only want big booty btxs and cars
The unfortunate thing attest to the safety bw bring, but bw aren't afforded that same safety by others, a lot of the time.
Bw are naturally nurturers, giving, loving, selfless and extremely feminine and beautiful.
Why should bw be expected to be mamies, cooks and carers to everyone? Protective towards others without being protected on return? Nah..
True dat 👊🏾
because yall sign up too.
remember how yall be thristin over brads and chads.
Yes! Let the chair say Amen!
Wow! I felt his sincerity, appreciation and empathy in my soul. Made me tear up. Sweetest message I’ve ever heard about us and it’s 110% true. ❤
I am 49. I would protect anyone. It's in my nature. I am so happy you've had good experiences❤
I wish I could find someone like you.
Thank you for appreciating black women. Thanks for your truth.
This is very sweet but on behalf of Black women, where is the reciprocation? We are so giving but we rarely get it back.
They take and forget they received
You’re a beautiful soul! God Bless you sweetheart!
I really needed this message!! I've been feeling quite down these days, due to us as black women enduring constant discrimination and disrespectful behavior from others!! They only see us for our beauty and our bodies but not our hearts or our souls and the love that we show to others, regardless of what we're going through!! So yeah, I really needed this message today!! Thank you for the beautiful and kind words!!
When Yah comes back & you hear those trumpets 🎺 sound then you know your reward is near❤
I commend you brother for making this video. I am not a black female (I'm female Asian like yourself) but you are absolutely correct. The black woman and her family that raised and protected me during the day for years while my parents went to work in the early 70s...where would I be. She watched a group of us kids, kept us fed, made sure we washed and said grace before eating, protected us. She was strict with us old school southern style. She did not play but we were in good hands with her.
All of my best friends in my entire life to this day have been black females. I'm always aware of who accepts me and welcomes me and would stand by me just as you said...always a black female.
Something you will never do them or teach your children . Black woman are good for your own greed .
I hope your mom also told you when you are looking to start a family - look to marry a black woman.
This is all true & a sweet sentiment but its simultaneously - exhausting for some of us. See black women as ideal wives, partners, damsels, innovators, women to be pampered, held, & honored....not only helpers when in need.
How she gon tell him who to be attracted to and who to marry and build a family with? What’s wrong with him being with his own? O my goodness these bitter black females!
How desperate do you sound? We are not supposed to marry the other nations. What are you talking about girl get a grip!!!!!!!! I could smell the desperation through the phone📞 !! If black men don’t wanna marry you, then stand still girl you’ll be alright.
Exactly. Many of these men decide to seriously date us once they’ve been through the other races-married and had children-serious commitments. We’re typically seen as either a fantasy or an afterthought.
I have to agree! We sure are there to build up every culture... including our own, but never receive the build up. Then videos like this come along and we eat it up. Then we look up and see the Justin Timberlake, Robin Thicke's, J Cole, Omari Hardwick's, etc of the world. Sad to see these are men the black community has built up, but we get looked over.
That’s a good point! And then they’ll say, “well Black women just aren’t my preference” but people need to personally examine why they have their “preferences”, if they look closely and honestly it’s really just rooted in racism…like so many other things!
We as black people and black women are more acceptance and loving to other races.
This Black Senior Woman 🌻
Has Served...others All my life.
Gave up my plate so another Precious one could eat. My kids asked me one day a lady came by on a Sunday...Stranger and asked for food begging and Moma why you give her food and our last $5 which was 35 years ago? My reply was Silence and a hug. They are 50's 40's today and They do the same 😂
Those who are hurt the Most....
Love and Give Everything!!!
We have a System that NO BANK could count... A well that NEVER goes DRY!!! It Flows like a Mighty Stream.
THANK 🌻 YOU Precious one
Oh my…. this just touched me. Thank you. 🙏🏾
Right???? Same!!🙏🏽❤️😢
As a black woman who often helps, thank you, I needed to be reminded that im not alone 🖤🫶🏾
Thank you young man, as a black woman who understands what you've said, I have been there and done that. No we are not truly appreciated period.
Literally only the 3rd video I've ever seen where someone non black sees us as we actually are. Not what they see focused on in social media or TV. It's sad...but I appreciate this. My daughters appreciate this. ❤
I kept skipping over this video because I thought it would be derogatory.
But, I just wanted to say THANK YOU. We are wonderful, smart, caring and a loving set of human beings, BLACK WOMEN!
So did I but what a nice surprise 😅 🇬🇧
Same lol I am glad we watched
Me Too
❤BLACK WOMEN YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL 👸🏾
Thank you my dear, I will call you Son Oh dear, I'm crying😢😢. You are so right and honest n grateful.No one has ever said this to me, to us. I LOVE you n send a big virtual hug to you. May God continue to richly bless you.
This man is so beautiful and so sweet🥰🩷
Why? bc he’s been taught to look for BW when in trouble?? How about when he becomes successful help a poor BW pay 3 months rent ????
Instead of that, how about we hold the landlords and corporations accountable for their skyrocketing prices and greed? So everyone would be able to pay rent which is affordable for them@@gloriajose3088
Didn't he just do that here? Postvon social media for BW? Don't push away the good thing because he looks like the other fella@@gloriajose3088
@@gloriajose3088I think it was deeper than that! Every genuine person who knows that someone is reliable and always ready to help tends to just love and help that person back. His mother meant that he could find in a black woman that true friend. I'm not sure that by saying that she wanted to teach him to use black women!🤔
@@TheaM.-gr4bono way its not about use ...wdf r u talking about ...I a mix indian and I get from all
I’m appreciative of his kind words and defense of Black women but when he said that his mother told him and his siblings that if they were “ever in trouble in the real world, look for a Black woman” it brought to my remembrance a book that I read years ago titled, “In Search of Our Mother’s Gardens” by Alice Walker. In that book, she said that Black women are seen as “the mule of the world.” We are also seen as the mammy, caretaker, courtesan, and comforter. This upset me because it’s the truth. Black women are expected to shoulder burdens that others refuse! It’s one thing to thank Black women for their phenomenal ability to love, accept, and nurture others when they seek us out in their time of need but it’s another thing to expect that we do so without reciprocating. We selflessly pour into others' lives but who’s pouring into ours? Who is saving us? Who do we seek out in our time of need? As Malcolm X said (and the statement that kind young man tried to quote), “The most disrespected person in America, is the black woman. The most unprotected person in America is the black woman. The most neglected person in America is the black woman.” Replace “America” with “the world”!
That's right! And sadly he's infected by that trope of the strong black woman. Did you hear the part where he said something about seeing the inner person instead if looking at beauty as if we're to be treated with compassion and appreciation in spite of our lack of physical beauty. Wth?. He meant well but he can't see us. He's under the illusion of some very old stereotypes that we're the mules of the world as you so eloquently pointed out.
@@Nina-fh1bg Sis, you hit the nail directly on the head! 🙌🏾
Real talk my sister..You pointed out all FACTS💯
@@Nina-fh1bgexactly beautiful queen. More black kings and queens need to determine the difference between genuine love and appreciation that is certainly reciprocated and low vibrational pandering.
Many politicians will use the same talking points as this arab/middle eastern looking guy in order to get black ppls vote and support. Then soon as they get what they want from us they disregard us and our needs and don’t pay us any attention until the next election season. Only way we can truly survive is with each other
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We are the original true Mother's of the earth. True Mothers comes with love ❤
Mitochondrial Eve 🎉❤
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@@sharonmaria7980Exactly!
Absolutely ❤
I think you’ll friend it’s African women not black women.