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This was of your most informative videos, and I truly hope that this video opens people's eyes. I so enjoy the way I feel after I watch your videos. Share all your videos with Facebook friends, who I might add, are mostly supported by transwomen. Thank you for being you!
@@oddreviews7645 You do realize lgbt people are born lgbt, meaning right now their are over 108.7 million lgbt children in the world. 21.7 million of which are trans kids.
I work at a vet hospital. A well-known phenomenon in vet med is pets who do better with women/owners who believe their pet to have been abused based on their response towards men. The transphobic comments that my trans woman coworker gets are wild. A recent client, wearing pride flag accessories, told her she was uncomfortable with her handling her pet (due to pet being better with women) because coworker "is not a complete woman." She went on to say coworker should "work harder to present as more female." It's totally messed up. A guy client yesterday called her "sir," noticed he messed up, muttered about "uh oh, I think 'he's' offended." I talked to the client as he checked out, he technically apologized, but made it clear he barely wanted to refer to my coworker as a human being much less her preferred gender, and emphasized what a hassle "all this woke stuff" is for him. I told him, "it's ok to make mistakes, as long as you learn from them." He looked at me like I slapped him. I'll never get how he justifies all the effort it takes for him to be that relentlessly transphobic, when learning to use a new pronoun is so much less effort. For the record, pets don't care what's in your pants or on your birth certificate. If pets do sense hormones, a trans woman has higher estrogen than most cis women. But from experience, even pets who prefer one gender to another, mostly respond to attitude and demeanor. I've had "women only" pets that do fine with 6 ft+ bearded cis men because they have good body language and emotional awareness.
My parents adopted a dog who was very nervous around my dad at first, probably because of this. But we worked with her, chummed her with treats and fun one-on-one time, and helped her become much more comfortable with tall AMAB people. People can help their pets recover from and deal with trauma. And you're right about relaxed body language and emotional awareness. Unless the dog was actively showing more stress toward your coworker than present AFABs, Ms. Pride Merch was just using her dog as an excuse to be an asshole. I hope your coworker's doing well. Glad you're supporting her. The other client may not become a better person, but he knows people around her will not put up with his shitty behavior, and will hopefully act accordingly. That's important.
Even though your final paragraph is both valid morally and most likely scientifically _(I’m saying “most likely” as I’m not a biologist of any sort, and my base urge is to word myself in such a way that I still have “a way out” in case I’m wrong, even though I know a claim is correct),_ I still love “gender euphoric because of homophobic pet” jokes. I find them hysterical.
I'm a cis woman and whenever my trans girlfriend gets misgendered, I go "oh I'm so sorry, I'm actually a woman, I know it's an easy mistake to make!" I'm a masc lesbian and get misgendered myself sometimes 😂
It's so weird and gross when cis/straight people project human societal biases onto animals and children. And they *we* are the ones "forcing" things. lol
trans minor here, nobody is transitioning me! when i went to the gp they said that i might be able to get an appointment when i am 18 and the only thing until then is maybe i could get therapy. this is the reality
The medical profession is in somewhat of a bind. There is no real guidelines for what is best practise regarding this where minors are concerned. Offering you therapy is not in and of itself bad advice, it would help them and you find out if you are transgender or if your feelings are more a side effect of something else, but the utter state that is mental healthcare provision in the UK (you say GP so I'm assuming British) renders that worthless as a suggestion.
@Sir_Gerald_Nosehairs. GP just means general practitioner. I think it's a bit of a reach to guess where someone's from based on their use of GP or GC(P) But as someone from 🇺🇲 and who has watched Jamie for a while and seen the studies he's sited, I believe telling your GP, being referred to Therapy and when the minor comes of age, if therapy has proven they ARE trans, only then can they start a plan for whatever their transitions goal may entail. Hormones at 16, surgery after 18.
@@kaelin_cherise they really should stop doing that though... come on, put them on blockers first so they don't have to deal with their body poisoning itself at least, then take your time doing all of that psych stuff also OP: im so, so sorry! i would suggest looking at what local trans communities and gender clinics say rather than relying on your GP, GPs are notoriously bad at knowing about trans care
another trans minor here!! i cannot get access to hormones unless my parents consent to any of it, and i cannot get any surgeries legally till 18, and even then it is a loooooooooong process. this is my canadian reality, to add another respective
I'm a taxpayer in Canada, where quite a lot of gender affirming care is covered by our healthcare system. As far as I'm concerned, healthcare isn't only for saving lives, it's also for improving quality of life. I'm not only contributing to people's organ transplants and cancer treatments, I'm also contributing to their knee replacements and cataract surgeries. Gender affirming care is life improving (and can be life saving in indirect ways), so as far as I'm concerned, it's healthcare, and I'm happy to contribute to it.
If only you can get a doctor. I'm Canadian, and the last doctor I had told me that my suicidal ideation was a "phase" because perimenopause doesn't exist, and therefore, I couldn't have any more dysphoria than I had previously and if I've been able to cope my entire life (very poorly) I didn't need help. I no longer have a doctor and can't get a new one. I've kind of given up on ever feeling good with myself and in my own skin and try to just get through each day.
@cielvt noooooo im so sorry youre dealing with that. Yeah mental health care in Canada is awful. Unless you have money to go private, your only option is a GP, and they don't know wtf they're doing for mental health. I had a good psychiatrist when I lived in Edmonton, and it was covered under a program at the U of A hospital. But now I'm in Toronto and pretty much all I can do is maintain the progress I've made because my GP doesn't want to refer me to a government covered psych, and I don't have money to go private. My experience has mostly been similar to yours, it's almost impossible to find a doctor who will listen and take time to solve mental health issues. They just give you some excuse for why you don't really need it and move on. It's slowly improving, but while they get their shit together, people like you are left hanging 🥲
@suchnothing oh I'm so sorry to hear that too! I'm in ON too, and all we've heard for years is how much better Healthcare is in AB... but... the political climate, not so much. Not that we're doing much better here. I'm basically trying to self treat with supplements to keep the bandaid on. I'm also trying to convince my partner that it wouldn't be a waste of money to save for top surgery and go private for that. I hope you're doing well in the 6ix!
Yep. I remember an article about one of the earliest bathroom bans that had the legislators facing the consequences of their actions when a bunch of trans men (prepared with birth certificates) showed up at the public government building to use the women's bathroom. Apparently a bunch of women who worked there (including at least one who had direct involvement in the bill) were annoyed a bunch of big hairy men were in the bathroom with them. Security was called and, upon being shown birth certificates, couldn't kick them out. Like hmmm, if it isn't the consequences of your own actions.
I participated in a protest at the Governor's office against a trans bathroom bill. At one point, I had to use the bathroom, and asked a staffer where one was. He directed me to the men's room, which I used. Later, I wrote a letter to the governor, telling him that if he signed the bill in question, I will have committed a crime (since I was AFAB), and the staffer could arguably be charged as an accessory for telling me to use the men's room. We will see where that goes.
11:05 THANK YOU so much for talking about the ACTUAL costs of transitioning, there's been so much fearmongering about how expensive it is, and unfortunately I have seen fears about costs change the choices of people who are considering transitioning. NO ONE should have to think 'can I afford it?' when thinking about necessary and sometimes life saving medical care
The cost would also deppend on where you live. For me, if i was trans, it would be totally free, and i'd require no more than just informed consent (that is how i think it should be). In the US, i've heard it can be really expensive, and requires "permission" from a therapist.
@@Giuliana-w1fin the state where I live (heavily Republican right-wing state), the model is 'informed consent'. This means that to get HRT, top surgery, or anything except genital reconfiguration surgery, you don't need a therapist involved at all. Having diagnoses can help make sure insurance pays their part of the cost, but it's not required at all. Your endocrinologist or surgeon or whatever, will only need to sit with you and explain what you can expect to happen, what risks are involved, etc., and then you can get your hormones or surgeries or whatever. So it's not like that in all of the US, fortunately. Even some really terrible places allow you to access medical care with very little gatekeeping. On the other hand, the individual cost is much higher here than in some other nations like yours.
I used to be a janitor whose job it was to clean the bathrooms at a grocery store. I guarantee the floor is not sticky because of trans women pissing on the floor. Its sticky because of toddlers pissing on the floor, because of older women who have accidents, and because of women who insist on squatting over the toilet and then refuse to clean up afterward.
cis women piss all over public bathrooms, it drives me mad because IF EVERYONE SAT ON THE TOILET SEAT THERE COULD NEVER BE PISS ON IT TO NEED TO AVOID SITTING DOWN!!! and don’t get me started on the awful menstrual messes some people leave! i can assure you a trans woman was not the one who left the stall covered in blood with a tampon on the floor!
@@SakeShinobi97 that absolutely does happen yeah. I sometime had to go back over spots that were already cleaned because of people not using the correct amount of soap per water. Theres also the soap and water that get all over the floor from the sink - even if you shake your hands out before going to dry them, youre still gonna drip water on the ground, and thats where most of the footprints in the bathroom come from
I think the whole “birthing person” or other inclusive language means “erasing womanhood” is so strange. I’m reminded of how so many services/signs/bathrooms were (some still are) “mum and baby” with no equivalent for dads, meaning that habit/trend excluded fathers with children. Like no changing table in the men’s restroom for example. Using the word “parent” doesn’t erase women when it includes dads, it’s no different when including trans or non binary people.
You have to keep in mind that terfs are intrinsically sexist and resent womanhood. They define it entirely as being able to carry/raise children, no different than religious fundamentalists do. So when they see parenthood and reproductive language made gender neutral, they view this as”erasing women” because womanhood to them is defined as motherhood, or potential for motherhood. There’s also a particular irony in the fact that many terfs who accuse trans people of erasing women refer to themselves as “large gamete producers” or “adult human female” rather than women.
Yep, and even if someone is excluding/ignoring trans people, calling all pregnant people women means they are saying 4 year olds are women. Yes, that has unfortunately happened.
Also Is so hard for them to understand that: Birthing people: for trans and nb Birthing women: for... well, for women lol So I dont understand why they get mad?? Like- no body is excluding you
11:56 Hi french person here. Secu is short for Sécurité sociale, or social security, which is basically a national insurance service. Some of our taxes go to it, and if we're ever sick / out of job / etc, we can benefit from it. (idk about the amounts of money involved though, I'm a student I don't pay taxes yet)
It is also reversable, but people forget that too. This is coming from an out and proud trans man who was convinced by my mother as a teenager that 'real' trans people are so rare that you would likely never meet one and that nonbinary people are 'just confused'. A combination of being hit like a truck with gender dysphoria, going to my first Pride events and going to college on an art course where basically a third of the people there are queer showed me otherwise. It is preventable and even if it happens can be reversed! Do not give up hope!
The tax thing baffles me so much. People apply the same logic to disability income. If not supporting society what the hell do you think you're paying taxes for!?
Also idk about France but here in the netherlands we have mandatory health insurance that costs a small fortune so most people still pay for their own healthcare, just spread out
The people who don't want taxes used for supporting society believe that taxes should only support the military and... hm... what other things that can hurt the people they don't like? Oh, roads and bridges also used to be something that those people thought taxes should be used for... but now they think of that as communism. So, those people, and we know who I'm talking about here [coughconservatives/republicanscough], they think taxes should only support the big throbbing dick of the military that they love to heterosexually suck all day long.
they're so mad at the idea of their tax money going towards helping trans people, but imagine if they were denied healthcare because someone ideologically disagreed with treating them for something lol
In the US, viagra is generally covered by a health plan, even though impotence is NOT a life-threatening condition. What it does is affect the psychological well-being of those with the condition, and can quite accurately be called gender-affirming care. How does that differ from gender-affirming hormone treatment?
do you count austerity measures as an ideology? a lot of people mad about trans care already have faced a loss of their own benefits, they’re just not clever enough to realize it’s all the same thing and is bad for everyone
@@MisterMixxyBirthing person isn't erasing anyone and if a trans man would prefer that term that's great. But I'm a pregnant woman and a mother and that's how I'd like to be referred to 😊 it's not hard to respect everyone's preferences. Though it's trans men* who can get pregnant. Medically the distinction matters. The fact cis women and trans men are female is what allows us to give birth.
We aren't birthing people. We aren't womb owners. We aren't second class citizens that deserve objectionable labels. Stop being hateful to women. That's the basis of your philosophy is that women don't deserve our rights. Idiocy is thinking women need to go back to being slaves to men. That's what the agenda is pushing, that women have no right to our rights or to be safe and comfortable in our own places. It's misogyny. Which is the really stupid thing. The agenda is trying to erase us in any way possible. That's why we fight back. I know we have a lot of nerve caring about our own rights. It's really offensive to men that hate women to think we aren't just going to sit quietly and be marginalized so you can exploit us.
Hey Jamie, I had an idea for a future video. I think you should consider making a video in collaboration with someone who has expertise on the topic covering the current state of LGBTQ+ legislature in the EU. It's not something I've seen others do, and it's very useful information particularly for your viewer base. I hope you'll consider this for a future video, and have a nice day, internet stranger! Edit: At the suggestion of some other commenters, I have changed the geographical area of interest from the US to the EU, as well as suggested a collab instead of an independent video.
@@Giuliana-w1f That works too. I just think it would be useful to a lot of people to have a guide to where they can feel safe to live, whether that be in the US or in the EU
What gets me is the people who will scream about how evil it is to indoctrinate children are the same people who will howl and scream that children need to be in church. They're actually perfectly fine with indoctrinating kids as long as it's their preferred indoctrination.
This has been my transition process as a trans teen: -Cut my hair short (it's grown out some so it looks like a mullet right now) -Get a binder (it can cause permanent damage to ribs if you're not careful, but I'm being careful with it) -Wear clothes from the men's section (I get my older brother's hand me downs) -Come out to my doctors, and 5 people. Only 5 other people know. 4 of which are family members. I am in a family of 12. My doctors did not try to get me to transition. I was at the appointment for other reasons (anxiety med adjustments), and I mentioned being trans as a part of my anxiety. They recommended me a therapist that specializes in trauma and anxiety, and is trans friendly. My therapist has told me that while I can't change my body right now, a few years down the line I possibly can. She's also told me that if I come to the conclusion that I'm not trans, she will still support me. I'm not being pushed in any direction.
Exactly! Having the help / info available isn't pushing anyone in a particular direction. I started transitioning at 30, and even then, while I had access to the medical transition, nobody pushed me towards it. I had to voice the fact that I wanted to go on t. I had to voice the fact that I wanted top surgery. Nobody will force-feed you hormones or whatever just because you're gender questionning. @Milo-hp9fw best of luck on your journey, whatever form that might take.
That’s good, I just said about myself to someone else and realised I shouldn’t do that since everyone is different. As a tomboy, I would have been in this situation, but I grew out of it. But that doesn’t mean others do. You should do what makes you happy and comfortable. Love ❤️ from Australia 🇦🇺
The person talking about "birth giving" and "eviscerating womens rights".... women's rights surrounding reproductive health care IS at risk, and it has NOTHING TO DO WITH TRANS PEOPLE?!?!
Happy almost-pride! The best weapon I have against transphobia, as a transwoman, is the fact that I’m genuinely happy in a loving relationship with an incredibly supportive group of friends and family, secure in my body for the first time. They want me miserable but I’m happier than I’ve ever been. Thanks for the content, great stuff as always!
@@ServalSign yeah, whenever someone pulls that argument I do something similar, only I pull the “my dad is in the room with me, as we speak (true right now), and I’m bi/pansexual, so uhh…” comeback. ALWAYS, without fail, shuts them right up.
Happy almost pride!!! As a trans man with a wonderful group of friends and family, I could not agree more! (And i may have daddy issues, but that is completely separate from my identity lmfao)
For the internal testicle one: I guess that means everyone who is fairly healthy and/or has never had a full abdominal scan (can’t use X-rays) doesn’t know their gender. Because I know despite several doctors appointments and ER visits I have never had an abdominal scan nor a chromosome test so I guess I am the shrodinger gender?
It's actually more complicated than that. A penis and a clitoris are essentially the same tissue, just with developmental differences, and the same is true of ovaries versus testicles. And development can be weird! Emily Quinn (Ted talk here on RUclips) is intersex; as she says in her talk, she has both a vagina and (internal) balls. And despite having XY chromosomes, she is not a man. Being intersex to one extent or another is actually not at all uncommon.
@@viverra exactly! People think sex (going to ignore gender) is so black and white but that’s only because so few people actually “know” what their sex is because it’s assumed based on external characteristics rather than actual imaging or genetic/chromosomal studies.
Dude, I had no idea what trans even was until I was like... probably 13/14. I had been wanting to be called Jason and hated the idea that I was made to be a girl since I was a little kid. Gender ideology didn't change me- I was trans forever. In fact, being told what being trans was from an early age would have saved me a lot of heartache and self-hatred because I would have realized early as opposed to my late twenties that I was trans and could have accepted myself earlier on as opposed to thinking I was just a really butch lesbian and not fully recognizing myself. People who say they are protecting kids are really just hurting them. We aren't trying to "trans" cis kids, we're trying to save trans kids.
A note from someone in America on why people are super upset about gender neutral toilets: Here in America, public restroom stalls often are very easy to see into and get into. The doors go from about head height to knee height, with a huge gap by the floor that it’s easy to crawl under. And in many cases, the restrooms aren’t maintained well, so the locks often don’t work or don’t hold tight. It’s very easy for creeps to spy on people or get into stalls. I’ve seen stuff like that in the news on tv before. Why aren’t things better maintained or made with better quality? Because no one wants to spend money to fix them up or make them well to begin with. And once the restrooms are made, nobody wants to clean them or take care of them. It’s seen as an awful job no one wants to do. My aunt worked a hardware store and her coworkers refused to clean the restroom and made her do it despite her having disabilities that make it impossible for her to clean all of it without assistance. I can’t speak for in other countries, but where I’m from people don’t like the idea of gender neutral restrooms because they’re not safe and private as it is right now. But of course no one wants to spend the money to fix them up and make them ok. There used to be a lot of family restrooms in malls and stuff, which are basically a small room with one toilet, a sink, and a changing station for babies. These have a door that fully closes. But people don’t like to build these, because it’s a huge waste of space. If we brought these back in new buildings and made them gender neutral restrooms I really doubt people would have a huge issue. They wouldn’t even need to be labeled as gender neutral if people have a problem with that term. Just call them family restroom like they used to be called and anyone who needs a gender neutral restroom would have one. Personally, I’ve used gender neutral restrooms that are like the first kind I described and I’ve never had a problem with them. All I’ve ever seen people do is use the restroom and then leave. Sure there might be people who would abuse the system, but they’re not trans people. The only news stories I’ve seen on tv of people getting hurt in restrooms was when a cishet man did something to a woman. I know people personally who are scared to death that a cishet man will dress up as a woman and go into restrooms to hurt people. I don’t get it at all. Trans people are wonderful people who just want to live their lives and be happy. Not that there couldn’t be an awful trans person, but I’ve never met one. On the contrary, I’ve met plenty of cishet men who went on to commit acts of violence towards men. Just my random thoughts on the topic. Idk how other people feel. For context: my family is super transphobic/homophobic/racist so I deal with these sorts of arguments all the time. No matter how many facts I have, they trust their own made up facts in their head over real scientific evidence and research. I even have some people in my family who openly don’t believe in science and scientific research. It’s awful to be around.
Can you make a short of just the one where the woman was confused because corporate said their trans male co-worker had to use the women's rest room? I want to be able to send that link to every transphobe who is focused on not letting trans women into women's bathrooms!
I'm for abolishment of any gender/sex/whatever split in sports. Just people competing. People of similar physical attributes AND similar skill will end up competing with each other, naturally. The concept of "Women Sports" was born out of necessity, as women (of all kinds) were deemed "unsuitable" to compete in anything, save for maybe poetry and knitting. Like chess - female league was established to give essentially a whole legion of relatively new and unexperienced players a space to be serious about it. But now that any sane person will agree that any person can attempt any sport and it's none of our business, having that split is unneccessary, or even harmful.
"It is biotechnological warfare in drag, like a multiheaded hydra" my brothers, sisters, and nonbinary siblings in Gay, how did they know? Who leaked the trans hydra creation project that I'm working on?
I caught a transphobe today!!!! It was soo fun!! It was actually towards a Non-Binary person, but they were also a transphobe. I replied to a tweet fancasting the actor that played Dane in the new Fallout show as Morph in a live action X-Men since they are non binary. I thought they were way too smouldering and model esc, so I fan-casted a different NB actor and the guy was like 'her!' to all these posts. And then after arguing, I said 'its okay to find them attractive, you dont have to keep calling them woman just because you like them' AND THE PERSON ADMITTED THEY FOUND THE ACTOR ATTRACTIVE!!!! Like my point was made and proved!! Ive never actually been involved with one of these people actually admitting theyer being hateful because of their own mixed feelings and questioning themselves. That and a Jamie video, we are LIVING today!
(2:50) I do like that the act is written neutrally. We know it's to protect LGBTQ+, but it also protects straights too, since straight is also a sexual orientation. It does not, as far as I can see, protect atheists, and there's vagueness if it protects cis-people. But this can still be a good thing to highlight, that this act isn't specifically saying homo or bi, but all sexual orientations including hereto/straight. This to show that this isn't for supremacy but for equality.
Even without showing their name, i somehow can guess who the terf attacking Caster Semenya is. There is one famous terf in particular that has an unhealthy hatred of intersex women as well as trans women.
I have won many many games of pool, where I was playing against a man, just like many many other women who play pool has. After all, it's hand eye coordination and a bit of strategy ,not physical strength
If people are mad that women don't like their breasts, and i know many female presenting women who don't like their breasts, can we take a step back and look at how we think AND SPEAK about breasts? There's a lot of harassment out there that needs stopping. This won't fix gender dysphoria, but it will make life easier for everyone.
Reminds me of an instagram reel I saw where the woman speaking said "women AND uterus owners" and the comments had angry transphobes being like "why I am being reduced to my uterus?!" and "I won't be renamed to uterus owner," conveniently forgetting the part where the op said "**WOMEN** and uterus owners"
I don't know why but "uterus owner" just gives me a picture of someone walking a uterus on a leash like it's a dog. "I got my uterus from a shelter, it's a rescue uterus" "I'm sorry, my uterus doesn't get along with children" Just makes me giggle.
That hydra is now my PC background. For clarity... I am a proud, open, vocal trans Sikh woman. Thank you transphobes for giving me one of the coolest backgrounds I have ever had on a pc!
Goodness, does this make me glad that even when I was homophobic and transphobic, I mainly kept it to myself, unless asked (which is still very problematic!). I am grateful 1) I was raised with the belief that hate is not ok and that the division of church and state is (generally) a good thing and 2) a friend asked me to go educate myself and listen to people's experiences - thank you! :) To anyone in the position I was a couple of years ago: Please go do some research and listen to voices like Jamie's. Take all arguments with an open mind and form your own opinion! :) Anyway, ... Thanks for another great video, Jamie! I'll just hit "comment". 😅
I mean, the whole bathroom thing is what i have been trying to say for YEARS! When I first heard about the whole bathroom bill, I was honestly confused and uneducated about what the terms Transman and Transwoman meant because I wasn't sure if it meant for example an afab person transitioning from female to male would call themselves a Transwoman or a Transman and vice versa but guess what? I learned. I educated myself. And when I educated myself I realized that the whole bathroom bill thing was ridiculous because they were asking people who look like Jamie to use the women's restroom and people who look like Luxeria to use the men's bathroom... And I knew that that's not what they wanted. They are just uneducated and haven't chosen to educate themselves.
So I have an assignment coming up in English class to make a speech in front of the class about something I'm passionate about, and after watching this video I feel like I want to do it about trans rights, and debunking common transphobic myths (I am not trans myself, but I feel there's a lot I could say on this subject- there's also a lot of people in my class who ought to be educated on this matter..) uh, yeah. So I just wanted to say, ty for making this video and all your other content, as I will probably be watching a lot more in the next few months haha
*meanwhile lgbtq community *sending death threats *James Charles targeting 15 year old boys * Cyper bullying *calling everyone transphophic and homophopic *Trying to fire people *Alot of p£%& (try finding anything gay without it being sexual at all *Lying about what's going on By the way I am lgbtq, this channel lies soo much.
*meanwhile lgbtq community *sending death threats *James Charles targeting 15 year old boys * Cyper bullying *calling everyone transphophic and homophopic *Trying to fire people *Alot of p£%& (try finding anything gay without it being sexual at all *Lying about what's going on By the way I am lgbtq, this channel lies soo much.
28:55 have you heard alongside Pool and Chess, Trans Women are also being bullied out of Beauty Pageants for the same reasons? Yeah, lets all soak in the dumb.
There’s also a hella bunch of trans phobia in esports. Yknow, pc games. And they were all like, “ha see trans women have an unfair advantage” when a team on an all women’s team won the international championship (and the trans woman got MVP). Despite the fact that one of the teams with two guys on it lost in like the first round.
To be fair, beauty pageants are kinda dumb in general. But I agree, excluding trans-women is extra stupid. Sexualizing and objectifying minors who compete in pageants: "I see nothing wrong with that." Trans-women competing in pageants: "Absolutely not!"
@@danielomar9712 I'm stumped...🤔 And as a bonus, it starts teaching the contestants at a young age that their only purpose is to look pretty, their only value is in their appearance, they only exist to be a desirable object, a commodity to be possessed, maybe even bought and sold... Definitely doesn't sound "groomer-ish", nope, not at all. Nothing to see here, folks; move along now.
Oh, please wait. As someone who felt like that myself at your age. I came into myself as I got older. I just don’t want you to do anything that you might later regret. Just wait a few years, maybe. If you still feel the same. Go for it. I’m sorry I am putting my experiences on you, that is wrong. I guess it’s just up to you to make that choice.
Woman: I feel uncomfortable that this transman is in here Me: Oh look if it isn't the consequences of your own actions & also know you know how trans people feel when they're forced into spaces based on the sex they were born as instead of being able to go into the spaces based on their gender identity Like if a person regardless of their gender wanted to be a creep they're going to be a creep. Most people who aren't creeps just want to use the toilet & go about their day
I love when Jamie pitch shifts his voice for a joke or for emphasis on how ridiculous the argument was, and doubly funny when he zooms in on his face while doing so. Adorably silly.
I feel like whenever transphobes try to "define" a woman, they exclude actual biological women as well. There are biological women that can't have kids, and that is the reality. I am a woman myself and I have never wished to have kids, and I shock people by that statement alone, as if just because I am physically able to means that I MUST want kids.
Even cis women who've never had infertility issues, miscarriages, or injuries to their reproductive organs, still ALL age out of being able to have kids eventually (assuming they live long enough). So many transphobes forget menopause is a thing.
Reminds me of this tiktok where a woman talks to a tv host and says "Do you know what the number 1 cause of death is for pregnant people?" and he's like "Mothers, you mean mothers?" condiscendingly. My guy, I am a cis woman, as was my 'mother' however no one would call my 'mother' thatr. she birthed me. women who try to drown their children cannot be called mother. mother=/= pregnant person
God the way they used semantics that are supposedly in support of women in order to LITERALLY drown out a conversation of about the deaths of pregnant people, whom are mostly women... that's a perfect example of how facetious these people's claims of 'feminism' and 'defending women' are.
Yesterday, I quit a podcast because the creator is transphobic and had the audacity to accuse me of being judgmental for calling him out on constantly misgendering me and acting like it wasn’t an issue. In case anyone wants to know, it’s the Agape Freedom podcast.
6:34 Depending on which version of the progress pride flag was used, it's actually even a sign AGAINST mutilation of children (which is still happening with intersex babies in some places).
Oh no, not a French transphobe... So embarrassing... Secu is short for Sécurité Sociale which is the French equivalent of the NHS. And here, in good old France, our senate just voted against minors transitioning. So yes, lot of transphobia over here these days...
The physical advantage thing is so stupid. Every professional athlete has a physical advantage or they would’ve have been able to become a pro. Basketball players are tall, that’s their advantage. Gymnasts are flexible and usually short. If you immediately bulk up and have short legs you probably won’t be a great runner. I always sucked at the forms at karate tournaments cause I’m tall and lanky and my forms will never look as good as those of a shorter, properly proportioned person. On the other hand, I have a range advantage in fighting
Uhg as a trans woman who only found that out a few months ago, this sort of rhetoric nowadays has made me incredibly scared for my safety and well-being and possibly of living the life that would make me happy (I live in the southeastern US for context). I've been bi for years but now am practically lesbian; I'm still coming to terms with that and have had some doubts about lesbians actually wanting me since I haven't medically transitioned and have barely socially transitioned yet. Still very much male-presenting :( These sort of views from transphobes are incredibly harmful and I really hope some positive change starts happening soon. I really appreciate the content you make Jamie, keep it up!
I mean, you made sex irrelevant so yes, you erase same sex attraction. Can you stop pretending that trans identified males don't harass lesbians (as in FEMALES) and call them bigots and transphobes if they don't want to date or sleep with them. The term "genitals preference" is evidence to this.
I've pointed that out to a transphobe ones, but they were dead set on calling gender affirming haircuts sexist. As if all woman some how base thier womanhood on the same exact things. Transphobia is deeply rooted in homophobia, which is deeply rooted in sexism.
When I inquired about private surgery last year I got quoted £10,000 for top surgery and £70,000 for phalloplasty, which converted into euros is €94,027 which isn't far off what was said, assuming it's the same price over there. Trasitioning is expensive AF and I am so thankful for the NHS
Here in Germany, the prices between private and public healthcare vary A LOT. My mastectomy was about 5k, a friend inquiring about the same surgery with the same surgeon but private was quoted 40k.
Y'all go through PMs insanely fast. As an American, it's hard to keep track. The last I remember is the one that Australian media misidentified at the queen's funeral.
I'm 24, genderfluid (and it's a mess), and my family, friends and bf are... A mess too. It's hard to be... Half-half closetted/unclosetted. I openly try to affirm myself, but damn, how hard it is when you switch from one side to another and your close ones are dismissive about it, joking about it. I had a conversation with my older brother, and he... Outwardly said that no matter how much one can try, a woman can never be a mn because they didn't face the same challenge and weren't raised to be one, and same from man to woman, that it's easy to tell them apart, and that he thinks us trying to make us know is extreme attention seeking. That we put cishets aside and create sides by naming and categorizing people. And I feel so hurt about it, because what the hell am I supposed to do ? It's already so hard to try and make my mind around who I am, or what I want to be, or if I can simply stop fluctuating, but having my dearest ones just... Tell such hurtful things.. I dunno what I should do. I don't understand how to make them be kind about that. I dunno what I'm doing. I just feel like crap.
Hang in there. Sometimes people who love you are afraid that if you follow a different path, you will get hurt. They think that they are protecting you by squashing what they see as a frightening possible future. They don't understand that the real hurt is coming from them. You may not be able to make them be kind, but it can help to understand that they actually do care about you.
With the post picking you and Sam out specifically is so funny because it was because of you two that made me come to accept myself and start HRT getting close to being on amit for a year (about two months) and its honestly been so life changing in the best way possible. Who knows if i never found you or other trans youtubers i may have never gotten to this point but i have and im very happy and thankful for all the youtubers who have showed me that it is okay ❤️
see, I'm torn on the Musk vs Rowling thing. he was making that comment from a place of misogyny (how many men are equally obsessed with being transphobes?), but also I want to see them bankrupt each other with defamation suits, and then fight to the death in a Thunderdome replica cobbled together from exploded Tesla cars.
It really irks me that so many people refuse to educate themselves on Trans and other lgbq plus matters. I can only imagine they fear they'll find out how horrible they've been thinking!! Fear and ignorance certainty seem to be the key ingredients here!! I love you Jamie and absolutely support any human being and expressing themselves!!!
Well this is hard to watch. I don't really encounter transphobia IRL anymore because of my passing privilege and my social circles. So getting these reminders of how many ppl would rather want me dead is so disturbing. I bet some of these haters are the same ppl who are nice to my face every day out in the world.
So sad your visit to MN was sold out before I could get a ticket, but so happy for you and Shaaba that it sold out so quickly! I hope your tour is AMAZING! 🧡🧡🧡
Recently went to a prayer meeting (I'm trans and Christian) and was a bit late so sat at the back with the old guys. When we were going to break up for prayer, they offered for me to go sit near my church people, but I said I'd be fine. I hate the age divide in a lot of these places. But yeah, that resulted in the first thing being prayed about being "the Satanic influence of the LGBT" and such. My prayer was "that people would act with wisdom, love, and knowledge" in those areas. Afterwards I casually mentioned I was trans. Think the guys just about had a heart attack. Oh well, maybe now they've MET a trans person they'll think a second time before being transphobic in front of a stranger.
Yep, it's astonishing the reactions when someone tries to say that you agree that trans people are evil, only to tell them you're trans and they lose their minds (I only do it if it's safe).
The protestors of the Scottish hate crime act are basically against EVERYONE included in the hate crime act, because saying they are only mad about the Trans part is essentially saying that it doesn't matter about anyone else on the list that is described in the act, they don't even exist in their eyes... As a disabled individual in the LGBTQ+ community, I don't want to be further hated on, but I don't want to be treated as though I don't exist either...Ignoring someones existence is one of the saddest ways to hate on someone.
Yeah... and every time the elections happen, there's always a rise in transphobia as the two big parties here use transphobia as part of their policies Just like most countries, they never act on their election policies - it's just to draw in transphobic supporters. Then after the elections they mysteriously forget about trans people entirely, only commenting on us when they want to remove more of our rights.
36:51 this has been my friend’s (and subsequently my own” argument against the whole “scary dangerous men infiltrating women’s restrooms or locker rooms to assault women and girls” narrative. My friend, a trans man who looks like an extra from Sons of Anarchy, put it best: “if I grant to you that there are predators trying to get into these spaces, what do you think is genuinely more dangerous? Someone going through years of effort and huge expense and trouble to ‘look like a woman’ to gain access, or making it normal for someone who looks like me to be in the ladies room?”
So the government should buy everyone a house, because like everyone pays taxes. Therefore in twenty years they would have paid for it themselves. Ridiculous. If people want cosmetic surgery, they can pay for it.
Jamie has absolutely not made me hate my body, but instead encouraged me to be comfortable in it and love myself for who I am. I would be far worse off without access to these videos
Why do phobes make some of the most ironically cool memes and pictures that are appropriated by the LGBTQIA+ community? It's not fucking fair. That hydra was sick!
Slight correction on the whole nothing like srs or hrt till a teen Sex reassignment surgery in some places is mandated in America. These places are all conservative and the bills target intersex babies. Meaning if you have an intersex infant they have to be "fixed"
@@30000beesinatrenchcoat And then there's the inserted loopholes or flat out abandoning of anti trans legislation for the practice. Hypocrisy is expected and isn't worse than the harm caused but it's quite something.
The fact that a bunch of these are misspelled just speaks to how uneducated they keep choosing to be 😢 Idk if you’ll see this but love your videos Jamie, I’ve been watching for years and I’m sticking around :)
@@goodpeople25 There is some misogyny there, but the reason I think it's misandry is because 'women-only spaces' (as said in the name) exclude men. Even without factoring in the transphobia it's already wrong to claim that cis men shouldn't be allowed in some places.
there’s also a lot of misogyny in the way they talk about us transfems, i remember seeing a terf talking about a transfem who was happy trying on a swimsuit and a bunch of other terfs were all like “nooo, ‘REAL’ women are INSECURE and MISERABLE when trying on swimsuits!!!”
Hop you enjoyed the video, if you want to come see us on tour, click here for tickets: linktr.ee/jammidodger
Will you do another tour and visit in California 🥺 please and thankyou
Really wish you were stopping in San Francisco!! Maybe on your next book tour. Say hi to Shaaba for me!!❤
This was of your most informative videos, and I truly hope that this video opens people's eyes. I so enjoy the way I feel after I watch your videos. Share all your videos with Facebook friends, who I might add, are mostly supported by transwomen. Thank you for being you!
@@oddreviews7645 You do realize lgbt people are born lgbt, meaning right now their are over 108.7 million lgbt children in the world. 21.7 million of which are trans kids.
Trans man don’t have penis ! Impossible 😮
I work at a vet hospital. A well-known phenomenon in vet med is pets who do better with women/owners who believe their pet to have been abused based on their response towards men. The transphobic comments that my trans woman coworker gets are wild. A recent client, wearing pride flag accessories, told her she was uncomfortable with her handling her pet (due to pet being better with women) because coworker "is not a complete woman." She went on to say coworker should "work harder to present as more female." It's totally messed up. A guy client yesterday called her "sir," noticed he messed up, muttered about "uh oh, I think 'he's' offended." I talked to the client as he checked out, he technically apologized, but made it clear he barely wanted to refer to my coworker as a human being much less her preferred gender, and emphasized what a hassle "all this woke stuff" is for him. I told him, "it's ok to make mistakes, as long as you learn from them." He looked at me like I slapped him. I'll never get how he justifies all the effort it takes for him to be that relentlessly transphobic, when learning to use a new pronoun is so much less effort.
For the record, pets don't care what's in your pants or on your birth certificate. If pets do sense hormones, a trans woman has higher estrogen than most cis women. But from experience, even pets who prefer one gender to another, mostly respond to attitude and demeanor. I've had "women only" pets that do fine with 6 ft+ bearded cis men because they have good body language and emotional awareness.
My parents adopted a dog who was very nervous around my dad at first, probably because of this. But we worked with her, chummed her with treats and fun one-on-one time, and helped her become much more comfortable with tall AMAB people. People can help their pets recover from and deal with trauma. And you're right about relaxed body language and emotional awareness. Unless the dog was actively showing more stress toward your coworker than present AFABs, Ms. Pride Merch was just using her dog as an excuse to be an asshole.
I hope your coworker's doing well. Glad you're supporting her. The other client may not become a better person, but he knows people around her will not put up with his shitty behavior, and will hopefully act accordingly. That's important.
Even though your final paragraph is both valid morally and most likely scientifically _(I’m saying “most likely” as I’m not a biologist of any sort, and my base urge is to word myself in such a way that I still have “a way out” in case I’m wrong, even though I know a claim is correct),_ I still love “gender euphoric because of homophobic pet” jokes. I find them hysterical.
I'm a cis woman and whenever my trans girlfriend gets misgendered, I go "oh I'm so sorry, I'm actually a woman, I know it's an easy mistake to make!" I'm a masc lesbian and get misgendered myself sometimes 😂
It's so weird and gross when cis/straight people project human societal biases onto animals and children. And they *we* are the ones "forcing" things. lol
@@amandasunshine2I love that for you two
Everyone needs to keep calling it Twitter. If only just to piss off Musky.
It's only fair to his daughter
@@audreydoyle5268 Exactly. I can't imagine being trans and having a transphobic Elon Musk as a father.
Gen X. Definitely still calling it Twitter. Musky can kick rocks.
Twitter
We stop deadnaming Elon's website as soon as Elon stops deadnaming his kid
trans minor here, nobody is transitioning me! when i went to the gp they said that i might be able to get an appointment when i am 18 and the only thing until then is maybe i could get therapy. this is the reality
As a trans minor i wish someone would transition me, it would be quicker
The medical profession is in somewhat of a bind. There is no real guidelines for what is best practise regarding this where minors are concerned. Offering you therapy is not in and of itself bad advice, it would help them and you find out if you are transgender or if your feelings are more a side effect of something else, but the utter state that is mental healthcare provision in the UK (you say GP so I'm assuming British) renders that worthless as a suggestion.
@Sir_Gerald_Nosehairs. GP just means general practitioner. I think it's a bit of a reach to guess where someone's from based on their use of GP or GC(P)
But as someone from 🇺🇲 and who has watched Jamie for a while and seen the studies he's sited, I believe telling your GP, being referred to Therapy and when the minor comes of age, if therapy has proven they ARE trans, only then can they start a plan for whatever their transitions goal may entail. Hormones at 16, surgery after 18.
@@kaelin_cherise they really should stop doing that though... come on, put them on blockers first so they don't have to deal with their body poisoning itself at least, then take your time doing all of that psych stuff
also OP: im so, so sorry! i would suggest looking at what local trans communities and gender clinics say rather than relying on your GP, GPs are notoriously bad at knowing about trans care
another trans minor here!! i cannot get access to hormones unless my parents consent to any of it, and i cannot get any surgeries legally till 18, and even then it is a loooooooooong process. this is my canadian reality, to add another respective
Not gonna lie, the gender ideology Hydra sounds awesome. One head for every gender.
I know! Metal as hell.
I feel like if someone were to draw this, it would look hella boss. 🤔
Transgender hydras? Badass
Infinite heads
counterpoint: gender ideology snake. one meter for every trans person, so approximateelyyy 6 times around the world :3 Jörmungandr can suck it
that transphobe not understanding how awesome that trans hydra looks is actually kinda sad. like i would love that as a tapestry or something.
I love it when transphobes, or bigots in general, make art that goes so hard and makes the group that they're making fun of, look badass
pocari roo made them into shirts if you're interested :p
Cool as it may look, it is ai generated
Others on reddit have made actual versions of it, which just goes to show how much we like the concept
@@SergioRamos-iv6qw Like the PriDEMONth thing?
@@_StarlightRose_damn, that sucks. But it makes sense, transphobes are the talentless types to use AI to do stuff for them
I'm a taxpayer in Canada, where quite a lot of gender affirming care is covered by our healthcare system. As far as I'm concerned, healthcare isn't only for saving lives, it's also for improving quality of life. I'm not only contributing to people's organ transplants and cancer treatments, I'm also contributing to their knee replacements and cataract surgeries. Gender affirming care is life improving (and can be life saving in indirect ways), so as far as I'm concerned, it's healthcare, and I'm happy to contribute to it.
Absolutely. That’s so great. Really glad Canada isn’t like America. Everyone should be able to get healthcare. Weather they have money or not.
The Canadian system isn’t perfect, but still I will gladly contribute to the improvement of people’s lives!
If only you can get a doctor. I'm Canadian, and the last doctor I had told me that my suicidal ideation was a "phase" because perimenopause doesn't exist, and therefore, I couldn't have any more dysphoria than I had previously and if I've been able to cope my entire life (very poorly) I didn't need help. I no longer have a doctor and can't get a new one. I've kind of given up on ever feeling good with myself and in my own skin and try to just get through each day.
@cielvt noooooo im so sorry youre dealing with that. Yeah mental health care in Canada is awful. Unless you have money to go private, your only option is a GP, and they don't know wtf they're doing for mental health. I had a good psychiatrist when I lived in Edmonton, and it was covered under a program at the U of A hospital. But now I'm in Toronto and pretty much all I can do is maintain the progress I've made because my GP doesn't want to refer me to a government covered psych, and I don't have money to go private. My experience has mostly been similar to yours, it's almost impossible to find a doctor who will listen and take time to solve mental health issues. They just give you some excuse for why you don't really need it and move on. It's slowly improving, but while they get their shit together, people like you are left hanging 🥲
@suchnothing oh I'm so sorry to hear that too! I'm in ON too, and all we've heard for years is how much better Healthcare is in AB... but... the political climate, not so much. Not that we're doing much better here. I'm basically trying to self treat with supplements to keep the bandaid on. I'm also trying to convince my partner that it wouldn't be a waste of money to save for top surgery and go private for that. I hope you're doing well in the 6ix!
The one about the woman seeing a trans man in a woman's bathroom and being uncomfortable is really just "oh no! The consequences of my actions!"
Yep. I remember an article about one of the earliest bathroom bans that had the legislators facing the consequences of their actions when a bunch of trans men (prepared with birth certificates) showed up at the public government building to use the women's bathroom. Apparently a bunch of women who worked there (including at least one who had direct involvement in the bill) were annoyed a bunch of big hairy men were in the bathroom with them. Security was called and, upon being shown birth certificates, couldn't kick them out. Like hmmm, if it isn't the consequences of your own actions.
I participated in a protest at the Governor's office against a trans bathroom bill. At one point, I had to use the bathroom, and asked a staffer where one was. He directed me to the men's room, which I used. Later, I wrote a letter to the governor, telling him that if he signed the bill in question, I will have committed a crime (since I was AFAB), and the staffer could arguably be charged as an accessory for telling me to use the men's room. We will see where that goes.
@@viverra nice, hope it doesn't pass
11:05 THANK YOU so much for talking about the ACTUAL costs of transitioning, there's been so much fearmongering about how expensive it is, and unfortunately I have seen fears about costs change the choices of people who are considering transitioning. NO ONE should have to think 'can I afford it?' when thinking about necessary and sometimes life saving medical care
The cost would also deppend on where you live.
For me, if i was trans, it would be totally free, and i'd require no more than just informed consent (that is how i think it should be). In the US, i've heard it can be really expensive, and requires "permission" from a therapist.
@@Giuliana-w1fin the state where I live (heavily Republican right-wing state), the model is 'informed consent'. This means that to get HRT, top surgery, or anything except genital reconfiguration surgery, you don't need a therapist involved at all. Having diagnoses can help make sure insurance pays their part of the cost, but it's not required at all. Your endocrinologist or surgeon or whatever, will only need to sit with you and explain what you can expect to happen, what risks are involved, etc., and then you can get your hormones or surgeries or whatever.
So it's not like that in all of the US, fortunately. Even some really terrible places allow you to access medical care with very little gatekeeping. On the other hand, the individual cost is much higher here than in some other nations like yours.
I used to be a janitor whose job it was to clean the bathrooms at a grocery store. I guarantee the floor is not sticky because of trans women pissing on the floor. Its sticky because of toddlers pissing on the floor, because of older women who have accidents, and because of women who insist on squatting over the toilet and then refuse to clean up afterward.
Not to mention, it could also just be that the janitor accidentally used too much cleaning solution or the water started getting too dirty.
cis women piss all over public bathrooms, it drives me mad because IF EVERYONE SAT ON THE TOILET SEAT THERE COULD NEVER BE PISS ON IT TO NEED TO AVOID SITTING DOWN!!! and don’t get me started on the awful menstrual messes some people leave! i can assure you a trans woman was not the one who left the stall covered in blood with a tampon on the floor!
@@SakeShinobi97 that absolutely does happen yeah. I sometime had to go back over spots that were already cleaned because of people not using the correct amount of soap per water. Theres also the soap and water that get all over the floor from the sink - even if you shake your hands out before going to dry them, youre still gonna drip water on the ground, and thats where most of the footprints in the bathroom come from
I think the whole “birthing person” or other inclusive language means “erasing womanhood” is so strange. I’m reminded of how so many services/signs/bathrooms were (some still are) “mum and baby” with no equivalent for dads, meaning that habit/trend excluded fathers with children. Like no changing table in the men’s restroom for example. Using the word “parent” doesn’t erase women when it includes dads, it’s no different when including trans or non binary people.
Omg I hadn't thought about it like that but that's actually such a good point
You have to keep in mind that terfs are intrinsically sexist and resent womanhood. They define it entirely as being able to carry/raise children, no different than religious fundamentalists do. So when they see parenthood and reproductive language made gender neutral, they view this as”erasing women” because womanhood to them is defined as motherhood, or potential for motherhood. There’s also a particular irony in the fact that many terfs who accuse trans people of erasing women refer to themselves as “large gamete producers” or “adult human female” rather than women.
This!
Yep, and even if someone is excluding/ignoring trans people, calling all pregnant people women means they are saying 4 year olds are women. Yes, that has unfortunately happened.
Also
Is so hard for them to understand that:
Birthing people: for trans and nb
Birthing women: for... well, for women lol
So I dont understand why they get mad?? Like- no body is excluding you
Does that mean I was a man while I was pregnant with my kids because there were testicles inside my uterus?
Temporary transition
Yep, definitely. 😂 /s
LMAO I DIDN'T THINK ABOUT IT THAT WAY
Lmao more proof phobes don't actually follow any form of known earth logic 😂
I'm currently pregnant with a baby with testicles. Which means I've "grown a pair."
11:56 Hi french person here. Secu is short for Sécurité sociale, or social security, which is basically a national insurance service. Some of our taxes go to it, and if we're ever sick / out of job / etc, we can benefit from it. (idk about the amounts of money involved though, I'm a student I don't pay taxes yet)
This! It's our healthcare system. A French equivalent to NHS for UK.
The brain rot caused by transphobia is actually quite preventable but some people keep forgetting that
It is also reversable, but people forget that too. This is coming from an out and proud trans man who was convinced by my mother as a teenager that 'real' trans people are so rare that you would likely never meet one and that nonbinary people are 'just confused'. A combination of being hit like a truck with gender dysphoria, going to my first Pride events and going to college on an art course where basically a third of the people there are queer showed me otherwise. It is preventable and even if it happens can be reversed! Do not give up hope!
@@J.J.DoeArt have you had your mother re-educated too?
Or how is that going?
@@J.J.DoeArt oh and congratulations on coming out ofc 🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵
@@ninjawizard3865 you better reeducate her. These people need to be reeducated.
@@ninjawizard3865educated again
The tax thing baffles me so much. People apply the same logic to disability income. If not supporting society what the hell do you think you're paying taxes for!?
Also idk about France but here in the netherlands we have mandatory health insurance that costs a small fortune so most people still pay for their own healthcare, just spread out
@@ThatSpoonieTransGuy Was about to say that, do they think trans people don't pay taxes
@@fleonez6610 that too XD
The people who don't want taxes used for supporting society believe that taxes should only support the military and... hm... what other things that can hurt the people they don't like?
Oh, roads and bridges also used to be something that those people thought taxes should be used for... but now they think of that as communism.
So, those people, and we know who I'm talking about here [coughconservatives/republicanscough], they think taxes should only support the big throbbing dick of the military that they love to heterosexually suck all day long.
The same people also don't breathe a word about all the money that goes to military spending and wars of imperialism.
they're so mad at the idea of their tax money going towards helping trans people, but imagine if they were denied healthcare because someone ideologically disagreed with treating them for something lol
In the US, viagra is generally covered by a health plan, even though impotence is NOT a life-threatening condition. What it does is affect the psychological well-being of those with the condition, and can quite accurately be called gender-affirming care. How does that differ from gender-affirming hormone treatment?
do you count austerity measures as an ideology? a lot of people mad about trans care already have faced a loss of their own benefits, they’re just not clever enough to realize it’s all the same thing and is bad for everyone
Saying birthing person is "erasing women" is like saying mammal excludes primates. Just idiocy.
@@noteworthy__a3763 Yeah, and not all birthing people are women. Some are men, some are even nonbinary :)
@@MisterMixxyBirthing person isn't erasing anyone and if a trans man would prefer that term that's great. But I'm a pregnant woman and a mother and that's how I'd like to be referred to 😊 it's not hard to respect everyone's preferences. Though it's trans men* who can get pregnant. Medically the distinction matters. The fact cis women and trans men are female is what allows us to give birth.
We aren't birthing people. We aren't womb owners. We aren't second class citizens that deserve objectionable labels. Stop being hateful to women. That's the basis of your philosophy is that women don't deserve our rights. Idiocy is thinking women need to go back to being slaves to men.
That's what the agenda is pushing, that women have no right to our rights or to be safe and comfortable in our own places. It's misogyny. Which is the really stupid thing. The agenda is trying to erase us in any way possible. That's why we fight back.
I know we have a lot of nerve caring about our own rights. It's really offensive to men that hate women to think we aren't just going to sit quietly and be marginalized so you can exploit us.
Exactly. Transphobes look for every damn excuse to be mad while trying and failing to hide their bigotry.
@@MisterMixxy agreed
Some birthing folks are additionally intersex themselves and some are multigender
I can't believe Musk told Rowling to go touch grass 😂.
When even Musk thinks you've lost it.
Hey Jamie, I had an idea for a future video. I think you should consider making a video in collaboration with someone who has expertise on the topic covering the current state of LGBTQ+ legislature in the EU. It's not something I've seen others do, and it's very useful information particularly for your viewer base. I hope you'll consider this for a future video, and have a nice day, internet stranger!
Edit: At the suggestion of some other commenters, I have changed the geographical area of interest from the US to the EU, as well as suggested a collab instead of an independent video.
That would be a very long video and he also isn't from the US though, it would be better if he did that for the UK
Or compare different countries instead
@@Giuliana-w1f That works too. I just think it would be useful to a lot of people to have a guide to where they can feel safe to live, whether that be in the US or in the EU
@@Giuliana-w1f I think that's a better idea. I need to know where it's safe to run if Emperor Cheeto gets his way.
@@veronicafoxx8590Omfg 😭
What gets me is the people who will scream about how evil it is to indoctrinate children are the same people who will howl and scream that children need to be in church.
They're actually perfectly fine with indoctrinating kids as long as it's their preferred indoctrination.
💯 yep 😔
you have to know it's bad when elon musk of all people is telling you to get a life
Being told to touch grass by notorious non grass-toucher Elon Mus is a new low, even for JKJK.
This has been my transition process as a trans teen:
-Cut my hair short (it's grown out some so it looks like a mullet right now)
-Get a binder (it can cause permanent damage to ribs if you're not careful, but I'm being careful with it)
-Wear clothes from the men's section (I get my older brother's hand me downs)
-Come out to my doctors, and 5 people. Only 5 other people know. 4 of which are family members. I am in a family of 12.
My doctors did not try to get me to transition. I was at the appointment for other reasons (anxiety med adjustments), and I mentioned being trans as a part of my anxiety. They recommended me a therapist that specializes in trauma and anxiety, and is trans friendly.
My therapist has told me that while I can't change my body right now, a few years down the line I possibly can. She's also told me that if I come to the conclusion that I'm not trans, she will still support me.
I'm not being pushed in any direction.
Exactly! Having the help / info available isn't pushing anyone in a particular direction. I started transitioning at 30, and even then, while I had access to the medical transition, nobody pushed me towards it. I had to voice the fact that I wanted to go on t. I had to voice the fact that I wanted top surgery. Nobody will force-feed you hormones or whatever just because you're gender questionning.
@Milo-hp9fw best of luck on your journey, whatever form that might take.
That’s good, I just said about myself to someone else and realised I shouldn’t do that since everyone is different. As a tomboy, I would have been in this situation, but I grew out of it. But that doesn’t mean others do. You should do what makes you happy and comfortable. Love ❤️ from Australia 🇦🇺
Exactly, information is not indoctrination. I'm glad you have support❤
Ah... there's something hilarious about the "Go to your ASSIGNED bathrooms! - Okay. - Wait, NO! HELP!".
The person talking about "birth giving" and "eviscerating womens rights".... women's rights surrounding reproductive health care IS at risk, and it has NOTHING TO DO WITH TRANS PEOPLE?!?!
Happy almost-pride! The best weapon I have against transphobia, as a transwoman, is the fact that I’m genuinely happy in a loving relationship with an incredibly supportive group of friends and family, secure in my body for the first time. They want me miserable but I’m happier than I’ve ever been.
Thanks for the content, great stuff as always!
Omg that's so great I'm so happy for you🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️
I'm soooo excited for pride this year, and i only have one more exam before june
“…bu- …b-b-but, m-mm… muh fatherless argument!”
Nice going, always awesome to see somebody in a good and loving family.
@@argumentator08 lol, my dad was VERY involved in my life and raised me well so that “argument” always makes me laugh.
@@ServalSign yeah, whenever someone pulls that argument I do something similar, only I pull the “my dad is in the room with me, as we speak (true right now), and I’m bi/pansexual, so uhh…” comeback. ALWAYS, without fail, shuts them right up.
Happy almost pride!!! As a trans man with a wonderful group of friends and family, I could not agree more! (And i may have daddy issues, but that is completely separate from my identity lmfao)
For the internal testicle one: I guess that means everyone who is fairly healthy and/or has never had a full abdominal scan (can’t use X-rays) doesn’t know their gender. Because I know despite several doctors appointments and ER visits I have never had an abdominal scan nor a chromosome test so I guess I am the shrodinger gender?
It's actually more complicated than that. A penis and a clitoris are essentially the same tissue, just with developmental differences, and the same is true of ovaries versus testicles. And development can be weird! Emily Quinn (Ted talk here on RUclips) is intersex; as she says in her talk, she has both a vagina and (internal) balls. And despite having XY chromosomes, she is not a man. Being intersex to one extent or another is actually not at all uncommon.
@@viverra exactly! People think sex (going to ignore gender) is so black and white but that’s only because so few people actually “know” what their sex is because it’s assumed based on external characteristics rather than actual imaging or genetic/chromosomal studies.
Classic patriarchy move to blame women for women’s issues.
Well it is women's fault that interest rates are going up
@@MikxPerson women do be shopping
@@spook6394 lmao yeah
Unfortunately true.
Dude, I had no idea what trans even was until I was like... probably 13/14. I had been wanting to be called Jason and hated the idea that I was made to be a girl since I was a little kid. Gender ideology didn't change me- I was trans forever. In fact, being told what being trans was from an early age would have saved me a lot of heartache and self-hatred because I would have realized early as opposed to my late twenties that I was trans and could have accepted myself earlier on as opposed to thinking I was just a really butch lesbian and not fully recognizing myself. People who say they are protecting kids are really just hurting them. We aren't trying to "trans" cis kids, we're trying to save trans kids.
A note from someone in America on why people are super upset about gender neutral toilets:
Here in America, public restroom stalls often are very easy to see into and get into. The doors go from about head height to knee height, with a huge gap by the floor that it’s easy to crawl under. And in many cases, the restrooms aren’t maintained well, so the locks often don’t work or don’t hold tight. It’s very easy for creeps to spy on people or get into stalls. I’ve seen stuff like that in the news on tv before.
Why aren’t things better maintained or made with better quality? Because no one wants to spend money to fix them up or make them well to begin with. And once the restrooms are made, nobody wants to clean them or take care of them. It’s seen as an awful job no one wants to do. My aunt worked a hardware store and her coworkers refused to clean the restroom and made her do it despite her having disabilities that make it impossible for her to clean all of it without assistance.
I can’t speak for in other countries, but where I’m from people don’t like the idea of gender neutral restrooms because they’re not safe and private as it is right now. But of course no one wants to spend the money to fix them up and make them ok.
There used to be a lot of family restrooms in malls and stuff, which are basically a small room with one toilet, a sink, and a changing station for babies. These have a door that fully closes. But people don’t like to build these, because it’s a huge waste of space. If we brought these back in new buildings and made them gender neutral restrooms I really doubt people would have a huge issue. They wouldn’t even need to be labeled as gender neutral if people have a problem with that term. Just call them family restroom like they used to be called and anyone who needs a gender neutral restroom would have one.
Personally, I’ve used gender neutral restrooms that are like the first kind I described and I’ve never had a problem with them. All I’ve ever seen people do is use the restroom and then leave. Sure there might be people who would abuse the system, but they’re not trans people. The only news stories I’ve seen on tv of people getting hurt in restrooms was when a cishet man did something to a woman. I know people personally who are scared to death that a cishet man will dress up as a woman and go into restrooms to hurt people. I don’t get it at all. Trans people are wonderful people who just want to live their lives and be happy. Not that there couldn’t be an awful trans person, but I’ve never met one. On the contrary, I’ve met plenty of cishet men who went on to commit acts of violence towards men.
Just my random thoughts on the topic. Idk how other people feel. For context: my family is super transphobic/homophobic/racist so I deal with these sorts of arguments all the time. No matter how many facts I have, they trust their own made up facts in their head over real scientific evidence and research. I even have some people in my family who openly don’t believe in science and scientific research. It’s awful to be around.
Can you make a short of just the one where the woman was confused because corporate said their trans male co-worker had to use the women's rest room? I want to be able to send that link to every transphobe who is focused on not letting trans women into women's bathrooms!
I'm for abolishment of any gender/sex/whatever split in sports. Just people competing. People of similar physical attributes AND similar skill will end up competing with each other, naturally.
The concept of "Women Sports" was born out of necessity, as women (of all kinds) were deemed "unsuitable" to compete in anything, save for maybe poetry and knitting. Like chess - female league was established to give essentially a whole legion of relatively new and unexperienced players a space to be serious about it.
But now that any sane person will agree that any person can attempt any sport and it's none of our business, having that split is unneccessary, or even harmful.
"It is biotechnological warfare in drag, like a multiheaded hydra" my brothers, sisters, and nonbinary siblings in Gay, how did they know? Who leaked the trans hydra creation project that I'm working on?
I caught a transphobe today!!!! It was soo fun!! It was actually towards a Non-Binary person, but they were also a transphobe.
I replied to a tweet fancasting the actor that played Dane in the new Fallout show as Morph in a live action X-Men since they are non binary. I thought they were way too smouldering and model esc, so I fan-casted a different NB actor and the guy was like 'her!' to all these posts.
And then after arguing, I said 'its okay to find them attractive, you dont have to keep calling them woman just because you like them'
AND THE PERSON ADMITTED THEY FOUND THE ACTOR ATTRACTIVE!!!! Like my point was made and proved!!
Ive never actually been involved with one of these people actually admitting theyer being hateful because of their own mixed feelings and questioning themselves.
That and a Jamie video, we are LIVING today!
lmaooo that's hilarious😭 it's ok babe you can find a non binary actor attractive without having an identity crisis
Lol non-binary was also a transphobe. I bet you're a transphobe oo.
(2:50) I do like that the act is written neutrally. We know it's to protect LGBTQ+, but it also protects straights too, since straight is also a sexual orientation. It does not, as far as I can see, protect atheists, and there's vagueness if it protects cis-people.
But this can still be a good thing to highlight, that this act isn't specifically saying homo or bi, but all sexual orientations including hereto/straight. This to show that this isn't for supremacy but for equality.
Even without showing their name, i somehow can guess who the terf attacking Caster Semenya is. There is one famous terf in particular that has an unhealthy hatred of intersex women as well as trans women.
Imagine being this upset about complete strangers bodies.
I say this so often it might as well be my catchphrase at this point: bigotry is not an opinion, it's an obsession.
Hope everyone is having a wonderful week! You're all beautiful and valid! Stay positive! You've got this! 🦕🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈🦖
Dinosaur!
I have won many many games of pool, where I was playing against a man, just like many many other women who play pool has.
After all, it's hand eye coordination and a bit of strategy ,not physical strength
If people are mad that women don't like their breasts, and i know many female presenting women who don't like their breasts, can we take a step back and look at how we think AND SPEAK about breasts? There's a lot of harassment out there that needs stopping. This won't fix gender dysphoria, but it will make life easier for everyone.
Reminds me of an instagram reel I saw where the woman speaking said "women AND uterus owners" and the comments had angry transphobes being like "why I am being reduced to my uterus?!" and "I won't be renamed to uterus owner," conveniently forgetting the part where the op said "**WOMEN** and uterus owners"
I don't know why but "uterus owner" just gives me a picture of someone walking a uterus on a leash like it's a dog.
"I got my uterus from a shelter, it's a rescue uterus" "I'm sorry, my uterus doesn't get along with children"
Just makes me giggle.
Remember-hydras are cool. Transphobia is not. :)
I won’t forget that. Hydras are so cool. 😎 People on the other hand….
Hydras are sick theres an entire windows trojan thingy named after them
That hydra is now my PC background. For clarity... I am a proud, open, vocal trans Sikh woman.
Thank you transphobes for giving me one of the coolest backgrounds I have ever had on a pc!
❤
Goodness, does this make me glad that even when I was homophobic and transphobic, I mainly kept it to myself, unless asked (which is still very problematic!). I am grateful 1) I was raised with the belief that hate is not ok and that the division of church and state is (generally) a good thing and 2) a friend asked me to go educate myself and listen to people's experiences - thank you! :)
To anyone in the position I was a couple of years ago: Please go do some research and listen to voices like Jamie's. Take all arguments with an open mind and form your own opinion! :)
Anyway, ... Thanks for another great video, Jamie! I'll just hit "comment". 😅
Yeah, when I was younger I held more transphobic views, but thankfully I finally matured and funnily enough found out that I am trans! :D
@@phoenixfox4851 :D I'm glad you discovered and could accept it! :)
I mean, the whole bathroom thing is what i have been trying to say for YEARS! When I first heard about the whole bathroom bill, I was honestly confused and uneducated about what the terms Transman and Transwoman meant because I wasn't sure if it meant for example an afab person transitioning from female to male would call themselves a Transwoman or a Transman and vice versa but guess what? I learned. I educated myself. And when I educated myself I realized that the whole bathroom bill thing was ridiculous because they were asking people who look like Jamie to use the women's restroom and people who look like Luxeria to use the men's bathroom... And I knew that that's not what they wanted. They are just uneducated and haven't chosen to educate themselves.
So I have an assignment coming up in English class to make a speech in front of the class about something I'm passionate about, and after watching this video I feel like I want to do it about trans rights, and debunking common transphobic myths (I am not trans myself, but I feel there's a lot I could say on this subject- there's also a lot of people in my class who ought to be educated on this matter..) uh, yeah. So I just wanted to say, ty for making this video and all your other content, as I will probably be watching a lot more in the next few months haha
good luck
@@oreolaw9911 ty
Good luck buddy, hope it goes well
Good luck I hope it goes well
Wish you well, an update after the fact would be much appreciated.
"Are the transphobes okay?"
Were they EVER!?
*meanwhile lgbtq community
*sending death threats
*James Charles targeting 15 year old boys
* Cyper bullying
*calling everyone transphophic and homophopic
*Trying to fire people
*Alot of p£%& (try finding anything gay without it being sexual at all
*Lying about what's going on
By the way I am lgbtq, this channel lies soo much.
*meanwhile lgbtq community
*sending death threats
*James Charles targeting 15 year old boys
* Cyper bullying
*calling everyone transphophic and homophopic
*Trying to fire people
*Alot of p£%& (try finding anything gay without it being sexual at all
*Lying about what's going on
By the way I am lgbtq, this channel lies soo much.
@@cosygoose1813your fear is palpable and hilarious
@@Alex-gh8iu Learn what fear is and Learn what hilarious means. You are just coming off as a a hole.
@@cosygoose1813I really don't care what a literal nazi thinks of me, coward.
28:55 have you heard alongside Pool and Chess, Trans Women are also being bullied out of Beauty Pageants for the same reasons?
Yeah, lets all soak in the dumb.
There’s also a hella bunch of trans phobia in esports. Yknow, pc games.
And they were all like, “ha see trans women have an unfair advantage” when a team on an all women’s team won the international championship (and the trans woman got MVP).
Despite the fact that one of the teams with two guys on it lost in like the first round.
@@cloudyskyz2237
That's also dumb. Good add on.
To be fair, beauty pageants are kinda dumb in general. But I agree, excluding trans-women is extra stupid.
Sexualizing and objectifying minors who compete in pageants: "I see nothing wrong with that."
Trans-women competing in pageants: "Absolutely not!"
@@sashadoomBecause they're projecting
They want to look at kids , for some odd reason
i wonder WHY ??
@@danielomar9712 I'm stumped...🤔 And as a bonus, it starts teaching the contestants at a young age that their only purpose is to look pretty, their only value is in their appearance, they only exist to be a desirable object, a commodity to be possessed, maybe even bought and sold... Definitely doesn't sound "groomer-ish", nope, not at all. Nothing to see here, folks; move along now.
I KNEW they were gonna be uncomfortable with what they wanted, seeing it actually happen makes me feel better about this stupidity
IVE NEVER BEEN THIS EARLY FOR A VIDEO OMG !!! I love your videos sm It really makes me feel at peace with being trans (ftm) at 17
Oh, please wait. As someone who felt like that myself at your age. I came into myself as I got older. I just don’t want you to do anything that you might later regret. Just wait a few years, maybe. If you still feel the same. Go for it. I’m sorry I am putting my experiences on you, that is wrong. I guess it’s just up to you to make that choice.
@@kerrynicholls6683you don't know what's going on in their mind
Woman: I feel uncomfortable that this transman is in here
Me: Oh look if it isn't the consequences of your own actions & also know you know how trans people feel when they're forced into spaces based on the sex they were born as instead of being able to go into the spaces based on their gender identity
Like if a person regardless of their gender wanted to be a creep they're going to be a creep. Most people who aren't creeps just want to use the toilet & go about their day
I love when Jamie pitch shifts his voice for a joke or for emphasis on how ridiculous the argument was, and doubly funny when he zooms in on his face while doing so. Adorably silly.
11:58 French woman here! "secu" is the colloquial diminutive of "sécurité sociale", which is our national social security system for health expenses
I feel like whenever transphobes try to "define" a woman, they exclude actual biological women as well. There are biological women that can't have kids, and that is the reality. I am a woman myself and I have never wished to have kids, and I shock people by that statement alone, as if just because I am physically able to means that I MUST want kids.
Even cis women who've never had infertility issues, miscarriages, or injuries to their reproductive organs, still ALL age out of being able to have kids eventually (assuming they live long enough).
So many transphobes forget menopause is a thing.
Transphobes do the woman version of "save the children".
Reminds me of this tiktok where a woman talks to a tv host and says "Do you know what the number 1 cause of death is for pregnant people?" and he's like "Mothers, you mean mothers?" condiscendingly. My guy, I am a cis woman, as was my 'mother' however no one would call my 'mother' thatr. she birthed me. women who try to drown their children cannot be called mother. mother=/= pregnant person
so sorry you went through that ;;
God the way they used semantics that are supposedly in support of women in order to LITERALLY drown out a conversation of about the deaths of pregnant people, whom are mostly women... that's a perfect example of how facetious these people's claims of 'feminism' and 'defending women' are.
It's not even the 'gotcha' that he thinks it is. The person isn't a mother until AFTER the baby is born.
A pregnant person is not a mother (yet).
Thank you for this little video! Not trans, I can't really call myself an ally, but you clarified some perspectives and it was cool to watch.
Yesterday, I quit a podcast because the creator is transphobic and had the audacity to accuse me of being judgmental for calling him out on constantly misgendering me and acting like it wasn’t an issue. In case anyone wants to know, it’s the Agape Freedom podcast.
6:34 Depending on which version of the progress pride flag was used, it's actually even a sign AGAINST mutilation of children (which is still happening with intersex babies in some places).
Biotechnological warfare in drag. That's badass! Lol!
Also, you know it's bad when Elon tells you to knock it off with the transphobia... 😂
Oh no, not a French transphobe... So embarrassing... Secu is short for Sécurité Sociale which is the French equivalent of the NHS. And here, in good old France, our senate just voted against minors transitioning. So yes, lot of transphobia over here these days...
@@joesphrobinette8878 Imagine talking confidently about a subject you've never done any research about. Congrats, you're just like our senators!
The physical advantage thing is so stupid. Every professional athlete has a physical advantage or they would’ve have been able to become a pro. Basketball players are tall, that’s their advantage. Gymnasts are flexible and usually short. If you immediately bulk up and have short legs you probably won’t be a great runner. I always sucked at the forms at karate tournaments cause I’m tall and lanky and my forms will never look as good as those of a shorter, properly proportioned person. On the other hand, I have a range advantage in fighting
Uhg as a trans woman who only found that out a few months ago, this sort of rhetoric nowadays has made me incredibly scared for my safety and well-being and possibly of living the life that would make me happy (I live in the southeastern US for context). I've been bi for years but now am practically lesbian; I'm still coming to terms with that and have had some doubts about lesbians actually wanting me since I haven't medically transitioned and have barely socially transitioned yet. Still very much male-presenting :( These sort of views from transphobes are incredibly harmful and I really hope some positive change starts happening soon. I really appreciate the content you make Jamie, keep it up!
It's not X. I refuse to give any respect to Elon Musk for anything ever because he deserves only deep contempt
Dead-naming Twitter is always morally correct.
Such as
"trans people erases same sex attraction"
me looking a trans woman and being instantly attracted to her: "i don't think it does"
I mean, you made sex irrelevant so yes, you erase same sex attraction. Can you stop pretending that trans identified males don't harass lesbians (as in FEMALES) and call them bigots and transphobes if they don't want to date or sleep with them. The term "genitals preference" is evidence to this.
@@saoirse2963*trans women are female*
"Women's rights are based on sex" Is that not actual sexism? Have we come full circle?
I've pointed that out to a transphobe ones, but they were dead set on calling gender affirming haircuts sexist. As if all woman some how base thier womanhood on the same exact things. Transphobia is deeply rooted in homophobia, which is deeply rooted in sexism.
@@sandwichqueen This! I wish more people knew this. Oml
When I inquired about private surgery last year I got quoted £10,000 for top surgery and £70,000 for phalloplasty, which converted into euros is €94,027 which isn't far off what was said, assuming it's the same price over there. Trasitioning is expensive AF and I am so thankful for the NHS
Here in Germany, the prices between private and public healthcare vary A LOT. My mastectomy was about 5k, a friend inquiring about the same surgery with the same surgeon but private was quoted 40k.
Haven't had bottom surgery but my top surgery was $5k
Emo poetry is NOT that low quality!
Jamie, thank you for being a beacon of hope and optimism. Happy pride month!!! Go treat yourself, king. You deserve it❤
Love you Jamie!!💛💛🥔🥔 Not more transphobia!!😱😫
Y'all go through PMs insanely fast. As an American, it's hard to keep track. The last I remember is the one that Australian media misidentified at the queen's funeral.
Liz Truss, she’s been gone for ages. Current PM is Rishi Sunak, and on 5th July it’ll be Keir Starmer.
Our Conservative Party is kinda falling apart at the seams
I'm 24, genderfluid (and it's a mess), and my family, friends and bf are... A mess too. It's hard to be... Half-half closetted/unclosetted. I openly try to affirm myself, but damn, how hard it is when you switch from one side to another and your close ones are dismissive about it, joking about it. I had a conversation with my older brother, and he... Outwardly said that no matter how much one can try, a woman can never be a mn because they didn't face the same challenge and weren't raised to be one, and same from man to woman, that it's easy to tell them apart, and that he thinks us trying to make us know is extreme attention seeking. That we put cishets aside and create sides by naming and categorizing people. And I feel so hurt about it, because what the hell am I supposed to do ? It's already so hard to try and make my mind around who I am, or what I want to be, or if I can simply stop fluctuating, but having my dearest ones just... Tell such hurtful things.. I dunno what I should do. I don't understand how to make them be kind about that. I dunno what I'm doing. I just feel like crap.
Hang in there. Sometimes people who love you are afraid that if you follow a different path, you will get hurt. They think that they are protecting you by squashing what they see as a frightening possible future. They don't understand that the real hurt is coming from them. You may not be able to make them be kind, but it can help to understand that they actually do care about you.
In France, sex affirming care is payed by the secu (social healthcare) up to 15 000€, not 100 000€ ... Damn these people just make shit up ...
Oh my god, you know you're being insane if Elon Fucking Musk says "I agree with you but maybe chill a bit"
With the post picking you and Sam out specifically is so funny because it was because of you two that made me come to accept myself and start HRT getting close to being on amit for a year (about two months) and its honestly been so life changing in the best way possible. Who knows if i never found you or other trans youtubers i may have never gotten to this point but i have and im very happy and thankful for all the youtubers who have showed me that it is okay ❤️
see, I'm torn on the Musk vs Rowling thing. he was making that comment from a place of misogyny (how many men are equally obsessed with being transphobes?), but also I want to see them bankrupt each other with defamation suits, and then fight to the death in a Thunderdome replica cobbled together from exploded Tesla cars.
I'm eating burritos
legendary comment
Ooh what kind?
i prefer tacos myself, but still, letsfuckingGOOO
Were they nice?
@@sillybritishbomb yeah they had manners but they forgot to say please in the sentence "please don't eat us"
Gotta love dinosaurs 🩵🩷🤍🩵🩷
It really irks me that so many people refuse to educate themselves on Trans and other lgbq plus matters. I can only imagine they fear they'll find out how horrible they've been thinking!! Fear and ignorance certainty seem to be the key ingredients here!!
I love you Jamie and absolutely support any human being and expressing themselves!!!
76% of transphobes haven’t even ever met a trans person
@@cloudyskyz2237that is likely not true at all
1 in 50 are trans. They probably have, they just don't know
Well this is hard to watch.
I don't really encounter transphobia IRL anymore because of my passing privilege and my social circles.
So getting these reminders of how many ppl would rather want me dead is so disturbing.
I bet some of these haters are the same ppl who are nice to my face every day out in the world.
So sad your visit to MN was sold out before I could get a ticket, but so happy for you and Shaaba that it sold out so quickly! I hope your tour is AMAZING! 🧡🧡🧡
18:27 this is absolutely disgusting and repulsive (Early GANG!!! I love your videos)
Recently went to a prayer meeting (I'm trans and Christian) and was a bit late so sat at the back with the old guys. When we were going to break up for prayer, they offered for me to go sit near my church people, but I said I'd be fine. I hate the age divide in a lot of these places. But yeah, that resulted in the first thing being prayed about being "the Satanic influence of the LGBT" and such. My prayer was "that people would act with wisdom, love, and knowledge" in those areas. Afterwards I casually mentioned I was trans. Think the guys just about had a heart attack. Oh well, maybe now they've MET a trans person they'll think a second time before being transphobic in front of a stranger.
Yep, it's astonishing the reactions when someone tries to say that you agree that trans people are evil, only to tell them you're trans and they lose their minds (I only do it if it's safe).
The protestors of the Scottish hate crime act are basically against EVERYONE included in the hate crime act, because saying they are only mad about the Trans part is essentially saying that it doesn't matter about anyone else on the list that is described in the act, they don't even exist in their eyes...
As a disabled individual in the LGBTQ+ community, I don't want to be further hated on, but I don't want to be treated as though I don't exist either...Ignoring someones existence is one of the saddest ways to hate on someone.
Not shocking to see Transphobia by UK PM....the quality of leadership is so low.
Yeah... and every time the elections happen, there's always a rise in transphobia as the two big parties here use transphobia as part of their policies
Just like most countries, they never act on their election policies - it's just to draw in transphobic supporters.
Then after the elections they mysteriously forget about trans people entirely, only commenting on us when they want to remove more of our rights.
36:51 this has been my friend’s (and subsequently my own” argument against the whole “scary dangerous men infiltrating women’s restrooms or locker rooms to assault women and girls” narrative. My friend, a trans man who looks like an extra from Sons of Anarchy, put it best: “if I grant to you that there are predators trying to get into these spaces, what do you think is genuinely more dangerous? Someone going through years of effort and huge expense and trouble to ‘look like a woman’ to gain access, or making it normal for someone who looks like me to be in the ladies room?”
A couple of months more and we'll finally be able to get rid of Rishi.
fuck yeah we get to throw fishy sunak out the window yass
The tax thing is crazy because like trans people pay taxes. Therefore within 16 years they would of paid for it themselves.
So the government should buy everyone a house, because like everyone pays taxes. Therefore in twenty years they would have paid for it themselves. Ridiculous. If people want cosmetic surgery, they can pay for it.
Jamie has absolutely not made me hate my body, but instead encouraged me to be comfortable in it and love myself for who I am. I would be far worse off without access to these videos
Told my transphobic cousin that noahfinnce was trans the other day and he was so confused bc he had veins and a deep voice
Because he has veins??? Does he not realize everybody has veins?
@cloudyskyz2237 idk on the photo I showed his views were showing more I'm pretty sure
I mean transphobes don't make sense anyways so
@@cloudyskyz2237you didn't know? We sacrifice our circulatory system in our transition
This is a joke
@@cloudyskyz2237 im sorry you had to learn this way that not everyone has blood
@@Thecollectorpoggerstrans people are immune to vampire attacks
Why do phobes make some of the most ironically cool memes and pictures that are appropriated by the LGBTQIA+ community? It's not fucking fair. That hydra was sick!
REAL!!
phobes have a hard time not making being LGBTQIA+ seem cool as hell
Idk who I'm more jealous of, Jamie or Mercury. They're both awesome, so meeting either of them would be awesome.
Slight correction on the whole nothing like srs or hrt till a teen
Sex reassignment surgery in some places is mandated in America.
These places are all conservative and the bills target intersex babies.
Meaning if you have an intersex infant they have to be "fixed"
That's borderline evil
@@Volume.3 No, it's straight up reprehensible
@@30000beesinatrenchcoat And then there's the inserted loopholes or flat out abandoning of anti trans legislation for the practice.
Hypocrisy is expected and isn't worse than the harm caused but it's quite something.
@@Volume.3 No borderline about it. It's just evil.
i cant wait for joanne to be arrested because she kept jokingly announcing she wanted to be. the day that happens is the day we celebrate
The held back laughter and “Yeah” at the Gender Ideology Hydra flag has me DYIN laughing 😂😂😂 that flag is based as hell
took a break from mario maker for this
I was in the middle of a coliseum in TOTK when this was posted
I died but it was worth it for Jamie :D
Im autistic and bi
same
Same
Same here!
Based
same, but not autistic, just adhd (most likely)
The fact that a bunch of these are misspelled just speaks to how uneducated they keep choosing to be 😢
Idk if you’ll see this but love your videos Jamie, I’ve been watching for years and I’m sticking around :)
is that french guy using us helathcare numbers for France? XD
The worst part about transphobia is that a lot of it is just very poorly hidden misandry. Sexism against AMAB people is still sexism.
It's mostly misogyny actually since that's clearly the root.
Sexism doesn't care who it affects.
@@goodpeople25 There is some misogyny there, but the reason I think it's misandry is because 'women-only spaces' (as said in the name) exclude men. Even without factoring in the transphobia it's already wrong to claim that cis men shouldn't be allowed in some places.
@@vivipettiss5832 And that often comes from viewing women as lesser.
Again misogyny affects men all the time.
there’s also a lot of misogyny in the way they talk about us transfems, i remember seeing a terf talking about a transfem who was happy trying on a swimsuit and a bunch of other terfs were all like “nooo, ‘REAL’ women are INSECURE and MISERABLE when trying on swimsuits!!!”