addressing the comments about MY HUSBAND and MY MARRIAGE!!!

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  • Опубликовано: 4 окт 2024

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  • @cynthiapayne4271
    @cynthiapayne4271 Год назад +265

    Girl let’s be honest here. Real talk. The way that you always address your viewers questions is really uncalled for because you’re always very defensive. It seems to me that you’re selfish and ungrateful. You put yourself out there when you decided to have a Chanel on RUclips. If it wasn’t for the viewers watching your Chanel and subscribing to your Chanel what would you be doing besides eating for a living. You were the same way when you with Scott and the last dude
    you were involved with. And to answer one of your questions people wear rings and are not married all of the time, it keeps the hound dogs off of you if you don’t want to be bothered. So these questions are not silly,so to keep it simple. Just do a one minute video and say that you’re not addressing the comments that you don’t like. Geez.

    • @ketowarrior2718
      @ketowarrior2718 Год назад +13

      🎯

    • @kimreed7789
      @kimreed7789 Год назад +57

      That’s true, you chewed out your subscribers before about Play and that was a bust. Don’t get mad about people being right, because they sure was about Play, so lets not go there. I like you Que, but I don’t like how you go off on your subscribers the ones who make you who you are. You know they were right about Play and you had to come back to them and tell them they were right, he was no good for you, so please stop chewing out your supporters because you don’t like their questions. You put all of your wedding & everything else on RUclips…. I know there are all types of people in the world & I can understand, but go light cuz they do make you… I honestly am happy that you are still married and everything is good.

    • @mariae4658
      @mariae4658 Год назад +17

      You could not have set it any better!!! 💯 👏🏽 👏🏽 👏🏽

    • @Mami-lj6ny
      @Mami-lj6ny Год назад

      You must be white lol first and foremost I can’t even comment because your dumb a$$ spelled channel wrong not Chanel..

    • @nyrasimms9580
      @nyrasimms9580 Год назад +33

      Que how you addressed your followers was horrible. Your attitude was terrible. On your couple channel you talked about how we were going to see you and your husband traveling and then surprise your back in America talking you’re never going back to Nigeria. Your attitude really rubbed me the wrong way. Watch your delivery on how you address your follower’s

  • @candilover_4
    @candilover_4 Год назад +270

    I think the issue is your delivery .. you went from getting married and starting a couples channel to private and back in the U.S as if we cant see the past five months or so that you've recorded.. you honestly cant blame people for the curiosity ...it's like you want your audience to just forget about him.

    • @DivaDen
      @DivaDen Год назад +11

      It went away cause she's not there anymore. It's just her until he arrives in America. It take time and paperwork yeah we a free country but it don't work like that yall be acting entitled to her intamate phone convos with her husband. Yall don't think Que gone tell yall everything yall didn't see or know once he get there? Que love to talk and educate others but she dont need ppl speaking over and against their plans, and ppl need to respect it, understand that and just wait.

    • @blessedyes3902
      @blessedyes3902 Год назад +4

      *Intimate*

    • @DivaDen
      @DivaDen Год назад

      @@blessedyes3902 thank you love.

    • @blessedyes3902
      @blessedyes3902 Год назад +1

      @@DivaDen Yw🥰

    • @Shalom12Judah
      @Shalom12Judah Год назад

      You sound stupid and desperate go put that energy into finding your own husband just miserable 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @wdtyourassistant
    @wdtyourassistant Год назад +30

    What influencers need to understand is if you want people to stay out of your business, STOP SHARING IT IN THE FIRST PLACE! If you are here to eat, just eat. We don't need to know your personal business.

    • @Tandtay
      @Tandtay 9 месяцев назад

      People were asking questions that she felt like were disrespectful and I feel like they were disrespectful too,but she just felt like she needed to clear some stuff up,but I agree,she just should eat and let people assume

    • @stephanietaylor9552
      @stephanietaylor9552 6 месяцев назад +3

      I never understand why these people get on social media and get mad when someone has an opinion it is so ignorant

  • @hillssasha9962
    @hillssasha9962 Год назад +94

    This girl is ignorant, selfish and confused. She is predictable. She does the exact same thing with every relationship. She brings them on camera then whenever things are happening that she doesn't want to share she gets upset with people for asking.. then they break up .. she does a motivational speech about not settling etc and then boom a new guy in a month... and the cycle begins again.

    • @patskitchen527
      @patskitchen527 Год назад +5

      So true

    • @blessedforever1424
      @blessedforever1424 Год назад +3

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @mvilone6480
      @mvilone6480 Год назад +4

      Yea sounds about right.. she has a pattern going on . LOL😅

    • @ChocolateGumDrop89
      @ChocolateGumDrop89 Год назад +3

      She needs therapy sounds like trauma she sounds mad she needs to focus on something else if it wasn’t bothering her she wouldn’t be snapping girl do some makeup and a mukbang this is social media not real life if she simply stops sharing her business 🤣 she has a point to prove that doesn’t need to be 🥴🫠

    • @dedejackson4941
      @dedejackson4941 Год назад +2

      And he helping other women as well girl bye u need wake up 😅

  • @pamelabrooks3072
    @pamelabrooks3072 Год назад +109

    I don’t understand….you put the wedding, husband and time spent in Nigeria and sharing out there with your subscribers…. and the questions are reasonable and normal. But don’t go on a tirade…because you now want to be secretive after sharing your wedding and your time with your husband. You are being so unfair and unreasonable. DONT SAY ANYTHING….stop addressing your subscribers in such a negative way. Stop mentioning your personal stuff ….just eat your delicious food. Entitled to the business YOU put out there? Please stop fussing at your subscribers all the time …it’s always something 😢. You cook and eat well…your family is a blessing…thou protest too much! Just eat, please❤

    • @DIYErica
      @DIYErica Год назад +20

      Now THIS I can agree with….

    • @madelinedelgado8845
      @madelinedelgado8845 Год назад +6

      ❤❤❤❤

    • @sunnydayz5103
      @sunnydayz5103 Год назад +8

      💯💯💯

    • @bellarose5204
      @bellarose5204 Год назад +8

      This!!!!!!

    • @kishagallimore8505
      @kishagallimore8505 Год назад +5

      Not everyone is genuinely happy for her and so what if she shared some stuff,she don't have to share everything. Her genuine supporters, support with ❤,not negativity and wishing for her downfall. Damn if you do and damn if you don't. Jesus came to Earth as our savior and them still crucified him. Not everyone will be pleased,not everyone will ❤ you. Live and let live. What she eat doesn't make no one shit,mind you all business.

  • @eleise1005
    @eleise1005 Год назад +114

    I understand, however you opened your audience up to your relationship, marriage etc, you vlogged wedding and all, even started a couples channel, Then it just went away so of course it would be questions out of curiosity. This whole thing could have been kept quite from the beginning

    • @Aquarius1111
      @Aquarius1111 Год назад +30

      Thank you.. Her and her rants.... Just keep it to ya self baby girl

    • @DivaDen
      @DivaDen Год назад +3

      It went away cause she's not there anymore. It's just her until he arrives in America. It take time and paperwork yeah we a free country but it don't work like that yall be acting entitled to her intamate phone convos with her husband. Yall don't think Que gone tell yall everything yall didn't see or know once he get there? Que love to talk and educate others but she dont need ppl speaking over and against their plans, and ppl need to respect and understand that.

    • @siosworld4064
      @siosworld4064 Год назад

      It went away cause people to damn out of order. Even if she did put it out there people to damn fast and out of order. Like she said when she was sharing it’s a problem now she isn’t it’s still a damn problem so yes she shouldn’t share. Miserable and unhappy people like snooping into other people life.

    • @siosworld4064
      @siosworld4064 Год назад +1

      @@DivaDen thank you. These people to damn fass in my Caribbean accent.

    • @eleise1005
      @eleise1005 Год назад +12

      Its the same thing she did when play went to jail, everybody started to ask where he was. She then went on this same type of rant belittling her audience because they were asking. Que has over 500k subscribers of course it would seem like everybody is changing. Some people care and some don't and she gets all of the opinions. My point is that it is no need to go on these rants against her audience and just let it play out like she says

  • @MiyahGTA
    @MiyahGTA Год назад +171

    How is asking if you're still married a silly question? You're a public figure who entered into a quick, shady marriage. You left your husband all the way back in another, impoverished, foreign country and never mention him since being back.
    Your response basically let us KNOW something bad is going on.

  • @ronniesrundown8028
    @ronniesrundown8028 Год назад +218

    I’ve been married for 20 years and I wish I would have known this earlier on. Your marriage is between you , your husband and God. Praying that God keeps and strengthen your union.

    • @jasminealyssetv
      @jasminealyssetv Год назад +2

      👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    • @ashleynicole6210
      @ashleynicole6210 Год назад +5

      Duhh even I know that and I’m not married lol

    • @angelhowell7760
      @angelhowell7760 Год назад +14

      And when you mention it to the world it’s everybody business

    • @jasminealyssetv
      @jasminealyssetv Год назад +13

      @@angelhowell7760 no it’s not y’all be digging and THATS THE ISSUE!! Stop trolling.

    • @NicoleRose2710
      @NicoleRose2710 Год назад

      So true ❤

  • @bernadinedavis1361
    @bernadinedavis1361 Год назад +104

    You put your life out there and people are just going to jump on it with their opinions ... that's life.

    • @vickyj8841
      @vickyj8841 Год назад +4

      U are absolutely right. Even the Bible says fools tell everything and shows how foolish they are.

  • @huffybrewster4158
    @huffybrewster4158 Год назад +442

    You can tell who’s new and who’s been following her since Scott. This is what she does! She’ll go off on everybody for being in her business that she willing tells and then boom it’s over or she finds out they were horrible men🙄 you can’t believe anything she says.

    • @endiaeley232
      @endiaeley232 Год назад +91

      It's a repeated cycle with her atp

    • @Mami-lj6ny
      @Mami-lj6ny Год назад

      Yet you all still watch her y’all ho3s gotta be single lol

    • @ehiorobosharonfaith680
      @ehiorobosharonfaith680 Год назад +30

      And again leave her alone

    • @sherrelljulion176
      @sherrelljulion176 Год назад +37

      Just unfollow, it's crazy you're bothered and invested enough to comment and bring up exes. You all aren't real friends hunny🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @mrs.aliya9793
      @mrs.aliya9793 Год назад +26

      Just Miserable you really took time out of your life to say something negative worry about your own man if you have one you must really don’t have going on in your own life also why are you watching her videos 😂😂😂 the devil is busy I tell you smh

  • @fn_flashy9101
    @fn_flashy9101 Год назад +15

    Scott dodged a fucking bullet

  • @laceloveee
    @laceloveee Год назад +400

    This is downside of putting any of your personal life online. It’s unfair but people develop parasocial relationships with influencers and feel entitled to know every little thing about them and their lives. When they don’t know one detail or you stop sharing then they start speculating. This is why a lot of people who had couples channels and broke up keep their new relationships private. I like both of your channels and I hope this video helps create better boundaries between you and the people overstepping them. Much love and support❤️

    • @veniagivenchy1532
      @veniagivenchy1532 Год назад +16

      No matter what people will think & believe what ever they will unless someone says something that sounds like it could be true to them too . Also, sometimes people are right & sometimes they're wrong . At the beginning, middle, & end of the day, who really cares ? ! 😃😃😃

    • @tanyanekati3186
      @tanyanekati3186 Год назад +40

      How are you offended by people that are reacting to a standard you introduced?

    • @ettashelby3341
      @ettashelby3341 Год назад +9

      @@tanyanekati3186 SPEAK

    • @Lp24901
      @Lp24901 Год назад +8

      Why would u want to know every Lil detail of her life just cause u feel like u developed a relationship. So put all ya business online so we can all know. U weird..😮😮

    • @Hotchocolatewithsugar
      @Hotchocolatewithsugar Год назад +27

      @@Lp24901 we didn’t choose to be on camera and speak our business . She’s the one who ran here to show not just one but 3 relationships and spilling HER business . All she had to do was eat her food and hush. Simple as that mf

  • @estherlee7328
    @estherlee7328 Год назад +19

    If you wanted to be private you shouldn’t have created the couples channel. Girl you know that man isn’t coming back..

  • @lhorn2011
    @lhorn2011 Год назад +50

    Same rant she did about Play 🫠

    • @ketowarrior2718
      @ketowarrior2718 Год назад +10

      Yep the possession thumbnail is too much 😂

  • @bjuuls
    @bjuuls Год назад +12

    Oh Brother... Here we go again..

  • @AngieM285
    @AngieM285 Год назад +163

    Imma just "enjoy the ride " because she came at everyone like this about the last guy

    • @amberrodriguez9170
      @amberrodriguez9170 Год назад +4

      😂💯

    • @ityyyyyy
      @ityyyyyy Год назад +8

      Stop expecting the worse out of someone’s marriage. It’s witchcraft behaviour’

    • @Betina1225
      @Betina1225 Год назад +15

      @@ityyyyyyNot witchcraft. It’s facts. No one is wishing evil on her marriage. We’re sayin, let’s wait and see that this conversation she just had- with herself is solid.

    • @deenice7325
      @deenice7325 Год назад +3

      Every single one of them

    • @ruaqtpi2
      @ruaqtpi2 Год назад +5

      I dated one for years and guess what I'm single, I was wined and dined and when we moved in together oh no that man put his hands around my neck I said hell naw!!

  • @lovemeeka7001
    @lovemeeka7001 Год назад +10

    Oh I get it...He need a greencard

  • @veronicacravens1602
    @veronicacravens1602 Год назад +78

    I ❤ the answer you gave about your husband coming “he’s coming when you see him”😂😂😂 That was a good answer!

  • @81Tam
    @81Tam Год назад +131

    No amount of money could make me go thru this. Social media is the devil I couldn’t imagine dealing with this all the time. Everyone will always have an opinion and something to say. I wish you all the best because no matter what you say or do toxic people will always be toxic people. I wish you all the best mentally, physically and emotionally.

  • @shelithabishop9499
    @shelithabishop9499 Год назад +9

    Why are you defensive? YOU and YOU alone put this shyt out for the world and then when the questions come, your panties are in a wod.... y'all gotta stop that shyt. If you don't want people inquiring, don't put it out there. Personally, I like watching your mukbangs and don't give a flying phuck about ANYTHING else however, in the defense of others, don't put it out there if you're going to feel some type of way about questions that they ask. 🤷🏾

  • @jupeterson5496
    @jupeterson5496 Год назад +16

    Its also not normal for a married couple not to live together unless they are legally separated and preparing for a divorce. She cant get mad abbout these questions.

  • @tmoneymama9480
    @tmoneymama9480 Год назад +9

    I don't understand. People put their business in the streets, then get mad when people have something to say.

  • @CokoKane
    @CokoKane Год назад +54

    And the unraveling begins….this is on par for her brand..she did it with Scott and whoever else she’s been with. Been following casually for yrs. Off the rails after the perfect curated image for a few months. Nothing new here to see. A marriage that starts off in a different country and then it’s now long distance with her going back home in a marriage so new will raise eyes. She shares her life so it’s an even playing field for people to comment.

  • @warmspicytea4285
    @warmspicytea4285 Год назад +17

    Same energy she gave when people questioned her about play and she was on her nervous and lying. She jumped in that marriage probably not having a clue how difficult it is for him to come to America. It seems she hangs with her family when she’s down. I bet he still likes her but she’s probably annoyed she’s still basically single and lonely with her husband doing God knows what.

  • @brendacowsert5476
    @brendacowsert5476 Год назад +12

    The way you answer their questions is rude as hell! You were on a spiritual journey, and all about God just to be rude to the people who is making your channel what it is!

  • @estherlee7328
    @estherlee7328 Год назад +12

    He took all your money while you were in Nigeria that’s why you have to make a video everyday to make money. Boom!

  • @endiaeley232
    @endiaeley232 Год назад +12

    Que you chew out your subscribers every time over your different men that YOU bring to RUclips! & every time the supporters be right smh 😂

  • @Da-hellFreesHorseSlaves
    @Da-hellFreesHorseSlaves Год назад +43

    You can't be married by yoirself. I'm just saying.

  • @clarissaharper4527
    @clarissaharper4527 Год назад +8

    Marriage is more than a ring sis.

  • @rhondawilliams7748
    @rhondawilliams7748 Год назад +158

    You can’t get mad at people opinions - you get paid for comments and views, if people are assuming keeping posting and eating and show them different. Opinions are like appleholes we all have one.

    • @mariahart9826
      @mariahart9826 Год назад +15

      When opinions touch your private life then it becomes a problem. Speak on or about the show the food and what ever topic Que is touching.

    • @lrussell6668
      @lrussell6668 Год назад +13

      Don’t know why RUclips gets upset when you welcome the likes and share. You don’t have to comment just leave it alone.
      You put your bust out there

    • @aheart4learning788
      @aheart4learning788 Год назад +46

      I don’t know why these influencers put people in they business then want to cop n attitude. Don’t allow your private life to be on your platform. Then people would have nothing to say.

    • @rhondawilliams7748
      @rhondawilliams7748 Год назад +2

      @@aheart4learning788 okay

    • @soriyazz
      @soriyazz Год назад +13

      ​@@lrussell6668 I agree. This is a public forum. And when you put your business out there for the public, people always going to have an opinion. Good bad right or wrong. Just ignore it..

  • @KColes63
    @KColes63 Год назад +16

    Que, a ring doesn't make you married....and as I agree that it is no one's business...however, you have put your life out there, so you shouldn't be surprised that people are wondering....you shared so much and now you are hush.....so of course people are questioning...that is human nature....

  • @jessicamaria1956
    @jessicamaria1956 Год назад +11

    UM OKAY SO WHAT HAPPEN TO THE COUPLE'S CHANNEL 🫣🫣😂😂

  • @dominiquesimone_
    @dominiquesimone_ Год назад +66

    How dare you put your business out there and then get defensive when people ask questions? You do this with every relationship you display. You just need to love your self instead of being in an arranged marriage

    • @Sara-yx6uz
      @Sara-yx6uz Год назад +5

      Yessss!!!

    • @ettashelby3341
      @ettashelby3341 Год назад +2

      Exactly

    • @ChocolateGumDrop89
      @ChocolateGumDrop89 Год назад +4

      She’s delusional I have a boyfriend and I do not post my relationship at all keep things you want private if you don’t want the questions why is that so hard but you wanna attack ppl because they ask questions she needs help it sounds like this is how you know that’s all she’s ever had is relationships this shouldn’t be a main topic for her girl love your life stop sharing private things then getting mad 🥴🤣

    • @tinagriffin981
      @tinagriffin981 Год назад +2

      Exactly

    • @susanengel-ix8bl
      @susanengel-ix8bl 2 месяца назад

      Exactly, I've now watched most of these videos and she is putting all this out there and making money doing it, but then when people ask questions she gets that awful attitude, girl, you are putting this out there, if u can't handle it maybe you are in the wrong business.this feels like she is kicking the hands that feed her.?

  • @nicoledooley9380
    @nicoledooley9380 Год назад +15

    They're asking because you are here and he is not. Duh.

  • @Caddy220
    @Caddy220 Год назад +94

    She be doing alot of lying and be forgetting.

    • @sashagold3463
      @sashagold3463 Год назад +2

      I would like to know what she lying about

    • @sherrelljulion176
      @sherrelljulion176 Год назад +3

      ​@sasha gold girl this lady doesn't know. She's delusional and just making a comment. These people watch a few videos and swear they know somebody.

    • @ehiorobosharonfaith680
      @ehiorobosharonfaith680 Год назад +1

      And thats not your business at all

    • @sashagold3463
      @sashagold3463 Год назад

      @Jossie Simmons what comment are you talking about lmao

    • @monicacharming3123
      @monicacharming3123 Год назад

      ​@sherrell Julion so you must know her then😂, who give af about these lying ass internet ppl

  • @stephanieilovethestoryvery2683
    @stephanieilovethestoryvery2683 Год назад +7

    Yes Que inquiring minds would like to know. Where is your husband? You went all the way to Nigeria just to get married to say you have a husband. You are a public figure so answer our questions. Make it make sense!!!

  • @charitymccarthy7016
    @charitymccarthy7016 Год назад +42

    I think honestly because you shared your journey started doing videos with your husband then left suddenly it may have made people curious. I think you shouldn’t be mad just ignore it. I was confused to but it is what it is.

  • @JVIXENNorthstar
    @JVIXENNorthstar Год назад +3

    You're naturally beautiful.

  • @user-qx1bo2cz3m
    @user-qx1bo2cz3m Год назад +52

    && SHE MAKES A VALID POINT 💯 continue keeping socials out your business. Keep it cute and about your content only. Cause 9x out of 10 they don’t be having a life behind the keyboard or their life not going like they wanted. Weird, Delusional, & Messy is what it is.

  • @TallGrass44
    @TallGrass44 Год назад +8

    “Enjoy the journey with me..but Imma keep it all to myself.” No one is entitled to your business. But no one needs to be part of someone’s game.

  • @mschilds84
    @mschilds84 Год назад +9

    this looks too familiar. 😂

  • @veronicaonumah1262
    @veronicaonumah1262 Год назад +84

    Amen! My husband lived in Nigeria for 2 years before he came to America. I completely understand. I had ppl in my family coming up against me saying the same thing! Now he’s here… u can’t keep them out of his face. He’s a DON(director of nursing)and now everyone wants to be his friend. I don’t invite them to events or anything. Stay safe and God bless❤️

    • @siosworld4064
      @siosworld4064 Год назад +8

      Wish I could give you a hug hug for that. People are to out of order and never be happy for others who find love and happiness. Don’t invite them to your home whatsoever.

    • @sunshynemedia777
      @sunshynemedia777 Год назад +6

      As you should. I love this for you ❤

  • @zahjames5537
    @zahjames5537 Год назад +49

    May God continue to bless you and *your* marriage ❤ keep shining Queen

  • @tonyakendricks855
    @tonyakendricks855 Год назад +9

    You just got married, you having issues fr.. Tell the truth!.. Anyone can wear a ring

  • @lillysmith3532
    @lillysmith3532 Год назад +9

    I understand you want your privacy but you signed up for this. I wouldn’t have posted him period if you didn’t want questions later on. This has been the same cycle since the belove situation, you’re always the victim

  • @Jaebae84
    @Jaebae84 Год назад +8

    How to say you big mad without saying you big mad. . I think she married just to say she is married. You gotta be 50 shades of crazy to marry a man who you cant/wont for months on end. Military or something like that yes, but just to say my man live in another country screams desperate. That man and his sister running up a check on her. And if you dont want people in your business KEEP IT OFF THE INTERNET!! YOU PUT UR BUSINESS AND RELATIOSHIP ON HERE THEN MAKE VIDS LIKE THIS AND SAY STAY OUT MY BUSINESS,. IF WE WERE NOT IN UR BUSINESS YOU WOULD NOT HAVE YOUR FOLLOWERS!!!!! How do you compare a military marriage to a green card marriage ( its def fnot the same)😂

  • @debhen8717
    @debhen8717 Год назад +23

    Okay…I can’t finish watching you rant. In life you let ppl think what they want to think. I’ll never take timeout to address these kind of questions with an attitude. You either answer the questions with grace or don’t!! I like your videos…but this one I can not do.🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @christinaboghossian1437
    @christinaboghossian1437 Год назад +35

    You could be putting up a front by wearing your ring and then the next thing you will say your no longer married or your having problems in your marriage the reason why people think this way is bc of your history of the relationships youve had in the past so you cant get mad at people when they question your relationship

  • @theredfairy4907
    @theredfairy4907 Год назад +7

    In the past when you just stopped talking about your relationship it’s bc you broke up with them & they weren’t around . So ofc based off your track record people are gonna wonder.. you publicly talked ab and posted videos of your marriage & your husband .. now all a sudden you’re so private ..

  • @Luludoll83
    @Luludoll83 Год назад +24

    A hit dog will holler..
    You did the same thing with Play. Went on a rant. Then the truth came out. You are the one who put your husband on this channel. We didn’t even know he existed. Asking if you’re married isn’t silly. Anyone can wear a ring. You had a different ring on until you came back. As a newlywed it’s just not normal to move across the world. That’s why ppl ask. Addressing it only makes it look worse.

    • @sherrelljulion176
      @sherrelljulion176 Год назад

      This comment only proves the topic of her video😂😂😂😂mind the business that PAYS you hunny. Are you okay?

    • @Luludoll83
      @Luludoll83 Год назад +4

      @@sherrelljulion176 Are you? 😂

    • @sherrelljulion176
      @sherrelljulion176 Год назад

      ​@Totally Des I am but you're clearly not...want to attack a stranger. You'd never say this to this girl face 😂😂😂😂You're a weird ahhh beetch..😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Monique_Sunshine
      @Monique_Sunshine Год назад

      @Totally Des My question to you is if something was/did happen in her marriage. How does that affect you? I'm genuinely curious.

    • @Luludoll83
      @Luludoll83 Год назад +1

      @@Monique_Sunshine Sweetheart I’m not the one asking. Just an observation. She made a video addressing and I simply commented 😌
      My question to you is.. How does my comment directly affect you?

  • @ronaldroberts147
    @ronaldroberts147 Год назад +11

    U done this. People didn't ask u to put your business out here. Just like Michael Jackson. Once you get on that screen you're business is everybody else business ok.

  • @roseda5044
    @roseda5044 Год назад +33

    No Que, you're the silly one😂😂😂. Marrying a man in Nigeria and you live in USA😂😂😂😂 who's silly😂😂

    • @pamelabrooks3072
      @pamelabrooks3072 Год назад +1

      Why would she call her subscribers silly? This rant proves that there is something wrong…No one spends this much time talking to their loyal subscribers like they are mildly retarded and basically…..calling them names and insulting them….time and time again…year after year.

    • @MissC67
      @MissC67 Год назад +2

      Right! She is too inconsistent with her bs!!!

  • @staceyevans6793
    @staceyevans6793 Год назад +10

    Some of you RUclips people kill me putting your personal business on social media and then when people start asking questions about you and your spouse yall get a attitude 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @madelinedelgado8845
    @madelinedelgado8845 Год назад +26

    To each they own ain’t no way I would get married to be a newly wed to come to the states to be alone ppl have opinions cause you are on a public platform

  • @shelbygarnett785
    @shelbygarnett785 Год назад +12

    You can't get mad at the comments because you jumped out of one relationship and then went to Africa and got married !! You put your business out their

  • @rhondawilliams7748
    @rhondawilliams7748 Год назад +48

    Que you’ve lied before about your relationships- remember you said your boyfriend was on important trip with his family but he was in jail. Remember you said you was engaged to Scott but like a month later you guys was over. I don’t even want to mention the Beloved incident. You not always truthful, so stop trying to play the blame game.

    • @misswhitemcdonald7674
      @misswhitemcdonald7674 Год назад +8

      Child, you got too much time on your hands to be worried about somebody else marriage. You need to go find yourself a man and stay out of somebody else's marriage.

    • @rhondawilliams7748
      @rhondawilliams7748 Год назад +4

      @@misswhitemcdonald7674 Apparently we got the same amount of time cause you under my comment, go find a man so I can’t assume the same about you tf.

    • @isaidwhatisaidsis
      @isaidwhatisaidsis Год назад +5

      That's her life and her business though. She really don't owe anybody an explanation about anything. I wouldn't be explaining anything to y'all. I'd let whoever think whatever.. Most of the folks talking mess don't even have a man, let alone a husband.

    • @mrs.intel2481
      @mrs.intel2481 Год назад +1

      Girl you all in her comments talking shyt . Why you so pressed ? You act like you want her man.

    • @mslove7798
      @mslove7798 Год назад +1

      Okkk

  • @jessicamaria1956
    @jessicamaria1956 Год назад +11

    Even when you was with your husband you still didn't post like that on the couple's channel so that's a LIE😂😂

  • @shalandabutts4857
    @shalandabutts4857 Год назад +267

    Que just cause you wear your ring doesn’t mean you’re still married…. You can’t get upset cause people asking questions. You put your life out there for people to figure out…. You left your husband in Nigeria! So people wanted to know why!!!!!

    • @mrs.intel2481
      @mrs.intel2481 Год назад +73

      I mean why do y'all feel you need to know these folks personal lives ? Yes she put it out there but she doesn't have to tell y'all everything. Where is your husband ?

    • @iamsam7997
      @iamsam7997 Год назад

      Shut which ring she be changing the rings out with her lying ass

    • @sobombeh
      @sobombeh Год назад +36

      Thats what im saying lol shes acting like ppl just in it and shes not sharing... and u right i know ppl that not married no more and aint take the ring off yet 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @itsalwaysakeesahm
      @itsalwaysakeesahm Год назад +15

      @@mrs.intel2481that part. Weirdos

    • @AlphaOmegaAmen
      @AlphaOmegaAmen Год назад +34

      Shalandabutts4857 … Exactly! 🫶…Especially these days a ring doesn’t mean anything! People wear his or her ring for the right reason, wrong reason or the real reason. We are curious creatures and only human, so naturally when you are a RUclipsr ( saying you are married , but no husband around while staying/ living with your sister), YES we are going to make comments, opinions etc…🙄 Period!

  • @nicolawilson9774
    @nicolawilson9774 Год назад +158

    Don't explain. You don't owe anyone an explanation. You are happy and that's all that matters. God got you.

    • @praiseudeme6672
      @praiseudeme6672 Год назад +15

      ⁠​⁠@denisew4971oh please 🙄 continue to hold your peace, your opinion does not hold no water, may the lord be with you and your negative thoughts leave her alone, people like you are just mad and jealous, if she wants to share she will share, mind your business. Focus on your focus.

    • @MonroeBishop1970
      @MonroeBishop1970 Год назад +1

      I agree

    • @nicolelomax4123
      @nicolelomax4123 Год назад +4

      Righttt she doesn't have too.. because as long as God is apart she is good

    • @JeansNails
      @JeansNails Год назад +1

      AMEN!!!

    • @chanelrose2880
      @chanelrose2880 Год назад +8

      @Denise W see here’s the thing…you gotta get some business to tend too ain’t no way…you that vested in a RUclipsr life or any body life for that matter. Now That’s crazy, In real life.

  • @christinabetters-dunlap520
    @christinabetters-dunlap520 Год назад +43

    I completely know how you feel. I lost my wife almost 2 years ago and I’m still married!!! I have people always asking when I’m going to start dating. I’ve had to finally let them know I’m still married I’m still in love with my wife and if the time was to come when I’m ready it wouldn’t be any of there business. Stay blessed and stay true to you and yours❤❤❤

    • @reneethomas963
      @reneethomas963 Год назад +9

      Prayers Going Up 🙏🏾 sorry to hear about your beautiful wife🥵Christina B-D,I didn't experience of actual death,I got divorced after 25yrs of marriage to me it was like a death,for some reason,I haven't moved on either and it's been since 2016,I haven't even had relations with anyone but him,not sure I took my vows serious,it feels like cheating I know I'm stupid, he's had about 6 girlfriends and just remarried last Aug,1 reason is I have custody of our 14 yro granddaughter,since her mom passed in 2011 and this dating men, molesters on the prowl is definitely a deterrent🤔Good luck🙏🏾take your time God Bless

    • @christinabetters-dunlap520
      @christinabetters-dunlap520 Год назад +2

      @@reneethomas963 Thank you. I totally understand. I have 6 kids 4 being girls and that’s something I also worried about. My wife and I did foster care and some of the stuff these kids go through is so scary. I hope you can find peace and love again when the time is right for you. 🙏💜

    • @luvangelmyers2731
      @luvangelmyers2731 Год назад +1

      🙏🏽🖤Hugs and prayers to you

    • @MsAldil
      @MsAldil Год назад

      ​@@reneethomas963 I wish you had never gone through that

  • @paulinethomas-griffin5909
    @paulinethomas-griffin5909 Год назад +60

    I’m a married woman less people no about your marriage and people in your marriage it will be successful. People are going to always have something to say . I watch you and your husband channel as well keep doing you.

    • @mslove7798
      @mslove7798 Год назад +2

      Thanks

    • @mslove7798
      @mslove7798 Год назад +3

      Coming from a woman with understanding with wisdom and knowledge. Thanks sis these young woman like Que needs to understand this...

    • @Isaidit129
      @Isaidit129 Год назад +1

      @Pauline Thomas-Griffin ain’t that the truth? Who do people think it’s ok asking about somebody else’s husband! I wouldn’t tell them squat..just let them keep talking and wondering….that’s what gets them the most😩😂

    • @lapreeathomas662
      @lapreeathomas662 Год назад +1

      Lady,.whatever goes on with you and your husband is "NO F***** business to the WORLD. I'm a LADY of age, and you're explaining to much. Keep them talking and your channel is about to BLOW UP EVEN MORE. LETS GIVE SOMETHING TO TALK ABOUT. KEEP YOUR SMILE IT KEEPS THEM GUESSINGS. A WORLD OF LUV TO YOU AND YOURS. I JUST CAN'T WAIT TO HEAR THAT YOU ARE EXPECTING. I WILL BE A DISTANT AUNTIE😂😂😂😮😮😮

    • @cindycardoza4717
      @cindycardoza4717 Год назад

      Right on

  • @shuggstarr3511
    @shuggstarr3511 Год назад +8

    Whats embarrassing is you traveling across the world to marry a stranger. If you don't want people asking questions, stop putting things on Social Media.

  • @Ash-vk4mz
    @Ash-vk4mz Год назад +9

    Feel like you got married for the experience…

  • @taneekaedwards9875
    @taneekaedwards9875 Год назад +13

    IN MY OPINION SOMETHING AINT RIGHT ABOUT THIS MARRIAGE I THINK YOUR HURTING INSIDE THAT'S WHY YOU LEFT AFRICA SO FAST BUT YOU'RE IN LOVE WITH THIS MAN YOU SOUND SILLY GIRL WE KNOW BETTER IN MY OPINION YOUR LIEING

    • @cocoagoodness8648
      @cocoagoodness8648 Год назад +6

      ​@@sashagold3463 she didn't even have to tell us nothing about her . She always posting a dsmn man to prove something. She should've just ate. I wouldn't post play or nobody. That woman like attention

    • @karinadewitt5209
      @karinadewitt5209 Год назад +1

      I agree with u, sgg bf e even asked us if we’re okay, like damn is she okay!

    • @sashagold3463
      @sashagold3463 Год назад +1

      @cocoa goodness I guess you right

  • @lynetteschenck4311
    @lynetteschenck4311 Год назад +8

    Que as long as your happy and being treated like a queen you go girl. Stay blessed ❤

  • @lovemeeka7001
    @lovemeeka7001 Год назад +12

    Girl you not his only wife

  • @Keke-l2j
    @Keke-l2j Год назад +11

    I find it funny that before you addressed the husbNd questions you thought that bringing him up in your intro was gonna make a difference 😂 or by having your favorite NIGERIAN dish as the choice for todays mukbang 😂😂😂

  • @MzSilky
    @MzSilky Год назад +19

    This is exactly how I am. I have been married almost 18 yrs, been together almost 20. I am very private about what goes on with my husband and I. I'm very selective on who I say what to. People would never know if we are at odds because that's marraige and in a few minutes we back vibing again. I learned this from my mom, she told my sister and I if you are infront of people and your dude gets out of line you wait til you are alone and express yourself. I can totally relate to how you protect your relationship. I come on here to see what you are eating and if your hubby is on awesome. May you continue to have a blessed marriage.

  • @benitotorres3157
    @benitotorres3157 Год назад +5

    Oh my gosh...this subject again...quit sharing your business if you don't want opinions...and quit explaining to people who do not pay your freaking bills baby girl...live your life for YOU....tf...period

    • @unbeknownst2mee929
      @unbeknownst2mee929 Год назад

      We do pay her bills lol she gets a check from RUclips based on the amount of views she gets. She's a liar period

  • @FeliciaRenee1974
    @FeliciaRenee1974 Год назад +35

    We are your followers,…
    right?…Didn’t you say you wanted us to follow your journey?…So, why get mad at the people for asking?…You had a whole wedding and put it on RUclips for us to see,so..now it’s a problem from the people that support you for asking about your husband???…You’re ranting for nothing Que,You the one that put your business out for us to like,COMMENT and Share!!…And if you ask me,They are concerned being that Play played you like a electric guitar!!!..They don’t want to see this happening to you again 👀👀👀👀 Are You Ok?????

    • @DIYErica
      @DIYErica Год назад +2

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Myblackisbeautiful100
      @Myblackisbeautiful100 Год назад +2

      😂 No, she isn’t ok! Just look and listen to her. Nothing says happy, sane, or at peace about her. 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @LisaJohnson-gq3xl
      @LisaJohnson-gq3xl Год назад

      How many other wives do he have? You are upset, and it's obvious something is going on. Your life, but don't invite people into your business and then get upset when questions are asked.

    • @LisaJohnson-gq3xl
      @LisaJohnson-gq3xl Год назад

      Desperate is what you are

    • @LisaJohnson-gq3xl
      @LisaJohnson-gq3xl Год назад

      Desperate is what you are

  • @beachlife445
    @beachlife445 Год назад +6

    Wearing a ring doesnt mean you are happy in your marriage and it sure as heck doesn't mean you are officially married.
    A marriage overseas is not official anywhere else unless you got married/ filed official paper work via the court on the US. Que please dont be daft. People have ways of looking things up

  • @dedejackson4941
    @dedejackson4941 Год назад +6

    That is not a Marriage that is a ticket for him to go where he needs to on your dime🤣🤣

  • @ohshedidthatboo
    @ohshedidthatboo Год назад +31

    Hey Que…Share what YOU are comfortable with sharing!💕

    • @mslove7798
      @mslove7798 Год назад +4

      I agree but she don't have to tell people her business rather they like it or not. But at the same time I wish she would just do her eating videos and keep her private business with her husband off RUclips it's not worth the money and drama. My husband and I live in private we have no problems...

  • @nekamichelle1487
    @nekamichelle1487 Год назад +7

    Lol girl you put YOUR RELATIONSHIPS out here here all 3 of them! You are messy

  • @charmainhawkins7291
    @charmainhawkins7291 Год назад +106

    Que just be eating and lying 😭

    • @DIYErica
      @DIYErica Год назад +13

      💀

    • @madelinedelgado8845
      @madelinedelgado8845 Год назад +10

      😂😂😂

    • @sashagold3463
      @sashagold3463 Год назад +5

      What she be lying about?

    • @NM-cm3cq
      @NM-cm3cq Год назад +7

      And she thinks she’s so much better than us “lowly”subscribers....

    • @charmainhawkins7291
      @charmainhawkins7291 Год назад +7

      @@sashagold3463 she could be lying about a lot of stuff 🤷🏽‍♀️ I kinda don’t care to know.

  • @monalove6248
    @monalove6248 Год назад +16

    Stop getting a attitude you put your mess out there.

  • @kiawnabutler8144
    @kiawnabutler8144 Год назад +59

    People asking questions comes with you being on RUclips 🤷🏽‍♀️ No you don’t have to answer but people are going to ask

  • @loretta8788
    @loretta8788 Год назад +41

    Insecurity speaks loudly..
    Confidence is silent…
    You owe us nothing- eeevveerrr!
    Hurt people- hurt people. Don’t try to understand why people do/ react the way they do. Focus on your happiness in silence…

    • @Myblackisbeautiful100
      @Myblackisbeautiful100 Год назад +3

      She’s already speaking loudly what are you talking about 😂. That’s how you know she’s insecure and her life is a hot mess! She should have NEVER came on here with this nonsense. However; these are her patterns. You can’t deny that fact! 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @PotentPondering
    @PotentPondering Год назад +20

    I just hope it don’t end up like some of the black women I know who dated/married a Nigerian. He wanted to be married to a Nigerian woman at heart and broke my friends heart once he got the paperwork. I’m a fan of yours and only saying this cause it’s a topic.

  • @AihaLv
    @AihaLv Год назад +17

    Sounds like she is trying to convince herself. 😅

  • @cindyscameltoe8298
    @cindyscameltoe8298 Год назад +10

    I'm guessing you're pissed about the comments in your lipstickalley thread ?

  • @elis_mummy_2063
    @elis_mummy_2063 Год назад +6

    Yassss girl you said it...they on your case when you do and they even worse when you dont💯 your marriage is YOUR marriage, some things don't need to be said or explained...you keep doing you boo💯

  • @bouldersmashing
    @bouldersmashing Год назад +11

    Embarrassing af 😂

  • @sweetness2886
    @sweetness2886 Год назад +6

    It would've been better not to address it at all. Because the way you come off is very defensive and angry. Some of us ask things because we care. Maybe we want to know the process of Africans being able to move here. From the beginning you guys started of telling us about the differences of our continents. You guys shared that on your own. Now we get attacked for being concerned. Yes theres some nasty rude people in this world, and on your channel, but i feel the majority of us really care.

  • @alondrashanee
    @alondrashanee Год назад +7

    Q, I love the space your in.I’ve seen you grow and the level a maturity that so amazing. Years ago I took a break from your channel but maybe three or four months ago I came back and your so different and I love it girl ignore these unhappy people your beautiful and so is your marriage congratulations love keep it up and keep going queen 👸🏽

  • @TheTierraJ
    @TheTierraJ Год назад +4

    Que I'm rooting for you.. No weapon formed against you shall prosper. I'm praying a hedge of protection and peace around you, your home and family. Your home is what you are building, do not allow it to be shaken or stirred. You have the power to SILENCE the lies of the enemy and don't give them ANY life or power. Let it rage on, it will only fizz out when you choose to ignore it and allow love to overcome hate. Let God continue to bless you and lift you up.
    Romans 12:20 "But if your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him a drink; for by doing this you will heap burning coals on his head.”
    NOW LISTEN.. I feel you. When people have you messed up and speak on your family I know it's instinct to jump up and defend. But I'm telling you.. these people on social media are not even worth the energy. Allow God to vindicate you. Allow your blessings to be your response. Remember, the enemy loves to take us back to who we were. Stand in your peace and do not be moved ❤

  • @mercedesyorrick6938
    @mercedesyorrick6938 Год назад +3

    Well SAID protect your Union the devil is always busy ❤🙏🏽

  • @nichelleconteh5240
    @nichelleconteh5240 Год назад +23

    Not obsessed, I love it girl. Keep doing what you're doing and loving on your HUSBAND.🙏🏽❤

  • @jessicamaria1956
    @jessicamaria1956 Год назад +9

    😂😂😂Same old story just a different guy

  • @annaasmr4668
    @annaasmr4668 Год назад +32

    I just read…”True happiness is when you ignore people who think they know more about YOU then you do” 💯

  • @candacehowell2689
    @candacehowell2689 Год назад +7

    I’m married without a ring. We are tattooed . I got into my feelings at first, but you are right… “sit back” . Respect! Good morning!

  • @frankambrusko2000
    @frankambrusko2000 Год назад +34

    Hi Que, I understand that your private business doesn't need to be discussed or shared on your channel, but your fans, like me, are curious to know why you are in the states without your husband after just being married. I didn't think there was trouble in paradise, but I was just wondering why you have taken such a long vacation back in the USA. I know that you probably missed your family and the food...lol, but this has been a long vacation. Curious minds want to know. Much love and blessings to you and your husband! Take care!

    • @goldengodyse1685
      @goldengodyse1685 Год назад

      Ok

    • @misspitters2766
      @misspitters2766 Год назад

      Word

    • @DivaDen
      @DivaDen Год назад +1

      Usa is not a Vacation for Que this is her home It's just her until he arrives in America. It take time and paperwork yeah we a free country but it don't work like that yall be acting entitled to her intamate phone convos and plans with her husband. Yall don't think Que gone tell yall everything yall didn't see or know once he get there? Que loves to talk and educate others but she dont need ppl speaking over and against their plans, and ppl need to respect and understand that.

    • @frankambrusko2000
      @frankambrusko2000 Год назад +5

      @DivaDen WTF are you talking about? Did you READ my response? I'm world traveled and born and raised in Europe. I understand there is a process marrying a man from Africa. I was just explaining why people would have questions.

  • @CareBear208
    @CareBear208 Год назад +12

    Lol whenever you come on here ranting and raving it’s trouble in paradise

  • @nickybshouse
    @nickybshouse Год назад +113

    when you looked into the camera, grabbed your mug, and said, are y’all OK? I almost just died.
    😂🤣😂🤣 tell them, Que! Everything was perfectly said💯 another amazing video. Peace and blessings, always my sister🙏🏽🥰❤️

    • @parilynn
      @parilynn Год назад +4

      Swear that part had me cracking up 😂😂😂

    • @veronicacravens1602
      @veronicacravens1602 Год назад +2

      That was funny her facial expression 😂❤

    • @Iamcannievscott
      @Iamcannievscott Год назад +2

      😂😂😂😂 yes yes yes

    • @Nole_Girl
      @Nole_Girl Год назад +3

      ⁠@@aaliyahdiamond5227 naw this is not the same. Que has elevated her life with God and we’re loving it🩷

    • @MalaissaFashionzMukbangShow
      @MalaissaFashionzMukbangShow Год назад

      Me too!!😂😂😂😂 That one took me out!

  • @joycelynnjones5167
    @joycelynnjones5167 Год назад +5

    Girl, you keep doing A great job at what you LOVE and please don't let nothing upset you, some people are going to be who they are, because their not happy but you are in A WONDERFUL place in your life and I LOVE it, and I'm so happy for you. GOD is so Amazing!

  • @Beautifulwonders38
    @Beautifulwonders38 Год назад +7

    Why even address it if you don't care sounds like a contradictory

  • @normalizrd
    @normalizrd Год назад +7

    why are you yelling at us when you flooded our feeds with couple and wedding vids for months just for it to go away. of course we’re curious!!! you’re acting soooo rude!!

  • @debrapolk245
    @debrapolk245 Год назад +9

    You put your life and business on the Social media Network!!! It is our concern... So, theres no need to Validate your actions.. Your life is an Open Book, so deal with it.
    You're not keeping your marriage to yourself. If you were, you wouldn't have showed the World your Ceremony.... So, don't come for your Supporters Sweetie... Just ignore and keep it pushing. You're saying one thing and doing another...

    • @EyeSpyBlackAmor
      @EyeSpyBlackAmor Год назад

      Not social media network. Is this then 90s you're definitely old

  • @AaliyahNevaeh1112
    @AaliyahNevaeh1112 Год назад +4

    Why u so mad? .. they just questions you could’ve simply answered like calm down girl
    Ur attitude in this video explains how your ‘ marriage’ is going 🫣😬

    • @Tandtay
      @Tandtay Год назад

      Imma keep it a buck wit u ………..get a life ……..she is upset because y’all keep sking her questions about her marriage and she obviously took it the wrong way but y’all are in the damn comments going off on her in the comments on every video so she can go off on y’all stupid asses

  • @myriahmichalski3362
    @myriahmichalski3362 Год назад +26

    No shade at all because I love you...I think people may be asking if you are still married or if you're still together since after getting newly married you left and came back to the states very quickly....maybe they are just confused
    I think it's great, you love your husband and you know what's best for your relationship ❤

    • @MiraMirah37
      @MiraMirah37 Год назад +1

      Not only is this something that happens all the time she's already addressed this several times so why keep asking the same question you've already got the answer to

    • @enusjs829
      @enusjs829 Год назад +3

      ​@@MiraMirah37 people don't watch every video for her, it's the first time I'm hearing some of these being addressed and some of these questions have been through my mind. I assumed that she was still married and she and her husband were still going but what puzzled me was why she just stopped talking about him all together when she pretty much had such a public relationship, channel about him and her and all. I'm glad she addressed it. Don't get me wrong, she didn't have to, but it can be common for people have curiosity and I'm glad she addressed.

    • @MoniqueMakesULaugH
      @MoniqueMakesULaugH Год назад +3

      SHE CAN NOT STAY THERE FOREVER….Google it…a Visa is for a short time and it depends on the country you go to as well, as to how long you can stay!

    • @medina2068
      @medina2068 Год назад +3

      It's called Eat with QUE not Married with QUE 😂😂😂

    • @kishagallimore8505
      @kishagallimore8505 Год назад

      ​@@MoniqueMakesULaugH exactly girl but then again a lot of people never leave their country of origin. Wherever you travel across the world on a visa you cannot stay more than 6 months,unless you're on a work permit visa then you can stay up to a year. If you over stayed your time you'll be illegal. She had never said she's gonna stayed in Nigeria forever,she spent 5 months and only been home for a month and the ones that are asking and berating are not true supporters, they're just trolls, that's their thing. I watch a few Muckbangers and they're the same set that troll the different channels just to spew hate because they're just so invested and think they know these people personally.