Cultural & Sexual Fluidity In Dating | {THE AND} Reina & Vignesh

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  • Опубликовано: 16 ноя 2024

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  • @leahvosburg6095
    @leahvosburg6095 7 лет назад +780

    He's dreamy lol those eyes and smile!

    • @KindellArmstrong
      @KindellArmstrong 7 лет назад +9

      Leah Vosburg yes, I could play with his curls all day ?

    • @bobkuusela3273
      @bobkuusela3273 7 лет назад

      Kindell Armstrong Leah Vosburg You two are theeeeeertay!!!

    • @manpy5504
      @manpy5504 5 лет назад

      I have same eyes and curly hairs.

  • @m.landucci2934
    @m.landucci2934 7 лет назад +336

    how he looks at her in the first seconds.. so sweet❤️

  • @eangel28
    @eangel28 7 лет назад +264

    Shout out to him for being so straightforward 👏🏻🙌🏼

  • @peesha4742
    @peesha4742 7 лет назад +134

    It feels like he's really listening to her. They're adorable

  • @haleykennsington2102
    @haleykennsington2102 7 лет назад +386

    He could not keep his eyes off of her, how sweet 😊

    • @soulsmusic15
      @soulsmusic15 7 лет назад +14

      Haley Kennsington
      I mean... they were sitting right in front/across from each other...

    • @haleykennsington2102
      @haleykennsington2102 7 лет назад +1

      Did you not pick up on my sarcasm, I was poking fun at the people who wrote similar things before me

    • @SisterFromAnotherPlanet
      @SisterFromAnotherPlanet 7 лет назад +12

      soulmusic15....and hers darted all over the place, so you can still avoid looking at someone despite that.

    • @unjonnarai4612
      @unjonnarai4612 6 лет назад +1

      His smies says it all

  • @user-vm5yy2vy8n
    @user-vm5yy2vy8n 7 лет назад +587

    his eye contact is so intense

  • @kyungsoossimp8350
    @kyungsoossimp8350 7 лет назад +424

    they both have perfect teeth

  • @delgadoeve4646
    @delgadoeve4646 7 лет назад +443

    I stared at her the WHOLE TIME she is GORGEOUS OH. MY. GOSH.

  • @KindellArmstrong
    @KindellArmstrong 7 лет назад +232

    He is so handsome ! Wow!

  • @kimberlygrace961
    @kimberlygrace961 7 лет назад +97

    He's so cute!! And just seems like such a warm and welcoming person

    • @Lalatin
      @Lalatin 7 лет назад +7

      He really is. Super friendly and goofy too

    • @manpy5504
      @manpy5504 5 лет назад +3

      A well educated indian with indian heart raised in west are like that

  • @anniemz6887
    @anniemz6887 7 лет назад +126

    I love when people with opposite interests get on well together. if they make it together they’ll make a perfect couple by balancing each other.

  • @misstron7101
    @misstron7101 7 лет назад +215

    I need an update on this couple!!😍😍 I feel like he is already thinking about marriage and kids haha

  • @sensate-scars9805
    @sensate-scars9805 7 лет назад +128

    Yes, finally! I've watched every single first date you've posted and even though there were a couple of interesting ones (Jackie and Cavier; Jordan and Sam), I didn't feel connected or even comfortable watching any of them; until now! I just love every part of this conversation. I love how he says he's the "dive right into" kind of person and she's the opposite, and they both express that just with the way they look at each other: Vignesh stares at her the whole time, and Reina can't even hold his stare for more than two seconds. I find it really interesting when we give away big parts of our personalities and who we are with mere gestures or body language. They make me want to be in the room just listening to them talking to each other. Loved this so, so much. Thank you for sharing! xx

    • @foureyeswonder
      @foureyeswonder 7 лет назад +2

      sensate-scars so true. I noticed that too! Really brilliant analysis.

    • @LisaMarieAdams
      @LisaMarieAdams 4 года назад

      He's anxious attachment style and she's an avoidant. Basically.

  • @AM-pr5rm
    @AM-pr5rm 7 лет назад +52

    One of the best ones I've seen in a long time. The flow and respect of the conversation is cool.

  • @RosalindPeters
    @RosalindPeters 7 лет назад +98

    OH MY GOD he is so beautiful in all the ways. Vignesh, if this doesn't work out, come to England, yeah?

    • @manpy5504
      @manpy5504 5 лет назад

      UK has lots of educated indians if you could not find you are welcome in Amsterdam with same curly hairs.

  • @priscilla9995
    @priscilla9995 7 лет назад +266

    This was nice. I hope they continued their date after! 😊

  • @appellationsobriquet6205
    @appellationsobriquet6205 7 лет назад +40

    She is STUNNING!! They both seem lovely.

  • @ilsevermeulen5155
    @ilsevermeulen5155 7 лет назад +166

    I'm attracted to both of them

    • @limabean6317
      @limabean6317 7 лет назад +5

      Ilse Vermeulen oh my gosh me too. I think I’m crushing on both of them.

    • @ellaml7980
      @ellaml7980 7 лет назад +2

      same!! 😁

    • @ser2952
      @ser2952 6 лет назад

      Me too!!

    • @duhmarr
      @duhmarr 4 года назад

      very much so

  • @kmatt7854
    @kmatt7854 7 лет назад +39

    I LOVE how these videos are filmed and how we can see both their body language and facial expressions!

  • @lauraperezmorales2035
    @lauraperezmorales2035 7 лет назад +135

    The most beautiful man from India I've ever seen... I'm in love haha

    • @pankajjoshi2032
      @pankajjoshi2032 7 лет назад +20

      There are plenty more, just keep your head up. Cheers!

    • @ahmadmahdee9495
      @ahmadmahdee9495 6 лет назад +4

      What......bro ....there are good looking men in India .......just they don't look like that

    • @vishalsorout
      @vishalsorout 6 лет назад +2

      He's not from India. He has an Indian heritage

    • @zubairkhan-wb5sy
      @zubairkhan-wb5sy 5 лет назад

      @@ahmadmahdee9495 wut? there are so many people with those features in south india idk what you on about? but yea hes a cool guy !

    • @shae.the.gymini
      @shae.the.gymini 2 года назад

      There is plenty around you just have to take the time to SEE them.

  • @thegossipswan009
    @thegossipswan009 7 лет назад +147

    Fluidity liberates us from being in a certain "box". Personally i don't like labels cause (sometimes, somehow) they're dividing us. But i respect everyones sexuality like i wanna be respected too.
    Also, i like their vibe as individuals and as friends or a couple (:

    • @thavasahwang2549
      @thavasahwang2549 7 лет назад +4

      Yeah I agree. But the funny thing is, it's usually the people who don't want to be labeled that create new labels for themselves.

    • @francisco444
      @francisco444 6 лет назад

      Liberates us? Who is "us"?
      You're speaking for some people (a minority). There is only a box if you see one. Nature has males and females. I respect everyone as well but this I'm fluid so I'm better and more free has no good arguments. Society isn't going to change because a few people want to be called "they".

    • @JaIch9999
      @JaIch9999 6 лет назад +1

      Americans use the word "respect" way too much.
      The word "respect" has a positive conotation, to see something in a positive light.
      More appropriate in most cases is the more neutral word "tolerate".

  • @roesims3429
    @roesims3429 7 лет назад +57

    One of the easiest videos to watch on Skin. Great convo.

    • @gretasjourney7450
      @gretasjourney7450 6 лет назад

      I know ryt, none of them showed the thing of interrupting, talking too much with out giving the other one time to speak, they are both gentle, l liked it!

  • @sahirygnobehi6448
    @sahirygnobehi6448 7 лет назад +34

    Trust. As a pansexual. It's not easy. But i have an amazing lady in my life whom understands me. I remember when i told her. She was like :oh okay: then smiled. I knew she was the one😊.

  • @eeva6081
    @eeva6081 7 лет назад +88

    theyre both real cute

  • @ashantimaluleke2267
    @ashantimaluleke2267 7 лет назад +30

    How are they both so beautiful??? I feel like I was watching a Colgate ad.

  • @jeannetrang12
    @jeannetrang12 6 лет назад +4

    they’re both so glow-y! and their smiles 😭❤️

  • @cdb88
    @cdb88 7 лет назад +21

    She has such beautiful skin!

  • @brianabella115
    @brianabella115 7 лет назад +19

    I completely agree. I have purchased {The And} Card Game and will be donating to Patreon each month once I get paid. However, I would also like to request that you guys PLEASE do a couple more versions of the card game. I would LOVE to purchase a version that is tailored to parents and adult/teen children and a version that is meant for friendships. I would love to see them include the same depth of questions, but just be appropriately reworded for different types of relationships. Having that variety would allow myself and some local crisis centers in Texas to really utilize the game in our teaching of healthy relationships. I don't know what goes in to getting each card game finalized and printed, but it seems like simple wording changes would suffice in adding more variety to the game. Please consider this! Thank you so much for your amazing work! Much love and blessings from Texas. I hope you are able to continue this work for many, many years to come.

    • @TheSkinDeep
      @TheSkinDeep  7 лет назад +3

      YES!!! We have new decks coming soon, as well as other merchandise options in the pipeline :) Keep your eye out!

    • @BabyGodzillaa
      @BabyGodzillaa 7 лет назад

      The Skin Deep Hello! I was wondering if the new cards will be released early 2018? Has the making of them began yet?

  • @Bcdf-ei9el
    @Bcdf-ei9el 7 лет назад +15

    He seems like a very nice guy!

  • @melodyyan3558
    @melodyyan3558 7 лет назад +3

    loved this one!! both of them give off such genuine and sweet vibes, and i can really relate to reina. they're both so beautiful!

  • @chrichico
    @chrichico 7 лет назад +50

    I want a vignesh!!! 😍😍😍😍

    • @ahmadmahdee9495
      @ahmadmahdee9495 6 лет назад

      Christina Chico whaaaaat.....jesus what's wrong with bitches

    • @zubairkhan-wb5sy
      @zubairkhan-wb5sy 5 лет назад +1

      @@ahmadmahdee9495 ??? the guy seems fine lol. idk why u trying to tear him down

    • @ahmadmahdee9495
      @ahmadmahdee9495 5 лет назад

      @@zubairkhan-wb5sy forgive me for being offensive

  • @lauraperezmorales2035
    @lauraperezmorales2035 7 лет назад +63

    I have a crush on him now!

    • @aamolramraoade4262
      @aamolramraoade4262 4 года назад

      Laura get down to india. Go on matrimonial site. U will get same kinda guys

  • @ebenezerndlhovhu792
    @ebenezerndlhovhu792 7 лет назад +11

    Dammmmn, this was a beautiful first date, their connection and chemistry Is everything and more :)

  • @ulyanasemyonkina3799
    @ulyanasemyonkina3799 7 лет назад +71

    Maybe weird to comment but she's got such cute cheeks

  • @cynthiaramos3996
    @cynthiaramos3996 7 лет назад +12

    Omg I think I love him . Beautiful person.

  • @technicolor101
    @technicolor101 7 лет назад +204

    That worry about fetishization of Asian girls is so real 😫

    • @Chicabear2001
      @Chicabear2001 7 лет назад +13

      Yeah but he's asian too..?

    • @annekays1
      @annekays1 7 лет назад +11

      Lol india is in asia, just so you know.

    • @technicolor101
      @technicolor101 7 лет назад +46

      EAST Asian like she fucking said in the fucking video god fucking damn

    • @shanesemathis3123
      @shanesemathis3123 7 лет назад +14

      넌 외로운 꽃 your response 😂😂 #commonsense

    • @VSM101
      @VSM101 7 лет назад +2

      it doesn't matter south and east Asians have been fucking each other for centuries#GetagripAmericans

  • @nina-w
    @nina-w 7 лет назад +63

    oh no they're hot

  • @Greystorm1619
    @Greystorm1619 4 года назад +2

    I love to see women who switch between masculine and feminine presenting!

  • @ej445
    @ej445 7 лет назад +19

    He is divine 😍

  • @edcook1861
    @edcook1861 7 лет назад +6

    We know Vig, personally,,, He is as nice in person as he is on this video... And Mrs. Cook has always said he was a cutie pie..

  • @Nadeshda44
    @Nadeshda44 7 лет назад +8

    They seem like really nice people

  • @Kathleen5429
    @Kathleen5429 7 лет назад +70

    So was there a second date?

  • @iRockU96
    @iRockU96 7 лет назад +3

    Absolutely loved this, even if they don't date they could be great friends. I love both of their personalities and energies.

  • @talooshh
    @talooshh 6 лет назад

    i can relate to her on so many levels when she was talking about her gender, sexuality, and even being vulnerable in relationships/not knowing how to define them/not wanting to. it felt very affirming. awesome episode, beautiful couple

  • @user-rc1my2xc3s
    @user-rc1my2xc3s 5 лет назад +1

    I like how intently he listens ❤️

  • @clasesdehebreo
    @clasesdehebreo 7 лет назад +8

    Omg his eyes!!! ♡

  • @melionaire
    @melionaire 7 лет назад +47

    They are definitely opposites.

  • @emjoo14
    @emjoo14 7 лет назад +7

    These two are gorgeous; inside and out!

  • @ZevaMc
    @ZevaMc 6 лет назад +1

    "You're just super vulnerable and that's scary" me too girl! Me too!

  • @kalahking1221
    @kalahking1221 7 лет назад +58

    He can have my babies

  • @nompilo8281
    @nompilo8281 7 лет назад +13

    This was the best!

  • @XX-lm9kx
    @XX-lm9kx 7 лет назад +6

    They would be a great couple personality-wise. She needs a guy who is as open and warm as he is. Only she needs to learn to be open about her needs because a man like him would never stick around if she would be playing cool.

  • @jelmervanos2592
    @jelmervanos2592 7 лет назад +10

    I am like exactly like this man i want to know from day 1 where we stand in a relation

  • @shenali5991
    @shenali5991 7 лет назад +1

    Thought: it's so wonderful to see yourself represented as attractive. Thank you💕

  • @stripedsweater520
    @stripedsweater520 7 лет назад +5

    I love his hair and teeth .. omg

  • @arshbehal6312
    @arshbehal6312 4 года назад

    They're both such likable people. So attractive!

  • @herreguda6199
    @herreguda6199 7 лет назад +1

    They've great chemistry and they give great answers! Also, they're both so attractive. Lovely :)

  • @simplypeaceandlove
    @simplypeaceandlove 6 лет назад +2

    I need a Vignesh in my lifeeeeee!

  • @yeeetyeeet1095
    @yeeetyeeet1095 6 лет назад +4

    wow he's sooo adorable!!!

  • @nonamelastname8878
    @nonamelastname8878 7 лет назад +1

    They are both so cute and seem to be so genuine.

  • @SaraAli-qz9ii
    @SaraAli-qz9ii 5 лет назад +1

    Both of them are nice. The guy is handsome and the lady is kind heart.

  • @puntakinte2049
    @puntakinte2049 7 лет назад +4

    They are so cute, specially her. Anyway they seem to be interesting people.

  • @Pty1980
    @Pty1980 7 лет назад +7

    He's adorable 😊

  • @breezegilbert7080
    @breezegilbert7080 6 лет назад +2

    This was super easy to watch

  • @juanrulfo7564
    @juanrulfo7564 7 лет назад +4

    oh my god i ship them so hard

  • @Lukas-kh5gu
    @Lukas-kh5gu 7 лет назад +3

    O.M.G. If I am not mistaken she is wearing the Tissot T-Complication Squelette Tour de Chemin (?) ?? one of my favorite real, affordable mechanical watches.

  • @jackiedanz
    @jackiedanz 6 лет назад +1

    Gosh he is so cute and it’s cute the way he looks at her

  • @adamsaddique7719
    @adamsaddique7719 7 лет назад +11

    They're a solid match

  • @MaximumVolume1000
    @MaximumVolume1000 7 лет назад +3

    People are so adorable

  • @saylorwerthington7971
    @saylorwerthington7971 5 лет назад +2

    He is super attractive!! 😍

  • @maha9890
    @maha9890 7 лет назад +3

    This video went so fast because of how much I enjoyed it. Everything seemed to flow so natural but it doesn't seem they would be compatible long term as they are after different things. I don't think he would feel fulfilled as she moves a lot slower and freely it seems than him. Wish them the best however....

  • @mzapril012
    @mzapril012 7 лет назад +5

    I think I love him.

  • @samanthacastillo9033
    @samanthacastillo9033 7 лет назад +6

    They're both attractive in their own ways 🤔 i felt some chemistry 🙂

  • @aliciasierra8001
    @aliciasierra8001 6 лет назад +4

    Wow he's beautiful! 😍

  • @Ilikefrogs..
    @Ilikefrogs.. 6 лет назад

    Oh my god, this girl is me when it comes to relationships

  • @OnaSalvatFebrero
    @OnaSalvatFebrero 7 лет назад +1

    they're both adorable

  • @EqlOpper2Nity
    @EqlOpper2Nity 6 лет назад +7

    He was fine AF!

  • @nomxolisimasango4402
    @nomxolisimasango4402 7 лет назад +2

    I love how he says 'appropriating' like its a dirty word 😂

  • @adrianagordon5304
    @adrianagordon5304 7 лет назад +2

    They're both so damn cute!

  • @lala55419
    @lala55419 5 лет назад +1

    He’s adorable.

  • @lisamariejo.7011
    @lisamariejo.7011 6 лет назад +3

    HIS EYES THOUGH

  • @joleenkiser9414
    @joleenkiser9414 7 лет назад +1

    They are beautiful people. Just get me into this as a triad 😍😍

  • @aikoota1373
    @aikoota1373 7 лет назад +1

    I think they got the good chemistry going on and would make a cute couple

  • @jminay
    @jminay 7 лет назад +5

    He’s nice

  • @Jana_7
    @Jana_7 7 лет назад +1

    I don't know if they would work out long term. She is scared of commitment and he wants to commit fast. Will his intensity scare her off? I like them together. I hope she won't run from him and let him love her.

  • @kyahpapaya
    @kyahpapaya 7 лет назад +14

    This was so awkward but so cute

  • @ishiyadav4812
    @ishiyadav4812 5 лет назад +1

    This guy!!! Can i have him!!😍😍

  • @farrahhunt2544
    @farrahhunt2544 4 года назад

    jeez!! his smile, those teeth!! he speaking my love language. i'd totally date him.

  • @Coooool75
    @Coooool75 7 лет назад +3

    Lol I think the same thing about commitment damn. She's just like me.

  • @jbieberloverx20
    @jbieberloverx20 7 лет назад

    her smile is beautiful

  • @tico5999
    @tico5999 3 года назад

    I'm not gay, but this guy is really making me question everything

  • @ETFbvbAA
    @ETFbvbAA 5 лет назад +1

    omfg I thought he was Sav from degrassi for a second 😮

  • @Jin_Raiden
    @Jin_Raiden 6 лет назад +1

    They're both so cute

  • @cherry-li7ek
    @cherry-li7ek 7 лет назад +1

    They're so beautiful

  • @Locdluuv
    @Locdluuv 3 года назад

    ‘Make sure not to give them any bank information’ 😂😂

  • @ellaml7980
    @ellaml7980 7 лет назад +1

    THEY ARE SO CUTE ♥

  • @DV2024-b9r
    @DV2024-b9r 4 года назад

    I love him! cute and such a nice energy :)

  • @_yumi_4770
    @_yumi_4770 7 лет назад

    this girl is sooooooo adorable

  • @Cec2500
    @Cec2500 7 лет назад +1

    Both of them seem really neat, I would love to talk to both of them! xx

  • @stanleypatrick6498
    @stanleypatrick6498 6 лет назад +1

    She's adorable.